Getting back with an ex is like reading a book again- you already know how it's going to end

@leelee185

2 жыл бұрын

We’ll said I hope it works out for them second time around because I always felt as though if a relationship didn’t work the first time around it won’t work the second time again. But I wish her and Ben luck.

@lifewithkashmeere

2 жыл бұрын

sure is because why go back , I never felt the need and men never change from my experience lol.

@Angel19285

Жыл бұрын

😅👌

@StellaAdler_

11 ай бұрын

Now she’s close to 60s she cant be alone so she’d rather pay it and fake it. Everyone knows

@carollewis3912

4 ай бұрын

If you learn from the other time and make changes-maybe.

I think the real question to ask is 'why can't she stay single for at least 5 minutes.' It doesn't hurt to be unattached to focus on self care, your kids, your mental health, etc.

@virtualbabe9171

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly lol

@webdev5091

2 жыл бұрын

But if she did, she'll never have had the kids.

@rachelm.3173

2 жыл бұрын

@Teresa Webb Right?! Lol

@ShaeNik

2 жыл бұрын

When you cover your tracks with the next one, you're scared to face yourself. Insecurity is an itch those like JLO cannot scratch. Not with their own nails anyway 🤷🏾‍♀️ Then again, I'm believing some of these women are just industry hoes being passed around to pay for undeserved fame. Paying the piper....

@lifewithkashmeere

2 жыл бұрын

One thing about J low she gone get her man back lol, I don't know maybe its her culture. I was not expecting he to get back with ben, but she did, she does need to spend time getting to know herself lol

If “I don’t never want to be lonely was a person”.

@krisj827

2 жыл бұрын

Yep! 😆

@flyleelee5351

2 жыл бұрын

Right!!!

@claudiajeanpierre3098

2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@jinb6242

2 жыл бұрын

lmbo stop🤣🤣

@mxchic05

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

Jennifer is a idealistic lover. A honeymoon phase connoisseur.

@mxchic05

2 жыл бұрын

Facts!!

@robynblackshire6146

2 жыл бұрын

Lol, honeymoon connoisseur, I like that !!!

@gentleentle601

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@EButta71

2 жыл бұрын

Well said. Straight facts.

@estherkibui5177

2 жыл бұрын

Hit the nail on the head

How can you honestly and genuinely know who you are if you have never been by yourself?

@DeidraDazzling

2 жыл бұрын

😍💯💯💯

@Fueunachimba

2 жыл бұрын

Amen!!!

@dashiajames1882

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly...!!

@mushtaaqahmed2466

2 жыл бұрын

Facts

@skindippedingold

2 жыл бұрын

You can’t bc you don’t know who you are outside of your role and usefulness in another person’s life.

Jennifer Lopez loves love, not necessarily the person she’s dating.

@rrg

2 жыл бұрын

Sounds about right

@krisj827

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@ece282

2 жыл бұрын

You would have to ask her that…stop trying to speak for a woman it’s misogynistic

@ece282

2 жыл бұрын

@@krisj827 wrong , you can’t speak for a grown woman.. stop with the BS narrative this isn’t a creative writing class

@ece282

2 жыл бұрын

@@rrg wrong

All the engagement rings Jennifer Lopez has, she might as well just open up her own jewelry store. 😂😂😂

@chrisman3431

2 жыл бұрын

She damn can do it lol 🤣

@chosenone2363

2 жыл бұрын

Lmof good one 1 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@noemistephanie93

2 жыл бұрын

Lmao 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@ellenekanem

2 жыл бұрын

LOL 😆

@MariaMartinez-sd3nu

2 жыл бұрын

Hilarious 😂

The only difference between her and MANY other women is that she is in the public eye. I hope she listens to her counselor and finds self-love. Been there, done that. Self-love = Freedom. ❤

@creating1_c1999

2 жыл бұрын

You told no lies!

@rachelm.3173

2 жыл бұрын

🙌🏾

@almightyqueen6758

2 жыл бұрын

Truuuuuu

@lindsaydt66

2 жыл бұрын

THANK YOU!!!!

@ladym2398

2 жыл бұрын

Yes! Self love=freedom!!

Even that marry me movie has her breaking up with someone and 5 minutes later marries a stranger.. my god.

@courtneypalmer53

2 жыл бұрын

I saw that movie also; I enjoyed it. It was a cute movie. However I do wonder if she was basically basing it off of her own life also.

@fyfymahlane7683

2 жыл бұрын

@@courtneypalmer53 lol she was

@gelleh.5456

2 жыл бұрын

The way I screamed !

@rachelm.3173

2 жыл бұрын

@@gelleh.5456 😂😂

@TheArtofBeingReacts

2 жыл бұрын

I cannot with her🤣🤣🤣

I took my bag up like Viola Davis at the same damn time, LOL!!

@danavixen6274

2 жыл бұрын

My favorite gif! 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣

@pn6528

2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣👜

@rrg

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂

@mxchic05

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@Awillii

2 жыл бұрын

Lol!!!

I dated a girl who reminded me of her type……. things seemed so perfect and I was flattered that she was falling in love so fast but shortly after the relationship started a mutual friend had told me to be careful that she falls in love with every guy super fast. Needless to say from that point on I noticed a pattern that she had never been single her entire and pretty much loved everyone to the same extent. Some people may think oh well but to me it kills everything special to know in the back of your mind that she just loved being in love and not necessarily being in love with a particular person

@TheArtofBeingReacts

2 жыл бұрын

Dang That's Deep deep

@Mb-eo6bg

2 жыл бұрын

I think she also gets along easily with people but also get bored easy. All the men have said they were in love so it’s not like she was forcing herself onto men.

