Jazakhallahu khair for this. I am afraid of approaching any guy in real life. I have tried sending a message on online dating apps and they never replied so I never did it again 😂. May Allah bless you for this series. I am 31 and have been struggling to get married but You have helped me remember that Allah has my back.

@NafisasPearlz

Жыл бұрын

Lol. Jazaka’Allahu khairan. Allah absolutely has your back and at his appointed time, you will see it all manifest.

@livinghapilly

Жыл бұрын

Allahuma Ameen ❤️

@syedah9888

Жыл бұрын

Haha 😂 sister, I know what you mean😂

@gushardy4421

Жыл бұрын

The time to start looking for a husband is at 22 years or younger. You have to market yourself and show a man what you have to offer, NOT SEX.

@ochaiogbe1936

11 ай бұрын

It is a good thing to want to get married. But I would suggest you do not be obsessed about it. It may happen and it may never happen. I am also impressed by your honesty when you said you are afraid to approach men. Atleast, you now know what it takes a man to get to a woman. So, the next time a man tries to get close to you, you should be at least kind even if he disgusts you.

My one advise is run to Allah. Ask Allah for a good husband who will treat you good and fear Allah. Pray tahajud and never leave dua as it’s only dua which can change your fate. Do a lot of istighfar a lot of it.

@SalehRealist

Жыл бұрын

Well said

JazakAllah Khair for this video Nafisa! Alhamdulillah, I was actually the one who approached my husband because of the outstanding character I heard from his friends, family and our community. This was especially confirmed when I watched how he treated strangers/ people who had nothing to offer him. He was also interested in me but too nervous to approach me because he thought since I had a “higher education,” I would immediately reject him, Subhanallah. Ironically, a Christian friend of mine who is very familiar with our faith was actually our “middle woman!” Allah Akbar, I reflected on the story of Prophet Muhammad (SAW) and Khadijah (RA) in the beginning of our marriage and still continue to do so ❤️.

@NafisasPearlz

Жыл бұрын

Masha’Allah that is amazing. Congratulations my dear 🎉❤

@Namanda425

11 ай бұрын

@@_Humaira.h he's shy, that's why.

@nouriaarabo6352

8 ай бұрын

Sister please I want to hear your story

I'm Christian and am learning a lot from you thanks

JazakAllah for this reminder. I am a widow. I pray for someone to have the coolest of my eyes. Make dua for me and my future husband.❤

@greenbananas12378

Жыл бұрын

Making duaa for you, Ameen ♥️

Don’t go to any guy just because he looks cute😂😂 I’m still laughing. This is one of the few channels I follow on KZread that actually addresses my concerns. Jazakillahu khairan for the video. May Allah reward you abundantly Ameen.

Pls can you make a video on halal relationship. How to study someone for marriage. Tips and tricks for us young ladies. Thanks

Masha’Allah Sister love the video and reminder. I had a brother at work approach me for marriage and knew nothing about him I told him no and he keep being persistent about until I told another brother to speak to him and leave me alone, then one day a few other coworkers were riding in the shuttle car to downtown to get our buses and one of those party buses came next to us and this brother was looking at the women and making comments with another man in the vehicle about them. Alhamdulillah Allah kept me from that disaster.

@Freedom_for_Palestina

Жыл бұрын

Al-Hamdu-liLLĀH

Perfectly been stated sister بارك الله فيكِ ❤❤

Jazakallah khair, what you said makes so much sense and I think more of my sisters need to hear this

Jazak Allah for talking about this topic and I’m glad younger women have this kind of guidance I’m truly happy a muslim woman is using this platform in a productive and positive way, Allah reward you sister Ameen

Jazakillah o khair for this video. Your content is very solid. May ALLAH give you barakah in what you do. Ameen

Jazakallah khair good Explanation!!

I love this video. This really clears up my expectations as I tried to get married in this manner.

Nafiisa❤️ always bringing us back to reality❤️❤️

Today is the first day....I'm listening to your content.... already love it 💯

May Allah bless us all with spouses and offsprings with the coolness of our eyes. Ameen

We all need these kind of words yr video came always on the right time sister May Allah bless your life ❤

@NafisasPearlz

Жыл бұрын

Ameen dear. Jazaka’Allahu khairan

Sister I recently started watching your videos , I request you to keep a video on how to move on from haram relation or from someone who is not meant for you ! Please do post this video jazakallah I hope you always be happy and healthy , allah hafiz

@NafisasPearlz

Жыл бұрын

I will do insha’Allah

@fresh1023

Жыл бұрын

Needed!!!!

