If you liked this video, you might like this one I made on how to be happy & single: kzread.info/dash/bejne/naeF0LCopcyppKw.html ! Hope to see y'all over there too x

@benettemabel4843

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks Alot

Fun Fact: This wasnt in your recommendations, you searched this.

@jocelynarias2084

3 жыл бұрын

Yep

@biankasimransinghaullakh5758

3 жыл бұрын

so true !!

@kamiturtle8473

3 жыл бұрын

Yh skl back again 😐

@jesusisthewaythetruth274

3 жыл бұрын

Nope, recommended T_T

@shamamayebreo5461

3 жыл бұрын

I searched it too.

I’m the one who is just surrounded by fake people so I realised it’s better to be alone

@Mike-ul7of

3 жыл бұрын

It’s a hard pill to swallow, but once you do oh man is it liberating.

@moose6980

3 жыл бұрын

Me too ❤️

@emilys1048

2 жыл бұрын

Same!

@liz_21

2 жыл бұрын

@@Mike-ul7of i hope so. It's tough no cap

@ArkabrataDatta11

2 жыл бұрын

Same here. been avoiding people for a month or two and I've not felt better tbh

I deleted my social media apps since August of last year and I’d prefer not to turn back. I love the person I’m getting to know without social media.

@ImranKhan-tj3dr

Жыл бұрын

Hi 🌷🌷❤❤❤❤

@kararowley13

Жыл бұрын

That’s amazing 💖

@ImranKhan-tj3dr

Жыл бұрын

@@kararowley13 Hi how are you beauti queen 👑👧❤😍queen😍❤👧👑

@alezandradavila2581

Жыл бұрын

I don’t carw

I have never had real friends and people still tell me that the reason for this is that I'm always alone, but what they don't know is that loneliness helped me learn three languages and I'm about to learn my fourth language, it helped me learn how to draw, sing, love to read and play Guitar and piano and create animated videos. in my opinion being alone , it's a gateway to learn more about yourself and your abilities>.thank you so much for the video you're awesome:)

@VictoriaLim

3 жыл бұрын

I love that!! you're obviously really taking full advantage of life and you're living proof that being alone doesn't mean you're not living a great one :)

@tausifreza1280

2 жыл бұрын

Kinda same story as me😊

@maydelosh

2 жыл бұрын

I feel that my alone time is a luxury gift, because I have a very busy career and many people/friends to interact with during the day. At night, I just want to spend time with myself, enjoy my own company, and learn some new things, just like you. Thank you for your thoughts!

@mumtahinamumu3859

Жыл бұрын

Beautiful encouraging words for an alone person, thank you.

@sariya6334

Жыл бұрын

Can you please share with me how you learn this things? 🥺 Actually i'm a teenager.i'm 16 but i don’t have no friends.In high school all of my friends are fake and no one actually care about me and never helped me when i was in trouble.That things really broke my heart. I was in depressed when i was in my high school.but now i accept that Truth. If i have no friends. I will live alone and be happy. But still some things make me feel insecure and anxieties when i saw people have friends, they enjoyed a lot. Hangout with them etc. Please help me🥺 How you started and after how many days you learn this? I want be truly happy and make myself better🙁 and never want to feel anxiety after watching peoples friends and lifestyle🙁

All I want is that one person to love that understands I need space. I meet these people who I would love to date, but then I quickly realize it won't work because they need me everyday. There is someone.... I really like her energy. But I'm moving soon. I don't want to fall for her and then miss her. I need to do the next phase of my life alone. Be well everybody 🌹

it's funny sometimes I get lonely but then I remember what its like being around people and I feel better. we all want those perfect people around us but sadly they don't exist. I'm almost 31 and I have no friend and never been in a relationship. Good people are hard to find.

@VictoriaLim

4 жыл бұрын

Ahhh well there are no perfect people but we definitely can find good ones!

@dishadhouliyan5190

3 жыл бұрын

I feel this

@maieaksen1128

3 жыл бұрын

There is no perfect people or person, even you yourself is not perfect. I don't mean you, you. Social skill is also necessary as much as learning to be alone.

@Mike-ul7of

3 жыл бұрын

A good significant other is worth breaking the loneliness. Especially one that respects your desire to be alone at times. Whatever makes you happy

@jokesonyou222

3 жыл бұрын

you just reminded me why it’s okay to be because i’d rather be in my own company then with someone who is fake thank you

I was in the middle of having a breakdown about my life, and I put this video on. Thank you. Thank you so much. You are absolutely right about social media presenting people's best selves and that it's probably better to have a break from this kind of influence for a while.

