They feel angry and Will sometimes try to destroy you but will hide away while they send their flying monkeys to do the job. It gives them a sense of power and control which they are trying to regain. They are all weak and insecure underneath but dangerous nevertheless.

@rebekahjette6304

8 ай бұрын

My children's father had his mother call the police on me.

@Rainbowgoth5

8 ай бұрын

Truth! They are cowards

@tranquility9325

8 ай бұрын

​@@rebekahjette6304damn what happened?

@rebekahjette6304

8 ай бұрын

@@tranquility9325 He didn't like that I called him out on being a narcissist and set it up to look like I was going to flee with my kids and not put them in school all while trying "to win me back".🤢🤮 He filed an emergency order to have the kids taken from me "because he was terrified" that I would do something to them. I told him a few weeks earlier that I would never sleep with him again and hadn't for 3 years at that point.

@savi374

8 ай бұрын

This is exactly what my husband is trying to do with me but I’m not giving in to him. He actually broke a probation this weak by trying to contact me.

Funny I actually said that once to the narc "I'm not your punching bag for your unresolved emotional traumas" and I've also said to them "I don't need you to validate my existence".

@genesewatson648

8 ай бұрын

I definitely was his punching bag for whatever he was going thru it’s so crazy i see so many stories that i went through

They sure do hate being ignored! I would be perfectly fine with him ignoring me!

@IsabellaPiesch

5 ай бұрын

Silent treatment was in fact the best what could happen better than always critizising everything... The best (I didn´t recognize it at first) was the discard. Finally peace!

What if you are truly not ignoring, but, rather, you are completely uninterested? No ghosting, going no contact, ignoring, nor anything: the pinnacle of indifference, which the narc. will never understand.

@SherryONeill

8 ай бұрын

InDifference Is So Heavenly! I Love Being In This Dimension 😊

@tatyanataylor260

8 ай бұрын

choosing peace ✨🫶🏾

@user-ip3mz5sp9x

6 ай бұрын

if you are TRULY indifferent, then you've reached the promised land and the narcissist has reached hell

@anneyoung2310

5 ай бұрын

Nicely put!@@user-ip3mz5sp9x

Stop feeding the fire 🔥 when you feed the fire 🔥 you will get burned 🔥. I was tired and I wanted to heal from the damage etc. I 'm healing. Your telling the truth.

@MentalHealness

8 ай бұрын

🙏🏽

Whew 🙌🏽THANK GOD I can wake up from a nap in peace now 😌 I use to jump up out of my sleep so fast cause I had gotten so use to waking up to the nasty txt messages and false accusations “hope you’re happy with whoever you’re over there laid up with” “you finally got what you wanted” “hope YALL having fun” 🙄 when I was literally just sleeping, exhausted from a 12 hour shift! While their bum a** had been home doing God knows what all day then expect you to get off from a long day of work n entertain and validate their insecure a** all the rest of the damn night. And ohhh it’s ok for them to take 50 hours to txt back, then dare you to even confront them about it!witch of course they “train” you not to 😒😒😒 the double standards.. so glad I’m free from that hell hole.

@MentalHealness

8 ай бұрын

🙌🏾

@barbarabermingham9385

8 ай бұрын

Yes God Bless 🧡💛🌷👍

@rare_breed35

8 ай бұрын

@@barbarabermingham9385 🤍🤍🤍

Lee.... I have to be honest, when I first started watching your videos, I didn't like them. Now I look forward to watching them daily. I learn a lot and I love your sense of humor. Thank you for all you do. I wish you continued success.

If you ignore them they'll just go find someone else

I had an ex's brother say that he hated the both of us. And I said why didn't you tell me this before. My ex had to be around his brother but I didn't have to take that from him. And I totally told him I don't want anything from him. Don't talk to me. You don't talk to people that hate you. So when I went over to spend Christmas last year I didn't say a much of anything to him. I keep my mouth shut and I was recovering from being sick. He kept trying to get me to talk and I wouldn't say anything to him but, yes or no that was it. I noticed that he felt uncomfortable and was trying to figure me out. That was the last time I saw him. I made up my mind that I was done and I wasn't going to be disrespected anyone by my ex boyfriend or his mother or brother. The last time I saw my ex boyfriend was for his birthday. We went out to celebrate together. That was our last outing anywhere. After I got the business part out of the way I stop talking to them altogether I blocked his phone number and his mother 's. I haven't talked to them since April of this year. I sent him back some things that he left at my apartment I mailed them and haved moved on forward.

