Please do a video on basics of budgeting and handling finances for single mom’s. Please!!!

@_stopclone_

3 жыл бұрын

Yes it's much needed

You are a beautiful and strong woman! May Allah(S.W.T) bless you with the best.

@FarrahZaurr

3 жыл бұрын

Ameen thank you!

You speak perfectly in urdu and English so don't change it also many people are learning from you and making change their life positively. Take care with big hug💖🤗

Absolutely true,I was in narcissistic marriage for 28 years and did my best but in the end I knew that I cant change alone if he doesn't want to change so I took the decision and left him,took me too long to decide but hey it's never too late ❤❤❤🙌🙌🙌

@mahrukhjunaid578

3 жыл бұрын

How did u manage after that

@shazawan3226

3 жыл бұрын

@@mahrukhjunaid578 I called the domestic violence people and it took them six months to get me the place because I have a autistic son and didn't wanted to go to the shelter so when I moved there they helped me get the permanent apartment and paid 3 months rent and in the mean while I started working and saving money and I applied my son disability too and they are paying me for his baby sitting so far things are going great Alhumdulillah. ❤

@muhibarhamchannel4998

3 жыл бұрын

Highly impressed the way you speak and appreciate ur hands movement for explanation 😘 ur big support from Saudia.

@shairsko9360

3 жыл бұрын

Abdul Rashid Ur name is the name for a man! ☝️😀

@shazawan3226

3 жыл бұрын

@@shairsko9360 I know right 🙌🙌🙌

Beautifully explained! Love you, farah and i appreciate ur wisdom a lot

Well said . But how many girls have the guts to walk away from a broken marriage, most are compromising. Or making things work for the sake of children or because of their parents. People treat your like a doormat . You are one gutsy girl.

Such a beautiful video, totally relate and agree with you alhumdullilah we are stronger today ❤️❤️❤️❤️ sending much love

You have taken a stand for yourself and your daughter .I have seen your earlier videos and not in one video he seemed to support you not even a smile in front of the camera ... I too am a KZreadr and my husband doesn't like being in front of the camera ...but he always always supports me knowing that I like this ... We have our differences and yes I have changed but so has he ....if the partner is not ready to change but always expects you to change then it's better to leave .. you are strong and smart.... I support you ...

@highdoseoffun1M

3 жыл бұрын

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Wonderful ! Would love to watch you more frequently but I understand that you are a busy woman and a mom. Stay blessed and happy always 😊

The reason we desi people are hesitant to talk about issues and learning experience in marriage or our lives is because being judged. Ex. I made KZread channel but havent share with family or close friends. I think desi parents always tell there kids to be in hush hush….

Farah you send the massage to all the married women to wakeup. Live your life & be happy. Thanks for video.

@iqratahseen6719

2 жыл бұрын

I'm totally agree with your opinion .I suffered and tried to maintain and continue to my marriage but at the end ,everything is finished

Love love love your videos Farah! Stay strong!!❤

Love this video - best so far!!! Best of luck on being a better person - which you're already becoming!

The thing I learnt here which can be applicable in every walk of life is that never ask for validation from other people what’s going on in your life because you will reciprocate same in every relation then. Also, in every relation you can’t change the other person what you want rather accept how he/she is and support them.

@FarrahZaurr

3 жыл бұрын

Yes! One should never seek for validation from others. It’s after all your life, your decision and it’s all about you! If you cannot decide for yourself? How can you even decide for your offsprings. The decision power comes within

@sanji546

2 жыл бұрын

@@FarrahZaurr so true

Stay strong ! You are brave and super human being.so much love for you and your daughter..

well said, Farah, ,I appreciate your views about marriage, you are really strong enough ,because you took the right decision of separation from your husband, you are such a brave and courageous woman,

Very well said you should be absolutely transparent and discuss more n make more vlogs on real life issues one of your best vlog

Loved the way you spoke about marriage today. Beautiful👌💖

Nicely explained 👍🏼👍🏼 Thank you for sharing your experience.