@VictoriaLim

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching and I hope you’re doing okay! It’s definitely a journey :) all the best on yours x

@zazzles666

8 ай бұрын

I'm really curious as to how you're doing now!?

In 2020 my mental health worsened and I started relying on other people more and more. It recently hit me that my only happiness comes from talking and hanging out with my friends. I know I found the right people but I also know that I am dependent on them which I don't want to be. I can't even fall asleep without listening to something to distract myself because I really don't like being alone. So yesterday I decided I will take my first ever social media break and also some time away from my friends just so I can learn to appreciate time by myself. I stumbled upon your video and it really helped me be hopeful about being able to do this instead of being scared. thank you

@VictoriaLim

3 жыл бұрын

that's a great first step dear! all the best, you can do it :)

i feel like i should get used to being alone, since i feel like im becoming somewhat toxic and really attached to people, i dont want to hurt them so im going to try and isolate from my friends and just enjoy my own company and just improved myself, ive tried doing this before, but as i said, im easily attached and i get scared that i'll be forgotten. this helped a lot, thank you

@reisamiah462

2 жыл бұрын

@Chertsey Nermal hey :)) im doing much better now i believe and im out of that rabbit hole. it was defo lockdown which made me feel isolated and depressed, with too many moments of self reflection to the point where you overthink everything. one thing that helped was that i started journaling and writing down any negative thoughts i had, having them written on paper made me realise how toxic some of it was, but i learnt not to beat myself up since we're human and can never be perfect, acknowledging my thoughts helped with addressing my toxicity, i tried getting into the habit of journaling about good and happy things as well, also just doing things that make you happy such as painting, watching a show, etc.

@reisamiah462

2 жыл бұрын

@Chertsey Nermal im much more used to being in my own company now :) i dont feel so reliant on others, i think what was different back then, and now, is that now i realise that there will be someone there for me even when i think there wont be

This brought so much peace to my mind, I was spiralling 10 minutes ago but this perfectly broke down the steps for me

@VictoriaLim

3 жыл бұрын

I’m glad it helped! It’s a process, but I hope you feel better, and give yourself the time to learn how to enjoy your own company :)

I really needed to hear this today :) I often feel as if I'm misunderstood by the world, but I'm starting to realize that I don't need to be understood. I do have close friends, yes, but I'm also realizing that I'm the only person who will ever truly know myself more than anyone else. being alone is something I still struggle with but this video made see that it doesn't have to be a negative thing!

@VictoriaLim

3 жыл бұрын

proud of you x

I had a close friend and she broke our friendship one year ago, but now I feel better I started focusing on myself and I feel better 😊💗

i really needed this video. been feeling lonely and isolated lately. ive noticed instagram is a major trigger for me so i decided to delete the app (again) and to work on myself and be my own bestfriend

@VictoriaLim

3 жыл бұрын

Proud of you!

@fatimahussain7562

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed, I’m way too dependant on other people :,) I’d like to work on myself too

Thank you for sharing :) you make me realize I'm not the one who is feeling this way. and i should be content with myself and not dependent with friends

Truly resonated with this one ❤ I also didn't belong to a particular group of friends and I've just recently started loving my own company. That's when I started my own channel to share my own journey towards health and self-love. So lovely to have come across a beautiful soul as you :)

@VictoriaLim

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching love! 💕

I think ill be watching this video more because im really struggling lowkey lol

@tonyjones345

3 жыл бұрын

Remember stay strong love yourself from within ❤ you matter....

This was amazing, I want to try this but I have the fear of being alone somewhere like a café and other people with their friends especially that I'm only 15 and I used to go out with someone but I like to be alone any advice?

@VictoriaLim

3 жыл бұрын

ask yourself: why do you feel being alone? is it the fear of judgement? If it is, I promise, no one is looking at you, because everyone is too busy their own thing! and if it helps, maybe go to a cafe where you know you won't meet anyone you know to try! I think it always starts out feeling a bit uncomfortable, but the more you do it, the more natural it feels. after a while, it will feel like second nature :) speaking from experience! all the best :)

@spsamp

3 жыл бұрын

When I was your age I would frequently go out to eat by myself. Just a local McDonalds but I still sat by myself and enjoyed my meal. You have to love yourself enough not to care about others around you. Forty years later, what did it matter? Who even remembers seeing me eating by myself? No one. Just do it and enjoy your own company. You won't regret it.

