how I enjoy doing things alone | introvert diaries in nyc

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the past month I've been truly enjoying spending time with myself, working on my little routines, and dedicating my energy towards better habits. so I've been leaning into my introvert side and it's been the perfect way to start off the year. even in a city as chaotic, full, and energetic as nyc I found how I can enjoy doing things alone without feeling lonely 💗 but of course you all always keep me company!
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  • @nataliesoutlet
    @nataliesoutlet3 ай бұрын

    Introvert here and feeling recharged by your vlogs 💞

  • @Daffodil_111

    @Daffodil_111

    3 ай бұрын

  • @Etornam_vlogs

    @Etornam_vlogs

    2 ай бұрын

    😱 i love you ❤

  • @poppycalliope
    @poppycalliope3 ай бұрын

    As an introvert myself I always love seeing what other people do alone and how they are having a good time by themselves ✨️ crazy how you have been in NYC for 6 months already, feels like yesterday when you were moving!

  • @pvmin257
    @pvmin2573 ай бұрын

    I became introverted this year. I was very extroverted two years ago, till I went through something with someone and completely isolated myself from everyone including people I used to be very close with. Something made me draw myself out of everyone's lives. And. I have never felt more lonely ever since I made that decision. I know I want to keep myself away from them because being surrounded by negativity was worse than me feeling lonely. But days go by where I feek the effect of loneliness even more. I crave the emotional support I need from that one specific person who has not entered my life yet. I am tired of wating but if I rush, I will hurt myself more. Im trying to embrace this loneliness feeling because I never know when I will want to come back to feeling this way again. I dont want to regret wasting my days feeling lonely, but try to enjoy being alone more. I am glad I am not the only one. and I hope I grow from being alone.

  • @natalia0922
    @natalia09223 ай бұрын

    zimmer 90 is a German indie band, in Germany they're pretty well known and of course now through instagram they're even bigger...its so funny to see people from other countries listening to them, love you alia

  • @chloeyeron5465

    @chloeyeron5465

    3 ай бұрын

    soo lustig 😂

  • @JaneDoe1994xxx

    @JaneDoe1994xxx

    3 ай бұрын

    Lol. I live in Germany and NEVER heard of Zimmer 90 😅

  • @pauuuuuu127

    @pauuuuuu127

    3 ай бұрын

    Never heard of them, greetings from Germany 😅

  • @JaneDoe1994xxx

    @JaneDoe1994xxx

    3 ай бұрын

    @@pauuuuuu127 ist echt so oder :D

  • @conneyxoxo527

    @conneyxoxo527

    3 ай бұрын

    Hahaha same

  • @BreannaInBrooklyn
    @BreannaInBrooklyn3 ай бұрын

    I’ve really been enjoying your vlogs! You’re truly so gifted at storytelling. 👏🏾

  • @AJ-qz5qb
    @AJ-qz5qb3 ай бұрын

    yass been waiting for this refreshing subscription page woo! your vibe is infectious and helps propel me along through the week!!

  • @Mia-sb1bb
    @Mia-sb1bb3 ай бұрын

    I have had SUCH an anxious day, and this calmed me right day. Thank you 💌

  • @memySelfandiiii
    @memySelfandiiii3 ай бұрын

    That was the most authentic and truthful video you've ever made. I feel like u showed us a little bit more of the real you. I really enjoyed it. Keep up the terrific work

  • @sadiemahon8625
    @sadiemahon86253 ай бұрын

    As a fellow introvert I finally find out why your vlogs have been so attractive to me in a very certain way! Love the video and please take care of yourself ❤

  • @vanillasweetcream
    @vanillasweetcream3 ай бұрын

    my mental health has been terrible and this really gave me the boost I needed. sometimes it’s just one person’s words. thank you

  • @unemployed_h
    @unemployed_h3 ай бұрын

    I’m in my gap year in the middle of a residency for surgery, and enjoy this period focusing on myself by being introvert. It feels like I have a company:)

  • @ozatanvi
    @ozatanvi3 ай бұрын

    Alia, your content keeps me coming back! 🌟 Your genuine vibe is captivating. Seeing you cozy up in NYC feels like home, and your vlogs are my comfort zone! Sending love from India! 🇮🇳💖

  • @lemon8613
    @lemon86133 ай бұрын

    i love your vlogs so much ❤❤ so comfortable to watch!!

