He's 'Feminine' & I'm 'Masculine' - And We're In Love | LOVE DON'T JUDGE
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TO JAMES and Maren, they aren't any different from other heterosexual couples. But other people have often mistaken them for just friends because of the way they look. 22-year-old James, who previously identified as gay, is a feminine-presenting man, whilst Maren, 20, is a masculine-presenting woman. Growing up, James came out as gay to his friends and family because it was "easier". Maren, who describes herself as bisexual, had only dated women before she met James over TikTok and the two hit it off instantly. When they shared their relationship online, James and Maren faced a lot of judgement as people struggled to comprehend their relationship. But the couple couldn't care less about what others say.
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It makes sense in a way, she's attracted to feminity and he's attracted to masculinity. I hope they have a happy relationship.
@aswing2706
Жыл бұрын
That guy is not feminine that guy is just ridiculous.
@diabolivirtusen-tavares-ea4645
Жыл бұрын
😐
@genesis8550
Жыл бұрын
Yes that makes sense
@trollfuente8341
Жыл бұрын
Nah this destiny is failure
@_Romans10.9_
Жыл бұрын
You mean disgusting and twisted
This whole relationship is iconic. This is the gayest straight relationship I’ve ever seen and I love it
@justauser
Жыл бұрын
Hahahahaha so true, the gayest hetero relationship ever
@Omar_PS9inchhs
Жыл бұрын
And youre a tall square jaws whos into bts and here to confirm yourself..and No..Women are not programmed to be attracted to dudes who can only survive if there is laws and the police 😵..
@sashatiana-alize6186
Жыл бұрын
Yep. I fully agree 💯💯👏🏽👏🏽 The best way to describe their relationship
@kh9242
Жыл бұрын
If only this was the weirdest thing that was going on. I oddly don't have an issue with this. Thay are basically a straight couple. A weird a$$ straight couple, but a straight couple lol
@Ms.VisalDaily
Жыл бұрын
Yeah this is cute
They are totally polar opposite of each other, but yet so beautiful together
@jamesgarland8322
2 ай бұрын
Couldn’t you say that about a lot of straight couples ?
@ForThePremium
2 ай бұрын
@@jamesgarland8322 i mean yeah but it also applies here i think
@gentlebabarian
2 ай бұрын
Oposite attracts. It's the laws of physics! Can't fight nature!
@TheMrPeteChannel
Ай бұрын
Some say they're actors.
@bogus69
Ай бұрын
@@TheMrPeteChannel some would be right
A Femboy and a Tomboy, what an incredible story.
@l.r.designstudioslauriesul8993
Жыл бұрын
It’s perfect
@sherueatyourbestfriend6791
Жыл бұрын
Fr
@masacatior
Жыл бұрын
Haha so unusual
@Carltonwanks
Жыл бұрын
Incredible? Not the word I'd use
@Carltonwanks
Жыл бұрын
@@jpprainbow6140 indeed
It’s better than a toxic, narcissistic, gas lighting, disrespectful relationship. Edit: Thanks for all the likes 😊😉
@bestress04
Жыл бұрын
One doesn't negate the other. The way they present in terms of gender and sexuality has no bearing on if their relationship is toxic.
@NetiNeti-gm5bz
Жыл бұрын
@@bestress04 it is leaning more towards authenticity, leaving v little room for manipulation/ gaslighting and toxicity. They simply respect the truth, thus communication can flow
@Alaskanman
Жыл бұрын
@@bestress04 Preach
@johnhattanfine
Жыл бұрын
Sounds familiar to you 😅
@ladyinblack3398
Жыл бұрын
How they treat each other is what matters. Why can't people be happy for them? They are!
The way their friend said they are proof that people can be made for each other🥹 they’re so cute🥰
@christopherclyde7791
5 күн бұрын
Smh
I've always wanted to see a couple like this and I'm glad I finally get to see that. I pray that your love for each other never dies. 💗
@cardsfan5100
4 ай бұрын
Me too. I hope they keep a lasting relationship.
@jermainecornelius7193
2 ай бұрын
@@cardsfan5100that's very nice of you to say. I don't know them but they seem very happy together.
@cardsfan5100
2 ай бұрын
@@jermainecornelius7193 They do seem happy together. It gives me hope. I wish couples like this were more of a norm.
@Clown-is-tired
21 күн бұрын
This is the only freaking nice comment I have seen with good reply’s lol
@cardsfan5100
19 күн бұрын
@@Clown-is-tired I wish we could see more couples like this.
A heterosexual couple literally just expressing their personality. Edit: I think there has been a misunderstanding, the couple is a heterosexual couple, that doesn't mean they don't have other sexual orientations or tendencies. I was simply pointing out that they are a man and a woman who are in a relationship and expressing themselves within that relationship. I was describing them as a unit and not as individuals
@levent.a.7280
Жыл бұрын
If they're heterosexual then IAM Michael Jackson
@LordofYumYum
Жыл бұрын
@@levent.a.7280 ROFL
@LordofYumYum
Жыл бұрын
"Heterosexual" most lik,ely cuz they are confused and they are looking for attention.
