My Hmong sisters, please dont cheat if u r not divorce & please dont steal other Hmong sisters' husbands to cheat with. You didnt like it when ur husbands cheat with other women, so dont cause heartache for other sisters too.

@houavue8038

Жыл бұрын

Yes.

@nancyvang8009

Жыл бұрын

Yog kawg!

@maimoua1371

Жыл бұрын

Tattally agreed she no perfect either

@seeyang5951

Жыл бұрын

Yog kawg! These women have no self respect. This is not love.

@meexb6368

Жыл бұрын

Totally agree with you brother Michael.

Viv ncaus aw txhob rawm ntseeg2 ib tug txiv neej siab phem os nws twb siab phem rau nws tus poj niam ne es koj xav tias nws siab zoo no los yog nws siab zoo mas nws tsis muaj poj niam pob cov txiv neej muaj poj niam es tham hluas nkauj cs zoo ib yam li koj Tus txiv xwb os

Your husband is a cheater but you became a homewrecker

@toosay200

Жыл бұрын

A-F'ing-Man! I was feeling sorry for her until she became a hoewreaker. She's just as bad. You can't play the victim card when you a cheat too.

You might think you are happy but you forget to think about that you take the expenses of another woman and her children’s expenses. Everytime you are with this cheater you take his family time and his children time do you understand? What an evil woman. If you are going to cheat why not do with a single man?

Haig tau zoo hv li o niam laug aw

Haig tau zoo hv li o niam laug aw xa hmoo kj tag li xb o

I don't understand these woman....your husband cheated on you....why would you do this to another woman?

Dangyum!! Haib tshaj plaws!! 🫰🏻👏👏 nrog koj zoo siab os tus viv ncaus!!

Nyob zoo mas

It’s not love, it’s temptations. If he was truly a good man he wouldn’t cheat on his wife with you.

Zaj neej neeg no tu siab thiab raug siab heev li os

Ua tsaug ntau2 niam tij hais tau raug kuv tshaj li

Niam laus kj hais db neeg zoo mploog hv li o

Tu siab tshaj plaws li os. Lam muaj lub npe muaj txiv xwb…twb tsis muaj neeg nrog yus ua ke, tsis muaj neeg pab yus, tsis muaj neeg ua yus luag, tsis muaj neeg pab yus nqa qhov nyhav li os. Cas kuv lub neej es tsis txawv koj lub li os sister aw…ntshe lwm tiam xwb. Tiam no ces ntshe tsis muaj li os. Xyov puas muaj neeg zoo li lawm.

Yog lawm os 😭😭😭😭😭

My ❤ May’s Thanks for TEACHING mind lady CHEATING!!…🙏❤️👍👏👏👏👏

Kuv nrog koj zoo siab os tu me viv ncaus aw.

I'm speechless about this story. Most likely men like that never last if they can do to they're wife in the future they can do to you also, but Good Luck sister. wreckering your own home ain't worth know your worth.

Cas zaj dab neeg no hais tau zoo heev li os

cheater will always find ways to justify his/her cheating.

Zoo heev li

Maum twm o maum twm aw

hais tau tu siab thiab zoo mloog heev li os kv tus txij tus nkawm kuj tau thuam kv li tus niam tsev no thiab tu siab tshaj thaum yus tus txiv thuam yus tias phem nkauj tus siab tshaj

You're a smart woman. Most Hmong women would just sit and cry.

Zoo heev lis

Cov niag ntsej muag txiv neej hmoob siab phem siab dub quav dev...thuam yus li thuam yus xwb...yog ua tau li koj ua ces yog tshaj plaws li o yom..thov qhuas koj o..keej tshaj li..ua li koj ua Los yeej phim nws kawg li lawm thiab ma

Tu niam no ua tau hauj lwm zoo heev kuv mas nyiam tiag2 li os yog li os li no nyuam qhuav phim txiv neej xwb...Yeah yeah...👍👍👍❤💪💪

The lady in this story makes me sick. Your marriage is dysfunctional so you're wrecking another sister's marriage? You don't need more men, you need psychological help. Get a divorce first if you don't plan to be on the news that you're dead due to infidelity.

@younglee3915

Жыл бұрын

👏🏼 👏🏼 👏🏼 Agree 💯!!! So many praising her but it’s nothing to be proud of.

Wow... thov qhuas koj nawb me viv ncaus xav kom peb cov poj niam ua tau li koj es txhob quaj2 rau lawv os..

