They should teach social skills in school, it's so important in every part of your life...

@xhafts

3 жыл бұрын

oh hell nah 😂

@y.e.a.h5634

3 жыл бұрын

School doesn't even prepare you for the real world what makes you think they'll teach you that?

@ludvig4752

3 жыл бұрын

Think about it. Most social skills are taught at school.

@maltsday

3 жыл бұрын

@@ludvig4752 you mean social conditioning?

@ludvig4752

3 жыл бұрын

@@maltsday If you count conversation and playground games as social conditioning then I agree.

Alternative title: how not being honest to people is ruining your life

@tibetan.music.universe

3 жыл бұрын

I spent 2 years in depression and holding shit in because i took longer to graduate university. couldnt tell my parents. ended up developing a drinking problem and lost sight of my priorities from 23 to 25. 26 now and mostly sober but still sucks

@randerins

3 жыл бұрын

Alternative title: Check out my sponsor video of skillshare!

@tyrell.

3 жыл бұрын

Careful, don't be too honest either.

@Mackathne

3 жыл бұрын

Truth, but not as effective

@Mackathne

3 жыл бұрын

@@tibetan.music.universe You're ahead of a lot of people my man, never look at your time lost and instead focus on how much you still have to utilize

I’m 23, introverted with severe social anxiety and autism. When I meet new people there’s no way for me to be myself. It takes a while for me to be comfortable and once I’m starting to get there finally it’s too late :/ I’m trying hard to change. Thanks for making these videos. ** Came back to make an edit almost 2 years later to tell you I've made a couple of friends, and that it gets better. It really gets better.

@definitelynotafox6262

2 жыл бұрын

same situation here. good luck!

@shinryujinanswermycalls6648

2 жыл бұрын

Same here We can do it!

@chicken9056

2 жыл бұрын

Me too! I’m 17, though.

@kjin4425

2 жыл бұрын

omg we share similar characters 😅I started pursuing medicine in one of the Asian country with few of batchmates from my own country. but it's never easy to communicate with them. My social anxiety increase drastically to the point I wish I don't want to go outside and have dinner at all. I find difficult to meet thier face and talk. I don't want to show my fake smile too. so I end up frowning which is creating misunderstanding and hurting me more. I pray to god to bring my old self where I can talk ,act silly and forgot the past💜💜💜💜💜

@brianmeen2158

2 жыл бұрын

Being introverted with social anxiety is a nightmare especially when it comes to meeting new people. Add autism and damn

"In order to have friends, you have to be one."

“You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you.”

@saulgoodman980

3 жыл бұрын

- Dale Carnegie (author of the book "How to Win Friends and Influence People")

@civilizedmonster

3 жыл бұрын

@@saulgoodman980 yeah Exactly.

@love_dove_

3 жыл бұрын

So true! People love talking about themselves and they’ll love it if you pepper them with questions and really listen to what they have to say. Pretty soon they’ll be peppering you with questions too. I practice this a lot in the workplace to enhance teamwork and build a positive environment. It works 90% of the time.

@farihahkhalidshaikh1535

3 жыл бұрын

but sometimes it just feels too draining to hear someone ONLY talk about themseleves especially if they are boasting., i wouldnt say you can make friends that way, maybe acquaintances. if the other person isnt putting any effort to ask about you even if youve been trying so hard to be interested in them then i think its time to walk away

@love_dove_

3 жыл бұрын

Farihah Khalid Shaikhh yeah certainly, that sort of person is not the right kind of person to become friends with.

"Your like by everyone but love by no one" it hits sooo hard.

@c.m.m6668

3 жыл бұрын

it was a home run for me.

@user-ok4nr5rc9h

3 жыл бұрын

and known by no one which leads to extreme loneliness.

@Pravduh

3 жыл бұрын

“One day you’re going to look around and realize everybody loves you, but nobody likes you, and that is the loneliest feeling in the world”

@user-ok4nr5rc9h

3 жыл бұрын

@@Pravduh how can you love someone you don't like?

@Pravduh

3 жыл бұрын

@@user-ok4nr5rc9h I love my narcissistic grandmother, but I only love her from a distance. Do I like her? Hell no.

This is how I was when I was in my late teens and early twenties. I recently read my journal of those days and I was so mad at my younger self for writing about being so depressed because I was stuck home with hardly any friends. It's such a waste of good energy. What they say is so true. Don't worry about it and focus on the things you love and your friends will arrive in your life without you even looking for them. It DOES get better.

@amy_writes_love

Жыл бұрын

Yes I was exactly the same!!

@DTaze

Жыл бұрын

I too also believe you should never try to make friends with people, it should just happen naturally

@amy_writes_love

Жыл бұрын

@@DTaze I'm torn because I do believe the interaction should happen naturally but just like any relationship it takes work.

@datmangotho9618

Жыл бұрын

@@amy_writes_love I totally get it, I kinda made it my mantra this summer to just focus on myself and what makes me happy, but I also really want to make close friends.. Maybe it’s supposed to be a balance?? we should do what makes us happy and not make our happiness depend on other people, but we also need to take initiative when we want to be close with people! I think the most important thing is to not 100% rely on other people to make you happy

@amy_writes_love

Жыл бұрын

@@datmangotho9618 That's so true. I believe it supposed to be balance. We definitely shouldn't depend on other people for happiness. I always struggle finding friends. So I hope it works good for you to finding friends :)

it sucks when you're not the best friend to any of your best friends

@gera_eb2588

10 күн бұрын

You’ll find it eventually. I feel the same way, that’s my case too :/

@L-bf4tj

Күн бұрын

I feel the same way :(

Useful points from the video: 1)Be the one who initiates social interaction or events , don't wait for other people to invite you 2)Show your geniune, true and authentic self to others, never just agree with whatever. Voice your opinion 3)Be comfortable with rejection that way you can meet more people and increase your chances of forming deeper bonds. 4)Go to the places where you think you can find people who have the same interests as you. All the best for anyone who is reading this :)

@danielbutcher5836

3 жыл бұрын

Well done.

@Amanda-qe5lj

3 жыл бұрын

thanks

@secularseeker

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for this!

@arthur5771

3 жыл бұрын

for point 3, i usually initiate activities with that one friend, but they never do. I think its the other way round for me, should i stop initiating?

@abhinarayan7751

3 жыл бұрын

@@arthur5771 i am really not an expert in this subject but since you asked, If that one person takes you for granted , I think you should stop initiating with him / her.