@mikipav1064
Жыл бұрын
Nope. If you’re looking just at their sexuality than they’re both homosexual without any doubt. They just have a strong emotional connection with each other. Or as i would label it: A strong friendship.
@forpspeakingclass4444
Жыл бұрын
@@mikipav1064 If they are in a relationship that means they are screwing or at least most likely which is the fair asumption. Would u call screwing apart of friendship or non-heterosexual between a man and a woman?
I like her chilled vibe. It balances out his diva energy. A good match.
@RHathemoment
Жыл бұрын
👍✨.🥰
@BlackMamba-lt8oe
Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@LeoTM
Жыл бұрын
420 likes
@ValbbyRod
Жыл бұрын
This is sweet
@sirquacksalot6463
Жыл бұрын
🤢🤢
It’s lovely to see people being happy and being who they want to be. Cute couple 💕
I am a straight conservative middle aged white woman from Texas and I say " good for you".
@sarandipitiqwe4387
2 ай бұрын
Just because you are “white” or “middle aged” doesn’t make you sane
@2A-Bear-Arms
Ай бұрын
I am a straight conservative middle aged white man from New York and I say "this is messed up." 🙄
@larrypotter2243
Ай бұрын
Ty.
@larrypotter2243
Ай бұрын
@@2A-Bear-Armsoh no, two people like each other.
@2A-Bear-Arms
Ай бұрын
@@larrypotter2243 I don't care what anyone says...it's abnormal.
They both break through 2 different entire lines of stereotypes, incredible.
@jaredyates2603
Жыл бұрын
hah aahhaha hahah
@jwst2898
Жыл бұрын
Being sus is different, incredible. 🤣🤣😐
@schteak7388
Жыл бұрын
Shut up
@jaredyates2603
Жыл бұрын
hahhaha haahah ahahahahaa
@zapbranigan5099
Жыл бұрын
No they don't break any stereotypes, they're playing their true selves
This is a heterosexual relationship, whether you like it or not.
@dicksmashermicrocock7984
9 ай бұрын
Yes and it feels illegal to say so
@Eugene-tq2kr
9 ай бұрын
I mean obviously
@lilplague4857
9 ай бұрын
@Eugene-tq2kr def not obvious to some people apparently
@Sindoku
8 ай бұрын
He said he was straight bro… you okay?
@nickpavia9021
8 ай бұрын
No, it's a fake relationship for the cameras. They "broke up" when they realized their content wasn't getting views.
I’m here for this relationship. I Iove it tbh
They are so cute and perfect for each other. I love that they can still be proud to be man and woman and show that you don’t have to present the way people expect you too. I hope they work out.
the epitome of "just be yourself, and love will find its way".
@renee5063
Жыл бұрын
That’s a lie!
@XdgamehackerXd
Жыл бұрын
We are so fcked as a society. Feminity and masculinity should both be embraced. But this is not balance this is chaos.
@renee5063
Жыл бұрын
@@XdgamehackerXd E are so because man refuses to turn back to the LORD. Psalm 33:12 Blessed is the nation who God is the LORD. So in essence when you have a nation who does not acknowledge God as their lord, that nation inevitably fall to ruin. This is a nation that sees all things as permissible, and are under the belief that so things are a benefit to one life-this is the farthest thing from the truth. We see how things are consistently in decline of humanity and morality and yet there is a continued belief that we don’t need God for moral direction.
@lexs.1994
Жыл бұрын
Yes!!!
@renee5063
Жыл бұрын
@@lexs.1994 This is the epitome of a lie. This is not who God made them and so it goes against who they are. We are in need of Jesus in the most profound way, sadly we have grown comfortable with the lies. Our comfortability in the things we’ve accepted as good for our life is what’s leading us to physical destruction, but also to spiritual destruction end. There is a hope for all who will turn away from sin, but you must ask to be forgiven, repent and ask Jesus into your lives.
Bro I was convinced by society that a relationship like this wasn't allowed to exist for half a decade
@gomezk1493
Жыл бұрын
Tbh the way that different sexualities and preferences started to make sense for me is to just not focus on physicality and or genitals, cause usually that’s the part that matters for people who don’t know what they REALLY want. Seems like they know what they want tho. Although I disagree with him saying he is straight when he isnt but neither is she, they just like what they like and dress how they dress
@leasagna2202
Жыл бұрын
Me too. I'm happy they found eatchother
@contrarian9999
Жыл бұрын
@@gomezk1493 How can you disagree with someone about their own sexual orientation lol. He said he likes women and is straight.
@notveryrea1
Жыл бұрын
@@contrarian9999 🤣RIGHT. Some people are so funny lmao.
@st.michaelofcigarillo2845
Жыл бұрын
Clearly society is much better off with extremely feminine men who act like women and women who like to pretend they are just as tough as guys. Lord help us if the US ever has to be involved in any boots on the ground combat. I can see it now. Male soldiers asking to stop and change their tampons while the female soldiers just bleed all over the place and pretend it isn't happening because they are just as tough as guys.
