this has taken us a long time to be ready to talk about in detail, but we're so blessed and grateful for the outcome. if you're comfortable, let us know your birth story in the comments 🤍

@Lifewitme.c

Жыл бұрын

We love you guys 💞

@anna-qx1sr

Жыл бұрын

I love you guys❤

@carolmichael4717

Жыл бұрын

Sending hugs to you tk family❤

@christianjones9176

Жыл бұрын

❤❤

@honeymain9361

Жыл бұрын

Love you guys❤

Our birth story was also a very traumatic event and it took me also a very long time before I felt comfortable talking about it. One feels so 'robbed of the happy event you imagined it would be'. So me and hubby fell pregnant with twins. At 32 weeks I was dilated 1cm and therefore admitted to hospital for observation and getting meds to try and stop the process. One evening as I was bringing a glass of water to mouth, a nurse rushed in and told me "don't drink that water, you are giving birth ASAP". Bloodwork showed I had pre-eclampsia and had to get an emergency c-section. Immediately I was transferred to another hospital (due to their very good neonatal ICU). SO within the hour I was rolled into a theatre (in the other hospital). I was overwhelmed with the amount of medical staff (a medical team for me, as well as a team for each one of the twins). This is where I went into shock, everything was happening so fast. So, I got the c-section, twins was born, I barely saw them before they were rushed to the NICU (my husband going with them). Doctor started to close me up, and here I started get vary sleepy, I just want to pass out, and everybody tries to keep me awake. Ok, sowed up, wheeled to recovery, doctor goes to family to report. Doctor comes back to check up on me, and this is when sh*t got real. Also same story, uterus didn't contract and I am laying in a pool of blood. Doctor starts massaging uterus (one hand inside, other hand on top) ON TOP OF THE C-SECTION I just had! (spinal block was working out, and I started to feel everything). That hurt like a b***tch. Doctor said she was vary sorry, but she has no other choice. At this point my husband was freaking out (he saw the doctor standing in a pool of my blood and trying to save my life, and in another part the hospital our two vary small babies are also connected to machines) I went in and out of consciousness several times from the pain. After hours of struggling, bleeding stopped, but instead of going to the maternity ward I was send to the ICU as I had to receive several units of blood. SO put on morphine for the pain and drama over right? No! Within the next 24 hours I contracted an infection and had a terrible fever. So more days in ICU with antibiotics to fight the infection. After a few more days, I was taken to see the twins for the first time. Seeing those small babies broke my heart. I felt this extreme guilt that my body failed them. But, long story short, after 6 weeks they were discharged from hospital and today they are perfect, 100% healthy 13 year olds.

I def started crying when Tricia started to cry. Tricia, you are SO STRONG. Birth is no joke and you and Kam are GREAT parents already. Thank God you ended up clotting 🙌🏽.

@chardaeholland2050

11 ай бұрын

Same !!! 😢

@essencenettlesbey2997

11 ай бұрын

Yess

@zininginzimande9479

10 ай бұрын

Me too 😢

@Main3account

9 ай бұрын

But she chose to do it

Kam is such a great provider, supporter, great communicator, and such a good husband and father to tricia and Kylah. I love how he puts tricia before everything and how he communicates telling all what happened! So calm, cool, and collected having gone through everything they went through!

@jessicajohnson8378

Жыл бұрын

He's a boyfriend not a husband

@LavernBrissett

Жыл бұрын

Love you guys god got you this make mi cry

@stretch273

Жыл бұрын

@@jessicajohnson8378 he is a husband the moment they had sex that was his wife you have to get away from the modern day government contract bs

@morrggss_

11 ай бұрын

@@jessicajohnson8378the only difference is a government piece of paper 😂 how miserable you must be to nitpick a thoughtful comment.

The moment Tricia started crying hurt me🥺🥺🥺... U are a strong woman Tricia... Cameron is amazing... Being so calm despite being tensed just to make Tricia calm... U both are amazing 💯💯💯

You are a strong momma Tricia. When I was pregnant with my second child, my son. The last week so of my pregnancy I couldn't feel him move any more. I told my partner that I don't feel the baby kicking or turning anymore. A week before my due date I was feeling slight contractions but not enough to put me in labor. It felt like slight menstrual pains nothing serious. This went on for a while. I called my doctor and he said to come to the hospital that they will monitor the contractions and the baby's heartbeat. After a couple of hours went by they were still not strong enough. I started walking up and down just to see if that would help but nothing. It was almost night time and still no strong contractions. They put the thing on my belly to monitor the baby heartbeat but could not find it. They pushed and shook my belly still nothing. I could hear them talking to each other about not finding it and what they were gonna do. My partner was sweating in panick and I was so worried about my baby. Then an older nurse came and she literally lifted the baby inside my belly (she pushed her hands in the sides of my belly and lifted and shook him). It hurt but then we could finally see the baby's heartbeat on the monitor. Because the contractions were still not strong enough after so many hours they said that they would give me something to make them stronger. My water didn't break fully by itself. It was just dripping small bits of fluid. So they broke it with that thing that looked like a hooking needle. And in minutes the pain started getting worse and the baby was coming. While I was pushing the nurse told me to stop. Because the umbilical cord was wrapped around his neck and would get tighter if I pushed. She put het hand between his neck and the cord so it would not choke him. It was almost impossible to just stop pushing in the middle of having strong contractions. She removed it from his neck and told me I could push again. When he was born they had to put him in a box for oxygen and light because he was a little yellow and you could hear fluid on his lungs because he stayed in my belly so long before they got him out. Now he is 3 years old with no problems at all and just being a boy 😅. It was the most traumatic and wonderful day of my life. I love him so much

