1. Use pauses rather than filler words 2. 2-3 second rule (eye contact with everyone) 3. Palm showing 4. Reacting to audience 5. Know your audience 6. Create Mystery 7. Talk Specifics 8. Tell Stories 9. Have a common enemy

@MasterTalks

3 жыл бұрын

Super summary here Wendi, thanks for sharing.

@lynxlover9911

3 жыл бұрын

I always used this technique during my briefing as a tour guide. And it always work especially when you look deep in to their eyes.

@DivineTimingMeditations

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the recap. So much better than listening to politicians lying (doesn’t matter which party). Barf.

@CCS565

2 жыл бұрын

It is easier said than done.

@shreehariraam2290

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks

Am I the only one that, as terrifying it may seem, LOVES public speaking?! Like if I gotta give a speech, I may feel a little anxious at first but then man, it feels so intense and overwhelming like, give me a crowd to speak to, it's all I need.

@inessa5923

3 жыл бұрын

Give me some of that attitude!

@bruh-kj1qw

3 жыл бұрын

I want to give speeches but usually their in group projects and everytime I do them someone always mess up the order and I get angry

@eliseerickson5994

3 жыл бұрын

I've always enjoyed public speaking. I never understood why speeches in class were supposed to be a scary thing - I thrived giving them. Sometimes I was even embarrassed by how much more confident I was compared to my peers because I didn't want to be perceived as a try-hard.

@PcCAvioN

3 жыл бұрын

You're a stage animal my friend. Enjoy it

@resir9807

3 жыл бұрын

I love it too, i find that i can be incredibly charismatic when so much attention is focused on me

These types of videos in which you analyze the body language and the speeches of very successful people helps us a ton by giving us a blueprint to become more charismatic. I can't wait till you drop more of these videos so I can watch them.

“A good speech should be like a woman's skirt; long enough to cover the subject and short enough to create interest.” ― Winston S. Churchill

@MisterPol

3 жыл бұрын

I love that quote but for real, thank you man for inspiring me to take action and get into self development!!

@GardenArcade

3 жыл бұрын

A good speech should be like a man's jeans. Long enough to cover the subject and having holes in it to create interest.

@Mr3DLC

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks a lot now churchill is on feminist radar

@mr.m7592

3 жыл бұрын

dam

@nh7680

3 жыл бұрын

@@GardenArcade that... wasn't clever.

Elon Musk isn't looking at the floor, he's looking at a monitor on the floor showing the presentation slides.

@ingenious5480

3 жыл бұрын

Yea... but it’s not helping his charisma

@netozamora1692

3 жыл бұрын

This is common in most standing presentations, but good presenters take the slides as a guide and address the audience. People who are uncomfortable doing this, focus on the presentation. Sometimes this is a page on the desk, which is horrible.

@julianbanks1885

3 жыл бұрын

@@ingenious5480 Who needs Charisma when you are the world's richest man?

@ritam8767

3 жыл бұрын

@@julianbanks1885 he does. Most of his wealth is stock, he needs to sell.

I think Elon's speeches are great because they just seem honest and authentic. Sure it doesn't sound as fluid but it leaves a bigger impact on me.

@a1001ku

3 жыл бұрын

Ikr

@davecullins1606

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, it makes him seem more relatable - we would probably do the same as him when making speeches.

@dozyproductionss

3 жыл бұрын

Elon sounds like a person made in a CIA lab.

@Leolas42

3 жыл бұрын

i like the dude, i think he is really cool and i look up to him, but... he is NOT a good public speaker

@adityashende3844

3 жыл бұрын

yeah, for me elon musk is an example that for being superbly successful one doesnt NEED to be charismatic or an awesome public speaker, one needs to have character, skills , hard work and a product people just cant deny

you should do one for teachers speaking to a classroom because i think it can really REALLY help out at holding the attention of students within a classroom enviorment

@MasterTalks

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed, Charlie's the best - you can totally master public speaking!