This is an example of love being different things to different people. We may judge as a society but may not understand people may be perfectly happy in their “own” way. And that is OK! I’m genuinely happy for them. Because some people go their whole lives without having a love like this.
“I like to be cute. Period.” 😂 This is such a cool relationship. I’m so glad they chose to share.
@vovac8915
Жыл бұрын
This is called attention-seeking.
@alsikamis_trash
Жыл бұрын
@@vovac8915 from who? lol. only one seeking ur attention is ur mama maybe u should call her idk
@beefortebrea9386
Жыл бұрын
@@vovac8915 you felt the need to say this so you coukd get attention. Pot meet kettle.
@hermeticuniverse1950
Жыл бұрын
You are absent-minded, if you had a mind at all, you would not have said this nonsense
@alsikamis_trash
Жыл бұрын
@@hermeticuniverse1950 "oh no, people don't agree that seeing others live a happy and normal life that is strange to ME should be crucified🙀🙀🙀 they clearly can't think for themselves!!!"
It’s different. I can’t say I’ve ever seen a straight guy as feminine as this, but it’s lovely to see them work as a couple. It’s also nice to see different types of people. I hope they stay happy together.
@eddiespaghetti1451
Жыл бұрын
Boy Hogg hi cutie
@tamiyaharrison9774
Жыл бұрын
@@eddiespaghetti1451 down terrible
@jeffghant4760
Жыл бұрын
That boy ain't straight.
@vincentharris2259
Жыл бұрын
@@jeffghant4760 Lol Hell No He's Not.
@Facts-Over-Feelings
Жыл бұрын
ANTI BLACK AGENDA TO KEEP THE EYES OFF THE PRIZE OF REPARATIONS AND JUSTICE REFORM.. STOP WITH THIS DEGRADING BLACK MUSIC ANTI LIFE NON SENSE.. BOYCOTT THIS TRASH..
Religion’s head just exploded!!! Their homophobia suddenly has nowhere to go. 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@nondumisonkosi143
Ай бұрын
Right?😂
@redeemedbytheblood
13 күн бұрын
The devil is a Liar! Repent people… God is not mocked!! 1 Corinthians 6:9 ESV Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who practice homosexuality,
@quineshafrancis9625
3 күн бұрын
@@redeemedbytheblood right1
just discover this video and, i love it
My cousins relationships used to exactly like this one. It was new and unusual. They got married and had children. On their wedding day they decided to wear the traditional dress for the women and suit for the man only for their children. Years passed and i ran into her at a club and she said her husband passed away and at such a young age. Their relationship takes me back to the good ol days. 😍
@bettyconfettii
Жыл бұрын
Aww 😢
@twistedara
Жыл бұрын
Damn 💘
@briannam8230
Жыл бұрын
That’s horrible 😢 so sad for the family
@avakinquinnz2578
Жыл бұрын
LMAO
@unhappyoption5910
Жыл бұрын
@they expect me to be nice, but they're not humbled you🚫
I am 60yo and while I understand none of this, seems no matter how hard I try. Maybe it is not for me to understand. What watching videos like this has taught me it...not everything is about me. I now remind myself " Move out of the way, and allow some things to be for some one else; not everything is about you."
@fuckyoethnicity
4 ай бұрын
HUH?
@redbirddeerjazz
4 ай бұрын
If only more people were like you! ❤
@brendakabanda2181
4 ай бұрын
39 here, and I don't either, but if they aren't hurting anyone, we can all accommodate ourselves
@carlosbarrero1058
4 ай бұрын
Cool. 👍
@GS-ww1ju
3 ай бұрын
It’s no different than a “straight” relationship. It’s just the woman is masculine and the man is feminine. It’s “usually” flipped..the woman is typical fem and the man masculine. So this is literally just that, just genders are swapped. I’m glad you don’t judge, I just hope you are able to see how simple this relationship is.
I love your authenticity and your romantic relationship 🤎 So beautiful. This shows the purest form of love.
@impepenane
Ай бұрын
They already split up
I'm so happy for them ! such a happy couple❤❤❤❤
In a way this makes sense. I’m surprised there aren’t more couples like this.
@MsFeliciaG
Жыл бұрын
Or are there 🤔
@juwoningram
Жыл бұрын
Don't be surprised everyone else is mentally sane and playing the right roll 🧍🏾♂️
@jwatts94
Жыл бұрын
@@juwoningram What “right role” would that be?
@juwoningram
Жыл бұрын
@@jwatts94 man act masculine females act feminine pretty obvious
@jwatts94
Жыл бұрын
@@juwoningram Why do they HAVE too?
I’m a masculine woman and feminine men have been hitting on me for decades! This is not a new dynamic. I mean I’ve not been with a feminine man, but I don’t think this is odd at all. EVERYONE literally has both masculine and feminine; one is just more dominant than the other in most cases. You two are very cute and full of love. Sending y’all love and light.
