One of my favorite phrases: If you're good at something, you tell others. If you're great, they tell you.

@jonathasfgoncalves1572

4 жыл бұрын

Damn, I will write that down

@vawnhumphrey-wilson2346

4 жыл бұрын

Facts

@joachimoyalegan6573

4 жыл бұрын

I like this

@theofficialpollo

4 жыл бұрын

I suck at personal stuff I want to do, but I realized I'm decent at school, because that's my first priority. It's not that I'm smarter, but people sees it like that, I'd say I'm just dedicated to it. I have high grades, so people always wants to work with me, and sometimes recieve compliments. Never pretended or bragged about being good, or told I was gonna do well. Let's keep it this way. Hope my comment didn't sound bad

@J90JAM

4 жыл бұрын

OK that's an awesome one.

Not only the bragging part of it, but I've noticed from my own experience that if I want to do something and tell someone, there's a good chance I won't do it because telling someone makes me feel like half the job is done.

@Tre3141

5 жыл бұрын

Right? And the worst part is that you get into a spiral of not doing what you actually want or need. You just get addicted to the feeling of being validated so you do what you think others find impressive instead of making a difference in your life. It is like Dale Carnegie, but you are the tragic mediocre person always looking to boost your ego, who is so easy to manipulate because you are wanting the praise of others more than anything else. God I can see why I failed so much this year, can you believe it, I fantasized about success more with how others would respect me than with how my life would be more enjoyable.

@DamjanManevski

5 жыл бұрын

@@Tre3141 Well I mean the important thing is you've become aware of it man. You can't change what you don't acknowledge. And of course, consciously or subconsciously, some part of us is always going to yearn the approval of others because we are sociable creatures by nature. I hope you define your own success and make it man, all the best!

@Tre3141

5 жыл бұрын

@@DamjanManevski Thanks, Yeah, I am realizing lately that I find no joy in the things that used to mean success to me. Basically I have no outcome or end that excites me, an existential crisis? Anyways my parents are pushing me to go to college and start the 9-5 career, but in reality I suck at that life and hate it. I think approval from others is a coping mechanism, even if we don't like ourselves we can deal with it if others approve. The problem is that literally no one cares about my goals, aspirations or dreams a tenth as much as I should, so leaning on others to measure my success is always going to lead to negative feedback, they don't care. Like he said, be secretly a badass and if recognition comes take it, but don't fake it or you loose all respect for yourself and from others.

@sherlockholmes110

5 жыл бұрын

I'm smart. I tell my friends I'll procastinate the thing on the next day, and suddenly I start doing it now instead.

@danielschwegler5220

5 жыл бұрын

@@Tre3141 You just don't fanzy for a particular profession. No problem, get your college done and it will come later.

“Speaking before doing is useless. Otherwise, you are just seeking validation for something you haven’t even done yet.”

@ate5ive866

3 жыл бұрын

Wow

@paxundpeace9970

3 жыл бұрын

Quite the opposite from a former partner: her mantra was fake it till you make it

@winter_bear2008

2 жыл бұрын

Please tell me what to do when accidentally tell everything to a wrong person..and she is spreading it.. please tell me what to do 😭

@TheNeofy

2 жыл бұрын

@First you are extremely right here. I'm experimenting with the oppose theory which is telling my incoming life plans with most of people who close and who I know well, so apparently their interest and curiosity helps to increase my motivation and energy levels. However this way is a bit extreme, in case you don't fulfill most of plans which you have told to others, it could backlash the negativity towards you by close people and will minimize your next new plans untrustworthy for others as you talked much and did less. BUT!!! If you tell your plans and do it as you describe, it will bring social positivity among close people and sufficiently increases your trustworthiness which is very important part of being human.

@taybaesworld

9 ай бұрын

Yessss!!!!

“And you’ll secretly know you’re a badass, and you didn’t have to tell anybody.” Excellent 👏

@Bug_Hunt

3 жыл бұрын

Hahaha

Set some goals. Stay quiet about them. Smash the hell outta them. Clap for your dam self.

@JustinSchmidt

5 жыл бұрын

Omar Sade *damn

@andrejz8954

5 жыл бұрын

@@JustinSchmidt Could be dam* cause you achieved something big... like a dam... so you're then dam self! :D

@DanneoYT

5 жыл бұрын

You forgot a step, write down your goal

@dragonflyjones4611

5 жыл бұрын

Clap or twerk your ass

@EmmaRoseLondon

5 жыл бұрын

*damn straight!*

My grandma had a sign in her house that said, "If you want to lose weight, keep your mouth shut."