Brother you are so brilliant ... CoC you have removed all the awkwardness that used to come attached with public speaking and persona enhancement...Not alone this one... every video does that to me... And your broad smile is so unique to the topic you are dealing with... I can onlly say, 'Thank You'

If you're struggling, that means you're progressing. -The Shades

@sansarsah2966

3 жыл бұрын

that is due to brain changing shapes

It seems like Elon Musk has a different type of charisma, which is so uncharismatic, that it loops around to being very charismatic.

@williamkjellstrand5280

3 жыл бұрын

because its authentic/real

@arcbyte1264

3 жыл бұрын

@@williamkjellstrand5280 yeah, the errors in his speech make it seem like it's not fabricated

I can't be the only one that noticed the Spider-Man poster in the background changing, right?

@storycorner541

3 жыл бұрын

In every video taken from his room the portrait show some paranormal activity 😂

@dakeep5251

3 жыл бұрын

Cool easter egg right hahaha

@callja12

3 жыл бұрын

I was literally about to ask how/why that happened!

@chalchitrnuftmai

3 жыл бұрын

Yes - what was that about?!? Any theory?

@star-ks3bs

3 жыл бұрын

I noticed this too!!

I love all these breakdowns of how different people speak and how we can all adapt into our own social situations. Social anxiety and public speaking are examples I still struggle with today, but every time I watch a Charisma on Command video, I feel like a lot of my issues are not only common, but possible to get over. Like I'm a better speaker now than I was a couple of months ago because of watching these videos. I'm not going to say it is changing my life, but it is absolutely helpful. So for that, thank you. I also want to add that, after watching so many of these videos that vie tips and tricks on how to improve in social interactions, I made my own video listing out helpful and unique tips as well.

Elon Musk: 100% Intelligence 0% Charisma

@jaredmello

3 жыл бұрын

Accurate lol

@_luni_2834

3 жыл бұрын

his charisma is his damn work ethic. which makes him admirable.

@ajiththomas2465

3 жыл бұрын

Elon Musk: 50% Intelligence 50% Marketing Team

@game124523658

3 жыл бұрын

50% unionbusting 50% fraud

@wzg8804

3 жыл бұрын

Not true but ok

Obama has such a great charisma that even though he was a warmonger, he got a Nobel Peace prize. He could sell an umbrella in a desert.

@xanthippus9079

3 жыл бұрын

@Aussie As That's the spirit.

@owennbeats

3 жыл бұрын

@Aussie As you'd probably need 1 to keep the sun off your back

@Kakyyoin

3 жыл бұрын

I would love to have an umbrella in the desert.

@Vivi_9

3 жыл бұрын

He wasn't a war monger. Just a ridiculous statement for the easily-manipulated right-wingers to make them feel better about being duped by Trump.

@hasassangebeenfreedyet468

3 жыл бұрын

@@Vivi_9 Two words: drone program I don't care about Trump. But I certainly care about the victims of Pakistan, Somalia and Yemen.

Hey guys can y'all please, please do a video on James Spader's character of Raymond “Red” Reddington from The Blacklist, i mean not only is he a total badass but he's also super smart and confident and doesn't care what others think of him at all, he would be great to do a video on i think.

@amar_1

3 жыл бұрын

ohh ultron , robert california and red ,he is so unsettling byt still so charismatic .

@Rhodes414

3 жыл бұрын

Yes!!

3 жыл бұрын

"Move aside, let the man come through." Soul Coughing Bon Bon was a perfect song for that UN scene. And sums up Red. Plus his suits, hats and Browning Hi Power are all awesome.

@djtdawg87

3 жыл бұрын

@@amar_1 Yeah he is, he's one of my all time favorite actors.

@zorankranicz3837

3 жыл бұрын

The most charismatic character I have ever seen. I agree it's time for his breakdown already!

Hey Charlie, you should do a zoom charisma video. Everyone is communicating over video now and that probably makes ur amazing videos get less views. Maybe a video about zoom will help a lot?

@nh7680

3 жыл бұрын

Great idea

I’m borderline obsessed with this channel. Thanks again Charlie!

