How do we make things right? (Story of Overcoming A Wrong Start) | Rica Peralejo-Bonifacio

Jaco and Janelle came to us when they found out they were pregnant. They were only dating then and had no plans to get married. People from their circles judged them and made life harder from them and so naturally, it made it a very hard start for them both.
What spelled the difference in their life was the decision to make things right. However wrong the start was, however hard it gets, the goal was to make it right and 10 years after, here they are, sharing a story to encourage others that God can still be on your side even when you haven't been acting all perfect and right.
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  • @PepitoCharisse
    @PepitoCharisse2 жыл бұрын

    As God promised “He will work things out together for the good of those who love Him…” Thanks for sharing your story.. Jaco’s obedience, humility and love for God led Him to do the right thing. God bless your family!

  • @locogirl20
    @locogirl202 жыл бұрын

    "The most important work we will ever do is within the walls of our own home" - the Dashleys, youtuber No amount of success, money can replace a home that is filled with love, memories and laughter. Love this episode!

  • @KennethPorio
    @KennethPorio2 жыл бұрын

    Enjoyed this interview! It's inspiring me on how can look into my relationship with my future wife, on having to slow down, ponder, and redefine our priorities in life, especially if the relationship started in a wrong manner. Blessings to Sir Jaco and Ms. Janine! :)

  • @fiatblossom4830
    @fiatblossom48302 жыл бұрын

    Their relationship is a great testimony that God is in control of everything.. He will make things right...

  • @MarianDee
    @MarianDee2 жыл бұрын

    This is so touching and inspiring. Really God can turn things around. What the enemy meant for evil, God turns it for good. And I like what Janelle said, always return to the Lord. Kasi sometimes in the midst of our circumstance we tend to focus on it more and forget that there is a God who can deliver us through it. And indeed, this too shall pass. So amazed with your friendship too. 🤗

  • @sigtagam5368
    @sigtagam53682 жыл бұрын

    God uses your channel to talk to me personally because I'm being stubborn and blinded by my agony 😢. Super thankful for the pabaon of this vlog. Thank you for sharing their story! ❤️

  • @gailsampayan6703
    @gailsampayan67032 жыл бұрын

    Really love this love story. I can somehow relate to it because i went thru the same we just didnt end up together in the end. I am now just a happy single mom recommited to the Lord.God bless you Miss Rica 😘😘

  • @handymaddy
    @handymaddy Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for Sharing your story. It happened that. we almost have the same going through in life. But thanks for the grace of God he sustain me, when no else seems to understand of what i am going through, it seems like everyone else abandoned you, the people who you know and you have think that they are the one who can lift you up are those one's pa na nang iwan at naghusga sayo. Thanks for the encouragement. Please pray for me, as i am walking through this wilderness, that God sustain and give me strength.🙏 "This too shall pass".🙏

  • @emeraldheart0513
    @emeraldheart05132 жыл бұрын

    This is truly inspiring and beautiful story 😍 Ms. Rica you are so good with the interview, so natural, effortless and you make the conversation very interesting and entertaining to the listeners. 🤗🎶💯

  • @neniabonita6489
    @neniabonita64892 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing this.Full of wisdom & very inspiring.I’m a first time Mom & I can relate to her.Whenever we face difficulties I always thought that “this too shall pass”.Thank you Lord for your unending grace.

  • @micalabiaga
    @micalabiaga2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing with us God's blessings through your interviews with people whose experiences are inspiring and life-changing. I hope you can include my parents in your prayers, Ms. Rica. They're currently going through a rough patch in their marriage mostly because they've both somewhat drawn apart from God. I would appreciate your prayers very much! ❤

  • @RicaPeralejoBonifacio

    @RicaPeralejoBonifacio

    2 жыл бұрын

    Will do. 🙌🏻

  • @girlfromthepast2233
    @girlfromthepast22332 жыл бұрын

    Love the episode! So inspiring from a young couple,so committed to each other and to the Lord..

