I swear, Yeongja is the best thing on this show these days, she starting to speak up and call out what is wrong with the situation. When she called the first guy out and he backed down. 😂

@wolfkanna9983

4 жыл бұрын

but he never said he was a manly man they did...

When you used to watch Hello Counselor for the idols that came as guest and now you're addicted to the show no matter who the guest is...

If i had a dime every time a wife came on the show for her alcoholic husband; i would be a millionaire by now, Korea has a deep seeded alcohol problem which is not even recognise. These people need AA groups and genuine counselling. My heart goes out to all the wives affected by this issue.

@sudimohamed8571

7 жыл бұрын

hephburn what is even more bizzare how he manages to go to work. its paffling. one think that stand out in koreans is that when they meet someone for the first time they ask how strong drinker they are. and somehow they all look perfect from outside. in europe people who drink that much have very rough look, bad skin and teeth and eventually they lose job and home. but these koreans look normal which is mystery.

@MS-df8ss

7 жыл бұрын

hephburn right, same in the U.S Most heavy drinkers over here cannot continue to function through life and you can tell by how they look that they have issues with alcohol. Like hair teeth and skin.

@CottidaeSEA

7 жыл бұрын

They say they drink to reduce stress, but how stressed wouldn't they be when they only get two hours of sleep because they were up drinking and go to the job still drunk?

@blue_pullover

7 жыл бұрын

hephburn drinking in Korea is a culture, while there are many who overdo the problem... don't compare it to the alcoholics of the rest of the world im nt saying they are better or worse, they just fall into a different character

@4leaffy

7 жыл бұрын

almost every episode there's one concern related to alcohol. From the father to husband to son... soju, beer, wine and even homemade alcohol...

the husbands are terrible really,nothing new,but can we appreciate Yeongja?Everytime she loses her patience with a stubborn guest a fairy gains it's wings back,seriously,she didn't speak up like this in older episodes,I'm glad she does it more often nowadays

WHEN THE OLDER BROTHER GOT ASKED IF HE WOULD DRINK WHEN HE GROWS UP AND HE STARTED SMILING ISTG LMAO

Korea really has a serious alcohol problem. They really need to do something about it. The amount of drunk husbands that come on this show is insane

@CottidaeSEA

7 жыл бұрын

Their alcohol culture is insane. I get it if they drink once in a while, but if I drank alcohol more than 10 times a year, I'd say it's too much. Yet people in South Korea find it acceptable to drink 3 times a week?

@kimjongun7734

7 жыл бұрын

they have a serious problem with being able to handle alcohol I'm 18, and I can drink straight for 2 hours and still be myself

@CottidaeSEA

7 жыл бұрын

The thing about drinking alcohol is that you should make sure to not get dehydrated, not drink on an empty stomach, and to spread out the drinking. If you're thirsty, drink some water, alcohol will only make it worse. Bad drinkers don't. Most people are bad drinkers, but as long as they can handle themselves well, I'm not really going to care about it.

@safakfrank3776

7 жыл бұрын

Werewolf211 why do people drink in the first place? do their parents teach them that once the reach a certain age they should drink? why arent they disgusted of it if they know its filtered off worms.

@CottidaeSEA

7 жыл бұрын

Filtered off worms? Not sure what you're talking about, because that's far from what alcohol is. Still, I don't know why people drink. My parents barely drink alcohol, and I barely drink alcohol, so I guess that has something to do with it. You learn from your surroundings, but I've been in a surrounding where alcohol isn't really present.

iam so worried about these kids growing up around alcohol, seeing their parents wasted and the argue battle between their parents. kids shouldnt be exposed to any drugs. these kids are crying and in pain. my heart goes to these kids.

@safakfrank3776

7 жыл бұрын

Sudi Mohamed kids will be alcohol addict too like their father...but later the father will be upset and complain about it

@butthatsnoneofmybusiness399

7 жыл бұрын

Well stop worrying bitch

@tingle2323

3 жыл бұрын

These ppl in the name of moderness normalise drinking, smoking so much that future generations is also become like this

Why is the last dude so eager to get a girlfriend when he's only like.21? He shouldn't just date anyone because they're female, but actually wait until he founds someone he likes. plus what girl is gonna want to date a guy that has been in a date with basically all the girls in their vicinity? They're obviously gonna think he's a playboy or something. He should just focus on being happy alone and not obsessing over having a girlfriend.

