How things changed

Our family is growing and we have learnt so much about each other as individuals in our marriage and as parents. Together with our children, we have created wonderful memories, rituals and traditions that are unique to our family. It's been beautiful and it has been a rocky transition of self to integrate into the sum of parts. Cozy up and tune in as we discuss some of the things we have learnt and what makes us who we are over a cuppa and @bakersbiscuits

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  • @biancasenyarelo8169
    @biancasenyarelo8169 Жыл бұрын

    One thing I love about this couple, is how they use their marriage and family to glorify the kingdom of God. What a beautiful family.

  • @thabisomolokomme
    @thabisomolokomme Жыл бұрын

    The day I get into a relationship, trust me I’ll be the best boyfriend in the world and that’s because of the personal work I’ve done and became aware of because of this channel

  • @redeemablesoul
    @redeemablesoul Жыл бұрын

    Brendon is so wise. Mpoomy is so wholesome i learn alot from these two.

  • @kiwigirl359
    @kiwigirl359 Жыл бұрын

    Yay the convos with Mr and Mrs Ledwaba are back 🎉🎉❤

  • @Anele_Gcabashe
    @Anele_Gcabashe Жыл бұрын

    I didn’t realise how I miss our love journey until I listened to this 🥺❤️

  • @leratotika892

    @leratotika892

    Жыл бұрын

    I felt the same way listening to this conversation

  • @NobleCare

    @NobleCare

    11 ай бұрын

    😭😭😭💀💔me too. I feel robbed even lol

  • @sangienombembe7035
    @sangienombembe7035 Жыл бұрын

    One thing about Mpoomy, you will never walk away from listening to what she has to say empty handed. You come heavy hearted and walk away with something that will carry you and empower you to want to become a better version of yourself. I appreciate the time you gift us with and share with us ❤

  • @lifewithmissmolly9771
    @lifewithmissmolly9771 Жыл бұрын

    One thing that stood out for me is that having a spiritual identity givies you a great sense of identity and being secure ❤❤

  • @sekao_fiona4190
    @sekao_fiona4190 Жыл бұрын

    When Brenden said ‘you wake up super early’ I immediately thought of Proverbs 31:15 (NIV). And Brenden is soo wise- we missed you on our screens. Thoroughly enjoyed this conversation😊 God bless you 🫶🏿

  • @tebatsomajane5430
    @tebatsomajane5430 Жыл бұрын

    Really love conversations with Brenden. He is wise and we share the same sentiments. Good talk ✨👏🏾

  • @tebogomolefe
    @tebogomolefe Жыл бұрын

    "Having a hobby outside of reality" ❤

  • @NNV103
    @NNV103 Жыл бұрын

    Mrs Ledwaba u are blessed-your husband has innate WISDOM!!! Thank you for bringing him to the channel 🙏🏽

  • @AyisheMolefe
    @AyisheMolefe Жыл бұрын

    Hey Mpoomy, I think what can help with the language this is something my parent's did for us when we were little. When they are more acquainted with Brendon's home language you could choose a day of the week where only that language is spoken. So similar to what people do when transitioning to a plant based diet ( Meat Free Mondays), you could have a day where there's no english. It would probably be a challenge at first but with time I'm sure the kids would get the hang of speaking and thinking in that language. Also, books will definitely help so it could be on days when you've chosen to stay in and read with the kids.

  • @MpoomyLedwaba

    @MpoomyLedwaba

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for sharing, we will consider that

  • @paballobutelezi5532

    @paballobutelezi5532

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing, I am also in the same boat as I speak Sesotho, indoda speaks Afrikaans and we taught children that we speak English in our home, so now we staying in Cape Town and my son is exposed to Isixhosa at school and it's a 3rd additional language. Language issue is a real thing 😂

  • @anesusara4794

    @anesusara4794

    Жыл бұрын

    Taking the advice for my family too.... thank you for sharing

  • @ntombyi

    @ntombyi

    Жыл бұрын

    True this, my kids' Nguni is definitely improving since we kind of enforced this method to them. Immediately when they get in the car from school, we speak Zulu n Xhosa, which has helped a lot. Yes bayabheda n funny how they speak it but the muscle is developing 😂

  • @mbalenhlemiyen5139

    @mbalenhlemiyen5139

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank u also try this,I'm Zulu and Hubby is Tsonga so we have been speaking English for 12 years and I'm in the process of teaching my daughter's Zulu