  • @cristysoria1372
    @cristysoria13722 жыл бұрын

    So inspiring! so much realizations

  • @romanalo1978
    @romanalo19782 жыл бұрын

    I loved the part about thinking "this, too, shall pass," even for the good moments, so we can learn to give importance to the choices we make in the present and fully embrace and appreciate these moments as they come. What a wonderful interview! Thanks, Carla, Jaco, and Janelle!

  • @adritheon
    @adritheon2 жыл бұрын

    "This too shall pass." Touched by this episode. So inspiring, more of this please! :)

  • @seanrosales3436
    @seanrosales34362 жыл бұрын

    this is so enlightening, very timely in the present time and moment. Everything will pass in time so think of what truly is important and what will make you happy. GOD bless everyone..

  • @flytsinelasfly
    @flytsinelasfly2 жыл бұрын

    This came at the right time. Thank you for this.

  • @lenetalberto4673
    @lenetalberto46732 жыл бұрын

    inspiring story, God bless both,

  • @leisanecra3939
    @leisanecra39392 жыл бұрын

    im soooo love this vlog... it opens up everything like about living a real life not a facade... im a single parent too and i can relate to her... and these things is really happening. we just need acceptance and to be grateful wit simple things. life is not just about diplomas and achievements its how we live our life and conquer all challenges .. its about freedom and being thankful to God in everything good or bad. have a blessed day !

  • @chichai1211
    @chichai12112 жыл бұрын

    Daming wisdom from all the three of you. Maraming salamat! 🥰

  • @cocomelonfanatic1721
    @cocomelonfanatic17212 жыл бұрын

    Good thing I was able to check Ms. Rica's past vlogs and I got interested with the title "How do we make things right?" Such an inspiring story of the Benin couple.. Honestly we are going through a rough time right now, but I'm still grateful because I have my family.. God is really gracious and amazing.. 🙏🏻❤️😇 To more inspiring stories.. God Bless ❤️

  • @GEORGINA1013
    @GEORGINA10132 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing brave souls! 💕💖💕

  • @dreamerlover2011
    @dreamerlover20112 жыл бұрын

    Got emotional. Salamat for this inspiring video. Blessings to all!

  • @meilenmartin3006
    @meilenmartin30062 жыл бұрын

    So blessed po sa vlog na ito. ❤😭 Glory to GOD.🙏

  • @surigaononinoslo
    @surigaononinoslo2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for this po! I almost cried to "THIS TOO SHALL PASS".

  • @ryamrose295
    @ryamrose295 Жыл бұрын

    😊❤❤❤❤❤❤❤love the learnings! Thanku ms. Rica!

  • @camille7207
    @camille72072 жыл бұрын

    I am so thankful for this vlog.

  • @extrabryce7482
    @extrabryce7482 Жыл бұрын

    so inspiring♥️♥️♥️

  • @jenefertayone8265
    @jenefertayone82652 жыл бұрын

    Essential things in life ❤

  • @teamrefugevlog7687
    @teamrefugevlog76872 жыл бұрын

    Blessed and inspired sa life and story nila. 10th time watching this!

  • @AnnaGui
    @AnnaGui2 жыл бұрын

    So inspiring ..

  • @yengozon2496
    @yengozon24962 жыл бұрын

    Very inspiring 💝 Thank you Lord 🙏😍❤

  • @GEORGINA1013
    @GEORGINA10132 жыл бұрын

    Relate ako in terms of my employment. Working on Cebu City and pandemic happened and I was uncertain about everything. Decided to go Home (Bacolod city) and in His time, everything's amazing and awesome. 🙏💕💖💕

  • @neecolecee2482
    @neecolecee24822 жыл бұрын

    Niceee Kuya Jaco and Ate Janelle! 😍

  • @ruviruvss8594
    @ruviruvss85942 жыл бұрын

    Such a wonderful family. Indeed, if we had bad things in the past, the Lord will restore everything! All we need is to obey,and decide to make things right with the help of the Holy Spirit 😍♥️ More power and more stories to share pa Ms. Rica 🤗 subscribed to Ptr. Joe, too! Thank you