@norag1990

7 жыл бұрын

Jeffery from California very well said. he should take things a step at a time. And he definitely sounds like a playboy. Women aren't the same. We are all different. And I'm pretty sure most of us won't date a guy just because of the sake of it. He has to genuinely like the person.

@pandawirefly

7 жыл бұрын

Pressure. He pretty much called himself weird because he hadn't kissed anybody at his age. He obviously feels pressured to do something he's not ready for.

The last concern got me in tears!! 😂😂🤣🤣 he just need to find a girl he vibes well with and then take it from there. He too young to be having these kind of problems lol

I feel sorry for Korean wives they treat them like maids take care of the kids cook me food wth

@CottidaeSEA

7 жыл бұрын

Agreed. It's one thing if that's their own choice, but to force them into it is just wrong.

@bangtanbutterfly2141

7 жыл бұрын

tbh the whole Asian marriage life is like tht

@blue_pullover

7 жыл бұрын

Proud Muslimah Alhamdulilah uuhm... a show about PROBLEM families is hardly representative of a modern nation

@peach8982

7 жыл бұрын

bangtan butterfly you're wrong and generalizing

@butthatsnoneofmybusiness399

7 жыл бұрын

Lol shut up

Aww! The younger brother in the 1st concern is so adorable! His face at 25:26 when his dad promised he'd quit drinking for a month is so cute!

I don't know if I just have a different view on marriage, but I don't understand why these women (and sometimes men) stay with their partners for so long. Like I get that divorce is a big thing and a last resort but many of the men say they'll change and never do. Why don't they just divorce them. The second man and first man were just mind blowingly selfish, why someone would stay with them is beyond me.

@eternalsunshine9010

7 жыл бұрын

Akilah Blair bc of their children

@anitadiep159

7 жыл бұрын

Cuz the older generation still have a mindset of not leaving each other even though they don't like each other anymore. They mainly do it because they don't want their children to have divorced parents but it's also looked down on by other people which is a pretty big deal in some asian cultures.

@keksdose4250

7 жыл бұрын

It's actually not that easy. A divorce itself is quite costly and you have to prepare for a lot of paperwork and stuff. You need a new apartment and earn enough money to be able to stand on your own feed - and the wifes who usually take the children are in the need to support them. I do share your opinion but I also think that sometimes it might be more convenient for the woman to stay where she is.

@irinashvorin9784

7 жыл бұрын

Akilah Blair for the kids, maybe financially not stable alone, and socialy not acceptable. people dont look with a good eye on second marriages.Its a cultural thing. Its the asian mentality. Its a whole different world,veiws and morals.

@abby4115

7 жыл бұрын

It's sad but true. On top of that women don't have the same opportunities in South Korea so sadly these women literally need men sometimes to provide for their family.

The guy in the last concern needs to just relax and slow down on his girlfriend hunt. I'm pretty sure the girls he dated were not interested in him. Also, why the rush? He's only 21 y.o. Are dating, kissing and holding hands very essential to survive? I don't think so. Sometimes I just don't get some people that really are thirsty for a girlfriend/boyfriend. Just chill and be patient. Your only one will come to you sooner or later.

@tingle2323

3 жыл бұрын

True.. I have never has boyfriend but i never thought it is so much needed.. I didn't make myself so hungry or other way for being with someone.. I focus on myself to be in good state

The last dude, don't worry. You're only two years older than me (if he's using his korean age). There are people my age who have never even gone on dates before (aka me xD). Just be patient and surround yourself with people who haven't dated many people either. Hope things work out well for you!

@irinashvorin9784

7 жыл бұрын

Grace Osas of course hes using hes korean age,hes korean in korea

@TonyChoi624

7 жыл бұрын

irina shvorin In this context, you are right. But those celebs and news actually show people's international age. We have a specific term for the international age (만 나이 "Man age"). : )

@DefineMorena

7 жыл бұрын

Tony Choi Yeah, that was what I meant. But I now know that 만 is used when referring to International ages.

@TonyChoi624

7 жыл бұрын

yeah. sometimes it's confusing to us too. So Koreans often just ask when you were born. like 1997 1987. I find this easier haha. : )

@irinashvorin9784

7 жыл бұрын

Tony Choi dude, if i know whats korean age is be sure i know what i international age is..

