How to BUILD yourself into A HIGH VALUE WOMAN & GAIN RESPECT!

Building yourself into a High Value Individual is all about this! It was never about the external show of it without any real substance!
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Having my set of core values helped me with questions like :
- What's important to me in life?
- What are my dealbreakers?
- What kind of person do I want to be?
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Simmy Goraya : / simmygoraya
Oye Simmy : / oye.simmyy
Shot and edited : / praveen0202
Assisted by Manpreet Bhamraa
Timestamps:
01:54 Why are core values important?
07:26 The connection between core values and self-discovery.
09:13 How I learnt about my core values?
10:50 Why you shouldn't compromise on your core values for someone who isn't aligned with them.

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  • @simmygoraya6060
    @simmygoraya606016 күн бұрын

    Hope this video helps you in your journey! Leave a comment as always and don’t forget to share with a friend who would benefit from it ❤

  • @marviepanhwer5018

    @marviepanhwer5018

    15 күн бұрын

    I think am in love with you. Apki life ki growth dikhti hy its like me but don't have words. So thank you for your words.❤

  • @NikhilGupta-ir7ph

    @NikhilGupta-ir7ph

    15 күн бұрын

    Simmy, As always your core idea what you are trying to convey in video touched me , I really never thought about my core value till now , but after Watching your video , I write down my core values, you actually opened my eyes , MY CORE VALUES 1.Helping other people's 2.Talking nicely with others 3.Maintaining a good Hygiene practice 4.Taking knowledge about health , stock market and other things 5.Finding solutions of my problems, and giving solutions to others for their problems. And till now I found out that core values in me , may be who knows I recognize more, I will keep you posted about that, And one more REQUEST, Please try not to move or shake camera during shooting video, Please ask Your camera man to put the camera on a tripod , Because during watching shaking video , it's becomes hard to concentrate on the core idea , core message of the video, what you are trying to make us understand , So, for now, THANK YOU, for your such a insightful video,

  • @beetribe123

    @beetribe123

    14 күн бұрын

    Baat to tab hai, jab aap high value person Bane, and all the time keep realising that you are doing it for yourself and not to impress others or garner respect from them...who wants respect from phony asses anyway!

  • @BikhariPakistan

    @BikhariPakistan

    14 күн бұрын

    You women always remain below man It's the man who make you rich Its the man who make law to protect you Its the man who protect you when another man misbehave with you Its the man who give lots of views on your video Movies and song Its the man who potray you strong in the Movies In simple WOMEN IS NOATHING WITHOUT MAN

  • @BikhariPakistan

    @BikhariPakistan

    14 күн бұрын

    You know what Society see women as a week gender That's why In Divorce Week women demands more that 70 to 80 percent of Man property To which Man struggle a lot to achieve In India It is lot much easier Like fake Rap case Dowary case Home violence case on husband A week women only needs to file a coimplaind because govt knows week women is unable to proove this But we need to prove all these aligations are fake

  • @oliveb9007
    @oliveb900716 күн бұрын

    So mindful! I'm trying to become a better version of me, and I'm not looking for a partner unless I work on inner self, and I've many flaws that I know I'll have to get rid off before seeking a potential partner. Till then, I hope these attractions wont be my distractions.

  • @ashwiniparkanthe920

    @ashwiniparkanthe920

    12 күн бұрын

    That's great

  • @IFeelPositiveLife

    @IFeelPositiveLife

    8 күн бұрын

    Same here.❤

  • @sili-op4ir

    @sili-op4ir

    3 күн бұрын

    This is exactly me....but don't know what to do where to start. m very confused

  • @mysterious5434

    @mysterious5434

    3 күн бұрын

    ​@@sili-op4ir see firstly you have to calm yourself and should try to figure out what is going wrong and what is hurting you . For that which steps need to take and no matter how much that will hurt me . If someone is not fitting in your value then it'll not last longer . So firstly identify all wrong things happening around you and solve as per your choice not from another's perspective...

