How to convince parents for inter caste inter religion love marriage | smile with prachi

How to convince parents for inter caste inter religion love marriage
New channel for the old smile with prachi series. Will be uploading the original videos first and then pick up from there :-)
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Disclaimer: This is not professional advice, please take this series lightly. Treat my opinions as something coming from your friend. For those suffering from depression and mental health issues I would seriously recommend going to a professional.

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  • @sanyadubey1584
    @sanyadubey15843 жыл бұрын

    I hope next generation kids will not get this intercaste marriage problem 👍

  • @basha9237

    @basha9237

    3 жыл бұрын

    Y next generation our generation also supports kuch log h 2 kode ki soch vale unhe koi ni smjhaa skta

  • @missrawat9380

    @missrawat9380

    3 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely rytt

  • @sanyadubey1584

    @sanyadubey1584

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@missrawat9380 yeah.. parents hm rahenge that's why 😂

  • @sanyadubey1584

    @sanyadubey1584

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@basha9237 yeahh..u r right but bhut km h jo smjhte h😓😓

  • @karishmamakhija5850

    @karishmamakhija5850

    3 жыл бұрын

    This is the problem which never disappear because of the 4 fucking ppls, our parents thought of everytime

  • @onlyhuman5669
    @onlyhuman56693 жыл бұрын

    Honestly, I love the anger and passion in you to speak out against meaningless conservative ideas. It gives me strength. We need people like you in our society♥️

  • @ur.imrankhan
    @ur.imrankhan4 жыл бұрын

    Best Part 08:38 Be Financial Independent Stand your Ground Don't bend for Emotional Blackmail Fight for the Person you Love

  • @iamdeepakbhandari

    @iamdeepakbhandari

    4 жыл бұрын

    I did everything 😢😢

  • @ur.imrankhan

    @ur.imrankhan

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@iamdeepakbhandari In that case you need some professional advice. Check out more videos Hope you find Answers

  • @ur.imrankhan

    @ur.imrankhan

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Achagoni Dinesh Goud I'm writing down few examples which I believe can be Useful for you * Few years back I used to have a Girlfriend who happen to be a Hindu. After being together for a very long time she was left with three conditions by her Parents 1) Leave the Boy and Marry the Person of our Choice 2) Choose the Boy and be the reason for their Suicide 3) Convert him and then Marry. * I still remember the Day, On March 6th 2016 she said " I talked to my Parents about us and they placed three conditions infront of me(Conditions that I stated Before), I can't be with a Man other than you, I can't choose you over my Parents and I can't ask you to Convert as it was not the right thing to do in Love. Hope you will Remember me and Cherish our memories". I was shocked hearing those word from her as I was unaware of that Conversation. Then I tried to Hug and asked her to look into my eyes in order to cool her down. She pushed me away and said "Your warmth even for a second can make me to choose you over anything and that's the reason I'm not even looking straight into your Eyes. I miss You ever Second of my Life till my Breath Lasts" and left from there. * Those are the last words she ever spoke to me and that the last time I ever seen Her. * I brushed this story to make my point that we are not always meant to be together, even a single day with them worth a life time. * We can't control everything but we need to fight what we believe and the rest leave on God. * Love is important as so as Parents we can't be Happy breaking their Hearts. * The decision she made on that day made me to Love her more and I Cherished her in each and every memory of her. * For Love just two people are enough but for marriage two families need to come forward keeping aside there customs and beliefs. That is some serious issue we are taking about which can happens in High Profile Societies like it doesn't matters. But for people like us every family becomes orthodox when they deal with Marriage. * All I can say is it depends on the couple and how much fight they put to be together. * And I cannot support running away and getting married as I have seen few of my friends doing that which doesn't End well. * Hope you find your answer if not write once to Prachi Di. ✌🏼

  • @umaprabakar8533

    @umaprabakar8533

    4 жыл бұрын

    Like you...i am loving one muslim since 5 years..and iam hindu girl..we love so much..but our parents will not allow me to marry an muslim..we fight daily related this topic..and i get angry every single day related this to my bf...i dont know what to do??

  • @ur.imrankhan

    @ur.imrankhan

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@umaprabakar8533 used to have a thought which needed to be executed if anything goes side ways but never got a chance just go with the reply " I Love Him and I can't be with anyone other than him. It will be better if I stay Single for my entire Life instead of marrying someone other than him." It will take Years but eventually worked for most People. Note, your partner should be equally cooperative and supportive. Hope this Helps ✌🏼 {Disclaimer: This is not a professional Advice}

  • @sanjna6033
    @sanjna60334 жыл бұрын

    65 k views that means ....65 k love stories are in trouble

  • @naveenvp1362

    @naveenvp1362

    4 жыл бұрын

    😆😆😆

  • @shivanirai2433

    @shivanirai2433

    4 жыл бұрын

    Savage comment😅

  • @swetasonar8986

    @swetasonar8986

    4 жыл бұрын

    True.. I'm a Christian girl who's deeply in love with a Muslim guy... Idk what's gonna happen to us

  • @Icerosegaming

    @Icerosegaming

    4 жыл бұрын

    Not really. Im just curious lol

  • @sanjna6033

    @sanjna6033

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Icerosegaming everything is happen for a reason dude ! Gbu

  • @sabirahsinghbhadouria3769
    @sabirahsinghbhadouria37694 жыл бұрын

    I've convinced my parents to marry hindu firstly they got angry later everything was agreed ❤🥰

  • @SmileWithPrachi

    @SmileWithPrachi

    4 жыл бұрын

    Congrats :)

  • @geetanjalianand699

    @geetanjalianand699

    4 жыл бұрын

    Good to know

  • @sabirahsinghbhadouria3769

    @sabirahsinghbhadouria3769

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@floridasingh6101 well everything goes with moral values of ur fiancee is he stable to take care of you,better responsible then everything goes satisfaction to ur parents mind that's it dear.

