How Dating Died. Rollo Tomassi+Jason Hartman

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  • @gavroshtheswift9959
    @gavroshtheswift99599 ай бұрын

    Something I’ve noticed about these podcasts, is you hear Rudyard give the exact viewpoint he’s seen from young men, and it’s like the older hosts can’t even compute the viewpoint he’s giving. Really proves the whole “having a larger reference from studying history” thesis

  • @mateuszmazurek7991

    @mateuszmazurek7991

    27 күн бұрын

    Rudy is a genious, and he's so young it's unbelievable!

  • @takunveritas

    @takunveritas

    10 күн бұрын

    yep, noticed that too. Rudyard is speaking of their biology, throughout history. He has nigh eidetic memory. MGTOW focus too much on blaming women. Only MGTOW that i'd place on par with Rudyard on this might be Colttaine's 'Biology Culture Ideology' He saw this shit coming too, in 'state of the manosphere'.

  • @david_4246
    @david_42469 ай бұрын

    Dude I will buy you a proper microphone

  • @theredknight9314

    @theredknight9314

    9 ай бұрын

    Lol

  • @theuniverse5173

    @theuniverse5173

    9 ай бұрын

    Years worth of ad revenue, patron and sponsors, and still can not afford better audio quality.

  • @MrReedling

    @MrReedling

    9 ай бұрын

    Dude I will buy you a proper intro

  • @lukeskywalker9026

    @lukeskywalker9026

    9 ай бұрын

    It’s iconic at this point, part of his brand, he must keep it now.

  • @4ThoseAbout2RaxxWeSaluteU

    @4ThoseAbout2RaxxWeSaluteU

    9 ай бұрын

    You can buy me one if you want. I need a MKH 416 or a TLM 103

  • @laststand6420
    @laststand64209 ай бұрын

    I know a bunch of young men my age, most of them are frustrated to the point of doing something drastic.

  • @mbg9650

    @mbg9650

    9 ай бұрын

    Going Passport Bro is not drastic.

  • @laststand6420

    @laststand6420

    9 ай бұрын

    @@mbg9650 Burning a capitol is.

  • @bobby5678-ck2tc

    @bobby5678-ck2tc

    3 ай бұрын

    the coming ethnic conflicts which will happen at some point.@@laststand6420

  • @notsocrates9529

    @notsocrates9529

    Ай бұрын

    @@mbg9650 More like storming the Reichstag drastic.

  • @charlescilek2281
    @charlescilek22819 ай бұрын

    Easily the best structured episode y’all have put out! You allowed the guests to speak while also sharing your perspectives, sound quality has improved, and the whole experience just felt more out together. Keep up the great work! Love what this show is and can’t wait to see what it will become

  • @isolatedbutjacked7036
    @isolatedbutjacked70369 ай бұрын

    This is amazing. I thought i was over and done with the manosphere ish content but they are talking about wider concepts that your average youtube dating coach wouldn’t even think about. Much more interesting.

  • @isolatedbutjacked7036

    @isolatedbutjacked7036

    9 ай бұрын

    Really thought Rollo missed the mark on some things.

  • @LiteralHombre

    @LiteralHombre

    9 ай бұрын

    I'm with you here

  • @notsocrates9529

    @notsocrates9529

    Ай бұрын

    @@isolatedbutjacked7036 I hate to use this word as it has become meaningless with overuse, but the man is a grifter. I can't stand Rollo even if he is right about a lot of things.

  • @isolatedbutjacked7036

    @isolatedbutjacked7036

    Ай бұрын

    @@notsocrates9529 yea he is a grifter.

  • @scottanno8861
    @scottanno88619 ай бұрын

    It's the paradox of choice. The more options people have in selecting a partner, the less satisfied they will be with any single choice they make

  • @Azurethewolf168

    @Azurethewolf168

    9 ай бұрын

    Yeah, maybe that’s why lots of people in rural areas or second world countries are still getting married and having good marriages

  • @Amanitaland

    @Amanitaland

    9 ай бұрын

    @@Azurethewolf168Meanwhile, cops in the countryside always say that domestic violence is terrible to respond to and it's the one problem they have to deal with being a cop in the country. There are good marriages in the country and in the urban areas. Doesn't have to do with location.

  • @Azurethewolf168

    @Azurethewolf168

    9 ай бұрын

    @@Amanitaland Ofc it’s not going to be perfect, but it’s a lot better than in urban areas. Along with that, most people in urban areas are leftists in general which mostly likes discouraging marriage or having kids.

  • @EmpReb

    @EmpReb

    9 ай бұрын

    Yup when I got out of basic training in the army and was allow on the PX I just didn’t know how to decide what to get. When you go from one or nothing to 7 options at least your mind just kinda fries.

  • @sullathehutt7720

    @sullathehutt7720

    9 ай бұрын

    ​@@Amanitaland Some modicum of violence is often necessary to keep a marriage together. That's pretty much always been the case.