Yes!!! I have been punished pretty badly in a few cases for "ignoring" a narcissist. They befriended me after just to get me back. I'll be back later to watch it :)

This is the EXACT reason my friendship with an NPD ended/why she discarded me. She was jealous when she introduced me to new friends and I didn't ask her the same questions. It was really exhausting...we ask newer ppl to learn more about them because they're new...but the narcissist stated I was ignoring them during those interactions bc I didn't ask them...the same...things. So, anytime I reached out to her to check in on her she ignored me and her bf told me she's ignoring me because I ignored her (but I didn't...). Beyond crazy. There was more subtle punishment that I experienced and I had no idea they were even mad at me. I can't read minds.

@Ali_delightful

5 ай бұрын

To add to this, I did get a hoover attempt 4 months in.

Lee is 100% correct. Last year I was going through a situation and me and my son's phones were turned off for a while. One day I was coming home and I saw my sons mother coming out to the parking lot. I had a headache and was having a rough day so I knew she would only make it worse, so I ducked down in my truck so she wouldn't see me. Sure enough when I went to the front door she had left a nasty note demanding that I call her.

@Permissi0nSlip

8 ай бұрын

How did you respond or not respond after she demanded you to call?

@creativeconciousness5492

8 ай бұрын

@@Permissi0nSlip I sent her an email the next day, just to show I wasn't jumping because she said jump.

@brynne77

8 ай бұрын

I'd like to know that, too. @@Permissi0nSlip

They dont just want to be part of your world they want and need to be your whole world.

I stopped talking to my oldest sister 3 years ago and if we're both at family functions I still ignore her and she ABSOLUTELY HATES it. Her boyfriend of 18yrs left 5 months ago and I've been sending videos to him and giving him advice on how to deal with her and she's losing her mind because he's been ignoring her calls/texts and advances in trying to get him back. Her son and daughter-in-law have opened their eyes to her behavior and now know how to better handle her. Thank you Lee for all you are doing.✌💜

THANK YOU LEE!! You are literally saving lives! This video couldn't have come at a better time.. I really needed this information, I'm going to put this on repeat so that I don't lose focus of getting out of this awful toxic "relationship" that I've been in for far longer than I want to admit.. you are a godsend!

@ernestinedumas7955

8 ай бұрын

Taylor this narcissist is playing a game with you.

@barbarabermingham9385

8 ай бұрын

Support Team🤞Stay Strong And Leave Toxic People God Bless 🤍🌺

There is also the narcissist that ignores you because he knows you are triggered by rejection and then I have said to the narcissist that "He is horrible " and that I hate him because he abandoned the marriage without any help with making decisions for separating and preparation for the divorce. So at times, I feel as if I am a Narcissist!

@anicyb

8 ай бұрын

It is very common for two people with narcissistic tendencies to date, after all they understand each other better than others ever will. So you should probably try to uncover and heal your own narcissistic tendencies

@IcClearlyNow73

8 ай бұрын

@anicyb Yes it is common but I am not a narcissist. I stated that I "felt" as such. I was emotionally abused and have been with this person for 25 years. Times are different now and there is much more knowledge. I said those things out of years of suffering and hurt but I meant it when I said it, right or wrong! I take responsibility for ignoring red flags and being naive, but my heart is way too big to be a narcissist. I'm 50 years old and was always taught " it's better to have a piece of a man than no man at all", and raised in a Pentecostal Holiness church where you did not divorce. If I had all the knowledge we have now about people and relationships it would have made all the difference in the world, but you live and you learn, and now I'm teaching my children how to be better partners and parents so they don't make the same mistakes. Also, we all have narcissistic ways about us, some healthy and some not so healthy, and the way we behave being with a Narcissist as long as I have, I'm sure I mirror his ways at times, and now I am in the process of healing to rid myself of all the toxicity that the marriage has left in my soul. mind, and body.