Interesting and very down to earth video. You can't please everyone so more power to you ....

Everything you said is true. Marriage is a two way game. One person should never have to compromise all the time.

Amazing analysis!

No words I am speechless, made me cry 😭 💯 right

My dear happy to see you every time...💓 This is very strong topic...and you take sach strong decision most of woman can't take this decision....but I m happy 4 you😊

Hello Farrah, it’s good that you decided to help those Women out there who are going through so much but don’t know how to handle their issues or situations in their marriage. If you remember when I first saw your vlog after your divorce and I suggested to share part of your story so many Women out there can relate that how you got up and started living independently with your daughter. I also shared part of my story in that vlog of yours. Farrah dear, I loved what you have said and I totally agree with you. All the best my dear 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

I was waiting for this. Thank you so much 🙏

@FarrahZaurr

3 жыл бұрын

I hope you do get something out of this!

@HarleenMokha

3 жыл бұрын

“You cannot be an introvert for your wife and kids”…..very well said!!!

@Bareera-muhammad

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah the same sentence I liked much , or yahi jumla bar bar dimagh may goonj raha 🥲

I am glad you spoke about how to make marriage work towards the end even though the video is about how to tell if a marriage is over and despite the negative experience with your marriage. By no means do I support a toxic marriage but I feel a lot of people do need to put efforts in their relationships these days rather than just giving up on it. There is definitely a difference between giving up without trying/ breaking your commitment vs actually trying to make things work and not being able to

@FarrahZaurr

3 жыл бұрын

Of course there’s no answer to how do you actually know but it depends on your thresholds and your approach towards life. Some people have different school of thoughts and no matter how difficult situation is? They are alright with it. As adults, we can only let the other person be aware of their rights but we cannot decide for them. And hence I spoke about working out your marriage before taking such big step. It’s surely not easy but one should be 100% sure before going ahead with parting ways. At least one must not regret later that they didn’t try! That’s why it’s good to give it some chances but not risking yours and kids life for sure.

@truthalltheway6791

3 жыл бұрын

I tottaly agree, and @Farrahzaur deleted my comment. I spent a lot of time in typing it. And she just deleted it. Farrah you have to allow people to share thier opinion. It wasn't even a negative comment. I shared my story. So disrespectful

@FarrahZaurr

3 жыл бұрын

@@truthalltheway6791 I did not deleted your comment hun, I haven’t even read it! May be it didn’t get published!

@truthalltheway6791

3 жыл бұрын

@@FarrahZaurr ok no worries, thanks for replying to me. X

vlogging is not easy you are making quite engaging content۔۔۔ power woman۔۔۔۔ much love۔۔۔ love from Malaysia

thanks for bringing such awareness on this public platform. Stay Blessed. Much Courage

Agreed with you my dear Farrah,,you explained well,,bcz my thought is why always wifes do samjhota,,be strong 👍 prayers for you from fariha baloch youtuber from Pakistan

What u said...its so accurate... I am not married but I know...its very important for the other person to speak up otherwise...the person who is puttinh efforts feels like may b I am not putting efforts that much or may b my efforts r not in the right direction... so its really important to sort it out rather than torturing ur partner that let her/him assume that whats lacking in the relation

Asalam o alikum, Farrah I am your huge fan from Florida, USA. You create great contents on you tube. I totally aggre with your opinions about relationships. I must appreciate your effort and stay bless my dearest Farrah. May Allah help all of us and guide us on right path. Ameen. Stay strong InshaAllah and more power to you my favorite person Farrah.

I love the transition between urdu and English. Ignore people this is live a visual blog for u too. I love wqtching you him your a smart intelligent woman who speaks very well xxxx

Agreed stay blessed Always stay happy and take care

Thank you farrah so much for this. I have been sitting in the gray area for so long.... i have found my answer.