  • @basiagirl
    @basiagirl2 жыл бұрын

    Gandang usapan very inspiring, I love what Jaco said that God's timing is different, but its perfect. Somehow na encourage ako right now as I am praying for God's answer for a redirection in my life right now, not to be frustrated while waiting but to trust the process and the timing ❤

  • @rogefishingadventures1050
    @rogefishingadventures10502 жыл бұрын

    So inspiring Sis Rica..i'm just 10 minute drive to Gary's Place...hope to see u soon Sis

  • @GEORGINA1013
    @GEORGINA10132 жыл бұрын

    💯 true. This too shall pass. 🙏🙏🙏

  • @shanezeph6064
    @shanezeph60642 жыл бұрын

    Ang ganda ganda naman ng episode na to! Sobrang nakakabless! "This too shall pass" is also my favorite phrase. :) We moved here in Negros in 2017 when I got pregnant on our second child. iba talaga ang life dito, sobrang bilis at nakakapagod sa Manila. Nung una nahirapan ako mag- adjust but sobrang naappreciate ko after a couple of years. :) When you obey God, there's really a blessing in obedience. :)

  • @RicaPeralejoBonifacio

    @RicaPeralejoBonifacio

    2 жыл бұрын

    Diba grabe din ang story nila no?

  • @RicaPeralejoBonifacio

    @RicaPeralejoBonifacio

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks also for sharing!!!

  • @Nhattylicious
    @Nhattylicious2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for loving Silay City ❤️❤️❤️

  • @marilynbalibag807
    @marilynbalibag8072 жыл бұрын

    Very inspiring story and worth to share 💗 A very good reminder... this too shall pass! When life is difficult, when things are going well, this too shall pass, and make the most out of it 💞 ° It's all by the grace of God 💞 ° God's timing is different, but it's perfect ° Hold on to God because He is fighting for you 💞 Thank you for sharing your story 💗🙏

  • @RicaPeralejoBonifacio

    @RicaPeralejoBonifacio

    2 жыл бұрын

    Wow… amazing you wrote it all down 💕

  • @marilynbalibag807

    @marilynbalibag807

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@RicaPeralejoBonifacio thank you! 💗🌸🙂

  • @KleyrSant
    @KleyrSant2 жыл бұрын

    Very inspiring! Sobrang busy rin kami nun sa Maynila. Pag weekdays, sa gabi ko lang nakakasama yung baby ko. Di ko siya naaabutang gising. Ngayon mas naeenjoy namin ang simple at laidback na lifestyle. Mas maraming time with family. Natututukan naming mag asawa ang mga anak namin - spiritual, emotional man, lahat ng aspeto. Kahit may pressures pa rin, alam ko eto rin calling ko sa ngayon kasi may plano si Lord para sa amin lalo sa mga anak namin. Thanks for sharing your story. God bless!

