Harry looks sensational

@BlaBla557

2 ай бұрын

frrr

11:04 Harry really has me in a chokehold 🥵

@BlaBla557

2 ай бұрын

SAME

For What’s Good, I’d love to see more duos. Manny & Tobi, Arthur TV and Arthur Hill, George Clarkey and Max Baledge, Ciaran Carlin and Becky, Elz the Witch and Lauren Alexis or Joanna, Josh and Freya, Talia and Gee, Ethan and Faith, Deji and Darkest, Chunkz and Filly, Chip and Theo, Gib and Harry, Chris MD and Ben Foster (maybe?), Kon and Kirstie or Kon and James/ John, and more.

@benrichards7664

2 ай бұрын

Tobi and Manny is a shout!

@clutterinparadise8839

2 ай бұрын

@@benrichards7664 Bro yesss I would love it. I was thinking maybe also WillNE and James Marriot, HP and Niko, I’mAllexx and Memulous, GK Barry and Chip, Stephen Tries and Max, and maybe even Iain Sterling and Maya Jama? Haha there’s so many good UK YT duos that I’d love to see on there.

@camkav2456

2 ай бұрын

@@clutterinparadise8839Will and James would be incredible! Think their funniest uk duo around. Gonna need another love island watch along with Will taking the pistol of the islanders and James taking the piss of Newcastle 😅

Learn to befriend that internal monologue - It doesn't go, you just become friends with it. Keep going brother!! You're making great changes in your life.

My inner monologue makes up crazy ass stories to entertain myself during the day it’s like I’m on auto pilot for my daily routine and my inner monologue is my entertainment

@Mzi_Ntlex

2 ай бұрын

Im yhe opposite. My inner monologue creates f*cked up situations and ruins my day. And I have chronic anxiety 🤧

Harry suits glasses

4:06 HE LOOKS SO GOOD

@seren.khadka47

2 ай бұрын

He looks like an old English man

@boussulars

2 ай бұрын

what shoes is harry wearing?

@BlaBla557

2 ай бұрын

​​@@boussulars adidas s2g sł leather (?) waterproof in green (i think 🤞)

@satchitt

2 ай бұрын

@@seren.khadka47 looks like from the video where harry ethan turned old lol

Harry looks SO good

Keep going Randy, always appreciate the vulnerability you show and the rawness of the vlogs, your genuine life and feelings 🤙🏻

I find that when you allow yourself to have a balance of working on yourself and allowing yourself to also live in the moment and let all those expectations fall away/stop “fixing things” the stress is a lot less. Also remembering that good things and goals take time instead of rushing to it. In-depthly learning that recently has really brought me back down to earth with where I am w my life. Bc you lose so many important moments by feeling like everything needs to be fixed in the moment bc fixing is change and change takes time (“fixing is change and change takes time” is what I tell myself whenever I’m stressing about something that can’t be changed in that moment). Also, a lot of things that u feel need to be fixed or changed are also just lessons that need to be only experienced. So basically to sum it up I’ve been full of wisdom recently.

During periods of time where I have a lot going on and I'm feeling stressed I try to tell myself that it is important to do one thing at the time. And telling myself that worrying about being stressed uses time and energy that can be used to get through the stress. I think it's natural to stress about being stressed. Keep up the great work Randy❤

4:38 this is where legends are made

My internal monologue, as a pessimist, is "what if..." And its an unrealistically negative situation but ive learnt to just take it step by step and you only live once so try do as much as you can

I absolutely relate to that internal process thing randy. But I try to just zoom out and see the bigger storyline. You could think about how you're crafting this amazing story to tell Harper when she's older and it'll help you realise the hard parts are just parts of the big story ❤

Great vlog as usual Randy. My internal monologue flucuates quite a lot. Sometimes its very care free, life is good, you have a roof over your head, food, life could be worse. Other days its the complete opposite and it is sometimes quite the battle with some dark thoughts. I think i know how to deal with that fluctuation pretty well though.

