I just turned 31, no kids & not married. The amount of people that ask me why am not yet married is making me depressed. Even my mom is being pressured by the aunties and fears that something is wrong with me😢 when I tell you, the african community can be ruthless

@juljaltv9489

Жыл бұрын

Hmmmm

@sheisjacinta_

Жыл бұрын

Ignore Chase your purpose sis

@ifeifesi

Жыл бұрын

Africans are quick to pressure women into marriage & this forces women to marry in a hurry to men they should never even have looked at.

@berveline

Жыл бұрын

Sis, I’m in the same exact boat as you!

@ngoziufere

Жыл бұрын

I’m sorry about this. You need to ignore. I know it’s easier said than done. I’m 32 and I’m so grateful that I don’t get that from my immediate family. I’ve had aunties say ridiculous things, but my family stands up for me all the time. Focus on your purpose. The marriage will definitely come.

Let’s not act like we’re not noticing the quality of this video Kelechi is really killing it while still handling motherhood

@kelechimgbemena

Жыл бұрын

Haha!... nicee!!.. i actually filmed this video with my old camera, the canon t6i.. good to know it still looks good!.. thank you..

@Enewerome_CQ

Жыл бұрын

@@kelechimgbemenai think it's the best in terms of quality among your recent videos.

@ThePatriciaPatrick

Жыл бұрын

@@kelechimgbemena what was your lighting set up because I use the same camera and I don’t get that😃

@oseofmat

Жыл бұрын

​@PatriciaPatrick lighting matters. I had a 700d, which is a T5i but my lighting was bad and I used the lens that came with it. Prime lenses are best to achieve good quality.

@achatwithgoitse

Жыл бұрын

@@kelechimgbemena definitely wanna know more about the microphone 🎤 😍

“Love is not enough to sustain marriage” my dad always reminded me of this and I’m glad I know this at age 20. 😇

@downbad2874

Жыл бұрын

There’s a lot of things that aren’t enough for marriage not just love lotta reasons why marriages fail that’s life

Your video + audio quality is always on point ❤ hello little princess

@officialfaithokwuosa

Жыл бұрын

Love how you support others @sisiyemmieTV

Can we take a moment to appreciate how gorgeous our niece is? God bless her tons and your family Kelechi 🤍🤍🤍

@julietnkiruka_o7160

Жыл бұрын

Yeah,our niece is absolutely gorgeous 🥰

Love is not enough to sustain marriage, my older brother said this to me when I was about deciding my partner among my suitors. I really didn’t read meaning to it but now that I’m inside the marriage I now understand, all thanks to my brother

I love the consistency of the Holy Spirit. Lately, I've just been prophesying to my life, That my career shall not manifest half-baked, neither will my marriage, or my anything at all. God does not love Lukewarm, and neither will He give Lukewarm. Thanks for sharing Dear. Blessings

@Oyinda4lfe

Жыл бұрын

I love that "God does not love Lukewarm, and neither will he give Lukewarm". Preach!! 🔥🔥

Motherhood is humbling!!! I tell myself that I am a super human because, I have been doing it with my son since birth. Both mum and mum in-law are late so I carried my cross❤❤

@BridgetJonesz

Жыл бұрын

I have great respect for mommies who don’t have mommies to help them during early Motherhood & have been holding it down themselves every single day🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽❤️👑

" He is not a mediocre God, so why would you think basic" ...the entire video is so beautiful and chill😍😍

I’ve always heard African and Nigerian mothers are the BEST grandparents ever. Even though I’m American inspire to be the me

When you talked about single mom’s, I instantly broke down. The recognition was so genuine and heartfelt 💗 May God help us all in our journeys of womanhood and motherhood 💖🙏

"Do Not Pray For What Is Not Your's" Felt that, & had to put it up on status 😊 Always seek God's Will!

