HOW MY MOM FELT ABOUT ME MARRYING A BLACK GIRL

For the first time in a long time, we have a Simas’ mom joining us as a guest on our videos! Today, the conversation will be in a q&a format but mostly about how my mom felt about me marrying a black woman from Jamaica. At the time, this would be more or less how my mom feels about my girlfriend, who happens to be a black girl.
Avri is the one asking the questions, so you won’t see much of her but Simas’ mom aka good gyal Esma is handling all the questions. We started with Lithuania, where Simas’ family came from, then moved on to life in Trenton, NJ, the first place where Simas’ family lived in since moving to the US.
Eventually, we moved into more personal questions: Simas’ interracial dating history, why he chose a black wife, how many girls he’s dated and so much more. We also learn how Simas’ family in Lithuania and Sweden thought about our marriage too. There aren’t too many Lithuanian-Jamaican couples out there.
Interracial marriage is not very common in Lithuania because there are not many foreigners living in Lithuania, especially from outside of Europe. Seeing people that are black or darker complexion is still fairly unusual in some parts of Lithuania. However, with the economy and freedom rising extremely rapidly, more and more people from all over the world are moving to the Baltics (Lithuania, Latvia and Estonia). Things are rapidly changing and the population is becoming more and more diverse.
Some people also asked questions about Simas family: is he an only child? Why is he an only child? Why did you come to live in the US? What was the situation like in Lithuania then vs now? So many questions, so little time! Maybe we will have to make a part 2 of this video. This is a part of our international interracial family vlog! It's family-friendly and educational about our life abroad in the US.
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A little bit about us: We are Avri & Simas. We live in New York City! 🗽🏙 Much of what you see is based on our lives here along with influences from our home countries 🌎🌍
👩🏾 Avri is an aspiring scientist originally from Jamaica 🇯🇲
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Our mission is to spread love and positivity. We embrace our cultural differences and learn from each other every day! We come from polar-opposite worlds, but we love life together 🤴🏼👸🏾 We are an interracial couple and an international family and we love to learn more about each other’s cultures, always!
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  • @AvriSimas
    @AvriSimas3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you to our wonderful Patreons for supporting us: Joseph Reardon csnsekkle Natasha Francia Khiana Burrell If you want to support us on Patreon, you can find our website here: www.patreon.com/avrisimas

  • @cynthiajonas7848

    @cynthiajonas7848

    3 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful picture

  • @merlineduffus7279

    @merlineduffus7279

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lovely family

  • @j.oreardon9426

    @j.oreardon9426

    3 жыл бұрын

    Please support this wonderful couple for any amount you can afford! They bring us joy and entertainment, so this is how we can show our love and support! My best wishes to the whole LitJam family

  • @kiriforever1

    @kiriforever1

    3 жыл бұрын

    (

  • @msshygirl1015

    @msshygirl1015

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the shout out. Love your channel. You never disappoint me with uploading weekly.😊👍🏽

  • @ivylind.5072
    @ivylind.50723 жыл бұрын

    Our children have to marry and date who they love we are not the ones who is going to live their lives . As long as they are happy then i am happy .

  • @breadbutter4221
    @breadbutter42213 жыл бұрын

    I like how Simas said he felt he could relate to Avri because they have somewhat similar backgrounds, they both are immigrants, have hard working parents trying to do their best, studying and both having a drive to achieve the American dream. I've never really thought of that before.

  • @dollfaceddiaries
    @dollfaceddiaries3 жыл бұрын

    Sima's and his mom look like brother & sister . His mom is very open , honest and down to earth .

  • @lovenature4241

    @lovenature4241

    2 жыл бұрын

    God bless this mon

  • @nelliecurrie5625
    @nelliecurrie56253 жыл бұрын

    Great mother/son relationship! You can see how much your Mom loves you Simas by how she allowed you to make your own decisions. Avri is a wonderful young woman

  • @TheDelaveaus
    @TheDelaveaus3 жыл бұрын

    When i met my mother inlaw for the firat time i didnt speak any frech at all i spend a few weeks with her and when it was times to leave we huged and cried the connection was unbelievable without language....love knows no boundaries, love you both.

