How to be a Good Boyfriend in 2023 - Relationship Advice for Young Men

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How can you be a good boyfriend in 2023? How have women's expectations for their partners changed?
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  • @miketacos9034
    @miketacos90344 ай бұрын

    I love how you two look at each other, it’s very sweet and loving

  • @williamkazak469
    @williamkazak4698 ай бұрын

    I cannot stop thinking about a number of utubers that I have seen struggling with and trying to understand the dynamics of relationships. Everyone wants something. We are all different. One guy in particular has created a relationship chart illustrating his findings. He explans the various and often conflicting wants and needs of couples in relationships.

  • @Gent.Z

    @Gent.Z

    8 ай бұрын

    That sounds interesting, William! Do you remember the name of the KZreadr?

  • @williamkazak469

    @williamkazak469

    8 ай бұрын

    @@Gent.Z Hoe Math.

  • @wiseonwords

    @wiseonwords

    3 ай бұрын

    @@williamkazak469 - "Hoe Math"! That name tells me all I need to know about that KZreadr!

  • @jeremiahbok9028
    @jeremiahbok90288 ай бұрын

    "We both have a touch of vanity." Lol, say it loud, say it proud. 👏

  • @theotht
    @theotht8 ай бұрын

    You would think dating apps, social media and access to talking to multiple people so easily has made dating much easier, no it hasnt not only made it worse but it has almost destroyed most hope for modern dating, so if you find a good person, stick with them unless it is absolutely bad and hurtful

  • @Gent.Z

    @Gent.Z

    8 ай бұрын

    Well, Augustina and I actually met on Tinder, so personally I think there are many advantages to modern dating! But I would love to address your concerns more in depth in another video soon

  • @TheElie79
    @TheElie793 ай бұрын

    You two look lovely. Wish you the best.

  • @folksurvival
    @folksurvivalАй бұрын

    You're a very good genetic match.

  • @escapefromnewyork9648
    @escapefromnewyork96488 ай бұрын

    2:48 whoooaaaa!

  • @teatowel11
    @teatowel118 ай бұрын

    What women expect and what constitutes being a good boyfriend are often not the same.

  • @Gent.Z

    @Gent.Z

    8 ай бұрын

    What do you believe are some of the main differences?

  • @joanofarcxxi

    @joanofarcxxi

    3 ай бұрын

    Please elaborate.

  • @jeremiahbok9028
    @jeremiahbok90288 ай бұрын

    Yay, I love longer videos, I am enjoying this so far. You both have beautiful skin, I'd definitely be down for a skincare routine video featuring both of you!

  • @Gent.Z

    @Gent.Z

    8 ай бұрын

    Thank you Jeremiah! Sure, I’d be up for that! Although I will tell you now my skincare routine is extremely simple! I only use gentle face wash and sunscreen.

  • @jeremiahbok9028

    @jeremiahbok9028

    8 ай бұрын

    @@Gent.Z Not even a moisturizer? That *is* extremely simple! Well, in any case, I'll look forward to the video, whenever you get around to it. I love that you talk a lot about being comfortable with emotions on the channel. And I didn't think that I'd be talking about this on your channel haha, but obviously, I agree giving good oral is important and that finding out what your lady likes is exciting, if you don't care about bringing your partner pleasure and if you can't find the fun in that then honestly you shouldn't be having sex. Sorry, I love how open you both are and clearly I am too! It sounds like, what with paying the bill and all, you two are a bit more into gender roles than I am, but a lot of people are look, I think men should be gentlemen and women should be gentleladies, I would just say it's a case-by-case basis, whatever makes the lady happy. Congratulations to you and Augustina on being together a year! Again, I look forward to the skincare video. Cheers.

  • @Gent.Z

    @Gent.Z

    8 ай бұрын

    Well, I started this channel as a community for young gentlemen, and I think it should be considered okay for gentlemen of our generation to discuss these topics openly, as long as it's in a respectful way! Obviously, dynamics within your relationship will change from person to person, and I think it's good to have discussions about gender roles and what your date or partner may or may not enjoy!@@jeremiahbok9028

  • @jeremiahbok9028

    @jeremiahbok9028

    8 ай бұрын

    @@Gent.Z 👏Definitely!

  • @hannahrial2820
    @hannahrial28208 ай бұрын

    Wow goals af 🥺

  • @Gent.Z

    @Gent.Z

    8 ай бұрын

    Thank you! That makes me happy

  • @teatowel11
    @teatowel118 ай бұрын

    This was great seeing you discuss from different points of view about listening. The funny thing is that you both took the gender stetiotypical view. Naturally no one will like it if you say their gender is less logical haha, she did well to address tgat without shutting down. She was trying to say how men feel the same but somehow just suppress it. You did well to push back a little. I think some women have difficulty understanding that many men sipmly do not experience the world the same way they do. Also she ran the trope that women are more at risk of violence but that is statistically not true. It is definitely true that women tend to be more anxious about safety.

  • @Gent.Z

    @Gent.Z

    8 ай бұрын

    Hi, thanks for your comment. I’m so glad my videos are creating long form intelligent discussion about these important topics. Yes, my girlfriend and I do have a lot of quite gender stereotypical elements to our relationship, especially visually. That’s what appeals to us, but we also like to have conversations about modern topics and approach these subjects with an open mind. I do believe there are many fundamental differences between men and women, and I don’t think Augustina disagrees with. I think she was making the case that lots of men suppress certain feelings and experiences which have been prescribed as more ‘feminine’. I encourage you to take a look at the crime statistics between men and women, as it is not so black and white. Men and women are both disproportionately affected by different types of horrendous crimes. Obviously, crime is not a topic for my channel, but I think our main point that we agree on is that it’s important to make your girlfriend feel safer with you than without you.

  • @initiatorhater0688
    @initiatorhater06888 ай бұрын

    its more important for men on how to be a good partner than the other way around, since the onus or burden of leadership is always on guys shoulders. It makes me mad or has long made me mad on how there is advice for women on how to attract men, since it is primarily men who attract women, not the other way around.

  • @Gent.Z

    @Gent.Z

    8 ай бұрын

    Well said. I think it is one of my more conservative beliefs that men need to take the burden and onus on themselves in creating a good experience with a woman, whether that's within dating or marriage. Sadly, I think a lot of men feel they do not need to make such efforts which has left women unhappily trying to fill that void.

  • @kenneth7826
    @kenneth78268 ай бұрын

    You 2 look great...i am an o.g....married 44 plus years...be a full time gentleman..respect her...always dress 2 the nines...peace

  • @Gent.Z

    @Gent.Z

    8 ай бұрын

    Thank you Kenneth! That’s wonderful advice, congratulations on your long and happy marriage

  • @kenneth7826

    @kenneth7826

    8 ай бұрын

    @@Gent.Z my friend..the pleasure was mine..peace

  • @isaacsello6097
    @isaacsello60978 ай бұрын

    Good episode

  • @Gent.Z

    @Gent.Z

    8 ай бұрын

    thank you Isaac!

  • @tripjj8662
    @tripjj86623 ай бұрын

    i can see why they broke up, she has too much of a masculine frame

  • @iSkyline1

    @iSkyline1

    2 ай бұрын

    Masculine frame?

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