  • @George-real
    @George-real9 ай бұрын

    Probably my favourite podcast yet

  • @anonymousAJ
    @anonymousAJ9 ай бұрын

    Many of the worst trends date to abandonment of gold in 1971. The causes IMO go back to the Progressive Era, capped by FDR in 1933 and the attempt to outlaw domestic gold.

  • @rnt45t1
    @rnt45t19 ай бұрын

    I'm 35, male, haven't had sex in over 6 years, and women ignore me. I've completely given up, despite all "the work" I've done on my body, finances, whatever the manosphere says will make me "attractive." Nothing works, it's just over.

  • @newfaction3435

    @newfaction3435

    8 ай бұрын

    don't give up also u can leave the usa ,u can go to Latin America, some parts of Asia and africa

  • @zoidberg444

    @zoidberg444

    7 ай бұрын

    Are you white? Go the Philippines. You will have much higher SMV there.

  • @mattjsherman

    @mattjsherman

    5 ай бұрын

    Why don't you just do the opposite of what the manosphere says then?

  • @ashishdahal835

    @ashishdahal835

    4 ай бұрын

    I'm 29 and virgin and follow MGTOW.....I never feel deprived of physical intimacy because I know the risks involved with modern women 🙅

  • @BlitzvogelMobius

    @BlitzvogelMobius

    4 ай бұрын

    Sounds like you haven’t done enough.

  • @wowTmack120
    @wowTmack1209 ай бұрын

    Amazing Ep. Makes me feel not crazy for feeling the way I do. Appreciate how you ran this

  • @TheOcean21
    @TheOcean215 ай бұрын

    Great podcast/show, good to share ideas. Iron sharpening Iron 👍

  • @narcispana9361
    @narcispana93612 ай бұрын

    We want longer formats!

  • @GillumTyler
    @GillumTyler9 ай бұрын

    I think you need to allow the conversations to take the time they need to take instead of having a time you want them to last. In the previous few podcasts, I've noticed you're trying to wrap them up right when you start getting into the meat of the topic. Some may take an hour, others might take three.

  • @Julie-uu9py
    @Julie-uu9py5 ай бұрын

    The answer is Love. The definition of true love is to will the good for the other person. Nothing else . If both have that commitment to each other it is beautiful. Also everyone talks as though you can't decide to make a habit of not being on social media that is destroying relationships!

  • @scottcamano6127
    @scottcamano61279 ай бұрын

    This is awesome Never listened to the two on top but my bottom row I watch and regard highly.

  • @joinmeinthesun5731
    @joinmeinthesun57319 ай бұрын

    Excellent episode, thank you! I see so few people talking about the important subjects that you cover in this episode, that's part of the problem.

  • @mbg9650

    @mbg9650

    9 ай бұрын

    There's a lot of betas out there. Very few want to deal with intergender dynamic publicly.

  • @tuckerbugeater

    @tuckerbugeater

    2 ай бұрын

    @@mbg9650 And do you print more women? Turn back time? LOL. YOU ARE DONE!

  • @KGISCOLD
    @KGISCOLD12 күн бұрын

    Godfather of the Manosphere!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @DRTTTT
    @DRTTTT9 ай бұрын

    One of the best conversations ever

  • @tuckerbugeater

    @tuckerbugeater

    2 ай бұрын

    lol no

  • @Tex_Mex_A_Lex
    @Tex_Mex_A_Lex9 ай бұрын

    Rudyard 6'4?! Get him on the field!😂

  • @teaadvice4996

    @teaadvice4996

    9 ай бұрын

    Girls raised their bare minimum to 6'5 last year. Rip

  • @diegoyanesholtz212
    @diegoyanesholtz2129 ай бұрын

    I don't think the US is Venezuela, Zimbabwe, USSR or Somalia. We are more Japan and South Korea. Our currency can't be hyperinflated because 100% of the US debt is denominated in US Dollar. To that happen the currency has to printed to pay a debt in other currency. But we will have a crisis like the herbivore or the Hikikomori men in South Korea or Japan. Eventhough the US is not as collective as these country that make the situation worst here and make these men become homeless and into drug use, something you do not see much in S. Korea or Japan. Singapore and Japan has debt to GDP of over 200% and these countries like the USSR, Zimbabwe, Venezuela or Somalia? No they aren't, Japan has a deflation problem and so as Singapore.