@dumfriesspearhead7398

2 жыл бұрын

@@Mb-eo6bg She's a good looking woman who is quite the charmer, so getting men to fall for her must be quite easy. But they never STAY for any real length of time.

@renecahoneyghan7713

2 жыл бұрын

@@Mb-eo6bg I must say you are right. Sad truth. In my opinion I see the same patterns of her life being mine. We are so charming and friendly so just ball of fire and bubbly and that definitely draws ppl in. But when they no longer satisfy us move on to the next thing. Yes it’s a messed up way of doing things like why can’t be just settle and work with what we have right ? But it’s that lion 🦁 instinct in us. Being a Leo ♌️ we are always hunting. The females go out and get their prey after having our own we go out and do the same thing. It’s so much deeper as well I wish I could explain it better but none of those relationships have been able to tame her. And in my opinion she needs time to know herself before going back into a relationship

@ayeshak6822

2 жыл бұрын

Reneca Honeyghan Chalking it up to being a leo? That's pathetic.

Ben blames women for his problems too. As I stated in my other posts he said horrible things about JLo when he married Jennifer Gardner. He said that she was the right Jennifer for him and a lot of mean things about Jlo. Now he says being married to Gardner made him an alcoholic. He does a lot of finger pointing for his problems. He had a problem with drinking when he was with Jlo the first time. Let's see how long this lasts.

@DarkroomMedia007

2 жыл бұрын

😱 dang!

@skindippedingold

2 жыл бұрын

Good point!

@nehsangbong7259

2 жыл бұрын

🙌🏽🙌🏽

@vturner

2 жыл бұрын

yeah im surprised she let him come back tbh

@mxchic05

2 жыл бұрын

Yesss! I remember this!!

One thing I’ll give her kudos on is if a man cheats just once on her, she’s out the door. There are NO second chances. I don’t think Jennifer has experienced real love, the love that speaks and awakens the soul. I think she’s more in love with the ideal of being in love.

@Giselle_Glam594

2 жыл бұрын

There's zero kudos to a THIRSTY RAN DOWN WOLF PUSS! LMAO Her children act more mature than her, I'm sure

@faboge

2 жыл бұрын

looks like she was cheating too!

@tima.478

2 жыл бұрын

That's just the perfect excuse to move on to the next, and not something to envy...

@thepubknight6144

Жыл бұрын

​@@yukijames1321 well her one ex she only left him because he wouldnt go to a party with her not because he cheated

@pussydestroyer69285

5 ай бұрын

@@tima.478 um it is definitely something to envy…if someone cheats ONCE then that’s a very valid excuse to move on.

I’m here for this topic because I’ve always said why does this woman not take time to be alone?! She jumps from relationship to relationship and doesn’t take time for herself to heal and reflect. smh

@fabulous40sivory31

2 жыл бұрын

She just did a movie called Marry Me. It was basically making fun of herself. But it was good.

@misterbee66

2 жыл бұрын

I agree wholeheartedly. I honestly do not think that they will get married this time either.

@timmy841212

2 жыл бұрын

Wonder if something in her childhood affected how she got into relationships… 🤔

@joshuamcdowell9745

2 жыл бұрын

@@misterbee66 Neither do I

@bjc4204

2 жыл бұрын

She hates herself. She should as shady as she is lolz.

I know this video is about JLo, but Jennifer Gardner is a real one having to deal with Ben’s BS.

@dumfriesspearhead7398

2 жыл бұрын

Well they have children, so it goes with the territory........

@PucciNYC

2 жыл бұрын

Not her problem anymore 👍

@Awillii

2 жыл бұрын

A real what?

@bellaapple2166

2 жыл бұрын

@@dumfriesspearhead7398 She did so much to help him after they divorced and he was dating other women. She still tried to help him with his alcohol addiction, she certainly did not have to do that. And does not come with the territory.

@lauralarrabee7870

2 жыл бұрын

Once a person dates the nanny all bets are off. And he has a nasty gambling habit on top of that. No thank you. Don’t be bringing no debt or moneychangers to my household.

I've wondered how her roller-coaster relationships affect her kids. It seems every time JLo blinks she declares that this time she has found her true love ("this is it") 🥴, and her kids have to deal with yet another temporary step dad. She's proven to be very unstable in this regard.

@Teetee-kp3ph

2 жыл бұрын

I’m happy for them. Finding love and happiness is hard. However, her kids are old enough to understand that had Ben not ended the first engagement, Jen likely wouldn’t have married their father. That’s what makes this union a little uncomfortable. For both Jennifer and Ben’s children and their ex spouses.

Shawty got more rings than the Mandarin.😩 P.S. She’s really The Lord Of The Rings.

@rrg

2 жыл бұрын

Terrible 😭😭😭

@CiaobellaAmour

2 жыл бұрын

Her & Elizabeth Taylor 💀💀

@Thegazelle1000

2 жыл бұрын

The lord of ring 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@fabulous40sivory31

2 жыл бұрын

🤣 Good one 💍

@timmy841212

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

Watching her go through men over the years has been exhausting. I can't imagine she even knows who she is outside of a relationship.