I totally understand how adding new things to a comfortable routine can be stressful and overwhelming. I am currently trying to figure out my objectives in life. It does have its hard parts. But my monologue is generally "It'll be worth it in the end."

3:00 Randy, it's perfectly okay to go through those moments, the fact you recognize your mindset and are trying to change it speaks volumes of your emotional maturity, so stick with that. What you've gone through in the last few months is beyond traumatizing, it's never easy to have to wake up and accept the fact your life will never be the way it was not too long ago. There's nothing wrong with taking time to adjust and feel what you need to feel. That anxious drive is a very normal thing, I've felt similar. You got this bro

I keep myself active to forget about that constant inner “my life is over” feeling Randy , that’s why I love these vlogs because you’re so relatable fr fr 💯

Considering the stuff I had to deal with for the past few years I would say that my stress levels are definently improving from what they were. Before I had no outlet to use my pent up emotions and stress but now I have been going to the gym at least 3-4 times a week after lectures and it helps me feel better both physically and mentally. My current mindset is that even if I am tired and sore from the day before, if I have time to go to the gym I will. Also my dietary choices during my first two years of college were horrible and I gained around 60 pounds in the summer of my freshman year. I finally decided to improve my choices and am currently down almost 20 pounds. It is definitely a grind but thats just the game of life. Keep it up Randy!!!!!

Get Gib and Harry on such a class duo

Love the way you flipped the lotus biscuit!! Honestly Randy you John and Simon have smashed it honestly such a great vibe and amazing conversation on the pod can tell the new found love of the amazing set and honestly hope it grows to where I see it going you deserve it randizzle!!

I think my inner monologue is a battle of negative thoughts and me having to challenge them a lot, like I have to constantly check myself so I don't spiral! Also I think the visual representation of that would be the the elmo fire gif 😂

when i’m super stressed my internal monologue is clouded and i can’t seem to track a single thought. i normally chat with a friend on what i need to do and get some advice on how to sort everything based on priorities and what i can actually do, sometimes even writing down the tasks so i can physically see them instead of trying to imagine them

I've been stressed most of the year and I feel as if I'm the happiest i've ever been. I think tend to plan my day as it goes, unless i'm meeting up with people or work. Whatever I do, I typically plan merely an hour before. Keep up the vlogs, looking good randy!

Randy keep killing it man we are all going through different struggles yt helps me clear my mind and smoke cause i constantly over think

From a fellow Notts gal, don’t change Randy. We love your videos and seeing you be you in the most natural, honest and vulnerable setting. Just focus on getting through day by day and enjoy the moment. Take care - we support you wholeheartedly!!!

Bro, what I think about the last few weeks? I start my fulltime job next week but still need to complete my final uni assignments. Therefore I have been having 60+ hour weeks the last 3 weeks. All my other activities have gone out the window. But I keep repeating myself that somwhere around this time next week I will have completed uni, so I can focus on my new job and then there will be free time to pick my hobbies back up which are running and cooking... The one thing that helps me through crazy times like these is to remind myself of what I do it for and to keep looking forward to those better times

My life is crazy stressful, but my inner monologue is thinking about everything but the stress. As soon as I afford myself the time to think about the stress, it magnifies 10/20-fold. I know that's not good for long-term thinking, but in the short-term it's how I get by.

Randy vlog time…let’s get it! 📹❤️ My inner monologue is very similar bro, I catastrophise things in my head all the time. 😔 You’re not alone there man. 🙏🏻

Thanks for being vulnerable! I'm sure it's not always easy as a public figure. When I've been in a stressful or challenging situation, my mind (which wants to naturally amplify any threat --or create one when there is no threat) can create those doomsday scenarios or feelings. Just let them pass. Feelings come and go, negative or unrealistic thoughts come and go. They don't define your situation, they don't define you and those fearful feelings or thoughts often don't reflect reality. Remember your stressful situation is temporary not permanent. Also, the outcome of your situation doesn't define your value or self worth.