It's really difficult to listen to the first concern as someone who grew up with a selfish alcoholic father. The situation is all too familiar. His confidence and adoration of himself even though he's clearly a piece of shit is also familiar. Him and people like him treat others as if we have no feelings. He clearly considers himself the only one who's fully human in that house, everyone else is just an afterthought. I was severely affected by my father's alcoholism and his children will be too. I hope she will have the resources to fully leave in the future. That's torture, not life.

@Maialeen

7 жыл бұрын

Also, can't edit so I'll just reply. Him saying that he didn't know his family was so stressed out is a goddamn lie. They ALL know, they just don't care. Just the fact that he's still lying is incredible. There's no future for that family. You can't have a future with someone who always puts himself first, even at the severe detriment of his family.

I just skipped through the first and second concern... How many horrible husbands can there be? I feel for the wives.

i cant stand when i see that children suffer....My blood is boiling.

The third concern guy kinda seems like he could be an obsessive creepy stalker guy.

@meikamazaki

7 жыл бұрын

Right?!

@seolhakim9436

7 жыл бұрын

Justin Kwon I agree 😂

@1125oboe

7 жыл бұрын

Yeah when a guy starts asking you what are you doing, did you eat, etc. 5 minutes after meeting you for the first time it's a little creepy. Plus, he's hunting for a girlfriend just so he can kiss and hug and do stuff like his friends. He needs to actually find someone he likes and try dating her rather than meeting up with 100+ women a year.

@norag1990

7 жыл бұрын

Yep yep. The classic stalker from those dramas.

@patwhw

7 жыл бұрын

''asking you what are you doing, did you eat, etc. 5 minutes after meeting you for the first time'' I've heard several times that this is encouraged tho. Or else it shows that you're not interested.

Too many Koreans come on Annyeong with alcohol problems and the wives usually have to endure so much heartache and pain from the husbands because it's taking too much time & focus away from their family life, kids etc at home. It's very sad and annoying. Someone needs to come to realization that alcoholism is a serious issue in Korea that needs to be addressed appropriately. Korea's drinking culture may be linked to a multitude of situations such as stress from work and or depression because of overall daily society, fears of failure etc.

PLEASE GIVE LOTS OF LOVE TO ROSE MOTEL, THEY ARE AN AMAZING BAND !!!!! Two great songs to get to know them : Please call me oppa and I'll get off

The last guy reminds me a bit of Jin from BTS he likes to eat, likes dad jokes and he laughs at his own jokes

@irinashvorin9784

7 жыл бұрын

Marolyn Gomez true i though about him too. but jin isnt shy at all and pretty full of himself

@marolyngomez7953

7 жыл бұрын

true :)

@atinyxstay4ever413

7 жыл бұрын

Marolyn Gomez and suho from exo 😂😂

I love Rose Motel 💛💛💛 Legit the group you could chill with and have so much fun. otherwise, my unnie Yeong Ja....killing it as usual 💯💯

Why do I feel like all these husbands don't understand the role of a husband and a father? I don't think when they decided to get married and have a family how much they would have to sacrifice. How can they be so selfish? How come is it women can be so willing to give up everything for their family bt most men can't?

I really love this show !

the woman from the second concern is gorgeous!

I never knew Park Minji was this awesome! c:::

OMG I watched Jeni Juno about 10 years ago and the film was great!!! 💕💕💕💕

the last dude about the 130 date concern, one of his friend he invited (the middle one) is rly cute 😂😂😍😍

I hope it doesn't influence the kids (that's my main concern), but there are too many alcoholic husbands in general on this show. It's time for a wake up call.

I love Yeongja this episode, she faced the drunk husband so well!

park min ji❤rwally admired hope you came to many variety show

I can't believe he got rejected for 130 times. Wow

is Hello Counselor always posted on Tuesday now?

I REMEMBER JENNI AND JUNO! LOL

I think the parenting is a big problem in korea. yes, it's truly frustrating seeing those problematic husbands, men. But to narrow down those problems, the major struggling is that mostly man( some women) don't think their weird obsessions, or certain habits causes really big trouble to other people like family, wife, kids, friends, colleges... how could a person so into it's own world, and really insist and stubborn on it? it feels like they are only living for their obsession, that is actually a scary reality! they're not only suffocating others, but themselves are also victims of anxiety, obsession! I think korean should really have an alert on that！don't be stubborn on an old idea which will stuck them in Vicious cycle. they should actively engaging to change the situation. instead of push and test people's nerves until the struggles turn into serious trouble. A TV show like" Hello, counselor" will do just a little help on each case they can approach to, but they don't have that much power to change entire situation.... People are just too passive, lazy and not being responsible in resolving their problem.