@DakodaS246

3 жыл бұрын

Make sure the activities you do alone are truly enjoyable for you. If they are something you only find partial enjoyment with then you will be less motivated to go and will back out more often. Even when the activity you are doing is alone it takes a lot of motivation and dedication to yourself that you want to go do the activity despite how uncomfortable or awkward you may feel. It gets more natural over time and you will find more things your interested in doing that you realise if you do it with others it actually makes you upset because if you were alone you wouldnt have to compromise on things you didnt want to compromise on and felt you had to so you could enjoy the person being there. With that in mind though, everything has a balance. Compromise in a relationship is healthy.

@fayyyylelelelle9089

3 жыл бұрын

Three months ago I found out about the program called Forwago. It is amazing how this program helped me to change my perspective and taught me to think more positively and to be more grateful.

I absolutely love this video! As a student in university who just finished their first year without having the chance to make new friends because of online school, it was really difficult for me to deal with FOMO especially when I saw my other classmates living in dorms having fun on Instagram and I could not help but think of how lonely I was. It wasn't until I realize being alone isn't so bad after all. Yes, I may not be going to parties and hanging out with friends every day, but I still got a few people that I can trust and talk to. I 100% agree with your point that the right people will come when it's meant to be. Having that kind of mindset is so helpful and will get you a long way in life. ❤️

@VictoriaLim

3 жыл бұрын

Proud of you for getting through online classes (hate that bs zzzz) and for having such a healthy mindset about things :) all the best for the next three years - things will look up!

Not looking for approval. Or someone to rely on. Want to share and connect with someone. The problem with being alone is for those who don’t have family, friends or loved ones. Too much aloneness is not healthy! This is the issue everyone bypasses when addressing this issue! It’s not easy making friends or gaining family for many

@VictoriaLim

2 жыл бұрын

You’re right!

Really needed this video!! Im someone who has constantly felt the need for validation and acceptance in group of people. Since going to college, I’ve been often by myself and without a ton of people to lean on. This video has helped a ton, still learning how to really embrace riding solo ❤️❤️ and enjoying it!! Patience is key, there’s still some lows but I’ve come a long way!! Have a beautiful day :))

@VictoriaLim

3 жыл бұрын

yay! it's a journey but sounds like you're taking it in your stride :) proud of you dear!!

Thank you for this . I hate being alone especially while single or not having many friends especially being shy . I feel like I mainly had a lot aquantinces . I’am slowly enjoying being a lone with out being needy or wanting to talk to someone all the time and want to know what everyone is doing .

Deleting social media apps is the best thing i did btw thank you so much❤ and lots of love to you ❤❤ #loveyourself ❤🌈🌻

Thank you so so much for this. I have recently been put in a situation where I have had to be alone all of the time, and its just like you said. I feel unwanted and unloved. I want to get over this so much. I've decided the first step is to cut off social media and go from there

@VictoriaLim

3 жыл бұрын

Proud of you Natasha! you can do it, I hope you learn to learn being on your own x

(Timestamps below!) We’ve reached 1k subscribers, whoo!! So I bit the bullet and decided to start an Instagram acct: instagram.com/vic.torialim/ (Seems ironic to have this here, but I just made this w the sole purpose of connecting w you guys! I intend to keep scrolling to a minimum ☺️ I’m very contented w my current relationship w social media and intend to keep it that way!) 0:38 it's normal to feel this way 1:07 my journey 2:01 2 reasons why I felt a fear of being alone → 3:09 getting over FOMO → 5:08 getting over the fear of not having others to rely on

Totally normal you be in room full of people and still feel alone. Which is oke and totally normal. Having a brighter destiny comes with cost of that as I’m hearing your story. Totally similar of here.☺️

I’ve had a rough year. I needed this. Thank you💕

Thank you so much for this ❤️❤️❤️ resonate with everything that you have experienced and you are saying

Wow. Ur so strong! Thank u for this video💫🤸🏻‍♀️

Thank you babe. ❤️ I needed to hear this !

Wow. I was feeling so low tonight. This video truly helped. Thank you ✨

I've been having a hard time lately, thank you for this :))

Can relate, great words! I´ve been dealing with solitude much better after some years and just discovered how much potential this has. You used the right word. Freedom! We should learn how to feel comfortable with being alone and take this as an opportunity for growth to happen :)

I'm happier to live alone. I have God and although he is not someone physically around I have someone to talk to without having someone back to shout at me for not doing things their way or doing it at all. or have any form of negative feedback. If I live alone I can make my own plans feel the way I feel and certainly not negative to do my own thing and not worry of others. Go out meet a friend twice a week or do something to leave my environment other than going for a walk. Your advice is perfect. Thank you for sharing that.