@Altair-El-Haddad

Жыл бұрын

No wonder why y'all need that

This video got me May Allah continue to bless you

Waleikumsalam Warahmatullah Wabarakatuh. Allahumma Ameen to your prayers, and Ameen, wa anti fi JazakiLlaah Khairan, sis ❤️

Sister Nafissa I really love you and as a 20 year old, I truly look up to you. Could you make a video on how to behave and be confident as a Muslimah. You just radiate confidence. May Allah love you and bless you and your loved ones❤

Jazzak Allah khair for your good efforts ❤❤❤❤ Very beneficial KZread channel ❤

Ma shaa Allah sister Nafisa I am one your silent subscriber as in I rather listen attentively then post anything. May Allah swt makes it easy wallahi the struggle to find a spouse is real but khair in shaa Allah 😊😊 Thank you for this beautiful reminder ❤

@NafisasPearlz

Жыл бұрын

I know how it is. May Allah come through for all who are looking 🤲🏾

جزاك الله خيرا

My sis made a video I asked for 💙

I am so happy I found your page. Thank you for the videos you post. I truly appreciate it ❤ Jazak Allah Kheir sister.

Its kinda crazy... how i was asking Allah in asr prayer today to get me married with the man i am rather interested in to be like the prophet Mohammad (PBUH) and Khatija (RA) and i come upon your video right after of the signs you met your future husband.

This subject brought so many tears to my eyes. You look beautiful. Love your subject matter it was a breath of fresh air through the tears. I thank Allah for what you share with all of us. 🌹

@MaryamAli-vd1xv

Жыл бұрын

💜

اللهم نسألك من فضلك ورحمتك انه لا يملكها الا انت.

Jazakhallahu Khair......I love your videos,so educating.♥️

Always posting amazing content... Jazakallahu khairan...🙏🏽

@NafisasPearlz

Жыл бұрын

Waiyakum

Jazakillahu khairan nafi....thank you for this wonderful videos...we really need to hear this

@NafisasPearlz

Жыл бұрын

Waiyakum

Really sister it is the best video that you've ever published - at least for me - and this does not undermine your overall work. It is just that in this specific video you are linking a religious story that we all know with the modern dating challenge. That was so inspiring. thanks a lot! Barak Allah o kheir

Great advice as always 💙 sometimes I think God willing one day I will be married and still watching your videos and using your advice

jazakallah khair for this video. May Allah SWT reward you beyond measure.

@NafisasPearlz

Жыл бұрын

Ameen

Thank you jazak allah kheir

Thank you sister for reminding us of the right way to approach someone for marriage. I have not seen or met my Mr. Right yet… I was about to give up on marriage or marrying anyone in particular but it seems like I just haven’t met him yet. Thanks for reminding me that we have the right to refuse an proposal. I was shamed by the guy because I refused his proposal. I didn’t know who he was or how he looked like. He started spreading rumors about me and one of the community members called and yelled at me.. basically lecturing me for refusing him. I only ask he approaches my brother because I know nothing about him.

I needed this alhamdulilah

Very beneficial! Pls also make videos on productivity and uncertainity in imaan

@salifoubarmoudjabir1297

Жыл бұрын

Hello

I love you for the sake of Allah, sister❤ In sha allah we'll meet in jannah and get to talk.

@NafisasPearlz

Жыл бұрын

May Allah whose sake you love me, love you. 🙏🏾

Masha Allah Nafisa it was very well explained. May Allah bless you and your family and increase you in wealth and knwledge and happiness always 😊

@NafisasPearlz

Жыл бұрын

Ameen and may Allah grant you the same 😊

@ISLAMMYCHOICE3451

Жыл бұрын

@@NafisasPearlz how can i connect with you on instagram

jazakallahu khair !!..

u are so awesome!!!love you!!!