  • @Dragonfist0
    @Dragonfist09 ай бұрын

    I appreciate the video very much love to talk about this there are some facts in this video No one can deny

  • @user-ke2jo3bt5k
    @user-ke2jo3bt5k9 ай бұрын

    So many good quotes, I can’t wait for a good book to be written about this issue

  • @mbg9650

    @mbg9650

    9 ай бұрын

    The Rational Male ― Rollo Tomassi

  • @carbon1479
    @carbon14799 ай бұрын

    1:19:00 - I'm a 43 year old programmer just clearing $50K per year, live at home with my parents, no kids (wanted them), and part of what I at least tell myself as a cope with the current social order - it's just Darwinian game theory, genes matter people don't (no does 'democracy' nor does 'freedom' unless it somehow serves the genomes interest) and to that degree most of the depression I'd feel over this issue, that I've felt over any issue in my life for the most part, has been me believing and expecting a rosier image of life to come to fruition than what's actually possible. I've really had to stop seeing our species as this beacon of future opportunity and potential and spending a lot more time with Prof. John Gray's Straw Dogs and similar books.

  • @carbon1479

    @carbon1479

    9 ай бұрын

    It also terrifies me that when I put my metrics in I see myself as top 10% (setting race to 'any'), if I feel the way I do at 10% - things have gotta be bad.

  • @sullathehutt7720

    @sullathehutt7720

    9 ай бұрын

    People do what they need to do first. Then they do what's fun, and only then do they do what they feel morally obligated to do. Modern occidental humans no longer need to socialize, pair up, mate and reproduce. We've replaced all that with tech. The only way to fix it is to break the tech and force people back into a setting where they need each other again. ☢️

  • @laurenswelsch6279
    @laurenswelsch62799 ай бұрын

    Whats even funnier is that the level of physical attractiveness is not icluded, so the percentage of suitable mates is even lower.

  • @TJ-ml8tt

    @TJ-ml8tt

    9 ай бұрын

    Eh. Height balances it out. There are some ugly ass dudes who are tall who I've seen with some beautiful girls because you guessed it - tall.

  • @laurenswelsch6279

    @laurenswelsch6279

    9 ай бұрын

    @@TJ-ml8tt a man still has to be facially attractive enough. Tall men can be incels.

  • @diegoyanesholtz212
    @diegoyanesholtz2129 ай бұрын

    There are two ways, or you become rich attract a golddigger or be in the top 10% of guys who look good. Like a Chad or Tyrone. You can be broke an still attract women if you look good.

  • @Swelinebacker
    @Swelinebacker4 ай бұрын

    One thing that i reacted on is that VR is not the same as AR. The big difference is that AR can be useful within production on a whole another scale.

  • @warmflash
    @warmflash8 ай бұрын

    I worked with the guy who did the ads for CHERRY 3000. Small time line.

  • @lomotil3370
    @lomotil33709 ай бұрын

    Good discussion.

  • @castirondude
    @castirondude7 ай бұрын

    32:54 LOL, having some chuckles that THAT would be one of the major applications of AI. There's a meme there , what people 50 years ago thought AI would do and what it actually does.

  • @loganstrait7503
    @loganstrait75033 ай бұрын

    I think one of the most depressing aspects of this is that we have a social institution as you point out so well around the 1:12:00 mark where most women under thirty literally do not want their actual 'perfect man' even if they could have him.

  • @Akira_Rei
    @Akira_Rei9 ай бұрын

    Lol I knew Rudyard read Rollo's book because of certain lingo he used but could never could confirm it until know. Looking forward to this one.

  • @cakepie3484
    @cakepie34849 ай бұрын

    Now THIS is a star studded cast! Also Jason Hartman's point around 11 minutes in, it absolutely is about money, and wouldn't you know it, it was also just a really, really dumb economic play (that unfortunately, too many investors seem to fall into the trap of): Short Money vs Long Money If you ever heard of the question where "would you rather have $3 million now, or a penny that doubles in value every day for 31 days", basically these people took/take the $3 million up front at the cost of future profits.

  • @haruhiistextremist3476
    @haruhiistextremist34764 ай бұрын

    Jason Hartman sounds like Jordan Peterson, especially when he starts speaking.

  • @ohjay7612

    @ohjay7612

    2 ай бұрын

    Was looking for someone else to say it lol. thought it was him

  • @ChalcolithicPrizim
    @ChalcolithicPrizim8 ай бұрын

    Correlation is not causation: Correlation hints at causation.

  • @TSDamiano
    @TSDamiano6 ай бұрын

    Please use timestamp

  • @NikasInParis_777
    @NikasInParis_7779 ай бұрын

    You should interview john doyle hes a Irish catholic American as well as you

  • @castirondude
    @castirondude7 ай бұрын

    I tried the keeper male delusion calculator. What's odd, if I select any race it says 3%. If I narrow it down to only white women it jumps up to 4%. Seems like it's buggy.

  • @MagicNumberArg
    @MagicNumberArg9 ай бұрын

    1:00:15 did Rudy just say his sister is a Maoist? 🤨 What does he mean?

  • @Unhinged29

    @Unhinged29

    9 ай бұрын

    Presumably she follows Mao's particular interpretation of communism. At least that's my guess.

  • @MagicNumberArg

    @MagicNumberArg

    9 ай бұрын

    @@Unhinged29 yeah, but how does that happen?