Whenever I would feel somewhat the way you described, I try to take a step back and make like a list, I first do this, than this followed by this and than it’s ok for today, even if it’s not everything I wanted to do that day

Randy, there’s a book called “chatter” that talks about our inner monologue and how to harness it better, it might be useful.. definitely helped me to be kinder to myself x

Love how much the boys are getting into golf,I know its there escape, but wish it was recorded more

Genuinely try and think that tomorrow isn't guaranteed and just make the day count. You're doing amazing Randy, grateful for every vlog you post as I'm sure everyone else who supports you is. Watching you all play this game makes me want to pick my glove back up!

loving the daily vlogs mate! some of them feel like one to one talks......wish u great years ahead lad and enjoy!!

Hey Randy, normally I don’t comment like this, but as someone who is going through basically the same exact thing as you and the same age as you, minus the child thankfully, I find that my inner monologue is something that needs to be out of my head if that makes sense. so what I started doing was that I would record myself with the voice notes app, but I would never play it back or anything like that but I just found that getting it out physically helps stay calm when the silence gets really loud. I also tend to focus on just doing, one or two little things a day that I know are good choices and so that way, if the rest of the day doesn’t go as planned or I’m not as productive as I would’ve liked to be, I can look back and see those couple positive things and remind myself to stay positive. I think it’s important to acknowledge your inner monologue and not put it to the side because I think that’s how anxiety really ramps up, but I think you also need to balance it and not let it dominate your life and that’s when you tell yourself that new situations are scary and what looks like the end of the world is not. It’s just the end of that specific world and that’s OK and you can move on and do things differently and as long as you’re confident in who you are as a basic human, then there should be no reason why you can’t figure it out. You got this Randy 😊

Inner Monologue for Stress, I find myself to try and just do one thing at a time and when I have down time, i’d plan ahead on when to do what and include “my own free time” as part of the plans as that is important too, socialising is so important aswell but i feel like you already have that down in your day to day life from my knowledge from vlogs :) also I think you should keep vlogs on this channel but maybe change the content to a more chill vibe on your main if you feel like the separation of energy and enthusiasm to the camera is not for you, no matter what you do, you will ofc have the 30k or so of us who will watch KEEP IT UP RANDY p.s. soz if i waffled 😭

Randy - I don’t intend on making this sound malicious, but with what you’ve described, if you haven’t already, therapy might be worth considering. It’s not just for people with mental health illnesses, it can be good for just offloading, or self growth as well!

I had a mental breakdown a couple weeks back, over the past year I involuntarily witnessed things the normal human shouldn’t see or go through, I think about them 8 situations everyday and my mind just expects the same thing to happen plus throwing financial pressures, it’s hard to balance everything atm but yeah also everyday my brain says ‘what’s next’ so I can never really commit to anything. I’m interested in the intricate side of psychology e.g. why People use certain words in specific situations, the sub-conscious has a lot of answers but you only have a small window to try and course your way through and find answers

I have a stammer, there’s a course called the McGuire program and they teach to take a deep costal breath and have planned what you want to say, your mouth speaks before your brain can catch up, that’s the same with Harry aswell sometimes. I know it’s hard but got to stop being so hard on yourself Randy, we love you so much bro! Keep strong

I feel like I'm in a constant state of stress and anxiety. My internal monologue - "you're not doing enough, you're letting people down, you're not working enough, you're not making enough money". Most of my stress is related to money, chronic pain, wedding planning. I also think I'm too much of a people pleaser. My stress leads to anxiety which then leads to panic and chest pains 👍 Loving the vlogs Randy and you're looking fab! Keep doing what you're doing

Yes Randy! These vlogs are your way (and ours) to give ourselves a better outlook in life. The goods, the bads, and the uglies, genuine and free as always.