"Once you feel you are ignored by someone, never disturb them again". I find this useful

@danielbutcher5836

3 жыл бұрын

Just be careful not to make assumptions about what they’re thinking. They may be going through something we don’t understand and the fact that we’re reaching out means the world to them, even if they’re not in a good place to respond.

@sanjeevakaalex

3 жыл бұрын

@@danielbutcher5836 Yes it make sense what you say. But where do you draw a line, you can't reach out to all of them, some maybe be genuinely going through personal crisis and some just aren't that close to you so that's why they are drifting away. How do you handle this, because if you start reaching out to each and everyone, you might just end up reaching nowhere

@danielbutcher5836

3 жыл бұрын

sanjeev yadav I have been through this recently, inviting a friend to do something for which we have a common interest but he has not seemed interested. I chose to stop inviting him and stop messaging for a while, and at some point I will reach back out just to let him know there’s no hard feelings.

@Pol-kw5gq

3 жыл бұрын

Sameee

@slushu_6865

3 жыл бұрын

Update: My parents are very mad

5:37 You missed the most important third option, which in my opinion is vital for deep friendships: Someone doesn't fully agree or may totally disagree but sees how you think and appreciates it and respects it. I don't think a deep friendship can be one where this happens on every point but I think there has to be some times where you have interesting disagreement. Indeed, in my own life I have noticed many occasions where disagreement and conflict has resulted in a deepening of friendship.

@AnonymousIdealist

2 ай бұрын

Exactly.

The second point about voicing your true opinion really opened my eyes. I’ve always been the type to blindly agree with whatever people say to me, at the fear of them leaving, or judging me, but now I totally get how that causes me to struggle a lot with forming relationships. Thank you for this video

@kiarashyazdanibiouki1263

Жыл бұрын

I don’t know if its the same or no, i tend to have a different personality with different people, ill try to be like by everyone and never been able to make a deep friendship.

@matthewwalter5432

3 ай бұрын

Bro even after all that effort they will still betray you its better to say fuck people im not afraid to stand up for myself btw i do it at work all the time its just why try with people i seen my brother get stabbed in the back so many times even after all that bro for nothing why?

Making friends is not hard Keeping them over the years is Don't worry if you only have one true friend. Most people don't even have that.

@iamzakg

3 жыл бұрын

keep the few people that truly know you close AMEN

@mateoslab

3 жыл бұрын

pls don't say it's "not hard" it really pisses me off to read that because it's always been really hard for me...everyone had their own friendgroups and i've never been part of any friend group

@levi_exiled8579

3 жыл бұрын

@@mateoslab Me too. Never. I have 2 true friends tho. Twins who are 3 years older than me. They don't have friends either.

@iamzakg

3 жыл бұрын

@@mateoslab to be honest i've never had a true friend group. always been the outcast even though I got along with everyone. I feel this but also it being hard or easy is all perspective. What Gabriel is saying is that those very few people you come across in life that you connect with deeply, keep them close.

@dntl408

3 жыл бұрын

Love this Gabriel!

If aliens come to earth. I want this guy to represent the human race.

@vansang8846

3 жыл бұрын

Amen 🙏

@Hhej927

3 жыл бұрын

alien dont exist

@vansang8846

3 жыл бұрын

Hej hej the pentagon revealed footage of an unknown space ship that was hovering and it disobeyed the laws of physics, company like nasa revealed that it was unidentifiable and other company said that it was not their ship plus it was rotating and hovering and disobeyed the laws of physic and no ship during out time can do that so the truth is out there

@Limon-mn4zx

3 жыл бұрын

@@Hhej927 idk if I’m right or not, but I’m pretty sure that “Aliens” are any species of organism that don’t live in Earth. So technically they could be very real, considering the size of the universe. And we don’t know wether there is ppl with big eyes and laser guns...

@error3447

3 жыл бұрын

luigi vergara i think this is totally true

I was taught to always be nice to everyone brcause you never know what their growing through. I think I took it to the extreme because when you said "liked by everyone loved by no one" I FELT THAT IN MY SOUL. LIKE DANG

I loved this. I’ve always been an extremely bubbly outgoing person and had a tight group of friends growing up. But since college, those have all drifted and I find it hard to get close to anyone now, as I feel like I’m a bother or overbearing. And it’s not even a confidence thing, but I’m such a people pleaser that I hate making anyone feel uncomfortable and I don’t share the jokes in my head or certain opinions because I want to make everyone comfortable or I’m afraid I’ll say something that will create discomfort. This has something that’s been on my mind heavily lately, as I’m getting married next year, and I’m realizing I no longer really have a set group of die hard friends to stand next to me, but just close friends as invites. And that’s no one else’s fault but my own.

@erinnn5790

Жыл бұрын

I feel this 10000%. Getting married was a really huge reality check that I really didn’t have very many people in my life, like at all.

@rachaelannewalker

Жыл бұрын

@@erinnn5790 There’s so much pressure to have 5,6,7 close friends and it’s weird because I’m high school I would’ve needed 8 bridesmaids but as an adult, majority of those friendships have gone separate ways. It does make me feel better though because my fiancé is super bubbly and makes friends wherever we go and even he is finding it hard to choose 5 guys he thinks are close enough.

@jooglebob

Жыл бұрын

@@rachaelannewalker Yup, my sister had 8 bridesmaids plus two backups just in case... and she claimed once to 'not to have any friends'. And then there's me, with one close friend and nobody else, certainly never had a gf before. Y'all want me to have 8? I can't even get to 2!!

@user-ir7wf3ef3l

11 ай бұрын

Do you think an extroverted personality can develop later rather than congenitally?

@rachaelannewalker

11 ай бұрын

@@user-ir7wf3ef3l So it’s funny you ask this because I feel like a completely different person when I wrote this a year ago. My now husband and I have completely switched roles and I’m the one with the plans and friend group and he’s the one to want to stay home. (I still love being at home too.) To answer your question, I would consider myself a bit of an extrovert but I didn’t just wake up like that one day. I purposely put myself out there (which was crazy scary) but honestly I got to the point where there was nothing to lose and it all paid off. I know there are different levels of introvertism but I think it’s totally possible to change and adapt to for those that want to.

when he said, “Liked by everyone but loved by no one” i felt that this is an edit (2 years later) i got through it pretty well, i have a lot of friends and i am very happy with the version of myself just let time pass, dont take bad decisions, everything will arrange itself eventually hope i helped some people ❤️

@watchinvideos

2 жыл бұрын

I'm not even liked by everyone, let alone loved by everyone.