  • @sabirahsinghbhadouria3769

    @sabirahsinghbhadouria3769

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@SmileWithPrachi thanks

  • @rakshitagothwal6003

    @rakshitagothwal6003

    4 жыл бұрын

    Wow dude

  • @rashmishaheershajahan5859
    @rashmishaheershajahan58593 жыл бұрын

    When I told my parents that I want marry a Muslim guy, they checked his background and everything then agreed to marry him . I'm blessed with an open minded and beautiful family ❤️❤️❤️

  • @rheakaurkhokher8320

    @rheakaurkhokher8320

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ohh great🥰

  • @pankajpandey2408

    @pankajpandey2408

    3 жыл бұрын

    2 years wait kro.. Love jehaaad hoga tumhari ghapa ghap kar wo burkhe me daal dega

  • @pankajpandey2408

    @pankajpandey2408

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@rheakaurkhokher8320 great nhi love jehaad hoga

  • @rheakaurkhokher8320

    @rheakaurkhokher8320

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@pankajpandey2408Bro all Muslims are not wrong...and if someone's parents doesn't have problem whether their daughter gets married to Muslim or any other caste..We are no one to judge

  • @kirtikandari7573

    @kirtikandari7573

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lucky uh

  • @jerlinthangam1040
    @jerlinthangam10404 жыл бұрын

    some parents are even ready to kill their own children 😞 what to do in those cases

  • @heythere3163

    @heythere3163

    4 жыл бұрын

    it's unbelievable that there are such parents, if they gives more priority to their pride than their childrens' life then there is no option other than running far away from them so that they can find them never and ever

  • @rajeshpapani

    @rajeshpapani

    4 жыл бұрын

    killing someone is crime bt du u support ur 18yrs daughter wants marry to unsettled guy ? evn law doesn't care about parents point,last week a girl killed her mother in hyd

  • @heythere3163

    @heythere3163

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@rajeshpapani Yes rajesh, it is very unfortunate that such thing has happened every single person in the society blames her for what she did and even she will not get a peace of mind for doing the same.But if parents kill children there are some people who supports the same. And my suggestion is not for the couple who did not get settled financially.

  • @debottamdas9937

    @debottamdas9937

    4 жыл бұрын

    They should run in another country.

  • @pixelplayground97

    @pixelplayground97

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@rajeshpapani Parents should check only the background, character and job of the boy, not caste or religion.. If the boy is not settled and dont have a primary income, give him time...

  • @tokodongpokodong3946
    @tokodongpokodong39464 жыл бұрын

    I wish you were my mother so that i could share everything😭

  • @eng360

    @eng360

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same 😥😥

  • @arbhai9839

    @arbhai9839

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sry to say but , if u compare ur mother with someone else than ur idiot . If something wrong happens then this video aunt will not come , there is ur own mother to stand first....

  • @tokodongpokodong3946

    @tokodongpokodong3946

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@arbhai9839 thankyou for ur criticism

  • @kev0007

    @kev0007

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@arbhai9839 hi brainless

  • @ayeshaqureshi3390

    @ayeshaqureshi3390

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Guru Ji ... I got my love back because of you.....🙏🙏 friends......If you also need any help, you can also call Guru Ji ☎️ +91-8290447022 whatsapp

  • @inderpreetkaur8082
    @inderpreetkaur80824 жыл бұрын

    Her children are goin to be so lucky

  • @pritambiswas1290

    @pritambiswas1290

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ikr

  • @akshithaboggari5992

    @akshithaboggari5992

    3 жыл бұрын

    Rlly vvvvv much

  • @ayeshaqureshi3390

    @ayeshaqureshi3390

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Guru Ji ... I got my love back because of you.....🙏🙏 friends......If you also need any help, you can also call Guru Ji ☎️ +91-8290447022 whatsapp.

  • @roystanpiedade

    @roystanpiedade

    3 жыл бұрын

    Well, Also Mostly Every Kid Of The Next Generation 💯

  • @nishiarora1639

    @nishiarora1639

    3 жыл бұрын

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  • @robomail4028
    @robomail40283 жыл бұрын

    I wish I had a sister like you.. Here my sister is the game changer, she is objecting my marriage proposal..

  • @ayeshaqureshi3390

    @ayeshaqureshi3390

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Guru Ji ... I got my love back because of you.....🙏🙏 friends.....If you also need any help, you can also call Guru Ji ☎️ +91-8290447022 whatsapp

  • @aarthivasan8561

    @aarthivasan8561

    2 жыл бұрын

    Any luck on your side?

  • @maniyamihir4177

    @maniyamihir4177

    2 ай бұрын

    your sister is nagin, purane karmo ka badla le rahi he

  • @harshalibagul3030
    @harshalibagul30304 жыл бұрын

    Finally my parents are agreed for intercast marriage after long time of struggle....

  • @mansisingh2527

    @mansisingh2527

    4 жыл бұрын

    Kese manaya plss tell pls pls

  • @harshalibagul3030

    @harshalibagul3030

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@mansisingh2527Kisi aur se shadi krne ke liye mana kiya had time....unko time Diya aur samzaya..Sabse jaruri chiz....sab kuch thik ho jata he...bs apko koshish karni chahiye and patience rkhne chahiye...try to convince them...and work hard for it

  • @harshalibagul3030

    @harshalibagul3030

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@heythere3163Don't loose hopes..try more to convince or tell ur any other relative to help u for convincing them.

  • @zedrexgaming9314

    @zedrexgaming9314

    4 жыл бұрын

    congrants dude....i hope my parents accepted this thing :(

  • @satpreetkaur668

    @satpreetkaur668

    4 жыл бұрын

    lucky you

  • @thesilversapphire
    @thesilversapphire4 жыл бұрын

    It would have been great if you (in this video) or subsequent parts, covered, "How to deal with inter-caste/inter-religion conversations?". There are a few challenges over and above a vanilla love-marriage that you talk about in this monologue. Never the less, very strong and valid points, appreciate your honest work here.

