HOW NOT TO TALK TO KIDS (10 Parenting Mistakes When You Open Your Mouth)
HOW NOT TO TALK TO KIDS
The Parenting Junkie knows first hand how not to talk to kids. With four little kids at home, mindful parenting and teaching mindfulness to kids by example is top priority. But mainstream parenting is saying the opposite! Do you want see mindful parenting compared to mainstream parenting advice? It's the start to learn how to become a better parent friend. So let's learn what kids want to hear instead. We'll tackle big ones like how to get your kid to apologize. This is conscious parenting advice for all who are open to it. Instead of mindless talking, you can teach empathy to children! Instead of power struggles, teach empathy in kids. It's amazing to see mindfulness in kids. So step back and listen to what your toddler needs to hear, and then get through to children in a meaningful way. Let's do parenting how to respond instead of react.
10 Parenting Mistakes When You Open Your Mouth
1. Because I said so [1:00]
2. It’s your fault [2:10]
3. Apologize, now! [2:50]
4. You’re OK! [4:16]
5. You’re being difficult! [6:56]
6. Stop Crying! [8:25]
7. It's not hard, it's easy! [12:28]
8. We don't do that! [13:46]
9. Go to your room! [15:11]
10. This is my home and I decide! [16:10]
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New subscriber here! I have 2 boys and I'm just starting gentle parenting. My kids are 7 and 9 but it's never too late to start. Thank you for getting me on track. Breaking generational trauma 💔
I used to get the "Stop crying" one - usually with an added "or I'll give you something to cry about!", and the occasional "You've got nothing to be worried/scared/sad about" - even now I find it dificult to express my feelings.
This was super helpful 👏❤️
Love, love, love your video. Thank you for your video. I’m glad to hear you have podcast. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
How lovely you are explaining number 5! For the next time when one of my kids yelling I am going to support him/her with asking he/she wants some help.
LOVE!!! Thank you for sharing your wisdom and your advice!! I really needed your channel this morning!!! #New Subscriber alert!!!
Love! Of course ❤️
This is very true. I tell my son when he's crying or very upset to come give me a hug and he actually stops .. but if I tell him to stop crying he crys louder or more dramatic.. I'm trying to be more mindful and just more aware and things are much better . He's 5 years old . I didn't grow up with gentle parenting more like old school parenting .with the belt lol .. I don't want to do the exact same as my parents did .
@sidorkomarina1
2 жыл бұрын
Way to go! I'm also trying to give my children a different upbringing as I didn't understand why I was treated in a way I was, when I was a child. I also noticed when I give my daughter lots of hugs and hold her for a minute or two and kiss her for a long time before bed, she doesn't wake up in the middle of the night and doesn't come to me. Her love tank is full :)
Thank you
Amazing
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I cannot believe your doctor and midwife said that to you. I'm sorry you experienced that and thank you for the video
WOW.
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I remember being told or forced to apologize when I was a kid. I didn’t mean it but I’d say it to not get into more trouble. I also remember thinking, you can’t make me mean it. 😣
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I wish I would explain to a CHILD why lol no. I said it. Do it. Or suffer consequences. A lot of these tips will have your child running the household. Maybe this isn’t the channel for me. Smh
@sidorkomarina1
2 жыл бұрын
Just try it :) Sometimes it's the shortest answer that satisfied their need for understanding. It also makes your child smarter and more successful.
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