7:45 - Spiderman picture behind from comics. 8:03 - Spiderman picture changes to show Obama to. Explain Charlie!

@star-ks3bs

3 жыл бұрын

I noticed this as well!! 😂

@gqy1522

3 жыл бұрын

*gasps* spiderman is obama

As small KZreadrs, we need to learn to hook our audience. Thank you for your tips!

That's an interesting format of a video you chose for this one, it's cool to see you react and explain the methods other people use and the mistakes they make live. I'd like to see more of these type of videos if you have more ideas for them :)

@MasterTalks

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed Gabriela - it's so well done!!!

I love the reaction videos from Charlie. Please keep them coming 🙌🏻

I love how Charlie seems so focused when watching a video

I'm going to do a speech Tommorow in class and Charlie comes out of nowhere with a public speaking video. The Gods are with me.

@lauravincent6935

3 жыл бұрын

best of luck

I thought of RM on his speech in Youth Day in Korea when you talked about reacting to the audience, he did it even tho the audience there were the president and assorted politicians. I'd love to see a video on BTS, particularly RM's public speaking. Their second UN speech was so interesting because every member approached their part differently.

Love this video formatting!

Obama is a politician while elon musk is a genious in his own way. He doesn't give that much attention of his way of speaking like obama does.

@AxxLAfriku

3 жыл бұрын

ORORORORO!!! I spend half of my day sleeping! ORORORO!!! Then I sometimes get up and tell you that I am a famous content creatorORORORORO!!! Please don't sleep while driving, dear eis

@MartianMoon

3 жыл бұрын

genius*

@ssh1487

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah he doesn’t need to because he’s a tech boss whilst Obama is a politician. Being an excellent orator is one of the keys to success in politics, whilst it’s only of middling importance in business

@nebjamin3499

3 жыл бұрын

S Sh While being a great orator helps more in politics than in business, i think Elon musk would greatly rise in popularity if he became a better public speaker

@rishabhgupta3759

3 жыл бұрын

@@nebjamin3499 Elon musk has never thought of gaining popularity. he is a visionary,and whatever he has acquired is due to his vision and thinking. He is more inclined towards advancing technology rather than making money out of it

@charismaOD - Your videos and insight are incredible. You’re extremely intuitive - Just wanted to compliment you and your work!! Keep doing your thing 💯

You should break down Ellen's intro apology speech on her talk show today!

@joycelinlgbtq

3 жыл бұрын

Ugh. What did she do this time, do i even want to ask?

@SNinjaQK

3 жыл бұрын

ellen musk

Your videis are so great! Thank you! 🙏🙏🙏

Charlie has such a great look. His mouth is so expressive and has so much character. And everything above that is just pure fire.😀

Awesome stuff! we need more analysis of the greatest speeches. You help us read between the lines 👍

I need this for my online class presentation

Create mystery, but also be specific. Now I am confused xD

@chooseeazy1994

3 жыл бұрын

you dont necessarily need the two to be together in fact id argue its better you use these as individual strategies

@notquitehim

3 жыл бұрын

Mystery is not the word i would use, "Anticipation" is better

@goodmorningbroyoutubechann8056

3 жыл бұрын

Cause you don’t listen

@DavBosca

3 жыл бұрын

Create mystery and then explain things specificly it’s not that hard

@egdrei

3 жыл бұрын

Mystery by always keeping the person on edge and have them have a question in mind, specific by literally using specific words e.g. "parents, wifes, neighbour and friends" instead of "everyone". These aren't mutually exclusive.

THANKS MAN!

"When you want to succeed as bad as you want to breathe, then you'll be successful" -Eric Thomas

Happiness is an attitude of mind, born of the simple determination to be happy under all outward circumstances.”

I was a Kerry volunteer and in our promotional material, was this speech. When I saw it I thought, "who is this guy? This man should be president." ...and then one day, he was.

