Here's how to regain your freedom in relationships | Dr. Henry Cloud

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Do you feel like your relationships are limiting your freedom? In this video, Dr. Henry Cloud explores how many of us may not feel truly free within our relationships. You may find yourself not being able to make decisions for yourself, with someone else controlling what should be your choices. Do you have relationships where you feel unable to make choices without losing love, facing guilt trips, or dealing with pouting and feelings of abandonment? Dr. Cloud shares strategies for regaining your freedom by establishing healthy boundaries to limit others' control over you.
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  • @atdepaulis
    @atdepaulis2 ай бұрын

    I am glad to hear you say that!! “Terrible twos “.. I am the only one I know that absolutely LOVES the 2-3 yr age group!! They are trying to go all over.. trying to learn to communicate in words.. get frustrated… keep trying… it’s a beautiful age to me! Finally I “meet” another person that agrees! Haha ❤

  • @sharonstephens9341

    @sharonstephens9341

    2 ай бұрын

    I was that way too! I loved the 2 year old stage, didn’t like the phrase “terrible twos”!

  • @suavehit

    @suavehit

    Ай бұрын

    Exactly. My two boys were adorable during that 2, 3 year old age.

  • @amylewis4977

    @amylewis4977

    Ай бұрын

  • @myramyczka8208
    @myramyczka8208Ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom and knowledge with us on this KZread format. I know I've been blessed by your work for years. I pray God's continued blessing on your life.

  • @82lucysue
    @82lucysue2 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for being the person you are. I have had basically no contact with my two adult daughters and my 14 and nine-year-old granddaughters due to being extremely codependent with narcissistic fleas stuck to me. I did not see it. A year ago my oldest daughter cut some of the cord and I was devastated. However, it opened my eyes to the generations of mother daughter behavior in my bloodline. I needed to change. So but I was unsure how. I found you and a woman on youtube and have been working diligently on me and my own identity. And, today my youngest daughter contacted me and wanted to talk, I’ve watched every thing you have out there and I seek the Lord daily. I want them to know that they are free to be themselves and I am free to be me and we are always a family. Thank you again for sharing your wisdom

  • @sh6460

    @sh6460

    2 ай бұрын

    Thank you for your honesty. I have dysfunction in myself and foo, am desiring to grow, learn, have healthier responses. Sounds like you have come a long ways.

  • @82lucysue

    @82lucysue

    2 ай бұрын

    @@sh6460 it’s hard and you’re gonna ugly cry a lot! But every time, God steps in and fills me with healing. The next day I feel stronger and think, I’ve got it, until the next realization and it’s back to ugly crying and healing it’s been the hardest most incredible time in my life. I am making healthy boundaries for myself and learning my identity. I’ve been at it since last July 4. If you ever want to chat. I am here. ✨

  • @jennifermary4872
    @jennifermary48722 ай бұрын

    Good word, thx Henry!!

  • @SusanDonoho
    @SusanDonoho2 ай бұрын

    Dr. Cloud is an amazing counselor in several areas.

  • @bobbiemichaelsNyc86
    @bobbiemichaelsNyc862 ай бұрын

    Wow you really hit home plate to my Heart. I never really got to choose God for myself. Like the example grandfathered in powerful point of reference. Hmmm food for thought 🤔 Can you make a video explaining that a little more in depth I grew up with alot of religious trauma.

  • @cqs1027
    @cqs10272 ай бұрын

    This is SOOOO Great!!!

  • @jane77722
    @jane777222 ай бұрын

    This is SO right on!

  • @bobbiemichaelsNyc86
    @bobbiemichaelsNyc862 ай бұрын

    How can I miss you if you never go away 😂😂😂😂

  • @bridgeegibson2790
    @bridgeegibson27902 ай бұрын

    Thankyou very much that was very helpful reinforcement of what I am learning. I would love to hear you teach on church/spiritual abuse

  • @lisaburton6891
    @lisaburton68912 ай бұрын

    Thanks, needed to hear this today.

  • @gisforme5032
    @gisforme50322 ай бұрын

    I came from a awful home. At 14 I figured out how I could leave their home early. So I graduated early and went to college. They continued to be controlling as I was still only 17. I got married at 19, figuring that THAT would force them to change. It didn't in many, many areas of my life. When I was in ED tx for the 10th time (I went to tx as an adult as no kid of their's needed to see a therapist, etc) I came to the realization that because they hadn't and foreseeable future showed no change of them - I cut the umbilical cord. It was sad, difficult and uncomfortable for me for a while. And then I started getting to make my own decisions "without feeling guilty." I also learned that guilt is AN EMOTION not a medical condition!! I even had to tell my mother this when so many of her statements started with: "I feel so guilty...." I also had to let her know that it's not "one glass of wine when you keep filling it!" Today I still struggle with my illness (ED, etc) but just day's before I'll be 49, I'm healthier than I ever was under their care. GREAT message Doc!!!

  • @JesusSaves77799

    @JesusSaves77799

    2 ай бұрын

    Hi! What is ED tx please? Thanks! 🌸

  • @gisforme5032

    @gisforme5032

    2 ай бұрын

    @JesusSaves77799 I apologize for my poor communication. ED is Eating Disorder and tx is treatment. Thank you for asking me to clarify what I was trying to say 🫶

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