@ece282

2 жыл бұрын

You should find your own relationships to be “exhausted” by instead of watching a rich beautiful woman live her own life…people will make whatever mistakes they want to make….it’s their journey

@AB_Jax

2 жыл бұрын

@@ece282 she is very beautiful and absolutely has the right to continue to allow the world a front seat to her personal business. This is only my opinion based on what I've seen just like you have one on me biased on absolutely nothing but the fact that you have the right to one.

@jayc5756

2 жыл бұрын

FR

@saragirma6577

2 жыл бұрын

@@ece282 🤔🙄

@selenasanchez7336

2 ай бұрын

And Ben is drunk don't know which Jennifer he is with. I have been around alcoholics omg what a nightmare Jlo calls it a love story. Babysitting grown men is not for me I will never understand.

Bouncing from relationships without taking time to heal isn't good for anyone, but it's even worse for single parents. I feel for JLo's kids; one minute they're tight with A-Rod and his kids, now they have to get used to Ben and his kids. I wonder if they're even allowed to keep talking to A-Rod and his children anymore? I hope for everyone's sake Bennifer is permanent, but they don't have a great track record 😕

@lisbetjimenez8395

2 жыл бұрын

Their dad Marc Anthony is even more unstable than her, he changes his gf every six months now he's dating MU 1st runner up Miss Paraguay who is 22 and he's 53

@daniellenewby3169

2 жыл бұрын

@@lisbetjimenez8395 I thought he was gay.....my friend legit told me he was gay......

@dashiajames1882

2 жыл бұрын

@@lisbetjimenez8395: Wowww Marc Anthony needs to give himself a break or something...!! These 2 must be don't, think about themselves 1st.

@rachelm.3173

2 жыл бұрын

@@lisbetjimenez8395 Poor kids

@vatricegeorge

2 жыл бұрын

@@lisbetjimenez8395 ma c Anthony doesn't move his children into a home with his partners, Jlo does. It isn't healthy to expose your kids to so many different partners.

That meme of Diddy staring took me out 🤣

@rrg

2 жыл бұрын

LMAO

She needs two movies on her life. Her own Biopic and a second movie about all her relationships lol. She is non stop at being engaged lol

@krisj827

2 жыл бұрын

Okay, she really needs several movies on her love life alone.😆

@jayc5756

2 жыл бұрын

Lol. True

@BlueSunShineDM

2 жыл бұрын

Nah we need a trilogy. The 6th Love don’t cost a thing I’m glad

@nemonaalem4471

2 жыл бұрын

Looool you're killing me loooool

@chrisman3431

2 жыл бұрын

@@BlueSunShineDM I'm weak lol 😂. Y'all are wild in the comments

I was like her years ago. I realized that I wasn’t happy with me. So I decided to find me and I love being single

@dashiajames1882

2 жыл бұрын

Same..!! I'm only focused on myself & my goals..!! No guy is important. Nor necessary to have. I'm almost at top of the mountain..!!

@rrg

2 жыл бұрын

❤❤

@InTheGlow135

2 жыл бұрын

Yes!!!

@ece282

2 жыл бұрын

She may be happy with her pattern and she may want a relationship and sex , she’s a fit healthy and gorgeous woman….she’s not gonna be celibate she’s an extrovert

@ece282

2 жыл бұрын

And your journey is your own, hers is different

I have seen this pattern in her relationships for years and I always thought that she was replicating LIZ TAYLOR.

@macswing6832

2 жыл бұрын

Halle berry is another one

You know it’s bad when her friends are trying to find ways to tell her to love herself

@rrg

2 жыл бұрын

Right smh

@christinecarmichael3150

2 жыл бұрын

I bet they are telling her and she is not or do not want to listen.

@BlueSunShineDM

2 жыл бұрын

@@christinecarmichael3150 agreed. Or she listens for like a month or two. Then back to her old ways

J Lo has said herself that she doesn't like being alone. I think she's also very strategic in terms of who she dates/marries and what they can do for her image at the time though.

@ece282

2 жыл бұрын

She’s has been more famous and having a higher net worth than any of her partners. So they are pretty strategic too, to attach to a A list power house woman with 400million net worth. Alex used jlo to rehab his reputation, he is a hated sports figure and a known cheater. He was always recording her and using her Instagram for clout. The fake blended Instagram family was a benefit to his image more than her.

@nena_gz

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you. High networth guys and then sexy young boot strappers... All of it has its place in her social climb.

@dstreet43

2 жыл бұрын

This is a trait with leo people

@misstinahamilton5714

2 жыл бұрын

@@ece282 Oh Im not saying A-Rod wasnt in the relationship for his own gain thats obvious . I just dont think J-Lo jumps from man to man for the purposes of love only .

@Giselle_Glam594

2 жыл бұрын

Strategic??? Lmao well explain Sean combs! & then she never dated another black man again lmaaaao! Poor Sean, he still waiting on her text & missed calls

She needs to be single for a long time. I have been single 6 years now & i love it and have really grown. People need to learn to be alone

@rosemaryoneale6694

Жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣 you’re funny 😆 I agree with you thought, it’s the best thing ever, I’m not turning back either 😂😂😂

@woznix

9 ай бұрын

At Your Age...You don't have much more options ,then being alone...THE WALL IS UNDEFEATED ! 😅

@pussydestroyer69285

5 ай бұрын

@@woznix lmao. Men are easy. The fact that you think any woman regardless of age can’t get a man is delusional. Men are the easiest thing on earth. When women are single it’s because they choose to be. Women are also statistically happier single. So don’t project babes

@shuntaebank5790

3 ай бұрын

It's a beautiful thing

Jlo is the poster child of not taking time with herself and figuring out what she really wants or deserves in a partner. Let's see if Ben keeps getting the milk for free or if Jlo will make it to the altar..... for the 50th time. Thanks RRG, keep bringing the heat. 🔥

Idk. But she said she hates to be single...so thats the 1st problem right there. So ladies...instead of keep tryna bounce around from relationship to relationship..take time to heal.