  • @esternwairimu4959

    @esternwairimu4959

    3 жыл бұрын

    Love have no boundaries ,and love don't know colour ,😘 love it's love ❤️

  • @reneed9607

    @reneed9607

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@esternwairimu4959 I taught my best friends mother to drive she is Korean and spoke no English she passed her test 😊

  • @margiecocks934
    @margiecocks9343 жыл бұрын

    "as soon as everyone saw you they didn't want to let you go." That's huge, Avri once you have a place in the matriarch's heart nothing or no one can take your blessings. You are loved. And you also got your soul mate Simas

  • @rocheldobson8165
    @rocheldobson81653 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful Couple ❤️ Simmons Once U Go Black U Never Go Back 🤩

  • @redsteddi

    @redsteddi

    3 жыл бұрын

    LoL that's one from my youth 😅

  • @j.oreardon9426
    @j.oreardon94263 жыл бұрын

    I LOVED this video! Please,express my sincere gratitude to Simas' mother for taking the time to speak with us. I am older and faced a much different response to the young lady I first dated. It changed my relationship with my family and the course of my life. God bless both of your parents for being so open and loving that all they cared about was their child being happy with a good person. I write this with tears, but I enjoyed every second. My best wishes to you two forever

  • @olivebrown1758

    @olivebrown1758

    3 жыл бұрын

    Iamsohappyfor_ouguys

  • @peggytaylor9179

    @peggytaylor9179

    3 жыл бұрын

    Olive Brown p

  • @dianaoracha7608

    @dianaoracha7608

    3 жыл бұрын

    We only one race that's the human race ............as long as you are happy who cares

  • @fluffypuppy0

    @fluffypuppy0

    3 жыл бұрын

    awwww

  • @violetroyal980

    @violetroyal980

    3 жыл бұрын

    WOW, Keep the FAITH

  • @melonymanns9901
    @melonymanns99013 жыл бұрын

    Simus looks like his Beautiful Mother. She could honestly pass as his older sister. I Love ❤️ all your videos!!!

  • @elizabethwalters9521
    @elizabethwalters95213 жыл бұрын

    Avril is very intelligent smart beautiful inside out .

  • @barringtonwatson7534

    @barringtonwatson7534

    3 жыл бұрын

    In

  • @tamaraanderson6793
    @tamaraanderson67933 жыл бұрын

    I really appreciate the honesty. Love has no boundaries. Can simas mom get any cuter.

  • @mauricehenry7393

    @mauricehenry7393

    3 жыл бұрын

    As long as my son live with a woman and happy it's OK but it as to be a (woman)💙💙🙏

  • @ggunnz8621
    @ggunnz86213 жыл бұрын

    I loved the honest answers that your mom gave. She was a bit camera shy but that understandable and she looks just like Simas, May you continue to grow strong in love and respect for each other,

  • @williamjohnson3301

    @williamjohnson3301

    3 жыл бұрын

    I love everything about jam people I hope I will have one of them In my life as a wife

  • @glenmcdaniel
    @glenmcdaniel3 жыл бұрын

    You do look like your mom. Kudos to her though for being open-minded and progressive in her thinking. She is from a racially-monolithic country, so the presumption might be that she is not open to racially (or even ethnically) diverse relationships. So great that she is. Awesome family. You should do the same sort of interview with your mom, Avri.

  • @paulamckenzie2356
    @paulamckenzie23563 жыл бұрын

    Avri is a very bubbly girl anyone would like her.

  • @sandrareid9033
    @sandrareid90333 жыл бұрын

    Hey guys you are absolutely gorgeous I am a Jamaican too who is also married to a Italian American and we di have a great relationship so I wish you both all the best in all your endeavours that you pursue have a great day and I do look forward to seeing more of your videos.

  • @Sthmohtwenty

    @Sthmohtwenty

    3 жыл бұрын

    U r bless....

  • @SimoneandPat
    @SimoneandPat3 жыл бұрын

    Twins!! You’re mom is such a sweetheart God bless her!

  • @schlonmartin8336
    @schlonmartin83363 жыл бұрын

    Simus, your mom is so sweet and honest with the questions Avris is asking her. 😊

  • @alene6579
    @alene65793 жыл бұрын

    This was a good video, getting to know his mother and her feelings about your relationship. Beautiful!🥰

  • @sharonabraham3676
    @sharonabraham36763 жыл бұрын

    You both have beautiful Mothers. Love them both. Blessings to everyone

  • @TheDelaveaus
    @TheDelaveaus3 жыл бұрын

    Avri is lovable snd warm its easy to like her, and yall this shes gorgeous on camera meeting her in person us twice as good the camera does no justice and her smile is everything, love me some avri.❤❤❤❤

  • @hotarugracequeen7349
    @hotarugracequeen73493 жыл бұрын

    The love, respect, and ease of communication among you three are simply fantastic. Keep setting a great foundation; Jamaican sistah here. so proud of you and your focus.

