I am enough... I am lovable ❤️ I love myself ❤️

NOTES: 3 Main Problems: 1) You keep attracting the same type. We like what is familiar. He reminds you of your dad/ caretaker. This caretaker was distant; cold. 2) They want someone else to make their life better & fix their life. 3) If you don't feel lovable inside, you can't make another love you. You sabotage the relationship & try to bring the end earlier. Tell yourself: I will make men who love me & treat me well familiar. List the behavior that is familiar BUT is not good & that you want to change & make "unfamiliar". List the unfamiliar w/c you want to be familiar. Instead of making a man fall in love w/ you, fall in love w/ yourself & feel lovable. It's easier for others to fall in love w/ you when you love yourself. Your mind wants what is familiar. Confidence is sexy. Neediness is not sexy. Tell yourself: You're lovable. Look at yourself in the mirror everyday: Say something good about yourself. Ex. I'm lovable. Don't wait for someone to love you, fall in love w/ yourself. Sooner or later, you wll meet the right person who will fall in love w/ you too.

@JedidaAHarrison

4 жыл бұрын

@bonitainthekitchen6032

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you. I just had my note book and pen to take notes but also will screen shoot yours😉 very thoughtful of you. Hugs!

@sandrachavez5382

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for highlighting key sentences!!!!

@tiesta1133

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks:)

@nailamovsumzade8702

4 жыл бұрын

Christine, thanks such for the script 💓 very useful

Every single person should listen to this if you want a great relationship

I was in tears when i heard your words about relationship because this is me always understimating myself doing exactly like you said in this video. Now i think its time to change. I am going put all those good words in my mind from now on. Thank you so much Marisa peer. You are a great Women.

Self love is KEY

Marisa, I feel so incredibly lucky to have found your videos this week. I've been interested in personal development for years, reading books, articles, courses etc, but even though I've heard these things before, they never resonated this strongly. I used to say to myself "you need to love yourself first, be positive, don't complain yada yada". but when you said "you matter, you deserve love" it nearly made me cry. You got to the root of the problem just with a few well placed words of wisdom, and for that I'm eternally grateful.

@ThePhoenixTube007

5 жыл бұрын

Adda Monica I felt the exact same way . I been reading listening all about this for a long time but when I Listen to marissa I had so many aha moments . Is like everything make sense.

Such a beautiful and wise woman. Thank you.

@zukozenani877

3 жыл бұрын

She’s beautiful and smart I’ve been glued the whole weekend to her videos 💖💖

@claudiaarmah2389

3 жыл бұрын

I love that she's very straightforward and tactful at the same time.

Yes, stay away from narcissists & learn to love yourself & heal your codependency. I would love to be wrong but there seems to be many narcissists around.

I am listening mini courses during weekend and yesterday went out with full of confidence. Guess what happened - 1st time in my life I felt myself really sexy and strong, so I wasn't ashamed by own mind. I'd put "I am enough" message to my brain and let it be whatever happens. Marisa you are my Miracle! Thank you!

@nickandchrismom

5 жыл бұрын

Awesome, glory to God. Marisa is a special gift.

@no1800

5 жыл бұрын

😎😍💃💄❤️❤️❤️

@ramagurung320

5 жыл бұрын

same here I am enough with self love Marisa has also changed my life too.Many many thanks to Marisa. she is a great and miracle.

@lolikalopareva2739

4 жыл бұрын

Me too she changes the way I feel about myself. Everyone loves me so much I have never had that. I have suffered so.e trauma when I was a child and never taught I was lovable or enough and it effected my entire life. And now it's as if I am out of the dark. I am enough. Tha k you so much

Wow, I’m a divorced single mom and you really touched my heart and I am inspired to do this. Thank you !

@nickandchrismom

5 жыл бұрын

Do it, I believe it works. I follow her a lot.

