If this popped up in your recommendations...then you’re probably a lesbian Edit: sorry to all the bisexuals, I actually didnt think anyone was gonna see this comment tbh. Signed, A lesbian

@ceilingturtles

4 жыл бұрын

I feel attacked

@maneitzme

4 жыл бұрын

Ceiling Turtles right 😂

@kacao6561

4 жыл бұрын

Excuse me, maybe it's just because of the sarah and Adianna vids I watch. Or the Michaeng ship compilation vids....or the hayley Kiyoko music that I like to...oh shit!! I'm gay!!

@BeingTiffany

4 жыл бұрын

welp

@mariadingh7

4 жыл бұрын

Fuck.

"I changed my gender preference on tinder to women" " *T OOT* "

@casshervas9120

5 жыл бұрын

MEEEEE

@montanabailey9653

5 жыл бұрын

I'm here for that

@scarletnakadegawa-lee5220

5 жыл бұрын

I was looking for this!!

@bagofcorn7434

5 жыл бұрын

Tag yourself I'm the TOOT

@cukemom458

5 жыл бұрын

HHH WHAT

When she mentioned her friend grabbing her hand to lead her through a crowd...... I felt that

@aileenzhao7951

4 жыл бұрын

And like, when my friend loops an arm around me and I'm just like,,,

@shedoesconcerts5762

4 жыл бұрын

first girl i kissed did that... whew

@megansalt

4 жыл бұрын

me too, my heart used to sink a bit

@itsray1878

4 жыл бұрын

Same

@viragmolly2961

4 жыл бұрын

I love that . Time stops literally and all you feel is those thight fingers and hear your extremely loud heartbeat

"I was living my life in gray" Lol well now she's living her life in GAY lol

@defnenote

4 жыл бұрын

tríníty underrated comment

@marinamelero5713

4 жыл бұрын

Best comment here

@lillicommers147

4 жыл бұрын

Hehe

@j1sxns897

4 жыл бұрын

trinity okay but Lee IS best boy right?

@dmoskha

4 жыл бұрын

Nah she knows what she's talking about! In COLOR 🌈🌈

i’m here because i searched “am i a lesbian” oh crap

@human_thing2035

5 жыл бұрын

same

@beesquestionmark

5 жыл бұрын

This came up in my recommended. KZread knows me so well

@TheMoni77777

5 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣

@aagantuk7370

5 жыл бұрын

🎉🎉🎉

@mjcoteco7781

5 жыл бұрын

Welcome!

“How do you know you’re lesbian? When you’re looking up a video about how you know if you’re lesbian.” That was so true and made me laugh 😂😂😂

@fiorellavasquez3219

5 жыл бұрын

Taking those buzz feed are you gay tests

@missgiroud97

5 жыл бұрын

Its 3 in the morning, im bored. I will see everyrhing with sense or medium sense in the interner

@missgiroud97

5 жыл бұрын

Internet*

@belamriliza4109

5 жыл бұрын

I m bi and lost between this

@missgiroud97

5 жыл бұрын

@@belamriliza4109 Im straigth and was seeing everything that pop out in my youtube feed

Gay panic is the only way to describe my high school experience. edit: I've never gotten so many likes before! XD thank yoooouuuu!!!!!

@Inamichan

5 жыл бұрын

renagade septiceye relatable

@sev9642

5 жыл бұрын

imanasaurus rex that spelling isn’t

@beep37

5 жыл бұрын

@@sev9642 He spelt it right though 😂

@dezbodz

5 жыл бұрын

That explains the terrible spelling

@trickytreyperfected1482

5 жыл бұрын

@@beep37 expareianece

When she said she clearly wasn't gay bc she didn't look "like a lesbian" and didn't like girls who did... that's literally why it took me 18 years to realize omfg

@ladyofallthingspotterrelat1913

4 жыл бұрын

kikosmusic yes!!! Honestly same though

@nachonachos2185

4 жыл бұрын

Sammmmmeeee

@RandomPerson-vz2wb

4 жыл бұрын

That's me right now

@darkhorse7460

3 жыл бұрын

Well yeah that and comp het

@PianoMeSasha

3 жыл бұрын

its sad cuz, like, not all gay men are effeminate, not all straight men are macho, not all straight women are not also "tomboys", and not all lesbians are butch...we gotta root out the binary everywhere..