@TimJSwan

5 жыл бұрын

XD

@j.flaner8506

5 жыл бұрын

Love that! Ha!

@ajtaylor8750

5 жыл бұрын

That's one of the best signs that could've ever existed.

@robgoodsight6216

4 жыл бұрын

😏🙂

@theknight4317

4 жыл бұрын

Your grandma's probably a secretley badass.

I’ve stopped talking about my goals long time ago now. And I feel like it’s helped me to just focus on that rather than trying to impress everyone

@tminuszehn4048

4 жыл бұрын

That's what took me a lot of time understand, but once i did, i mean in the end it's just about doing the thing, that's what you always wanted anyways, so no need to talk about it. You wanna be more fit and do sport regulary? Start doing sport regulary and make it a habit, as easy as that.

@brendancullen8786

4 жыл бұрын

Well done on not trying to impress everyone.

@navaneeth9103

4 жыл бұрын

Sng is ma 🏫 school name

@helloimmelika

4 жыл бұрын

But I really like to study hard and inspire my friends to study hard too :(

@missrelaxed3872

4 жыл бұрын

So true

When you talk about your goals, you also trick your brain into believing you're actively doing something to achieve your goal when you're not at all! There have been studies on that subject

@C_oboe

3 жыл бұрын

THIS

@tardisblue5433

3 жыл бұрын

Omg

@hibbah3210

3 жыл бұрын

100%%

@speaktruth9989

3 жыл бұрын

Yup

@danielguansing

3 жыл бұрын

Well this is Talk the talk + Walk the walk kind of person.

Keep your plans as dark and silent as the night, then strike like a thunderbolt. Sun Tzu The Art of War

@Anonimowany1

5 жыл бұрын

Depends on what and where. It's stupid making this claim in every aspect. Some people who talk about their goals get motivated even more and feel passionate about it. People who dont believe in themselves get insecure and fail.

@ediblack7238

5 жыл бұрын

carapo66 Wow i love that man

@MrJimBunny

5 жыл бұрын

First time I tried this my fart was epic

@EnderEYEx

4 жыл бұрын

@@MrJimBunny why

@filmbuffoon

4 жыл бұрын

@@MrJimBunny This made me lol ngl.

This inspired me to do a puppet show on mount everest

@sourishmazumdar2107

5 жыл бұрын

😂 let's do it together.

@angelayala7922

5 жыл бұрын

But you just commented about it...meaning you are just talking rn 🤔

@spicecrop

5 жыл бұрын

Start entertaining at base camp and work your way up.

@easyfinance8833

5 жыл бұрын

bruh dont take my goal now. it was unique until he found it out. not cool!

@CliffordStarks1

5 жыл бұрын

Haha that would be quite a spectacle, I'm rooting for you!👍

"NO matter how much you flap your jaw, nothing moves" well, that was epic!

@chekoisowned

2 жыл бұрын

This!

Boss:"hey have you finished your report?" Me:"i dont wanna talk about it." Report sent 2 hours earlier

@joshina4497

3 жыл бұрын

XD

"You'll secretly know you're a badass..." Love it.

@BryanChance

5 жыл бұрын

I love it!!!

@prankrishnanath5080

5 жыл бұрын

📯

@TimJSwan

5 жыл бұрын

I seriously LMFAO at that part

@chronobot2001

5 жыл бұрын

The secret is out !!!

@unstablemusicofficial

5 жыл бұрын

That's how I feel right now haha

The fact that KZread recommend me this video, is a proof that google is listening to our private phone calls.

@FKBUSH1

5 жыл бұрын

There is no doubt ;)

@lalalabababa6775

4 жыл бұрын

You think ? :D

@J90JAM

4 жыл бұрын

Oh well.

@azariagetachew5857

4 жыл бұрын

I have no SIM card

@matzvlog4364

4 жыл бұрын

Arsh DSJ I was wondering why is it on my recommendation?

I love this and do it naturally. I hate telling people my plans because I don’t want to deal with them keeping tabs on me or asking for updates. I’d rather create something and let the results speak for itself

When u build in silence, they don’t know what to attack Well thank you mate

@speaktruth9989

3 жыл бұрын

Yep

@mariochavarria8957

2 жыл бұрын

That's a law from the book "48 laws of power"

@mariekem.4755

2 жыл бұрын

This also works really well to stay true to what you really want and just don't tell everything what is coming on your path. Because sometimes you just need to think about it and you realise you have to say no to it.. but when you already told people they are like 'Oh I thought you wanted to start with this and this' and it looks like you 'failed' but in fact you just said no what can also be a good thing. So it feels good to keep things for myself so I can make a good decision without people interfering.