@missfit8121

3 жыл бұрын

Dont forget that kids suffer after

Love it when you say "hiii guys" 🥰 really look forward to your videos.... Please try to upload more .... maybe twice a week if you can. Many thanks ❤️ 😊 🙏

Good video farah ar bht sahi bten ki hn tmne i agree with u ar ye jo kha tmne k dono ki effort zaruri hti h sahi bt h jbhi marrige life achi gzrti h ye note kia ta mane tmhary hus ki brdy waly vlog m k tmne bht effort ki ti mgr wo bnda hans k nai dy rha ta k jsy sb bekar h uski nzr m kher meri dua h k Allah tmko qadirdan hus ata frmay ar tm pichly sb dkh bhul jao aameen

Hats off to u, u are so well spoken I think parents whom are very orthodox. should listen to your video probably they won't agree to your talks. once again it is an eye opener for the younger generation to listen to u. Slmz to u from South Africa.

It's yours Best vedio for our youth relationships 💫💫

Thank you farah... This is truly relatable... Ur inspiring many of us us to kip going without feeling miserable about ourselves.... And with each video I cn see you getting prettier... Keep going..

@tayyabamustafanewchannel9564

3 жыл бұрын

Join me kindly 💐😍

@minaahmedvlogs6569

3 жыл бұрын

I noticed that too

Very good observation 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Go girl If a woman is strong she doesn’t need a Man She is a Man herself Wish you great luck n success

Mind blowing.....! farrah each nd every word is 100% correct der should be 2 sided effect not one side.... ! Luv UUU..... May Allah help u in ur life u can touch the sky darling.....

You are doing best I like your videos...you are sharing your experience ...good...keep it up dear

Great content 👌 Sending lots of prayers and love from USA Washington 🇺🇸❤

🌸 Sending lots of love and prayers.. 🌸 stay strong girl ❤

So true! Respect and equality are the key ingredients to make good out of the marriage. Consistently in pain and then compromise on it-Ab yehi Mera naseeb hai-gives you nothing but lose your own identity.

Love it so much! I can deeply relate to it as my first marriage ended due to similar reasons .. its about each other at the end of the day, just like you said. Respect even over love in marriage is the key to a successful marriage

@darkranger1122

3 жыл бұрын

I got seperated a few months ago. How did you cope? How are you feeling now? Whats your status now?

@nkhan6429

3 жыл бұрын

yes I'd like to know how you overcome first marriage, especially with parents/family. did you move on?

@AforAmmi

3 жыл бұрын

@@darkranger1122 ALHAMDOLILAH I am doing very well now. Its a process, healing takes time, specifically the damage that was done in the marriage. Take it slow, but be positive. Only start looking for suitors when you think you are ready to commit again :) ALHAMDOLILAH i had a really nice support system of family and friends. I hope you come out of it stronger iA

@AforAmmi

3 жыл бұрын

@@nkhan6429 ALHAMDOLILAH I am married now. My parents were extremely supportive throughout so Alhamdolilah :) it takes time to move on. I took as much as I needed to feel myself again before i could think about marriage again.

Very wise and positive words .. may Allah swt bless you both health n happiness ❤️

More power to you miss watching you from beginning of your channel ❤️❤️❤️

@FarrahZaurr

3 жыл бұрын

Yayy thank you so much!

MashAllah looks pretty 💕 more power to you ❤

Kudos to you for doing so well as a single parent. I hope you are speaking for both genders with your ideas regarding the subject. I understand traditionally in our culture the women tend to accept more changes and compromise. I'm not arguing that, but I feel you should mention that you are speaking for both genders equally.

@FarrahZaurr

3 жыл бұрын

I did mention in my video that I am speaking for both men and women. Because I don’t want to be gender biased here, divorce is difficult for both the genders and both go through the similar pain.