  • @TheMckinsons
    @TheMckinsons3 жыл бұрын

    Wah gwan Simas mom. Thank you for being honest x Thank you guys for covering this... it's great to have open discussions like this

  • @merlineduffus7279
    @merlineduffus72793 жыл бұрын

    Troublesome Simas with his mom 🤗🤗taking off her glasses 🤗♥️

  • @merlineduffus7279
    @merlineduffus72793 жыл бұрын

    Bless up 🤗🤗💯everyone, u both make a wonderful couple

  • @laurenthompson569
    @laurenthompson5693 жыл бұрын

    So cute, to beautiful hearts joined as one. Mom look like she is very sweet as well, be blessed

  • @jacquelinegrayden4706
    @jacquelinegrayden47063 жыл бұрын

    You have the best mother in law ever, I just love her vibes. She raised Simas right.

  • @kiriforever1
    @kiriforever13 жыл бұрын

    You guys have great individual energy & together you are the ‘bomb’. Yes, Mom & son look very much alike, no doubt about who the Momma is. Moms is a good ‘egg’ to participate in your blogging. I enjoyed the sweetness & honesty that all three of you shared with us. Simas is blessed with great loving parents. Simas & Avir are both really smart young people, with a good head on their shoulders. You are & will be blessed with a long married life.

  • @ruths365
    @ruths3653 жыл бұрын

    enjoyed this interview and love Simas' mom. This was great. Now let's see an interview with Avri's mom.

  • @amandajones39
    @amandajones393 жыл бұрын

    I was a secret viewer but I'm coming out... love you guys.

  • @Nuncy_gtf
    @Nuncy_gtf3 жыл бұрын

    Well said simmas on your last answers. Beauty is skin deep, which is a lovely way to put into perspective.

  • @kenieshabrown-russell2366
    @kenieshabrown-russell23663 жыл бұрын

    This was so enjoyable! Keep doing more videos.

  • @ShantellTT
    @ShantellTT3 жыл бұрын

    Such a beautiful couple...Your mom is such a welcoming mom💕...I just found this channel and I am inlove already I had to click the bell..Nuff love from JA🇯🇲

  • @maryflowers4731
    @maryflowers47313 жыл бұрын

    Guys what great video, Sima your mother is very lovely person!!!

  • @valeriebernard7116
    @valeriebernard71163 жыл бұрын

    I applaud both of you tremendously. Love is color blind. No one I responsible for the actions of one’s heart.

  • @Geekmedia_
    @Geekmedia_3 жыл бұрын

    Love your mom Simas. Very honest and I’m glad they embraced your wife

  • @shanicegordon1935
    @shanicegordon19353 жыл бұрын

    New sub here....you guys are so real an relatable... I'm literally watching all your videos one after the other.... thanks for sharing your journey◉‿◉

  • @annemariearrington1968
    @annemariearrington19683 жыл бұрын

    enjoyed the visit for the first time what up from california will check back to see what is going on stay safe one love

  • @moniquelindsay-johnson6908
    @moniquelindsay-johnson69083 жыл бұрын

    Simas, you're mom is really sweet and seems to be a cool mom. I pray God continues to strengthen and bless your family.

  • @peasikumoja6746
    @peasikumoja67463 жыл бұрын

    Wishing y’all a great life! Health and Wealth!

  • @charmainewilson-eze6183
    @charmainewilson-eze61833 жыл бұрын

    A wonderful mom. Wishing you all happiness, joy and long lives together!

  • @AltheaHewitt
    @AltheaHewitt3 жыл бұрын

    Hey guys. I always be checking in when I can and always love your content.

  • @SunFlower-yz2qk
    @SunFlower-yz2qk3 жыл бұрын

    Simas’ mom was open-minded and honest with her answers. I laughed at how Avri pressed hard on Simas about the other girls it was too funny. Love you guys.

  • @cherroxanne1339
    @cherroxanne13393 жыл бұрын

    Lovely video. God's continued blessings over you all!! 💕👍🏽

  • @tobby6312
    @tobby63123 жыл бұрын

    I have been thinking about you both! I am glad you are all doing well. Good to see you ❤.

  • @steffyandy3284
    @steffyandy32843 жыл бұрын

    I have been following you guys, I think you guys are perfect for each other and I wish you nothing but the best.

  • @lisafrance6019
    @lisafrance60193 жыл бұрын

    I really enjoy this ur mom is so loving

  • @lookingup7638
    @lookingup76383 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful video! Beautiful Momma! Beautiful couple! First time watching! I think I'll subscribe.

  • @lottripple3
    @lottripple33 жыл бұрын

    Happy Sunday to you all.