  • @ayoushsrivastava6569
    @ayoushsrivastava65694 жыл бұрын

    You have beautifully described the current complications in getting married that couples faced today and also figured out solutions for them.......Thank you so much Ma'am...Great you are 👌

  • @ayeshaqureshi3390

    @ayeshaqureshi3390

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Guru Ji ... I got my love back because of you......🙏🙏 friends......If you also need any help, you can also call Guru Ji ☎️ +91-8290447022 whatsapp

  • @jenniferlam7482
    @jenniferlam74822 жыл бұрын

    I really like how you explain things here from the parents' perspective. Eye opening!

  • @TrickyLoveProduction
    @TrickyLoveProduction4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks ! A beautiful video indeed. I am now married for 2 years to my long-time boyfriend of 10 years. I have faced all the situations mentioned in this video and I faced them exactly as Prachi thought of :) Really happy to have made such a decision. Enjoy almost every day of my life now. Be Independent first girls and then try and convince your parents. Also, don't budge from your decision and keep true to the person you really love. Parents will eventually come around !!

  • @mohammedreyaz1244

    @mohammedreyaz1244

    4 жыл бұрын

    TrickyLoveProduction ur parents also agreed ah??

  • @vandanasankla3789

    @vandanasankla3789

    4 жыл бұрын

    i am happy for you😊 stay blessed❤️

  • @blueeyes8386

    @blueeyes8386

    4 жыл бұрын

    plzzz rply and tell me that does the love remain same after so much time.❤️plz rply asap

  • @swetakesharwani4680

    @swetakesharwani4680

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you i was going to listen my parents voice instead of choosing my love .

  • @geethurajan164

    @geethurajan164

    3 жыл бұрын

    How many days u taken to convince your parents

  • @SuperWowstyle
    @SuperWowstyle4 жыл бұрын

    New videos starting tomorrow. 11 am

  • @sanskritiroy6835

    @sanskritiroy6835

    4 жыл бұрын

    That made my day❤

  • @bellatrix9256

    @bellatrix9256

    4 жыл бұрын

    yay ! ❤

  • @shrutisinha8721
    @shrutisinha87213 жыл бұрын

    Thankyou so much its really helpful to me at this point as i am also going though the same situation.I want everything to be solved respectfully, because at the end of the day they are our parents they always want us to stay happy. Love always finds its way if you have the right guidance and patience.Just believe on each other and work for it what it requires. As we all are here to be loved and to give love to each other.

  • @DivineDelicacies_Vaishnavi
    @DivineDelicacies_Vaishnavi4 жыл бұрын

    Just before i listened to ur video i followed few of the same points which u mentioned here that's the reason I'm adding this comment here.Thankf for your wonderful n helpful video!!!!!!! I told my mother about my Love,we both are financially independent and secured with good income also our families have known each other for more than 30 years. Here comes the problem with caste.... both of my parents stopped talking to me even without listening to me completely and about us. My mom tried emotional blackmailing but I stood by myside saying until u agree for our marriage i will stay single till may be I'm 40. My elder sister have also had love marriage that's the main reason they are focring me to marry someone from our own community to stop relatives gossiping about our family. I don't bother much about relatives n society's opinions becoz they change with our status. Me and my boyfriend want to pursue higher studies and live a well settled n happiest life to make both of our parents very happy and make them feel that they are very fortunate to have us as their children. My boyfriend's parents agreed n indeed they are way too happier to welcome me into to their family having known abour me n my family without even bothering about castes. They just love me because of my simplicity n nature. I'm not sure how long will it take my parents to convince for us...... Would try to follow all your steps to convince my parents amd try for better explanation.

  • @civilizedmonster

    @civilizedmonster

    3 жыл бұрын

    Make yourself strong mentally and emotionally. There will come a time when you will realize that your parents are only doing this because of their own fears and that is nothing to do with you. That it is their responsibility to deal with their fears, not yours. Refuse to marry someone else when the time comes. You will have to patient as it may take time. You will also have to recognize emotional blackmail and avoid it from disturbing you. For that you have to focus on your career as well as strengthening your relationship right now. Only when these factors are in place will you be at least eligible to marry, let alone convince your parents. You can also use lines like these. "I thought you always wanted to see me happy. Are you sure that i will be happy with the one you choose for me?" " My partner is the only person in my life that i have the chance to choose. Please let me make that choice with your love and blessings" " I will always support you and will not leave at any cost since you are important to me, but my significant other is important to me too. Don't force me to make a choice between the people i love." "I am not asking for your approval on my partner, only your support to let me be with her." "Will that society come to save me if i am unhappy in my marriage?" "Since you won't agree for divorce if i am unhappy, why don't you let me marry the one i love in the first place? " There are many more lines which you can make up but it all boils down to the fact that making a choice of partner is your right. Don't give it away at any cost, not even for the people you love the most in this world. If they truly love you, they will support you, no matter what.

  • @kavya873

    @kavya873

    2 жыл бұрын

    have they been convinced by now?

  • @juhimelkani7450

    @juhimelkani7450

    2 ай бұрын

    Hi what's the update

  • @ramsrikaram
    @ramsrikaram2 жыл бұрын

    Hi prachi sister i really love the way u express the things, i think it helps a lot of people who are going through difficult phases keep going we always support u and love u and thank u for everything ,take care byebye 🤗🤗

  • @khushiarvind3888
    @khushiarvind38883 жыл бұрын

    Love you Di Phele vdo dekhi n channel subscribe kr diya andar se bhut strong feeling aai ki aapki baatei kahi na kahi help kar skti h Upar wala aapko Khush rakhe ❤️

  • @indirarajan653
    @indirarajan6534 жыл бұрын

    I am that 25 years girl which u told in video .. still my family does not agree in love marriage. . recently I lost my father just 2 months back and every one is forcing me to get married in a typical arranged marriage procedure. No one cares about what I want... only reputation matters 😢 Hoping ur reply on this prachi

  • @user-vb6zf1om5t

    @user-vb6zf1om5t

    3 жыл бұрын

    Why do u care lol Only your mothers opinion counts

  • @rheakaurkhokher8320

    @rheakaurkhokher8320

    3 жыл бұрын

    Society should understand the difference between arranged marriage and forced marriage......Hope you choose wisely.