Absolutely loving the vlogs randy!!! keep it up fella

i think exact same my life is over and all the things you look at and try to do to change just seems so hard and not worth doing cause just makes you more depressed but your an awesome guy randy and got lots going for yourself. keep smashing n make sure try make yourself happy why your making everyone else’s day better

Love the golf content Randy, can’t wait for big wedge golf to launch… lots of love from NZ

my internal monologue is like fighting with myself on do I say this or that or do I do this or that, literally a devil voice and an angel voice fighting

Always planning, planning, planning, planning, planning. ONE THING AT THE TIME!

The way i feel about life is i do what i can in a day and if people dont like it then so damn what. But i dont have over 250,000 people watching me every single day of my life. So i am sure that if i did i would feel much different about the little fails i suffer day to day. Just remember you are just a normal man like me and there are only 24 hours in a day and you can only accomplish so much with your time. Just the fact you care about everything as much as you do means a lot. If you didnt care about stuff the way you did you wouldnt be as successful as you are and will be. Keep it up Randy you are doing great and remember you are just a human being bro. You arent Superman. Thank you for all the content you provide us with.

my day to day monologue i dont really stress about what im doing today its more about whats coming up in the next days, weeks, months

internal monologue: BE HIM

With the stress stuff, I think the whole thing with it is that even if it’s stressful and hard at the start, at some point it becomes a habit and the stress attached with it goes away. Just got to put in the work early

Some ideas for 4 people pods: ChrisMD and Harry Harry and Ethan Chip and Cal ArthurTV and George Clarkey Reev Theo and Tom Garratt Joe Sugg and Caspar Lee or Tom Syndicate Josh and Freya Ethan and Faith Willne and James Marriott Maybe its difficult but would love to see Noel Miller and Cody Ko

Internal monologue: Lots of people have it so much worse, so be grateful for what you have and have been able to achieve.

Lets see what is going on today in Randy vlogs lets gooo

My inner monologue is like "Alright, wake up, I gotta go to school, come back from school, alright I gotta go for a run soon, come back from run, alright I gotta go workout, come back from workout and do homework and then sleep. I know what I have to do, an then I don't feel the need to think about it any more than that. If I don't get them done, it's not that deep, because the most important thing is to just be stress free and happy, otherwise I'm living a life that is not worth living.

Hi Randy. I grew up on an Essex council estate so my accent was strong. In my 20's I became friends with some people who were still learning English so I learned to speak a little slower and a lot clearer. I still receive compliments on my vocal clarity. Now I'm not suggesting you find an immigrant to be your new bff, but many viewers may have English as a 2nd (or more) language so perhaps you could hold them in your mind. I hope you are beginning to see that people value your input as your view count isn't too bad at all! Take care kid :)

We're all trying to find the pieces to the puzzle of life brother,try up the vlogs love how you say what on your mind with no filter really dawn to earth lad who I wish all the best to ❤

Yeah my inner voice does the same. And I don't really get the chance to take the steps back to take more steps forward

Im so so so proud of you Randy

That’s a lawsuit right there for Harry, get the bag 🤣

My internal monologue is pretty similar, I’m like a bully to myself in my head, everything that goes wrong is the worst thing ever and I can never do enough, but the more I do the more I ask myself why do I do so much.

My mind constantly tells me that i am not good enough. I know exactly how you feel!

Have you thought about getting fitted for some irons? Don't think the Vapor irons are right for you, need something a little more forgiving

Randy I like you a lot, however in the first part of the video about talking around your day ahead (I know your working hard) but others have no choice to think about work and just have to go regardless of if they want to or not you stated you would feel less stressed if you done less, and asked what we thought about day to day, work isn’t a thought for most more of a must. You asked for the feedback, like a say I like you a lot as a person but your in a privileged position

Same as you tbh bro. I’m a professional chef and do about 50/60 hours a week + awful pay. Always stressed lmao, wish I could move onto something else but unfortunately cooking is all I know

Take a deep breath, forget your troubles, and say f it, I’m gonna have fun and be me. I was severe anxiety and depression once upon a time. The best thing you can do is just reboot your brain man. Forget the past and focus on the future. Don’t worry about failure, everyone fails.