  • @lindomhlungu8158
    @lindomhlungu8158 Жыл бұрын

    Loved this so much. I'm walking away with: 1.Having a family project 2. Have a meal at the table 3. Take walks together. Thank you.❤

  • @missp1730
    @missp1730 Жыл бұрын

    Funza Lushaka teaching bursary now covers for teachers who wanna do art!!! Yaaayyy

  • @lesh1986
    @lesh1986 Жыл бұрын

    I wish I could take a long conversation like this with my husband without him feeling intimidated by a smart woman

  • @LethoHali

    @LethoHali

    Жыл бұрын

    😂

  • @nazikay1340

    @nazikay1340

    Жыл бұрын

    Bangbora when they expect to be above on everything 😢Mpoomy is lucky

  • @thulzm416

    @thulzm416

    Жыл бұрын

    if he you think he feels intimidated, then unfortunately you married the wrong person, because it means every time you're with him, then you have to numb yourself down to be a person you're not, and that's not a healthy marriage

  • @lesh1986

    @lesh1986

    Жыл бұрын

    @@nazikay1340 Mpoomy is lucky,most men dont come to a point where Bredon is and it doesnt mean they are not good men.its a lot to handle an opinionated smart woman.I really applaud him.i also applaud Mpoomi,she knows how to communicate with her husband,not overpowering him.love it

  • @tshegotams4546

    @tshegotams4546

    Жыл бұрын

    Are you sure it’s about being a smart woman

  • @LeeSerage
    @LeeSerage Жыл бұрын

    Brenden articulates himself so well. He doesn’t say a lot but you hear him loud and clear. 🤌🏽

  • @tumierasmus
    @tumierasmus Жыл бұрын

    So many gems in this episode! Thank you! I absolutely love the conversations between you two 😊

  • @thulimazibuko2600
    @thulimazibuko2600 Жыл бұрын

    Yay! I love these podcasts by you two ❤ keep them coming please 🎉

  • @ntaolengtsotetsi9771
    @ntaolengtsotetsi9771 Жыл бұрын

    We love some Brenden wisdom, I'm glad he is back .

  • @connieramontsho7022
    @connieramontsho7022 Жыл бұрын

    You are an amazing couple! The fact that you hold such deep conversations show how compatible you are and how whole you are as individuals

  • @taunyanedicksonramajoe5467
    @taunyanedicksonramajoe5467 Жыл бұрын

    Love this couple full of life and respect for each other.❤❤❤

  • @Auctavia
    @Auctavia Жыл бұрын

    I love how each of you compliment one another's personalities.

  • @MakgotsoMammeshi
    @MakgotsoMammeshi Жыл бұрын

    I love listening to you guys have these types of conversations. They just mean so much to me and open my mind to a different way of thinking /being and the messages stay with me for a long time. How awesome is it to have such beautiful, wise teachers. Thank you. ❤

  • @zaneleluhabe8863
    @zaneleluhabe8863 Жыл бұрын

    Brilliant ❤❤heartwarming conversations Blessings 🙌

  • @Sam-jg7jn
    @Sam-jg7jn Жыл бұрын

    Love love this. Especially having one meal together. God bless you.

  • @finance-talk
    @finance-talk Жыл бұрын

    The two of you together= ease and beautiful conversations. I never get tired or bored of listening

  • @aphiwetshiki4934
    @aphiwetshiki4934 Жыл бұрын

    Enjoyed this conversation You guys are both amazing sooo much wisdom❤❤

  • @unathisamulela4245
    @unathisamulela4245 Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely gorgeous work, love you.

  • @tinotendamakova5563
    @tinotendamakova5563 Жыл бұрын

    I love you guys❤, you have helped me so much in my personal life. I’m even a better partner ❤️. May God bless your work guys and I mean it from my heart

  • @zandilembatha1297
    @zandilembatha1297 Жыл бұрын

    Beautiful conversation. Much needed to keep family together ❤❤❤and with vision and goals.

  • @hombakazisibhayi6515
    @hombakazisibhayi6515 Жыл бұрын

    I enjoyed this conversation so much. I love the part about having hobbies or activities that you do together especially outside work. I have observed that with my family (Mom and siblings), as much as we grew up not exposed to certain things, we are slowly learning new things together, trying out activities together and our bond has grown so much.

  • @mufaromumbanyangari
    @mufaromumbanyangari Жыл бұрын

    My faves💛💛, such a wholesome conversation full of so much wisdom.