Thank you, I wish I had a sister like you.

really helpful video. jazakh allah khair

@NafisasPearlz

Жыл бұрын

Waiyakum ❤

You are an amazing speaker❤

@NafisasPearlz

Жыл бұрын

Jazaka’Allahu khairan

SubhanaAllah!!!!!!! Sis awww this was very powerful very beneficial so Thankful to Allah for Allowing you to share such beautiful beneficial knowledge videos Ma shaa Allah TabarakAllah 🤲🏾🤲🏾🫶🏾❤️ and you look sooo beautiful in your colors Ma shaa Allah ❤️🌹🌸

@NafisasPearlz

Жыл бұрын

Thank you dear. May Allah make it easier for all.

@nadirajames4267

Жыл бұрын

@@NafisasPearlz Aameen!!!! 🤲🏾🤲🏾 you’re very welcome 🫶🏾

آمين وإياكم. وعليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته 💚❤

Assalamu Alaikum Sister Many respect to you. I really needed this. Thank you very much. I've been struggling for 3 years. Alhamdulillah

Thank you nafisah for this video, however this is a thing I wouldn't recommend to girls to do especially in our Time unfortunately, where there's a lot of playful guys that are far from the values of our prophet SAWS even if they may seem righteous. Let's just focus on ourselves and on maintaining a good relationship with ALLAH, and keep asking him for the right partner and inchallah he will answer in the right time.

May Allah swt reward you sister

@NafisasPearlz

Жыл бұрын

Ameen. May Allah reward you too

I’m crying and listening to the story 😥😢😢❤️❤️❤️❤️

Assalamu alaikum sister...i just love you for the sake of Allah...and even if it would have been without i would hve love for you ..May Allah bless u always and your family too...i don't hve friends much...but i think u will maje a good example for friends...i love your content all uour video...cause girl you are spreading some good message here and its the truth 😅...keep it coming sis...this is what we want...take care u n your family and may Allah bless u with good health ..Ameen

Hi sister! Thank you once again for thr amazing video. Would it be possible for an advice video regarding women who have no wali (no father, brother, uncle, male relative etc) or female relatives? Imagine, a man is interested in such a woman but how should he and her go about courtship given there is no one to seek permission from? I know an imam/sheik should take the wali's place but you know, the process is quite confusin and it's a topic not really spoken about. Thanks once again and may Allah bless you for sharing this wonderful info.

@NafisasPearlz

Жыл бұрын

I will consider your suggestion insha’Allah. Jazaka’Allahu khairan my dear.

@not_mybrother7705

Жыл бұрын

I am in the same position. From some of the previous videos there is a list I was able to put together to tow the line. But I have not put this in practise yet. I am worried that I may come across as stone faced or like I would be the decision maker etc. I think the point of marital education agreed to be undertaken before and during marriage from both people would be reassuring and help in situations but to not be a chaser without a wali seems like describing two opposite things.

Masha'Allah 🌹❤

While I understand the premise of this talk, I will want to point out that even if Khadijat (RA) had had the marriage proposal directly with The prophet (S.A.W.), it wouldn't diminish or reduce her hayya, as you pointed out, it all depends on the approach. I would also add that women of the present era can also do the same with hayya. My reasoning is that this present world is complex, and people can be distrustful. A true friend, or a member you know can make the proposal for you, but when you are left with no one, I think the woman/lady can do the approaching, and if the man said no, Alhamdulillah, at least you know, and didn't leave it to chances, or whatnot. I mean, you have to analyze your situation, and if you are surrounded by genuine people who can do the talking for you, of course, but if you don't have the luxury of genuine people around you, I beg that you go ahead. And one last thing, while watching your video, I read on an Islamic page, that a woman can make a proposal to a righteous man (though not necessarily advice, but pointing out that situations can be different that allows, or it is in the best interest of the woman to make her proposal). And didn't Mariam (a lady from Egypt have one child, Ibrahim, for the prophet (PBUH). I learned this from Dr. Haifa Younis' Ramadan series. Jazakallah Khaira for the video 😊💖

@__hannahbanana

Жыл бұрын

This comment is gold ❤

Masha allah may allah bless you my sister good job

@Freedom_for_Palestina

Жыл бұрын

ALLĀH.capitalize the letters

@Freedom_for_Palestina

Жыл бұрын

امين يا الله

ThankYou

Thank you ma, but it so difficult to do such in this generation, some of us are afraid of the future they will hold it against you😢