@malesedithato164
Жыл бұрын
I agree with you 100 %... I'm now in to bodybuilding and i can tell you that i now look muscular and more feminine men are hitting on me including those with mummy issues
@ElisaJewell
Жыл бұрын
i agree with this. we all posses feminine & masculine its just what we are more of.
@melancholycollie1466
Жыл бұрын
I had a friend in High school who was quite Feminine and admitted he needed a Masculine Female. But he's only been with feminine dudes yet isn't sure what he's into anymore.
@moon_mint
Жыл бұрын
Feminine men are 🤤🤤🤤
@sin3358
Жыл бұрын
I'm pansexual and I am quite the gender fluid individual, although I mostly identify as a woman. I like being both, masc and feminine, depending on my mood. When I'm masculine, I attract feminine men or women (my female friends get shy around me LMAO) and when feminine, I attract the more masc men. It's interesting how this goes
Good for both of you, its not all oldies that have a problem. I was so bloody proud when my beautiful niece told me she had a girlfriend. (I already knew 😂). She was so so scared, because i have always been strict with all of mine. ❤. I then knew what was coming next. My beautiful granddaughter said, Nannar i need to tell you something, she was stuttering. I said baby girl, i already know. You can talk to me about anything, as long as you are respectful and a good person, that is all i ask. ❤❤
I do not think you are weird as a couple. You both match each others energies. You are both a young couple enjoying each others company. All the best to the both of you. Thanks for sharing your story, it's enlightening.
Finally, a Love Don’t Judge couple I actually don’t judge
@danamichelle1290
11 ай бұрын
RIGHT! It's 3:30am and I just watched the one with the 27yo woman who presents as a toddler, I can't EVEN.....
@AJ-TheGr8
10 ай бұрын
@@danamichelle1290Bitch they said don't judge! Try! 😂😂😂 Lool I'm joking, I haven't even watched that one yet. It was just the perfect response to your comment, I'm sorry.😅
@gregoryjohnson7043
10 ай бұрын
Real talk! As a christian at first i was like hell naw. And then i actually for some reason went through with the video and by the end i was like Thank you Lord for always having a plan for us. This is completely holy. Who cares how they act or represent themselves. This is a holy relationship here. No christian no republican no church can say otherwise. Trust me i tried. And i gotta say this is kinda beautiful
@elephantdanceparty7917
10 ай бұрын
@@AJ-TheGr8 I saw that one as well
@maenad1231
10 ай бұрын
I know right???😂😂😂
I love their dynamic. They found the person who matches who they are and they compliment each other. I wish them the absolute best.
@1CHOZN7
Жыл бұрын
But this is not who they really are. This who they became!!!
@franksaddiction
Жыл бұрын
@@1CHOZN7 💀
@KayleeANNAytbe
Жыл бұрын
Keep ur homophonic comment for yourself
@blitzkriegedvanhauten5261
Жыл бұрын
Disgusting
@franksaddiction
Жыл бұрын
@@blitzkriegedvanhauten5261 no.
I’m more interested in finding out if they’re still together considering their _personalties_ are so different. He seems very extroverted and she seems very introverted. He’s very chatty and she’s more reserved. His clothing style is very urban while hers is very suburban. I’m having a hard time seeing them having enough in common to not get on each other’s nerves. They seem like they’re happy here but how long will it take before she asks him not to wear distressed jeans so much or for him to get tired of doing more of the talking? I do hope they have enough core characteristics in common.
@janetuss6496
4 ай бұрын
Plenty of extroverts are with introverts. Opposites can attract. Sometimes you see qualities in the other person that you are attracted to, but don't have yourself. More importantly than how they dress or how much they talk is their core values. Things like political, moral, and religious views are more likely to make or break a couple.
@Suki_Damson_123
2 ай бұрын
Opposites attract...❤
@viafenice
2 ай бұрын
They broke up (I found out on tiktok)
@MayISpeak
2 ай бұрын
@@viafenicedamn so sad
@elisabetpurve2908
Ай бұрын
@@viafenice Oh noo 😔
Love it! "You're paying the bills" 😂😂😂
They are an heterosexual couple with different ways of behavior but anyway a REAL couple who represent the acceptance and accepting themselves without going farther.
@bowielukas6815
Жыл бұрын
@W.A.Mozart you get a grip yourself super fool!!
@MrTriangle3333333
Жыл бұрын
@@bowielukas6815 They play with reversed roles, but these are roles after all, even more accentuated than any cis person. If roles are normally intended to be broken because they are supposed to be "toxic", then why play the boy and girl roles? Let them do what they want, but it seems a bit hypocritical to me. Everyone accepts what is different with pleasure, but the old is discarded.
@proverbs31woman31
Жыл бұрын
So basically this is a heterosexual couple, 🤔🤦🏼♀️
@andrew20146
Жыл бұрын
@@MrTriangle3333333 I don't think you understand about gender expression. It's a spectrum, and it isn't false or socially constructed. Freer/more tolerant societies like the Nordics tend to see more dispersion in gender expression.