  • @ericamwabulambo4517
    @ericamwabulambo4517 Жыл бұрын

    Always Authentic and Amazing ❤

  • @ayandamavuso5285
    @ayandamavuso5285 Жыл бұрын

    first time mommy and excited to have cultures and traditions implemented in my small family. Great conversation

  • @faithnomfundo9861
    @faithnomfundo9861 Жыл бұрын

    Beautiful 🎉🎉was so glued to this conversation

  • @nicolletnyoni4371
    @nicolletnyoni4371 Жыл бұрын

    We missed these conversations. Loved it. Family traditions are very important.

  • @naledimotloung6458
    @naledimotloung6458 Жыл бұрын

    Thoroughly enjoyed the diverse views❤. Great conversation as always Mr & Mrs L

  • @bornofgod2837
    @bornofgod283711 ай бұрын

    You guys are doing so tremendously things....I just love you❤❤❤

  • @nothandomthupha4745
    @nothandomthupha4745 Жыл бұрын

    It's so heart warming to see young people who are so self aware and are intentional about communication. I'm older than them but its only now where im finding myself and realizing all the toxicity i allowed and also put others through

  • @kemo_d
    @kemo_d Жыл бұрын

    High quality conversation 👌🏾. Thoroughly indulged & enjoyed. I am fully informed 👍🏽

  • @thandekangwenya1869
    @thandekangwenya1869 Жыл бұрын

    You are always so exceptional, I totally enjoyed. I love you sooo much ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @tshenolomasilela6360
    @tshenolomasilela6360 Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely loved this conversation! Made me see things in a different light 💡 and really do some deep thinking

  • @foodworld8540
    @foodworld8540 Жыл бұрын

    Good to see you beautiful couple may God continue to bind you together

  • @sindimalindzisa5432
    @sindimalindzisa5432 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for these videos, always learning a lot from them ❤

  • @sibesomukata
    @sibesomukata Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much. You are all power packed couple. I like your uniqueness and how you express yourself very great. Thank for being an inspiration to this generation be blessed always

  • @Laughs_and_Harmony
    @Laughs_and_Harmony Жыл бұрын

    I love what Brenden said about language. It hit home for me.

  • @khathutshelonetshipale844
    @khathutshelonetshipale844 Жыл бұрын

    My fav💃thank you for this episode

  • @enyo3877
    @enyo3877 Жыл бұрын

    I absolutely loved this conversation!

  • @sibahlem2829
    @sibahlem2829 Жыл бұрын

    😍😍😍🥺😭🙉 Screamiiiing! I love tennis and rusks as well... Love this. Definitely getting this. ❤ Beautiful conversation as per usual

  • @Cousin_Bee
    @Cousin_Bee Жыл бұрын

    I love how both of you guys listen and actually hear each other's views. It's not just passive❤️❤️

  • @rendanimdluli2687
    @rendanimdluli2687 Жыл бұрын

    Always always love your conversation guys, ❤❤ thank you for the reminders, I have tried to keep bedtime stories for my kids which they have grown to love it. Will definitely try having dinner at a table as I believe it’s never too late to start a tradition. ❤

  • @simangelemakhunga8724
    @simangelemakhunga8724 Жыл бұрын

    Wow totally loved,learnt a lot &enjoyed this so much❤️

  • @noxxiekheswa8273
    @noxxiekheswa8273 Жыл бұрын

    Always so great seeing the 2 of u..always so impactful and real..love it!🎉

  • @cassandrabongoza8541
    @cassandrabongoza8541 Жыл бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤ enjoyed the conversation. Thank you 🙏🏽

  • @tebogolegodi1174
    @tebogolegodi1174 Жыл бұрын

    Doing nothing and being bored is my favourite thing to do!! The best ideas and gems come to mind when I am busy doing nothing

  • @nwabisamatiyela3442
    @nwabisamatiyela3442 Жыл бұрын

    I relate to what Brenden said about being a passenger in your own life

  • @siba92

    @siba92

    Жыл бұрын

    This is exactly how I'm feeling right now... Im so out of touch with my own life. 😑

  • @eyethumfazwe

    @eyethumfazwe

    11 ай бұрын

    ​@@siba92 I feel the same way, especially staying at home in your late twenties 😩 I'm trusting God though through it all. I'll be praying for you