@taylordowning2533

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly..

@Giselle_Glam594

2 жыл бұрын

She don't know what "heal" means! Lmaaao

I saw the title…got a snack…now I’m complete. 💆🏾‍♀️

@rrg

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@princ3ssshay88

2 жыл бұрын

Same I ran out & got pizza lol

When they broke up Ben said some pretty mean things about Jennifer. I'm surprised that Jennifer is taking him back. Her problem imo is moving too fast.

@sunshinesunflowerz1647

2 жыл бұрын

Impulsivity.

@skindippedingold

2 жыл бұрын

👀👀What did he say?

@dianaa3336

2 жыл бұрын

What did he say?

@krisj827

2 жыл бұрын

She's so needy and I agree with OP. Ben said some horrible stuff about her and she still took him back. He even bad mouthed his exwife and mother of his children. Not a good look.

@rachelm.3173

2 жыл бұрын

@@krisj827 Right?! He appears to be an a**hole. I'm surprised JLo took him back. From his past comments about her...he seemed to care too much about what other people would say about their relationship.

Something about her childhood made her involvement with relationships happen the way it has.

@jayc5756

2 жыл бұрын

True. It always stems from childhood

@nm1raider758

2 жыл бұрын

She has to have Daddy issues!!!

@katmajic8203

2 жыл бұрын

Where is her dad? Is he alive? I only ever see her mother around and she speaks of her mother a lot.

@Giselle_Glam594

2 жыл бұрын

Hell naw! She just THIRSTY

@lylablueabdul5503

2 жыл бұрын

her dad was in her life and lived in their home. Her parents were married for many years and divorced when she was an adult. He just keeps a very low profile.

Lawd Jlo, give that 🐱 a rest! 😂😂😂

@desiderata333

2 жыл бұрын

Ahahaha--MEOWWW!😹😹😸😸

@Giselle_Glam594

2 жыл бұрын

They don't want that WOLF PUSS...maybe Sean combs still do I'm sure lmao

@rosemaryoneale6694

Жыл бұрын

Maybe it ITCHES a lot.. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@nursedee6791

Жыл бұрын

💀💀💀💀💀💀

@AlanaGurl

Жыл бұрын

@@desiderata333 😂😂😂 gone now!

The woman collects diamond rings like the tooth fairy collects teeth...🤣 She needs a shrink. There is a clear pattern that is unhealthy. Co-dependency.

@sexychocolateable

2 жыл бұрын

I think JLo might be the victim of childhood sexual abuse

@dumfriesspearhead7398

2 жыл бұрын

I think collecting the diamond rings is one of her more healthier patterns.......

@Giselle_Glam594

2 жыл бұрын

I'm sure she makes them propose to her & prolly buys her own rings! come on now & then they publicly break up lmaaao

I think she just always needs somebody around not necessarily keeping them She just don't like to be by herself.

@dezinechic

2 жыл бұрын

exactly! the way she flew back affleck after arod!

@sunnyboknow

2 жыл бұрын

When you date like that, you don’t get a chance to know yourself. Trust me, I know🤦🏽‍♀️ I have been single for 5 years now and badabababa 🎶 I’m loving it! Lol!!

I don't understand what women see in Diddy AT ALL!

@c62ta68

2 жыл бұрын

Diddy got her career in music set off

@rrg

2 жыл бұрын

$$??

@leelee185

2 жыл бұрын

Just money

@ijjhhyhgggkhhu

Жыл бұрын

🤑🤑🤑for sure....

@cutie3638

Жыл бұрын

Money and connections

6 engagements and 4 marriages… wow! I’ve never gotten not 1 engagement ring

I just saw the title and SCREAMEDDDDDDDDDDD🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@rrg

2 жыл бұрын

😭😭😭😭

It’s time for Jenny from the block to give her pum pum a break. That’s engine has been running from the 90’s. Jeezam. It’s okay to be single and heal.

@ebonystone8890

2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@michellecallum2913

2 жыл бұрын

Lol 😂 😆🤣🤣🤣🤣

@shannilove2801

2 жыл бұрын

Lmaoooooooo

@tianahaley9913

2 жыл бұрын

😩😂

@dcarmelitathomas

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

She needs to do better for her daughter. Obviously something in her past is the cause of her dating habits. She may have a glamorous life, but something ain’t right.

@kimoramicheal8353

2 жыл бұрын

Something ain't clean in the buttermilk!

@dumfriesspearhead7398

2 жыл бұрын

@@kimoramicheal8353 That's a new one for me!

@camerondaley6902

2 жыл бұрын

She a witch Craft

@JarardKenneth

2 жыл бұрын

Some type of abandonment issues as a kid? Or grew up in a dysfunctional home that made those things normal.