@TebohoandAsithandile

Жыл бұрын

As I'm reading this comment, I'm also panicking hoping you both will be OK and I'm so happy that he's grown up and healthy 🤗😍

@ejiropraise7841

Жыл бұрын

I was having goosebumps while reading your story, I'm so happy for you❤

@NonsikeleloMahlangu-ff3ld

Жыл бұрын

@@TebohoandAsithandile me too, I honestly was ready for a horrific ending but praying and trusting God for happy ending. Wow! God is just awesome.

@abitofeverything21

Жыл бұрын

My 1 born was still born and was already dead 2 weeks in my tummy I was in shocked the heart stop the doctor say when they look the umbilical cord was wrapped so tight around my First Born he was a son. It was the worsted experience I face. One year I grief then 2 year I fall pregnant and I checked each month 3 times a week the bay on scan. And doctor always tell me this one will be alive and today he is 10 years old ❤❤❤❤

@user-rp6zz9jl3t

Жыл бұрын

@@abitofeverything21 the same happened to me but my baby boy was 12 days dead, couldn't believe it. Was so hard for me to handle but that was a few years ago like 4years

I started crying when Tricia started crying! 😢 the whole process of labor and delivery is scary but thank God everything got resolved and Tricia and baby Kylah are healthy. Props to Kam for acting like a husband and think about Tricia’s well-being under pressure.

@JessicaC.Dlamini

Жыл бұрын

Same... I couldn't hold my tears

@alnajahscott1207

Жыл бұрын

Same I cried as well , I was scared and nervous bout giving birth to my baby boy because I lost a friend when gave birth to her baby but my doctor had talks with me and when I was giving birth everything turned out great I did lose some blood but they gave me some to put in my body

Once I gave birth to my son . We both was healthy went home and I experienced pancreatitis and I had to go back to the hospital and I was in there for 9 months and I became a diabetic and I weighed 300 till 98 pounds. I thank God I survived and my baby survived amen and amen to u and your family

@kwathabethe9164

Жыл бұрын

glad y’all safe❤️

I’ve had 2 traumatic births and they are the reason I don’t want any more kids. Thank you for sharing your story. Your story is your story you don’t have to say there is worse stories. Your feelings are valid ❤️❤️❤️❤️

@ashleiluv

Жыл бұрын

Same

@michaelamitchell1603

Жыл бұрын

If you do want more kids would you adopt?

@rachelkessinger2295

Жыл бұрын

If you change about wanting more kids, you could always adopt or use a surrogate!!

@miksterstrudel

Жыл бұрын

@@michaelamitchell1603 most likely! ☺️

@marryamazra

Жыл бұрын

Two kids is just fine💕

The same thing happened to me when i gave birth to my son. I remember how the Dr's and nurses were running round, one nurse started weeping so Bad, aDr Steenkamp was called from home, he came in and that man saved my life. My sister told me she came into the ward it looked like a cow has just been slaughtered blood was dripping to the floor from underneath my bed. My son is 38now with 3 grandchildren I am blessed. Thank God for saving your life Tricia. Kam God bless you.

My birth story was very similar with my 3rd baby, i hemaraged around 1 hour after giving birth, the red button was pressed, the bleeding wasn't stopping, I passed a huge clot that got weighed on the baby scales, I needed lots of medication to stop the bleeding then a blood transfusion, luckily we are here to tell the story ❤

@nafeezakhan12

Жыл бұрын

Ameen👐

@athienodaphine844

Жыл бұрын

Oh mama I can feel yo pain thanks to God you overcame🎉 congs

@stephanieann622

10 ай бұрын

Oh my word, I am so happy you’re ok. That had to be so horrible. My gma had an undiagnosed blood disorder, and when she had my uncle it reared its ugly head. My Gpa had to take Huge clots outside and literally bury them in their back yard. They couldn’t throw them away because of the smell it would create. I’m so grateful it turned well, but my …..what a scary situation. I hope you’re having a wonderful day!