"this too shall pass." everything horrible and draining in my life will go away eventually, as well as all the magnificent and good things, its all temporary. the world wont stop for me so i wont stop for anything else either. it makes me look at my problems and goals differently, like 'i only have one life so why am i going to waste it dwelling over xyz,' and ' i only have one life so im going to do what i can to get what i want.'

More golf videos!! You’re doing an amazing job, I love your vlogs!!

The woman trying to give you the hot chocolate 😂😂

Things such as gym sleep(prioritising) new things in general require are mentally taxing - but once it become part of your life the managing gym and sleep just happens same with diet and work(some parts of it)

Inner thoughts are mostly health anxiety based. Just fearing the worst is going to happen all the time.

I know you read these, so can’t wait to see you tomorrow 🙌

@Randolph2

2 ай бұрын

🙏🏼

You guys make me feel like such a better golfer

8:34 he was so fast to take it out damn

To be honest Randy, my inner monologue is much the same. Hope you're doing good big dawg 👌

Horrific W2S Golf injury (British Guy edition)

Keep up the grind Randy, ur smashing it 👏

I love you Randolph

well i am in a stressful situation currently, my internal monologue always through these situations has been things are gonna get better, they have too. Which they always do eventually. Also, this is kinda weird but i imagine myself in more worse situations, making myself feel grateful that I didn't encounter that.

19 and constantly stressed

Success is never owned it is rented and the rent is due everyday , side note being so negative in your experiences can hurt you as well it’s the same thought process for why your not supposed to to call yourself dumb or think negative thoughts about yourself I’m not you so I can’t tell you how to live your life but I wake up everyday and genuinely thank god for today for the people I love and hate and for the opportunity to learn and grow and be better and no not everyday is supposed to be amazing sometimes you’ll genuinely hate what your doing but it’s not about how you feel it’s about the result of the process and doing the things your afraid of doing or hate doing will only make you a better person because it is the discipline to do regardless of how you feel that makes you a man

The problem is that Randy is comparing him self to his friends channel and business and then he stressed that he is not ceeping up with them

Usually atleast a day ahead

I try to think of the 24 hours in a day as a journey of my whole life. So in short, put all of the work in now, in the beginning, at a young age, then later on in life i can relax, rich, with completing everything in life. Then transition that into 24 hours, so you wake up, then cold shower straight away to win the morning and ultimately that sets the mood for the rest of the day as its the most difficult part and the same goes with life. Work hard now and live to enjoy the rest. Carrying on, you head to work, do all the hard bits and at the very end of the day you can reflect, journal, read or whatever and treat yourself with a nice warm, hot shower which is honestly the best feeling ever and thats ultimately the end of the day/life. Viewing it like this for me makes me consciously switch on and put more effort in because i know that there is a nice warm, hot shower waiting at the end of the day and its only a matter of hours away not years if you were viewing it like a whole living, so it pushes me to get more done in the day and to not leave anything up to tomorrow. Then sleep is basically the reset button and to start all over again as if its a new life, new beginning and new project, because it is and not everyone gets the chance or is lucky enough to wake up today or tomorrow. So basically putting all the aspects of life into 24 hours and just focusing on the day and the small habits which will end up compounding into huge results over time. It's also important to say that no matter how good life gets there is always going to be that stress, nerves, pain etc but everything comes with a price tag and end of the day it depends if you're willing to exchange for what you want now for what you want in the future. That's my view on it. Anyways love you Randy, im 18 at the moment and just secured a job at stanstead airport after being out of work for some while so thats a first step for me. It'll all be good in the end and make sure to clear some time throughout the day to just think and meditate for even a few minutes or 30 seconds, really helps me. Keep pushing.