@stealthisvibe9208

8 ай бұрын

@@IcClearlyNow73look up “narcissistic fleas”. You’re likely not a narcissist, the other person is wrong. But when you’re so close to one for so long, you might pick up traits from them in order to protect yourself. It can be helped by dealing with the trauma in therapy and all that. I wish you luck! If anything, read up on codependency. But take that with a grain of salt because you know yourself best. Don’t bother responding to people who doubt your story - your reality is valid.

@AJV0001

8 ай бұрын

You are definitely NOT a Narcissist. They can and will drop everything and walk out on a marriage not caring about the bills and responsibilities of the home. More than likely, everything is in your name so you have no choice but to pick up the slack. They always think rejection is the key to hurt you because rejection is their cryptonite. And just a side note, you knowing the Lord is extremely bad for them. Check out all their characteristics and actions and compare it to how the enemy moves. You dealing with more than an empty shell. You’re dealing with a “filled” shell and not filled with the Lord. So what can compel them to move in such a way? You know the answer to that. Stay prayed up and ALWAYS invite God into your situations. He knows how to deal with them. Just keep your plate clean before the Lord so He doesn’t have to stop what He’s doing regarding your situation to “check” His daughter for He correct those He loves. May God bless you and keep you love! He got you and this “little” narc situation.

Omg Lee! Are you talking about, The Little Shop of Horrors?! "Feed me, Seymour, feeeed me!" 😂😂💀💀

My so-called best Friend IS going to dislike immensely the e-mail I am about to send her. Self-absorded, ignores what you tell her, how you feel, what you need. And keeps bombarding you with calls and textes pretending to je worried about me, just so I Can call her and then... she will tell me all about her life for 3 hours... unbothered about the stress she puts on my mental health. But hey, It's Never her fault. And she is sooo generous... 😂 (And Always expect a payback) And people don't get her.... Another one bites the dust... 🤷🏼‍♀️

@jdalycitym8016

8 ай бұрын

Sounds like an emotional vampire as well. Never fun!

@lilyjane1011

8 ай бұрын

​@@jdalycitym8016Indeed, she is. She is not a full narc, but has many strong traits. I feel disgust when I think about her. That's a red flag, isn't it?

@jdalycitym8016

8 ай бұрын

Yes and no. But leaning more towards yes.

@lilyjane1011

8 ай бұрын

@@jdalycitym8016 I am disgusted by her. I need to take action. I do not benefit from this friendship whatsoever...🤷🏼‍♀️

When you say wither and die I thought of psalm 37 (like the grass they will soon wither and die ) 😊 this is absolutely true !

@dontbelongherefromanotherp9807

8 ай бұрын

Sadly, narcs lack awareness of what they've done to be ignored. It's their fault

My husband deleted me out of his phone because I ignored a text, even though I still did what he was telling me to do in the text 🤦🏻‍♀️ I was just tired of his attitude, so I didn’t answer him, and he deleted me, so that he couldn’t “bother” me anymore 🙄

Yep my wife won't reach out, out of pride. She can't tell everyone I'm the problem then reach out to me to show proof she's lying even more. .

What he loves to do it disterbe me when i am relaxing or enjoying, or sleeping...yep

ur so funny I love ur faces and ur realness. Your so on point tho. He yelled i hate u leave so I did them he asked y u leave wea u go. I moved states u dont gotta tell me twice. 10 yrs im sooo done nigga soo done. thank u

@MentalHealness

8 ай бұрын

You’re welcome. At

@LilithEnos

8 ай бұрын

Hey, don't use that word. Not cool

@lisaayala409

8 ай бұрын

@@LilithEnos sorry

This is the worst felling EVER ! is been 24 years and I couldn’t figure out what was wrong with Him and now I’m furious I’ve been crying for days watching these videos it seems like I’m on a dream everything in these videos are my life and I wish it weren’t especially since this l cannot be real where do I go from here after 24 years my heart hurts I’ll be ok ❤ thank you Lee

Please Lee, what if you discard and go no contact on a narcissistic friend who already has other sources of supply? It's just crazy and very toxic. I just don't understand how i got there. It is a very painful, challenging and devastating experience. I will remain no contact for ever. If there is anything i am good at, it is ignoring somebody. He does not deserve my empathy, my care, my time, or even my tears. Thanks for keeping up with new videos Lee. Thanks a lot!