I don't. I'm waiting for j.k.rowling to reveal

@charlottestephensonart

5 жыл бұрын

sıla this is the best comment👌🏻

@t1234odd5

5 жыл бұрын

I screamed 😂

@ssh995

5 жыл бұрын

I came here from a jk Rowling video haha

@seaofflowers.

5 жыл бұрын

Can't be said enough: amazing comment. 😂👏

@ultravioletpisces3666

5 жыл бұрын

Me too. But she keeps writing contradictory scenes for me...

"love, life, and s*x feels f***ing amazing in color." 🌈

@mecryst7013

5 жыл бұрын

You should me gay teller by name XD

@taygeller928

5 жыл бұрын

@@mecryst7013 well, my name is tay and i pretty much happen to be gay as well haha

@mecryst7013

5 жыл бұрын

@@taygeller928 haha that's sick !

@Kei-zx7nf

4 жыл бұрын

Best quote ever

@brittanybornnard6985

4 жыл бұрын

Don't it though

“How do you know your lesbian? When your looking up a video if your a lesbian” True tho

@iamdivinelyloved3569

4 жыл бұрын

AvaTehGamer3 its been like 3 years and im still taking quizzes each year lmaooo

@crappyaccount

4 жыл бұрын

What if it got recommended to you? XD

@crappyaccount

4 жыл бұрын

@@iamdivinelyloved3569 rip and edit: actually wtf I know a lesbian named Stella...

I thought you were american

@manoncocagne3612

5 жыл бұрын

@Alice Alice I think it's a joke between lesbian an Lebanese, like I thought you were American not Lebanese.

@chrisharrison5505

5 жыл бұрын

It's a vine reference

@charcymarie5804

5 жыл бұрын

No she’s Lebanese duhh

@aagantuk7370

5 жыл бұрын

I am india

@johnlaurens5969

5 жыл бұрын

You guys r taking this way to serious, ITS A VINE LOL 😂

It's not easy being Steve :-(

@MissEasyPeasySleasy

5 жыл бұрын

Awwww lol it’s so sad but funny because captain America is also a Steve. And ss hot as he is, hes a 70yo Virgin! Hahaha!

@evafemme8674

5 жыл бұрын

Poor thing ;-)

@kaca2903

5 жыл бұрын

@@MissEasyPeasySleasy ur not helping

@MissEasyPeasySleasy

5 жыл бұрын

Katarina I’m not here to help. I’m here to laugh!!!

@jazzisforpainting4928

5 жыл бұрын

I'd be your friend Steve but you don't have any boobs. Well, we *all* have boobs but yours are not the kind I like. Its not your fault Steve...

slightly shaken. this is my exact life. 31 and just changed my tinder preferences, i wasn't expecting the enormous sense of relief when I did...

@danialbrecht2982

5 жыл бұрын

Good for you Lyndsey!!!! Go be happy!!!! Live your life your way!!! gogoGO

@lyndseyfox615

5 жыл бұрын

Dani Albrecht thankyou 😊 I will x

@its_ambs

5 жыл бұрын

I'm so proud of you x

@voyance4elle

5 жыл бұрын

Get'em gurl 😉

@blo2102

5 жыл бұрын

Welcome to being gayy!!! 🧚

"you met one Steve, you've met them all" Looololol

Well... You don't wear a beanie in summer for no reason, or baseball tee when it's not baseball season... If you check her nails and they're always trim, or if K-Stew is her style twin....

@haley6973

5 жыл бұрын

Callysto ALLY

@kierabishop8991

5 жыл бұрын

she knows a little bit too much about the L word

@emilybooth6277

5 жыл бұрын

Throwback to when I was 14 and confused :') nostalgia, GAYstalgia if you will

@hannahhegarty3554

5 жыл бұрын

Ally hillssssssss

@jenvu9614

5 жыл бұрын

Callysto she rolls her sleeves up when she’s wearing pocket tee shirts

I identify as bisexual, but I've felt this way about men my whole life. I do get strong crushes on celebrity men, but not guys in real life. This is making me start to doubt my sexuality again. helppp

@acchaladka

5 жыл бұрын

It’s a gay panic! ;). I also fail to see the problem, and I’m a bi guy. Go with what you’re attracted to.

@primus108

5 жыл бұрын

Why do labels matter? If you are attracted to someone, what difference does it make what their gender is? It only matters if the label matters to you.