@user-dr2id3kh7y

9 ай бұрын

Labor is not easy,we all mother's,we know what we pass through in labor suit.Thank God dear,he protects,I respect mom's.cause I know how pushing is hard, giving birth to my first child was God,girls contractions are so painful,I almost died also,am happy for you dear.

@candacechism5486

9 ай бұрын

My first baby I hemaraged so scary but he almost 17 and we both is ok

Tricia is so strong … This is one of the toughest pregnancies I’ve witnessed a KZread couple go through. I’m so glad she’s okay and kylah is here ,healthy and beautiful. Not forgetting kam for being so supportive ❤

@DonnaStone-84

Жыл бұрын

Juju and destiny went through hell during their pregnancy should check their story out

@__REALITY

Жыл бұрын

@@DonnaStone-84 I know It’s why I said “One of the toughest “ they are both strong women

@user-wr7st1gx7h

Жыл бұрын

@@__REALITY Edited comment

@Jay-ir6ng

Жыл бұрын

@@DonnaStone-84what’s the comparison for? we’re not on who ever that couple is youtube move along!

@leighsweetmelody5085

Жыл бұрын

@@user-wr7st1gx7h ok?

Mad respect for all women especially mothers !!!!! Maaddd respect

Tricia is such a warrior, she is so strong. Love her❤️❤️🥺 Wish she heals fully.

Our birth story was similar except our baby was 8 weeks early and struggling to breath and they rushed her out of the room to the NICU. I was hysterically crying and being stitched up. They’re giving me meds and everyone seems in a panic. My poor husband didn’t know what to do. I yelled at him to go with the baby. It was the scariest day of our lives. She stayed in the hospital for a month because she just couldn’t swallow and breath without choking. After a month she came home and it was the most amazing day we could have imagined. She is our only baby and she’s now 20 yrs old. It honestly traumatized my husband and we agreed to just have one child. The thought of that happening again was more than he could handle.

Tricia you handled the whole situation like a champ, the whole TK family is here for you both 💗

You are so strong, pregnancy and delivery is such a mental battle and postpartum depression is a real thing. And don’t ever feel like you were alone. I went through it with both of my kids. You are such a great mom and Kam you are such a great father

Literally balling my eyes out as Tricia was crying and explaining her thought process at that moment 😢😢 Tricia you're a warrior ❤❤ you're a great mom , thank you so much for going through all this to birth life !

I never heard of someone having such a similar birth story to me. The same thing happened to me with my first birth. Please know my other births after were so smooth and perfect that every labor and delivery will be different. You are such a strong woman and Kam you’re so strong for supporting her through it all. Congratulations ❤️

@Grime2Glitter

10 ай бұрын

Same exact thing happened to me with my first birth. It was very traumatic that I started to look in to using a surrogate for our other 2 embryos. (We did IVF and I also have a gestational blood disorder) Ended up not using a surrogate for my 2nd baby and the birth could not have been more different. It was absolutely amazing! So I hope that encourages you for the future!

I couldn’t stop crying Tricia you are so strong I’m so grateful you’re ok we are all here for you and you’re so brave 💖🙏🏽

🥺🥺🥺 when Tricia explained the hard part for her, I cried with her , big hugs girlie 🥺🩷🫂.

I love how they constantly give each other their flowers. Congratulations on Kylah she’s absolutely beautiful 🥳.Some men truly don’t understand some of the hardships pregnant women go through

Thank you for talking about this, I feel like social media can glorify pregnancy but you are really risking your life each time. Postpartum hemorrhage is so scary and the fact that it happens after your baby has arrived safely is so scary as well . So glad you are ok Trish, thanks for sharing 🤍✨

My sister almost bled out on her second kid. It was beyond scary. So I know what your feeling. But don't be discouraged, she has four kids in total now. You'll have more blessings. You guys deserve more. You are such beautiful people.

My traumatic birth story: The day before I had my son I went to the hospital. They did blood work, took urine, monitored my son's heartbeat and my contractions. They also checked to see if my cervix was still closed. I was there for probably about 2 hours and they never once did an ultrasound. They discharged me so we went home. 5am the following morning, my contractions came back and then I felt a really warm gush of something. I ran into my bathroom and there was nothing but blood running down my legs. I ran back into my room and told my boyfriend to call 911. They rushed me to the hospital, and I was actively bleeding throughout the whole time. I was cut out of my clothes and rushed into an emergency c section. What happened was my placenta had ruptured so I had an abruption. If the hospital would have done an ultrasound, I would have been admitted because my placenta was detaching from my uterus. I was exactly 35 weeks when my son was born, he had to stay a week in the nicu but now in just 2 days he'll be 2 months old. A perfect happy and healthy baby boy. ❤

@mirabelchidinma2189

Жыл бұрын

Oh waoooooh. You survived 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

@tiffanyxtt93

Жыл бұрын

The same happened to me. I was 33 weeks and my little man spent 24 days in the NICU. He is a healthy 7 year old today. ❤ I'm happy your baby boy is healthy and doing good.