  • @allan-1851

    @allan-1851

    9 ай бұрын

    @@MagicNumberArg Stupidity, happened in Peru. If curious look up the "Shinning Path"

  • @sullathehutt7720

    @sullathehutt7720

    9 ай бұрын

    ​@@allan-1851 Fujimori knew exactly what to do with those pendejos. So did Pinochet and Trujillo, for that matter.

  • @salamander0729
    @salamander0729Ай бұрын

    A lot of presumptions and guess work.

  • @Lord__Sousa
    @Lord__Sousa9 ай бұрын

    Curt Doolittle's work will change the world.

  • @sullathehutt7720

    @sullathehutt7720

    9 ай бұрын

    Dugin > Doolittle Maritime secular liberalism is approaching the end of its reign. Old World land-based traditional civilization is coming back with a vengeance.

  • @jukijunk
    @jukijunk9 ай бұрын

    Jason's voice sounds like Jordan Peterson

  • @EVANESCENCEactually
    @EVANESCENCEactually3 ай бұрын

    These boomers don't know shit about history, clearly. Ask them if they know who Oswald Spengler is. And then Rollo on the "Oh but muh technology!" is the biggest boomer take of all time. Rudyard, you need to get Professor Edward Dutton on the show. His internet name is the Jolly Heretic.

  • @marcagray
    @marcagray3 ай бұрын

    I wonder what happened in 1971.

  • @tuckerbugeater
    @tuckerbugeater2 ай бұрын

    "it's just all about money" bruh

  • @Prometeo9
    @Prometeo99 ай бұрын

    Good shit

  • @jordiriera1081
    @jordiriera10819 ай бұрын

    24:26 Rudyard face at watching all the efforts of so many years being turned apart. 36:22 Rollo eyes piercing straight, "This kid will not learn"

  • @veerswami7175

    @veerswami7175

    8 ай бұрын

    Hahaha

  • @diegoyanesholtz212
    @diegoyanesholtz2129 ай бұрын

    I do think he should talk with wheat waffle.

  • @gonfreecss6002
    @gonfreecss60024 ай бұрын

    Coming back to say that even though I find very little to respect in Rollo Tomassi his passing is an unfortunate event.

  • @kalev_knight
    @kalev_knight9 ай бұрын

    Mean remark here Mr Jason Hartman sounds like Mr Peterson

  • @SurrogateActivities
    @SurrogateActivities9 ай бұрын

    Started out slow but gets kinda interesting Rollo is a bit of an ass but brings a few unique points

  • @isolatedbutjacked7036

    @isolatedbutjacked7036

    9 ай бұрын

    Yeah he can be a snarky know-it-all

  • @raidensama1511

    @raidensama1511

    9 ай бұрын

    I’m sure a farmer has said, one can learn from an ass.

  • @kalev_knight
    @kalev_knight9 ай бұрын

    Oh here's how I would describe the modern world to a medieval peasant "everyone has the wealth of a lord but to gain it we sacrificed all gods and meaning so all that is left is carnal desires to fill

  • @tpsam

    @tpsam

    9 ай бұрын

    Bravo

  • @tpsam

    @tpsam

    9 ай бұрын

    And because we lost sense of any meaning most people don't even realise they have the wealth of past lords So they simply feel like empty handed They gained nothing from the trade

  • @kalev_knight

    @kalev_knight

    9 ай бұрын

    @@tpsam exactly as someone who (humble flex/whatever) just last month turned 20. Also is finishing up my undergraduate degree. I have to be honest and say. I feel like I have gained jack shit for the effort exerted and sure it's not much over sentential toys and sweets but I feel apathetic to everything around me. I shoud probably see a therapist about it

  • @roninsjourney7560

    @roninsjourney7560

    9 ай бұрын

    Well said

  • @ianschmittpagan5128
    @ianschmittpagan5128Ай бұрын

    1:14:13 up until this point they have avoided being able to say this explicitly lmao.

  • @HeortirtheWoodwarden
    @HeortirtheWoodwarden9 ай бұрын

    I actually think that the breakdown of mouse society in the Mouse Utopia derives from an overly high population density and too much social interaction.

  • @BigBruuh

    @BigBruuh

    Ай бұрын

    Counterpoint: There were tons of empty mouse "houses" when the collapse occurred. They were nowhere near overpopulation levels.

  • @mememan6109
    @mememan61093 ай бұрын

    You may wanna apologize in the end it gets worse and worse. It’s only one way it’s only genocide is scary to say it that way, but that’s the only way to see it change. 1:19:37

  • @ilya.m2005
    @ilya.m20055 ай бұрын

    Can’t find one? just becomes ONE

  • @mobilityproject3485
    @mobilityproject34859 ай бұрын

    Don't expect your spouse to be orders of magnitude better than a regular family member. Don't pay attention to money either, if you have it. That's good standards for women, and generally, women that go that way end up with decent relationships and lives

  • @user-nd7ly5tg9t
    @user-nd7ly5tg9t9 ай бұрын

    When will you make a new video about new and modern military technologies tactics and strategies that will emerge later in this 21st century?