@jimbo4589

5 жыл бұрын

Maybe check your sanity

@ohthelovelypoems

5 жыл бұрын

Brooke • So what's the problem, babe, you're a lesbian then. Embrace it!

@miguel-h

5 жыл бұрын

You shouldn’t label yourself. Listen to your heart and feel free to love whoever you want.

I’m just waiting on J.K. Rowling to decide for me.

@frances9975

5 жыл бұрын

😂 😂 😂 😂 😂

@justagirl5719

5 жыл бұрын

Can you please, explain the “J.K. Rowling” reference?

@idgiecarson

5 жыл бұрын

Just a girl it was a meme that sprouted about 3 months ago because J.K Rowling stated that Dumbledore was gay and the whole internet blew up about how J.K. Rowling was the only one who could determine your sexuality. It was a pretty great phase, Shame you didn’t hear about it.

@Emma-tt9el

5 жыл бұрын

Lmao

@harryrocks44

5 жыл бұрын

i don't understand though, because she actually said he was gay way before 2019, it was in 2010 or something.

"Sometimes I wish I was a lesbian"

@kjlm4574

4 жыл бұрын

-Chandler Bing

@y2k629

4 жыл бұрын

@@kjlm4574 i love you for getting that reference

@chaewonfans123

4 жыл бұрын

Did I say that outloud?

@bonuto4847

4 жыл бұрын

*Like you have so many choices.*

wow, as a straight woman, I finally understand now, how similar gays and straights are in matters of heart... its just different sexual orientation, other than that, feelings are all the same... thank you!

@coconat7725

5 жыл бұрын

We stan an ally 🙌

@calisongbird

5 жыл бұрын

Bushra Monowar you seriously just now realized that? I mean, good for you, I guess, but how hard a realization could that possibly be?? Don’t break your arm patting yourself on the back.

@Robodie

5 жыл бұрын

@@calisongbird LMFAO Maybe she's young? Either way, now there's one more person who recognizes that we're people too, so *that's* a win!

@sjcross8

5 жыл бұрын

Yeah, it can be really hard to understand if no one has presented it to you in the right way before. :)

@bushraduti6780

5 жыл бұрын

@@calisongbird you are a negative energy. Your comment says who you are. I always valued all women equally and men. Regardless different sexual orientation. But I never knew the emotional feelings are the same. It's because we never meet openly LGBTQ people in our part of the world. A.ka. South Asia where these are still taboo to talk about. And both Hinduism and islam (predominant south Asian religion) are very traditional

This made me cry!! I’m 17 and I realized I was a lesbian and came out to my friends and family about 2 months ago. I’m so glad I was able break down that wall and embrace my inner Ellen Edit: Ellen sucks. I think I was alluding to something she said in the video about an inner ellen? Idk I wrote this two years ago

@MM-iv4yk

5 жыл бұрын

Girl bi!

@vanessaobrien5801

5 жыл бұрын

George Lackey you’re probably right, but not for the reasons you’re thinking of

@CT2507

5 жыл бұрын

don't look up to perverted people like Ellen, for fuck's sake. seek out role models who are harmonious and mold yourself after them.

@vanessaobrien5801

5 жыл бұрын

CT2507 I’m not trying to mold myself after anybody. All I meant was that I have embraced my inner gayness and am now courageous enough to live my truth. The use of Ellen’s name in that context was just another way of saying that I have accepted myself for who I am.

@lanamoret429

5 жыл бұрын

"embrace my inner Ellen"... Gosh.. I'm gonna cryyyyy XD

so now you're just getting your heart broken in gay

@user-wo6gv4fe1z

5 жыл бұрын

**Heart breaks in gay**

@aileenzhao7951

4 жыл бұрын

@@user-wo6gv4fe1z *cries in gay*

She's living her life as a "32-year-old laaaadddddddyyyyyyyyyy"

@lllba2858

4 жыл бұрын

Zora M HELL YEAAAAAAAH

@enigmagermanotta5291

4 жыл бұрын

HELL YEAH 😂

@monicacarroll1649

4 жыл бұрын

OH HELL YEAH

@tiffanyweaver7569

4 жыл бұрын

I sang that

@enigmagermanotta5291

4 жыл бұрын

Tiffany Weaver same 😂😂😂

*taps on video* *hears first line of the story* Welp. I’m not surprised TBH

@Calfea

4 жыл бұрын

Shelby Buors whoever likes this next is the 1k like

'aNd hE Is A dOcTor' Every Asian parent

I looked at my sister's playlist on Spotify...... _Girl in red?_ _Hayley Kioko?_ _Sweater weather?_ HMMMMMMMMM so anyway our genes are gay because there's two gays in this household

@goosedotjpg

4 жыл бұрын

TallMight Suspicious.....