@kirstenwells3195

Жыл бұрын

@Tiffany Law thank you, the same to you as well ❤️

@kirstenwells3195

Жыл бұрын

@@mirabelchidinma2189 yes, thankfully we both did

@tiffanyxtt93

Жыл бұрын

Yes ❤

As a L&D nurse there is so much that we see & do that people are unaware of. Most deliveries are complicated but patients don’t hear or feel our stress. Delivery is no joke. People sadly still die from complications

@alisha2253

9 ай бұрын

As a L&D nurse you'd also know that most of these complications are actually caused by medical providers and induction drugs. Birth when left alone allowing it to progress in a physiological way the way it's intended to progress is extremely protective for both mum and baby.

@NathanBee3

5 ай бұрын

Rotten health system is also rampant with racism.

Sending hugs to all mother's in the comment section who passed through this and survived may God continue blessing you Tricia and Kam for sharing your story to us because we're many who passed through this

Birth trauma comes in any form my labor was 3 hours long and didn’t get an epidural til right at 9cm I was 35 weeks and it all happened so fast and I wasn’t prepared. Tricia please remember it’s okay to not be okay! Post partum is hard sending you guys so much love enjoy this time because you will miss it so so much ❤️

@miksterstrudel

Жыл бұрын

I also had a precipitous labor 💕 hugs

@kleav8400

Жыл бұрын

Same with my birth!

@stephanygonzalez5802

Жыл бұрын

Mine was 50 hours long before emergency c section 😢

@nikki9127

Жыл бұрын

@@stephanygonzalez5802 I had an emergency C-section too. It was so scary. 😢

Ugh as soon as she started crying I lost it. I’m so sorry you guys went through that. I’m so glad you both made it through okay. God bless you both

the way he looks at you and your baby is so incredible, i love seeing a man who cherishes the women in his life like that. you are such a beautiful and strong mom!

Child birth is no joke and I’m so glad that all of you made it through ❤ and Kam don’t get a lot of recognition for being a wonderful man to Tricia. She submits to him taken lead and provides emotional support as well as actually listening to her. Nice team you got there❤

Dang, hearing Kam talk about his experience anticipating his baby made me cry.. it got me so excited to meet my own baby in 3 months!

I just want to give her a hug when she started crying. I remember that feeling when I had post partum bleeding a week after giving birth to my daughter and it was extremely scary. You are strong momma! I’ve been there too. Congratulations to the both of you!

First let me say, thank you for being brave enough to share this story. You are right, it happens way more than it's ever talked about. And it's so scary. I am so sorry you went through that. Second, you are both so strong for different reasons. Tricia you made it through a life or death situation. And Kam, you checked to make sure she was okay. Most men don't think like that honestly. I know Kylah is worth it all ten times over. But it's still a traumatizing experience. And I'm glad to see that you are working through those feelings and emotions in such a healthy way. I had tears running down my cheeks as you were talking Tricia, because I'm a mom and I know how scary it can be. I was 19 years old when I had my twins via c-section, and one of them wasn't breathing when he was born. I felt so helpless because I couldn't get up and help him. And I was so traumatized. Make sure you keep talking about it and processing it in a healthy way. Those negative feelings can sneak up when you least expect them, so processing is the best thing you can do. Maybe talk to your obgyn and get information about why it could have happened. I honestly believe education can help everything. But you guys are amazing! Tricia you are such a strong woman and I respect you so much! And you have such a beautiful baby girl! I hope you keep sharing her as she grows... Lol I'm invested now 😂 love you guys❤❤❤

Wow...I was practically crying the entire time Tricia was narrating this experience ❤God bless all mothers out there. My experience was with a C- section. It was like my heart was been ripped off my chest and I was conscious but unable to move...I just kept praying to God in my heart. Having my baby in my arms eventually made the entire process worth while. Thanks for sharing your experience.

Much love and respect, you guys taking the time to talk about this was inspiring and emotional. Y’all stay Lit!❤

I am 42 and a mother of 8! I was a young mom, but every pregnancy and deliery has been different. I had a couple really scary dekieveries and pregnancies. I am so happy that both mom and baby are both healthy and happy and home! Y'all have such a beautiful family! Congratulations to you both🙏🏽🩷

This made me cry , I’m 34 and have 3 kiddos one was a c section he’s happy and healthy almost 2 years old now and I went through the same thing as you I won’t go into detail but it’s beautiful how raw and honest y’all are so thank you :) also my last little one is 8 months old and I had her natural so very delivery with your kiddos will be different , love y’all