@masteryoda8299

2 жыл бұрын

👍👍

If they don't know your dreams then they can't shoot them down Don't talk about it. Be about it.

@trizzysmeez3698

5 жыл бұрын

J. Cole 🤔

@diosa.loba333

5 жыл бұрын

@@trizzysmeez3698 Si :)

@Repsforjesus67

4 жыл бұрын

That too, man. People like to see other people fail at their goals, because they can't achieve theirs. So they will do quite a lot to make you fail, which is sad really.

@thattannerguy856

4 жыл бұрын

Love that! I think a lot of people (sometime myself included) are afraid to fail. But if I don't tell anyone what I'm working on, even if we fail, no one has to know but me. Never thought of that!

@bbelief34

4 жыл бұрын

One of the worst experiences: achieving visions, living my dream but then should have kept it quiet (shot down from all angles)

Family dinner: "Hey so any big goals for the future?" me: "I don't wanna talk about it.."

@Mii.2.0

4 жыл бұрын

I think people say, "what's your goal?" or something like that because, well... they have nothing to talk about.

@coops3600

4 жыл бұрын

@@Mii.2.0 Spot on. NPCs ask NPC questions like this because they live an NPC life and have nothing exciting or meaningful they're pursuing. Their life is boring so they wanna live vicariously through someone else. Looking externally for meaning to be spoon fed to them rather than creating their own.

@taylorbradshaw3767

4 жыл бұрын

Nishe Siel or maybe because they are genuinely interested in you, want to get to know you more, or find joy simply in having conversation with a friend, regardless of the context?

@Hadhoudtn

4 жыл бұрын

haha My dad almost had a stroke when I told him my wishes in the new year's eve dinner : "staying as healthy as I was 2019 and I will accomplish whatever I want"...He certainly was expecting something like " I will earn X amout of money, buy X car etc" XD

@Mii.2.0

4 жыл бұрын

@@Hadhoudtn XD

"The best comeback is Success" -My dad

@10ksubscriberswithonlycomm57

3 жыл бұрын

(◕ᴗ◕✿)

@madden7732

3 жыл бұрын

Nice quote he gave you :)

@sarahroberts7374

3 жыл бұрын

My Mum's quote is so similar- "The best revenge is living well" and it's so true!!

@prakh1250

3 жыл бұрын

@@sarahroberts7374 *Exactly!!!*

@prakh1250

3 жыл бұрын

@@madden7732 Thanks lmao

''Seeking validation for something you haven't done yet'' Pretty strong words my guy

@jesusislord1john196

3 жыл бұрын

1 John 1:9 If we confess our sins He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness ❤️

@MariOneTwo

3 жыл бұрын

@@jesusislord1john196 huh

“No matter how much you flap your jaw, nothing move. Ambition isn’t special” 😂😂

@gooney2846

5 жыл бұрын

A lotta people don't have ambition these days so idk about that my guy

@doghous3

5 жыл бұрын

@@gooney2846 Actually, I think quite a lot of people - as mentioned in this vid - are ambitious (or at least daydream). They just don't realise how much work it is to actually achieve something.

@avonbarksdale4947

5 жыл бұрын

@@gooney2846 exactly not everybody have super goals. some people just want to live and buy shoes ect

@delightfuldaisy3520

5 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@monjier

5 жыл бұрын

@@doghous3 that ain't ambition dude. Ambition is when it plagues your mind every fucking day, all fucking day. The only reason i ain't achieving all my goals, is because i have 46 of the fuckers and i have to pick and choose which ones i want. Half the time, most of them conflict with each other. Can't achieve my car goals because i have investment goals. Can't achieve my investment goals until i achieve my financial goals. Couldn't stop smoking unless i stop drinking. Can't lose weight because I'm busy living my now smoke free life which has only happened because i gave up the drinking this year and don't want to hinder my willpower. Can't achieve my business/entrepreneur goals until i develop a few key areas in my life. Do you know how frustrating it is to be ambitious but have to start from literally a shit situation (if not physically then mentally)? I need everything done yesterday, but shit takes too fucking long. Even developing my work ethic is taking too long. At this rate, idk how I'll develop an 80 hour work ethic before the end of the year. Only get paid for 40 hours a week but already consistently put in 50. Then there's all the reading, then the stupid hobbies i wanted for myself which now I'll need to get rid of to make room for the other goals. Nobody is ambitious. All my mates fucking dream but can't pick up a book to learn, or can't fucking put in any hard work on business projects because it's not "paid". Dont tell me everyone is ambitious, because nobody is.