The calmness in your tone is what I need in my life. You said love is not enough. Well that’s because people think love is just a feeling from nowhere. So many things make me develop that love. As long as I like you and then love you, that’s everything. I love you because of so many reasons , and that’s all I need. So love for me is everything. I won’t live a man who does not adore and respect me, does not support my life’s dreams, is not intelligent, does not know, fear and love Jehovah God who is my father, has very wrong financial and moral values, is not playful and friendly, does not teach me and is not open to teaching, etc. There’s no way my heart can be yearning for you when you don’t have all these. No way! So if I love you, it means it’s not just a feeling from nowhere. And that will be enough for me. And until I get these in a man and develop that great feeling too, I’ll choose to remain single. I rather be alone and lonely than be married and lonely if you get what I mean. I need a companion and that’s the first and foremost reason behind my desire to get married. Not to have children alone. I need someone to go through this short life with. I believe he’s outside there in the world looking for me too. And until we meet, I’m not interested and can’t be pressured. Just to add, some men will claim they are all these but on first meeting he asks you to come to his house. That’s the new trend for Nigerian young men. No matter the amount of all these qualities you have, if you display that very annoying attitude to me, you can go to hell with all these qualities. But guess what, the one who truly adores me would want to take me out on a date and get to know me before talking about ‘let’s see at my place’ Till next time I’ll comment, stay kind, refuse to be pressured , stay rich❤

I love how natural this video is. Kudos mama!

This is so refreshing to watch. The editing is top notch.

I just love how cool and calm this was,can you please do more of this KC😊

This is so refreshing Kelechy🎉❤️

Let’s have more conversations. This was insightful. “What you see online is just a small percent of what goes on behind. No one’s life is perfect.”

Your daughter looks like an angel sent from God ❤️🕊️

This was so insightful,thank you for sharing❤ Please I need more videos like this, because I can relate😊

It’s so beautiful to watch you share this sincere, relatable piece. To think that I’ve been following you and your contents since like 2017. Your contents are always very insightful❤️❤️❤️

Your baby is distracting!!! She’s literally so so so cute🥺🥺

You're contents are always killing it. Thank you!

Thanks a lot for this. I thoroughly enjoyed watching this ❤❤

More of this kelechi. Don't stop inspiring people like us

Kelechi this type of content suits you and I love to see more of this from you. Love it!

As someone that just gave birth four months ago, the advices in this video are really valid. Motherhood is a such a journey yoooo nobody prepared me but I lovvve it

New subscriber! Hey x Thanks for this video. I definitely needed to hear this especially as I'm in my early 20s and been seeing many weddings and hearing about marriages. Not that I've been 'pressured' but indirectly and lightly I've been feeling it somehow whether it's in the form of a joke or just situations around. This info was very much great and a blessing and also encouraging as you spoke about life too

Thank you. Such an inspiring video, so insightful and chill, every word came naturally. 💛💛💛

Your words hit deep. I'm at work and trying to hold myself from crying. Thank you for the encouraging words

I love this message!❤❤❤it is giving me some sense of redirection.God has a plan for us all but we just need to let home do his thing

By just watching the intro! I got so interested thank you for sharing your honesty in this video🤍🤍🥂

From the thumbnail to video quality to editing to your look, everything is just super stunning!

I loved everything about this video…You’re killing it even in motherhood 🔥🔥

This video is so therapeutic. Thanks Kelly❤️

Thankyou so much Kelechi. This video really helped me reflect on my life so far. Especially at the part where you said dont pray for what is not yours 🙏🏾 Thankyou ❤

The quality of this video is amazing! Crisp and clear 🔥 you and your baby are so beautiful 😍 and great advice. Thanks for sharing ❤

I love these types of videos from you. Thank you Kelechi

Such a peaceful content! Thank you Kelechi…. Hey princess ❤️

This is really encouraging, thank you!

You look even more gorgeous as a mum Kelechi ❤, thanks for keeping it real

I always love your vlogs but this video is just simply the best, it is packed.Thank you very much.

“Do not pray for what is not yours” Preach

You dropped ALOT of Gems in this video❤

This vlog is therapeutic… first time here even though I follow you on instagram… Love love the realness in this video 👏👍. The part of having a great relationship with your in-laws is so true 👌. Your baby girl is super 🥰 and I can’t wait to be a mom too 🙏.