I’m over here ballin’ … Omgosh I’m so so thankful you overcame that Tricia. I can’t even imagine what that was like. Thank you for sharing such a traumatic experience with us because you really didn’t have to. Kam you are truly a rock for making sure you know what was going on during & after delivery. I have 4 kids. After I had my first daughter, my blood pressure shot up to the point where they had to take me to the ER. I was completely out of it for sometime.. I had the worst migraine ever, I felt so weird & I was very weak. My breathing was off and I literally thought I wasn’t going to make it. I prayed and told God I didn’t think He would bless me with a daughter and have me die without seeing her grow up. I was terrified! Thankfully, after some time, my pressure went back to normal and I was good to go. My daughter will be 14 this July! 😊♥️

@tobaakins497

Жыл бұрын

Wooow!!! God is good!!! Thank God for keeping u!!! Always give him thanks for this for the rest of ur life

So glad everything turned out okay! Child birth can definitely be traumatic for everyone involved! I had a very different experience but I understand the “final moments” thoughts because I had them too. I nearly died in a very different way and I know how hard it is to talk about! My daughter is currently 8 months old and it’s still a sore spot that makes me emotional so I commend you for talking about it so openly and publicly so soon! Feel free to reach out if you want to hear my birth story or if you want to talk more about yours because it truly takes a village and you are not alone 💕

This video was so emotional to watch❤ you guys are so strong for sharing this part of your story! So glad everything ended up okay!

Thank you for being so brave and open and sharing your story with us- we love you so much and are here to support you no matter what ❤️❤️❤️

I felt the emotions from this video, when Tricia started crying telling her story she had tears coming out of my eyes. You had every right to not want to share this story right away but thank you so much for sharing your birth story. Kam is so supportive and it’s amazing that he kept Tricia in mind and was worried about her. I’m so glad you and the baby came out of this experience healthy! I love you guys and Tricia you are so strong and are just such an amazing person ❤

Tricia was made to be a mom, hearing her talk, she carries herself like a mom! God bless you guys and your journey! Kylah is a miracle baby - she has purpose and gonna be such a blessing to everyone she encounters. Being a Christian, this is not by accident, even though everything was chaos, we may not understand whats going on in the moment and can be scary, but God works out everything for good! You guys are a beautiful family with so much love, so happy for you guys! love yall!

You guys are so strong and know we are here for you guys! Thank you for sharing your story. This was definitely so emotional and I started to cry when Tricia started to cry. Love you guys!

Thank you for opening up. Tricia’s shaking her leg, she’s really anxious. Glad to welcome baby Kylah into this world. 💜

I'm so happy you and Kylah made it through everything and are happy and healthy! I'm 4 weeks postpartum as a first time mother, and my birth experience was traumatic for me as well. Your family is beautiful and I know exactly what you mean, when you say seeing and holding your baby makes it all worth it in the end!

Thank you for being so open about your experience Love from Nigeria 🇳🇬❤️❤️

I have 6 kids and I’m pregnant with my last. I have had several traumatic births and I would do it all over again. Too long to write my birth stories but you are strong and you did amazing and cam did amazing as well. Y’all are the best couple and parents I’ve seen in a long time.

I love how transparent and genuine you two are!! Congratulations on your bundle of joy and I’m so glad you are ok ❤❤

Kam is amazing honestly... The care is IRREPLACEABLE 💯💯💯

We’re here for you no matter what you and your family

Appreciate y’all ❤️May the lord continue to strengthen your bond

Both of you guys are amazing and Trish, you're a warrior, no need to explain if it was less than others, it's your story and valid. Kam, you're amazing! You were being a father but most of all of being a husband, you were present in the toughest of times. A huge hug to both and blessings to the three of you ❤. My mom went through something similar when she had my little sister. I wasn't there because I was 9 at the time but both of my parents told me what had happened. She actully passed out and had to receive blood. Stayed in the hospital for a week and went through the same feeling of guilt for leaving my newborn sister and me behind but she's a tough one and thank God she's still with us ❤ I'm currently 35.

protect this man 😊the way he describes n story tells is amazing yu can tell how present n in love he is, God bless this fam☀️

We're here for you no matter what you and your family Tricia you handled the whole situation like a champ, the whole TK family is here for you both 💗

My birth story was almost exactly the same as yours. Only thing different is that my daughter was born not breathing and I was not clotting. I had two doctors and a room full of 10 other people working on me as I was going in and out of consciousness. It all happens so fast and I remember screaming “is my baby okay,” over and over as I watched them scream on the phone and up the hall for the NICU nurse. My mother was in the room and had to catch my husband because he collapsed as he watched them prep me for emergency surgery. Birth can be very traumatic but to this day me and my daughter are happy and healthy. You are so strong and she will look up to you one day as you tell her that story!❤

She is very beautiful.. Tricia did such a great job in delivering baby girl.. Cam is such a great daddy.. I have a story kinda similar but different, I had twin daughters back in 1996 and I had to have a c-section.. I remember waking up out of recovery to the nurss saying I need help we are going to lose her.. I was hemmorrhaging badly and I immediately started crying for my mom.. The doctor came in and pulled big huge blood clots out of me.. I was pale and week, but long story short they caught it just in time.. Thank you God and my twins are now 26..