This was a slap to the face, But thank you . I needed this . ❤❤

@isaactalb

3 жыл бұрын

same here dude, anyway i'v learned ;) Keep safe.. fri

@meirymuniz1791

3 жыл бұрын

How you pronounce your name?Mairys?

@mairyslopez9855

3 жыл бұрын

@@meirymuniz1791 Mah- e-ris

@meirymuniz1791

3 жыл бұрын

@@mairyslopez9855 Nice to know !and its a Beautifull name! My name is mae-ree ..the pronounce 😊i wanted my name had one "a"letter ..Kiss from Brazil 💋

@ayushkumarlavania7046

3 жыл бұрын

Yes that's right 🔥

This is one of my favorite phrases: "Speaking before doing is useless"

I can relate from my own experience. After talking too much and achieving nothing (or at least I did achieve some things but at a very slow rate) I felt like a loser because I couldn't catch up to all these talk to talk ambitions. The recognition you get from people when you talk about your ambitions is really dangerous because it gives your that small dopamine rush without putting the work. It's like jerkin off while watching porn instead of having an intimate relationship with a real person. Now, I've become so silent that I always avoid talking about myself and I always act like I do nothing in my days. But people notice the changes. They will notice your bigger muscles, your new stylish clothes, your fat wallet etc...And it's even funnier to see their reactions when they see you achieve things while "in their mind" you're just scratching your balls all day xD Trust me it's far better than the "okay dude it's cool that you're planning on doing X thing"

@adilshah6664

3 жыл бұрын

LOOOOL

@joycekaeze9863

3 жыл бұрын

So true💯❤

@christos7100

3 жыл бұрын

I absolutely agree.

@HanselHessUnfiltered

3 жыл бұрын

Happened to me . It felt so bad

@lampyrisnoctiluca9904

Жыл бұрын

I am a silent overachiever too. People around me know very few of my achievements. It's better this way because they can't sabotage me for something they know nothing about.

Real G's move in silence like lasagna.

@simbableh1428

5 жыл бұрын

PAPER CHASE AND TELL THAT PAPER IM RIGHT BEHIND YOU

@ssj4achilles57

5 жыл бұрын

Weezy

@thisisthewroten

5 жыл бұрын

I got through that sentence like a subject to a predicate.

@soberisgood3695

5 жыл бұрын

@Complex Ez That was acually really good haha!

@thatguytony8945

5 жыл бұрын

@@soberisgood3695 he didnt actually make it, it's a song by lil wayne

Suddenly I want to perform a puppet show on the top of Mt. Everest

@hardikdua8123

4 жыл бұрын

Man why is your comment so under rated, like piano players don't watch these type of videos 😆

@betterideas

3 жыл бұрын

Oh hey! It's Daniel Thrasher! Hey Daniel Thrasher! Love your content :)

@SolunaPiano

3 жыл бұрын

@@hardikdua8123 I am a piano player and I love these kind of videos. Helps me stay motivated to practice and make videos.

@hardikdua8123

3 жыл бұрын

@@SolunaPiano cool

@barackthecomposer6642

3 жыл бұрын

@@SolunaPiano Me to!

you should never mention ur ambitions or goals to anyone thats the golden rule for success

I feel like my friends aren't much supportive of something I want to achieve, so I just keep it on myself. Thanks to this video, it is very useful for me. Subscribed!

@Mo-tn7lv

4 жыл бұрын

Work grind hustle, make goals crush them and watch your 'friends' become supportive😉

@shunai935

3 жыл бұрын

Same...

I wish you had included the negative neurological/psychological aspect of this matter, instead of just ranting about how people who do this suck. What happens in your brain when you talk-- or even think excessively-- about your goals is that your brain releases dopamine as though its already doing it because you're going about doing it in your head, getting amped up about it and getting approval from others.. but then once its time to actually do it, that same capability to produce dopamine is decreased because your brain thinks you've already done it because you thought about it and talked about it a bunch, so then its that much harder to actually do because you spent your neural resources just thinking and talking about it instead. That's why most people who talk ad nauseam about what they're going to do don't actually do it. Yes, talking about your goals literally does ruin them, but I didn't hear you explain HOW anywhere in this video.

@AceGunnerManEIR

4 жыл бұрын

Said only what was needed

@FRanger92

4 жыл бұрын

Makes some sense, but i feel like thinking about something and actually doing it gives a bit more sense of accomplishment. I'm not sure the brain has this effect that it just decreases dopamine for things your accomplish that you've thought about.

@aliadosmc

4 жыл бұрын

He didn't talk about it cause there's no needs to explain all that. I meant the whole video is fully of examples and visual resources and I think that's enough to make a point.