@ruthjanetrodriguez5424

2 жыл бұрын

Thats what Jennifer don't realize she stating leave one get another what an example..so wrong

The saddest part is she have daughters and she’s irresponsible in teaching these young girls how to make good decisions in their adult life with choosing, accountable, self love, standards and so much more. I hope they grow up and see her examples as poor decisions and do the opposite.

@YourMajesty143

2 жыл бұрын

She has 1 daughter and 1 son, both twins. She used to have stepdaughters from A.Rod, but they're out of the picture.

The Title….😂 The Shaaaddddeee of it ALL‼️

@DeidraDazzling

2 жыл бұрын

Yesssssss🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@rrg

2 жыл бұрын

😭😭

She probably got 1000 damn engagement rings as many times as she’s been engaged🤦🏾‍♂️

@Flowergurl2000

2 жыл бұрын

She is a collector of ‘em! Lol

@dashiajames1882

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂 !!

@DrT0705

2 жыл бұрын

Gotta catch em all! 😂

@increduleingrate83

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah, she’s on some Thanos BS.

I feel bad for the kids. She missed out on focusing on being a mom chasing after men. It took me 10 years to date again and I spent my time focusing on raising my kids and being a good mom. Jennifer has it backwards the love she is seeking it’s in front of her and that’s her children.

@slynn360

Жыл бұрын

Exactly!

@daniellak.7521

Жыл бұрын

Who tf said that she neglected her kids just because she dated a lot? You guys are tripping.

@beatricehart5614

Жыл бұрын

You're making stuff up. Jennifer is a great mum. There are different types of love and each has its place in someone's life.

Same thing I wondered. So many people are applauding her for going back to someone who dumped her/broke off their engagement and married someone else. It’s disturbing and why does she need to always be with someone/anyone. Not a good look.

@skindippedingold

2 жыл бұрын

Now that you put it that way, it does look crazy on her part to return to him after all that. I’m sure she was very humiliated following their first split.

@dumfriesspearhead7398

2 жыл бұрын

Why does she need to be with someone? It's all part of show business and keeping her in the headlines. It's part of her "brand".

@c62ta68

2 жыл бұрын

@@dumfriesspearhead7398 You got it BC her move tanked

@chrisman3431

2 жыл бұрын

@@c62ta68 I mean her music has not been poppin in YEARS. Them albums have been low. Even when she made her comback in 2011 with On the floor during the EDM craze of 2009-2012

I had no idea she had been in so many relationships.

@goldstar1116

2 жыл бұрын

Really?😬

@BirdLadySpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

@@goldstar1116 yes. I don’t keep up with who’s dating who

Dam She moved on so quick!!! Her relationship looks like she’s looking for a rebound and not a real love. She needs to give herself time to heal, instead of jumping from a man to another one. I hope that Ben would be the last one.

Misery definitely loves company. A lot of people don’t wanna be by themselves because the reality is then they would have to be truthful to themselves & realize the issues that they may be running from is not with anyone else but with the one looking at them in the mirror. No one can be truly happy until they are happy with themselves first.

One thing I can Atleast give her credit for is that she gets the RING! Too many women invest years in a man and kids and never see a ring. She goes from one man to the next but can always get a ring. The relationship doesn’t work out but these men Atleast court her fast lol 😂😂😂. Idk if Ben and Jen will make it to the alter this time tho.

@bjc4204

2 жыл бұрын

I don't like her but, I agree. At least she's not weak like Beyoncé. She won't just hold on to say she has a man, even though he's with everyone but her ass behind the scenes.

@denea4418

2 жыл бұрын

@@bjc4204 TF does Beyoncé have to do with this? Girl, shut up.

@QueenOfTheCoast

2 жыл бұрын

Very very true

@dstreet43

2 жыл бұрын

What's so great about this 🤔

@dumfriesspearhead7398

2 жыл бұрын

@@bjc4204 Bey is a "ride or die", that's the difference. J-Lo ain't doing that for ANYONE.

I think she's just needy and doesn't want to be alone. Maybe a bit fickle..

@wannellalawson4001

2 жыл бұрын

When she and Ben first got engaged she wanted in their contract. Where he will give her a percentage of his movies. Afterwards they split up. I hope this will wk out for them. If not she needs tk a break

At this point Jlo is the problem but it’s interesting how she doesn’t receive much backlash as other women in the industry 😒

@TheArtofBeingReacts

2 жыл бұрын

That's a whole nother can of worms

@melaninblessed1106

2 жыл бұрын

🤭

@dumfriesspearhead7398

2 жыл бұрын

I wonder why?

@Inksplash52

2 жыл бұрын

So true

@n.g.l.

2 жыл бұрын

White passing that’s why

Honestly, I feel sorry for the kids. Can you imagine what their peers are saying about JLo? If she focused on them, she wouldn't be lonely.

@rondas7772

2 жыл бұрын

Actually she's a great mother

@mayapace6914

2 жыл бұрын

I feel sorry for them, because they have to be introduced to so many people. What happens when the kids really like them, and then they break up. Do the kids still keep in touch with the exes. Then you have to accept a new person, that sucks

@dumfriesspearhead7398

2 жыл бұрын

@@rondas7772 Oh, do you know her?

@chelseacurry7381

2 жыл бұрын

She is never with her children.. unless I knew her personally then wouldn’t reach about her being great mother.

@CeCebetterCCme20

2 жыл бұрын

@@chelseacurry7381 She’s always with those kids , where do y’all get this info, if you follow any blog pages , they always show her with them & Ben’s kids

In interviews she comes off as very arrogant, and in relationships cocky huge ego. Dealing with someone like that could be exhausting.