@siroshcelot

2 жыл бұрын

@@watchinvideos Nah brah, that's just you telling yourself that, don't be afraid to get out of your comfort zone and I also kinda disagree with the last point of this video about how we should try to find people with our same exact mentality when honestly we learn much more from people who are the opposite of us

@watchinvideos

2 жыл бұрын

​@@siroshcelotYeah, I know about this getting-out-of-your-comfort-zone stuff, mind you, I've been applying it for the past three years. I also know about mindfulness, being in the present, different types of mindsets, and yada yada yada, but the thing is, those people literally can say some nasty things about me. I don't think that's just my messed up brain telling me lies or misinterpreting the information. I'm actually in no need of these "humans", who can't see farther their own ego.

@kjin4425

2 жыл бұрын

I also agree because I am afraid to go outside the comfort zone and voice my opinions💜

@rama-uh2gl

Жыл бұрын

Me too that's me

Im always that person who always feels like im annoying the person/people I want to initiate contact with.

@remylemonade

3 жыл бұрын

It’s not worth your time to be friends with them if they don’t reciprocate

@Airgirl881

3 жыл бұрын

Trust me youre not , it’s all in your head . Just speak what’s on your mind . It’s easy to feel people energy once they reply to you

@remylemonade

3 жыл бұрын

@@Airgirl881 agreed

@wavez4224

3 жыл бұрын

@@atypicalmatias well that’s just if you say it all the time. If you just bring it up then it’s whatever

@willthepotato7835

2 жыл бұрын

Same dude

If I had to give one bit of advice on this to someone in their teens or early 20s, it would be to keep up your friendships with extended family that you are close too, cousins etc. I drifted away from my extended family and placed much more emphasis on my school/college/work friends. As you get older, you'll find that many of those people drift away, simply because the thing that brought you together isn't there anymore. Most people also place platonic friends very low down the pecking order of priorities. Family on the other hand have a blood bond. They will give a shit about you when it counts. Don't ditch them.

@amanullahbbdnitm978

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for the advice sir

@xeixi3789

Жыл бұрын

This is what I thought too. But I have an insecure and complicated relationship with my extended family. Mind having a conversation on this?

@juanmanuelmoramontes3883

Жыл бұрын

@@xeixi3789 What he says doesn't happen all the time, blood bonds are not a safe thing for everyone, sometimes the people that can hold us back the most are those of our own family.

@skazka3789

Жыл бұрын

Jokes on you I don't have any extended family

@thatrandomcrit5823

Жыл бұрын

This highly depends on the family, by the way

Wow.. I wish I could’ve seen this 4-5+ years ago, it would’ve saved me so many nights of crying lol over being so frustrated from not having any close friends. I’ve gone basically my whole life without making ANY friends that I’m comfortable talking to, and recently I’ve begun to understand why but this video really put it into words. Literally everything he said called me out 💀 it’s so hard though, to take initiative and to be able to say and do things without fearing rejection. I’m so anxious in front of people that I analyze every single thing I do and say that I can’t even think of what I WANT to do or say. For a while I was scared I had no personality at all, because I just literally became no one in front of other people. I’ve been so afraid that I don’t have any time left to make close friends.. But videos like this give me hope and I’m so grateful. And the tips are actually useful!! It’s gonna be really hard to implement them but I’m hoping I don’t fail this time. Thank you so much, I’m really glad I stumbled across this video and an entire community of people who are also struggling, don’t worry guys we still have time

@datmangotho9618

Жыл бұрын

Also that sponsorship transition was smooth af lol

@SlobZombie

Жыл бұрын

I can relate to your comment, this has been a major issue in my life for a very long time, and hearing what he said hit the nail on the head. I'm guilty of all the above

@datmangotho9618

Жыл бұрын

@@SlobZombie What do you struggle the most with? I hope you'll be able to build close relationships and make more friends now

@daryavinocur6836

Жыл бұрын

@@datmangotho9618 how is it goin now?:D

@datmangotho9618

11 ай бұрын

@@daryavinocur6836 it’s alright!! I can’t say I’ve made many friends but my confidence in myself as a person has gotten a lot better, or at least my tendency to care what other people think has gone away lol. I think all I need to do now is meet the right people to build connections with :,) how are you doing?

I think people still think social anxiety is being shy, no its deep rooted fear of people and social interaction. And yes you can still make friends that way but that doesnt make it go away tf.

@elpibelol5005

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@ate810

3 жыл бұрын

You are right. I’m late but anxiety will always be there I think the purpose is to lower it so it doesn’t hinder growth as a human being

@elpibelol5005

3 жыл бұрын

@@ate810 well in my case the only thing that made my anxiety go away was when I was in a relationship if you can make it go away once I guess you can do it multiple times (sorry for my bad english 😥)

@Luke-pd7xj

3 жыл бұрын

@@elpibelol5005 wow really? My relationship made me more socially anxious and I think that’s why she left me lol.

@elpibelol5005

3 жыл бұрын

@@Luke-pd7xj I hope you find a better girl

I decided to not reach out to my friends anymore because it felt like I was always the one who had to initiate talking and inviting them to things. It wasn’t until I did that that I realized they don’t really care about me :(

@labonetia4399

3 жыл бұрын

samee :')

@Yondaily

3 жыл бұрын

It's true same here, and it's pretty sad

@iliveinsideyourhouse3943

3 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry for you, I wishes you to find a true friend one day :)

@RustyCrayon123

2 жыл бұрын

@RUTURAJ BENDKHALE Nah we used to all play video games together and we all loved sports. They just only reached out to me when they were bored.

@Lolo.mp3

2 жыл бұрын

Same. I tried so hard to talk to my friends in a group chat but they just didn’t seem to be invested in anything I wanted to talk about, and it wasn’t until I stopped messaging, that I realized they never cared that much

I learned to make friends by being chill, talking calm, using common sense and having a high sense of humor so others don't identify me as "boring". When it comes to making friends, find people who are trustworthy, chill, and incredible nice. These type of people will help you in the long run and last for decades. They will show loyalty, honesty, and most importantly true friendship. Always make sure you lead a good first impression, it's like finding a really solid ground to build a skyscraper.

"Opt for honest communication and quick rejection" loved that

Honesty won’t get you all the friends, but it will get you the right ones. ~John Lennon or something

@alexherrera7782

3 жыл бұрын

@caprice.t 😂

@hereagain8344

3 жыл бұрын

That dead wife beater had the best lines. "Imagine" video filmed in his mansion on his 74 acres.