@MrTriangle3333333
Жыл бұрын
@@andrew20146 More tolerant or more brainwashed? I dont need to understand that, i prefere to focus on important things.
I'm 5'10 and my boyfriend is 5'5. The whole "We don't look how they expect us to look" is something we are faced with constantly. For example, we were staying at a hotel the other night and a guy at the counter looked at us and asked my boyfriend how it feels dating a woman taller than him. He responded "Damn good." Love is not one size fits all. I commend this couple for embracing and sharing their relationship. They look happier than most "normal" couples I know and I hate even using the word normal. Hope whoever is reading this has found or will find the love of their life
@berchyzgb4423
Жыл бұрын
"Damn good", love his answer 😁
@ngashjr
Жыл бұрын
I'm 5'7" she is 6'1". Her sister once asked how it works.... She said.... I respect him and he adores me simple.. *chuckles* Short king but carries a might staff if you know what I mean.
@magiccarp3710
Жыл бұрын
No one cares as much as you think
@heckinbasedandinkpilledoct7459
Жыл бұрын
@@ngashjr true. I’m two inches taller than you, but it’s mostly how you carry yourself
@virginiachavez6414
Жыл бұрын
My grandparents were like you very much in love with each other and they were married in 1921 and grandfather loved to see grandmother with high heels you can tell he was very sure of himself and by the way they had 8 children. 😄🇨🇷
I can honestly say I have no issues on this relationship, even though anything I say means little. Just the same, I truly wish them well. This works!
If they’re happy, that’s all that matters.
Girl, I've literally been thinking about this type of dynamic in a relationship. I knew it wasn't all in my head 😩!
@iamy3356
Жыл бұрын
So I’m talking to this guy and stuff and we might be a thingggg but like I am not very feminine heck ppl think I’m bisexual. And like I act a bit more masculine and with him I still kinda act like that and it feels so weird😭😩
@queenmama9229
Жыл бұрын
I'm with you on that!
@thebinlgbtisbabadook7832
Жыл бұрын
Yup! It really does exist. We once live in a townhouse apartment where the old landlady lives closeby with her stay-in gardener and housekeeper. The gardener is a very masculine woman and the housekeeper is a very feminine man. They are married to each other, and when we paid the landlady a visit years after we moved out, the couple were still happily together and had adopted a son. The kid calls the gardener "mama" and the housekeeper "papa", but it's the housekeeper guy who do the stereotypical housewife duties and while gardener lady plays the role of a stereotypical husband. ❤
@rio.escobo
Жыл бұрын
It is all in your head way after you say this video that is and tried to seem relatable or connected for attention. Typical sassy girl emojis too, along with the 😂faking like your laughing but got a straight face clique🤡😂
@TimTidmons
Жыл бұрын
Women... lol
I love how peaceful they seem together.
@ab-jc8nv
Жыл бұрын
Hey u from?
@manachaozit6732
Жыл бұрын
Yes! And they seem to genuinely click with one another.
@bawseeeee602
Жыл бұрын
Its fake for the cameras
@Be1smaht
Жыл бұрын
Right. I noticed that
@kobo4924
Жыл бұрын
@Monke He meant that it’s all a lie to Brian wash u into thinking it’s actually good it’s weird and disgusting 🤢 I can sit here an say oh I’m a bird I won’t fly tho it just doesn’t work like that
Thank you so much for sharing your beautiful connection with us all! Wish you the best! I am a masculine presenting female born to a single mom and most straight “masculine” men feel emasculated by me… still navigating 🙏🏽namaste
I always wondered if any relationships like their’s exist and I’m happy they do
I love how they explain that it's the fem/masc ENERGY they're attracted to, not body parts. It's about energy and vibe. So beautiful.
@alwmwo9286
Жыл бұрын
يوجد كثير من الرجال ينجذب الى المراه القوية
@imontosomething2609
Жыл бұрын
I’m looking for both personally.
@alwmwo9286
Жыл бұрын
@@imontosomething2609 i love girls strong
@sofypi7493
Жыл бұрын
"they're attracted too, not body parts" that's them other people are different
@kay-collins
Жыл бұрын
Right! I’m fw it!
Honestly they're a really cute couple, it really intrigues me that they're both so open to their preferences and doesn't suck up to other people's stereotypes. I hope their healthy relationship lasts forever.
@aaliyahali5537
Жыл бұрын
Is people like you that their souls and mind was taken away peer pressure.
@hornerfarah2282
Жыл бұрын
Maybe we live in different societies but when I see something like that it make me cringe. I Dont call this healthy relationship
@suckerforcats2416
Жыл бұрын
@@hornerfarah2282 It's alright, I respect your opinion. I mean we all have different perspectives and views right? My comment is just solely based on my mindset, and my own opinion too.