  • @buddermonger2000

    @buddermonger2000

    9 ай бұрын

    Yeah he's not in that business. Not to mention that he's self admitted he's not really smart enough to try to discuss that. Everyone gets it wrong, even those who are, so not quite a realistic option he could properly opine on

  • @axelfiraxa
    @axelfiraxa9 ай бұрын

    You keep mentioning Fresh and Fit as if they are some gold standard of red pill media. Those guys are clowns with 0 accountability. The fact that they have the audience they do is really worrying because those guys are 0 alternative snake oil salesmen

  • @buddermonger2000

    @buddermonger2000

    9 ай бұрын

    He mentions them because they're popular. But you're right there's no accountability with them, and most of anyone's audience won't see the issues that crop up.

  • @isolatedbutjacked7036

    @isolatedbutjacked7036

    9 ай бұрын

    Yes i agree those guys are snakes. You can see it.

  • @rantzntirades1104
    @rantzntirades11044 ай бұрын

    They'll be more likely to marry a marine

  • @conserva-chan2735
    @conserva-chan27359 ай бұрын

    I'd kill to see you get JP, Kraut, J.J McCullough, SFO, or Cody from AlternateHistory Hub on here

  • @chakravartin3356
    @chakravartin33569 ай бұрын

    Be careful. I like the idea of red pill, but men have been really obsessed about women lately. Our life is not just about dating. red pill idea is to understand that women are also human, can hurt people, not a perfect being. We've been taught to how to walk away from blind love by red pill idea, but that's where i draw the line. When you focus your idea too much on how women and relationship, your life will be controlled by women and relationship, and i think this is where most red pilled guy failed to understand. Like for example, red pilled itself give birth to ideas such as looksmaxxing, passport bros, and all. Dude, maybe we should just consider our choice in life. Even if you finally got tradwife, what will you do next? Stuck on a dead end job? Even tradwife will turn into feminist when you drag her to your stagnant life. Or what next? Become a gym rat, become a useless pretty object, and say that gym is your goal, motivation, and all those BS the internet have told you? As they grew more mature, your looks will matter less to women. They want a leader, man who have plan, will, and smart, not beautiful accessory attached to them

  • @dylangtech

    @dylangtech

    9 ай бұрын

    I disagree strongly. In order to find stability, men have to set a standard for women AND each other. Any woman who wants a man will look to what all the men desire, whether they realize it or not. Men should allow themselves to fall in love and have realistic standards, but they should expect women to submit to their role the same way they want to remain faithful to theirs. If you're an unwed man in your 20s or 30s (almost ALL of us are unwed) this is the only thing we have left to look forward to in life. As long as it's just, I think we should redpill even more. Peaceful revolution that fixes our civilization.

  • @chakravartin3356

    @chakravartin3356

    9 ай бұрын

    @@dylangtech see? You just proven my point. Lol. Wtf are you talking about? Have you talk about anything other than women and relationship on the internet? Have you try watching other type of meaningful content other than relationship? I accidentally stumbled on this video because i like whatifalthis usual content that talk about alternate history, or possible future. Go talk to a girl for once, you'll realize girls talk about their study and career more than boys, they couldn't careless about boys. They are still welcoming boys to developing a relationship with them, but far less obsessive than us when talking about it. The women that we men usually got angry at on the misleading podcasts are the least feminist in reality, i'm telling you. The most rabid feminists are in fact rarely talking about men, let alone get herself into a relationship with us. They only talking about how to portray women on entertainment, how to create female hegemony on workplace, how to widen female exclusive space anywhere, they didn't even bother whether men exist or not. while on the other hand, most red pilled dude talking about how women this, how women that, got angered by made up drama of celebrity such as "male celebrity A got cucked by his gf", or "celebrity B's gf turns out making OF and he is okay with it to show how submissive men has become". Red pill men wasting their time on this petty nonsense, running in circles and does no progress in their life. There is nothing wrong with unwed men. It's normal. You should more concerned about your financial plan, and where will you be in the future. Marriage is just a fraction of your life but somehow the corrupted red pill turn it into life goals and breeds other stupid ideas like looksmaxx that persuade men to objectify themselves, pasport bros that turned us into cross country sex worker (but we paid for it), sigma males that detached men from society that does more harm than good, and many more. I'm not dismissing red pill and any other male struggle ideas, but this has gone too far. Men are the whore nowadays, and women take care the bills and become the new man of the house, thanks to this nonsense. Red pills did not counter feminism, red pill is in fact helping them. Men have other issues such as rapid dropping out of education, self deletion, and uselessness, and corrupted red pill shows up talking about men should get married, men should take the lead role in relationship. Let me tell you, you will lead nothing if you don't know what will you do in life. Just like what i said before, even the most tradwife woman will turned into feminist when all you do for life is just going to the gym, stuck on a dead end job, relying on paycheck to paycheck. That's not what a leader would do. Ofc Women can do better than a dormant rock

  • @mobilityproject3485

    @mobilityproject3485

    9 ай бұрын

    ​@@dylangtechRedpill like Gandhi

  • @jbb8261

    @jbb8261

    9 ай бұрын

    A real tradwife will never turn into a feminist.