@Alistair

4 жыл бұрын

maybe he doesn't know about that. I expect he does because I remember reading about it somewhere before, but I appreciate that this video approached the same issue from a more social/personal perspective rather than repeating science that many self-help types already know

@anntweardy4415

4 жыл бұрын

Awesome explanation. I’ve experienced this....like visualized something and then didn’t feel like doing it because it was already done. This applies to daydreamers too.

Be like the duck, look calm on the surface, but fight like hell underneath.

@Strength_In_Wisdom

5 жыл бұрын

Best comment by far

@nternetrat

5 жыл бұрын

i think ducks just float naturally man

@pixelpiratepo

4 жыл бұрын

@@nternetrat But when they propel themselves to move forward rather than being taken by the whim of the current.

@nternetrat

4 жыл бұрын

@@pixelpiratepo ok there u go

@carlysunshine2927

4 жыл бұрын

V cute

"You secretly know your a badass" OMG that's so true.

"And when you're done, don't tell a soul" Then comes social media - people posting the meal they cooked for breakfast... 🤷‍♂️

"I'm going to become the hokage, believe it!" ~ Some random blonde kid

@hayatopendragon2796

4 жыл бұрын

Well, he talked the talk and sure as hell walked the walk

@buu.888

4 жыл бұрын

“Don’t underestimate me! I don’t quit and I don’t run.” Naruto

@sukanyaa.sonowal

4 жыл бұрын

*the greatest Hokage

@outgamesgaming8143

4 жыл бұрын

The deus ex machina power, dont get confused .

@callmethandz5329

4 жыл бұрын

I mean he had to talk and walk because it's anime. Would we have got the point that it was his dream if he didn't say anything.

I feel like this 4 minute video has already changed my whole point of view on the journey to being successful. Thank you 😊

@jemanshrestha8176

4 жыл бұрын

lov u

@georgechernev3435

4 жыл бұрын

@@jemanshrestha8176 stop simpin

@eliotfaye

4 жыл бұрын

Ok hassanah

@andrevoirol6286

4 жыл бұрын

Yo me too

@aleksandrvysokov4391

4 жыл бұрын

The fact that you desisided to tell us about it is proving otherwise...

I know I'm a little late to share my thoughts about this video but, here is my point of view. I do talk about my objectives to others, because it forces me to reach them. Whenever I have an idea, if I keep it quiet, I'll forget about it after a while. But when I talk about it, I have to do it because everyone is expecting me to make it. And people trust me, because when I say that I'll do something, I always do it. Also, it allows me to see what others think about my project, get some feedback. That's why I'm acting this way. I know that I don't have to prove you that I'm doing the right thing but still, I wanted to share a different opinion with you on this matter. Still, nice video my friend ! Stay safe !

@allegeddevil1956

3 жыл бұрын

so basically u value others more than yourselves, u are admitting u cant get stuff done without others, i mean yes u need others, but u should strive to remove the need of others VALIDATION, keep doing you and keep improving u

@danielparlered3944

3 жыл бұрын

@@allegeddevil1956 That's not what he meant. It''s just some extra motivation. If he fails, people will look at him differently.

@asiansfw

3 жыл бұрын

I feel you

@shunai935

3 жыл бұрын

@@allegeddevil1956 I think he's rather talking about being held accountable than being validated. Actually it's mentionned at some point in the video that you can have some accountability partners and support group.

@unathimngqibisa839

3 жыл бұрын

On the point of feedback, it will always be positive from everyone around you. Worst way to get to see the viability of your idea

I have a personal story about this exact thing, probably about 7 years ago I decided I wanted to run a marathon and so I got a beginners program, started running and started talking about it. While I was training it was taking up a good bit of time so I ended up of telling everyone I was running one. Unfortunately I got injured a few weeks before the race to the point where walking was very painful. So I missed the race and for multiple months every conversation I had people asked me how the race went which made me feel worse every time I got asked that. So the next year on the tail end of my injury I started training again except this time I didn’t tell a single person. I just ran and honestly it was nice, my roommate eventually figured it out because he saw me walking out the door in running gear for hours at a time and I even waited till a few days before the race when I 100% knew I was running before I told my mom so she could come watch since she didn’t get to watch the year before.

there is 5th category: talk the talk, and let others do the walk

@hadroncollider17

5 жыл бұрын

Stewie Griffin and a sixth: someone else talked, and now you have to do the walk

@zairnightstar

5 жыл бұрын

@@hadroncollider17 lmfaoooooo

@gantz0622

5 жыл бұрын

And a 7th, talk the talk then talk so much that people actually recognize you and you become a politician :D

@sbxgii

5 жыл бұрын

Hey Stewie. Is it proven that you're gay cause well people saying Stewie is gay and it's making me mad dude.

