I can understand because I’m mother of special need daughter. She can’t walk, talk , sit I have to do everything for her. I know people don’t understand our feelings but my daughter smile give me strength.

یہ تو فیصلہ بہت جلد ہونے والا ہے یہ سب بچے جنت کے پھول ہیں اور جو ان کی خدمت کرے گا جو خدمت کا ذریعہ بنے گا جو ان کے لیے خدمت کر رہا ہے وہ سب جنتی ہوں گے

ایسے ماں باپ کے درجات یقینن بہت بلند ہوں گے اللہ ان کو ہمت اور حوصلہ دے۔آمین

کیوٹ بچہ. ماشاءاللہ... میں تو اسکی انتی پیاری اور سوفٹ. سپوکن ماں کو دیکھ رھی کتنی ویل ایجوکیٹڈ پیاری لڑکی ھے. اللہ ان دونوں کو خوش رکھے آمین

@asmamujtaba9769

2 ай бұрын

Ameen

اللہ تعالی ایسے تمام والدین کی مدد و نصرت فرماۓ۔آمین

Allah sb patents ko sehatmand olad de. آمین

معاشرے کو چاہیئے ایسے والدین اور بچوں کو support کریں۔

No one can understand the struggle of parents and families of having a disabled child, even your close families, they become so isolated

I have also autistic boy and depressed to next level and no support from husband is more painful for me

My youngest of 4 kids is autistic.He is 7 yrs old non-verbal and yes life of special kid,s parents specially mother is not easy😢I do suffer from anxiety alot.May Allah bless allll such kids and their parents..Aameen

@Lalisaaa12376

2 ай бұрын

Same😢😢😢😢

Kuch arsa pehley Jinnah International Airport k lounge main main ney aisi hi aik mother dekhin jin ka beta aik second bhi kahin nahin baitha aour us mother ko salam jo saye ki tarah us k pechey bhag rahi theen mera bohat dil chaha k main un ki kisi bhi hawaley sey help karun but yahi socha k woh mind na karjayen Allah aap ko behtreen ajar ata farmaye dear sis and bro .Mother of Fatima Zahra from Islamabad

@AseesAshraf

2 ай бұрын

Allah pak apko jazaye kheer ata Kary kh apny eysi mother ko dekh kar itna positive Socha I am also a mother of a autistic child he is 10 years old now mgr apny rishty daron Sy le kar pas paros tak Sab log itna bura salok karty hain Eysy bachon aur waldeen k Sath buhot bura lagta hai mgr chup ho jaty hain

Allah tala apk bete ko sehat tandrusti or aafiat wali zindgi ata frmaein amin sum amin

Only those can understand who suffer from this pain but know Allah has great reward for those parents and also for those who support these children in any way I have taught in special school for a year

Allah pak har musalman ky dukh or takleefy khatam afarmaye ameen

Allah pak iss azmaish ko aap k liye bakhshih k zariyah banaye. Ameen. Iss ko positive ker len , accept ker len yeh mukhtalif hai. Masoom hai. Uski apni duniya hai. Aap us ka most important hissa hain . Sorry na feel karen , khush ho jayen , kitna piyara hai , aap ka hai. Koi baat nahi duniya jesa nahi , aap unique hain aap k beta bhi , every person has their struggle, your family has this , Alhumdulilah, not life threatening not anything you need to hide, just one special human to bless you all the way to Jannah

It's said BBC NEWS URDU EXCELLENT WORK

My son is also autistic now he is. 11 years old mashaAllah. He is the light of our life. ❤A guest of Heaven 🥰

That lady over there is my teacher at university, believe me she’s the best!! Proud to be taught by legend!♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

اللہ پاک ہر حال میں شکر الحمداللہ

U r not alone my dear sister n brother. But thats for sure Allah has selected u for some bigger cause. So beautiful child Masha Allah. Allah bless u all.

اتنا خوبصورت پیارا بچہ ماشاء اللہ اور یہ ایک کمی ۔ زبان خاموش ہے اور الفاظ گم ۔ دلی دعائیں ایسے تمام بچوں اور انکے ماں باپ کیلئے۔ پاکستان سے باہر ایسے بچوں کو معاشرہ بہت سپورٹ کرتا ہے جو ماں باپ کیلئے ایک طرح سے ہمت بڑہانے کے مترادف اور حوصلہ افزائی ہوتی ہے کہ سارا معاشرہ آپ کے شانہ بشانہ کھڑا ہے۔ ایسے معاشروں میں ماں باپ زیادہ پریشان ڈیپریسڈ نہیں رہتے۔ ابھی ہمارے ملک میں بھلے چنگے افراد کو نہیں بخشا جاتا ۔ بس اللہ سے ہر معاملے میں مدد اور راہنمائی کی دعا مانگتے ہیں ۔۔ اللہ کریم اس اور اس جیسے ہزاروں لاکھوں بچوں کو لمبی حیاتی صحت مندی کے ساتھ عطا کرے اور اپنی حفظ و امان میں رکھے آمین