  • @JustLucyBrown
    @JustLucyBrown Жыл бұрын

    I legit enjoyed this conversation soo much. You guys are doing great with the kids man,big ups guys

  • @mrmanq9517
    @mrmanq9517 Жыл бұрын

    This level of maturity and level headedness and having traditions🙌

  • @sisterzee5541
    @sisterzee5541 Жыл бұрын

    I looooove you guys. You are the ultimate power couple. I love how realistic you are and how you will have different perspectives yet you are able to intergrate them in a way that they become one view 🥰 Absolutely LOVE it! May this love continue to grow and abound and stay forever❤

  • @fundiswathomas6941
    @fundiswathomas6941 Жыл бұрын

    I have been relistening to the old videos, I guess we really missed him. I am always learning from you guys, lol and I’ve been relearning from the old ones also. Love and light to him, hope he gets his groove back. I appreciate and love you guys🙏🏾🫶🏾

  • @buhlendinisa3741
    @buhlendinisa3741 Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely loved the conversation, I definitely took some notes! Can we have more of these👌🏿👍🏿

  • @nondumisomabaso1578
    @nondumisomabaso1578 Жыл бұрын

    I love all the content on this channel♥️ but my favorite is definitely the sit downs with you and Brendon. The conversations are always so relatable.

  • @Lelo_Mahlaba
    @Lelo_Mahlaba Жыл бұрын

    I absolutely love love these kind of conversations. My fiance and I have found ourselves having to literally sit down and openly talk about things we thought were "normal" growing up and make a decision to not carry them into our marriage and household. Your point about spirituality is key for me as well. A family needs to know their stronghold cause that just gives fruit to every other aspect of life. I enjoyed this one, thanks guys!

  • @nnakaralebipi
    @nnakaralebipi Жыл бұрын

    Listen! So happy to see your hubby on the channel🎉

  • @Blessing_K
    @Blessing_K Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely loved this !!!!!❤)❤❤❤

  • @khanyacewu
    @khanyacewu Жыл бұрын

    Better together, love you two fam ❤🙏

  • @Safespace207
    @Safespace207 Жыл бұрын

    We love you guys❤amazing work

  • @noziphonyawo7833
    @noziphonyawo7833 Жыл бұрын

    Quite an informative conversation, definitely took some notes. Great seeing you guys & taking some time out of your busy schedules to talk to us is really appreciated 🙏🏾

  • @PheladiNewman
    @PheladiNewman Жыл бұрын

    "Not everything has to be attached to a goal, success, or achievement". I like that. Just be and breathe. Take a break and allow yourself to be bored.

  • @thatolekitla5488
    @thatolekitla5488 Жыл бұрын

    Love you guys, thank you for the conversation 😘

  • @karabonqubuka228
    @karabonqubuka228 Жыл бұрын

    These convos are my faves 🎉❤

  • @laurreinmaritz9142
    @laurreinmaritz9142 Жыл бұрын

    No everything has to be attached to a goal or future! ❤ What a beautiful conversation 🙏🏽 So much to learn 🙌

  • @khethiwengubo8035
    @khethiwengubo8035 Жыл бұрын

    Got to be my fav episode... Maybe because am a family person...but I loved this episode... Well done guys

  • @keneiloemyoli
    @keneiloemyoli Жыл бұрын

    I would also like my kids to visit family. That's how I grew up as well. Every weekend and every school holidays I would visit relatives and that's where I made alot of my friends even.

  • @lindomashego9472
    @lindomashego9472 Жыл бұрын

    🎉💃💃💃im so happy guys i was missing this seeing you together ❤❤

  • @mookholetsie1090
    @mookholetsie1090 Жыл бұрын

    I love seeing this conversations and the asking the pressing questions to each other❤

  • @nontobekompofu7194
    @nontobekompofu7194 Жыл бұрын

    Its always just so refreshing listening to you guys❤❤

  • @mbalim6018
    @mbalim6018 Жыл бұрын

    Such a wise and powerful couple. May God continue to bless your union ❤ #LoveLivesHere #HealthyMarriage #Wisdom

  • @itumelengg5814
    @itumelengg5814 Жыл бұрын

    This was so fruitful 🥹 Brenden needs to be behind the camera more often, i didn’t realize how much I missed listening to the tow of you until this video. Thank you for your wisdom, may God continue to bless you abundantly as you bless us with your wisdom and content 😊🤍