@lillym.9626

4 жыл бұрын

Me too, I'm in the exactly same situation. You're not alone,🤗🌟

Thank you for this really helped.Yes and do not date Dad. Put you down, mention their mum, don’t pay for things. Change from beginning. Great to have a lovely, loving relationship. Deluded by Disney.

This lady is so abundant 😍 Love and gratitude to everyone❤️

Marisa, you don't even know how much love and blessing I'm sending you every time I watch one of your videos. Thank you so much!

"Fall in love with yourself"....I LOVE IT!!! You are so inspirational💞

Marisa is a beautiful woman with a beautiful Spirit. Thank you

I think its really true.If we love ourselves,we are happy,If we are happy is much easier for other person to like us.Thank you for kind words.

i am going to send you my engagement pics Ms Peer

@ElTaree2ElSa7

5 жыл бұрын

Me too. I really like her final words as well as all the mini-course. Those words made me very happy to hear.

@kellyadley2058

5 жыл бұрын

That was the icing on the cake! What wonderful words to hear!

@GoodStuffForeverMore

4 жыл бұрын

Me too💞❣️💞

Spot on. I am loveable and the days of toxic roleplaying are OVER. My soul won't allow it. I'm loving people who show me love and keeping a safe distance from those who don't. Even if it's just their energy, I don't want to be around it. My soul has awakened and taken the wheel. Thank God.

@AshzxQuidYT

4 жыл бұрын

This right here!🔥

I read so many books about relationships and how to make them work and still didn’t find the key. Now you explained it so clear that it made a click in my head. So powerful! Now i understand. Thank you!

Thank you that is true I am in very beautiful relationship because I learned how to love myself

Know you are LOVEABLE

This was mind blowing. I do have one question. If a man working for your love or attention is unfamiliar because you are the one always doing it, how do you not get paranoid or believe they have a hidden agenda? How do trust that kind of behavior? I'm not used to a man sharing their feelings or being vulnerable. My experience is I always find a man who is a project, not a partner. How can one trust the unfamiliar?

I've heard this so many times but it never clicked until you shared it. Thank you.

What a wonderful wholesome woman

When it happens, I will send you my wedding pictures. Thank you so much Marissa. Listening to this video has removed so many blocks in my mind. I am joyful.

I've just come upon Marissa Peers last night. She was the "ad" before the video I was about to view and the few words I heard made me want more. I decided to listen to the full clip and I am completely sold. I'm very familiar with all this personal growth stuff but had become disenamoured. So much seems to depend on the individual therapist's ability to convey the wisdom. Something about Marissa truly resonates with me and I'm looking forward to feeling a lot differently about myself

@sarahrooffener7411

5 жыл бұрын

Same thing happened to me. Good ad. Long ad, but really hooked me. I wanted to share the ad with everyone I know, so I looked her up on utube. I didn't find the ad video, but I found a few others that have been wonderful!

@joelidejesus1423

5 жыл бұрын

Same thing here i was watching something else when her add came across usually i always click the adds off but 1min into her conversation she made so much sence what she was saying i went to her videos instead

@taebiag7271

5 жыл бұрын

Same thing..that ad grabbed me

@suechircop6137

5 жыл бұрын

Me too.saw her in an add...amazing

@mrssperry6562

5 жыл бұрын

SAME

Her motivational speeches are simple and inspirational at the same time.

I'm looking forward to inviting you to my wedding soon Marisa. You have been a blessing to me!

Had all of my life the same .. but now have come to this conclusion i attract what i am have been changing myself an the same people respond differently.

You’re saving my life, Ms. Peer. I’m taking your Mindvalley course and I can’t thank you enough.

Oh Marisa, U Rock, Bless your heart for the love & encouragement you share so generously.

My 17 year old daughter listened and watched your video together and it came at an amazing time! She feels drawn to the way you lovingly takes us on a journey of the human mind and heart. We are grateful to you for sharing your knowledge to so many who can free themselves from unhelpful beliefs and emotions. Thank you Marisa🌞

@JennMM

4 жыл бұрын

☀️www.therulesbook.com helps too 💕

Thank you soooo much for the insight Marissa!! I love your work and hope one day, I’ll be able to help others like how you did 😘

You got me so many energies and strength. I fall in love with myself again and again...