@rabbiabaryar8335

2 ай бұрын

You are right

اس خاتون کو سلام مگر پھر بھی مقام شکر ہے کہ بچے کی ذہنی و جسمانی حالت اچھی ہے اس پہ شکر کرنا چاہیے۔۔ اس سے زیادہ تو ان ماں باپ کی ہمت ہے جن کے بچے جسمانی طور پر معذور و مفلوج ہیں یا دماغی توازن درست نہیں ہیں ۔ ان کی حالت دیکھیں تو اندازہ ہوگا۔۔

Special kids are the token of heaven. Surely moments which no body can understand but a parent of a special child could only be rewarded by Allah. Salute to all the parents who are taking good care of their special child ❤️.

Mera apna bhae 35 years ka Hai aur vho chal nae sakta. Bas sister Allah ap ko himmat dy. Hamin Har hal main Allah ka shukar Ada kana chahy.

Quran teaches "Sabar" and "Shukar" so whatever we are going through, we have to be patient and try to connect ourselves to Allah. I can completely understand the feelings of these parents being a parent of an autistic child myself but then at the end of the day, we should think that all the autistic children will enter JANNAT without having to answer for any single mistake. This is a temporary phase of life for our ROOH (SPIRIT) so we should not be worrying that much for what is happening to us and be grateful (say ALHAMDOLILLAH) for everything else that we have been blessed for ❤❤❤

I can understand your situation. I also have an autistic son, and I am facing many questions from society rather than any motivation r support. Almighty bless all parents like us ameen

Allah har cheez par qadir ha..Allah pak in bacho ko sahet day Ameen

It's been 12 years, n i have the same routine with my son, who is cp child😢 but i never lost hope. GOD bless him

@asmamujtaba9769

2 ай бұрын

❤❤❤ Allah stenght u dear

@asmamujtaba9769

2 ай бұрын

Allah sternth u dear❤❤❤❤❤

@asmamujtaba9769

2 ай бұрын

Ameen

@asmairumjamil3031

2 ай бұрын

No words, I can feel your pain and believe me Allah is always with us. Patience will have rewards of Jannah

So relatable No one can imagine the struggle. I wish there could be any platform where we can reach to each other without the involvement of money. Where we can talk and help each other with our own experience.

MashaAllah Bacha bohut piyara hai❤ Salmat rahain aap sub Aameen

Mera beta autistic hai 😢 or Alhamdulillah buhat changing aai hen time kay sath sath us mn therapy sessions se

@Lalisaaa12376

2 ай бұрын

Mere 2 bachy hai autistic

Mashallah bohat peyara beata he allah us ko sehat wali zindgi dy beati dua go hon

Apka beta mashallah bohat piara hay is zida bachay dis able hotay hen.

آج کے دن بھی آٹزم کے بارے میں معلومات پاکستان میں نا ہونے کے برابر ہیں۔ میری ایک عزیزہ کا بچہ بھی اسی کیفیت سے دوچار ہے۔ وہ بچہ کوئی زور سے بولے بھی تو روتا ہے ۔ اور آگے سے اسکی ماں کو بتایا جاتا ہے کہ آپ اسکی تربیت ٹھیک نہیں کر رہی ہم تو جیسے ہیں ویسے ہی رہیں گے۔ ۔ ہمارے بچے تو نہیں روتے ۔ ۔۔۔ کیا کوئی پلیٹ فارم ایسا نہیں ہے جہاں ان بچوں کے ساتھ کیسے رہنا ہے ۔ اس بارے میں تعلیم دی جائے؟

@mezsalman

2 ай бұрын

I don’t think any such facility available in Pakistan it is a test for parents and deal accordingly

@user-je6op3wq8r

2 ай бұрын

السلام علیکم. جی میری بچی CP چائلڈ ہے. میرا تعلق لاہور سے ہے. چلڈرن ہسپتال میں ڈاکٹر شازیہ اور ڈاکٹر کاملہ بہت اچھی سروسز دے رہی ہے بچوں کو ہسپتال میں پورا ایک ڈپارٹمنٹ ان بچوں کیلئے ہے اللہ پاک سب کے معاملات میں آسانی پیدا کر یں (آمین)

@sadiaakhtar3559

2 ай бұрын

Malomat sub Quraan main mojood hain,namaz , Masjid, respect elders stop lying live in parada,pray deeply.Azan Kay bad dua mangain,go to Makkah again and again

Kindest people I have ever met Lubna & Khawar Bhai..may Allah SWT bless you all the more

Ma sha Allah bohat bahadur parents hen aur bohat pisitive hen..Allah pak innk bachy ko jaldi jaldi sehatyab kry

These parents deserve special awards. The state has totally failed in giving rights or relief to these innocent kids. I think they deserve top awards....