@zengguigui1188

Жыл бұрын

yog ma niam laus txiv neej lub siab phem heev li peb cov poj niam no yuav tau hlub peb tu kheej thiab os

Leej muam dai2 siab, Kuv nyon no os

Emotional abused..sister glad you found happiness 💃💪

Yog kawg koj hai yog tshaj plaw li lawm os

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏zoo mloog ta ta li nej ma thiaj li txawj ua lo sib phim tiag2 !!

Nyuaj lawm Lau kuv poj niam

YES kj ua tau zoo kg lawm

Ua tsaug qhov koj muaj peev xwm ua tau txhua yam pauj txoj kev chim rau peb poj niam tam sis no peb yuav tsum tau xyaum muaj peev xwm li txiv neej thiaj saib taus peb

Ok

Wow…. Cas hais tau easy ua luam nas! He got what he deserved. Most Hmong man are very mentally abusive to their wife. Mine also. But I Dnt have the courage to cheat like that on my ex hubby. At the end. We didn’t work out and he choose a Hmong plog lady. I think I’m happy where I’m at. Just being single and to have my grandkids make me happier than catering to a man.

Waiting for part 2 with Your Bf. Good luck

@bosslady8498

Жыл бұрын

Murder -suicide on the news soon . 😂

@ThePrincessWorrior

Жыл бұрын

Even if she won’t end up with the bf, it’s still better than living in hell. Bf helped her have the courage and see her self worth. That’s all it matters.

zoo tshaj plaws li nawb

ฉันชอบสิ่งที่คุณทำ ยอดเยี่ยมมาก สามีเก่าของคุณสมควรได้รับสิ่งนี้แล้ว อยากให้ผู้หญิงทุกคน ทำแบบนี้ กับ สามีที่นอกใจ

One man's junk is another man's treasure

Zoo kawg li

Very true sister. You did well. Proud of you. For those who shame you will never understand. Happy for you

Txiv neej ces yeej yos li koj kaws thaum yus tuas siab lawm lawm mam khoo ces tu siab dhau lawm os viv ncaus aw

Just bc your husband committed adultery doesn’t mean you can/should commit adultery too. We sin to God, not other people.

@myprecious6751

11 ай бұрын

LMFAO two wrong doesn't make it right, but then it's a two-way street. It would've been better she just divorce her husband and move on. Instead of playing cat and mouse cheating on each other. But understand that when a person have put up and tolerated enough is enough.

Pauj kua zaub ntsuab tau zoo kawg nkaus ..cov txiv neej no siab phem dhau lawm zais siab nyiag ntsis mus tsuav ntsuag sab nraum xwb..peb cov niam tsev los nrog cov txiv khwv khwv rau lub neej kawg tabsis cov txiv dev siab phem no ho coj pojnrauj mus siv nyiaj, mus motel, mus noj qab2 yuav tej khoom khim pub pojnrauj xwb tseg peb mob siab quaj txhua sijhawm nyob tsaus ntuj nti nrog lub kuamuag si..peb tsis muaj peevxwm mus ua pauj nej cov muaj peevxwm li no kav tsij nrog txiv neej sib tw ua seb leejtwg yog tus swb thaum kawg os.. kom lawv thiaj li paub txog tias mob npaum licas..

Good job.

Wow cas koj yuav leej heev li..you will have part 2 one day with your new man.

Zoo kawg yog peb cov poj niam muaj peev xwm li ko

Niam ntsuab teev aws zaj no ma zoo kiag li kv ntag os kv tu txiv ma coj zoo li tu txiv neej ntawm ko ntag ho

Wow sounds like my life!!

Niam laus koj ua yog lawm os koj mas thib ib kiag lawm nawb yuav tsum ua li koj mas thiaj haum txiv neej siab ho

Noj mov cuav zos yeej qab dua os

This story sure seems like dejavu. It's sad and love seems to never goes as planned. Thank you for sharing your story. Love oneself more is the best.

Cas yuav raug kuv siab ua luaj os...sim neej no kuv to taub koj zoo heev os..cas tu siab ua luaj ..kawg yuav ua thaj no xwb thiaj xav ua neeg nyob os...laus lawm los txoj kev hlub yeej tseem ntshaw2 mog lawv..

U don’t need another man to revive u. Don’t need to jump from one man to another. If u have enough self-love & prioritized urself, u would’ve left a long time ago. This woman is still too dependent on a man making her feel good about herself.

So the lady is a fish, that's cool.

