As a man its essential to know how women think and vice versa. Imagine thinking you're loved by the person you love only to find out many years into the marriage that they just found you attractive or you just had something they wanted that was rare. As a man who makes money, you'll be around women who THINK they genuinely love you, not knowing they're only drawn to your financial stability. Because they think they truly love you, you'll start to believe them too. However, the onus is on you to look beyond that financially-induced love women naturally give off and find the woman that will stick by you even when you're shamefully broke. Same goes for women, it's your responsibility to find the man who will consistently love you as your beauty fades with time because there'll be men who will THINK they truly love but are only attracted to you and want exclusive access to your body. By the time he realizes he was only attracted to you, he has wasted 10 years of your life. In conclusion, hold yourselves responsible for the people you choose as life partners because na you go suffer am.