@ceyciemateo9411
Жыл бұрын
It’s fake lol
@STEELOOFFICIAL
Жыл бұрын
@@aaliyahali5537 you're really in 2023 complaining about stuff like this lol. couldn't be me.
That explains so clear that the sexuality , the attraction and the appearance are not a standard and they don't have a standard connection. Love u guys.
They dont want you to be authentic they want you to be the same as everyone else and be fake and pretend with their egos, you go, keep being authetnicly yourself, you guys are so strong, love that for you guys it is everything to be authetnicly yourself, dont ever let anyone tell you otherwise, god bless ❤😊
Sexuality aside, if they love each other, that’s two less lonely people in the world. Everyone deserves love and acceptance, and they clear give that two each other. Good for them.
@vivere__
Жыл бұрын
Love is love
@Alexander-wq7qo
Жыл бұрын
@@tsavmannyslengest4018 you know damn well thats not what that means
@dianeaishamonday9125
Жыл бұрын
@@tsavmannyslengest4018 love is love as long as they're above the age of consent, ya nasty
@itstwinshi2179
Жыл бұрын
@@dianeaishamonday9125 😂
@luciomoreira2055
Жыл бұрын
👏🏾agree bit crazy though
I find this relationship to be weird only because I haven’t been exposed to this dynamic but do I hate it? Nope! Because it’s not about me, it’s about them! Everyone deserves to be happy and treated with respect and dignity. They look happy so that’s the only thing that really matters in this world..... finding a person who accepts your true authentic self and loves you because of it!❤️💕
@ab-jc8nv
Жыл бұрын
Hello how r u?
@Arliepwrlifts
Жыл бұрын
I honestly wish everyone thought that way, the world would be easier.
@Pansexual-Imp
Жыл бұрын
My king and or queen
@popitupaau1126
Жыл бұрын
This write up was so complicated and beautiful
@bunnylarese2161
Жыл бұрын
But you are used to Tom boys.
Finding someone that balances you out is the most important thing. ❤
I absolutely love you guys. Stay strong and ignore the haters. ❤
I've come to realize that your soulmate might not be who you always expected and that love has no labels and that love is beautiful
@animehawtie
Жыл бұрын
FACTS!!
@mommydearest3164
Жыл бұрын
you can’t do that in your native country only european countries. that last name???
@mommydearest3164
Жыл бұрын
it won’t last he’ll be with brad 😂🤣😂 buckbroken smh
@ismailmounsif1109
Жыл бұрын
You have taking a beautiful word like love and have distorted it how mad
@johnstamos2365
Жыл бұрын
That’s because you love weak, pathetic, girly men!
The older I get the less “weird” this seems. Growing older together is something to be grateful for, and to cherish. Life is short. Be happy.
@cutepoiisonn
Жыл бұрын
exactly, gotta feel safe and loved. no matter what who cares
@neonboy1998
Жыл бұрын
lets address the elephant in the room for a sec. She is definitely pegging him
@cutepoiisonn
Жыл бұрын
@@neonboy1998 and why do you care so much? Is it supposed to be an insult?
@deathvvitch
Жыл бұрын
@@neonboy1998 that’s pretty weird dude.
@deathvvitch
Жыл бұрын
My thoughts exactly! Why should we care when love is hard to find in the first place. If they are happy then that’s what matters. I hope they live a very full and loving life
🥰Literally smiled during the whole thing. THIS IS SOOOOO CUUUTE!!! 🙏🏼Wish them the best.
I love seeing feminine men with masculine women, it’s so cool! Happy they are being themselves
I actually get their relationship dynamic. im a very masculine female myself, im bisexual but i like men more and i was in love with this very feminine guy, he was straight though, he didnt wear feminine heals though but he wore a little makeup and was more attracted to masculine women cause he found their power and the energy they walk in sexy. im attracted to feminine men because i find their gentle nature beautiful and sexy. these two are so cute.
@omegawicked1
Жыл бұрын
u is lost.
@rwn490
Жыл бұрын
Your IG ❤
@mryoutubeuser
Жыл бұрын
I like ur story I don't think there's anything wrong with men being submissive and women being dominant Sometimes I feel myself as submissive man and I love strong bold women but due to society we all live under a mask I hope one day we all break all these gender roles and stereotypes
@Ani-gi1pf
Жыл бұрын
@@mryoutubeuser ..r u indian?
@mryoutubeuser
Жыл бұрын
@@Ani-gi1pf yes why?
This works because they are two authentic people - I often say it's not so much the 'sex/genitalia' that they are drawn to per say but the essence of the aura, feminine, masculine - this is cute. I'm glad they shared their story - whatever you are - just be YOU!
@luigidragonborn
Жыл бұрын
is about who they are and not body parts, that is like 10/20 of who you are....!!
@sulagreen5792
11 ай бұрын
It depends on the person, for some people the body doesn’t matter, for some people it does. All are valid.
@bluesoul7163
10 ай бұрын
Are we sure they are straight ? I am not....i am pretty sure they are both homo
@Ljounieh
9 ай бұрын
Feminine and masculine are taught. You don't make sense.