@barbarabermingham9385

8 ай бұрын

Stay Strong💛🤍🌷

Some times they will stalk you after trying to ignore them.

It's all about ego

@MentalHealness

8 ай бұрын

💯

oh lord, i noticed this early onnnn, and i thought it was due to ldr. it never went away years late. he would say he would be busy then call me and get mad i didnt answer, he was calling my workplace trying to find me.

@MentalHealness

8 ай бұрын

😞

If you're watching this and you hate being ignored, that does not mean you're a narcissist. It means you're a human being..

@MentalHealness

8 ай бұрын

If you’re reading this comment remember that Narcissists are also human beings and intent matters. Being ignored and trying to ruin someone’s life is completely different than just not liking being ignored

@dontbelongherefromanotherp9807

8 ай бұрын

Not all, but we know narcs hate being ignored due to control. Unfortunately, narcs are lumped in with normal people, and they're not

@human8727

8 ай бұрын

@@MentalHealness amen

Mine showed up at my house yesterday after being blocked . Three times pressing the ring doorbell all within the same minute like she did on the phone. I did not answer but I was scared. Anyway we had a family event yesterday and it took all my energy to ignore her, she realized she was talking to herself. The only thing I said to her was I don’t care. My husband was right by my side ignoring his mom too. She did not like that. This morning I literally had a big panic attack. She triggered even though I did not speak to her. Just her mere prescence and her trying to be nose to nose with me.

Por favor coloque opções de legenda em português. Seu vídeo não tem opção para português…. Obrigada.

Lee, you give the realistic info!

The narcissist : "I'M THA DUDE PLAYIN THA DUDE DISGUISED AS THE OTHA DUDE...." 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

@MentalHealness

8 ай бұрын

😆

@cassondracollins1669

8 ай бұрын

I was thinking the same thing!!! 😂😂😂 #TropicThunder

@Jwhit3181

8 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

Thank you for another great video!

@MentalHealness

8 ай бұрын

Thanks for watching!

I was sleeping one night 1am and woke up to a voicemail and I called back to let him know I was sleeping. Had no idea OMG

Great video thanks so much for your advice love from UK❤❤❤❤❤

@MentalHealness

8 ай бұрын

You are so welcome!

Thanks for the insights. This girl I know love bombed me and shows me affection then complained about how I don't bring any value in the relationship, I ignored her messages because she didn't listen to my boundaries and she blocked me 🤷‍♂I'm expecting her to reach back lol

@johnnycorn7225

8 ай бұрын

I had one like this and I told her I understand your feelings about getting nothing out of this relationship. Since you define me as nothing, and aren't ever happy with me, then you should find another guy and we shouldn't talk. Still holding her to it.

Thanks Lee I appreciate you ❤❤❤❤❤❤

@MentalHealness

8 ай бұрын

♥️

Here you go speaking facts

Hi Lee, thanks for your videos they have really helped me.. Did u play in show called Fatal Attraction as Christopher?

I hear that recird at my home all the time. I can't leave. The guild is too much.

My sister threathened to never speak to me again if I didnt apologize for something she did to me. And when I said, ok lets never speak again she went full on crazy. Jelling at me: I dont get it, I dont get how you could do this to me. 😂

I actually told my narc “Just like you don’t give a $&@?, I don’t give a $&@? Either. I can show you better than I can tell you.” And I have been doing a pretty great job in no contact actually. Block them on everything delete apps where you contacted them and move onward. No matter who breaks up with who, take your power back! 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

WOOO HOT DAYM these flashbacks are killing me 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@MentalHealness

8 ай бұрын

😆

lmfao this coworker of mine ignores whenever that other coworker is working. He’s basically just using me to kill his boredom whenever his favorite person ain’t working. It hurt my feelings that’s why i stopped talking to him anymore. I think that’s just a valid solution to him playing too much games. I feel so much better now not giving a damn about him & would just pretend he don’t exist even he’s there @ work

FEED ME SEYMOR!!! - the narc

I think most people don’t like to be ignored and people who ignore people usually have abusive qualities themselves.