  • @TheNarcFileShow

    @TheNarcFileShow

    9 ай бұрын

    I wouldn't listen to anything that redpill grifter rollo tomato has to say. the redpill community is all about making money off the backs of broken MEN!

  • @havebadday7850
    @havebadday78509 ай бұрын

    Wow. What a cross over episode

  • @jbb8261
    @jbb82619 ай бұрын

    It’s feminism that’s mostly to blame

  • @LorenzoMasterConnector
    @LorenzoMasterConnector9 ай бұрын

    Yeah looks like it’s a wrap hahahaha

  • @JokerFace55
    @JokerFace559 ай бұрын

  • @Cjchicken02
    @Cjchicken029 ай бұрын

    Rudyard I'm begging you to buy a new microphone I love your channel but when you do these episodes I can rarely hear you

  • @yux.tn.3641
    @yux.tn.36419 ай бұрын

    the world's fertility rate including Africa is at 2.3, without Africa it's 2.0 so it's very likely for the fertility rate to fall to 1.8 or even lower going into the future? i have a feeling by the 2050s, 2060s, the world's population will start to fall?

  • @liarwithagun

    @liarwithagun

    9 ай бұрын

    It will. And then those who are left over will have adapted how to work with the world as it is and the population begin to increase once again.

  • @yux.tn.3641

    @yux.tn.3641

    9 ай бұрын

    @@liarwithagun by the 2050s/2050s i can defo imagine people investing less in housing

  • @teaadvice4996
    @teaadvice49969 ай бұрын

    InCeLs!!!

  • @SubvertTheState

    @SubvertTheState

    9 ай бұрын

    Are you making a point? Nearly everyone I see who types that word, is protecting their worldview in the face of well thought out and researched hypothesis about cultural phenomena.

  • @the_real_novaly2000

    @the_real_novaly2000

    9 ай бұрын

    Just 3 dudes talking about dating and why they don’t do it, kinda incel esq to me

  • @Dragonfist0

    @Dragonfist0

    9 ай бұрын

    @@the_real_novaly2000brah have you heard about what they even said they have proof that declining birth rates will have an effect on our country

  • @sirliner8035

    @sirliner8035

    9 ай бұрын

    Rollo is married, certainly not an incel qualifier

  • @SubvertTheState

    @SubvertTheState

    9 ай бұрын

    ​@@the_real_novaly2000words have precise meaning. You can't use a feeling and accurately describe anything. InCel mean involuntary celebate. I know a few of the people have wives on this video. I'm not dating because the cost outweighs the benefits, and in my low population area I'm not matching with average girls like 5 years ago. I'd be considered MGTOW, if you want to call me a loser for that then fine. But you're just trying to create an association between mating culture discussions and incels. A buzzword you were told by women is a synonym for "bad". I would ignore this problem at your own peril. My ex girlfriends 26 year old brother never left his single mothers house, never had a job, and never dated anyone as an adult. That's incredible to me, but will become more common.

  • @allan-1851
    @allan-18519 ай бұрын

    I follow this latino KZreadr where he talks about the birth rate a lot (Mega: visión mundial), and I find it interesting why countries like, Peru, Ecuador, Bolivia and paraguay (basically the Incan Empire, without the paraguay) still have a positive birth rate. These countries in the western world are almost the only ones with a good fertility rate and aren't too backward and too affected by colonialism like africa.

  • @diegoyanesholtz212

    @diegoyanesholtz212

    9 ай бұрын

    He is Argentine. His accent is from Buenos Aires!

  • @edwardjackson9919
    @edwardjackson99195 ай бұрын

    What a waste of time that was.

  • @main_stream_media_is_a_joke
    @main_stream_media_is_a_joke9 ай бұрын

    49:20. Hypergamy is now celebrated.....has been for a while but now its literally celebrated. How dp you think ANYONE is going to put across a argument to convince females that they are pricing themselves out of the marriage/relationship market? In my experience, males are much more capable of living on less and being content with that as compared to females. As relationship/marriage was one of the most important reasons for men to go through the rigorous shitshow of a corporate job...and with that reason being out of reach for many.....is there even a solid reason for men to put in crqzy work hours that a corporate job demands? You could work hard if that is what you absolutely love doing....but definitely not just to present yourself as a prospective marriage material male.