  • @haileywasheree
    @haileywasheree3 ай бұрын

    I find that the older I get the more I like my peace by myself abs that’s honestly so grand

  • @patsalas5170
    @patsalas51703 ай бұрын

    Now that you've settled in and NYC feels like home, ❤❤glad to see you enjoying and thriving...your apartment looks so cozy ❤😊

  • @allaboutleonie
    @allaboutleonie3 ай бұрын

    yayyy i've missed your vlogs!!

  • @tatianaparmacli6570
    @tatianaparmacli65703 ай бұрын

    This vlog made me calm and peaceful ✨🫶🏻

  • @morejulka
    @morejulka3 ай бұрын

    love your videos Alia! you're such an inspiration

  • @iwishiwasfreefalling
    @iwishiwasfreefalling3 ай бұрын

    I casually stumbled upon one of your videos a few weeks ago and I absolutely love the cozy vibe :)

  • @ElianaRosalind
    @ElianaRosalind3 ай бұрын

    i discovered your channel yesterday and i have been binge watching your videos since definitely found a new comfort youtuber salutări & gânduri bune din românia! 🥰

  • @Oliviagorskaya
    @Oliviagorskaya3 ай бұрын

    Alia, I'm in love with your vlogs ❤ the food you feature in them looks awesome!

  • @Phil-from-earth
    @Phil-from-earth3 ай бұрын

    Fire as always Zaita!

  • @clairebyyoung0323
    @clairebyyoung03233 ай бұрын

    I love this video and it’s really made my day ❤

  • @VasilikiTsertseli
    @VasilikiTsertseli3 ай бұрын

    You are so talented Alia 😍You make videos so relaxing and easy watching 😊

  • @dorofeyaa
    @dorofeyaa3 ай бұрын

    thank You for such an incredible company !

  • @DSCS_JyothiR
    @DSCS_JyothiR3 ай бұрын

    Literally waiting for ur vlogss these dayss !!❤❤🤧

  • @gabbycastilloo
    @gabbycastilloo3 ай бұрын

    aAhh I can’t wait for wtj season 3!!!! Love this sm like always 💗💗💗💗

  • @hanisfaza
    @hanisfazaАй бұрын

    this video just describe my self! I definetely doing all the things by my self. Love your video a lot! Keep doing this❤❤❤

  • @yhudiejamesvlog1935
    @yhudiejamesvlog1935Ай бұрын

    I love how you enjoy your company 😊❤

  • @user-iq7qj8fg1h
    @user-iq7qj8fg1h3 ай бұрын

    I live in Philippines but work virtually in a hospital in NYC. And this whole vids of yours in New York is giving me the feels of what NYC life is all about. :)

  • @gabrielachapieski7948
    @gabrielachapieski79483 ай бұрын

    the perfect vlog

  • @chanie6892
    @chanie68923 ай бұрын

    The vibes are everything I love being alone aside from my family that’s it 🤎🤎

  • @Torsee
    @Torsee3 ай бұрын

    17:48 Man that look of excitement! Beautiful!

  • @carolinehenson5505
    @carolinehenson55053 ай бұрын

    such a beautiful depiction of a lovely day in your life - thank you for sharing

  • @lastcry7027
    @lastcry70273 ай бұрын

    Hello 👋🏼 I am a new subscriber and I really enjoyed your video! Excited to binge watch all the others! You made the Korean food look so good that I went to Rice Kitchen personally about two hours ago. It’s an hour commute for me each way. Haha it was too cold to enjoy outside but I am home now. Yup, it is delicious. So thank you for the tasty recommendation and the chill vibes. 😌