@sonic_is_a_girboss

4 жыл бұрын

You just made me look at my playlist. Oop

@cringe.lordxoxo9129

4 жыл бұрын

Omg twinsss

@plutosexy

4 жыл бұрын

@@cringe.lordxoxo9129 Wait, HELLO MY TWIN

@plutosexy

4 жыл бұрын

@@clairedavis5415 Thankssss!

Me-questions sexuality KZread- how do you know your a lesbian Me-*sweats proficiently*nah nah this aint it chief KZread- shows king princess Me-damn maybe it is it chief

@alessiacampara9060

3 жыл бұрын

ME

@MJAY-N7129

2 жыл бұрын

Hahaha 🤣🤣 I love KP

How many times do I have to watch this for me to finally accept I’m a lesbian

This lady is very cool, intelligent, insightful, witty, and pretty! Any lady would be very lucky to have her for a girlfriend, mate, and partner. I wish her lots of love and happiness!

@HowDoYouKnow

2 жыл бұрын

100%!! This is so sweet. She is one in a million and I feel immensely lucky every day with her 🥰 Much love, 🤗 Meli's life partner and co-maker of her new video ❤ check it out and let us know what you think!

You see women and you’re just like: wow that’s it

Times truly have changed. My mother who was married to my father for 50 years and had 3 children was always a bit "odd". Growing up I would notice this but as I got older I *really* started to notice something was different, my father was oblivious like most men. It was always the little things because being attracted to opposite sex(lesbian) was not acceptable at all and could have dire consequences. It was very hard to talk with her about it and it wasn't until the very end she finally told me. It was such a sad moment, a person who has gone through life, living in the "gray", terrified of revealing themselves. That is no way to live life. I'm so glad that it's different today, at least in "most" parts of the world. You can say what you want and be who you want to be.

I'm currently identifying as bi, but figuring out my sexuality is an ongoing, confusing process. Like, I've had multiple crushes on guys (as a girl) but have had this intense feeling of "get away from me NOW" whenever I've been closer to them (granted, this has only been, like, twice). Plus, a year ago I developed a strong crush on a female friend of mine (hence bisexuality), and can imagine sleeping with women, but dont feel as immediately attracted to them as I sometimes am with guys. If anyone feels like helping me make sense of this, go ahead 😂 Edit for clarification: I do think I'm sexually and romantically attracted to guys and was just uncomfortable with those specific guys approaching me

@TheElisabethMaria

5 жыл бұрын

I feel the same! For myself, I think I'm more romantically into women and sexually into men but I can feel both ways about men and women, if that makes sense?

@lovedemusica

5 жыл бұрын

I feel as though labels are not necessary, yes some people feel better identifying themselves properly. That's not for everyone, I myself don't follow this "norm of labeling" I'll love who I love. I mean if everything is confusing, that's normal because the world holds so many questions that don't have straight answers.

@probablyapineapple

5 жыл бұрын

honestly being bi is just super weird and confusing. i get a new girl crush like every week but when i fall for a guy, i fall HARD.

@icantdoanythingwrongever

5 жыл бұрын

Vanadiumoxid that’s. exactly. how I feel! i hate it when any guy touches me, but I still like looking at them and crushing on them. with girls im way more open and I get crushes on them all the time. for now im content with the bisexual label because only i know how I feel romantically, and that includes both sexes. if anything happens in the future that changes that, then that’s that! as long as you know how you feel and are okay with it, you have nothing to worry about ☺️☺️

@allyli1718

5 жыл бұрын

Vanadiumoxid for me it’s the opposite but same idea. i get crushes on guys and think of them sexually, but I also feel sexually attracted to girls? Like especially if they ping my gaydar if that makes sense. Like sometimes someone will tell me they’re into girls, and then I’ll start crushing a little. But I don’t normally get romantic crushes on them like I do with guys. I am a little clueless about what all of this means and would love to hear any updates

What’s going on? •I’m in this video and i fukin love it.

@sardonicsardonyx359

5 жыл бұрын

Where?

@ineednothin6373

5 жыл бұрын

@@sardonicsardonyx359 what?