Thank you sister in spirit!

Yaaaay! Thank you!

I am so glad you exist. I am so glad you're sharing. Thank you. It's so helpful.

Your videos are so amazing and you wisdom and energy infectious. “I Am Enough” is still written across my bathroom mirror in red lipstick! Thank you!

@wandalee5010

4 жыл бұрын

Suzanne Saidso I erased mine and replaced it with I’m Extra! This woman has helped me see that I’m not just enough, I’m the total package. 💃🏼

i thought i was only interested in married people or people in relationships, but most of the time i dont even know theyre taken, but what you said makes so much sense, its because they are whole and feel loved and therefore are far more attractive in my eyes!! this is mind blowing to me. God bless you i finally understand this ! I am going to do that to myself too

THANK YOU MRS. PEER FOR YOUR THERAPY OF HEALING. MAY THE LORD BLESS YOU.

I Love Marisa Peer!!

I LOVE this. Everything you said. This was me a few years ago. It was nice thinking back and remembering, so I can see how far I have come. I chased my mom in my ex, not my dad. I think that is unusual, but I had a great dad who was there and present. I only had a relationship 3 people now. The first one wasn't my mom and the current one is absolutely amazing. Before I found him, I found myself and I am so glad because the mess I was might have sabotaged this relationship.

Thank you so much Merisa I love you.

Thanks

Thank you Marisa. I follow your advice and I'm feeling better already. It is kind of you to let us have access to mini-course for free. I am grateful.

Your classes heplped to boost my self confidence Marisa

Thank you

Thank you for making this video. Lots of people will benefit. I know to much people who doesn't know this. Everyone you are special, you are beautiful, you are enough. Make sure you love yourself first. And go in the world feeling I am loveable and share your love with everyone you meet. And remember you can give everything to yourself. It is all within. Much love. xx

Love you Marisa! Thank you for being you and spreading so much light! You are a true inspiration. I aspire to be like you🙏🏾

This is exactly what I've been looking for. You describing a needy person... Oh my God, so me. Every word. You could've written all the texts I sent my boyfriend the other day when he stopped talking to me out of nowhere. And I'm DEFINITELY one to buy so much for men. I didn't think I did it to try to get them to like me, I felt I was just expressing my love for them. But I wondered why they never bought me gifts smh. I pray this leads me to fix these issues I have. I'm beyond grateful to have found this video. ❤

I am Enough I am love ,I am Whole Oneness Marisa ,Love Peace Joy to all 🙏 ❤️

Thank you so much for this mini course!

Dear Marisa, you are amazing. You are a gift to the world. You’ll be the first one to know when I fall in love!

LOVE this so much! So accurate on all levels 💕💕💕

These inspiring videos never get old.. I watch them over and over! Thank you

Thank you so much

Wonderful advice from Marissa! Thank you!!!

Love listening to you every day, Marissa. Thank youb

Thank you! ♥️

🌟Marisa Peer shines🌟

Thanks for such sage advice Marisa!

Wow mum, you are such a beautiful soul, a source of inspiration to me and many more. I have been single for almost 2 yrs and had a negative believe that the only men that come my way are the married so they come ,take advantage of my loneliness and take off. Your video came to me at the right time . GOD bless you young lady. I know i will send you my engagement news soon all the way from Kenya.

I love to hear you talking. You are just amazing ❤

Brilliant! I heard the same great advice from a fabulous therapist in the metro Washington DC area, he also guided me away from repeatedly ending up with the same "wrong" type by ME now choosing the man, and not vice versa. This avoids the "wrong types" picking us over & over.

I've haven't gotten all the way through yet and I can stop saying "oh my god". This is so powerful. The delivery of this mini course is done with such care and love you can feel it, which is why some harsh realities are really hitting me, but in such a compassionate manner. I can't thank you enough Marisa Peer.