@j_Uy_8qwi8HbC9XLt4kpvQ

3 жыл бұрын

She is speaking equally for both genders. Farrah your husband was very different from you. I watch your videos at times but I never felt that he loved you or was excited enough to be around you. You are sorted now. Love from India

@Idkjk971

2 жыл бұрын

@@j_Uy_8qwi8HbC9XLt4kpvQ I think Farah was hinting towards her marriage in this such as her husband could have been a introvert perhaps ? Or worst might be Gay but in denial. Allah Knows best. Many men who are gay still get married and it creates a huge problem when it comes to intimacy and satisfaction.

@sabasiddiqui429

6 ай бұрын

​@@j_Uy_8qwi8HbC9XLt4kpvQ I tried searching for videos with her husband, it seems like she deleted them. Are they still there on her channel?

100% right but sometimes we have to tolerate for children. And we become deef and blind. Because no other person accepts your children even our parents and siblings start to torture your children if you come back.

I went through mix emotions listening to this party being mad at you , but then I realize !! I can’t do that , I don’t know what you been though and your emotions touched me . Sometimes when we are compromising in a toxic relationship we want everyone else to do the same and that’s not fair to anyone ! I have a message for every brown toxic husband out there , she will leave you eventually and if she doesn’t then she will definitely be not there for you emotionally. Don’t abuse your wives don’t ! The Last message of Rasool ALLAH was to treat your wives better ! He left you with that Sunnah . For all my sisters who are there for their kids , ALLAH will reward you but don’t except every other women to do the same as you. Prayers can change people and if you don’t believe it try ! Try ! Allah changed the heart of Umar towards Muhammad maybe you have a Umar and you need to seek help from Allah ! Or you have Abu Jahl and he will never change

Love your videos, agreed with you. Really love the flowers in a vase behind you.

@FarrahZaurr

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! Flowers make me so happy!

@darakhshannaz4357

3 жыл бұрын

@@FarrahZaurr and u make us Happy.😍🍫❤️

whenever i look at ur vlog it just make up my day

@tayyabamustafanewchannel9564

3 жыл бұрын

Join me kindly 😍💐

More power to you. Stay blessed and strong.

So true✌️ You r so brave ♥️♥️

I hope your husband watches this video too.

hats off for u positivity 💕

I just love the way u talk ...stay blessed

@tayyabamustafanewchannel9564

3 жыл бұрын

Join me kindly 😍💐

Farrah u always inspires me.

Ap boht strong lady hain.. ese step uthana behad mushkil hota hay .. aksar ladies bachon ki waja se compromise kar k reh letin hain ya boht si larkiyon ka background normal hota hay .. or parents bolty k beta gai ho to mar k hi nikalna.. single parent hona is mardon k dor main behad mushkil k.. lakin Allah ne aurat ko behad mazbod banaya hay ... hamary socety main comunication ka hi issue hai.. couple apas main beth k baat nahi karty or agr karna chata hain to har insan beach main ajata hay ..

You couldn't have said all this any better👌 I salute you ❤

Agreed with you God bless you dear

Awwww love the video so good u are ♥️♥️

By far, ur best video... May be becoz been there... Done that... But every word was soooo well thought of... Proud to have found myself after being treated as a nobody.

Thank you for talking and sharing your personal experience. M going through exactly the same , trust me when i was driving with my kids to park i was thinking that sometimes i didn’t even remember that m human being too i need rest and acknowledgment too..

@fatimasyed1077

3 жыл бұрын

and when somebody says you not a good mother and you stay at home and dun do much it sounds that i never did anything in my life because i put my all effort already and still there is nothing

Asslamu allikum dear I'm 110%with u Mujhy tu aik bat pata hy jis per guzarti hy wo hi samjh sakta hy 😪

Living in a toxic situation is very bad for children too

Well said ! 👏

You absolutely correct. What you said should be this way.

U r strong lady more power to u enjoy ur life …I like ur vlog keep doing it

Hello girl- love your talks ❤️

My mother also has toxic marriage...I saw her in pain...very difficult to bare all things...