@stewiegriffin6503

5 жыл бұрын

am not gay, am just little bit homosekšjual

Life lesson: NEVER EVER TALK ABOUT WHAT YOU ARE GOING TO DO TO ANYONE.

@TheGamesProjects

5 жыл бұрын

Yeah if you do they’ll call the police because they’ll think you’re gonna do something to them

@mutantkoffee

5 жыл бұрын

Why?

@WasifSikder

5 жыл бұрын

@@mutantkoffee well we're not saying don't ever tell anyone anything. But if you have a goal don't tell people you're gonna do it because you'll feel like you've already accomplished something then be less likely to do it. And whether you accomplish something or not it's better not to brag and do things for other people and to just do them for your own self (and possibly for your higher power if you're religious)

@JH-ji6cj

5 жыл бұрын

You forgot to give credit to Ted Bundy for your quote

@TheHaters112

5 жыл бұрын

You can but be tactful and only speak of what is necessary. Feed them but don't satisfy them.

Okay I don't care what others might think, this is THE BEST youtube vid, I love going back too! I still remember it from waaaay back, "Those who don't talk the talk, but walk the walk are the most bad ass..." watching Mr. Bond owning the scene, in my minds eye, everytime my mouth is on the tip of and give away what I'm up to I LOVE that mind kick. "SIP IT! KEEP WALKING LADY! You got this, keep it secret, keep it safe!" I think to myself and I move on by asking and giving the other person the attention of the conversation, work multiply times for me every day. And beleave me people will notice if you walk your own walk! Enjoy your walks out there, you got this! ;)

I have always been this way. I feel like other people try to sabotage or compete with you once you tell them what you want to do. I feel mentally stronger when I am doing things on my own. For myself.

I love the phrase, “Give your tongue a little rest”.

Wow I honestly enjoyed reading the comments. Love the quotes 🦋🙏

Imagine wanting to do a puppet show on mount everest then watching this video, you’d feel like hes watching you 😂

liked and subbed from both my channels, it's so true, bragging about stuff you do or you will do is going to ruin your success. Get shit done and don't tell a soul. If someone cares they'll come to you

Its actually scientifically proven that talking about your goals tricks your mind into „I accomplished this goal already“

@iWonderOfficial

4 жыл бұрын

This feels intuitively true but I'd be curious to see the scientific proof for myself - do you remember where you read the studies? (I genuinely want to read more about this!)

@samabd

4 жыл бұрын

Where can we find studies? It’s interesting to check ☺️

@rafario448

4 жыл бұрын

I want to see those studies

@cas6648

4 жыл бұрын

Here's the link to the studies: kops.uni-konstanz.de/bitstream/handle/123456789/10458/gollwitzerintentions.pdf?sequence=1

@cas6648

4 жыл бұрын

"When other people take notice of one's identity-relevant behavioral intentions, one's performance of the intended behaviors is compromised...Other people's taking notice of one's identity-relevant intentions apparently engenders a premature sense of completeness regarding the identity goal."

Until today, I thought I was the only one who was gearing up for an arctic expedition of marionettes.

@rajeswariravi7

4 жыл бұрын

What does arctic expedition of marionettes means?

Sometimes I tell others about my plan bc I’m excited, extroverted and it’s really on my mind. Seeking validation has nothing to do with it for me.

This is THE BEST self-help/inspirational video I've seen in a long time. Short, simple, and powerful. I love it.

I tell others so they can hold me accountable and when they laugh at what I say I make sure I do what I said

@John-sp9if

4 жыл бұрын

omg same . if i keep it to myself i might fall so i tell people so i do it

@narendrachilwal6664

4 жыл бұрын

So in a way you respect others opinion more than what you think of yourself . No hard feelings man .... But respect yourself more so that you dont fail.

@dragan3010

3 жыл бұрын

Yep same for me. Telling someone manifests that idea somewhere outside of my head and I feel that I HAVE to do it now

I already noticed talking about my goals ruins them. No one wants me to be “higher” than them because they KNOW I will succeed. Every single person I know puts me down about everything because they are mad they don’t have the commitment that I have and they try to destroy it. For years and years I’ve let people win. I’ve helped them in countless ways to bring them up and they say they are there for me but they aren’t. Those exact people would tell me to stop letting people take advantage of me. THOSE SAME PEOPLE TAKING ADVANTAGE OF ME WOULD TELL ME TO STOP LETTING PEOPLE TAKE ADVANTAGE OF ME!! It’s time for me to let things go and work on myself. Almost four weeks into eating healthy and exercising and I am feeling amazing. I will never stop working on myself. I am turning 27 years old on the 24th of October and I haven’t done anything in my life but cater to everyone’s needs and then get shot in the face. It’s my turn. Never looking back.