Love this breakdown 🙌

Small world, I wrote a whole breakdown on this speech a little while ago! Glad to see it getting the attention it deserves, it's such a good speech

@felixw8004

3 жыл бұрын

Good speaker and even better criminal

@davidm1206

3 жыл бұрын

@@felixw8004 hahah

I couldn't stop staring at the beautiful Fender!

This is fantastic, thank you for sharing

@seanhurter8224

3 жыл бұрын

Also something to note is because of this channel and a couple others I have decided to make KZread videos about mental health. I want to do this. But I'm not going to at the moment. If you're interested, I want you to subscribe to me

I definitely like to hear elon musk speak more than any other human. Because he’s about the subject and not about the talk. But that’s of course only me. Me liking his style doesn’t make him a good public speaker 😂

@daniel_960_

3 жыл бұрын

He doesn’t even prepare his presentations as far as I know lol. Just goes out there and talks about what he has to say.

@thedevilsadvocate4854

3 жыл бұрын

Imo he is so lengthy in his speech that it slowly makes me sleep. Not to diss him but it's like hearing a stoner trying to explain something.

@daniel_960_

3 жыл бұрын

The Devil’s Advocate yeah not for everyone. Leaves time to actually think about what he’s talking about.

@SNinjaQK

3 жыл бұрын

@@thedevilsadvocate4854 that's cos he is a stoner

@emperorsascharoni9577

3 жыл бұрын

daniel_960_ yeah that’s why he stutters, because he thinks to fast for his mouth and doesn’t just “read a script”

Elon Musk might be bright and all but he's the most inefficient orator ever

@GpGx9955

3 жыл бұрын

Well, he's paid to make money and make humanity better. Politicians and public speakers are paid to sell themself

@b_d_vn9651

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, It would be better if he learned to speak better but that won't change his value. Oratory is a means of conveying one's vision and if Elon has substantiated the vision, why would he need oratory skills?

@eebowenn

3 жыл бұрын

I think the fact that he's such an influential character while being a pretty bad orator speaks a lot about how creative and intelligent the guy really is

@ritam8767

3 жыл бұрын

Elon is a bad speaker, but I think Zuck is worse.

I love this breakdown

This is probably one of the first times that I see a youtuber make a +10 minute video *BUT WITH ABSOLUTELY NO AADDSS*

@applepeel1662

3 жыл бұрын

He talked about his course twice

@sbfmaster23

3 жыл бұрын

Don't worry he's financed for this video

@TheListener01

3 жыл бұрын

Had adds on the video I watched...

@bruh-kj1qw

3 жыл бұрын

Michael A there's an add sorry dude :(

@nh7680

3 жыл бұрын

Download KZread Vanced. Problem solved.

Hey Charisma, I think it would be great if you could do some videos on Alan Watts. He was truly a unique speaker, both in philosophy and style.

Amazing as always

@MasterTalks

3 жыл бұрын

So true - absolutely agreed!

Coming in here early to learn some tricks! :)

would you please do a breakdown of how alan watts articulates himself so brilliantly? I am captivated by his flowing and descriptive mastery of language. Please and thank you. I am a big fan of the content of your videos and would love this.

PLEASE do a video on Professional Wrestling live mic speaking/crowd psychology (how to work a crowd) It's the same type of stuff your talking about in this video.. would be very interesting to hear you break down a good live wrestling promo vs a bad wrestling promo. You can really hear how the crowd either accepts or rejects them.

Using pauses REALLY works. You hook them because they’re hanging on waiting patiently for more. Kind of like when your crush says they’ll call and you wait eagerly by the phone 😰🙋‍♀️🤦‍♀️

Please do a breakdown on Matthew Mcconaughey. I’m trying to learn from him, but having a hard time where to start. Keep up the good work!!

@MasterTalks

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed Trae, that would be a super cool breakdown to see.

@traetorres9254

3 жыл бұрын

MasterTalk right! He just has the cool factor and the way he talks just grabs everyone’s attention

also, from 10:57 onward watch the emotions on the charisma on command guys face as Obama builds up the power in his speech. Hugely important too.