  • @tracyannbrown364
    @tracyannbrown3643 жыл бұрын

    First time commenting...but watch you guys all the time just love how you guys flex nuff love 🏝

  • @joslynlancaster9842
    @joslynlancaster98423 жыл бұрын

    I really enjoyed this video.I don’t post often, but I have been watching your videos from the beginning👍

  • @kelleshamorris-adams9640
    @kelleshamorris-adams9640 Жыл бұрын

    Lots of humour. You made me smile. Thanks tor being authentic. Enjoy your family.

  • @wesleyrattray4236
    @wesleyrattray42363 жыл бұрын

    Very open minded and candid. Very good.

  • @BasedZillenial
    @BasedZillenial3 жыл бұрын

    I got so excited when I saw that Simas is from Lithuania! I visited in 2017 and was supposed to go last month but the trip was cancelled because of covid. 😔 What a beautiful country! 🇱🇹 And what a beautiful couple. 💛

  • @povilas007

    @povilas007

    3 жыл бұрын

    Nice to hear that!

  • @lisaj3915
    @lisaj39153 жыл бұрын

    Enjoyed the video. Nice to meet Simas mother.

  • @cherylfenton5390
    @cherylfenton53903 жыл бұрын

    Simas your mom is so sweet & funny.😊. It was nice of her to share. She seems to be very straightforward. I enjoyed this Q&A.🙂❤

  • @Dmudahy
    @Dmudahy3 жыл бұрын

    Aka Kuliegirl. Great Q&A Love his mom. I met my husband at 19 also and we are still together 40 years later 🙏🏽❤️❤️🙏🏽😍

  • @martharinebiseko1457

    @martharinebiseko1457

    2 жыл бұрын

    Wow

  • @Dmudahy

    @Dmudahy

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@martharinebiseko1457 Thank you 😊

  • @barbararichards8403
    @barbararichards84033 жыл бұрын

    Hi family. Love you guys you keep it real. He looks like this mom.

  • @joyt9389
    @joyt93893 жыл бұрын

    Hey guys, my husband and I have been watching you since a few days now. We love you both. Yaadies of course but lives in NJ.

  • @francesiadams7723
    @francesiadams77233 жыл бұрын

    I love you both , I like both of your accents I missed Georgia she can sure nuff cook and has a funny sense of humor. I like Simas parents also

  • @foxydlao264
    @foxydlao2643 жыл бұрын

    Nice in law.... I love your mom Simas. She is so cool...

  • @pwellington767
    @pwellington7673 жыл бұрын

    I love viewing what you share with us. Remove skin colour from the equation and we are really the same.Keep spreading love and understanding. And Avri, how are your medical studies getting on? Please press on: I think you will be great.

  • @Fishinghawk007
    @Fishinghawk0073 жыл бұрын

    You mom look really young. This is the second video I'm seeing very good so far.

  • @americannativeindianjamaci4971
    @americannativeindianjamaci49713 жыл бұрын

    I am a new subscriber I love this channel they are so adorable together.As a biracial couple..And Scott Mom is so supportive..May Jah Jah Bless them🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @edithmartin8233
    @edithmartin82333 жыл бұрын

    Simas really looks like his mom

  • @charjhean2011
    @charjhean20113 жыл бұрын

    Honesty is what I got from his MoMA. As long as my child is happy I am good. I also like Simas answer in regards to liking and appreciating her as his partner by the similarities that they shared. Stay in Loveand be Blessed 💞

  • @dalimcmahon2003
    @dalimcmahon20033 жыл бұрын

    You both have good caring parents. That’s a blessing.

  • @kindnessducuray2656
    @kindnessducuray26563 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much mom you’re the best❤️❤️💕

  • @catherinewilliams815
    @catherinewilliams8153 жыл бұрын

    Avri and Simas you guys are great. Keep loving each other. God bless.

  • @arlenesmall3741
    @arlenesmall37412 жыл бұрын

    I’m playing catch up. Love your vlogs.

  • @maffangel6256
    @maffangel62563 жыл бұрын

    Simas is a very kool and down to earth type of guy, I have nuff respect for him And his mom is really nice

  • @RukiaBlackBlazer
    @RukiaBlackBlazer3 жыл бұрын

    It's a testament too the goodness of Simas family that you Sis, never knew that they were shocked by his final pick of a mate. Awwww good people, they care about his happiness than making you feel any kind of way/unwelcome in their family... Tops...👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿✌🏾🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

  • @carolmcmc4079
    @carolmcmc40793 жыл бұрын

    We do love her for real. Miss seeing more of her. Yes they are carbon copy of each other. Yukon look good esmie? Gal!