This post was worth the wait, post partum I’d tough and I’m sending you all the love. Well done Tricia and Kam, God is faithful!!

I’m so sorry you went through that, I cried as you were telling your story 😢 I am so glad mommy and baby are healthy and safe and good job daddy for taking care of your girls’ best interests always ❤

Tricia you are so very very strong! I admire your strength! I appreciate you so much for sharing this with us because you didn’t have to. You are a total bad ass! Kam, Kam, Kam, Kam…you my brother are definitely being amazing! The way you love Tricia, and care for her, and the the attention you show is nothing short of phenomenal! Truly one of a kind and I appreciate YOU for being a man and stepping and showing her that you are ALWAYS there for her no matter what! A lot of guys out here could definitively learn from you! Really we could all learn from you both! And to be at your age , you guys know better and are better better than most people 20 & 30 years older! Literally cried while watching and currently boo hooing right now ! So glad everything worked out for the two of you and that baby girl, Ms Kylah Skye is so strong and healthy! She’s beautiful! I’ve said it before and I’ll keep saying it! I love you guys so so so so much and i am grateful to be part of this family. The TKFamily! ❤

Thank you Tricia and Kam for sharing your story. Don't be afraid of judgment. I will definitely be keeping this in mind for my future. You're both so strong!

This teared me up brings back so many memories. When I had my daughter (now 14) I under went emergency c section because her heartbeat was dropping. Doctor's refused to do anything and was going to send me home until I freaked, I knew something was wrong. Fast forward.. I had her via section and was lucky, the surgeon said if I would've waited my baby wouldn't have made it. She was blue, had cord wrapped around her neck, arm and leg. Thankfully she's a healthy teen. Then when I had my son (age 11) during csection my heart stopped. I don't remember much other than nurses telling my ex he needs to leave and seeing a white light. When they finally got me back my head was pounding, and confused to find out later in postpartum that my heart stopped, and they lost me for a bit. I'm blessed every day to be here with my kids. Thank you so much for sharing ur story as not every situation is the same. You're strong girl and happy you all are doing good now. Much love 💕

Girl, I went through the same with my second child. I know how scary that is. Mine wasn’t apparent right away and I ended up passing out going to the bathroom and then the bleeding wouldn’t stop. I had to have a blood transfusion as a result. I’m so glad that they were able to stop it right away. You are a strong woman and great mother and that baby is beautiful 💗

I have just grown to adore you both more after this raw surreal video. In tears as you were telling us and how scary that truly was for all of you was insane. Kam as a partner soulmate father the respect we have for you has grown so much greater, that is how you love that is how you are there even though you felt like you were helpless you were so much more then that. Tricia’s protector your families protector . You mom raised a good man and I am so happy for the both of you and even more happier that you all are okay and everything worked out. We love you all ~ blessings love ~skyscraper

Good job Tricia for staying strong and kam for staying strong, being so supportive, and making sure that you had Tricia’s back.

Lawd I’m here bawling! I had an emergency c-section last year. So all those fears and thoughts went through my mind too. Pregnancy and labor&delivery is really life and death. After going through it myself I have such an immense respect for mothers. So glad you’re ok Tricia!

@TRN-wv7zn

9 ай бұрын

Yes same here emergency C-SECTION FOR Placenta rupture

I have never commented on any KZread couple's video, but this one right here, makes the whole difference. Tricia, you're a strong, beautiful and emotional woman, and I'm happy you have a loving and caring man like Kam beside you. I hope and pray your daughter be the last piece of the puzzle that completes the whole picture for you guys♥️♥️♥️

So sorry you guys had to go through all that, but I’m so glad of the outcome. What a blessing! Thanks for sharing this with us.❤

I totally feel for y'all in this situation because it's scary. You think you're just going in for a regular visit but then the doctor says that you need to be admitted that same day & it's a shock & your emotions are all over the place. I went through something similar with the birth of my first baby. I went in for a checkup which I was doing often because I had preeclampsia & high blood pressure & all of a sudden the doctor says, "We need to induce you today because your blood pressure is too high." I walked over to the hospital, got induced, waited all day for something to happen but nothing did. Around 8pm they said we need to do a c-section. I had a c-section & after my baby came out, I passed out. Thank God they were able to revive me & baby and I were fine after that but it was just so traumatic. I'm glad Tricia & baby are doing great & everything worked out.❤

This birth story touched my heart so hard..i had my son 4 years ago at 26 weeks so he was born prematurely and i also didn't know what was going on and if my baby would survive, i didnt hear him crying because he was so small that he haven't had a voice yet, i found out afterwards that he wasn't breathing when i gave birth to him because i was so black out that moment of everything happening around me. He spend 81 days in nicu and that was the longest 81 days of my life he had to go through so much and he survive through everything even though they told me every day that he is stable now but they can't promise if he will be tomorrow and that hurts a lot hearing that as a parent march 14th this year he turned 4 years old and i thank God every day he is a miracle baby. Thank you so much for telling your story, i know how painfull it can be and wrapping our heads around whats going on in that moment.