At my job I get at least two customers A DAY telling that I should get a glass of wjne, take a few shots, smoke, when I finish my shift. So my lil old job with how much stress it is I can kind of understand what would drive one to becoming a heavy drinker

@peko7446

7 жыл бұрын

my co-worker and I would stop by a bar to get a couple of drinks to get a little buzz before heading home after a very stressful day at work. If you drink enough on a daily basis, you do build a higher alcohol tolerance. The only thing that prevents me from drinking a lot of alcohol is the calories in them.

No offense but whenever there are drinking problems, I don't think they realize how hard it can actually be to quit and that they need to be checked daily. It is very easy for people to relapse at any day even if they had stayed sober for years.

you know why i clicked on this?.. to say, that this woman in the thumbnail has a cute hairstyle! :3 edit: this woman = park minji ^^

How I try to drink less soda a week before I'm legal to drink Just watch Hello Counselor

out of curiosity if a girl asked him out, but she said she doesn't wanna do anything physcial till after marriage, do you think he'd reject her? Like is he looking for a girl, or is he just looking for something physcial ?

i love the drunk guy's kids, particularly the one with the orange shirt he's adorable and smart. i wish his fam the best. i know it's been a couple months since so i wonder how they've been. And the kid in the last concern...he's cute but way too obsessive to find a gf. It's not like he's looking for a girl b/c he likes her, but he just wants "experience". Plus it's a turn off that he's met more than 100. =_= Once this guy asked me out bc he was eager to date too (i'd witnessed him asking other girls right in front of me!) but i turned him down. i felt bad about it but i really shouldn't have felt that bad bc it doesn't make sense to ask out someone u barely have talked to or know all random! i think that desperation isn't appealing. girls see it. it should be bc ur LIKED or they LIKE u a lot that u should date, not bc ur just interested in the dating _process_

Tae Joon's voice here is dammn nice!!

i never understand why people stay in unhappy marriages.theres no way i wouldve been better off alone or when im single, but im going to stay married and struggle financially because of someone whos selfish and immature. its not just hurting you,it hurts the children also...they didnt ask to be born....ugh

the last guy was cute af and handsome too

First time to be this early

Kyudong's so cute 😆

I'm feeling bad for the wife in second concern as you can see she didn't smile in entire episode. She is holding a lot inside that may be definitely blast one day.

The last concern, his friend in the middle kinda looks like Hansol(ToppDogg) n his voice sounds like Yongguk(BAP) 😍.. BTW it's just my opinion.. (love bang's deep voice tho 😍)

the first husband is so full of himself😒😒

i like dongyeops sweater

得意万里子さんクォンサンウさん好き残って愛して忘れない

I've never been this early

I'm here for Rosemotel purposes

Concern 1 = 3:21 Concern 2 = 26:21 Concern 3 = 48:22

the chubby kid looks like psy he's so cute omg

What!!!!!! she's Jany? Jany, Jono was my favourite movie. But watched the movie 1 years ago. Because, I'm a teenager.

The 2nd one would be better off as an interior designer

idk i would date the guy in 3rd concern he seems sweet 🙃

The first guy reminds me of my dad and that's exactly the reason why my mom and dad are no longer together

Tbh if a guy came to a date and stuffed his face I would only feel more comfortable and less pressured. But there would have to be a set date first lol he can't just show up randomly

المشكلة الاولی احزن عليها الزوجة كلو بسبب الخمر عشان كذا ربي حرمها حمدالله ع نعمة الاسلام .

for the second concern just play the sims if you like decorating and renovating xD it really helps

yasss MINZY NANONINANO.....👑

I really don't get why people notice these behaviour, yet proceed with the marriage...whatever you find annoying will only become stressful after marriage....Then instead of being married to your soul mate...you will be married to your cell mate...do not think you can change a person...

This is the girl from Jeni and Juno? I cant even recognise her!!She was so lovely in the movie

the first concern it's remained me of my dad they are they same drinking hobbit it's really tiring watching parent fighting in front of their kid's coz it's not really good.. I khnow coz I experience that so many time and I hate it..

can somebody give me the social media account of Lee (the last guy) i'm in love with him

the last guy has social networks??