Great 👍! I’m glad it worked out for this lady.

Kuv xav mas tej zaum koj zoo nkauj daim tawv xwb ntshe yeej ruam tiag pob raws kuv mloog li hais.

Viv ncaus kuv tus txiv ces thuam kuv thiab ib sim neej yeej g qhua kuv ib zaug li

Lawv qhua dag kom tau nrog yus pw xwb os, koj tseem paub txov neej lub siab tsawg xwb os, lawv yeej tsis qhua tiag tiag na

Divorce once filed and served, court can make it effective even if a party refuses. If it’s that bad, now that you’ve gotten the courage and realized your self worth, make it count; even if you won’t end up with that bf. Txhob nqos qub qaub ncaug, txhob cug qub phev.

2 wrongs don't & cant make it right. Now that your story is out, I would suggest for you to be aware at all times and be safe. Too many end up dead for this exact reason and it's not worth it!

@monicaxyooj905

Жыл бұрын

Exactly! She's playing with fire 🔥

Yog kawg kuv lub neej zoo ib yam koj lub tiag kuv muaj tu hlub kuv yam koj thiab kuv xa ua neeg nyob ib yam koj hais

Amen sister

This is exactly us women's heart n thoughts when our husband betrayed us cheated with another women. Once we have enough n done being hurts. Once we go we will never returned. They started the way n road we just follow. I'm happy you are strong to do what you do sister

You did everything right, I’m so proud of you sister .

@itsamandahs

Жыл бұрын

Except that she was messing with a married man.

@bosslady8498

Жыл бұрын

There nothing to be proud here … she’s cheating with a married man and being a hoe and still married . 🤦🏻‍♀️ Two wrong make no right .

Whatever men can do now days, we women can as well. Life isn’t fair guys. Good job to this lady to finally know your worth

You’re just as bad as your husband too! Cheating with a married man 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ Karma is waiting for all of you guys.

Grass doesn’t always greener on the other side there’s will be more headaches ahead, is only good when still singles or not yet yours

Your bf cheated on his wife with you, disrespected you while you’re still with your spouse. Bc if he respects you he won’t place you in that situation. In conclusion, he doesn’t love you, it’s only lust not love.

@ooinkssies1142

Жыл бұрын

But his wife is also seeing someone else so… it’s a win-win situation 😂

@SkyFlower-ug9lm

Жыл бұрын

Well as long as she's happy. Her husband doesnt deserve her at times like this. She should've left him. So happy she gave him his own medicine

@NyabK2022

Жыл бұрын

I agree!!

@ooinkssies1142

Жыл бұрын

@PhoojYwg lmao fr. She starting to sound like a hmong man on here. Calm your tits

@houavue8038

Жыл бұрын

@@ooinkssies1142 that's just what he told her. She sounds like she was making excuses to why she did what she did. She's no better then her husband. Why would you hurt

Too many of these stories tells me are many more out there

What a beautiful story . All I can say is that you deserve better and congratulations with your new love. May God bless you both to the end. Do not turn back just keep going and enjoy life.

Txwj nkawv siab lim hiam, siab nyoos ces xeeb ceem zoo li no- Dhau ntawv, J dim yeej yog tus J loj tas li. Pluas noj twg, yog pluas tshiab ces qab txhua2 zaus.

Divorce before cheating to avoid getting killed 🤦‍♀️

Your husband cheated on you and it hurt you so why would you go cheat with another man just like your husband who also cheated on his wife? We Hmong sisters need to love another Hmong sister not to cheat with another woman's husband. I can't sympathy with you because you ruined another sister's marriage.

If you’re not happy then leave. Don’t cheat and stay.

Txoj kev hlub lus zoo lus muag txhua tus niam tsev yeej ntshaw.

Hi May, love your daily stories.. keep them coming.. To the Niam Tsev of this story, Im sorry your husband treated you badly and agreed with you not taking him back. However, I don't agree with you cheating as well, knowingly your bf has a wife, regardless of their relationship status.

There are a lot of Hmong men who are psychological abusive, and we allow it by telling the women its okay when its not. We continue to teach women to settle for the bare minimum bc the men wont do better.