@anshrajput3491

5 жыл бұрын

same....

@jordanco7380

5 жыл бұрын

i need nothin she didn’t get the joke pfff

@ineednothin6373

5 жыл бұрын

@@jordanco7380 well if that's the case.

This was so raw . Love it. How could anyone be against someone living in their authenticity?

@yanasimitchiyska9289

3 жыл бұрын

❤️

Hey I'm back from 2019 I was so confused on my sexuality so here what's new in 2020 I'm a lesbian

@sela6292

4 жыл бұрын

Same for me! 2020 is gonna be a really awesome gay year

@courtgodley7789

4 жыл бұрын

Laura Reyes *gay celebration* 2020 is the year fellow lesbiansss

@twizzycat2

4 жыл бұрын

2020 everyone: IM GAY

@crazycookie294

4 жыл бұрын

Haha your 2019 is my 2020 I'm so confused rn but i think I'm lebian

@pirate4531

3 жыл бұрын

@@sela6292 Well that didn't age well

"I was never going to meet the perfect Steve unless her name is Stevie" This means so much to me

Coming out to yourself.

@Olivia-ny6nl

5 жыл бұрын

Yeah that´s the hardest part.

This is a really wonderful coming-out-to-self story. Thanks so much for sharing this. :)

OMG, I watched your vid and realized that your story is my story. I'm 33 and only found out I'm gay about a year ago. Everything you said you thought, I thought too. Thank you so much for making this vid, now I don't feel so alone and awkward about coming out at a late stage in life. Xoxo

@marias7599

5 жыл бұрын

Kaz Einhaus Hello Kaz, I hope you're doing great. I'm sorry that I feel the curiosity to ask; you said you finally realized being gay a year ago and you're 33. What happened at 32 that didn't happen all the years before that? I am 35 and for me it was an early discovery. I will really appreciate your kindness in responding me. Good luck

@sadisticgirl_

4 жыл бұрын

.

@shedoesconcerts5762

4 жыл бұрын

congrats on coming out to yourself!

@wdlovesthee736

Жыл бұрын

Come out come out whenever you are!

Wow, I was supposed to go on a date tomorrow with that guy cause I didn't wanted to admit I was gay but I think I just found the courage ! Thanks

@charlycloud8501

5 жыл бұрын

How was your date?

@charlycloud8501

5 жыл бұрын

How was your date?

@soph6622

5 жыл бұрын

@@charlycloud8501 I cancelled because even if he's a really nice guy and a good friend I could never have actual feelings for him..

So relatable. In every way ! The questioning part, the axiety, the excitment. And well told !

@jimbo4589

5 жыл бұрын

What a load

@palaksharma8301

5 жыл бұрын

Ikr? It was totally totally relatable!

lowkey was having a breakdown, then the plunger thing make me cackle😂

This is soooo me!!! I was 43 before I was ready for my epiphany! I LOVE WOMEN!!!

@blackwidow2134

5 жыл бұрын

Angela Steward OMG!! Thank you for sharing this. I was also 43 before realizing I love women. Though, it’s not been easy. Two years later (almost 45) I’m still adjusting to it but I wanted to say how much I appreciate you sharing this. I feel so invisible as it seems all the focus is on the 30 and under crowd. Sometimes I wonder where do I fit here. So happy to know I’m not the only 40+ out here trying to navigate this new world 😊

@AngelaOfTwo

5 жыл бұрын

Kemba Brown oh girl there are plenty of us. A group on FB called Lilly (Late In Life Lesbians) where there are many women you will be able to identify with including myself. facebook.com/groups/442125912647958/

@blackwidow2134

5 жыл бұрын

Angela Steward Awesome!! Thank you so much

I remember with my first boyfriend everytime he wanted to make out I just thought to myself "ugh, this again??" and would avoid any sort of touchiness if I could. At the time i thought it was just because he was my first boyfriend but after it ended just the thought of being with a man again made me so unbelievably uncomfortable. Then I came out as Lesbian!!! I feel so much happier with women☺️💖

Almost spit my water out at "And at the end you hope you didn't get any back splash on you."

When I was in like 8th grade, I watched this video crying, wondering what I was going to do. Now I'm 17, and proud of who I am. Hearing about the feelings in this story were a really big step on the path of understanding myself, and I am so grateful for this.