MashaAllah well said. Why do I feel like you were indirectly talking about your marriage! 😅 Love is a 2 way street! You cannot take the other person’s burden with you. Its better to end it. This used to happen with our elders. Spent their life as it is with full compromise that is one sided only. People say women without man is incomplete but we can change that! We need to find a man who understands. May Allah bless you.

One day Farrah you will giving lectures on social issue on other platforms too..soon you have talent to talk and understand the problems....new doors will open for u.... take care

More power to you❤️🔥💯

Its great Farrah how well you’ve explained and brought up some of the issues people go through in marriage but are hesitant to talk about them 👏👏

@FarrahZaurr

3 жыл бұрын

I am glad you went through all of it and understood the point I was trying to talk! There’s no one answer to this question because it’s all about evolving through this life and relationship!

@hashirnasir559

3 жыл бұрын

what happining you in irfan btween...then divorce...before divorce you can live happilly..

@nasihashakeel8325

3 жыл бұрын

@@FarrahZaurrtotally agreed well done

Very well explained in such simple words. ❤️

@FarrahZaurr

3 жыл бұрын

Glad you liked it

You are so vibrant and happy go lucky you deserve a partner like that, I can't wait for that. Many ppl dont leave because they need security of a marriage Good luck.love from Brisbane

@tayyabamustafanewchannel9564

3 жыл бұрын

Join me kindly 😍💐

U stood for yourself but broken home are another turmoil patience is the key

Very rightly said.

I agree what u said I am also faced this time and I knw it’s so painful but I stand up to my self

Assalam o alaikum apke videos ache hoti bhht .Allah hmsha khush rkh apko..

@FarrahZaurr

3 жыл бұрын

Walaikum asalam! Ameen! Thank you so much

Stay strong and blessed

She spoke my heart ❤

Each and every bit detailed by you is absolutely true. I totally agree but sometimes major factor is financial instability that becomes an intrinsic reason for one to make that ‘grey zone’ her comfort zone. This is because most of the time women are dependent on their spouse for this particular utmost factor.

@tronbluelight

3 жыл бұрын

Yes true....women take all this shit becoz of finances but there is still hope we have to work it out. In the name of love mothers are exploited to bits. Women are capable of taking this all in. Dont giveup. God is there always to protect us

@ihsansyedable

3 жыл бұрын

Many families have happily lived in Pakistan and We grown up with a specific mindset. Australia is a whole new world for us in all aspects of life. We can't just start living as we lived in Pakistan. Here in Australia many families start struggling with their relationship. Men starts routine 9-5 jobs. We don't know about work life balance or weekends or taking holidays. Many women don't know driving, computer, English. They just sit in home that's creat depression.

You are 100% correct.

Amazing 🤩 simply amazing video 👏👏👏

@FarrahZaurr

3 жыл бұрын

Thank youuuuuu!

@sadiachaudhry6257

3 жыл бұрын

❤️❤️❤️

💯 agree with you,Sending you More power and Love from US 🇺🇸❤️ ❤️

I think the way you talk is normally how we talk at homes and its perfect ☺️.

Such a lovely video...👍

So True.. I agree with you

Luv u..u explained v well

Rightly said to communicate but unfortunately sometimes it's one sided communication between inlaws and son

Great nd honest analysis on marriage it is always better to have one person happy rather then two unhappy people lots of people in our society live their lives bcz of parents children social pressures take nonsense all their lives but they have nothing in common it’s always two way traffic you hit the nail on the head about marriage Masood UK

Very informative.🌸

Sister you have articulated in a best possible way. I think you can make psychology or related field, your profession. Give a thought. Good luck

Stay strong ❤️❤️

@FarrahZaurr

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks love!

You are gonna definitely hit 100k soon

@FarrahZaurr

3 жыл бұрын

Awwwwwwww so sweeet of you! Thanks a lot