  • @fearfullyandwonderfullymad8695
    @fearfullyandwonderfullymad86952 жыл бұрын

    More kwentos like this pleaseeee so inspiring. Dami kong napulot

  • @RicaPeralejoBonifacio

    @RicaPeralejoBonifacio

    2 жыл бұрын

    Noted po 💕

  • @pspseller
    @pspseller2 жыл бұрын

    My fiancé and I also started the wrong way, and it was really hard for us. Nagkaanak kami, hindi naging maganda establishment ng relationship namin, araw araw kami nagaaway, nawala yung relationship ko kay God, and he doesn't believe in God that time. Then, we broke up last June 2021 as things weren't really going well. Inisip ko na baka pag naghiwalay kami, eto na yung time na magiging okay kami personally. A week after my 5 year old son and I moved from Pasig to Cavite, he started to pursue me again. I know it was hard for him dahil malayo na kami sa kanya at di na buo pamilya niya, but it was also hard for me emotionally and mentally. I shared to him that I can't help him. I can't attend to his needs (time) anymore lalo na nung mga araw na hirap ako na kausapin siya. Pero naramdaman ko na parang may iba. Iba yung awra niya, yung alam mo na parang magkakaron na siya ng suicidal thought. Kaya sabi ko, hindi man kita matulungan ngayon, wag mo kalimutan na God is always there for you. He's ready to listen and help you. After a week, ayun nalaman ko na nagkaron nga siya ng suicidal thought nung huling usap namin sa phone, huling babay na sana niya sakin yun. Thankful ako dahil God used me to share to him that God is there to help and listen. Just pray and connect. He continued to pursue me, and last two weeks, he proposed 😊 At first, I was confused kasi baka ways ways niya lang para mabuo kami, at baka hindi ito will ni God. I'm glad that God made a way for us to decide and make things right. I just wanted to honor God through this relationship. I hope anyone who's reading this to pray for us. For our spiritual growth, for us to fully depend to God, to dedicate this family to God. We're on our way to wedding + marriage next year! Thank you for this video ate Rica! Thank you dahil God reminded us that He won't leave us 😭💕

  • @RicaPeralejoBonifacio

    @RicaPeralejoBonifacio

    2 жыл бұрын

    SOBRANG NAKAKAIYAK NAMAN ITO 😭😭😭 thank you for sharing!!!

  • @candicereyes-diangson
    @candicereyes-diangson2 жыл бұрын

    Very Inspiring !!! Love this episode! ❤❤❤

  • @alvinbustamante2384
    @alvinbustamante23842 жыл бұрын

    lodi, shararawt happy hollyweek! more power and godbless us all 🙏 🇵🇭🇵🇭

  • @redeemedbygod620
    @redeemedbygod6202 жыл бұрын

    Grabe po testimony nyo!!! Huhu giving us hope na kahit gaano pa kapangit ang sitwasyon na nararanasan namin ngayon, God can turn it around for our good. Super inspired. ❤

  • @RicaPeralejoBonifacio

    @RicaPeralejoBonifacio

    2 жыл бұрын

    Amen!

  • @travelgowls2020
    @travelgowls20202 жыл бұрын

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @prosepraises8519
    @prosepraises85192 жыл бұрын

    So blessed by this testimony! Praise God, the great redeemer. (sa lahat2x ng vlogs, kay Ms Rica lang yung natatapos ko talaga. I dunno why 😂)

  • @RicaPeralejoBonifacio

    @RicaPeralejoBonifacio

    2 жыл бұрын

    Awwwww thank you!

  • @berlyncarpio
    @berlyncarpio2 жыл бұрын

    ♥️

  • @genesperas474
    @genesperas4742 жыл бұрын

    I always believe in this adage, This too shall pass, that I even have it tattooed in my body ❤️

  • @astrid8281
    @astrid82812 жыл бұрын

    💓💓💓

  • @jaybeegon5397
    @jaybeegon53972 жыл бұрын

    Super stan this interview, you never failed to share what really matters in this life which is God’s grace and provision. 💯💯💯

  • @RicaPeralejoBonifacio

    @RicaPeralejoBonifacio

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you 💕

  • @jaybeegon5397

    @jaybeegon5397

    2 жыл бұрын

    Nah,thank you for being a vessel of God’s holiness; Plus super relate to what they said “The richest man is not the one has the most,but the one that needs the least”.

  • @yeoniemontes843
    @yeoniemontes8432 жыл бұрын

    ♥️♥️♥️

  • @xbearmomx4978
    @xbearmomx49782 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing this. It was a taboo to be a single mom in a Christian community. I didn't know which part of the church should I be active then I got pregnant by a guy again coming from a small Christian community.... People weren't showing they have concerns but I felt it. It was the foundation how they knew me up until now even the relationship were mended. Laging bumabalik sa eh my anak nmn yan and that guy from the Christian community ended separating again with me bec there were no blessings from the Christian family it was a struggle since we already have 2 kids. So I don't know how to correct things if I'm the only willing. I guess pagpapasadiyos nlng tlga

  • @jestherrose

    @jestherrose

    2 жыл бұрын

    Will pray for this! 🤗

  • @Poortvtvtv
    @Poortvtvtv2 жыл бұрын

    Such happy and lovely couple. Napa ka inspiring ng story. You get to learn everything you did in the past whether it's good or bad. Nakaka-inggit din talaga ang buhay sa probinsya. Even after decades of living and working in Metro Manila, I still consider provincial living to be the most ideal especially if you have a family.