Why am I watching this video..I came out 7 years ago, I’m engaged to a woman. What am I doing 😂 I know I’m a lesbian

"I've been living my life in grey, but I can now confirm that sex, love, and life feel fucking amazing in colour." genuinely amazing how clever that line was worded, what a way to end the story!

@HowDoYouKnow

2 жыл бұрын

Aww thank you!

I laughed so hard. You're so funny. What a beautiful story. Thank you for sharing.

THIS IS HOW I KNEW I WAS GAY ASJSJSKSKDJSJSJSKJFHF

@hj665

5 жыл бұрын

omg congratssssssss

I loved everything about this! From the relatable plunger story 🤣 to looking up quizzes to finally living life in color. Thank you for sharing! ❤️

"the tiny ellen degeneres voice in the back of my head"

This was amazing... now you are the inner voice to so many! Hope we can be as strong as you to see love and colors in life. It's never too late

This is such a touching and funny video. Your "I finally understood it" part (5:45+) had me in tears. Congratulations on finding your real self, and for sharing your discovery.

this was so incredibly accurate and refreshingly vulnerable. thanks for sharing!

You’re amazingly relatable. Please make more videos. 💜 hearing your experience definitely helped me to feel less alone.

How do I got here?Well youtube knows everything,I guess.

@rishamayoux5212

4 жыл бұрын

I would want to know too...

Great story and I want to know who blew that perfectly timed flute!

@nomadiclocust

5 жыл бұрын

The hosts for the Moth Story Slam (which is what this is) toot the flute like that at the five minute mark so the storyteller knows to wrap up

@shadowmatrix0101

5 жыл бұрын

One time...at band camp...

@lanceseaman88

5 жыл бұрын

@@nomadiclocust I think OP knows all that they just think the timing was funny and perfect and are asking specifically who it was. I could be wrong.

I could watch this over and over and over again!!!!!!! Love

I don't think I've ever related so much to a story in my life. Thank you for sharing

Yep we all had the moment... well most knew but society and families made choices for us... love the plunger story and congratulations on finding yourself... I did not get to be me until I was almost forty.

Thanks for this. I appreciate the late-in-life realisation, and the way you talk about feeling toward guys... Like yeah, he's attractive and kissing is bearable, but no more!

How is it possible that your 'finding out you were lesbian' story and mine are so pretty much the same? Differences: I was 32 (you were 30), I was curious about a show called The L Word whose incredible and giant ad I saw on a trip to Boston, and when I come back to Madrid I look for it on KZread and voilà: my head (and something else) exploded that night (needless to say I didn't sleep that night... and the next... and the next). Last difference, the saddest one: Tinder didn't exist by then, so it took me about a year to date someone, and only because my mom introduced us LOL (and I got my heart broken for the first and last time)!!!! Anyway young lady, thanks for sharing such a very funny, touchy, encouraging and honest story.

I have saved this for years to watch over the years, like why doesn’t this have more views?!?!?

@HowDoYouKnow

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for the views - also making new videos! Check out the new one on my channel :)

This is one of my favorite videos. I recently came out and this right here is so damn relatable.

So glad you finally found your freedom. Straight, gay, we all need that clarity in our life. Congrats!

I searched up just to make sure and I know now that I am straight! Thank you so much! Also, I love all sexualities. I was questioning myself but now I am not. Don’t rush it, let your path go the way you want and need it too. Self-discovery is amazing! Keep going

Relate to this so much. Exact same experience of thinking everyone was exaggerating and also thinking I couldn't be gay because I didn't look like the stereotype. Unfortunately, at 31, I'm experiencing my first real heartbreak. I was supposed to learn how to do this over a decade ago and feel ridiculous for not being able to move on. Thank you for sharing!

Wow, you're so pretty and charming. I'm also lesbian and I just wanted to say, you're so much adorable and a great story-teller. The story is so touching, thank you for telling this, it inspires a lot! Good wishes from Russia:-)

Great story, and really well told. 💙

The similarities between your experience of realization and the one I currently experienced last month is uncanny. It’s like you wrote this about me and put into words everything I was feeling my whole life. I finally came out to my family and now I’m working on getting that wonderful first date you described. Thank you so much for being you!!!! ❤️

@HowDoYouKnow

2 жыл бұрын

Aww so glad this was helpful for you! If you haven't run into it already, I promise it only gets better :) actually started making videos again and posted a part 2 - check it out and let me know what you think!