Jazakallah kahor so much sister nafisa. ❤️❤️❤️@nafisapearls. I can't describe in words to u that how ur videos did helped me in my lowest days of my life. As a 34 yrs single lady very easy to go into haram relationship or do major sins easily sometimes even though as aMuslim but it's only Allah swt who protects u from every sin.. SubhanAllah.. But I guarantee everyone who sticks to Allahs path even in difficult times.. Allah swt will definitely gives them gifts jn this Dunya or hereafter.. I experienced it personally.. 😍❤️😘

It’s me watching knowing I’m a revert and no where close to ready to get married 😭✋🏽

@NafisasPearlz

Жыл бұрын

That’s ok sis. It is better to be well informed so when the time comes, you are equipped to make the best decision insha’Allah.

@ummumami

Жыл бұрын

meeeeee 😂😂😂🥂💕

Masha’Allah sis! khadjia r.a gave birth to all of his kids with exception of one Ibrahim who was given birth to by Maria r.a

Have you made a video on the topic of online dating? The reality is that the majority of Muslims in the States (at least) have been using it, myself included. Even if one is outgoing, goes to events, meets people, goes to the masjid, etc, it seems like people don’t approach anymore regarding marriage.

@buzzbee42

7 ай бұрын

Yes that’s so true. And I do t k ow then how to approach a good proposal/ spouse. I am so confused. I am in lower 30’s and people are already judged me. Yes that’s true I don’t know how to use these dating apps and talk with random guys on the app so I deleted it.

Your content is really interesting ❤ jazzakallahu khairan❤

Hi sister Nafissa, I love you videos and they are so helpful alhamdulillah. Can you please make a video on how you should be investigating back home with your husband like the does and dont’s. Because I hear a lot of stories where the husband deceived wives and just used them. And me and my husband are planning on investigating money back home (Africa) but I have a lot of anxiety and I am afraid that he will just use me and after we are done he will leave me.

@gushardy4421

Жыл бұрын

Why are you with a man you don't trust?

Asaalmu alaikum sister! I love your videos jazak allah khayran for sharing your wisdom. However I have a question regarding this video about taking Khadija's case for asking a man out with an intermediate. I believe it was before islmic ruling were revealed, so is it really recommended to follow her footsteps in our shareea ?

Sister that pink looks beautiful on you I enjoy your content. I am a elder who is learning about what it really takes to be a suitable Muslim ☪️ wife and how to keep a marriage healthy

This is so unrelated but pink is your color sis ❤

Ameen 🙏🏾🙏🏾

If you approach someone with dignity and that someone has no dignity then it is not a good situation

I can pretty much recite your intro I watch your videos that much 😂

Aameen

Jazakumullahu khairan sister🥹💙 I have known a man for a while who is Alhamdullellah who I always wanted my husband to be, but the thing is he doesn’t know me yet in person, so I was doubting for 2 weeks long if I’d message him and introducing myself and slowly discuss the idea of marriage but I absolutely couldn’t push myself to do it. Something was holding me back and now by listening to you I think it was my hayaa (InshaaAllah) so I’m still looking for a better and more modest way to approach the man InshaaAllah. Please make dua for me and all the other sisters so Allah swt makes the path easy for us. Jazakumullahu khairan again, may Allah swt grant you and your loved ones jannatul firdaws for your precious advices…Ameen🤲✨

@nouriaarabo6352

8 ай бұрын

May Allah make it easy for you sister And may he grant you the man you love as husband in this dunya and the hereafter if it’s khayr Please if you don’t mind would you like to share the result of your proposal? JazakAllah khayr😊

@tabassom.

8 ай бұрын

@@nouriaarabo6352 Ameen ameen, jazakumullahu khairan sis 🫂 well, he is acting quite famous and busy, so I haven’t received any reaction yet… May Allah swt make a way for me if it’s in my khair🤲✨

I watched on time 😂thank you

I am 34 yet single I am a dentist and for my eye treatment a Dr he is v. Reserved respectful and while checkup on book reading he told me he had bad incident in past he only focus on work and stay away from emotion as he had been divorce. I observed and enquire he is a dignified man 7yrs older to me we both are Indian in gulf since my father has passed away, my mom is old and sick brother is mentally sick n my 2 sisters already married. I want to approach him if he Wana make nikah with me, but I am shy to approach directly. May Allah give me strength to approach him for a pious reason in dignified way

I'm Muslim

Ameen 🤲🏻❤😢 😊

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته dear what if I can’t find anyone to be in between ?