@drillingig2368

4 жыл бұрын

👍🏾 👏🏾

@SagarAbhishek

3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely! Fuck those two-faced haters

@vishalbhatsoori168

3 жыл бұрын

Why did yu say it here to all of us

@talkingfurkids

3 жыл бұрын

UnDeR tHe StArS oVeR ThE mOoN been there, done that.

@rachitsachdeva7836

3 жыл бұрын

Lettss fkn go bro. Get the bread

Naruto his entire childhood and adolescence: I'm gonna become hokage. Believe it!

@sujjisinghrajwar

4 жыл бұрын

Well he talked the talk, then walked the walk!

@shunai935

3 жыл бұрын

Hahahahaha

I love this advice so much! Lately I have learnt how much I depend on other people's validations and so now I am going to stop posting my successes on social media and focus on full filling my goals with my own validation. Great advice 👍

You take a while to make videos. But holy shit are they beyond worth it.

@OZHXD

5 жыл бұрын

They're

Here is an idea for a counterargument, If you have a decent friend that really care about you and your success. Then will he try to help you to reach your goal.

@Ankam863

5 жыл бұрын

Or when you want a promotion and your hiring manager claims a whole year later that she never knew you wanted to be in management.

@JenniferWasylenko

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly!! Telling someone what you want to do isn’t bragging, it’s a form of accountability.

@UltraMegaFail

5 жыл бұрын

@The Green Pill Mindset he said a decent friend not a jealous bitch.

@monjier

5 жыл бұрын

Or telling a friend, knowing that they will feel jealous or shitty, especially when that friend is a massive doubter and you actually do it.

@UltraMegaFail

5 жыл бұрын

T K these “friends” shouldn’t be in our circle in the first place

I needed this today. Straight forward not mincing words, thank you for keeping it 1000%.

This is my favourite video, I come back and watch it when I get excited about new projects and it really gives me tunnel vision.

Watching while procrastinating studying but undoubtedly not loss of time. Great job!

@wd1534

4 жыл бұрын

Great comment. Watch his video about the "Do something principle" and you will never procrastinative anymmore

*Yes most people could care less about what you're going to do. I found that out a long time ago.*

This video has changed my life. I have been telling my friends how I am going to do but it turned that they didn’t as impressive as I thought. On the other hand, he was trying to talk about himself rather than listen to me.♥️♥️ “ Let your success declares who you are without any word from our mouths “

I needed to see a video like this. Thanks for uploading.

"you'll secretly know that you're a badass" so true, and awesome vid

I love this little lesson!! Best of luck moving man!

"I don't have a quote" -Me

As the saying goes: "Work hard in silence, let your success be your noise"! ♥

911: "what's your emergency?" Me: *hi I'd like to report a hate crime, I've been personally attacked*

@criticalthinker6544

4 жыл бұрын

U ok bro?

@what2a8guy

4 жыл бұрын

Edison d. Sooooooo true 😂

@erictee1469

4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@gargeesharma2630

4 жыл бұрын

By my relatives

@shefaligogna6378

3 жыл бұрын

Damn 🤣

I’ve noticed that when you achieve something and don’t speak on it, when it does come up in casual conversations and you are asked about the subject, your achievement doesn’t come across as ‘boasting’ rather typical responses are of surprise and intrigue. Allowing you to expand for others to be inspired by.

@ice-sugar.

5 жыл бұрын

Agree

@TheGamesProjects

5 жыл бұрын

Kaizaki Arata the cree

@TheGamesProjects

5 жыл бұрын

Kaizaki Arata the free

@TheGamesProjects

5 жыл бұрын

Kaizaki Arata the bee

@TheGamesProjects

5 жыл бұрын

Kaizaki Arata the tree

It may have been more than a year since you made this video but it reminded me to work in silence and let my success speak for me. I will be watching more of your videos!

Thank you, for videos that you make! Really nice to have normal videos on KZread, that people actually need to see or hear! ✌🏼

Interesting video! As a fellow creator I don't watch KZread that much but your videos, like the videos of Nathaniel Drew and Matt D'avella, are absolutely worth the time.

The moment when James Bond came in... Goosebumps! It's hard to disagree with this statement!

"Confidence is silent . Insecurities are loud ."

bro the cinematography on your videos is just so 👌 magnifico

Love this. It literally opened my eyes.