  • @HeortirtheWoodwarden
    @HeortirtheWoodwarden9 ай бұрын

    19:16 Let the poor guy speak 💀

  • @condotiero860
    @condotiero8609 ай бұрын

    i will call you out on 2:30 when you say people dont connect the fact that marriage push back past 28 over 32 Nobody reads as much as you do. Ergo nobody else can make that connection

  • @Dragonfist0

    @Dragonfist0

    9 ай бұрын

    Huh ?

  • @mobilityproject3485

    @mobilityproject3485

    9 ай бұрын

    Not many people

  • @buddermonger2000

    @buddermonger2000

    9 ай бұрын

    Yeah, most people have no idea that it's a problem, and just see it as a factor of modernity and even a good thing. So they can't see it as a social problem.

  • @smokdawg8478
    @smokdawg84789 ай бұрын

    I don't like rollo

  • @Unhinged29

    @Unhinged29

    9 ай бұрын

    He's alright but there are far better men's channels out there.

  • @smokdawg8478

    @smokdawg8478

    9 ай бұрын

    @ryangingras1927 His research is shit. After Brittany venti criticized him, he was trying to black mail her nudes.

  • @NoName-xc6cg
    @NoName-xc6cg9 ай бұрын

    In the Greek schooling system you get taught that the blank slate theory is not true in 10th grade

  • @rudrakshpainuly1294

    @rudrakshpainuly1294

    6 ай бұрын

    For a nation of philosophers, ig this is self explanatory

  • @NoName-xc6cg

    @NoName-xc6cg

    6 ай бұрын

    @@rudrakshpainuly1294 not often do I see modern Greece praised online in this way hahaha

  • @rudrakshpainuly1294

    @rudrakshpainuly1294

    6 ай бұрын

    @@NoName-xc6cg I mean yeah government sucks sure at managing debt but that's just a different thing but culture wise Greece still rules

  • @NoName-xc6cg

    @NoName-xc6cg

    6 ай бұрын

    @@rudrakshpainuly1294 thanks

  • @aidena6138
    @aidena61389 ай бұрын

    I understand why you chose these guests, but they have no idea about the topic of modern dating looool

  • @buddermonger2000

    @buddermonger2000

    9 ай бұрын

    I think this more speaks to the point of telling all of this, doesn't actually register.

  • @Todd-rk4tp
    @Todd-rk4tp9 ай бұрын

    Rollo is pretty watered down. Get TFM on.

  • @RealMajora
    @RealMajora9 ай бұрын

    I don't think this Rollo guy knows what he's talking about

  • @JokerFace55
    @JokerFace559 ай бұрын

    Tf is Hartman doing here 😂

  • @wyatdick1
    @wyatdick18 ай бұрын

    I hate this capitalist conspiracy stuff. The reason why women had to go into the workplace was not a conspiracy to sell more shit. It was the fact that with technological changes and smaller families (which were needed to some extent), there was not enough productive work at home for an adult woman to spend their life there. The underlying causal factor is geopolitical competition. If you leave your female human capital underutilized, your nation falls behind. Simple as that. And if you fall behind long enough, you no longer have a nation. This geopolitical bind is truly insidious because technology shrinks the world. We compete with everyone now. The trap we are in is much worse than you think. I see no obvious way out if a nation decides that a less materially productive lifestyle is actually healthier (which it is).

  • @lostlandmarks8305
    @lostlandmarks83059 ай бұрын

    Maybe get a few women on the panel 😅

  • @nobobonobo

    @nobobonobo

    9 ай бұрын

    Who cares what they have to say?

  • @buddermonger2000

    @buddermonger2000

    9 ай бұрын

    And what would they say? They'd say this is untrue, that they'd never do this, that women are loyal. And then you look at the divorce rates, the crisis of 30 year old spinsters (as written in actual news articles and Op-Eds where women say they can't find any good men), and you look at the relevant demographics and you find all of the data mostly lines up. But none of this makes people feel good, and for women especially it'd force them to admit things about themselves which don't make them popular, and so they'll rail against it, primarily by calling all of the men here sexist and incels, maybe asking if men deserve women, without really debunking the points in any way as the only thing they can really draw on is personal experience, which they're also not entirely honest about because it makes them look bad. At best, you'll get them to admit it, but then not recognize why it's a problem because they deserve the best and shouldn't settle for anything less.

  • @teaadvice4996

    @teaadvice4996

    9 ай бұрын

    Most women aren't capable of critical thinking. They use their sexual nature for everything.

  • @Gofishefurwitz

    @Gofishefurwitz

    9 ай бұрын

    @@nobobonobo sooooooooooooooooooooooo true!!!

  • @dogperson432
    @dogperson4329 ай бұрын

    Rollo is a joke dude I'm sorry

  • @archstanton3931
    @archstanton39319 ай бұрын

    Interesting conversation with some interesting points; I get grifter vibes. A lot of complaining about female psych, not a lot of either actionable steps or making your peace with the unfixable. Feeds the incels without explicitly feeding the incels.