  • @sili-op4ir

    @sili-op4ir

    3 күн бұрын

    @@mysterious5434 okay.. thank you so much for your valuable suggestion.😊

  • @user-ry2un7el5v
    @user-ry2un7el5v13 күн бұрын

    Thanks it felt like a hug from a elder sister to a younger sis

  • @shahuzrat9087
    @shahuzrat908710 күн бұрын

    People with weak boundaries or weak personality have gone through a steady stream of different traumas. Their core values were invalidated or their core values became their snare, they became easy prey for people with narcissistic personality disorders. Therefore, they stopped living by those values. Their whole life became like a jigsaw puzzle searching different pieces of their identity to become better version of themselves. It is not easy. It is a full fleged roller coaster ride that sometimes takes you up and sometimes to the rock bottom. Finding core values takes a lifetime for such people. They are being looked down, therefore their value remains submerged in their lost soul. Such people can learn to identify their values when the world offers kindness to their wounded self. Thank you!

  • @anukrititripathi152

    @anukrititripathi152

    3 күн бұрын

    Yeah true! They need to take break

  • @shonalichoudhary350
    @shonalichoudhary35014 күн бұрын

    I have always thought that we don't have enough female motivational speakers but with you Simmy, I think the scenario is changing. Thanks for making these videos. ❤

  • @apoorvamithrananda651
    @apoorvamithrananda65114 күн бұрын

    The best video I've seen in a long time. Thank you simmy. Really needed this

  • @cellfish_me925
    @cellfish_me92516 күн бұрын

    I feel incredibly fortunate to have stumbled upon your channel when I needed it the most. You are truly a therapist for my mind and listening to you provides a different level of relaxation.

  • @namratadas7102
    @namratadas710215 күн бұрын

    Such honesty and relatability does hardly comes by. Really loved this😊

  • @mainakchakraborty5619
    @mainakchakraborty561916 күн бұрын

    You have such clarity in your thoughts. Beauty with brain! Kash tumhara koi carbon copy mil jata life me 😊

  • @jayshripradhan9032

    @jayshripradhan9032

    15 күн бұрын

    Be that person,, you want to attract❤

  • @ujjwalyadav3783

    @ujjwalyadav3783

    8 күн бұрын

    ​@@jayshripradhan9032opposite attracts

  • @ShrutiN-j7b
    @ShrutiN-j7b2 күн бұрын

    Hey Simmy, really needed to hear this. Thanks! Love your energy!

  • @ayushihanda109
    @ayushihanda10913 күн бұрын

    simmy, you just answered my questions. you are so on point dear. i just felt so calm and my thoughts are now so clear aligned. all thanks to you.....

  • @varshasingh406
    @varshasingh40613 күн бұрын

    Today I am happy that finally someone is telling the right things....not the fakeone those others are trying to do....💚

  • @Gouri98
    @Gouri9814 күн бұрын

    Really makes sense. This video itself is really high value. This deserves more views and reach.

  • @heartfulvibes987
    @heartfulvibes98712 күн бұрын

    I can see how deeply you have experienced the life situations...and i can totally relate with you ... thank you for the video ❤

  • @roy_tanya
    @roy_tanya13 күн бұрын

    I really needed to hear this, hit me so hard. Thankyou Simmy ❤

  • @ritumbharasoni1346
    @ritumbharasoni134611 күн бұрын

    I genuinely think I need to find out my core values today. List them down. As I know that in my life there are many things going wrong and I used to think I have no control over it. But now after watching this I think I know the problem and the solution lies within me only. I neglected my values for the longest time and really I think I forget about it too 😂,but to be honest I need to work upon it. I need to remember it so that it didn't spoil my relations with others ofc, career related and other things. Thank you so much for uploading this video and coming into my feed at the right time. ❤️✨

  • @simalkhansimalkhan-vx8mo

    @simalkhansimalkhan-vx8mo

    8 сағат бұрын

    To increase your worth women's should be finacially independent

  • @surbhipriya7671
    @surbhipriya76719 күн бұрын

    I found you in the moment when started following the same and felt the need to work on my inner self rather than correcting others, playing blame games or pretending. I think we all need to reflect on ourselves and if we do it in our early age it'd be more fruitful. You're doing amazing work, thank you!