It's also a good tip not to just prepare a speech but to say it aloud many times and revise it so it sounds natural. I've done many PowerPoints this way and it never fails. Start with 5 points and work them out through speaking to yourself.

This channel is amazing. Jason momoa breakdown when

Could you do a video/series on how to be more effective in Zoom calls? Would you do similar things like hand showing?

Hi Charlie, big time fan and subscriber, your videos have helped me improve so much. I'm from India, and the current Indian prime minister is also a great orator, he also understands his audiance really well and changes his oration style accordingly, maybe you could do a breakdown of him. I can help you with the language part, do get in touch!

@ramanasai6150

Жыл бұрын

😅😆🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👌

I remember the election of 2008 very well, I was very politically active during it. I remember at the beginning of Obama's run they often talked about his speech at the Democratic national convention for John Kerry, so you're correct in that this speech was an important flashpoint toward his presidency.

The only reason to give a speech is to change the world. Be an encourager, the world has enough critics already 🖖

A master of speech 👏

I feel it’s easier to look away from people while I speak because I’m very affected by sensory awareness and distractions, but I force myself to look people in the eyes when I make my points.

You reminded me of Keanu reeves when he interacted with the fan in such a matter way of trying to add text in some sort of cheer i assume or surprise

Commenting now in 2023...man Barrack was even more fiery when he was young! Sometimes people come along in life that makes others say, "Where the heck did THAT come from!?!"

Great video 👌

wow perfect video.

Really good video! Fun fact about palms - When conversing, palms up is subconsciously inviting and palms down is subconsciously commanding. So when ever you speak and want someone to like you, trying talking and using your hands palm up

Hi, just checked out your landing page for charisma University. It was great. Beyond my budget but well written Just one suggestion. Add more options to join the course. On the mobile I had to go all the way to the bottom.

@MasterTalks

3 жыл бұрын

That's great Atul, thanks for the feedback, keep learning and growing!

So there is no any comparison between two great personality 👍

You should do a video on charisma online- like social media and stuff

Please do a video on how to be more charismatic and friendly through social media where we can't show our mannerisms all that. Especially text based places like twitter.

Could you please do a video on Ted mosbeys' skillful and engaging narrative skills

@MasterTalks

3 жыл бұрын

That's a great video suggestion Akash, thanks for sharing!

It would be awesome to see a video breaking down Neal Caffrey from White Collar

@MasterTalks

3 жыл бұрын

Love it Connor, thanks for sharing with us - great tips!

True

"Obama has an absolute talent for saying things that make no sense but not only sound plausible but inspiring" - Thomas Sowell

@pierogipower3075

3 жыл бұрын

basically

@kendomyers

3 жыл бұрын

Thomas Sowell is imminently memeable but not a good source for enlightening quotes. Hes an ideologue masquerading as an economist, hes popular among people who's economic education consists of little more than memes.

@mzari2u72

3 жыл бұрын

Made no sense or not comprehended by you? I'm sure it's the latter...

@connorwatson7162

3 жыл бұрын

“Trump has an absolute talent for saying things that make no sense and do not sound plausible or inspiring” - Everyone Else

@kendomyers

3 жыл бұрын

@james stpatrick I have no opinions on whether or not Sowell is a fraud, but I find his work to be ideologically driven and unsatisfactory. His work is great for making memes for people already inclined to a certain world view and little else.

Id like a comparison between this and his 2020 convention speech, where he was only talking to a camera.

Impressive how you can convince others to follow you with words you don't believe yourself. That was his greatest trick, and you have to admire him for it.

@xCwieCHRISx

3 жыл бұрын

That was and is the trick of all leaders.... . Because majority are sheeps.

Hi, can you please do a video on Tekashi 69 and how to be charming when people want to hate you (something like that ). His interviews are very interesting.