@xmochix604

2 жыл бұрын

I notice that too

The title funny as hell😂this channel is sophisticated and shady 😂😂

@CiaobellaAmour

2 жыл бұрын

Classy shade 💁🏽‍♀💀

@rrg

2 жыл бұрын

😩😩😩

@blackluxury5585

2 жыл бұрын

@@rrg ❤️❤️I love y’all

Seems like Marc Anthony was the guy she wanted to have kids with. Diddy was the guy she can come up with. Casper was the guy to have fun with. A Rod was good for her image. The dancer guy idk. Maybe Ben is the true soulmate after all??

@Monica31667

2 жыл бұрын

You nailed her. I think the dancer guy was the one that made her feel young, and now that she is middle aged, she can get with ben who is just about the same age so that she isnt under as much pressure to appear young. Being with young guys didn't make her look young it made her look older. There isnt enough needle and thread, botox and surgery in the world that can keep you young forever. she looks great, hopefully she wont be one of those people who ends up destroying her natural beauty when she gets desperate to stay young with a lot of face lifts. I don't think she will stay with anyone she always needs a fresh does of admiration and worship. His expiration will come around too, if her's doesn't come around first.

@timmy841212

2 жыл бұрын

You pretty much hit the nail in the head!

@nicolejohnson4989

2 жыл бұрын

Wow the "dancer guy"? Lol Cris Judd her ex husband 🤣

@jellygurl27

2 жыл бұрын

@@nicolejohnson4989 Hey look. He wasn't as famous as the others. I had no time to dissect him lol

@goldstar1116

2 жыл бұрын

I like how you broke that down. And yes you are correct.

You’d think her kids might make her think twice about jumping from relationship to relationship. It can’t be good.

She’s ridiculous and I see a pattern that she doesn’t want to be alone. That’s a major problem! She has to learn to be by herself!

@purphummus

Жыл бұрын

Exactly , I honestly feel like Ben got back with jlo because it was convenient, Nobody is checking for him in Hollywood anymore , You can't reheat cold French fries I just hope she protects herself her children and her assets.

@tony-yl8gp

Жыл бұрын

with vibrators

My day has gotten 2x better! RRG coming with another juicy and messy video on this Tuesday evening chile ☕️

@rrg

2 жыл бұрын

❤❤❤❤

🤣 I love your channel. Jennifer don’t be in love she be in lust that’s all.

@jenniferlitanda3416

2 жыл бұрын

💯

@lifewithkashmeere

2 жыл бұрын

she always lusting , I wonder what type of person she is in real life because she is always getting propped to

It always seemed to me that JLO partners always influence her music 😂. Puff daddy she sang hip hop music, then the yt guys she sang whatever that music was (imma say yt ppl music 😂) then with mark anthony I heard some weak azz Spanish songs by her. Then that young boy I think she was trying dance music 😂. That girl can lip sync to anything!

@chrisman3431

2 жыл бұрын

She's all over the place in terms of direction lol 🤣

@lifewithkashmeere

2 жыл бұрын

one thing I wanna know is what type of personality she has for her to have 6 proposals

I was raised with the idea to take marriage extremely seriously and that ideally it should be one man forever, so I could never see myself constantly engaged. I honestly can't see myself 'in love' all of the time with a ton of different guys either. Real love can't be that fleeting that often. On a different note: Jen and Ben being back together reminds me of back in the day the rumors that they'd be constantly spotted at the Pottery Barn store at The Avenues Mall in Jacksonville, Florida. Still haven't quite ever verified if that's true or not, but the mall used to run the hell out of that for publicity LOL. Apparently Ben owned some property on an island near the Georgia/Florida line...not far from Jacksonville. Anyone know anything about this?

I can't imagine monkey branching from one man to another. I need to be single to get myself together before going into another relationship.

@bjc4204

2 жыл бұрын

EXACTLY.

@skindippedingold

2 жыл бұрын

It wasn’t until I realized that I was attracting the same toxic types of men that I saw the importance of taking a break from dating. Not moving intentionally, I was inadvertently breaking my own heart repeatedly.

@rachelm.3173

2 жыл бұрын

"monkey branching" Lmao

@MsJ365

2 жыл бұрын

Monkeybraching!

@MariaMartinez-sd3nu

2 жыл бұрын

Right onnnn

JLO loves the idea of being in love

@rrg

2 жыл бұрын

Yup!

@Giselle_Glam594

2 жыл бұрын

She loves the ATTENTION

If she stayed in bad relationships they would call her dumb. Give her props for not being afraid to live her life the way wants to, men do it all the time. Women date men for years, give them kids and never get a ring, Jlo always get a ring. Whats wrong with not settling for less and having the courage to move on 🤷‍♀️

@TheArtofBeingReacts

2 жыл бұрын

I think she gets dumped.

@moenlighted7681

2 жыл бұрын

@@TheArtofBeingReacts pump and dump.

@TheArtofBeingReacts

2 жыл бұрын

@@moenlighted7681 At this point, you might be right. Dang JLo..🙁

@mommascookingmemories5006

2 жыл бұрын

Sad either way. 1st ok 3rd fine . 6th...ok now hold up...