  • @coolguy-zm7tn

    @coolguy-zm7tn

    Жыл бұрын

    @@rheakaurkhokher8320 exactly, u can choose the best suitor in the arranged marriage custom as well, be discerning and circumspect, that's it, don't be flrced to choose one

  • @maniyamihir4177

    @maniyamihir4177

    2 ай бұрын

    Reading your comment after 3 years. what's your situation rn? did you get arranged or you stood up for yourself?

  • @sheebasolomon
    @sheebasolomon4 жыл бұрын

    I'm not kidding this works! So, one of my family friends, they're three siblings. And the younger one is a girl who was in love with a guy from a lower caste. And she's been convincing her parents from the past three years, but they weren't showing any interest. She left home with the guy yesterday and now! For a wonder her parents are asking them to come back and they'll get them married in a legal way. This ancestral way of choosing your partner on the terms of caste and religion should be slowly taken off. Another three four generations to come, the world should be a better place to live in. Cheers to whoever is seeing the video, during the lockdown 🍻

  • @sudarshan3965

    @sudarshan3965

    4 жыл бұрын

    I think in next generation it will be normal. I think most of the people of our age themselves do not care about these things and will teach same to their kids.

  • @sheebasolomon

    @sheebasolomon

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Achagoni Dinesh Goud very true.. I know a brahmin girl who fell in the trap. This issue has to taken care of.

  • @dynamicgamersv2085

    @dynamicgamersv2085

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@sheebasolomon Many times they change names 😐😑😬

  • @anujdimple

    @anujdimple

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@sheebasolomon shadi ho gyi kya unki ab...? Jo ghr se bhag gyi thi....Ya honour killing ho gyi

  • @rohithrohith4175
    @rohithrohith41754 жыл бұрын

    actually, I am 19 years old all your points were valid and it's true. true love never dies

  • @ayeshaqureshi3390

    @ayeshaqureshi3390

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Guru Ji ... I got my love back because of you......🙏🙏 friends......If you also need any help, you can also call Guru Ji ☎️ +91-8290447022 whatsapp

  • @anshusingh3147

    @anshusingh3147

    3 жыл бұрын

    After 25 u will say true love never exist😁😁..This happens as u grow more n matured even more.. you understand love is not only enough to sustain a good relationship..It only contributes 1% of relationship. Important thing is behaviour , respect, compatibility, mental understanding of person with u and etc..This all will matter more other than love to have cordial relationship

  • @aviff9376

    @aviff9376

    2 жыл бұрын

    Padhai kar bro 🙃

  • @siddharthsinghyadav3582
    @siddharthsinghyadav35823 жыл бұрын

    There is huge difference between love and attraction

  • @himanichauhan1639
    @himanichauhan16394 жыл бұрын

    You won my heart. Very rationally explained.

  • @ayeshaqureshi3390

    @ayeshaqureshi3390

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Guru Ji ... I got my love back because of you...🙏🙏 friends......If you also need any help, you can also call Guru Ji ☎️ +91-8290447022 whatsapp

  • @prithikavelusamy7511
    @prithikavelusamy75114 жыл бұрын

    Osm motivation sister love u... The first video i see that the content like this.... My mind is full of questions of this topic..now iam clear tqqqq lott😍😍😍

  • @khushbupurbey9919
    @khushbupurbey99194 жыл бұрын

    Our Supreme court have said.... if we want to remove castism and all there should be inter caste marriage

  • @ayeshaqureshi3390

    @ayeshaqureshi3390

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Guru Ji ... I got my love back because of you.....🙏🙏 friends......If you also need any help, you can also call Guru Ji ☎️ +91-8290447022 whatsapp...

  • @kshemendragourav3746

    @kshemendragourav3746

    2 жыл бұрын

    Br Ambedkar had said that

  • @scorpiongaming6225

    @scorpiongaming6225

    2 жыл бұрын

    I feel like doing suicide 😭😭😭😭😭

  • @coolguy-zm7tn

    @coolguy-zm7tn

    Жыл бұрын

    @@kshemendragourav3746 I'm a brahmin and even I hate caste system, all my family members are of the same opinion, but I will never compromise on religion, I'm proud of my religion, I'm a proud sanatani

  • @kshemendragourav3746

    @kshemendragourav3746

    Жыл бұрын

    @@coolguy-zm7tn sanatani dharm says vasudhev kutumbakam, hinduism is way different than other religious where you are free to chose your way of life, your way of worshipping God.

  • @mannok9867
    @mannok98674 жыл бұрын

    I am 25 and he is 34 ...his mom just rejected me and we are In love for past 4 years...and here I am watching this

  • @vaibhaviyt1229

    @vaibhaviyt1229

    4 жыл бұрын

    😭

  • @mannok9867

    @mannok9867

    4 жыл бұрын

    😭

  • @ayeshaqureshi3390

    @ayeshaqureshi3390

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Guru Ji ... I got my love back because of you.....🙏🙏 friends......If you also need any help, you can also call Guru Ji ☎️ +91-8290447022 whatsapp.

  • @riyachatterjee4569
    @riyachatterjee45694 жыл бұрын

    The most common problem occurs in same age relationship that both the partners remain financially weak. But in our country the girl's parents are not ready to wait for the boy to get a job. They think their daughter's life is destroying because they think that they will not find suitable groom later. What to do in this situation??

  • @akash-bq8jt

    @akash-bq8jt

    9 ай бұрын

    💯 correct 😢

  • @mandeepghimire7996
    @mandeepghimire79964 жыл бұрын

    I'm having similar cases, I will come and tell when it progress and positive, Thanks for sharing this , I will fight for it and make it.