  • @adventureswithsasha2662
    @adventureswithsasha266213 күн бұрын

    Thank you for the wonderful videos Sim! 🤗 Great work! 💕

  • @OOBA3DandDESIGN
    @OOBA3DandDESIGN11 күн бұрын

    You're the explaination of my subconscious mind. How it can be easy to explain it? Love it.

  • @pratikshagaikwad4450
    @pratikshagaikwad4450Күн бұрын

    You are becoming a therapist for many of us! Thank You for being there.

  • @thepoeticnurse
    @thepoeticnurse2 күн бұрын

    Probably the best video you ever did. Thank you for this. Our entire life we've been focussed on finding people but never really known who we are. Never did the inner work and wondered what was going wrong in my relationships and friendships. Thank you again, for this beautiful video

  • @rabiaasghar6677
    @rabiaasghar667713 күн бұрын

    I just loved the video. Thankyou for making it. ❤

  • @galpergayna
    @galpergayna11 күн бұрын

    So beautifully conveyed. Loved it

  • @ashishkumar7136
    @ashishkumar713613 күн бұрын

    I generally don't comments on any video but you are making life better for many people This series is helping to become the best version and thank you for that Stay happy and blessed always Really appreciate your transformation and your efforts to become a more humble ,caring and honest person. Thank you so very much The world needs more of you God bless.

  • @janvi6109
    @janvi610914 күн бұрын

    Realised alot about myself :) from ur video, thank you so much. Everything was blurred due to situations now i can see actually , how i should not compromise my core values

  • @devisreepinninti2472
    @devisreepinninti247210 күн бұрын

    Omg! It's really thoughtful. I really have to take some time to process it in my system.

  • @payalthomas5260
    @payalthomas526013 күн бұрын

    Just one word! Awesome! It was really empowering to hear this video. Thanks.

  • @shwetathakur94
    @shwetathakur9414 күн бұрын

    When I talk about a strong independent woman, it refers to a woman like you.. somebody who has her own values, her own thought process which comes from within herself and not from outside world.. I wish I had a friend like you bcz for the first time I saw somebody talking about things which I think and care about.. I'll be 30 in August this year, and believe me, the things she is talking about come from experiencing and watching your best and worst phases and with a lot of introspection on a daily basis.. To all the girls and boys out there, one day you'll come out of this superficial persona that you might have created for your own survival, to fit in today's generation full of crazy, unreal expectations.. nd once you do, believe me you will feel such peace and comfort being just who you are.. Everyone learns from their own experiences so I would recommend each of you to experience life as much as you can, good and bad equally as early in life as you can, in order to understand you are much more than what you see right now.. You are unique and the best.. ❤

  • @janviparmar4191

    @janviparmar4191

    13 күн бұрын

    Exactly, if people think like that there is no place for sadness

  • @tanvisonkusare
    @tanvisonkusare15 күн бұрын

    Your thoughts are so so relatable, I really felt a sense of calmness and agreement to the things you said in the video❤

  • @flyingjet1474
    @flyingjet147416 күн бұрын

    This is a very good conversation, worth paying attention to, i think everyone needs such types of Vedios, lots of blessing ❤

  • @mansityagi1111
    @mansityagi111112 күн бұрын

    I am grateful that I found this video of yours as it has highly impacted on my thought process...Keep making such kind of videos...😊

  • @priyankatalreja8742
    @priyankatalreja874214 күн бұрын

    So much needed!