This is sooooooo relatable! Thank you so much for this. This is exactly where I am at in my life at 25.

I love this. I can't wait for your next video.

This story was my aha-moment of realizing that I AM lesbian in December 2019. I have watched it so often ever since and am so grateful. Thank you!

@HowDoYouKnow

2 жыл бұрын

I'm so glad this was helpful for you and trust me, it only gets better!

Nailed it. So real and brilliantly explained. My experience was basically the same. I wish I were out enough to share this with friends and family.

This is the reason we fight for equality and representation. Not just for our kids growing up, but for the adults who have already grown up in a world that refused to let them be who they are

This is the most relatable thing ever ♥️

I watch a lot of lesbian comedians, but I don't know why this was so refreshing. Loved it.

Melissa, thanks for a great story. I thought I was a late bloomer at 25. lol. I was even married at the time (UNSATISFIED) when I realized was into women- NOT men. This was way before gay characters on tv, the internet, chat rooms and you tube. Much harder then but I was very fortunate to come out in California so there was a gay community starting. YEAH! Hope you are happy.

This was amazing. Your personality with describing things was 👏 I really hope to see more content from you and one day see you performing on a big stage.

This described so perfectly what coming out to myself was like! I can't wait to fall in love with a woman and buy matching monogram towels 😂

4:48 ...... YOOOOOO. STEVIE... THAT stevie.. Purple hair stevie that dated ally hills.. What

@favoritelobster

5 жыл бұрын

Stevie Boebi she was the first person I thought of

@arie3907

4 жыл бұрын

Favorite Lobster me too 😄

@sianthompson8638

4 жыл бұрын

Yes that stevie

@icednillatea

4 жыл бұрын

I immediately thought of that Stevie 😂😂

I smiled throughout this .. wonderful way to tell a story..loved your story 💟

Such a great speech! I'm so glad this vid showed up in my recommendations Just put a big smile on my face))

This is so inspiring at some point. I'm 25 years old never been to a romantic relationship. And not sure if ever will be.

Clicks on video, hears first line: "Nahh" keeps listening "Jesus, wtf these are my thoughts"

I watched this and I laughed. But at the end I cried. I don't know why but the last few sentences hit me harder than expected. Love this video

Not sure why this was recommended to me but I thoroughly enjoyed it and I'm very happy for you. You remind me of a friend of mine who just recently discovered that she's bisexual. I say good for you and don't look back on those wasted years but look forward to your life of freedom and being your true self :)

You are talented...Im very envious. Keep on doin what you do.

“I went from ohshitimgay :( to IM GAAAAYYY :D “ loved that!

Oh my God! Your words just hit me deep down. It's exactly how I feel, except for the last part where you found true love. I'm stuck in the middle :(

Lol this made me remember when I started looking up videos titled, "how to know if you're a lesbian". Those days were hell, but I was 15 at the time, and now I'm about to turn 19 in late November and life has never been easier. Sexuality shouldn't be such a terrifying thing, it should be natural, and hopefully someday we get to that point where people fall for who they fall for and don't worry about it. Great video.

I watch this video everytime I have a meltdown about my sexuality and coming out. Thank u so much for thus

@HowDoYouKnow

2 жыл бұрын

So glad it's been helpful. From someone who has had meltdowns in the past about their own sexuality, I can assure you it gets way better and fucking magical.

I always rewatch this video when I’m sad. I love it so much.

@meghansmith7884

3 жыл бұрын

Purrrrr....Meow

@HowDoYouKnow

2 жыл бұрын

Aww so glad it can help support :)

I actually really needed to hear this. Thanks and I love the story

Hey Melisa, can you please put more content up. Your so relatable and a pleasure to watch. I think you were absolutely brilliant!

@HowDoYouKnow

2 жыл бұрын

It took a bit - I was so hesitant to put up content before, but I'm posting videos now! Check them out and let me know what you think! :) thank you for your support!!

This was so freaking awesome, I dont know why I'm crying. I'm still on the fence to whether I'm gay or not..

Great story! Funny and heartfelt.

OMG! So similar to my story. Thanks for sharing yours in such cute way. You're brave. High-five!

holy shit, this brought tears to my eyes!! this is the most spot-on thing i've ever heard, like seriously so similar to my experience. wish i had this video years ago but i'm grateful i realized my sexuality at such a young age (19)! thank you so much for this. being lesbian is a wonderful, beautiful thing