1. Always take the initiative. 2. Honesty is the antidote: be willing to break out the small talk. If you want to say something just say it. 3. Rejection is a very useful tool. Quick rejection. 4. Demographics: Go to places where people similar to you are.

@Nico18_

2 жыл бұрын

Gracias!

@WildsDreams45

2 жыл бұрын

So you're saying that I should go to a brothel?

@NolanJohnson423

2 жыл бұрын

That’s what I’m saying I have made some of the deepest friendships by being the one to cut the small talk and ask a real question

@kuryanthomas1438

Жыл бұрын

love this!

@jasoncolap

Жыл бұрын

@MangoTangoFango cry harder

This video was so heartwarming. I actually got a bit emotional watching this because of the happiness you radiate while hanging out with your friends. I've been watching your videos recently while drinking my morning coffee and it just nudges my day in the right direction. Keep on doing these videos my friend, so many people find these super helpful and inspirational! Thanks man!

You have honestly made life so much easier. Its like all the hidden rules to becoming a better version of yourself are found in your videos. Thank you so much 🙏

People always say it’s harder to make friends when you get older. This is because you HAVE to get out of your comfort zone, outside of your normal regular, working routine. When growing up, we’re forced out of our comfort zones with a new school year, new semester, school camps, etc. But most people when they get older stop all of that and just go to work and go home, rinse/repeat. If you want to meet people and make friends, you have to get out of your comfort zone and get out there 👍🏻

@BigSavageG

3 жыл бұрын

That makes sense... but! Where excactly would you really go? In my case I do learn everything by my own at my home, I have easier time having exhausting strength and hypertrophy training at my home gym. I just don't have anywhere to go since I do everything locally. That also doesn't mean I am really that searching for someone else since I know that people are not that needed in life but sometimes it would be fun to have ONLY one person to share some ideas with. I've had some of these in the past but they were a mistake.

@flameshoter6

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, where would you go for creating interactions? I'm not in college anymore. Even then when I spoke to people and invited them, I never kept any friends. If you go to my state, if you say hi to a random person in any form of being in public, you will always get a weird look. I've been told its the complete reversal down south. To the point when someone in the grocery store is trying to know every aspect of your life and very creepy for how friendly they are. At work, everyone is at least twice my age. But I do try to have conversations. Its the best way for them to feel more comfortable around you and they would be more willing to reach out to you. But its not the situation where they invite you or you invite them. to anything except work holiday parties. I don't go to bars. I don't go to gyms. I would rather save money and go on a walk/run down the road rather than spending $20+/month. There really isn't much else from there. For the most part it is who you know. Friends of Friends. There isn't any club stuff, learning locations for say cooking classes, or whatever. Especially for adults. I've asked libraries, shelters, etc for volunteering. But it looks like they only take kids. No adult programs. Took over a month to hear back from the animal shelter. But at that point I was back in the middle of my college classes, working a night time job, and studying after that for exams. There was absolutely no time. Now that I am a bit older, I don't see the reason to help out since it seems to be a very secretive society lol.... My two friends don't really have friends themselves after we finished high school. We hang out at both of their houses. But not my mobile home. I've invited them for drinks and sitting by a fire pit. They know I don't have extra controllers. I've told them they could bring theirs. But majority dictated to hang out their places.

@flameshoter6

3 жыл бұрын

And no, it isn't my fault. Whether it was the way I acted or looked. I had a twin sister growing up who would say that I was a awful person that ruined her life... Abusive, always hitting her.... No that was my father and she put the blame on me for whatever reason. She never went to school with any bruises... I took 90% of the beatings. Being hit with metal or wood. I didn't bruise easy. She had it off easy compared to me. Hell she tried to stab me with a knife back in high school cause she thought I was annoying.. She's Crazy... In middle school she had an eating disorder, anorexia... That totally messed up her mind. There is ton more to the story for how crazy she is now... But that is for another time. People who I never met knew me (my name and what I looked like) and didn't want to speak with me.... No one every gave me a chance to know who I really was. People are very gullible. Didn't matter if we moved. She would start up the whole process. Even though I kept to myself in school. I tried to be social. But in high school I tried to socialize...Joined a sport, tried joining clubs. But no one socialized with me. I ended up leaving the clubs after a few meetings. But I kept to myself because everyone knew each other from birth and they chose that they had enough "friends." Even if they didn't say it. In general, I'm a very kind/shy person. Willing to help out. Managed to keep a couple of friends from high school but never met any new people. But they act more like associates.The college I went to was filled with pricks with money. More females to male ratio. The older people who had kids themselves were the ones I ended up speaking with the most. But were are at different points of our lives.

@flameshoter6

3 жыл бұрын

Sure as hell doesn't help with COVID ongoing too....

@Pravduh

3 жыл бұрын

I'm doing my best

“Anybody can sympathise with the sufferings of a friend, but it requires a very fine nature to sympathise with a friend's success.” ― Oscar Wilde

@trentindeed4118

3 жыл бұрын

Calm down

@Morning404

3 жыл бұрын

This

@batoolh9457

3 жыл бұрын

if you genuinely care, it's really not that hard.

@RianeBane

3 жыл бұрын

What does that even mean? Not being jealous of their success?

Something I love about your video editing is that even though you're teaching important things to people and voicing your thoughts, there's little mistakes still prevalent in the video. A jumbled phrase, a word said wrong, things like that. It makes you feel more down-to-earth and human--you make mistakes too and there's nothing wrong with that.

Hey man I wanna say thank u, I’ve been trying to figure out why I’m not happy in life and why I feel unappreciated, and watching this has made me realise that I need to try and put myself out and reach out to more people. Thank u so much

Good friends that are better than you at something are such a great help and something you should truly be thankful for!

@EvzTheVlogger

3 жыл бұрын

totally agreed!

@EvzTheVlogger

3 жыл бұрын

and the best is when you can both teach one another 😄👑

@TheDhammaHub

3 жыл бұрын

@@EvzTheVlogger That's the absolute best case ;D

@peacebuddha96

3 жыл бұрын

And why would those people want to be friend with me, when they are better than me?

@TheDhammaHub

3 жыл бұрын

@@peacebuddha96 Often out of compassion. People are very helpful quite often. Also, you might be good at something they want to become good at so you can "trade"

I'm that *Nice* type of guy everyone likes but.... when he said, “Liked by everyone but loved by no one” He murdered me.