I have to speak in front of the class today hopefully i remember this

I think it would be awesome if you did a video on professional wrestlers. Charisma is key to their success as they have to connect with a live audience to succeed within the scripted nature of the programming, and there have been multiple instances of a promotion trying and failing to make a star but their chosen performer not having the necessary tools. Some key wrestlers to focus on could be Hulk Hogan, Ric Flair, Dusty Rhodes ("Hard Times" is his most famous promo), Roddy Piper, Randy Savage, Dwayne (The Rock) Johnson, Steve Austin, and John Cena. A good example of someone with good charisma but poor tools would be Roman Reigns ("Suffering Succotash" is infamous) or even the aforementioned Dwayne Johnson(coincidentally, Roman Reigns' real life relative), who was given a poor-fitting character called Rocky Maivia when he first started wrestling and fans HATED him despite him now being the biggest actor in the world and loved by almost everyone because of his inherent charisma.

Let's be honest, Elon Musk is not be a good public speaker, but with his skills and achivements and vision, it does not matter, people praise him like a God. You can either sell things by being an amazing public speaker, or if your products are extraordinary then they can even sell themselves without any speaking.

8:03 change of poster behind

@lauravincent6935

3 жыл бұрын

yaaaaa there's obama in the spiderman's place

I would totally vote for Charlie.

*There is a form of communication the transcends the power of words.* ~Joseph B. Wirthlin

Can you make a video on Ian McShane? There's hardly any people I can think of that can tell stories as well as him (while playing his characters at least).

Can we get Simon Sinek for speeches? Cool. Thanks!

@CharismaOnComand subtle Spider-Man poster change, I like it. Whats the story behind that?

i wish you could see, but im showing you my palms while i type this 😔😔😔

In fact, Barack Obama is an incredible speaker his voice is incredibly engaging. I appreciate your exploration through his speech. The two main points that I agree the most is the pause and be specific. Specify examples is good to show to the audience some scenarios more concretely. Although, It must be well done. I mean, If you lost your speech in the endless example the people will lose their attention, in contrast to what you expected.

@MasterTalks

3 жыл бұрын

So true Joao, thanks for sharing these thoughtful comments with us, so powerful!

Do you also have spotify podcast or do you know any similar to what you talk about

Isn't musk checking a prompter/screen near the edge of the stage?

Happy 33rd birthday Charlie!

Jas more speech reaction videos I love it

@MasterTalks

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed Anna, thanks for sharing!

Please do a video on James Spader

I have a super important oral presentation tomorrow. I'm watching this on a break

@lauravincent6935

3 жыл бұрын

best of luck

@schitflowsdwnhil

3 жыл бұрын

Good luck on your presentation!

@Tontoquienloleation

3 жыл бұрын

I think I did fine, thanks ^^

Thats the difference between a great politician and the real human being. But I admire both. They both are great in there on way.

I tend to naturally gesture alot when speaking. I'm wondering if this is a tendency I should work to minimize?

@oluwapelumithecompere

3 жыл бұрын

For as long as the gesture enhances your message, you don't need to minimise it.

🙀🙀🙀I’ve come across this video too and watched it thanks to election season coming up so what sheer coincidence there too buddy!😱😱😱

@MasterTalks

3 жыл бұрын

Haha, glad you liked it Ayad - keep learning and growing my friend.

@ayadali9112

3 жыл бұрын

MasterTalk Thanks my Desi brother. Subscribed to your KZread channel.

Illinoisan born and to this day. I was in Vegas staying at the Mandalay Bay during the 2004 convention. I waited to go out that night just to watch his speech. I remember first seeing his campaign signs shortly after 9/11, and thinking he didn't have a chance with current sentiment at the time. Then there was a shake-up with the Ryan campaign, and he was elected to US Senator. This speech was the first time I'd seen him speak, and on the national stage. I had a feeling then they might start to run him for President after I watched it, and it didn't even take till the next cycle for him to run and win. With all the FUD pushed during his election and presidency, looking back compared to the two he is sandwiched between, I sure miss him as our country's leader.

curious why you changed the Spiderman comic on the wall? .... by the way, great video

You could really do the one with Tom , Anthony and Sebastian's kind of an argument with the fans...