An extremely similar situation happened with me! I could feel exactly what you were saying. When I got the vitamin k shot in my leg, I was also hyper focused on my baby & just trying to role play in my head what would come next. I thought they would take my son away from me & roll me away for a blood transfusion. I was calm but also really scared. I also get super emotional when I tell our story, and he just turned 2! Thank God our bodies clotted properly and we're both here to be moms to our babies!! 🥹 Big hugs!!

I have so much respect for kam it really shows how much he loves tricia ❤️🥺

Thank you for sharing! There are so many unexpected things that can happen during pregnancy and labor/delivery. You just never know what to expect. Baby and momma go through so much. It is all worth it in the end. Love you all! ❤❤

Your channel wound up in my recommended. For some reason, I've never seen you guys before. But I just had to comment. Your intro is so beautiful. You guys did a great job on it!

I’m so glad it ended in praise! You both sure deserves each other ❤❤

You are so right Trish! I had 36hrs of labor w my first son, 3.5hrs of pushing and ended up in an emergency c section so I had a very traumatic birth as well and as soon as your baby is in your arms none of that matters! It was all worth it

I’m so sorry for what you both experienced 💔 I hope you continue to heal from what you both experienced. I watched in awe and extremely proud of how you overcame this ❤️ Thank you for sharing and God bless your family 💝

I LOVE YOU GUYS SO MUCH AND I AM PRAYING FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY🩵🩵🩵I’m so proud of you for pushing through everything and I am glad that your still here! You both are so inspiring 😌🫶🏻

I bet it’s because of all the induction procedures. I was induced and the same thing happened. I’m sorry this is so scary and my heart aches so bad for you. You are so strong! Hospitals have GOT to stop inducing people when it’s not necessary. They’ve began pushing inductions when they’re not needed and it’s weird.

@rskitty3

9 ай бұрын

Agree

I had a similar experience regarding being induced, the epidural & the bleeding afterwards. They literally said the same thing, I was bleeding so much and they had a hard time figuring out where it was coming from. I heard them say it & I was aware but at the same time I was also holding my son & I guess that was what kept me calm too.. very scary time for us mamas! & what an amazing dad & partner for kam to be so focused on you during that time too & making sure you were being taken care of properly, it makes all the difference in the world having that support and level of care from your partner for sure! 🥰

You have NOOO right to have to keep everyone updated on your personal life 💜💜 you guys did amazing with the circumstances and your daughter is beautiful and so glad you are alive today! 🥰

Good job Kam for being very proactive and stepping up and advocating on Trisha's behalf. I work in healthcare and I can tell you that these are the things that make the world of a difference.

I’ve also had a traumatic birth story as well but we’re so strong as mothers Trish ❤ so glad you guys are ok. 🙏🏾

It's crazy how similar our stories are. I just had my baby on May 19. I went thru so much during pregnancy where I or my baby wasn't supposed to make it thru. I had surgery early in my pregnancy. I lost my voice I became paralyzed from the waist down. My baby or I or both weren't supposed to make it thru surgery. I was on my death bed in the hospital for over 2 months early in my pregnancy. I was told I won't be able to walk or talk if I survived surgery. I was stuck in a wheelchair my whole pregnancy. My birth story is super similar. I was induced at 39 weeks almost 40 weeks. I was in labor for 36 hours. I understand where Trisha is coming from with her feeling like her body isn't doing what it was supposed to. Only thing is my water didn't break on its own. They thought they had to do an emergency c section. Got everything ready for them to take me and I begged them to check again. I prayed. My mom prayed. Prayed I didn't have to do that and they told me I was 8 cm and said I didn't have to do the surgery. The after birth is similar as well. I just kept bleeding and wasn't clotting. I was super sick after I gave birth to where they had to take my baby from me..I was throwing up. Light headed and dizzy..blood pressure kept dropping. I thought that was it for me as well. My fiance was with me I told him to stay with the baby to make sure she was ok. My mom didn't leave my side. I told her to go meet her grand baby. It's funny how yall say her fluids spashed the Dr. Because my mom got splashed and she was on the side of me. I went thru so much and I agree with Trisha 100% to do it all over again for my baby girl or more in the future. I love u guys. Honestly yall remind me of my fiance and I. And I love that.