Nafisa, i need your advice, please. I have seen a Clergyman 5 days and i liked his voice when he read Quran he is also religious man. How do i approach him if i have no one to go between us?

In today's time , family interfere alot , if a man is good in qualities and girl and boy both like each other as well then some relatives come and speak false about that man by saying that he has no good home , he has this habit , his past was like this etc etc and parents really listen to them without thinking about how much good qualities he has , he can make your daughter happy by loving and caring her but those qualities are neglected ... There are alot of people who prefer money over qualities but again to all my friends who are worried about obstacles , always remember IF it's meant for you, it will come to YOU 💖 no matter how much obstacles will come , it will HAPPEN... Im 25 years old girl but I really have blind faith that Allah has something special for me and it will happen InshaAllah ♥️

@thatgirlcamillatravel6393

Жыл бұрын

Your comment moved me. I'm sure you'll get what you're looking for when the time is right.

@ees5640

Жыл бұрын

@@thatgirlcamillatravel6393 Ameen SumAmeen ❤️ thank you sooo much my sister and same dua for you .. may Allah bless you and your family Ameen 💖💖💖

@mohamedunisakamara5988

Жыл бұрын

Yeah absolutely you have a good point there 👍

what if the guy doesnt come for proposal like prophet saw did?

Salamunalaikum what do you think about muslim matrimonial sites?anyone has experience?

Assalamualaikum 🙏🇮🇩

What if there is no one to speak on her behalf! Is there any restrictions in Islam that woman can't approach directly to the man she wants to marry!?

As Salaam Alaikum Sis can you do a video on how to handle non believing mother with schizophrenia very belittling and negative

@fatimazahrah3995

Жыл бұрын

May Allah swt make it easier for you

What if I’m in love with a married man? How do I suggest to be his second wife? And nope I’m not in love with a married man. I’m just asking out of curiosity.

Today night iam going by

❤❤❤❤

Sister nafeesa What is the most halal way to get to know each other before marriage ? Is it okay to use a friend of me to talk the men whom I’m interested in ?

@khanhamid3744

Жыл бұрын

Use a brother

Please make videos on how to approach a man when you dont have a good friend but you dont want to miss the oppurtunity to ask him if he could consider you for marriage. Involving a wali can be considered after the decision

@gushardy4421

Жыл бұрын

We all test the waters. Once you make the appearance, a simple ARE YOU MARRIED? ARE YOU LOOKING FOR A WIFE? These questions can lead to deeper conversations.

Asalamu alaikom wa rahmtullah I'm looking for sister in low I have two brother's one age 30 and one is 28 they are nice human beings, educated ,and sincere men One lives in France and one in Afghanistan We are looking for good women from any region My brother's are not reach with wealth but they are rich with mind ❤❤❤

What is the evidence that Khadijah could read and write?

What are these amazing qualities of the Prophet you keep mentioning in the video, besides being young?

Sis help me, I like a guy a lot WHAT DO I DO????? We are students and graduate in a few years.. I met him in a Nigerian friends group. What the eff do I do, ask his future plans and if they match mine then confess?? That's the best I can think of. But idk if through text or ask him to meet in person? Or in another group hangout whenever that happens? Cuz we've only met in group hangouts twice. But from what I've gathered so far he fits the best husband profile any man in my life has. And I wanna get a chance with him but in the halal way. I don't wanna fuk around in life

@SharkRockstar

28 күн бұрын

I wanna make the most effective and highest potential decision, and the problem is that we still have years until we can get married so do I just put a leash on my heart and let it find more options or should I confess to him and save him for that time if he is mutual? I'm so confused..

What about the verse in Quran about beating your wife?

As a Christian lady what are the chances of me attracting a Muslim man?

@Altair-El-Haddad

Жыл бұрын

If you're chaste then it'll be easy.

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

how do you approach a guy with hayah if you are on a muslim dating app? dating apps are on the rise in the west.

I loke a boy,,,but i cant approach him directly,and dont have anybody trusty that who can approach....can i msg him directly,that i like u for sake of Allah,and want to marry u?????guide me plx