  • @ameliamarthalekhuwane861
    @ameliamarthalekhuwane861 Жыл бұрын

    ❤❤love you guys. This was so important.😍

  • @khethiwengubo8035
    @khethiwengubo8035 Жыл бұрын

    I love this - Mpoomy I totally in agreement with you... our kids need to learn to speak/learn our language... Love the topic

  • @sadimashiane7458
    @sadimashiane7458 Жыл бұрын

    The wisdom Brendan oozes wow and ofcoz Mpoomy the best gifted . Literally you are Wisdom & Knowledge ( Vutlharhi & Vutivi- my kids names ) I love you guys

  • @oreditsegobinca2422
    @oreditsegobinca2422 Жыл бұрын

    Arg love you guys ❤ just got teary now listening to you guys. Don’t know why but there’s just something about you two TOGETHER 🥰

  • @lesegonthaudi8604
    @lesegonthaudi8604 Жыл бұрын

    Couple that i looked up to, thank you very much..am learning alot from you guys❤

  • @seh1759
    @seh1759 Жыл бұрын

    The natural beauty of the convo & in audible fire sounds on a background 👌

  • @khethiwethayi4176
    @khethiwethayi4176 Жыл бұрын

    Listen ❤❤❤I missed you guys sharing like this

  • @SibuleleTafeni
    @SibuleleTafeni Жыл бұрын

    ❤thanks Ledwaba family. This is just beautiful

  • @nolwazindwandwe_123
    @nolwazindwandwe_123 Жыл бұрын

    I missed this... I'm about to listen will share my thoughts later....

  • @tivamilemasilela3963
    @tivamilemasilela3963 Жыл бұрын

    Seeing this combination makes me smile and my heart jumps ❤️❤️😭❤️❤️❤️

  • @dadaidzvairo9198
    @dadaidzvairo9198 Жыл бұрын

    Indeed there is a pride that comes with speaking your language,,proud Shona

  • @lizzypekane1447
    @lizzypekane1447 Жыл бұрын

    FINALLY an episode with Brendan - I love you guys together so much. Please can we get more of this!

  • @SuzetteKhiba
    @SuzetteKhiba Жыл бұрын

    I enjoyed watching this so much. Love from Namibia 🇳🇦 ❤️

  • @ThobileZulu23
    @ThobileZulu23 Жыл бұрын

    I love the conversations between you two ❤

  • @NduwaMukaba
    @NduwaMukaba Жыл бұрын

    Never a dull moment with you two! First of all you were both deeply missed and I am glad Mrs moms mentioned how you guys are in a different season! Which most of us try and hold instead of embracing every season of your/our lives without judgment or guilt! This conversation was very informative and reminded me of the book the light we carry by Michelle Obama when she mentioned how her mother's mother had a family tradition where they'd always come to the glass table together during meals but however the kids weren't allowed to speak a single word! And how exciting Michelle's mom felt when the table was broken! And I took perception from it when Brenden mentioned how important it is to have a family tradition of having meals together as a family on one table! A table of freedom, authenticity,love, healthiness and ofcourse catch ups which most of us didn't have coz that table was just meant for food only and no single conversation! This installment made me revisit my childhood too and how I'd want to unlearn certain things and create a healthy environment for my family! Thanks you guys❤️. Lots of Love!

  • @mphomolapo6417
    @mphomolapo6417 Жыл бұрын

    I love listening to you guys 😊

  • @nomsa06
    @nomsa06 Жыл бұрын

    Just the other day I was I hoping for one of these and look, won’t God do it 😮🎉❤. A Mpoomy and Brendan conversation is always fascinating 🔥.

  • @MathiBhengu
    @MathiBhengu Жыл бұрын

    You guys are one of my favourite couple. You are such beautiful human beings and I love your authenticity, your love for God, each other and your family ❤️

  • @keedisaletsendala4583
    @keedisaletsendala4583 Жыл бұрын

    OOOH man i enjoyed this episode so much you guys arae amazing

  • @nandembuke1836
    @nandembuke1836 Жыл бұрын

    Brendon is really a head.. soo much wisdom!

  • @kearabilwesegotso8099
    @kearabilwesegotso8099 Жыл бұрын

    I really felt a lot inclined 2 wat Brandon spoke about allowing kids to play also not restricting them. With a bigger goal of allowing them to be disciplined or rather disciplining themselves. Weirdly it resonates with me & I didn't think there's sm1 else who has the same belief. I like u guys💝