@blessedbeautiful8703

Жыл бұрын

Happy you survived 💖 God bless you for sharing your story

@thequallosfamily9124

Жыл бұрын

I am glad u on your baby is ok

@_.vinoo_gee12

Жыл бұрын

Happy that you are fine and the baby is fine, thank God🙏... with him everything is possible ❣️🙏

@joudian

11 ай бұрын

Happy you are all still here 😊 are you still paralyzed?

Your story is yours and Kam alone. This KZread Aunty is proud! All 3 of my delivery were traumatic: Rush c-section for 1st one, ICU and NICU for the last. All now grown and teens. I'm blessed through the struggle and so are you!❤

I just wanted to tell you know that you guys are very strong and well done because I know it wasn’t easy to share your story❤ it’s also part of the healing process and your story.I’m grateful to God that you are doing well and alive and with your new blessings your daughter. ❤️❤️❤️

You are so strong and beautiful no matter what ❤️ you know you always got us !! We are proud of you and Kam in every aspect ❤️ And y’all made a beautiful babygirl ❣️

This brought back many scary memories! I was induced (never again) and then the epidural took 3 hours to come. Pushing was absolutely fine, but I lost a lot of blood afterwards and couldn’t even hold my son. I kept passing out, my blood pressure was SO low and I felt like I was going to die. My son was taken to NICU as we both got an infection from my waters being broken too. We spent days in hospital and I nearly had a blood transfusion but I have bad allergies to things so they did everything they could to avoid it. It was just horrific and I never want to be induced again 🥲 I’m SO glad you guys are ok and i’m so sorry you had that experience! But like you said, it’s worth every minute 👶🏼🫶🏼

This story had me feeling everything you guys felt even though I’ve never experienced being pregnant. It’s just the fact knowing that something can go wrong and all you want to do is be with the people you love…. Tricia you are so so strong. I’ve gained so much respect for Kam, knowing how he worried solely on his wife. I just love you guys and your little family. I’m so sorry pregnancy was as tough as it was but you guys came out of it warriors, honestly. And now you have babygirl🤍

My eyes filled with tears when Tricia started crying....U r very strong an god brought u thru he didn't leave u one bit.....kam is so supportive an i love that....I'm jus happy u an bby grl is healthy an ok❤❤🙌🙌

Tricia is looking extremely beautiful Her post pregnancy glow is amazing Thank you kam for being an amazing support to your whole family 😩❤️❤️

Tricia You Are Strong. And It's Brave Of You To Tell Your Story. Sometimes Men Just Don't Understand How Much We As Women Have To Go Through. But I'm Glad You Made It Through.

Watching this was so emotional for me. I was also induced but ended up having a c section and also started hemorrhaging in the recovery room. I tried telling a nurse 3 separate times that something wasn’t right before my boyfriend looked under my blanket and called a nurse so they could actually check on me! I remember having similar thoughts as all the doctors rushed into my room and handed my newborn to my boyfriend and told them they have to leave the room…. Very traumatic for me. I ended up pregnant again within a year and although my second birth was also a c section, it was sooo much smoother so please don’t let this scare you for future pregnancies. They really are all so different. I’m happy Tricia and baby girl are here and healthy and I’m excited to watch you guys as you grow along this new journey ❤️❤️❤️

I love how Tricia didn’t hesitate when Kam asked her if she wanted more kids.❤️ YOU ARE A CHAMP…

Can we take a moment and admire how beautiful she is glowing 🥺💗💗

Bring life into this world is both amazing and nerve wracking. I’m so glad you all are okay and we’ll to share your experience ❤ God bless you guys.

just grateful to God y’all are ALL here and healthy to tell your story! Glory be to God 🙌🏽 Glad you’re okay!

I started crying too when you cried, i went through the exact same situation with my baby boy. You’re very strong than you think Tricia because a lot of women don’t make it out of there but you did so proud of both of you ❤❤

Thank you for your story Tricia! I got pregnant with my 3rd LO around the same time as you & Rissa & I to had a traumatic experience (I had just found out I was pregnant about a week before leaving) I went on a road trip & once back home I started to feel unwell to the point where I was having pain in my chest & could barely breathe & went to the emergency room to find out I had not 1 but about 3 blood clots in my lungs & if I would’ve waited another day I could’ve died! So I then have to start taking blood thinner shots immediately twice a day my entire pregnancy & 6 weeks after birth! So I to was actually induced at 38 weeks I was terrified !! (mainly because I went natural with my other 2) so I was told that if things went wrong I could basically die or need a blood transfusion, so after birth I to was bleeding none stop like constantly to where they told me I’ll possibly need that blood transfusion if I made it to that certain amount of blood lost (Thankfully I did not) but I was extremely close but after making it through all of that it kind of scared me BUT as you said seeing your baby just makes you forget all about the negative & I’ll honestly do it again as long as my LO’s are healthy & ok . Sorry for the long post just thought I’d share my story as well 🫶🏽