@virginieb20

3 жыл бұрын

Yep, same...

@wietzevanderwijk3169

3 жыл бұрын

ooooooff, that's me...

@egodumpster

3 жыл бұрын

hits home..

@BigBoiTurboslav

3 жыл бұрын

Literally. That actually hurt to hear. It got me thinking. The three closest friends that I have, I've had for the last 10 years and back when when I was making friends I was super outspoken about my views and so the people that stuck with me became like my brothers. I realized that when I moved to a different country I became really quite mild and inoffensive. Perhaps because I didn't want to offend anyone in a foreign country but I didn't realize that it's probably why...Fuck.

@alexanderthegreat1356

3 жыл бұрын

Jack of all trades master of none

You have very thoughtful deep dives on subjects, and I really enjoy the whole vibe you go for. It's relaxed but communicates very effectively.

Thank you so much for talking about rejection being a tool. I helped me turn it into something i’m grateful for, which is an idea i already explored but you saying it really drove it home for me.

To be honest....I don't know how to throw a party. I never hosted one. I could say: "Because in my childhood and youth I was bullied and had no friends." But now I do - and I never planned one, never even googled it. Because I'm anxcious it would be a bad party, or sit-in or whatever and my friends would think bad of me. I just recognized that when watching this video. So thanks man...I'm gonna host a social event now and look where it takes me.

@joaovitorsd7778

3 жыл бұрын

Always remember that even your party failed, It Will be experience for the next one good luck

@stickyschannel8497

3 жыл бұрын

You should update this !!!

@Tschay_13

3 жыл бұрын

good luck with your party man

@bringwaffles4191

3 жыл бұрын

If you make or buy tacos, the people will come. Hosting is a skill I have been slowly getting better at over the years. Honestly, people just want to chill and if you can provide a decent chill space they'll be happy to hang.

@fattlane1866

3 жыл бұрын

@Tf Oh Yes, that is precisely what this form of anxiety is lol it sucks

People saying “oh I only have 2 close friends”, and I’m like “bro, that’s more than enough, most of the people have just 1 close friend”. Close friends are never more than 3.

@nataliaponte1292

2 жыл бұрын

And other people have no friends at all, like me

@BoxOfCurryos

2 жыл бұрын

I’m lucky I have 6 men I can hold close to my heart and I’ve had them since I was 12. They’ve even gone as far as to say I’ve been the heartbeat of the group but now we’re all going out separate ways to go be real adults and live life and I’ve been faced with the challenges of making new friends in a post-covid, college environment. It’s tough.

@FBWUniverseMode

2 жыл бұрын

@@BoxOfCurryos sameeeeee, college envir sucks tbh, i'm now entering second year of pharma school and i think I will do better this time Edit: I'm not doing better X)

@clutch4660

2 жыл бұрын

@@nataliaponte1292 i feel you fella, i feel you

This is such genuinely good and solid advice. Starting tomorrow I wanna try being the most genuine and best version of myself that I can be. I don’t want to run away from socializing, I don’t want to dwell on my fears and anxieties and loneliness. I’m going to work my way through my own strangeness, and embrace my true self even though I’m sort of weird

You only need one true friend really; don't need a bunch of them

@skygirl696

Жыл бұрын

I agree with that!

@gravitykat496

17 күн бұрын

I would be that one real true friend, I'm honest, like to have fun, joke around but not afraid to get deep and serious. I'd be a brother to you. It's sad being a grown adult with not many real friends, it really is sad.

Whenever I'm out with friends anything I might say or do, always goes through a damn filter in my mind as to not make myself look odd or get controversial. I never voice my opinion or express myself like I would normally do, I'm essentially just playing this "role" of an ordinary, simple (and now I realize a very boring) guy with the aim to get liked by everyone because I don't want to get rejected. I realize now this is why I never have any meaningful relationships with anyone and why the few relationships I've had just faded away. So all I need to do is to turn that filter off and just be myself. Thanks for the informative video...really puts things in perspective!

@upendradigi4530

2 жыл бұрын

Go for it

@bernapas9020

2 жыл бұрын

Meaningful relationships will turn toxic, the drama cycle is not worth it. It bothers the mind

@howtfdoihave115subs7

Жыл бұрын

exactly, How r u now bud?

@emedits4607

Жыл бұрын

I have been going through the exact same thing and I relate to you a lot. I’ve been trying more to be myself in multiple situations when I’d normally become super agreeable and a people pleaser. I’d never form real relationships either, and I’d feel really bad for being so disconnected or if I did something that may have been viewed in a bad light- things that would “make people dislike me.” I’ve just recently started the journey of showing my most authentic self to others, and hopefully I can become more comfortable with me. Thank you for sharing your story!

@mystory3998

Жыл бұрын

@@emedits4607 bro, the first sentence gave it away. You dont have to explain yourself, or excyse it especially when thats exactly what ur gona do. If u do something stand for it LOL we need to learn that

POV: you aren't very good at making friends so now you're scrolling through comments.

@claytonweyl4135

3 жыл бұрын

Accurate.

@cr6203

3 жыл бұрын

I laughed pretty hard, this is accurate

@unfortunateson5016

3 жыл бұрын

Nope I do make friends but still have social anxiety

@Replied_ByMeatr1der5

3 жыл бұрын

I've never been so offended by something I'm 100% agreed with

@swisdom9117

3 жыл бұрын

well I believe I'm okay at making friends, however my two problems are: 1) I'm not finding my group of people since I left high school (where I had lots of friends and acquaintances) 2) I tend to avoid conflict at all cost. Once upon a time I'd be scared of getting into a fight with a friend because people always drop friendships so easily, but now I realize that it's an inevitable part of life, and it's important to have fights/disagreements. That's when you really realize who people are.

One of if not the best advice regarding friendships I ever saw on the Internet. I'm the type of person who tries to stay neutral, and in fear of being judged, I even lie at times about what I'm really passinate about! Being liked by everyone, but loved by no one describes my situation really well. When I look back, I made a lot of progress and I hope to make good friends as time will go on. I already have some friends, but I don't get to know them better as I conceal what makes me who I am. To anyone reading this, you got this! Become your best friend first and the rest will follow. Thank you, Joey!

I have gone through many videos on this topic. But yours one is the best honestly.