Indeed as a Therapist I believe parental therapy is very important.

اللّٰہ ان ماں باپ کے حوصلے کو ہمیشہ سر بلند رکھیں اور ان کے اور سب کے بچوں کو صحت والی لمبی زندگی عطا فرمائے آمین

@IrumtayyabIrum

2 ай бұрын

Ameen bht shukria

Very touching. May Allah give you both strength to look after your son. You're doing great. Don't get phased by the society.

Ese maa baap normal parents se ziada khaalis muhabbat dete hain apne bachon ko aur muhabbat ko aam logon se ziada samajhtay hain.

Allah ap k sath hai Ye Allah ki traf say gift hai Plz care about it Ap apni videos bna k share karain un sab k liye Jin k bachon k sath Bhi is trhan k issue Hain Apki ye neki Allah zaror qabool karay ga Meri Duaa hai Yarab in sab bachon KO surf Kun khe k bilkul theak Kar day Ameen Regards

May Allah SWT increase your patience n grant you more power n make life easier for you n your child. Allah SWT put this in your life, n may HE create ways to make things happen in your favour. May Allah bless tou ❤

Allah ap KO himmat de, we been through this and still going through my 2nd son is totally disabled born fine and our lives shattered and our lives changed forever, we still dream of seeing a little change in his condition like he say a word , he sit or stand or at least he drink eat well it's been struggle ,

@asmairumjamil3031

2 ай бұрын

Allah bless you and your kids❤

you and your son are love mashallah. You are the blessed parents.

I salute u this ladies. Lots of love to u people. May Allah gives you more and more power.

Such a commendable work ..to upload this video..huge thnks ..my 23 yr old son is Autistic

Very important topic shared for public awareness 👍

Just trust Allah, He has chosen such parents/caregivers for a better life hereafter.

I completely agree with this video. A significant issue is that not every child is autistic, and each child has unique needs. Due to a lack of knowledge and education, many try to convince parents that there is no problem and that everything will settle over time. On the other extreme, some are quick to label a child as crazy at the first sign of unusual behaviour. Advice for Parents: If you notice any unusual behaviour, such as a lack of eye contact, don't ignore it. Consult a specialist. The sooner you accept and address it, the better it will be for you and your child.

So much respect for you

Is tarha ke parents humarey mashrey ke liye aik roshun misal hain

more power to you.....and thanks a lot for being perspective changer....❤❤❤😊

Allah mazori we pak olad ata kry sub ko

More power to you, lovely and respectable parents

Thanks for sharing your experience… we are in the same boat…. Loads of prayers for you and your son ❤

I am mother of 26years awesome boy. Every little thing they do counts and they need to be appreciated for every minute effort of them. We take things for granted but they don't and that I have learnt in my 26 years of experience. DON'T GIVE UP MOM..I DON'T GIVE UP ON YOU❤ In the moments when I was left alone to handle the bittersweet reality he kept me going and I D I Y E myself. Today I help parents, talk to them and share what ever knowledge I have. My efforts are not limited to just the child but mainly the parents.

I am a mother of autistic son , and blv me its not that bad , let kid take his time he will do everything with time , i had given him mashed food for 4 years he took his time to eat solid , let him have lot of sensory play options all day , this indian youtuber helped me lot , rina atharba she is not very educated but she has so much knowledge about therapy that autistic kids need

@asmairumjamil3031

2 ай бұрын

Yes,

Thank you for sharing your story.

Thank you for creating this awareness.

Love this beautiful lady and her cute boy

Well done

Thanks made my day

Loads of prayers for your child.

Slutes to you both! You are so wonderful and amazing as parents... He is absolutely fine, he is viewing the world in a new way and thats an achievement itself. We are proud of you, proud of him... Stay Blessed!

Love for all KIDS

I have child autism spectrum disorder.but music sakoon nahie daita.quran SE jur jaiye sakoon a jaiye ga.

@SaimaAhsan-iz6ee

2 ай бұрын

Can we stop judgements???

@sidrayounusawan

2 ай бұрын

No I am not judging.if u read quran with translation.Allah tala said mairey zikar SE sakoon milta hia. You tell me first gab insaan nearly mout Kay qareen hota hai why people read Surat yaseen and sura Rehman etc.then music on Ker do takay roo KO sakoon milye. Good advice does not mean I am judging.i am the same boat like this parents.