  • @juhimelkani7450

    @juhimelkani7450

    2 ай бұрын

    What happened? Please update

  • @tubeaudio2000
    @tubeaudio2000 Жыл бұрын

    Love u Di❤. This helps me a lot for taking my decisions.

  • @bellatrix9256
    @bellatrix92564 жыл бұрын

    hey Prachi you forgot to add the link of the Hindi version of this video :)

  • @hyderabadimedia2424
    @hyderabadimedia24243 жыл бұрын

    I hope atleast some parents change by seeing this video 🙏🏿 very well explained Prachi🙏🏿

  • @aayushib.9626
    @aayushib.96263 жыл бұрын

    gonna send this to mom when i will want to get married.. Thanks a lot ma'am

  • @Exploring.01
    @Exploring.014 жыл бұрын

    How you have explained the things it is just awsome. Hats off di.

  • @malinauvanova2195
    @malinauvanova2195 Жыл бұрын

    Very informative and well presented . Much appreciated !

  • @amandeepkhai
    @amandeepkhai4 жыл бұрын

    The main issue is of the EGO.

  • @khushbupurbey9919

    @khushbupurbey9919

    4 жыл бұрын

    no the main issue is this shitty society "society m kha muhh dekhaiynge 4 loog kya bolnge" never got who they 4 people's are🤣

  • @khushbupurbey9919

    @khushbupurbey9919

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Ex- Muslim Sanatani dude i m not interested in changing society because i knw kch nhi ho skta n jaha tak baat rha badalne ka it starts within you only phle khud badlo fir desh baega

  • @notfamous649

    @notfamous649

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@khushbupurbey9919 Exactly!!!

  • @coolguy-zm7tn

    @coolguy-zm7tn

    Жыл бұрын

    @@khushbupurbey9919 I have said this already but reiterating, I hate caste system but love my religion, no compromise on that, I don't want hindu women to bear kids for a muslim family, who or someone in his next generation could become a terrorist and kill our people totally forgetting about his heritage

  • @coolguy-zm7tn

    @coolguy-zm7tn

    Жыл бұрын

    @@khushbupurbey9919 the son of raja ganesh founded khilji dynasty he killed, tortured, raped, a lot of hindus and converted many of them to islam

  • @hrishidreamer
    @hrishidreamer3 жыл бұрын

    Congrats to all the lucky people. All the best to those who still fighting. Wish this religion and caste thing were never here.

  • @sathyamurugan4434
    @sathyamurugan44343 жыл бұрын

    This was very motivating... Thank u sister...🥺♥️

  • @ravalivadlapudi
    @ravalivadlapudi3 жыл бұрын

    Well Said Prachi.. That facebook idea is simply superb.. I love it :)

  • @Mrs.SharonPintoMendes
    @Mrs.SharonPintoMendes4 жыл бұрын

    Ur sooo true.All your points are truly valid

  • @spoorthivaidya8843
    @spoorthivaidya88434 жыл бұрын

    What if parents threatens to kill themselves if their children not agreeing to marry the person of their choice?@ prachi

  • @spoorthivaidya8843

    @spoorthivaidya8843

    4 жыл бұрын

    Please suggest

  • @biswajitbehera7110

    @biswajitbehera7110

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@spoorthivaidya8843 that's a criminal offence so be brave and don't show mercy on that person who threatened ur life

  • @pragatipal1019

    @pragatipal1019

    4 жыл бұрын

    It happened in my family..my sister has been forced to get married a guy of their choice , they didn't accepted her bf bcz of his caste only. My sister n her bf they both were financially settled n independent, still my parents didn't agreed. They threatened my sister that they will die if she will do anything like this. N now has to marry the guy of their choice😒 everybody's happy except my dii.

  • @piyali444

    @piyali444

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@pragatipal1019 your di should not listen to your parents at any circumstances in the first place.. you dont have to care for those who dont accept the fact that their children are individual human being...not their personal property...she should run away... anyways you dont fall into that same trap..all the best

  • @pragatipal1019

    @pragatipal1019

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@piyali444 thanks for your reply

  • @thejasnarayan
    @thejasnarayan Жыл бұрын

    We, get into a relationship only after thinking about the future problems that will likely arise. And how both parents of the person will react to it, once they know about it. But we are getting into a relationship, promising each other that we will do everything we can to make the parents understand and accept us wholeheartedly. But once the situation really hits it, the love would thrive only when the efforts are double-sided. That is what I'm going through rn. All it took was just a 2-hour emotional talk with her dad, to make her throw me away from my life abruptly, even though I loved her with all I had. Promises are trusts are never true.

  • @ambreenwadera3807
    @ambreenwadera38072 жыл бұрын

    I would have loved to share with video with my parents.... But i wish the title was slightly different, like " why nothing is wrong with inter religion marriages" or " how inter religion marriages can make the world a better place. Can't share it with this particular title.🙈 But this is obviously your video,and probably you won't even read this, but wanted to tell you,.. You have some very genuine points... Thank you for sharing them.

  • @dickovamonika3345
    @dickovamonika33454 жыл бұрын

    Hi Prachi :) What would you say about an interracial relationship ? Sometimes it is really frustrating to lie all the time... We are together for almost 3 years, his parents know about my existence for approx 6 months now, but they can not know about the fact that we are living together. I talked to his dad and mom once, over these 3 years and its a bit worrying that I still do not have any relation/connection with his family, although he spent his 3rd Christmas with my family and knows everyone. I wonder how I can get married to someone if I have no connection with his family and no chance of getting to know them.

  • @coolguy-zm7tn

    @coolguy-zm7tn

    Жыл бұрын

    U can if he likes u and is serious about u, some don't like parents interference in love ,relationships etc. Especially if they r toxic like in my case

  • @maniyamihir4177

    @maniyamihir4177

    2 ай бұрын

    hey, reading your comment after 4 years. i'm just wondering what's your situation rn?