  • @codecixteen

    @codecixteen

    9 ай бұрын

    Siddartha Gautama has some information you may be interested in.

  • @chrisknight880

    @chrisknight880

    9 ай бұрын

    Yes because your statement is completely without bias. This is stuff that has been seen before but perhaps that is needed and more talks will happen with more discussions about solutions. Or perhaps they simply do not know how to fix it or think it will fix itself.

  • @johnmarley2046

    @johnmarley2046

    7 ай бұрын

    If you say the word "mUh" vibes your point is already meek.

  • @sasham6124
    @sasham61249 ай бұрын

    Dudes cannot find a girl so they post videos like "HOW MODERN DATING DIED" lol

  • @tpsam

    @tpsam

    9 ай бұрын

    We literally have a world wide natality crisis and women are paying the price because they have never been has depressed as today in the history of all the data we can survey for And divorce is all time high as well What it takes for you to wake up and see that there's a massive problem here and something went wrong

  • @sasham6124

    @sasham6124

    9 ай бұрын

    @@tpsam Yeah, I bet that when there were Medieval Times women were much happier because of no human rights, rape that was considered normal back there, and being forced to marry men because they were considered a property.

  • @teaadvice4996

    @teaadvice4996

    9 ай бұрын

    ​@@sasham612460% of girls have admitted to rape fantasies. So what's your point

  • @mobilityproject3485

    @mobilityproject3485

    9 ай бұрын

    The air and the earth are crying out that what we've been doing for the past 60 years doesn't work

  • @nobobonobo

    @nobobonobo

    9 ай бұрын

    Women are losing their innocence at 14-15 and constantly committing adultery so yes, there is a problem

  • @avery_3479
    @avery_34799 ай бұрын

    46:18 How is this in any sense inaccurate? This is the dating pool for women. If you want to give an honest view of the dating market and its problems, don't dismiss women's real life experiences.

  • @buddermonger2000

    @buddermonger2000

    9 ай бұрын

    This isn't the dating pool. This is the pool that women voluntarily join and then dismiss men as a way to avoid accountability for their own actions. It's easier to blame the problem on the dating pool than realize that you might be the problem if those are the only men you're attracting and or interacting with. You choose to associate with them. You choose to try to get the 6 foot man with a 6 figure salary. Most of the men you'll meet who eventually will have a 6 figure salary, are nice guys who don't start out with anything like 6 figures and are generally pretty poor when they're younger. So instead of wanting to stick it out, and support someone who might have success, you try to find those who fake confidence since you don't know what to look for. And those with the fake confidence are those buffoons and incompetence, with the needles aggression being rather baseless confidence. And frankly, if most men really were like this, society would fall apart within a day.

  • @avery_3479

    @avery_3479

    9 ай бұрын

    @@buddermonger2000 I do not have a height standard, nor a wealth standard nor do I seek out men who are 6ft or make 6 figures. Why are you making assumptions about my preferences?

  • @buddermonger2000

    @buddermonger2000

    9 ай бұрын

    @avery_3479 It's the average. Especially among the older women who are more established. Though the thing with people in general, and this is something across the board, is that people generally attract certain kinds of people. And the way to attract Better people is improve yourself both mentally and physically. But mentally is slightly more important as it determines who you gravitate toward in the first place.

  • @isolatedbutjacked7036

    @isolatedbutjacked7036

    9 ай бұрын

    @@avery_3479you do have a height standard and you don’t even know it. You okay with dating a man shorter than you? Looking down at him? Didn’t think so.

  • @AB0BA_69
    @AB0BA_699 ай бұрын

    Nothing better than listening to a gay man talk about family. 😂😂😂 Absolutely Godless

  • @sumdood7410

    @sumdood7410

    9 ай бұрын

    Who?

  • @AB0BA_69

    @AB0BA_69

    9 ай бұрын

    @@sumdood7410 the guy in the upper right

  • @yato329

    @yato329

    9 ай бұрын

    Gross

  • @shawnwilson8256

    @shawnwilson8256

    9 ай бұрын

    Gay men need families just like everyone else. This subject is important to all humans since all humans need families.

  • @AB0BA_69

    @AB0BA_69

    9 ай бұрын

    @@shawnwilson8256 If they want families then maybe they shouldn't be gaii, lol. Tired of seeing gay couples adopt kids only to groom and r*pe them.

  • @jposhpaws2588
    @jposhpaws25889 ай бұрын

    The main problem with dating is misogyny

  • @nobobonobo

    @nobobonobo

    9 ай бұрын

    Lmao

  • @buddermonger2000

    @buddermonger2000

    9 ай бұрын

    Misandry is the more modern problem

  • @sullathehutt7720

    @sullathehutt7720

    9 ай бұрын

    Women mostly deserve the hate. They're no longer sexually exclusive. They had one job, and they fucked it up.