3:55 Damn, that hurts. For most of my life, I have been the type of nice person that doesn't express opinions or my position and view of the world. I even remember a phrase that a very close friend of mine told me: "Yeah you're nice, but I don't know you. " This video came as something else to change my point of view of the world. Especially considering how much of an introvert I am.

@calvin9187

2 жыл бұрын

well he must have said that for a reason. Learn from it and adapt.

@ihx4111

2 жыл бұрын

@@calvin9187 Yeah you're right

@carol-gz6nc

2 жыл бұрын

same

@carol-gz6nc

2 жыл бұрын

@@calvin9187 that sounds like the Bear grills slogan

@lilililo6096

2 жыл бұрын

Wow that would crushed me

As a 17-year-old, you make me realize the value of my experiences. Not everything lasts forever. But, if can learn a thing or two there's no doubt it was valuable to who you are today.

@SamMartinPeakPerformance

3 жыл бұрын

time is on your side pal!

@maf-mp7lf

3 жыл бұрын

you have the right mindset for a 17 yo. wish you the best brother.

@YuriNoirProductions

3 жыл бұрын

especially enjoy the time you are in right now... it's the most open and free time you will have in your entire life... just everything opens up to be explored and there is just enough time before too many responsibilities start to chase you around... just making experiences is so valuable in that time... doesnt even need to be positive ones... just experiences... it will make you grow. enjoy it bro!

@pauledwards9210

3 жыл бұрын

You are wise beyond your years my friend

@BigSavageG

3 жыл бұрын

@@YuriNoirProductions What are you talking about. After graduating I have easier in my life than ever before. I don't have to go to fucking death camp called school that tells you what you can and what you can't do. I can buy myself things and do actually whatever I want. I dunno why some of you people are saying that it is harder in adulthood. The only thing that is hard for me in adulthood is getting friends, but that's my experience.

Your video shed light on the shortages of my social lives and ofc on the whys! I made many thoughts and makes me behaving more openly with others, trying to be perceived real me instead of just a person trying to comfort every each person! Thank you so much, much much!

This video is exactly what I was looking for. Been struggling with a lot of this stuff recently, and this video has revolutionized my understanding of these problems. Thank you.

3 steps on my Making Friends video: 1. Have fun stuff planned in your week that you are going to do with or without anyone else (gives you something to invite people to) 2. Be the initiator. Practice approaching. Initiate conversation with stranger (That's how you find people to invite to the fun stuff you have planned, suddenly you're that cool guy inviting someone into the fun) 3. Get outside more.

@ngsdfgff

Жыл бұрын

fr

@discombobulated-gb1kc

Жыл бұрын

💯

@sathishkumar-cf6xf

11 ай бұрын

Love you lots hamza💥💥💥💥❤😅 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

@AMAli-ct5df

10 ай бұрын

Comment maxing huh😂

@Rahul_Raj_369

8 ай бұрын

Adonis❤️

The only thing I would say about this video is sometimes it's very valuable to have friends that fundamentally disagree with you, if mutual respect can be maintained. I think only having friends that agree with your perspective can leave you blind to the humanity of the "other." Nice video though, thank you.

@Solothefuture1

3 жыл бұрын

You know, I agree with this as well. It can definitely place you in a bubble if you only have and keep friends that agree with everything about you.

That's one of the best, and most important videos, I've ever watched on-line. Thanks a lot!

I have autism and it’s hard to make friends, but I have loads of support at my job. It’s a blessing really and my therapist is my biggest support.

*Personal reminder:* *1) **1:18* _Always assume iniciative._ Don't just sit around waiting to be called to a party or make plans. Take control. The worst that could happen is that the people you invite reject your proposal, but even then you have to have a clear conscience because you did what you had to do. *2) **3:08* _Honesty is the antidote._ If you don't express your identity, if you are not being yourself cause you're afraid of not liking others and you just pretend to be someone you are not, then it will be difficult for you to make friends. Try to be you. If you don't say what you actually think, you're basically concealing your identity from others. And people don't tend to bond with people that they don't know at all, especially people who they don't trust. If you say what you think or show your true self, people can do one of two things: agree with you or reject you. First thing is great in itself. And being rejected, paradoxically, it is too. *3) **5:52* _Rejection is a very useful tool._ When you communicate honestly, when you're not afraid to be controversial and be who you are in front of other people, then you're inevitably gonna make a lot of people stay away from you because they completely disagree with you. And that's a good thing cause you can figure it out very quickly who the people who are actually staying are. And those people are probably the ones that you can bond with. Rejection is an inevitable vicissitude of life that always happens if people are incompatible or have different points of view or life projects. Rejection can be difficult to process mentally, especially if it is sudden or if the person rejecting you is doing it in an unpleasant or offensive way. But, trying to see the good in things, maybe that is better, because that way you avoid the painful breakdown of a long friendship or love relationship. *4) **8:50* _Demographics advice._ If you complain that you can't find people like you, who likes the exactly or similar things like you, or with your same hobbies or controversial opinions about religion or politics or whatever, just try to frequent social spaces in which it is statistically and demographically more likely to find people similar to you. Places like churchs, extracurricular events, optional meet ups and stuff like that. If you wanna increases your chances of finding people that you connect with, get out of your comfort zone and stop looking in the same generic places as always.

@NazriB

Жыл бұрын

Lies again? Make Friends Die Faster

@JuanCruzFabi

Жыл бұрын

@@NazriB what?

*Due to corona and isolating urself, u realize how important it actually is to socialize and be with friends* 🙏

@joshuak4553

3 жыл бұрын

The real question is: is that emoji one person praying, or two twins high-fiving?

@sanjacobs6261

3 жыл бұрын

@@joshuak4553 Well... The name of the emoji is "Praying hands"... So I don't know

@imtired10000

3 жыл бұрын

Joshua K well great, thanks, now I look at that emoji differently

@chan2725

3 жыл бұрын

True..

@cheilith1031

3 жыл бұрын

@@joshuak4553 why do you think they're twins?

The first one already got me! So much realness in this video. Thank you damn much 🏆👏

I just want to say thank you, your videos really help me see the most simple things more clearly. Just please keep it up as I think so many people need your wisdom in their life 🙏🏻

There is a quote that says: “You are who you surround yourself with”. That’s why we should always surround ourselves with people that have healthy habits, and people that we admire and respect.