  • @shock-t3768
    @shock-t37683 жыл бұрын

    I eloped with my wife and even after that our parents were into caste bullshit and didn't give a simple marriage reception. We tried to convince them for 4 years after our court marriage but eventually gave up hope. Now, they just want to behave as if everything is normal without even saying sorry for harassing us for 4 years. They are still abusive though. To make things worst, they have said all sorts of lies to their society and relatives. My parents blame my wife parents and her parents blame my parents for not agreeing to a marriage reception. We have now cut all relationships with any and everybody from our relatives to parents. Now, life is simple and happy. We have come to realize that our parents are limited but most of all narcissists and extremely toxic. "When the roots of a tree starts to rot, you need to cut the tree and re-plant it in a different location." Same is the thing with human beings.

  • @SmileWithPrachi

    @SmileWithPrachi

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sorry to know you had to go through so much. This whole caste issue is really just so pointless! Good that you stood up for yourselves though, marrying the one you love is very important.

  • @coolguy-zm7tn

    @coolguy-zm7tn

    Жыл бұрын

    @@SmileWithPrachi I love my religion, but hate caste system 😭😭😭

  • @D1ZAZTR
    @D1ZAZTR3 жыл бұрын

    All this is good. Im pretty sure countless couples used this video to try convincing their parents. In the end it doesn't matter uk. When orthodox parents shut their minds off, there is no chance for reasoning, practicality.

  • @aartiyedatkar4382
    @aartiyedatkar43824 жыл бұрын

    Really dii thanks alot..😘😘😘😘bhot jyada tension tha aapne ye km kr diya thank u so so soo muchh gbu🤗🤗

  • @pravartikaraj264
    @pravartikaraj2644 жыл бұрын

    Omg! I am.a teen and idk how but this same question at 6:40, was popping in my mind since yesterday and i was kind of thinking the same thing and luckily here today i found this video for the first time ...and she is sharing the exact same question...with the best solution...Thank you so much like I think this is a fate thing that i came across this video💯🙏🙏 ..She is so understanding and good speaker👏👏♥️♥️

  • @pritamthakur6293
    @pritamthakur62933 жыл бұрын

    My family will not have this problem. Because my parents themselves did intercaste martiage back in the 80s. It was arrange marriage.😂😂😂 I am lucky in this case.😁😁😁

  • @jenniekim718

    @jenniekim718

    Жыл бұрын

    Intercaste arranged marriage 😯😯

  • @lathasri6337

    @lathasri6337

    Жыл бұрын

    Super luckyyyyy

  • @sonakshiraina1393
    @sonakshiraina13933 жыл бұрын

    God bless you prachi. Much love ❤️

  • @indirasatpathy7388
    @indirasatpathy73883 жыл бұрын

    I LOVE YOU 😭❤ you explained everything so nicely

  • @yuvadoc3207
    @yuvadoc32074 жыл бұрын

    bestest and matured video ever!! thanks sister

  • @sumalathabalamurugan8068
    @sumalathabalamurugan80682 жыл бұрын

    Hi actually i convinced my parents for my love marriage. But sometimes they tell some hurtful things in the marriage prep and my relatives are saying pretty hurtful things in the name of making fun. It hurts me later the moment. I regret why i disclosed my 7 yrs of love to them. They're judging what we would've done in these past years. My sister asked whether i did any registration marriage. It hurts me. Im not able to enjoy my marriage. Do you have any ideas

  • @Serene1999

    @Serene1999

    Жыл бұрын

    I am not experienced enough... But atleast be happy they are letting you marry... Find your way ,you don't have to live with them all the time .... Focus more on being in happy marriage with your partner instead of them. Let them be or else it'll impact your marriage.

  • @dipalishendage2354
    @dipalishendage23542 жыл бұрын

    Thank u sooooooo much... For sharing this... I needed it alot.

  • @msdgamer9590
    @msdgamer95902 жыл бұрын

    You are just amazing.. I too depressed and think about that more and more. If they kill both us but after watching this video.. I felt release thank you for this wonderful video... ❤️

  • @de_726
    @de_7263 жыл бұрын

    But nowadays, i think there is no much problem with parents, the partner we loved was not willing to wait, until our parents are convinced......🙄

  • @ayeshaqureshi3390

    @ayeshaqureshi3390

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Guru Ji ..... I got my love back because of you.....🙏🙏 friends......If you also need any help, you can also call Guru Ji ☎️ +91-8290447022 whatsapp

  • @yaho1439
    @yaho14394 жыл бұрын

    Y different religions y different caste y don't make everyone equal

  • @ayeshaqureshi3390

    @ayeshaqureshi3390

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Guru Ji ... I got my love back because of you.....🙏🙏 friends......If you also need any help, you can also call Guru Ji ☎️ +91-8290447022 whatsapp

  • @thejasnarayan
    @thejasnarayan Жыл бұрын

    All it needs for parents is just to have a few minutes of emotional and blackmailing conversation with their child. They feel proud that they have given them the best advice one could ever get. And be happy and satisfied for seeing their son/daughter live the life they want and not how their child wants to.

  • @swatijain9577
    @swatijain95774 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much Prachi for this video.

  • @nicevideos1367
    @nicevideos13674 жыл бұрын

    I agree girl should be independent before marriage I am 18 but my partner is 24 and his family wants him to get married as soon as possible

  • @ishasharma9495
    @ishasharma94954 жыл бұрын

    I love you prachi di. Everytime you solve my lots of problems. You are my big sister...

  • @omanajanardhan9995
    @omanajanardhan99954 жыл бұрын

    Loved it prachi 💕

  • @pranayasharma8856
    @pranayasharma88563 жыл бұрын

    Trueeee woman....!!!! All things you told are very much practical....!!!