Superbbbb parents 😊I'm special Educator n v r with u

@wattakhel6236

2 ай бұрын

Can you please share any platform where we can contact you

My kid is also autistic. Many times people judge us and some people tell us not to take such kids out It really hurts No one understands anything

Amen

Nice

We need a lot of awareness about physical and mental heaktg needs

I can understand this.. going through this 😢

@SamirAkram39

2 ай бұрын

Me too😢😢

خدارا ہم ایسے لوگوں کے جذبات کے ساتھ نہ کھیلیں کبھی آپ خود کو ان کی جگہ پر رکھ کر سوچیں

I can understand your pain I have also child 😢

in our society ppl dont understand.special therpies and extra work is needed. and not all cities in pakistan has children therapists to help...i have border line autistic kid..thx God she started going to normal school ..but still has a lot of autistic traits... my neices is autistic and ahe is like your son and she is 4 yrs old..she is always hyper out of control ppl dont understand😢

Depending on parents

Iska koe tu hidden reason hoga k asay bchon ka parent bnna jo iss duniya ki nzr mein missfit hein but real mein wo hr gunah se pak hein unko kuch pta ni kya ho rha is duniya mein tu yekinsn iska aik ajar zror hoga ahirat mein.

My 20 years old son is autistic. Life gets very hard with these children. I visited Pakistan in 2012 . I really want to visit again but keep on thinking should l take him there or not.

@sadiaakhtar3559

2 ай бұрын

You should must have to live in Muslim country it's cure.

آپ لوگ ڈاکٹر جاوید جو سورہ رحمن تھراپی کا بتاتے ھیں ان کو جواں کریں میرے بیٹے کو بھی یہی بتیا تھا اللہ تعالی کے فضل سے بہت کرم ہو گیا ہے یقین کی قوت کے ساتھ کریں اللہ تعالی کے لیے سب کچھ ممکن ہے

Leave music and show biz he will be fine.Just pray,it's because of music and live with parda.

Koi bho suprt nahi karta aese bachon ko maa ke sewa

😢

24/7

Ap ka song. Yeh kahan pe

My God, this is hard.

عمر یہ نہیں دیکھتی کہ کاروبار نقصان میں جا رہا ہے یا نفع میں، پیسہ کمانے کا بوجھ سر پر آئے گا یا موٹر سائیکل پر۔ زندگی کا پہیہ اور موٹر سائیکل کو مسلسل چلنا چاہیے۔ زندگی جدوجہد جاری رکھنے کا نام ہے۔ مہنگے پیٹرول پر کیسے قابو پایا جا سکتا ہے؟. Age does not see whether the business is going into loss or profit, the burden of making money will fall on the head or on the bike. The wheel of life and the bike must run continuously. Life is the name of continuing struggle. How can expensive petrol be controlled?.

I want to sing a sing at autism. I am a singer and a mother of differently abled child

Why they giving separate interviews

early signs kia tha.

اسلام عیکم میں آپکی پریشانی سمج سکتی ھو کیوں کے میرے دو بچوں کو آٹزم ۓ لیکن ہم یہ بات کسی کوسمجا نیں سکتے جس کے اپنے پر آے وہ ہی سمج سکتاے

@SamirAkram39

2 ай бұрын

💯 agreed kisi ko nahi samjha sakte but its Ok😊

@IrumtayyabIrum

2 ай бұрын

G bilkul

Do you know any place in karachi or islam abad for autistic adults my son is 23 non verbal and autistic

Mere behter koi bi is bat ko nahi semje ga kun k mein kud mazoor hun

Autism "معزوری" nhi h.. pls change the thumbnail

😭😭😭😭😭 mery 2 bachy hai

Mein janti hon kia guzri hai ye kehne wale nahi jante

@ohno3770

2 ай бұрын

😢yeh society kha jati hia ma bap ko

Maa ke ilawa koi bhi sath nahi deta me 24 sal se apne cp bachy ko akely hi shanbal rahi ho

گھر میں ماں اچھی ہیں، گھر کی قسمت جاگ جائے گی۔ جس گھر میں بچے فیشن، میڈیا، ڈراموں اور فلموں کے جنون میں مبتلا ہوں، جس گھر میں بچوں کو خالہ، نوکرانی وغیرہ کی تربیت دی جائے، ماں کے بچے بھٹک جاتے ہیں۔ ایک فیشن ایبل ماں جنت میں نہیں جائے گی، وہ جہنم میں جائے گی۔ گھر میں بھابھی اچھی ہوں، گھر کی قسمت جاگ جائے گی۔ گھر کے بچے فیشن، میڈیا، ڈراموں اور فلموں کے دیوانے ہیں، گھر کے بچے کو خالہ، نوکرانی کی تربیت دی گئی، وہ بھٹک گیا۔ فیشن ایبل ماں جہنم میں جائے گی۔

@kusar4489

2 ай бұрын

Allah ne janit jahnim deni he ya naozbillah ap ne

Mery 2 bachy zahni abnormal Hain

@sadiaakhtar3559

2 ай бұрын

Read Quraan and do dua they will be fine it's miracle for you.