@akilegna1255

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah. Especially in academic settings

@Wingedmagician

3 жыл бұрын

If you are who you surround yourself with then I guess I’m nobody 🙃

@petrasvizbaras3471

3 жыл бұрын

i dont have any friends with healthy habits. almost all have problems with drugs or alco.. well and thats who iam :D

@ecomyazan

3 жыл бұрын

@Rob Vel 😂 good one

@rodrigofreitas3288

3 жыл бұрын

Also our environment plays a huge role as well.

4:35 That was the most Canadian convo ever lmao

This is quite helpful. One thing that really struck me was: you view yourself through how others view you. I got bullied and ignored for 5 years in high school. So I thought of myself as a worthless person that no one wants to associate with, and I don’t talk to people that much because I don’t think they want to talk to me. I even got a speech impediment from how insecure and unconfident I am. I’m now trying to take initiative and voice my opinions during group conversations but I find that the lack of social skills and the fear of stuttering is really getting in the way. I am now so out of the loop that it’s hard for me to make friends anymore. Very hard. Anyways I will apply some of the techniques of this video and I hope it will give me a social life.

This vid helped me a ton bro. I’ve watched a ton of videos like this recently. Each helped a little but this one opened my eyes a good amount. I’m ready to do things I never wanted to do. Thanks man.

I really love when people with experience try to teach others what they've lernt it's like when u sit when ur grandma and start talking about life 🥺

@TheLegend-rx8yu

3 жыл бұрын

Do u wanna be my friend?

@ali_el_baba3665

2 жыл бұрын

@@TheLegend-rx8yu we all want to be your friend :)

@TheLegend-rx8yu

2 жыл бұрын

@@ali_el_baba3665 Thanks a lot man!

@_-_-_-_-__--_-_-_

2 жыл бұрын

@@ali_el_baba3665 fax

@_-_-_-_-__--_-_-_

2 жыл бұрын

@@TheLegend-rx8yu I'll be your friend dude

This is so incredibly accurate. I am a religious guy and I really struggled to find frienship early on in college. I would go to a party looking for a new buddy or the love of my life and always comeback disappointed feeling like an outsider. Finally, I began to go to events held by the campus church and now I am involved with a community where I have real friendships and share deep values with people. It has literally been life changing. Take this guy's advice, go to where you are most likely to find people who share similar values and interests as you

@jowens197

3 жыл бұрын

I am so much like you. I tried to fit in at different places but you can't force it. I've been attending a small group and I feel like I fit in there so much more, and most of my friends are from church. It's so worth it to just be yourself

I needed this video right now. Specially your theme about rejection, small-talk and being social active.

“You may forget with whom you laughed, but you will never forget with whom you wept.” --Kahlil Gibran

@Alexandra-nw3xv

3 жыл бұрын

First I read 'slept' 😆

@Me-ec9uz

3 жыл бұрын

When i read this comment.... I try to remember with whom i wept... And.....Oh i never wept in front of people...

@Christian-mn8dh

3 жыл бұрын

I have dementia

@bendover6272

3 жыл бұрын

@@Christian-mn8dh sorry

I'm an interesting case. For the past few years now, It's been very easy for me to make friends. I used to be more of an introvert but expanded on myself and a lot of what was said in this video were just things that came to me naturally. However, I've also learned that being that outgoing person takes a toll on you if you aren't careful. Last year, it greatly affected my mental state and because I was trying to keep up with everyone, a lot of the time, I'd forget to handle a lot of my own priorities. This video definitely has a point about how rejection is a good thing. Having a small circle is nice, especially when you know these are people you can trust. While I still do have a large number of good friends, I now just take casual mental breaks from everyone to sort myself out. I learned that you can make time for others, but dont forget to make time for yourself.

This video hit so hard, like so many things spot on that I've been ignoring. Been working on being healthier, can't forget the brain, and heart, too.

i am so impressed you are so honest and humble about this issue.

"Liked by everyone but loved by no one" Perfect description of my life

@osku2290

2 жыл бұрын

Well i think everyone hates me

I feel like youre my friend

@betterideas

3 жыл бұрын

I feel the same way :)

@MO-zl6xj

3 жыл бұрын

@@betterideas Feel for me too

You never know who you’re going to meet in life. Just be open-minded and let people into your life. It’s not always about romance, it’s about people and the energy they have and how you just never know!

This is really the best no bullshit self-help channel I've ever watch. Loved it

wow I was just about to go to bed then this video came out of nowhere lol

@Curiouspatsaw

3 жыл бұрын

Me too lol

@yelesaycholak5847

3 жыл бұрын

Same 😂

@MiguelAngel-eg6qp

3 жыл бұрын

Same, we livin the same lives

@dylantrott18

3 жыл бұрын

Same here

@KDtheweeklyrandom7622

3 жыл бұрын

Same

Ok that "you don't invite me" hit me hard. It's so true for me, even with my best friend, he invites me but I don't even though I love him. I'll work on that. Thank you!

His talk is so clear and easy to get .. for the first time i finally understand why i find myself always in the corner..and toxic situations without consciousness

Was on call with a helpline, and your video afterwards helped me realise and have a clearer head. Glad to come across you in my feed❤

The whole waiting for the invitation thing is definitely me and I didn't even realize it until now. In my childhood I was really good at making friends and inviting people over. Guess I have some more improvement to do.

These are almost exactly the same things I've learned from having my first ever best friend at 21, We have shared deep and honest moments and alot of the times when we do annoy each other we are acutely aware of what annoys the other person, so we either do it just to fuck with the other person as a joke or we don't do it at all. We do love each other ALOT (not in a relationship) and are always trying to better each other. And I think the points mentioned in this video are absolutely key to what goes in cultivating a true friendship. We always joke about our perspectives and our life experiences being so inherently different yet we vibe harder with each other than anyone else, and I think honesty from both sides is what led to that level of bond. I am not gonna pretend that we like the best friends in the universe or anything but I am closer to them than I have ever felt with anyone else. Hopefully someday I can find more people like that.

@idan7989

3 жыл бұрын

Do what was adviced in the video: go to places where you can find like minded people

@anna.318

3 жыл бұрын

My goal is to find friendships like that! Even just at least 1 friend like that would be amazing

@ithinklikeawesome

3 жыл бұрын

@@anna.318 Tbh you'll be surprised how little people flinch you express your honest self to them. Like things you think people will judge you ruthlessly for end up being things they are either okay with or are going through themselves.

