How Do I Forget Someone I Love?

I have often been asked this question and to be honest there is no definitive general answer to this. I justt want to share this thought that I read somewhere:
"“One of the hardest things to accept is that you still love the other person but you can't be together. They may even love you, but you're just not right for one another. We are conditioned to believe that love should be able to overcome any obstacle, but that is often not the case.
You don't have to stop loving the other person, and, in fact, this is usually impossible right away. As much as we may wish there was, there is no magic switch that allows us to turn off our feelings. You may never completely stop loving the other person, but eventually those feelings can reach a place of acceptance where you still care about them but you're comfortable knowing that you can never be together."
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  • @raquelapangyarihan8582
    @raquelapangyarihan85822 жыл бұрын

    11yrs as BF-GF is not easy to forget and a very painful experience when we parted ways.. time heal all wounds!

  • @elenitacayabyab4151
    @elenitacayabyab41512 жыл бұрын

    That's true it's hard to forget kpag nawala ang ung true love mo. It's really painful the feelings Pero Mawawala din Un in the long run. But the memories still linger in our heart en soul. Kya dpat if they fall in love just give only 50 percent for love then 50percent for self pra kpag nawala ung love mo ur not hurting so much db. Always have faith en strong person.

  • @zajTv
    @zajTv Жыл бұрын

    Hi Joe! am a big fan of yours...so happy you're back😍😍😍

  • @Ethanstuff4things
    @Ethanstuff4things2 жыл бұрын

    Hi Joe please upload more on spotify. I really love to listen to those and i am excited for more episodes there. Thank you.

  • @blue.berries.lovers9274
    @blue.berries.lovers92742 жыл бұрын

    ang pinaka.masakit s.lahat ung nawala na talaga ang feelings mo.sa.tao.na.sobra kana nyang nasaktan... kc nagiging manhid kana...

  • @tingalvez2622
    @tingalvez26222 жыл бұрын

    I've been in that situation 10 years ago and now I am happy.....thank God for everthing.....believe it or not, naging magbestfriend pa kami ng ex husband ko kahit sinaktan nya ako 10 years ago.....everything will fall into place in God's time...

  • @chuchaychoing4803
    @chuchaychoing48032 жыл бұрын

    badly need this now 😭😭😭

  • @roseperez3056
    @roseperez3056 Жыл бұрын

    thanks joe …

  • @georgeaguas5621
    @georgeaguas56212 жыл бұрын

    Hi Joe. Hope all is well at your end. Anyway, very well said. I can relate. Bigtime! I’ve been stuck and dealing this situation for a long time. Paano ba gagawin ko Joe?

  • @andydeguzman6778
    @andydeguzman67782 жыл бұрын

    Sir joe can I make a request?magnda po Sana while your reading po may music para tagos na Taos sa puso makinig.thanks more power to your program.

  • @tingalvez2622
    @tingalvez26222 жыл бұрын

    One thing I can share with you guys is when you're going through these tough times, hold on to God and not to the person who left you. The pain will always be there but if you surrender everything to God, everything will fall into place. One last thing is to forgive that person and do not hold any grudge kahit nasaktan ka nya or niloko ka niya. This is for you to be free from all that pain and heartaches and start a new life without that person. God's perfect time...he will give you the right person in his own time......just trust God :)

  • @elenitacayabyab8573
    @elenitacayabyab8573 Жыл бұрын

    Hello sir Joe, for me it's hard to forget the 1 that u love Lalo na Kung may mga memories kyo n tlgang sentimental values. Better be try to avoid the place n lagi ninyong pinupuntahan. Just go make vacation, relax or make retreat to the church. Allow urself to make friends, Be strong en have faith always. Just pray en move on slowly. I know God will guide u. Hindi ka pababayaan ni lord. Sana mkatulong po itong advice ko.

  • @hazel9525
    @hazel95252 жыл бұрын

    Good evening po

  • @bebechu3292
    @bebechu32922 жыл бұрын

    Very well said pastor joe pero ang ending kami pa rin hanggang ngayon i always pray for him But God is good we are ok now . The problem is he is arab and very good looking i feel jelous many girls flirt at him but every we ard dating together im always by him side and i feel he dont date other girls pastor joe pls help me for almost 3 years we are together again God bless

  • @antonnetteagcaoili8619
    @antonnetteagcaoili86192 жыл бұрын

    matagal na kami wala. nakapag move forward ako. kasi kailangan. but after all these years, can't forget him, he will always have place in my heart. letting him go is painful. pero knowing na masaya na sya now,masaya na din ako para sa kanya.. he is my greatest love. im praying and hoping na may darating din for me.

  • @ei6127
    @ei61272 жыл бұрын

    💓💓💓💓

  • @veronicacuevas4753
    @veronicacuevas47532 жыл бұрын

    How can i move on, if i see him everyday at work?

  • @arcoclinicbab4855
    @arcoclinicbab48552 жыл бұрын

    INAANO BA KITA

  • @legopinoyboy640
    @legopinoyboy6402 жыл бұрын

    Para lng ako nasa threadmill

  • @martinpalacio3302
    @martinpalacio33022 жыл бұрын

    My advice for the kids younger than me after facing a break-up, losing a friend and other situations that relates to the topic Pastor Joe talked about.