@morganmorrison8775

2 жыл бұрын

Hello how're you doing hope you're safe due to the covid 19 pandemic?

You are a miracle worker! I’m going to apply this concept to revive my marriage. I see now how I tore my marriage down by rejecting my husbands love and how it changed my marriage for the worst. Now I need to love myself again like I used to so we can be like we used to be. Marisa thank you for teaching me this valuable concept. I can see this whole concept working and how we became so distant and how it caused the problems we now have been experiencing.

this is such a great video!!!

thank you so much ❤️

Thank you so much Marisa for your wonderful advice, this helps me so much x 🌻

Im following her for my lifetime!! This beautiful woman is amazing! Love her accent too! ❤❤❤

love your approach Marisa..thank you.

My word. You are a glorious soul! Thank you so very much for all of these incredibly valuable insights.. May just be life changing. Thank you.

Beautiful! I needed to hear this. Thank you, Marisa.

Marisa, I am delighted to come across your KZread channel just a few nights ago. I recently got back into doing meditation and have become more mindful of how I go about my daily activity. I am magnet for miracle-making. The knowledge you share has added multiple positive layers to how I choose to go about in the world. The paradigm of how and what I think of myself has shifted for the better. Greatly so. 'I Am Enough' surrounds me. Thank you so much for sharing. 🙂

you are so sweet. thank you for sharing your knowledge.

Every time I hear this message, I resonate more and more with it

Powerful love energy!!! Love you back Marisa

You are the best!! Inspiration!

She's spot on!

Thank you from the bottom of my heart ... you are like a ray of light ... 🙏❤

Beautiful advice, working on myself, my happiness, selflove, this is my time for now ,enjoying being me ,life is beautiful, thank you.

Thank you for this, you've put me on a healing path.

Te amoooo. Graciaaaas

Wonderful. Your sincere words restore me to my core. Thankyou.

I have just discovered your channel one month ago and you have changed my life... I just can't thank you enough. 🙏... Vous êtes une femme vraiment formidable.. Just listening to your soothing voice...puts a smile on my face. Merci beaucoup. Gros bisous... Much love from France. 💕🇫🇷

I’m so lucky to get to know Marisa and her wisdom! Thank you for helping us all ❤️❤️❤️❤️I’m on my way, I’m sure of it!