  • @astharaikwar5444
    @astharaikwar544415 күн бұрын

    You just nail it simmi.i took a decision when i dont have a foundation and i was not aware about the core values or boundaries and i think now i can see it was blunder . Spot on

  • @simalkhansimalkhan-vx8mo

    @simalkhansimalkhan-vx8mo

    8 сағат бұрын

    Exactly I think women worth determined by becoming finacially independent what do you think

  • @aiculture555
    @aiculture55516 күн бұрын

    Much needed topic ,I wanted this one

  • @haminaria
    @haminaria9 күн бұрын

    I just love this video! I was always searching for someone to talk to about all these topics. I always wanted someone to guide me and have a deep, soothing conversation. I feel like you are really close to me and speaking directly to me. Just love the ambiance. God bless you🌻

  • @harleenrekhi4891
    @harleenrekhi489115 күн бұрын

    I appreciate the way you come up with your failures, struggles. I don't miss to watch your videos now

  • @ayankachhawah6101
    @ayankachhawah610116 күн бұрын

    I relate with you so much...when you said you invite people to take advantage of you when you are lost just struck the right chords within me...I had said a similar thing some time back as well....becomes so easy to relate with you maybe we are fighting a similar battle or maybe you would have already fought

  • @shumailakidwai5945
    @shumailakidwai59453 күн бұрын

    You have thorough understanding!! Loved it

  • @asmitasathe1309
    @asmitasathe130910 күн бұрын

    She is not just talking bout core or what u should be! She's also holding a mirror and to look into urself. I found ur channel late but it's never too late❤

  • @sonagupta3414
    @sonagupta341414 күн бұрын

    Just wow Simmy loved it❤❤

  • @arpitaa.p
    @arpitaa.p15 күн бұрын

    Omggggg Thankyouu So Muchhh diii for this videooo❤🥹🫶....I needed this one so muchhh✨️

  • @truth17771
    @truth1777113 күн бұрын

    Respect your Thought.. Bahot kuch seekhne mila ... Peace

  • @shivanikumari-oi8bc
    @shivanikumari-oi8bc13 күн бұрын

    Totally relatelable ❤❤ it's just transparent conversation. I'm also learning same thing. Thank you so much for sharing your story. It filtered many things in my life. It shows me where I need to be careful. Lots of love ❤

  • @nausheenafroz551
    @nausheenafroz55116 күн бұрын

    Thanks a lot mam..for this wonderful video!❤

  • @ishratparveen738
    @ishratparveen73815 күн бұрын

    Whole video but that last quote is one of those 'cheery on the cake' for sure 👌🏻

  • @deepikamohod5504
    @deepikamohod55046 күн бұрын

    Simms you are such a soft hearted Girl ..... Your words has its value for each one of us Just an advice as a viewer please make the screen or camera to be stable. It really catching my eye as I want to focus on your words ! Best luck di and thanks alot for your motivation and making me look within me 🎉

  • @DeepakLalchandaniProfile
    @DeepakLalchandaniProfile16 күн бұрын

    Matured conversation 😊

  • @DurgaRoy-uh6hq
    @DurgaRoy-uh6hq15 күн бұрын

    so grateful for u,god bless u simmy akka

  • @farahramzi1221
    @farahramzi12212 күн бұрын

    what a mindful talk it is. i ve completed my studies but i never think about my inner self like this. never explored my values. U r very right if i dont know abt my core values how can i set my boundaries? U just show the way how to become a better version of me.

  • @bommabhargavi
    @bommabhargavi6 күн бұрын

    I loved your perspective. It shows how much you've worked on yourself. It's just that your camera is shaky which is a bit distracting or maybe I need to work on my focus. More power to you!

  • @Anushka__2729
    @Anushka__272916 күн бұрын

    Yayyyyy finally aapne daal di 🥹🥹🥹❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @manishasahu946
    @manishasahu94615 күн бұрын

    Really happy to see the transformation didi❤

  • @areebakhan6418
    @areebakhan641815 күн бұрын

    Try to make such videos more often ! You can be a friend and a voice to someone who needs to hear it ,Thankyou so much !! For being an amazing content creator! Appreciate you always ❤

  • @anitakc-t6p
    @anitakc-t6p14 күн бұрын

    Thank you for motivating me to be who I am.💌 Grateful for this masterpiece👏

  • @elle.7439
    @elle.743916 күн бұрын

    Loving this series ..keep it coming ;)

  • @simmygoraya6060

    @simmygoraya6060

    16 күн бұрын

    Thanks, will do!