  • @_flowerdaisuki
    @_flowerdaisuki3 ай бұрын

    loved the vlog✨✨✨

  • @RozzBerry27
    @RozzBerry273 ай бұрын

    Omg that band rec, so 🔥

  • @HeatherMascara
    @HeatherMascara2 ай бұрын

    Love your videos and happy wtj season 3 started! 🫶🏻

  • @nakoanishikawa7635
    @nakoanishikawa76353 ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your day I felt very at home and recharged in your vlogs,

  • @AimanAliQadri
    @AimanAliQadri3 ай бұрын

    Queen posted 😍

  • @juliaklier
    @juliaklier3 ай бұрын

    I love your videos so much! you're my comfort video ❤ you inspired me to create my KZread channel (took me 10+ years to build up the courage) and I finally started posting!

  • @dddyhana
    @dddyhana3 ай бұрын

    finally!! been waiting for the new vlog, thanks for ur time babezz ✨🤍

  • @swimmingkim6088
    @swimmingkim60883 ай бұрын

    Happy to be introverted❤ hope u have good weekend

  • @costeamara3966
    @costeamara39663 ай бұрын

    Hi alia! The vid is so good! Iubesc effectiv 😂❤

  • @tanyagarg986
    @tanyagarg9863 ай бұрын

    Loved the vlog ❤

  • @kookoosis313
    @kookoosis313Ай бұрын

    You eating a big but not so big bowl of pasta on your bed is something that looks so lovely to me as a girl I don’t know why it’s just immediately going straight to my head, you are such a lovely person

  • @DoeRaeMe
    @DoeRaeMe3 ай бұрын

    WHAT?! I checked last night but I didn’t see a new video from you😭 so, glad it’s here now! I’m literally lying in my bed scrolling(something I never do), but I always seem to do it when I’m looking for a new Alia video, expecting it❤ I used to be a social 🦋 before kids, now not so much! Glad to be home😊

  • @aliazaita

    @aliazaita

    3 ай бұрын

    👋🏼👋🏼🤗

  • @usutahangero2112
    @usutahangero21123 ай бұрын

    Yessss, we love longer vlogs 🤍🎉

  • @user-sr2xk9io3t
    @user-sr2xk9io3t3 ай бұрын

    I recently joined your journey and I couldn’t noticed that you put your monstera so close to the wall, it is not recommended let it be to close cause of the differences of temperatures between the space and the wall. Love you personality, have a great day

  • @doloressanchez346
    @doloressanchez3462 ай бұрын

    I love your videos . Thanks 💐

  • @Aria-kb6ll
    @Aria-kb6ll3 ай бұрын

    loved this cosy vlog

  • @jelenalora6879
    @jelenalora68793 ай бұрын

    Merci pour cette video 🫠😊🥰💓

  • @khxmise
    @khxmise3 ай бұрын

    And we enjoyed watching it ❤

  • @bybng9211
    @bybng9211Ай бұрын

    I found your channel while trying to improve my english .Its remind me of myself haha. Love to have a dinner at home and watching something like your vlog.Thanks for sharing the moment.😊

  • @melvinclave8457
    @melvinclave84573 ай бұрын

    IT’S TIME!!🙈🙈💖💖

  • @RTW590
    @RTW5903 ай бұрын

    Yes to eating in mixing bowls! It's the best 👩🏽‍🍳😀

  • @stephanienguyen326
    @stephanienguyen3263 ай бұрын

    Ive missed this chill vibe =)

  • @teddy_seymour
    @teddy_seymourАй бұрын

    Fellow introvert here, loved this video! Planning to move back to nyc soon 😊

  • @TheMsCroft
    @TheMsCroft3 ай бұрын

    the intro is sooo sooooothing

  • @elasoj
    @elasoj3 ай бұрын

    Maybe this new free space in bedroom would be good for the plant :)

  • @larranagadelapenaanaregina2945
    @larranagadelapenaanaregina29453 ай бұрын

    so cozy !!!!