@dontbelongherefromanotherp9807

8 ай бұрын

True, but people ignore narcs due to sanity

@staceystrukel1917

7 ай бұрын

It is not abusive to ignore somebody who abuses you.

@IsabellaPiesch

5 ай бұрын

@@dontbelongherefromanotherp9807 💯

I got back with one last night. He just got horrible with it. It’s already been bad I’m done for good. Wish I could post a video because I recorded it all that way when I look at it I never go back.

His Narcissistic/toxic amnesia is so bad that he can't remember his head flying monkey's name!!!! Often when I mention a casual friend (ie a neighbor he doesn't socialize with outside the neighborhood, but is friends with), he says "who is _____" he can't remember their names! But when its his 'thing' like having to do with his money, he can remember very specific details....

WHAT if you are MARRIED andlive in the HOuse together....PLEASE HIT this point. When my pscyho narcissistic functional alcholic husband cusses me out and insults me- I just dont talk to him, sleep in guest room which actually i always do and laugh and kick it up and work inmy professional job- When he speaks I say everything is great I have a lot of interviews today I am a VP

Given that typical individual with NPD has multiple sources of supply I.e harem of admirers why would he or she care if a supply steps out. Or this video relates to primary sources I.e.spouses only...

@biljanavoucko4999

8 ай бұрын

Thank you.

I just went through this literally left went no contact.. some how he found my snap and wrote me I ignored it.. sadly we work together and he got all in my face today about one of my snaps it had nothing to do with him

It has been 28 days since I decided to begin ignoring him. He has given up on trying to reach out to me and those around me, but I do not want to block him because I do not want him to see that he is blocked and think he won or that I was thinking about him later whenever I decided to block him. What is your opinion on this? And thank you for the content, coming across your content as well as others is what finally pushed me to leave!

Don't water the weeds!!! 🌱😂🌱😂🌱😂

@MentalHealness

8 ай бұрын

😆

What about when they DON'T CARE about you going NO CONTACT??? They don't reach or care at all ????

@cassondracollins1669

8 ай бұрын

Be glad. Enjoy your peace 😊

My youngest will be 18 next Summer. Since all of my kids with my ex will be grown then can I go no contact then? Should I keep communication open with him though since unfortunately we do have 2 kids together?

@realliving7340

8 ай бұрын

Congratulations for making it to this point 🎉.

No contact. Sent me a festival greeting last week. I del it without opening. Nothing after tht. Keeps seeing my wts app status. I m enjoying life.

How do to deal with the toxic person doing reverse no-contact? I have been contacting him regarding important issues of our daughter but he isn’t reading any messages

Very hard for me because we work at the same place😏

So Lee does that mean I'm a narc I hate being ignored by the person who diacarded via text while away on business and had been devaluing me for six months prior if not longer and when asked she was self protecting incase I left her? So am I the narc?

Well maybe he is Asperger's/ASD cause ignoring him hasn't caused him to act this way. He is dazed and confused and seems helpless as to what to do.

My narc ex friend and current neighbor has a orthopedic boot on and a arm brace ive been ignoring them for 20 years 😅😆 ....this individual literally tries to follow me around and always has 🐒 🐒 somewhere....its extremely satisfying to see 👀....keep in mind that THEY stopped talking to me, started gossiping and slandering me.....hmmmm now they are physically debilitated and still a narc....smdh

💯

@MentalHealness

8 ай бұрын

💯

Very bad. They don´t like that. I had more attention to my laptop because it (sorry I have to write this) simple had more to say to me .. But I got the sentence: You have to praise me. Why don´t you? I said because I have nothing to praise you for. You know I am a very honest, straightforward and direct person. So I am sure I wasn´t liked and I saw it in the end. (You will get a big revenge from them).