@IAmJe
9 ай бұрын
@@Ljounieh no you don't make sense. Bye dummy
You guys are so adorable I’m gonna die! XD I love it! As a bi woman I think a femboy would be so perfect for me, and I have a friend who’s cishet femboy who love his masculine gf. He gets rude questions all the time, meanwhile where are my woman loving femboys at?! (Not him he’s my bro I could never! 😅) this is such an important thing that relationships like this outside of the normal get visibility so people can understand there’s all kids of ways to love and they’re all valid. It’s easier to believe that if you see other people living out that truth, it makes the theoretical seem more plausible! It also makes people like me and even moreso my fembro who feel misunderstood often times feel validated, too.
@danssaddimple9133
4 ай бұрын
i'm a bi girl and i have a femboy partner! it's the best honestly
@ravensong7128
4 ай бұрын
@@danssaddimple9133 that sounds like the best! I’m so happy for you! 💜
@danssaddimple9133
4 ай бұрын
@@ravensong7128 thank you 😍 hope you'll find your own femboy someday ✨
They’re so suitable with each other! I hope their relationship lasts forever!!!! ❤❤
This couple makes more sense as a match-up THAN THE MAJORITY of couples and marriages.
@jonbanks653
Жыл бұрын
@@mirandasworld OK and to each their own. Go after your Rambo's and let the rest of us be. Just don't knock it simply because you have different taste
@XingAoShen
Жыл бұрын
@@mirandasworld where are you finding warriors and Vikings? Lol
@NahNo-xy2kq
Жыл бұрын
@@mirandasworld and where are you finding those at?
@jonbanks653
Жыл бұрын
@@mirandasworld How was the OP knocking people like you? The message was simply that the two people are unique compared to most het couples. Knock the chip off your shoulder and your paranoia too
@jonbanks653
Жыл бұрын
@@mirandasworld They are everywhere and sadly they force their opinions onto everyone else which you are doing in a subliminal fashion. Harry knuckle dragging bullies are all over the place but not everyone wants an insensitive, unfeeling, narcissistic brute.
When you truly allow people to be themselves
@user-ct5ve8ie4t
Жыл бұрын
Nah thats more like, when you brainwash people so bad they think and act against their biological desires
@NP-xx8nt
Жыл бұрын
Mentally ill people*
@musicmashup9597
Жыл бұрын
And they become Fricks
@INFP-Turd
Жыл бұрын
So we should let pedophiles be themselves? (Not @ the people in this vid)
@witheredskull
Жыл бұрын
@@INFP-Turd Where did you get pedophilia from this? I'm curious so please tell me
The thumbnail is hilarious though. 😂
This is eye opening. I never thought of this kind of arrangement. And this could be something i might be into. Wow.
They couldn't be any more different, yet they found love with one another. Good on them for doing their own thing ☺️
@TheSign0
Жыл бұрын
LoveIt
@belle3055
Жыл бұрын
The end is near
@caryns6373
Жыл бұрын
@@belle3055 what you mean end is near
@aliciaparks3767
Жыл бұрын
It's a perfect balance!!
@noneya1238
Жыл бұрын
It's almost like he's dating a man, and she's dating a girl. Like what male and female couple act the same anyways?
This is WAY better than other Love Don't Judge videos I've seen. Usually I'd see someone in love with a person pretending to be an animal, or two people with a HUGE age gap. I'm happy for these two 💙
@AS-jo8qh
Жыл бұрын
Exactly. Probably the first time i am seeing a normal healthy relationship here
@belove751
Жыл бұрын
Yes!! I really love this couple. People just being masculine or feminine without being trans.. it’s beautiful. This seems so much more healthy and fulfilling.. don’t need surgery, meds or any weird ideology.. just being who you are.
@supernova7848
Жыл бұрын
@@belove751 ❤❤❤
@sarab7794
Жыл бұрын
@@AS-jo8qh normal means the norm. They’re not the norm but it looks like a healthy relationship from the outside. I am happy for them ❤
@Luna303
Жыл бұрын
Honestly this doesn't seem more normal to me than either of those examples.
they are so so so sweet together! this makes perfect sense to me
their chemistries fit perfectly together like a puzzle.. what's the odds of that ever happening, lol.. great story
I've actually thought this about some couples years ago where the man seemed more feminine and the woman seemed more masculine. At the time, I first thought they were closeted and trying to keep up an image. Then as the years went on, I realized they just didn't fit it the little boxes we put people in in this society. It's nice to see this video to get better understanding and see people happy and able to live authentically.
@guesswhof7323
Жыл бұрын
Only in America 😂this weird $hit happens 🤦🏽♂️ this why US REAL men have left the country and got us a REAL woman these weird azz no culture hoes. Like I always say if it’s not foreign it’s boring
I am a bit old school and not as open-minded to this type of thing. But I clicked on this video in my recommendations out of curiosity, and I was pleasantly surprised to see that these two are so in love and so accepting of each other. At the end of the day, what else could you possibly need in a relationship? I think they are truly an inspiration.