@CeCebetterCCme20

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly, folks are so judgemental & be with the same broke men & don’t get anything

It really blew me when he blamed his alcoholism on his ex truth be told he was a drunk long before they met she gave him 3 kids stood by his side while he went and out of rehab even when they were no longer together and this is how he thanks her 🤔 that's real cute I see him going back into rehab real soon until he takes ownership of his behavior he will never be free from it

Because he was TRAPPED??? I literally spit out my matcha tea. Jen is repeating a vicious cycle. These men will drain all your energy. I don't know how she can invite all that into her life. My love tank would be on E and I would happily be single and enjoy my solitude.

Jennifer's "problem" is more common than people want to think about. Our society and the media set us to fall in love with fairytales and fantasies. But never talk about the reality. It's like reading the fine print on the contract. As far as why her relationships keep "failing," sometimes relationships just end. They run their course. They shouldn't define person's worth. And if they want a forever marriage, that's going to take some serious WORK. Jlo may not be up to the task like she desperately wants to be. She should just have a long term companion at this point.

I would love to see her just by herself and enjoying her life. Being single is not bad at all.

The tittle of this has me rolling 🤣🤣. She said on Wendy Williams show years ago that she’s a hopeless romantic and she loves love. Wishing her the best on this marriage

@TheArtofBeingReacts

2 жыл бұрын

What a croc (but idk maybe she means it) lol

@heatheraucoin5832

2 жыл бұрын

Yes most definitely. She loves the idea of being in love but then the butterflies in the tummy die down and the sparkle in the eyes are gone and the magic is lost. All that’s left is to chase love again.

@dumfriesspearhead7398

2 жыл бұрын

@@TheArtofBeingReacts It's a lot of old bollocks. It's "the publicity stupid".

Oh this is going to be juicy I never clicked so fast in my life 😂😂😂

@tumimasibi2366

2 жыл бұрын

Me too 😂😂😂

@christopherdieudonne

2 жыл бұрын

@@tumimasibi2366 Right ?! I frickin' love this channel. Always great tea that's presented with class and sass.

The memes get me every time....🤣 timing is key! Luv the video as always!

I never keep up with celebrity gossip/soap operas but your channel cracks me up. Well done 👏🏼

I feel sort of feel sorry for her. She's not wise enough to take the time to be ALONE for a while. Not being taken advantage of is a wonderful feeling.

She carries a relationship the same way that she carries a tune: fake and unconvincingly. 😉

@rrg

2 жыл бұрын

ouch 😂

@melglenn6556

2 жыл бұрын

Period lol

@taotaostrong

2 жыл бұрын

@@rrg 😂😉

@simoneXox

2 жыл бұрын

Savage lol

@deliteful1991

2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Jennifer expects "PERFECTION IN HER MEN" if you can't keep up with her while she's in the "PRIME OF HER CAREER" she leaves "WHO EVER SHE'S WITH" and Ben is forever lurking behind her🤔

I just don’t understand how people do this with kids? No shade, but I couldn’t imagine introducing my kids to my new boyfriend/girlfriend like…. Every 5 months. That doesn’t seem like a good idea. Hopefully things work out for her and Ben.

@goldstar1116

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@gelleh.5456

2 жыл бұрын

She’s rich, Nannie’s etc

@TheArtofBeingReacts

2 жыл бұрын

She may be more focused on herself ??🙁

@wahoo4uva

2 жыл бұрын

Since she’s had kids, she has not jumped into a new relationship every 5 months. She was married to their father for the first few years of their lives. After divorcing, she was with Casper for a few years. After Casper, she was with A-Rod for a few years. Now she’s been back with Ben coming up on a year. So no, she’s not hopping from man to man every 5 months. 🙄

@felishasweet7579

2 жыл бұрын

@@wahoo4uva 5 months or not that is uncouth to go through all those relationships with kids. Nurturing mothers always wonder how their kids think of them. I have sons. It would feel gross.

If her manager has noticed a pattern with her to the point where she’s trying to “fix” the man she needs to see them for who they are, not their potential. She’s not vetting how she needs to and finds herself in the same situation with the same type of man. She truly does need to heal that father wound or that wound of why she subconsciously chooses the same man. However, these comments act like nobody has never been in this situation or still in it.

@jayc5756

2 жыл бұрын

So True

@nopereradicator

Жыл бұрын

Any plans for an update on these two?

Waking up beside someone with no make up is a big change and you really got to love the one you are with.

Wow! JLo is really trippin! I wish her the best but I don’t think this time with Ben is gonna be any better 🤷🏿‍♀️

I have never seen her single. That cannot be healthy

Ben has battled both drinking and gambling addiction he has been trying to kick for years and JLO can't be alone. Alcohol and infidelity goes hand in hand. Case in point his indiscretions in his marriage with Jen Garner. This is the perfect cocktail for co-dependency. This may not end well.

You can take Ginny from the Block off the Block!! But you can't take the Block out of Ginny!!😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤣🤣

@freshbme2

2 жыл бұрын

Lord knows that thang got some miles on it!!!!👀

It’s soo wild to see someone talking about this. This is a topic I’ve noticed and talked about for years!! Good job to y’all!

@rrg

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching!