"You'll secretly know that you're a badass and didn't have to tell anybody.." YES! #TeamRealConfidence #TeamSelfLove

Thank you for every single video ure making.. for all the effort.. thank you.

So fucking on point man. Esp the part of the confidence that builds within you. You are insanely good at these videos man.

@mariekem.4755

2 жыл бұрын

I know right! Spot on.. this is what I always felt like. Also with people who post their goals on social media about their weightloss goals, just go and fucking do it! Forget about social media and workout for you, not for the validation/likes.. you just gonna sabotage your own goals/fail because in the end you're not doing it for you and that's the only way to succeed🙏

wow, this video is honestly eye opening. Crazy good, i wish more people would see this

This may be the most valuable channel on KZread! So glad I found this!!

“What is done in the dark will come to the light”, that is for good things too. Keep going!

This video was great. Not too short , not too long . And you conveyed the message efficiently. Thank you❤

I don't usually comment videos but this one is extremely good! I always feel the urge to tell others about my ambitions and I realize everyone is like that. Today's world is all about appareance, right, we talk a lot but very few take actions. I'm now setting one new good habit: watch this video every monday morning!

@GM-qi8pw

5 жыл бұрын

first mistake

@lookbehindyou7906

5 жыл бұрын

@@GM-qi8pw Ironic lmao

@lookbehindyou7906

5 жыл бұрын

Dont tell us that haha HAVE YOU NOT LEARNED

@TheGamesProjects

5 жыл бұрын

Look Behind You LOOL

@TheGamesProjects

5 жыл бұрын

He’s sharing it because all of you are the same

"Climb a mountain, tell no one"

Great video. Sometimes talking about goals make people feel inferior or make them jealous. It's a bad thing for me cause then I want that hate to go away but is not in my control.

It is incredible how you helped me open my eyes! I love your channel dude!

You are the first KZreadr ever to whom I subbed including the damn bell! Keep up the consistent great quality of your content and I swear to god you're soon going to be in the 1M++ club!

Build in silence... They never. Knoe what is coming n They don't know what to attack

so short and so on point. thank you

This is so damn right. Hits right where it hurts but i am grateful for this realisation. Thank you so much

I always had that feeling...

Win in silence Let them think you're losing.

This video is just what I needed to see right now. Please keep them coming ☺️🙌🏼

Bruh, I needed this! Thank you!

It's like a Own Dirty Little Secret! Love this line!

It's scary how you posted a video on this topic when I started doing that this month. Are you spying on me?

@TheGamesProjects

5 жыл бұрын

Dopamine released

@joemonroe9456

5 жыл бұрын

Didn't you know that your emails and conversations are scanned for key words. For realz. Those suggested videos aren't random.

@LareinaP

5 жыл бұрын

Joe Monroe seriously?! Woah

I needed this right now...thank you :)

I needed this thanks bro

Let's be the 5th category :-:- walk the walk and let others do the talk the talk about you

@joellgc

4 жыл бұрын

Seeking for validation

@elmarnigmatullin4490

4 жыл бұрын

If you're doing something to impress others one day you'll caught up. No need totally

@obatmaagtv

4 жыл бұрын

How about talk the talk and let others walk the walk?

@dondon3421

4 жыл бұрын

“u know i forget” totototototot

This is mostly great, but there are positives to telling people. Don't underestimate accountability.

@factumDiabolus

5 жыл бұрын

He mentioned accountability buddies as an exception.

I love this. I had a recent experience with a very close friend of mine, basically giving a patronizing comment of saying how, "don't you feel behind on life, since your main job isn't consistent?" (AKA because of Covid), and proceeded to say, "if I were you, I would feel so depressed, and feel like my life isn't going anywhere." - and she had just gotten a promotion in her field, which as a friend, I’m obviously very happy for her. But it seemed like she was genuinely trying to put me down. I have started my own online shop this year, and have made a significant amount of money for something that I am sooo passionate, proud and excited for. I hardly ever share news about my behind the scenes work though, with her especially because she has never shown interest in it (which is fine, I'm not expecting her or anyone to, since it's my life). & A lot of our friendship is based on her talking, (which I am happy to listen to), and me listening. So she usually tells A LOT of details of her life, where I am extremely private, and only share what I feel comfortable with. It still hurts to know that someone so close to you isn't supportive of your dreams, but I have come to realize that my success truly is a personal thing, and my goals are not shouted to the world - but they are still very real and true, and you have to be proud of that. Silence is truly key.

@becomingdauntless8821

2 жыл бұрын

You're doing everything right but its time to find new friends.

I just love your content. I literally learned a lot of things from you. thanks for sharing those thoughts with us ... all the best