  • @RicaPeralejoBonifacio

    @RicaPeralejoBonifacio

    2 жыл бұрын

    AGREE!!!

  • @kriziamendoza9198
    @kriziamendoza91982 жыл бұрын

    😍

  • @LMSVlogLeonardReyMSabadoSABADO
    @LMSVlogLeonardReyMSabadoSABADO2 жыл бұрын

    Apart from the Grace of God, we are nothing….. ang haba na daw ng interview ate Rica, nagwawala na mga bata, hehehehe… nice conversation again po

  • @cjforro12
    @cjforro122 жыл бұрын

    Okay, so that makes me think about my life now... And the decisions I will make in the future.

  • @cjforro12

    @cjforro12

    2 жыл бұрын

    🤩 a heart from Ms Rica. Thank you po. ❤

  • @tabithaalisen9538
    @tabithaalisen95382 жыл бұрын

    Maam, tanong lang bakit laging nakhubad si baby ayaw ba niyang magsuot ng damit?

  • @hanahmaearsolon1875
    @hanahmaearsolon18752 жыл бұрын

  • @edisonarenas339
    @edisonarenas3392 жыл бұрын

    That's why I chose not to settle in the city, mas tahimik and buhay sa probinsiya.

  • @GEORGINA1013
    @GEORGINA10132 жыл бұрын

    Lipat ka na Dito Rics. Calea cake Tayo. 😀😀😀

  • @RicaPeralejoBonifacio

    @RicaPeralejoBonifacio

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hahahaha hayyyyy sarap food dyam huhubells

  • @GEORGINA1013

    @GEORGINA1013

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@RicaPeralejoBonifacio aside from Chicken house, have you also tried the Manokan Country and famous Pala Pala

  • @martinaquezada3880
    @martinaquezada38802 жыл бұрын

    Ano po yung work nyo kahit nasa province kayo? To be honest, maganda talga sa province. However, pano yung source of income.

  • @teamrefugevlog7687
    @teamrefugevlog76872 жыл бұрын

    May question lang po ako, just curious, bakit po walang shirt and short si Manu? 😍 cute naman if naka diaper lang😍

  • @RicaPeralejoBonifacio

    @RicaPeralejoBonifacio

    2 жыл бұрын

    Naiinitan sya haha ayaw nya talaga magdamit

  • @nerizajuana898
    @nerizajuana8982 жыл бұрын

    Ecclesiastes 3:11✨🤍🖤

  • @RicaPeralejoBonifacio

    @RicaPeralejoBonifacio

    2 жыл бұрын

    Indeed, napaka ecclesiastes nga nito!!!

  • @avf8149
    @avf81492 жыл бұрын

    ohh thats a girl? i mean i thought they're lgbt. the girl looks like a trans. 😳😳😳

  • @aikasalva5741
    @aikasalva57412 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for sharing this ms.rica! This segment spoke so much to me. 🥹🥹🥹 You can start the wrong way but end it right.

  • @anjeliqa1711
    @anjeliqa17112 жыл бұрын

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @tabithaalisen9538
    @tabithaalisen95382 жыл бұрын

    Maam, tanong lang bakit laging nakhubad si baby ayaw ba niyang magsuot ng damit?

  • @jamendoza305
    @jamendoza3052 жыл бұрын

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @mochakopii
    @mochakopii2 жыл бұрын

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @tabithaalisen9538
    @tabithaalisen95382 жыл бұрын

    Maam, tanong lang bakit laging nakhubad si baby ayaw ba niyang magsuot ng damit?

  • @jofinnipabillore3785

    @jofinnipabillore3785

    2 жыл бұрын

    Naiinitan po ayaw tlga ni manu mag damit

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