6:27 had me weakk 😂😂

FTF: Heyyyy RRG ✌🏽 (My two cents) Being raised in a large family that is close, she is not used to being alone. She grew up sharing beds etc. So perhaps when she dates she is choosing men she feels that 'family' closeness with. However, these men see her as a trophy. A trophy is good during the "hype phase", eventually a trophy has to go back on the shelf. She also loves dusting off trophies and admiring the shine beyond the dust . The problem is once she collects dust, these men aren't reciprocating the same energy. She really has to get used to finding her own shine, and doing so intentionally. Wishing her the best. 🤗

Big up to Jennifer Garner for dealing with his mess

I feel so bad for Jennifer but the good thing is that she's acknowledge that she's a love addict and she's getting therapy for it for the sake of her children I hope everything does work out.

The Problem is that JLo is afraid to be alone. She doesn't take time off in between her relationships and brings baggage into each relationship. She also tends to pick the same guy over and over again. She hasn't spent that much time by herself, So she doesn't have an identity of who she truly is.

I’m not going to judge her for we all have issues that we need to work on. Jennifer is a beautiful woman with her fair share of admirers. I believe she gets so enamored by the pursuing of these men during the that she overlooks important factors of compatibility. Once the “high” is over, she looks to someone else for that feeling again. For some people, they don’t feel “worthy” unless they are in a relationship which may be why the turnaround time on these relationships are so fast. I’m glad she’s getting therapy & I wish her well.

I was watching Monster in Law when I got the notification for this. RRG stay bringing that heat ☺️

@Ayurveduh

2 жыл бұрын

I love that movie

@danavixen6274

2 жыл бұрын

That's one of her best movies! Frfr! 😁

@nitaboo008

2 жыл бұрын

Monster in law is definitely one of my faves

@tianahaley9913

2 жыл бұрын

And whoever wrote that movie knew what they were doing because a lot of what her mother-in-law was saying to her have a lot of true to it about her real life story🤷😩

I hope her and Ben make it however if they don't it won't hurt to be single for a year give herself a break sheesh IJS 🤔

@Fueunachimba

2 жыл бұрын

Honestly, I have a very hard time believing their relationship is going to work😭😭😭😭😭😭but hey if it does, cool

@skindippedingold

2 жыл бұрын

@@Fueunachimba Me too. I would like for them to work but it just seems like most relationships born after reconciliation rarely make it past the honeymoon period.

I always felt that Jennifer and Alex Rodriguez would go the distance. Even their children looked alike. They looked like biological siblings. Anyway, good luck to her and Ben the second time around.

@annabella7188

2 жыл бұрын

This👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

@wandajackson934

Жыл бұрын

Damn I forgot about Alex. It's so many. 🙃😆😂

She has a tendency to date and is co-dependent with men who are criminals, cheaters, closeted, and/or addicts. This current relationship with Ben will be no different and she’ll be moving on to the next.

How sad. As old as she is and can’t actually enjoy her own company.

@lifewithkashmeere

2 жыл бұрын

thats what I said she needs to learn how to be single and enjoy her own company

So if Jennifer doesn’t like to be alone.. How many relationships has she had already?!?! I’m kinda leaning towards thinking that Jennifer must be the one with the serious relationship issues..How can all those men be the problem? Whatever happened to “Loving you through the good times and the bad.. “In sickness and in health”.. “ Till death do us part” The only clear thing I get out of all this madness is that “ Money, Beauty and Fame can’t buy you peace of mind, faithfulness or true happiness” Hollywood is freaking crazy!!!

Girl, all I can say is I hope she kept all her rings in a box in case she needs some cash. Kudos to her tho for not having a baby for every man she's been with.

@gracemunich1476

Жыл бұрын

no worries about her finances. she is smart about this important topic

She said she’s not a girlfriend, she’s a wife Lmaooooo

Being that JLO doesn't drink, Ben sees her as an escape and what he needs.

@ece282

2 жыл бұрын

He also loves her and has pursued her for years behind the sense. He was involved in her 2011 divorce through Lupe her mom. He helped her with that. His marriage was on the rocks then too before sam was born and 2015 they had a public meet up at the Oscar’s…they have been in contact for years…but she was wary of his issue. She knows all his issues and still took the leap. It’s her journey her choice.

@nitawilliams8641

2 жыл бұрын

OR....he knows she won't drink up all his alcohol!! 😳😳🙄🙄.... (Evil Ben tone)...."It's all mine....ALL MINE!!....MU-HAHAHAHAHA!!!!" IJS 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️😂😂

@lifewithkashmeere

2 жыл бұрын

never looked at it that way

RRG keep bringing the Tea!! This was a good one and a question that we've pondered about for YEARS! You almost took me up out of here with that Diddy "come up guy" Combs clip after she married Chris Judd. 😂😂😂😂 I laughed so hard I had to grab the asthma inhaler. Good work RRG!! Lol

I remember when Ben getting some1 2 give Jlo flowers when her & Chris was a couple... Chris was looking around wondering who gave it 2 her.

@goldstar1116

2 жыл бұрын

Right😒

The real question should be: how come she's still relevant with that Milli Vanilli of a "singing career" she has??? Mariah Carey, Amerie, and Brandy been called this out. 🤔

@rrg

2 жыл бұрын

😭😭

@c62ta68

2 жыл бұрын

Fraud

@Atypical82

2 жыл бұрын

It’s because of her looks. The men (some) want her and the women (some) want to be her.

@shanellemoore2414

2 жыл бұрын

And even got a Superbowl Performance before the recent legends.🤣🤣🤣

@chrisman3431

2 жыл бұрын

@@shanellemoore2414 She's a great performer and dancer tho. Now if we're talking about VOCALS. She can't sing to save her life lol 🤣. But can dance. She was a fly girl. Let's not forget