  • @swarnikatarauliya5506
    @swarnikatarauliya55066 күн бұрын

    So beautifully explained 😊

  • @ToleNakshtra
    @ToleNakshtraКүн бұрын

    Mind-blowing and very useful ❤

  • @itsjustsudha1511
    @itsjustsudha151114 күн бұрын

    Congratulations on 500k subscribers ❤❤❤

  • @rinkeychakrabory5232
    @rinkeychakrabory523215 күн бұрын

    Simmy the series of content that you have been bringing from past few months has been phenomenally impacted my thought process and at least I need to watch them two times because they are really of high values. Thank you very much ❤

  • @GenitaminNani

    @GenitaminNani

    15 күн бұрын

    Dd sachi ka apka kina 💔 huae. I'm only 18 now.. Btw thanks

  • @mahi1234jj
    @mahi1234jj16 күн бұрын

    This is what i want...you give me clarity.. thanxx di❤

  • @chandamaurya3817
    @chandamaurya38173 күн бұрын

    You open my eyes about high values❤

  • @rinipandit9761
    @rinipandit976112 күн бұрын

    Simmy, even if you are thinking to leave YT, then please think about us, we really need your voice in our life.. You have no idea how you have changed many lives with your talks. I think till now I have not found any motivational speaker who can come up with these kind of topics.. And your words are adding miracle to my life and infact I bet all of your subscriber’s life …you go girl ❤❤❤❤

  • @jagriti1405
    @jagriti140516 күн бұрын

    Blessed to have you darling simmy❤

  • @aditisharma545
    @aditisharma54516 күн бұрын

    Hey simmy you have that audacity to make things best whatever you done with vidio that moral or something spicy vidios you done great job girl keep growing and shining 🤗😎

  • @shonalichoudhary350
    @shonalichoudhary35014 күн бұрын

    Very nice video simmy. I think I needed this.

  • @priyapatel1629
    @priyapatel162914 күн бұрын

    Mam 😌 Tq mam u just said everything what actually a person whether its man or women must know in his/her life. Otherwise people walk randomly without knowing anything. It's all about core values..

  • @tishikasachdeva7937
    @tishikasachdeva793714 күн бұрын

    I have been watching you from the time you used to make makeup videos to your podcast and now completely changed and mature for good…. I feel so good that we have been together in this journey

  • @aadityamiddha
    @aadityamiddha16 күн бұрын

    Need these kind of videos even more!!! ❤❤

  • @trishiachakraborty24
    @trishiachakraborty2414 күн бұрын

    Such a beautiful content. I am also realizing this at this point of my life.I am in my 30's. I truly connect.❤Great work... Keep it up..I want to motivate you to kindly share these contents.

  • @Deeepali_
    @Deeepali_4 күн бұрын

    A heart to heart convo 🤍 thankyou di fr this vdo bht peace feel hua sunke ye & sahi mtlb samjh aaya aaj inner work ka

  • @abhhipatel
    @abhhipatel2 күн бұрын

    words coming straight from heart always touch heart, thanks and yes it all applicable for man also xD! (Though youtube suggested me this video out of nowhere) but it is worth the time.

  • @Arpitasingh00717
    @Arpitasingh0071712 күн бұрын

    The best video i see today 🖤

  • @quartzy0022
    @quartzy002210 күн бұрын

    So thoughtful ❤...your videos are truly a blessing to the human community mam. God bless ❤❤

  • @user-pg1se2hz4k
    @user-pg1se2hz4k6 күн бұрын

    thank you. i just need it.

  • @preetiagnihotri6839
    @preetiagnihotri68399 күн бұрын

    It's really nice video, isi ki jarurat thi life me...

  • @kasaksharma2901
    @kasaksharma290110 күн бұрын

    Please make more such videos. They are much needed. Thankyou for this.

  • @gunjansharma9767
    @gunjansharma976714 күн бұрын

    I just LOVE this woman !!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @easylearningwithpooja5770
    @easylearningwithpooja57703 күн бұрын

    Very helpful for me..very nicely you expressed love this video..