Yog lawm os niam laus kuv tug txiv los kuj zoo li ko thiab

As much as everyone frowns upon cheaters, sometimes it can’t be helped. When someone treats u better and cares for you, you kind of sway their way and realize. You can be loved too. It’s so sad that as woman in the Hmong community we should just wait for the man till he’s done cheating on us, then he’ll come back! I’m glad she cheated, she would of never knew she could be loved, n had to live that miserable life never knowing happiness. People can keep saying she should of got divorced first. Well your not in her shoes n your not her. Fate has it’s way, sometimes this is the only way to make people see they deserve better and can have better! Love yourself first❤

Zoo qhov koj muaj tus tshiab tiam sis tsis zoo yg qhov koj Tham lawv tus txiv thiab vim koj ua rau tus sab tov lawm thiab ne

Koj tseem mus txeeb luag li xwb ces koj yeej tsis Yog ib tug neeg zoo. Yog koj zoo tiag yeej tsis ua rau lwm tus poj niam

@toosay200

Жыл бұрын

Pojniam ruam ces pab tsis tau.

When you are the hmong man, destroyer of love and not care at all like this lady's husband. What you say or do is to late when you realize she doesn't care about you anymore. Shes had enough and shes moving on. Few hmong men will never understand that her love, happiness and sexual desire for another man is better, stronger and so more beautiful than what she's ever experienced with you is the reason shes never turning back, it's over. She'll fear nothing, not even threats. Shes willing to die for that man that she loves because life is important to her and youre not. You will lose on all counts so it's better to let go. That woman is no longer yours no matter how hard you try, it's the end. To the lady of this story. It's great you found a new love, a new man and a new life. To hmong men out there. Untold secret... The next guy will love your ex more than you ever had. She will do the things she's never done with you because new experiences are always the best. He will treat her right, be fair to her and make sure she'll never remember you. That's life.

Yus tuaj piav yus txoj kev liam kev xyob txhiaj xwb es yus zoo siab dab tsi na

Txhob ua neeg ruam nawb. Luag lo lus zoo tsuas yog hais los txias Koj lub pov haum xwb. Txhob mus ntseeg ib tus neeg uas tseem muaj poj Niam es muab nws txoj kev hlub fab rau Koj. Ib hnub twg ces Koj lub kua muag yuav poob. Txiv neej ces yeej xav noj ntau, yog koom pub dawb ces luag yeej kawg noj xwb

@toosay200

Жыл бұрын

Yog kawg. Pog no tseem ruam zog lawm. Tos nws tus txiv cem nws os.

They r all wasting each other times.. just leave each other.. this is the new century…. We all understand..

Thisy favorite teller story.

Tus txiv neej muaj poj niam tham tau koj ces zoo tsis txawv koj tus txiv nkauj nraug ces ham tsis hais zoo kom tau noj xwb ma los

Saj tau rab loj dua lawm mas tsi guav ntsej rab gub uas me lawd haj haj

Muaj pes tsawg tus poj niam uas li koj uas. Thaum yus mus tau yooj yim, hos tsis mus, yuav nyob2 kom rov raug tsim txom ib tom ntxiv no ces hos yuav mus. Tej tug ces twb mus tsis tau thiab. Yog poj niam hmoob uas li no xawb ces yuav niaj hnub hnov cov dab neeg no tsis txawj tag li os

Zaj no ces nej 4 tug nyias txaus nyias siab nrhiav kev kaj siab ces kuj zoo lawm thiab….

I'm listening to this story thinking when she will divorce her husband. She went on too long with that man.

@ThePrincessWorrior

Жыл бұрын

Many women have such low self worth that they think they deserve that toxic marriages, that’s why they stay. Until someone make them realize, they then have the courage to leave.

Tsis mloog ntxiv lawm nyem cov comments no xwb ces tau lawm. Koj yeej tsis sawm zoo. Yog zoo tiag tsis rhuav lwm tus poj niam

❤️❤️❤️🌺🌺🌺

Peb ib txia poj niam tau tus txiv zoo li no cov muaj peev xwm ces ua tau ho cov tsis muaj pheev xwm ces tseem niaj hnub nyob lub neej tsaus2 ntuj tsis muaj suab luag li os lawv

Tus niam tsev cas kv lub neej g txawv kj lub deb kiag li os g tag kev cia siab os mog Nws g paub tias tseem muaj ib tug meeg sab tov tos2 yus ib nplooj siab g lwj es ua hnub ua hmo xav lo lus zoo tuaj txhawb siab g tseg yus nco nws Noj g qab pw g tsaug zog Niag hauv tseg g hlub yus tab g kam nrauj yus es yus nim hnov tau tias laj nrog nws nyob lam ua lub neej qaug2 zog g muaj kev hlub os

Like to hear from the husband side of story lol