  • @biomesecallkro
    @biomesecallkro4 жыл бұрын

    I paused the video in between for suddenly I realized I'm not even thinking about these positive things(bf and marriage) and I'm 22 🤐. I'm leading a completely unhappy life, and just diagnosed from depression caused of failurea

  • @daddatyagi3255

    @daddatyagi3255

    4 жыл бұрын

    May Lord Mahadev bless u my good wishes are with u soon u will witness good and happy days

  • @biomesecallkro

    @biomesecallkro

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@daddatyagi3255 thank you so much ❣️ har har Mahadev

  • @saherjamal3095
    @saherjamal30954 жыл бұрын

    Hey how do I write letters where do I send them

  • @sukhreetkaur7511
    @sukhreetkaur75113 жыл бұрын

    You are really making a difference in the world🙏

  • @simranbharti9169
    @simranbharti91693 жыл бұрын

    You are so good and caring di..... Thanks for advising us 😊😊luv you di ❤️❤️

  • @ranjitharanju5113
    @ranjitharanju51134 жыл бұрын

    Thks prachi for d tips☺

  • @kishorevaid6451
    @kishorevaid64513 жыл бұрын

    I respect her opinion but still, I will share my views as well. I think just a mere selection of boy or girl by whomsoever whether by yourself or by parents or etc will not make your marriage a "Happy Marriage". Auditing of humans by humans is itself a very big question mark. Marriage is a very long process. There is also difficulty in getting a divorce if it doesn't work as we expected. Marriage is almost like "Gambling of Humans by Humans". That's it for now guys.

  • @ushachauhan3705
    @ushachauhan37052 жыл бұрын

    U explained beautifully 🙂 thanks for your advice

  • @priyajagannath8571
    @priyajagannath85713 жыл бұрын

    Started subscribing ur channel after this video which is Spcl

  • @nupursujani
    @nupursujani3 жыл бұрын

    Hey Prachi.... Thanks a lot for this video.. I think exactly similar to what you have mentioned here. Though, I am seeing a similar kind of case these days... I have started doubting my own thoughts as if an doing right or wrong. What should you do if your own partner starts making you feel guilty of not thinking about parents and society whereas what you expect from him is just not letting go so easily.

  • @ankitmishra60

    @ankitmishra60

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hi you are so beautifull

  • @coolguy-zm7tn

    @coolguy-zm7tn

    Жыл бұрын

    Parents take care of u from the time u r born, cary u in their womb for 9 months with utmost care, don't hurt them

  • @vandanashukla8088
    @vandanashukla80884 жыл бұрын

    Di i am not financially independent I do the zid thing i just say no for every boy they are seeing Sometime my mummy says this 'ab mera dum ghut ra h ' i love them a lot but i can't left my life in a every going deal Even they are not allowing me to go for job or even any kind of outside studies as well

  • @omjitiwari1174

    @omjitiwari1174

    4 жыл бұрын

    I am telling you ,todays education gives only degree. So buy books and start studying by yourself . Crack any gov. Job along with it. Marry any general caste person ,because everyone torture us even constitution also

  • @kanishkkashyap5410

    @kanishkkashyap5410

    Жыл бұрын

    Hnn jyadatar panditayan hi shikar ho rhi hai love jihad ka aur intercaste marriage ka bhut maja aata hai ye sab krke aur open mind wala feel aata hai full independent

  • @aditidas7612
    @aditidas76123 жыл бұрын

    thankyou so much for this. much needed.

  • @KajalSingh-xg8jp
    @KajalSingh-xg8jp3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for such good explanation. The next time i talk to my parents i will be more prepared.

  • @vanshikakumawat9072
    @vanshikakumawat90723 жыл бұрын

    The only thing I learnt from u is mindfulness and proper cunningness to do good. ❤️

  • @ayeshaqureshi3390

    @ayeshaqureshi3390

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Guru Ji ... I got my love back because of you.....🙏🙏 friends......If you also need any help, you can also call Guru Ji ☎️ +91-8290447022 whatsapp..

  • @omanajanardhan9995
    @omanajanardhan99954 жыл бұрын

    Will share my succes story after I convince my parents

  • @heythere3163

    @heythere3163

    4 жыл бұрын

    that's the spirit

  • @brundagowda4414

    @brundagowda4414

    4 жыл бұрын

    Allllllllllllllllllllll the best dear😀

  • @sivadas4753

    @sivadas4753

    4 жыл бұрын

    All the best

  • @ratulmondal1190

    @ratulmondal1190

    4 жыл бұрын

    God should help u 😊.....

  • @anjalii42

    @anjalii42

    4 жыл бұрын

    All the best 😊

  • @twinkletripathi9166
    @twinkletripathi91663 жыл бұрын

    Logical and To the Point 👍🏻

  • @hrishir7339
    @hrishir73393 жыл бұрын

    This has been one of THE BEST advice I've heard.. thank you soooooo much! ✌🏾

  • @amansandhu4387
    @amansandhu43874 жыл бұрын

    OMG I AGREE WITH YOU SOOO MUCH😭❤

  • @vaishnavichetri3805
    @vaishnavichetri38053 жыл бұрын

    I am really frustrated because of my parents . They don’t even listen

  • @jagritishaw2905

    @jagritishaw2905

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same situation 😣

  • @gayathri96

    @gayathri96

    3 жыл бұрын

    😭😭😭

  • @Travelwithkugan

    @Travelwithkugan

    3 жыл бұрын

    Even if your parents listen and both got married walking around your city ppl gonna question who is this guy or girl 🥵🥵🥵

  • @raghavendrant.s1841
    @raghavendrant.s1841 Жыл бұрын

    Dependencies with parents is most of time is one of the reasons...Support system is highly needed...

  • @saumya398
    @saumya3984 жыл бұрын

    I liked ur video a lot 😊 Nice initiative mam 👍

  • @saipriya3389
    @saipriya33894 жыл бұрын

    Even I am facing this problem.. We are seen each other since 7yrs nd it's long distance relationship too.. Hope I can convince my parents.. Every time I think for each problem there will be a solution nd we must found that nd should fight for that..i need God blessings. Nd really I like this video content which helps me alot though

  • @nishab1615

    @nishab1615

    Жыл бұрын

    Did you convince your parents ???