Routine routine routine. Once you are on autopilot you can silence the mind into a meditative state of awareness. No stress, just following through your patterened routine. I don’t deviate from my routine and I’m rarely stressed at all anymore because I know what’s coming at the exact time I plan it. Nothing breaks my routine, it is sacred. I also don’t allow myself to be endlessly bombarded with technological distractions, so my phone goes on silent when I am busy and I become uncontactable until I’m not. Humans have transformed into Pavlovian dogs waiting to receive their next notification. Deprogramming from this will chill you out. Internal monologues for me also are personally a no no when I want to relax. Don’t think, instead listen. Listen and look. Be objective and present in the moment. Thinking is only exciting the ego, taking you to a dreamland that distracts you from reality.

I mean I don’t have a job cause im in my teens but my mindset is just keep going cause whenever I stop everything just gets worse and since I struggle with my mental health that way of thinking helps me a lot

Yup i got the same in my head Randy

Love to see Jack and Cole together on the podcast

I think " I went to the Arsenal Vs Bayern Champions League match" would be a better title

Stressed! I have been in a similar situation that you are in now I’m trying to start a new business and currently have no car I live 3 hours from my daughter so yeah pretty stressed recently. My inside thoughts keep me from being productive but I keep my head up and remember this to shall pass.

My internal monologue is: If you don't do it now, you'll regret it tomorrow (sounds cheesy af but it works) I have mostly been thinking about my KZread videos and my A-level exams. I use the technique of eating the frog which is completing the hardest tasks of the day at the start of the day and being able to relax and enjoy the rest of the day. Usually when I am doing certain tasks I like wearing headphones and having my phone away from me since it allows me to put 100% of my focus on that task. I very rarely get stressed as I just accept what is happening currently and don't think about it a lot. If you want to stop stressing think about a good future and always have that good future in your head as it will act as a sense of positive reinforcement and gives you a reason not to be stressed (apologies for my bad explanation since it is hard to explain)

@Joe-hl2ts

2 ай бұрын

Good luck for your a levels bro I did them last year and they're tough but if you're prepared you'll do fine, I ended up with an A*AB

@tpng69

2 ай бұрын

@@Joe-hl2ts thanks mate, an A*AB is really good, I hope you are pursuing your dream currently in uni or whatever you decide to do in life

@Joe-hl2ts

2 ай бұрын

@@tpng69 I was lucky to be able to pursue one of my dreams after A levels, I took a gap year and spent 3 and a half months traveling asia, best thing i've ever done. Starting uni in september this year!

Man said no gym because I got golf later loooll

Hey bro, I love what you do and I love these vlogs. If I understand correctly, you’re trying to lose weight right? There is a fasting diet but I forget the name of it. Essentially you alternate between 16 and 24 hours of fasting. My father has lost roughly 10kg after 4-5 Months of doing it. Maybe it’s something to have a look at. Anyway, I love you man,you’re looking much better than you used to so keep your head up and continue grinding

Would love to see Spencer & Seb on the pod!

First they say Harry’s doesn’t sleep much so he’s going to die and then this, I don’t understand why they’re trying to scare us about it his health

Cal and Cal are elite guests

give the 4 hour work week by tim ferriss a read, I don't really think you can apply the things he says to your life but I think it will give you a new prespective on working at least

We are working beings, same as most if not all of animal species in the planet. Our consciousness is what causes us to be stressed. If you were in the opposite situation, you would be stressed to do something and be of service and get stuff done. We are wired to work, although granted not 24/7. Take a few days to recalibrate and get back on top of things because it's much better to stress to become better than stress for lack of purpose. Big up you man.

As someone who does food videos, try to collab with Sorted Food or Korean Englishman and Jolly. It will be interesting. They would also make good podcast guests as they would bring something new to the conversation.

need a tracker for the golf ball!!!