@VictoriaLim

2 жыл бұрын

You’re inspiring - many people take a long time to get to your level of peace. Great job ✨😌

I absolutely loved watching this now knowing how people actually went through on what im going through and give great advice. Thank you :)

This was amazing:) great tips/transparency

I think this Is one of the videos that really help me a lot! Thank you for Made this.

I needed to hear this. Thank you 💛

This video resonates so much with my inner thoughts. Thanks for making them more iron clad with your video.

Love this video. I’ve increasingly found it hard to spend time alone and with my boyfriend and friends not being available as much it’s been a perfect storm. I’ve been trying to find new hobbies and value the time i have with others rather than constantly wanting more and more. Definitely been hard for me but will keep I’m trying

Definitely needed this love the video ✨🤗

im afraid to be seen alone. i have a small amount of friends but since quarantine, i wasn’t ever able to hang out with them so they all hung out but me. now i feel left out and unwanted. i know it’s better to be alone than to be left out in a friend group but i don’t want to be alone. idk

Thank you so much for this. i love you

I always feel I don't get a lot of people who understand me. Your videos are calling and soothing. Loving them

Thank you so much. You don't how much i needed this one. I'm new to this whole thing and this video gave me some 😳😱🤯 moments

Thank you, I have had trouble with friendships from my childhood. I can see why. I've always been independent and I'm meant to be that way. Thank you for helping me realise that. ❤️

Really Loved this video!! Just subscribed. I definitely struggle with being alone and have had to manage with it almost my entire life. I'm hoping that with time I can learn to enjoy it.

Victoria, with your video you made my mood from 😪 to 🤗🥰... Thank you for reminding me that it is perfectly fine to be who I truly am

Aww thankyou for this!! Loveyouu😢❤

I'm in love with this video - it was so enlightening :) thank you!

@VictoriaLim

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching x

The one thing that really made me feel better, energized, and determined to reach my goals was Forwago. Thank you so much !!!

Awesome I needed this!!

Awesome video!!!! We need more people doing such genuine videos on topics like these

thanks Victoria. I needed this.

Damn it Victoria, on point!! Every single thing that you said, resonated with me :) Thanks a lot for this video, good luck

I’ve been going back and fourth with deleting my socials (just the apps) for a while but I could never commit to actually doing it. This video convinced me + other factors in my life.. it kinda felt like a sign! This was a very insightful video, thank you!! 💗

@VictoriaLim

3 жыл бұрын

You go girl!! It's worth it trust me haha

Thank you so much for this video. Every second taught me so much. Thank you.

@VictoriaLim

3 жыл бұрын

Glad it helped! ✨

Thank you so much for sharing this positive message. Sending you love! ♥️✨

@VictoriaLim

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching! :) Sending love to you too x

first of all sorry for my bad english i just wanted to thank you for all the unique videos you make. I've been feeling pretty lonely these past weeks my friends stopped looking for me. the feeling of loneliness was terrible, but then I found your channel. you helped me a lot and motivated me and showed me that being alone is not a bad thing. thank you so much❤

very nice video rn I'm in the position that I don't want to deal with anyone anymore so basically this video is really helpful

This video was such a warming feeling.Thank you for making this !!

Exactly what I'm feeling right now. Good thing that everyone feels this way. New subcriber here you're trulyy amazing! ❤

@VictoriaLim

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you -- so glad it resonated x

This was really relatable thank you!

Im going to like try to enjoy my own company. im always around people and i have been realizing that i dont know much about myself. Im also quite nervous to make new friends irl which is common but you know.. and since im alone often then i feel like this is an advantage to enjoy being by myself. and learn new hobbies and things. im definitely gonna be doing that and deleting social medias and keep myself busy and just enjoy being alone. doing fun things alone. it really is peaceful being by yourself and its actually fun tbh !! Thank you for this video. you dont know how much people you've motivated and helped

Love you amazing!! So clear honest and helpful. Beautiful

well I'm trying to become less clingy so my first step is to enjoy being with myself, I've watched this before but when I did back then I couldn't really implement in my life because now I understand I didn't know what I was doing it for, tysm for this!!!