Marissa, finding you through Mindvalley has been a massive blessing to me. I was in a sudden and deep funk over a work related issue. I was shocked at how instantly stressed and sour my mood became. I was more shocked at how fast I felt my energy shift and my mood lift while watching your talk. I shared it with all and sundry! Thank you!! I am a work in progress having been through many upheavals including: not feeling like the favourite child - being compared (not being accepted for me) , dealing as a 9 year old with the collapse of my parent's marriage - asthma attacks/ moodiness at school / sadness / abandonment issues, shame. Verbal abuse, facing scathing criticism from my uncle's wife who grew up very poor and was super picky and super critical about everything my siblings and I did - treated us as "less than" ( we are the "have not" branch of the family as my mum's siblings were more materially successful owning their own homes and always having very nice things, money for trips and outings etc. ) and always put down my family's way of doing things ( insulting to my Gran ). Turbulent relations with my parents as I entered my teen years - angry at both of them for various reasons though I was happy they divorced because there was no more shouting. Academic disappointment starting with an absolutely horrid and abusive teacher when I was 5 - I've recognised this as the genesis of all my maths problems and want to conquer that subject to feel truly competent and confident academically and open study and career opprtunities. I've tried and failed 4 times with the same grade at O'Level. I took secondary entrance exams during the breaking down of my parents marriage and did very well but was disappointed in myself because I didn't get to attend the school I had my heart set on as my marks weren't high enough to really ensure I got a place since it was a very competitive year. Fast forward to Uni and becoming depressed and losing weight because dad was sick and because of making very bad relationship choices . I'm 5'8 and fell off so dramatically that I discovered there were clothes in size zero - skeletal! I had professional counselling at this point and was able to tell my dad how his actions had really hurt me and he apologised. This was a blessing! Poor relationship choices that perpetuate my having the burden of work and the being treated badly and taken for granted have been a recurring issue though. Positive mental attitude books and very good people have found their way to me and helped me float. Learning to trust in God's wisdom has been invaluable. Academic disappointment has also been a feature in my adult life. I graduated with a lower quality degree than what I'm capable of and professionally tasted failure, having absolutely shattered confidence due to a really horrid and unreasonable tutor in an unsupportive work environment in which I had a practicum as part of the programme I was pursuing 2012-13. It was such a rough programme that my son was a virtual orphan at 7! He told me if I didn't have him to mind I'd do better in my work! What was worse was his dad and I had not long broken up and he was being vindictive. Then at the most intense part of my training he decided to go on a course too! I was so stressed I felt like the wheels were about to come off. My work environment was physically worsening and my asthma was on full tilt. My B.P. started reading high from all the stress and constant chest infections. I did what I could and let the chips fall where they did. I spent the summer of 2013 absolutely exhausted. I had a panic attack last year when I investigated completing the programme and was told I have to start from scratch - all my A grade papers and project work count for nothing! It was such a hateful experience I vowed to look outside the field for completely different career path and not to go back. Further study is needed but I'm not finding what really will thrill me and meet my needs emotionally or financially. I'm in a bind because not having that qualification limits movement in my current field and can lead me to the chopping block given economic difficulties and job cuts. I always wanted my own businesses but have not been successful in properly establishing myself thus far - lack of self-confidence and crippling self-talk. I'm actively seeking knowledge/training in how to invest as a means of diversifying income. In many ways I feel stuck and disappointed. I feel like a failure because I'm in my 40's struggling emotionally and financially and also feel bad because of the hardships my son has gone through. I don't have my own home and live in a family home that needs lots of work. I can't have his friends over as I'd like or properly entertain anyone. His dad quit supporting him financially at one point and fixed up his inherited house making sure to outfit it with all the creature comforts while denying him financially. Simultaneously he slagged me because of "the conditions" where I am and still feeds his shit-stirring sister half truths about why I refused to marry him, why I moved back home, decisions about our son etc. He moved in his new woman and her child and had another one with her which devastated my son initially because he knew that what little time he was already being given was going to be split further with the new sibling. He was so angry he didn't want anything to do with his father. I took him to counselling. Thankfully he now loves his sister. He has tried to drive a wedge between my son and me by having all these distractions but all the heavy lifting falls on me. He's never been properly present emotionally for our son and never properly dealt with his own daddy issues; hurt people hurt people. As a toddler I stopped getting him dressed to go anywhere with his father because he'd often turn up so late it was pointless, the child was sleeping or other times not turn up at all! He's always had time for drinks with the boys though. I actively seek out these kinds of positive videos, books etc. to counteract my son's not feeling good enough though he rarely expresses that feeling. He internalises things and I've had to teach him to speak his truth and also not to blame himself for the decisions and actions of others including his dad. Looking forward to continuing our healing journeys through help from wonderful facilitators like you! You are absolutely right: emotion overides logic. Blessings!

Oh You are amazing Marisa. Much appreciated gorgeous woman

Thank you 🙏🏻

You are wonderful! Thank you so very much. Solid Gold and REAL!!! So grounding in my heart ❤️ thank you!

Just love your videos so much. Thank you Marisa.

Thank you so much Marisa 😍

Thank you so much for your help!!

Marisa, you are a wonderful woman! You are the best! Thank you!

You are just amazing Marisa Peer. Glad I found you on youtube.

Great video, thank you so much for sharing ❤️

I love you, Marisa! Thank you! 💚(And you have a beautiful name)

Thank you! I love you!

Beautiful, thank you.

Marisa I love you! Thank you so much!