@jacobharris5894

3 жыл бұрын

I have two friends that I have felt that close to. One of child hood friends who was very different than me. He taught me how to get out of my shell and have fun. He toughened me up and taught me the value of hard work. He is still one of my best friends but I’m not as close to him anymore because I moved away. We still meet every now and again but it’s only natural we would grow apart. Then there is a friend I made in college who has a very different background to me yet came to have many of the the same interests I have such as mathematics and science. He was an engineering major and I was and still am an Astrophysics major. We had some of the most interesting conversations I’ve ever had and we weren’t afraid to voice our opinions, even if they were vastly different from one another. We worked out problems together and helped each other in our studies. We were always competing with each other to see who did better in our classes. He got me even more fired up to learn because I wanted to beat him and it felt like a huge accomplishment when I did because we were often only a few points off on all of our tests. And when I was unprepared and I got a unusually subpar grade like a C and he got an A he didn’t rub it in, like if he were to beat me by only a few points. Unfortunately the last semester I saw him I fell into a bad depressive state for a weeks, the worst I’ve had in my life were for a while I almost completely gave up on my life. I could tell during that time I was pushing everyone around me away but I didn’t know how not too. I felt like I couldn’t be honest with people because I was suffering which made me fall into even greater despair. I saw him a few more times after that in my final semester at community college. If I recall correctly he was finishing up with his last class online but still came into to the math center to come study, which is where we always talked and made the other friends in our friend group. I fortunately got to say goodbye to him on okay terms, but things didn’t quite feel the same between us after my episode. I hope I see him again.

@jacobharris5894

3 жыл бұрын

ShimonKoni Yeah politics is the only thing I’m afraid to be honest about because it is so polarized now a days. I usually don’t talk about it unless I’ve carefully accessed if they are on the same part of the political spectrum that I am. Some people don’t really care what side your on but some will look at you differently because they have strong opinions and they can’t relate to your way of thinking.

I felt some of the things you said, currently in high school and I am liked by everyone, but not loved by everyone. I never get invited to things, and I'm always jealous of people posting themselves having a blast at parties. I'll take this advice, hopefully I'll self-improve. Thank you for this.

I also think it's super important to surround yourself with people that challenge you and are different than you. That comes in look, lifestyle, interests, cultures, and goals. Of course you have to have similar interests and values, but there's no other way around it you will grow through these people

“The best mirror is an old friend.” ― George Herbert

“Hay beby?” 😂

@IlliaDoroshenko

3 жыл бұрын

😆me

I am litteraly crying. Thanks so much for this video because you just brought answers to my question that im trying so found since 2-3 years. Thank you 🙏🏼

THANK YOU!! All these tips are SO easy and practical! I just started a new school year and have a little problem with communication in new circle. Thank you million times and have the best day💕

“A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.” - Walter Winchell

"Rejection is a very useful tool" That's so very true.

@FearlessDreams

3 жыл бұрын

Yup, it helps solve a lot of problems.

@julianarnold5499

3 жыл бұрын

And not really getting rejected can be problematic, you start to mistake friendship for something more and get your hopes up and in the end you're really hurt when you realize it won't work

@Yondaily

3 жыл бұрын

Yep because being rejected later hurts even more than it does now tbh

Relatable, inspiring and a perfect solution for my SAD. This is wut ive been searching for years .

I really grateful that I find this video, I think this is a reason why I've little hard to have a deeper friendship. All the best for everyone

"I don't need friends, they disappoint me."

@jessicatoussaint9140

2 жыл бұрын

"Hi my name is Carla Shaw"

@karl2313

2 жыл бұрын

? LOL your joking right?

@felixlavoie2180

2 жыл бұрын

💃

@user-np8yf8fj2w

2 жыл бұрын

Cringe

@johnkramer5886

2 жыл бұрын

@@user-np8yf8fj2w Ur cringe

I literally started laughing at this because it’s so true. I went from 15-20 friends in high school-college to zero 😢😢😂😂😂

@412StepUp

3 жыл бұрын

After you turn 25, or around that age, everyone you used to hang out with goes their separate ways. You’re lucky if you tomato a couple of your old friends when you get older. It’s not you, it’s everyone.

@iliveinsideyourhouse3943

3 жыл бұрын

I have 0 friend when I started high school and I still have 0 friend when I'm about to graduate high school lol

@matt309

2 жыл бұрын

@@iliveinsideyourhouse3943 ill be your friend

@matt309

2 жыл бұрын

@@zijingwang7196 talk to someonee

@ScoobyandShaggy5554

2 жыл бұрын

@@iliveinsideyourhouse3943 it’s because you’re in my house, get out and ask permission…I’m just kidding. But learn to accept rejection and just go out, it’s very minimal that we don’t know where to go make friends, 95% of being lonely is fear of rejection.

I had no friends for a lot of my teenage years- never went out, never partied, I was just terrified of other people my age. But now I've got some good friends and I hope that even though I'm worried they won't last, I hope I remain some place in their hearts, because they are someplace in mine.

Very happy to have discovered your channel today, Joey. Love your vids!

I just rewatched this video and this is honestly gold material. Every point u covered in friendships is harshly but truly revealing. I will start thinking about being a friend before i go asking for one.

This video is gold. Please never delete this. I'm saving this to favorites...

I love your video especially the part you mentioned honesty

Honestly is the best antidote, just be yourself and speak out your opinions without fear, respect people who surrounding you but also need to recognize who can bond with you. Very useful points, thanks a lot.😊

I was just thinking about this, then I looked on my phone and I was like: What the hell, am I controlling this universe.

@FearlessDreams

3 жыл бұрын

The power of thought!

@MrProteinmaker

3 жыл бұрын

Or is Google controlling your thoughts at this point? Hm...

@arabswag7483

3 жыл бұрын

RX Lan hmmmm 😂

@ThePopfan1

3 жыл бұрын

You do

@idan7989

3 жыл бұрын

Maybe life is more mystical than you thought...

I've never commented on a video before, but I just wanted to say thank you. Thanks to you I can understand why I communicate the way I do and how I can become a better version of myself. I am really glad that you made this video, it literally changed my life.

Wow, this is exactly what I needed to hear. I’ve been too pleasant for too long. This was very helpful, thank you!

I just love the way you talk, the things you say and just thank God that i found your channel

When’s the worst ideas channel coming out?

@joshuak4553

3 жыл бұрын

"Inferior Ideas"

@iamzakg

3 жыл бұрын

@@joshuak4553 hahahahah I'd sub

@gaberouse3351

3 жыл бұрын

on god

@maxdrvn

3 жыл бұрын

just invert the current content.

@famouscryp4130

3 жыл бұрын

*Worse