Thank you so much for this video 🥰

Wow ! So much positive vibes watching this video amazing ❤😊

You are a breathe of fresh air...you go girl. Hugs from kenya 😊

@VictoriaLim

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching all the way from Kenya!! x

i’ve needed to hear this for years, thank you

@VictoriaLim

2 жыл бұрын

thank you for watching and hope it helps 💜

Being alone just helps me to learn how to be my own guidance and not rely on other people. Ofc we do need help from others however it's just not a good habit of doing that. You should always first try it by yourself. Everything you learn is yours. No one can take the wisdom you got from you. And btw... I love your voice! So calming :D 🌸❤️

@VictoriaLim

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Zoe x glad you enjoyed :)

Thank you for sharing/uploading this. Ive been feeling isolated and wanting to isolate for the longest time now. I want to isolate feel comfortable being alone but I do not find joy with this feeling and the steps I took to do just that. You have discussed great points that kind of lifted weights off of my mind and my emotions. Thank you!

@VictoriaLim

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching and glad you resonated x

Thank you for this! Made me feel better.

Thank you so much! I loved your video, it can sound simple but it's pretty deep, and it felt very sincere.

@VictoriaLim

3 жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it! ☺️

Aww man I needed this

I love this video and really needed to hear it. I really enjoyed your humility and great spirit 💜

@VictoriaLim

2 жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it!

Watching this made my heart feel warm. Thank you

@VictoriaLim

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching!

this is so beautiful. thank you for this :)

@VictoriaLim

4 жыл бұрын

thank you for watching allan :)

you are such an inspiration. i am currently very dependent to my s/o which does not help w my anxiety. i feel so much better after watching this. i will work on myself more. thankyou so so much

@VictoriaLim

3 жыл бұрын

it's so great that you're self aware and know what you need to work on. all the best dear!

i love this video so much. i struggle so much with loneliness and having a hard time connecting to people and now i just want go learn to be in peace with it

@maryamebrahim8012

2 жыл бұрын

to not go*

Thank you for sharing this :)

Enjoyed this video. Let's me see I am not alone. There are others just like me.

Wonderful video as usual! Would love to hear about that video on those practical tips on learning to be alone! Very apt for this quarantine period, and just in general for learning how to be comfortable on one's own presence :)

@VictoriaLim

4 жыл бұрын

Ahh thanks for your comment and for watching Nat

i agree with the comments! u are amazing!!! happy for uu!

Thank you I like your video. I'm doing isolation I need to be with my self for a while.and I'm learning things..

Thank you for this. I’m have this really bad anxiety rn about being alone for my first year of college. I have to trust in God’s that true friends will come when I work on myself and learn more about myself.

@VictoriaLim

2 жыл бұрын

All the best! 😊 and don’t forget it’s ok to feel lonely and feel like you need to call home / old friends to connect too.

Congratulations for your subscribers! You deserve that and much much more, thanks for such a beautiful and inspiring video for this time ❤️

@VictoriaLim

4 жыл бұрын

Mil gracias Andrea, always grateful to see you on here and look forward to seeing your comments x

@andreagarrido375

4 жыл бұрын

@@VictoriaLim De nada ❤️ I love to comment and look forward to your response, keep going ❤️❤️❤️

Thank you so much for the video, it helped me come over my sadness at this current moment. The video was simple and that simplicity just did its job perfectly!

@VictoriaLim

2 жыл бұрын

happy to hear

Great advise! Btw! You’re so pretty!!

Thank you for this advice

You are just reading my mind

So happy for you ! Victoria😍

That's actually sad when the only freinds you have are busy or prefer there best freind over you.

Thann you for this 🥺 , some time i feel happy of being alone and some other time i don't like it so 🤷‍♀️ I feel happy because it makes me feeling free But some times i don't like it cause.. Idk i just feel lonely

i am still in high school planning to study far away abroad. so, it was really difficult and scary for me to know that very soon i will have to be completely by myself since just like you I never belonged in one clique. I came here from your video on enjoying your own company and this really gave me hope that i WILL manage and thrive. thank you so much 💕💕

@VictoriaLim

Жыл бұрын

You will be fine :) loneliness is a normal part of life too so is okay to feel that way sometimes - trick is learning how to manage and think beyond it! All the best for your adventures abroad :)

Thank you for sharing your views this video was very helpful for me ❤

Not being CODEPENDENT has been my best attribute!! I don’t do Facebook or any social media. I don’t like the word “alone”, I prefer “SOLO”! Life is fabulous when you know that you control your life. ZERO DRAMA!

@VictoriaLim

2 жыл бұрын

Love this 🤩

Beautiful Queen!

Sending love and strength to everyone who had to search for this

Thank you so much Victoria I just love you