  • @freevibird5
    @freevibird58 күн бұрын

    Thanq for ur contents ....when i hear u, i feel like u r my elder sister who is with me and teaching me the things i should look for and they are important...thank god i have u...#valuablevideo

  • @user-cu5ws8xq3k
    @user-cu5ws8xq3k2 күн бұрын

    Thank you for this wonderful video ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @sitakhairwar9636
    @sitakhairwar963612 күн бұрын

    Kash mujhe 10 years phle aise koi smjhaya hota, bhot hi maturity wali video hai. ❤

  • @sonaltalreja9336
    @sonaltalreja93369 күн бұрын

    You just nail it I really like that way you explain the reality needed more videos like that❤❤❤

  • @ambivert3847
    @ambivert384715 күн бұрын

    Thank You so much di for these videos , it's like a series of finding yourself and let me tell u that your videos are really helping me finding myself back , in a way better version than my previous one. U r like an elder sister to me. This year I turned 20 , and I starting exploring myself with ur videos by jounaling....really helpfull Keep going 👍🏻💟

  • @nehavasava984
    @nehavasava9846 күн бұрын

    So true talks ...core value is important to know...not any handsome/beutiful person should be your partner.value match is important

  • @akashsarkar07
    @akashsarkar0716 күн бұрын

    I appreciate you, ma'am. I learned a lot from this video that will help me grow. And here I am hearing a new and lovable word, 'Baby Values' for the first time. Radhe Radhe. 🙏

  • @vanshirathod1318
    @vanshirathod13188 күн бұрын

    Long time...such a good video..❤

  • @shesparks64
    @shesparks6410 күн бұрын

    I am getting vibe that you are gonna be my favorite content creator on youTube

  • @KOLKATACANDID
    @KOLKATACANDID15 күн бұрын

    Sahi samjha hai depth me. It might be a bookish knowledge or this knowledge might be from your life experience

  • @archanashah7636
    @archanashah76364 сағат бұрын

    Thanks simmy. Take care. Love ❤

  • @tanishaa1045
    @tanishaa104516 күн бұрын

    Each video is making me do better with everything ♥️

  • @simmygoraya6060

    @simmygoraya6060

    16 күн бұрын

    🤗❤️

  • @dolly12128

    @dolly12128

    14 күн бұрын

    Mai cheezo ko theek se samjh nhi paati hu or meri sabse ladai hoti rehti hai ghar Mai bhi kam hi banti hai logo se plz mujhe btaye ki Mai kya karu aise karke mene apni kaafi life khraab karli hai..

  • @bhandarigracy
    @bhandarigracy10 күн бұрын

    Very genuine 🔥💪🏻grateful ✨

  • @truth17771
    @truth1777113 күн бұрын

    Yes , this video of you HELP me Thanking you SIMMI

  • @durgashankar7147
    @durgashankar714713 күн бұрын

    Love u Simmy, I had lost some of my values n was lost, I need tocome back to my frame work (created by values). GBU

  • @Priyapinkiee
    @Priyapinkiee15 күн бұрын

    Omg I thought you should make a video on the core values and all after watching inside out 2 , I even dmed you!! Omg what a coincidence 💗💗🥰

  • @AishwaryaLakhe-c4b
    @AishwaryaLakhe-c4b13 күн бұрын

    Love it simmy❤

  • @adyajha
    @adyajha14 күн бұрын

    I needed this

  • @navkaur_1723
    @navkaur_17236 күн бұрын

    Great video ❤🏆

  • @Man_in_Shade
    @Man_in_Shade8 күн бұрын

    Maine video dekhna shuru kiya .....peheli baar pura video dekhne se pahele hi kuch alag vibe aayi❤n i subscribed

  • @poojasehrawat1125
    @poojasehrawat1125Күн бұрын

    Dekho dekho idhar aao … true .. there are so many people who showoff their charity , how good they are, how much money they have

  • @Proud_743
    @Proud_74320 сағат бұрын

    Thank you so much di 😊❤