  • @amethystluna2999
    @amethystluna29994 жыл бұрын

    I wish you were my mom or dad😔💔😭😭

  • @JustinBieber1304
    @JustinBieber13042 ай бұрын

    Does this apply for interracial couples as well? My partner is not a religious person (not an atheist, but more of an agnostic, animism). I am a Hindu (but not entirely religious, more spiritual than religious if anything). I am 26 btw. My partner is not an Indian and I grew up outside of India for majority of my life. I am not yet completely financial independent yet (studying my MBA). My parents do not approve because he is not an Indian.

  • @antarapanja3247
    @antarapanja32473 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Prachi. I was needed this soo badly....

  • @ayeshaqureshi3390

    @ayeshaqureshi3390

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Guru Ji ... I got my love back because of you.....🙏🙏 friends......If you also need any help, you can also call Guru Ji ☎️ +91-8290447022 whatsapp

  • @rahulmurali7208
    @rahulmurali72084 жыл бұрын

    Ma'am what to do when the girl's parents tell they'll die if she doesn't listen to them,and she's a brahmin

  • @theweekndxoabel

    @theweekndxoabel

    4 жыл бұрын

    Be successful man, no need to convinced

  • @civilizedmonster

    @civilizedmonster

    3 жыл бұрын

    Everyone will die one day🙃

  • @billybutcher6504

    @billybutcher6504

    Жыл бұрын

    @@theweekndxoabel Brahmins are wicked casteist ppl who divided this nation.

  • @roystanpiedade
    @roystanpiedade3 жыл бұрын

    14 15 Age Children Are Asking Questions About Getting Married 😂😂😂😂

  • @rebeccatutorials9774

    @rebeccatutorials9774

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hey praise the lord 🙏 but love can happen anytime.. we can't help

  • @roystanpiedade

    @roystanpiedade

    3 жыл бұрын

    I Totally Agree With The Love Part, But Here We Are Talking About Getting Married

  • @pankajpandey2408

    @pankajpandey2408

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@rebeccatutorials9774 this is not love, this is just atrraction ok.. Focus on study

  • @fitnesscuratortoday7909

    @fitnesscuratortoday7909

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@pankajpandey2408 Lol

  • @pankajpandey2408

    @pankajpandey2408

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@fitnesscuratortoday7909 ghapa ghap

  • @bhumikadipwal9850
    @bhumikadipwal98503 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much ma'am.....tussi great ho ji....❤️

  • @sinduchinnu4851
    @sinduchinnu48513 жыл бұрын

    I love d way u talk...its too heart touching🤗😘😘😘

  • @ayeshaqureshi3390

    @ayeshaqureshi3390

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Guru Ji ..... I got my love back because of you.....🙏🙏 friends......If you also need any help, you can also call Guru Ji ☎️ +91-8290447022 whatsapp

  • @masirahkhan1488
    @masirahkhan14884 жыл бұрын

    You look familiar to deepika! And the way you talk.🤗

  • @rajinicg6513
    @rajinicg65134 жыл бұрын

    I had a doubt ....y the upper caste people live off thr son or daughter separate....if thy love any lower caste one....and if thy lft will that marriage remain lifetime ?? Or brkup

  • @vishwajhala9772
    @vishwajhala97722 жыл бұрын

    Yes I have a success story M watching this vedio today but I have done all these things before for 4 years to convince ( I waited for 4 years to take yes of my parents) my parents for the boy I loved and finally we are angaged I was stubborn and showed my parents that I ll not marry anyone else and also I ll wait for your yes and it worked finally But also before taking yes I have proved myself before my parents N also relatives by getting financially independent girl And financially independent does not mean 10-20 thousand salary it means more than that u have to be fianancially independent that much from which u can make ur life better with better lifestyle. It's works a lot to convince as world bows down in front of money this days.

  • @electricalengineering3157
    @electricalengineering31574 жыл бұрын

    so nicely u tell about how to convince your family for marriange .... thanku so much

  • @sowmyanagendra1807
    @sowmyanagendra18073 жыл бұрын

    Prachi, I'm in love with a person since 1 year whom I met on Facebook. We have met directly for 5-6 times and we both love each other so truly. I'm almost 23 and I'm well settled in my life with a good salary. My boyfriend is too earning very well as he is a trader. My parents scolded m very badly telling that how did I trust someone on Facebook. I couldn't even force them for anything. Now they are searching for a different person for me to get married with which I don't want to. I literally feel like dying. Please help me!

  • @aakashmore2957

    @aakashmore2957

    3 жыл бұрын

    Omg 🥺 , Please try to convince them I'm sure they'll agree, I feel sorry for u 😔

  • @monaburman2694

    @monaburman2694

    3 жыл бұрын

    Aapki intercaste h kya bhen

  • @maniyamihir4177

    @maniyamihir4177

    2 ай бұрын

    Sad to hear your situation. it's your 2 year old comment so i hope they have agreed to marriage now.

  • @saket6660
    @saket66603 жыл бұрын

    I'm crying right now I love a girl and she loves me too but due to this caste bullshit we'll have to part our ways one day😑

  • @SomeshDKumar
    @SomeshDKumar4 жыл бұрын

    Getting to marry with the person you want is okay, but a person must be mature enough to fall in love with someone and take that decision this is the person i want to be with, first they need to know about them selves, they need to understand and accept themselves completely then they may capable of making a right decision, it is not parents vs children, most of the parents want their children to live a happy and joyful life but the way of way of expression may seems different for children. Whether you want to marry the person you want or go for arranged marriage is dependent on multiple aspects

  • @rahulrengarajan4091
    @rahulrengarajan40912 жыл бұрын

    Hi prachi mam i would like to ask one thing that their is an thing astrology which is crashing our love my parents said that as per the astrology of both of us only the marriage is done And one thing she is 6 months older than me but same yr please reply me? I'm 18 yr old

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