Love this video. Learnt a lot! Can we please get details on the hair. It’s so lovely!! ❤

Beautifully said and loving this glow on you

You just gain a new subscriber, I need to hear this today.Well spoken.. thank you ❤

This journey has always been a blessing and beautiful to be here since since and indeed the princess is glorious chai. Sis can you do your audio set up for us the curious minds to learn? Love love love y’all. God bless you.

Maturity is a thing of mindset, age and maturity are totally different… this is the word🙌🏽

@christopherreed3019

Жыл бұрын

Agreed. However. age USUALLY comes with maturity because Age comes with experience and experience usually comes with maturity. However, that is not always the case like you pointed out

Woooooooow!!! The quality, the eloquence, the beauty!! The cuteness 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

Thank you Kelechi for this video. I'm at a pivotal point in my life and this video encouraged me in so many ways. The Lord rewards you. You motivate me in so many ways, thank you. Shout out to K&K 😂, we love to see it 🎉 Cheers

Been waiting for this version of kelechi to have this conversation with us😭

I smiled throughout this video, such a beautifulll Mummy and daughter 😍 and thank you for all the advice. Please could you give details on the hair you have on, it’s gorgeous!

This video is so chilledddd Fenks a lot we appreciate you

I love what you said about wishing for the lives that others are living. What others can handle is different from what God has ordained for you

Thank you for this video! I'm so glad I discovered it. Really appreciate that you didn't glamorize motherhood and marriage. As someone who is in the 30s and in the early stages of dating, these milestones can feel completely out of reach. I met someone that could actually be a serious partner and now I see with a whole set of challenges I didn't even consider (money, time commitment, children, location, extended family, etc.) I love what you said about not praying for what someone else has. That's a fantastic point! My coupled friends feel envy over my single life and sometimes I feel sad that I don't have a committed partner yet. That's truly the wrong way to view our circumstances and I see that now! There were so many other great points & reflections in this video. I appreciate you. You are a very wise, rational woman. Congratulations and best of luck on your beautiful journey!

Such a peaceful and educative piece ❤

Thank God i watched it to the end. All i can say is thank you for sharing genuie tips on relationships marriage and life . Kelechi you are the real mvp. Godbless you lovely family.

Can we talk about how cute this weave is!!. beautiful video!!. your baby girl is so beautiful.

Honest Conversations (Vulnerability Really) is the kind of content we need

I don't know how I stumbled on this video but I really really really needed it. Thank you so much for sharing

I’m learning about the ‘what you think you want isn’t always what you need’. I don’t know about where I am now because it really feels like I’ve taken a LOT of bad steps or wrong paths. I sometimes feel stunted and now I’m just allowing myself to be carried wherever because now I am just tired. Nothing I had wanted to achieve has been achieved. That’s the truth and it has been the hardest thing for me to digest. I talk to God often and honestly. He knows I am trying. That’s all I have.

Thank you so much for sharing this. I like when you Said I should pray for my own part, for my own purpose to be actualized. Also the part when you said God doesn’t give you what you can’t handle. Thank you so much, this brought a lot of clarity.❤

I really learnt a lot watching this❤ you were very sincere with your advice

The thumbnail is fire 🔥 I love itttt

Thank you so much❤️ God bless you for your transparency 🎊🎊 May God give you the strength and grace to take care of your family 🙏🏾🙏🏾

This was an insightful video. Lots of lessons learnt.

My eyes were just glued to that cute little princess🥰 she’s so adorable.. first tine here btw and I’ve learnt a lot

Lol you're such a mom, I love it 😊😅 Absolutely on point with all the points made, having kids will really test your marriage. Great conversation P.S watching this while putting my 1 year old to sleep Love & Light to you

This is so beautiful, I love how peaceful and calm this video is, I am so scared of this transformation but i trust God

Am loving this new intro and how u have it… and yes it’s a 360 channel…and YES DO NOT PRAY FOR WHAT IS NOT YOURS???thanks for this content

It was almost like this message was for me …God bless you kelechi 🙏

I love the mood set , it keep you hooked and grounded. I love it. Do more please 🤍

@kelechimgbemena

Жыл бұрын

You got it!...will do... thank youu!!..