  • @breadbutter4221
    @breadbutter42213 жыл бұрын

    Simas is the Male version of his mother. I like her honesty. I also like this video

  • @cathybarela4304
    @cathybarela43043 жыл бұрын

    Love you guys. Such a sweet love story. We all can learn something from this .

  • @sandraperry6454
    @sandraperry64542 жыл бұрын

    I just tuned in You guys are so cute 🥰 Simas is s great guy!!

  • @theplatenakfamily
    @theplatenakfamily3 жыл бұрын

    I know someone that looks very similar to Simas... It's crazy how much they resemble each other actually. Lol But I am glad that your families have so much love and respect for your decisions. You both are so fortunate to have such cohesion amongst your families with your relationship status and overall. Great subject! Thank you so much for sharing that perspective with the world.

  • @stephaniegreene539
    @stephaniegreene5393 жыл бұрын

    Simas mom looks like him, I really enjoyed the video. both moms are cute. 🇬🇾🤗🌹

  • @veronicalake1572
    @veronicalake15723 жыл бұрын

    Yes they definitely look like twins god bless you all I like his mom they are very humble people bless up

  • @crich14ify
    @crich14ify3 жыл бұрын

    Really lovely and honest q and a x

  • @andreaebanks1349
    @andreaebanks13493 жыл бұрын

    New subscriber. Love you guys. I am from Jamaica as well❤️

  • @tracydlu530
    @tracydlu5302 жыл бұрын

    I like your explanation Simas, it's so true.

  • @janicegriffith4844
    @janicegriffith48443 жыл бұрын

    This is my first time watching your videos, I love them I must say

  • @winsomepowell5072
    @winsomepowell50723 жыл бұрын

    Simas mom: respect your children who they choose ❤

  • @marciasatchell169
    @marciasatchell1693 жыл бұрын

    I enjoyed this video so much. One love one world.

  • @ratedr9672
    @ratedr96723 жыл бұрын

    Was casually watching until I heard “big up yuhself”! Subscribed 😏

  • @aleyshastanford6453
    @aleyshastanford64533 жыл бұрын

    Loved this ❤❤❤❤

  • @Harris-Smith
    @Harris-Smith3 жыл бұрын

    Big up to Simas mommy. Simas and his mom looks so alike. Like the candid nature of the conversation. And mom allowing her son to make his own choice.

  • @yvonnegrant6481
    @yvonnegrant64813 жыл бұрын

    Big up to Sima's mom when she said it her son life she respect him for loving a black Jamaican girl all the

  • @vheslop3662
    @vheslop36623 жыл бұрын

    Love your confidence guys relationship. Continued success

  • @namelastname2127
    @namelastname21273 жыл бұрын

    I've enjoyed the video, well said Simas and yes you are right regarding that you guys are from a similar background where you guys are coming from and weren't born Americans, that way you both will appreciate things and each other more, and also have many attributes and things in common as well, I've respected you guys so much and I'm totally a huge fan of yours, whenever you both gets the chance, please do something special for your parents / in-laws, like Avri to Simas mother and Simas to Avri's mother as well, and keep your relationship going and spice it up as well at times.

  • @angelalumwai6164
    @angelalumwai61643 жыл бұрын

    Definitely, Simas and his mother resembled very much. His loving, demonstrative relationship with his mother is a good indicator of Simas making a excellent husband. You both have beautiful, fun and loving relationship, which I have previously said. I hope it last a lifetime.

  • @winsomepowell5072
    @winsomepowell50723 жыл бұрын

    Special bond between son and mom

  • @jenniferbennett4241
    @jenniferbennett42413 жыл бұрын

    I love love love you guys videos. So really no put on!

  • @paulawashington6111
    @paulawashington61113 жыл бұрын

    Sims your Mom is so nice, very much like you stay blessed. 😊😊😊💕💕💕

  • @joanmclean6787
    @joanmclean67873 жыл бұрын

    Just be happy and enjoy each other. Make what you want it to be. One Love!🪴👍🏽

  • @gmvanz01847
    @gmvanz018473 жыл бұрын

    I LIKE THAT JAZZY BACKGROUND MUSIC !

  • @soniaunstoppable4862
    @soniaunstoppable48623 жыл бұрын

    Yes. He has a young looking mom. Love you guys.

  • @bryandixon2181
    @bryandixon21813 жыл бұрын

    As a couple you look great together ❤ brings people together no matter race or color and when you have children they will be a wonderful addition to your families and I'm sure they will know more than one language. I found your channel through Mel and Ludo and Tyler and Sarah.

  • @guerdieajuste479
    @guerdieajuste4793 жыл бұрын

    Simas is his mom twins she is very nice we need to see her more often in the channel love y’all