  • @allurexme
    @allurexme3 ай бұрын

    I looove seeing people enjoying their own company...this video was so comforting to watch ❤‍🩹

  • @tinyangl
    @tinyangl3 ай бұрын

    Oh Rice Kitchen sounds SO GOOD. I definitely want to check it out now. (The tofu+rice+fillings was probably inari--which I LOVE. I always get the salmon inari when I pass an H-Mart.)

  • @janeybakarbessy2330
    @janeybakarbessy23303 ай бұрын

    You did own a green sweater as I just watched your old vlogs.

  • @jennylim9942
    @jennylim99423 ай бұрын

    luv to see u enjoying kimbab♥

  • @alinaredchin2277
    @alinaredchin22772 ай бұрын

    this haircut looks so good on you🥰

  • @EthelChivonivoni.1
    @EthelChivonivoni.12 ай бұрын

    this is so therapeutic

  • @cristitacajes4482
    @cristitacajes44823 ай бұрын

    The black top that you bought, I believe it was inspired by the Philippine culture. In our country its called “Filipiñana”. Its a dress that Rich and privilege filipino wore during meetings especially the first lady of the countries President

  • @pippasparks288
    @pippasparks2883 ай бұрын

    Love!!

  • @cainaldred8574
    @cainaldred85743 ай бұрын

    You could put a small bookcase or something perhaps in that gap in your bedroom. I love reading and it's so relaxing I think everybody should do more of it 😊 I keep on seeing about this Matcha in people's videos but I've never tried it myself. I'm very intrigued to know how it tastes actually! Oh and I really love the colour of your green sweater! 💚 It looks really comfy too!! 😌 Another great video. Thanks for sharing! 👍

  • @cainaldred8574

    @cainaldred8574

    3 ай бұрын

    @@mizz308 I'll definitely have to try it at some point 😎

  • @daybeamx
    @daybeamx3 ай бұрын

    As a fellow introvert, I just wanted to say that I absolutely adore your vlogs! They make me feel like I have a friend to share my morning coffee with. ❤

  • @aliazaita

    @aliazaita

    3 ай бұрын

    😌🫶🏼

  • @ulyl0u
    @ulyl0u3 ай бұрын

    put the monstera in the newly emptied corner and a beanbag chair or something!! cute little reading corner

  • @munn__zero
    @munn__zero3 ай бұрын

    19:51 It’s called Yubu chobab in Korean which means rice ball with fried tofu. It’s interesting to see Korean food like kimbap in your vlog as a Korean and glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for your warm and calming vlog❤

  • @aliazaita

    @aliazaita

    3 ай бұрын

    I loveeee it!

  • @user-pw4xl1qz2q
    @user-pw4xl1qz2q3 ай бұрын

    an amazing vide from alia

  • @colaii5845
    @colaii5845Ай бұрын

    This is so me & The title got me

  • @sharafleck9508
    @sharafleck95083 ай бұрын

    Chocolate hummus is so good with strawberries or pretzels 😋

  • @warmbreeze43
    @warmbreeze433 ай бұрын

    great vlog

  • @clairebuxton8651
    @clairebuxton86513 ай бұрын

    Ok Cedar's is literally the best store bought hummus ever thats such good PR

  • @patsalas5170
    @patsalas51703 ай бұрын

    😂 just say YES to season 3 of WTJ they are soooo gooood ❤😊

  • @itsdeja.j
    @itsdeja.j3 ай бұрын

    Wow the matcha tutorial I been out here putting more milk LOL than the water and matcha and was wondering what I was doing wrong. LOVE YOUR VLOGS

  • @jmo8a_veda
    @jmo8a_veda17 күн бұрын

    introverted people are rarely famous so this is cool seeing somebody expressing what it's like because sometimes intj dont get any attention on these issues.

  • @evaanjo9754
    @evaanjo97543 ай бұрын

    beautiful video

  • @32446
    @324463 ай бұрын

    Put the monstera in the messy corner then it won't be as messy!