Thank you Kelechi, I don't know but I feel like this video lifted up my spirit😊

One thing with Kelechi you'll get quality in everything, from content to advice and she's absolutely the best. This was straight-up facts and impactful. It's how you balance motherhood and career for me. You're da best and really inspiring ❤❤❤ true God doesn't give you what you can't handle, let God take the lead. Thanks for this refreshing video Kelechi ❤❤❤

This is deep 🔥Thank you Kelechi ❤

See my Kay baby😍. So quiet and beautiful 😍. This video came very timely for me. Thank you Mama Kay ❤. God will keep strengthening you baby.

Thanks for the kind words to us single moms 🥰

Being a single parent, this was such a sweet video for me 🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎

@Fashionpreneurondemand

Жыл бұрын

I'm confused how she's single and solo and she married and was just with her husband .

@theesserichards

Жыл бұрын

@@Fashionpreneurondemand I believe she’s married but currently long distance (this is an assumption) however I think it’s best to just enjoy the content and not pry.

@kikialeaki1850

Жыл бұрын

@@theesserichards being confused about the terms she uses isn’t prying

You’re so beautiful. Idk how you do it with 2 babies! You’re amazing!

Enjoyed this video and love the fact you put God at the centre of your discussion🤍

You’re so inspiring K watching you brings me peace and inner joy my spirit just connects ❤❤🇨🇲

@kelechimgbemena

Жыл бұрын

ohh woow!!.. this is deep and i appreciate !!!.. happy it brings you peace!!,,xo

Wauw thank you so much for this video. Realest, transparant and honest video I have seen in times. Thank you dear Kelechi and I am a new subscriber❤🙏

Do not pray for what is not yours... Wow.. this was beautiful, your baby is adorable too❤️

That Peace is something we underestimate its needed in every area and i pray we all get it

Ur daughter is so pretty ❤️

@kelechimgbemena

Жыл бұрын

thank youuu!!

Thank you Kelechi. I enjoyed this video and it was also insightful.

@kelechimgbemena

Жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it!

Love this Video. Learnt a lot and your voice is so soothing God bless you 🙏❤ Ps: your baby girl is ssooooo adorable 😍

I love the K and K thing going on 😂❤️ Thank you for the video

This video is definitely welcome, love this.

@kelechimgbemena

Жыл бұрын

Thank you!!..appreciate!

True, the importance of having a loving family can not be over emphasized💯 l. You and baby look are looking great!🥰

@kelechimgbemena

Жыл бұрын

Yes! Thank you!..much appreciated

Congrats to both of you, she is adorable just like her momma

Thank you so much for this Kelechi. God bless you. As a very young married lady with a young marriage of just one year. I can tell that this Truth should be what is taught to partners before they become a couple. People get so carried away watching what is publicised on the internet that they lose the unique blessing God has put into their own marriages. My young marriage is not on the screen and my am I having the best of them with my man. Dear people, people will make you want to marry the internet-friendly marriage, what is that? Let’s match in looks, opinions etc which matter! Yes they do but are they priority?? Some marriages are meant to complete or compensate. What really matters is what God said to YOU! about YOUR marriage. Hear it and guard it jealously Fam above social trends. God bless our marriages and future for sister interested in marriage. God bless you so much for this Kelechi ❤

“He’s not a basic God, so why should you be basic”? 😂 I meannnnnnn Preach sister!!!!! I definyenjoyed this vlog and my eyes are open for the ones after this ❤🎉

I love how realistic this video is. Thank you for laying facts on the table. Kayla's so cute🥰

@kelechimgbemena

Жыл бұрын

Our pleasure!..thank you soo much for watching!!

I really needed to hear this. The biggest mistake in life is mostly as a result of comparison. Thanks so much for this lovely video

Thank you Ma’am your contents are always amazing and impactful. Thank you. Kayla’s online aunt is saying hi 😊

Very educative ❤ Thank you 😊

You look so beautiful 😊 and your smile is so refreshing 😊 I'm not done watching the video but I'm having a nice time already.