Im intuned 👍👌. How do you ignore them when you have a Child together?

@MentalHealness

8 ай бұрын

only communicate when you have to

@nike80nl

8 ай бұрын

@@MentalHealness thanks 👌

@Rainbowgoth5

8 ай бұрын

Also keep it simple say as little as you have to.

@nike80nl

8 ай бұрын

@@Rainbowgoth5 thanks, all tips are helpful 👌

@Rainbowgoth5

8 ай бұрын

@@nike80nl you got this! I believe in you

Yes!! Feed Me. Lol

@MentalHealness

7 ай бұрын

😅😅

🎯

@MentalHealness

7 ай бұрын

🎯

I put my whole life into you! 😠

I say Don't Feed the 🐦 pigeons, take everything and shid all over.😊

Seamor the plant 🪴

@MentalHealness

8 ай бұрын

🪴

Had to get a new phone because he hacked my old one……Crazy people.

I hate being ignored I don’t think I’m a narc though

@MentalHealness

7 ай бұрын

‼️

@SketchybrainD

7 ай бұрын

@@MentalHealness hey man, the silent treatment thing bugs the hell out of me, tell me what the issue is and let’s find a solution. Ignoring me and making me guess what the problem is while telling me there is no problem seems like an immature waste of time. Telling me you need space is a different story and I will respect your space, just ghosting me gets you all the space you can handle cause I don’t have nothing nice to say It probably bothers me more than it should I just don’t need that in my life

Why you won’t answer my call?! After 2 calls! 😟

How do they feel when you never gave them the sex they have been asking you for, even if they discarded you? Lee, can you please enlighten me on this?

@AngelicaLove2013

8 ай бұрын

They will find it else where tbh

@stealthisvibe9208

8 ай бұрын

They get mad because they feel entitled to everything they want, which is why they discarded. I hope you feel good knowing you didn’t give yourself to them.

@peachydandy2570

8 ай бұрын

@@stealthisvibe9208 Yes, it does feel good to know that. The discard still hurts, but at least I have some dignity there.

🤝🏽💯

I can feel the sweat you got building up on your upper lip from here 😂 HATE IT!

@MentalHealness

8 ай бұрын

😂

💯💯😂

My ex discarded me 2 months ago and is now coming back because he wants sex.

No one sees the irony here??? This guy is trying to make a living off of the rest of us who are victims aka true survivors of narcissists. Im at a loss for words.

@MaroonRose3216

8 ай бұрын

Sometimes you have to leave the messenger and take the message.

@MentalHealness

8 ай бұрын

i've been doing it for over 3 years and i've helped thousands of people. So, hope you find someone to assist you on your journey

@504medicine

8 ай бұрын

No baby, which could mean you still need to heal. Narcissist make you lose so much trust in others. 👋8 month healing process for me and influenced me to pursue my psychology degree .

@mixedness87f35

8 ай бұрын

He is explaining & giving a lot of detailed & important information he's even more on point than alot of professional therapists/ psychologists which at the same time makes sense because he literally is 1. So of course his information is more on point. & he's in therapy. He didn't have to tell the world his personal business & issues & then Decide to give key information to help others-- He should still get compensated

@sashaclarke2749

8 ай бұрын

@@504medicinetruth! Going on 9 months for myself and you’re right! “I don’t trust anyone!”

Hi Have you ever met a narcissist that does spells 🫤

@Selene_Antonia

8 ай бұрын

Yes! My ex admitted to doing a ritual when he was younger. He kept a poster of Saint Anthony above his alter. On his altar was a Barbie doll in which he "bound".

@Saraflowerk

8 ай бұрын

​@@Selene_Antoniawtf

@lilyjane1011

8 ай бұрын

No, but that sounds interesting !

@barbarabermingham9385

8 ай бұрын

Wow Not As Yet,Never Heard That Before (But Anything Is Possible)😮

@kristie-leecorney7388

8 ай бұрын

@@Selene_Antonia thank you 💙