  • @abbytheredwolf174
    @abbytheredwolf1743 ай бұрын

    Chocolate hummus????? That is extremely interesting and now I have to try this.

  • @Camsorcamille
    @Camsorcamille3 ай бұрын

    I’m re-watching the crown as well 😂

  • @iyaya
    @iyaya2 ай бұрын

    21:34 your sweater is giving Steve vibes from Blue’s Clues lol

  • @SharonHKim-bz7nx
    @SharonHKim-bz7nx3 ай бұрын

    I spent my late 20s in NYC. Thx for sharing. BTW, I am glad you like kimbap LOL. hi from Seoul ^^

  • @amanday7278
    @amanday72782 ай бұрын

    Changed the way i make my matcha after watching this video, I can taste matcha so much more (!?) and it didn't feel as heavy anymore because i use to make it like coffee (two shot of matcha, and then a lotttt of milk).

  • @violetteg.1709
    @violetteg.17093 ай бұрын

    Enjoyed this vlog so much! Btw where is your brown bag from? So cute!

  • @aliazaita

    @aliazaita

    3 ай бұрын

    Polene!

  • @violetteg.1709

    @violetteg.1709

    3 ай бұрын

    @@aliazaita thank you so much

  • @estelle_3889

    @estelle_3889

    12 күн бұрын

    What's the color of the bag???

  • @ciiil8802
    @ciiil88023 ай бұрын

    As an introvert man i can relate

  • @awarewithalex
    @awarewithalex3 ай бұрын

    these chattier vlogs are also a vibe🫧🫶🏼

  • @weronikabartkowiak1579
    @weronikabartkowiak15793 ай бұрын

    ok I checked this dea brand and it's this moment I get once in a while that all the cute clothes are way above my price range ;)

  • @lillayfoxx426
    @lillayfoxx4263 ай бұрын

    Not eating in bed again lol 😅after telling Yoni that was not gona fly lol

  • @gi_giooo
    @gi_giooo3 ай бұрын

    When i lived in east village for a bit I would walk every week to koreatown. Its actually very easy 😅 Rice kitchen looks great. There is also a place called Yubu very close by that has the tofu skin filled with rice and fillings

  • @aliazaita

    @aliazaita

    3 ай бұрын

    Added to the list!

  • @user-djsxkdlxmfem
    @user-djsxkdlxmfem3 ай бұрын

    Love to see your trying Yubu (or Inarizushi in Japanese) which is the name of Tofu pouch. It’s fried thin tofu and seasoned with sushi vinegar (I think). I do love them a lot ❤

  • @ipeksubaykal1814
    @ipeksubaykal18143 ай бұрын

    i miss the vlogs :')

  • @saracoccia29
    @saracoccia29Ай бұрын

    I loved the second jacket... where did you get it? i love ur channel

  • @melanieemertaylor
    @melanieemertaylor3 ай бұрын

    you should have some shelves on that wall in your room - - either a tall bookcase or some floating shelves

  • @dt9538
    @dt95383 ай бұрын

    love your videos but disappointed you still sponsor betterhelp! they severely underpay their therapists and there’s a lawsuit going on

  • @maieshazarin4197

    @maieshazarin4197

    2 ай бұрын

    Damn I didn’t know this

  • @stellawang8322

    @stellawang8322

    Ай бұрын

    i know i’m late but better help is paying her and this might be a really reliable source of income for her. not everyone can just get rid of sponsorships. something to consider.

  • @dt9538

    @dt9538

    Ай бұрын

    @@stellawang8322 but how is that ethical to support a company under that much scrutiny? that would be like working for a company that is super unethical, i totally get if she needs the money but it’s something people should consider

  • @sharon21924

    @sharon21924

    Ай бұрын

    @@dt9538if she needs the money considering it may not be an option.

  • @normamedina8530

    @normamedina8530

    Ай бұрын

    Why do people feel the need to tell others what to do???

  • @oleksandrakhovanova
    @oleksandrakhovanova3 ай бұрын

    obviously love the video, can i ask? where this cute brown bag from😍😍😍

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