あけましてございます。

kim min ji looks like marian rivera omgg

Hello counselor should be renamed marriage counselor

I'm beginning to believe Asia is the birthplace of shitty dads and husbands. and My two favorite hosts! Yeonja and Taejoon! 😁😁😁😁

@peko7446

7 жыл бұрын

not depending these lousy husbands, but if I'm to believe your blanket statement about Asia being the "birthplace of shitty dads and husbands" then would it be reasonable to say following your logic, that all those KPOP idols/celebrities that international fans adore would turn out to be "shitty dads and husbands" in the future?

@santoniaboyd1577

7 жыл бұрын

peko peko One, that comment wasn't meant to be taken seriously, Two, I don't know. Anybody can turn into a shitty dad and husband at any given time, in the future. If I truly believed my "blanket statement" about terrible male parents/spouses in Asia I wouldn't be a fan of Taejoon or ANY male married Asian in for that matter. 😒 I'm not dumb enough to think that an entire continent only produces terrible males. Calm down.

@FOLIPE

7 жыл бұрын

peko peko It not like they are all that popular outside of Asia either bte

Sorry but who are rose motel ㅎㅅㅎ

Can I date that guy in the last concern?? I'm 21 too 😃 He seems to be pure straightforward and sweet.. Can we b friends 😅😂

why is this not the new episode? this is laste weeks episode....

@trinitywidmann7295

7 жыл бұрын

marihan ayoub KBS usually uploads the video a week later, I think

@ishanamaini6868

7 жыл бұрын

next one is out on kshowonline, KBS youtube always uploads this show and a few others one week later

@trinitywidmann7295

7 жыл бұрын

Ishana Maini I was right. It always confused me

@jaspreetdayal8366

7 жыл бұрын

marihan ayoub thank you

@ericsetiady4928

2 жыл бұрын

Sudah gratis banyak komplain pula

I really want Shin Dongyeops sweater and to beat those husbands.

Should i say korea really support drinking and smoking.. Because the way, couple or family is coming for problem happening because of these is so much.. They should really not promote it.. Because they talk so easily and coolly about drinking and smoking like it is their cocacola

The last guy is freaking cute lol I'm impatient myself but too shy to hit on guys lol Date meee korean boii😂

@blessedbarnes471

7 жыл бұрын

Sasha Lopez facts hes everything i look for in a guy😻 looks and behavior

@safakfrank3776

7 жыл бұрын

Blessed barnes maybe there is more that they didnt share and discuss. maybe he asks the girl where she lives and want to sleep with her and already act like a boyfriend, like forcing himself as a boyfriend on her. while she didnt decide yet to be his girfriend. and maybe he is obsessive and a stalker.

Last concern surprise 36 votes, even 10 votes is laughing stock.. That guy is sexualy curiosity not emotionaly feel love for girl

I can't believe people were laughing in the first concern, it's so fucking disgusting

I think the last one is because of his friends he couldnt get to date the girl more.

The guy from Rose Motel looks soooo much better without his ratty beard I always knew he could do it I'm so happy he got rid of it I love Rose Motel songs but man I hated his hair

I dont understand why people drink in the first place.. why are they disgusted and afraid of worms but can manage to drink worm filtered liquids.

Rose Motel are married?! NOOOOO!

ネット音

all these irresponsible husbands -_-

its so funny

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ok i had to comment after watch the first two concerns. wth is wrong with these husbands?!?They are self fish and are in no shape to be the head of the family. The two wives need to divorce them and move on with their lives. They deserve better and it honestly sounds like they have checked out of the relationship emotionally a while ago....

if i didn't just like girls, id so have dated the last guy! he's good-looking, cute, funny (to me), his voice is so nice and he seems like a total cutie. i hope he finds someone lovely that'll treat him well & he will treat well!

@snowysnowwish

7 жыл бұрын

Safak Frank LMAO YES

no wonder korea has such a low birth rate, marriage must be seem like a nightmare for a young woman. kinda sad though since they had one of the most modern and beautiful country

@MinteeMusic

3 жыл бұрын

This be true but also because the amount of alcohol people consume makes pregnancies hard as well.

Sigh the husband needs to stick his legs together.... He's just working his wife to the bone bc he wants to be comfortable.

You should have blackpink on the show

남편 진짜 싸가지 장난 아니네

クォン・サンウそっくり駄目

@user-go3yj3xv7z

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オモある

@user-go3yj3xv7z

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難しい受ける

@user-go3yj3xv7z

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又ヒトして怖くなゎ

@user-go3yj3xv7z

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クォン・サンウそっくり妻いる

@user-go3yj3xv7z

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有吉ワラビ