@ab-jc8nv
Жыл бұрын
Hi ur study completed?
@albal-v3869
Жыл бұрын
@@ab-jc8nv It was just an observation, no need to be rude hun
@heuvelke1065
Жыл бұрын
@@albal-v3869 the only one who is rude is you who already assumes its rude to ask if she finished her study.
@deeppanpizza4847
Жыл бұрын
They don't actually seem like they are in love though. They do look more like friends
@acaciagirl
Жыл бұрын
@@deeppanpizza4847 they are clearly In love
IT ALL IS IN ALIGNMENT RINGO. WHAT YOUR TEACHING IN THIS STREAM. I AM LEARNING A LOT AND I AM GRATEFUL FOR THE KNOWLEDGE, WISDOM, AND CLARITY. 💯💯💯💯👑👑👑👑🙏🙏🙏🙏
I was smiling the the whole video, they are so cute together
I got told my preferences are weird for getting attracted to feminine people 💀really feel happy to see them
@raecilee6393
Жыл бұрын
I've been saying for a while now to men, if you LIVE YOUR TRUTH, YOU WILL STILL FIND LOVE! I've been known of women who loves feminine men! I once met a stud woman who ADORED transgendered males! It's NOT A PROBLEM! The problem IS that men aren't living in their truths and lying out here, to the rate that their women are single mothers or catching AIDS. Just BE YOURSELF, that goes for ANY AND EVERYONE!!!!
@goddessofmoon
Жыл бұрын
Same ☠️
They're giving best friend in love energy, and I'm here for it! They're beautiful together, nothing weird about it.
@steviedub9370
Жыл бұрын
It is very weird & disgusting women can claim to be masculine all they want but to be masculine means you can Project fear & nobody is scared of women a woman can be holding a gun I still wouldn’t have fear , that’s why all horror movies the villain is a man
@steviedub9370
Жыл бұрын
Most people think it’s weird other then feminist & sjw
@basilmweramakokha9557
Жыл бұрын
@@steviedub9370 yeah it is weird, and saying it's not forces everyone to act like it isn't. The thing is, there's nothing wrong with it being weird! The love between them is clear as day for anyone who's been around humans in love before. You can see there's no tension or insecurity between them despite how society at large may perceive them. That's REAL love. It's weird AND it's beautiful. The 2 aren't mutually exclusive and that's what makes life more fascinating than anyone's wildest fantasies.
@xd._.28234
Жыл бұрын
@@basilmweramakokha9557 true :D
@TheVikasas
Жыл бұрын
Omfg!! You are not normal.. Maybe you are a masculine woman.. You haven't met a masculine man yet..
"Dude where's my car" is reality now lol
I love it! Funny but cool. It just works and I’m happy for y’all.
Tbh I’ve OFTEN wondered if such a relationship exists & I’m so happy that it does. They’re awesome.❤
@samukelodlamini7086
Жыл бұрын
Dude me too.... And when I saw this video my initial respense was... "oh so I'd does happen" ❤️😂
@kelly8107
Жыл бұрын
I can understand this sentiment. I knew they existed, just never seen it. I'm not sure if it was SNL or MADDTV that had the couple "Pat" and "Chris". It actually might be a reason why I'm accepting!
@justinaacuriouswanderer1496
Жыл бұрын
omg same
@faithintheunseen1294
Жыл бұрын
@@kelly8107 SNL, the skit was called, “It’s Pat!”
@kelly8107
Жыл бұрын
@@faithintheunseen1294 I wanted to know someone like Pat!
It’s not weird, it’s just interesting because we don’t see it often. But I’d love to see more couples like this!
@RoseTheRealest
Жыл бұрын
Why? It’s not natural. God didn’t give men the testosterone just to do it. They are stronger and wired neurologically different than us for a reason. If a tiger attacks them you all will want the “masculine” presenting woman to defend her feminine man
@buzzingnoise
Жыл бұрын
I feel like me and my partner have this is a more subtle way.
@lukekillemall3269
Жыл бұрын
that's literally the definiton of weird. Something you don't see often.
@lesliejohnson-nelson4003
Жыл бұрын
Lol why would you wanna see more couples like this? Do you wanna be the man?
@dope8003
Жыл бұрын
It's not
I wish them the absolute best. I wish we saw more couples who aren't scared of what society thinks like this.
more power to them! i first saw this video on Facebook i love them
I’ve only ever seen a “tomboy” have a relationship with an “effeminate guy” in the movies. It’s so nice to see it actually exist. I hope they stay together for a long time!! They’re both so lovely individually and together ☺️
@fadi8002
Жыл бұрын
would you care to tell us the movies names ?
@XingAoShen
Жыл бұрын
What movies? I’m tryna see sumn
@xBINARYGODx
Жыл бұрын
and usually, it's for laughs in the movie when they pull the feme guy with butch girl.
@greybook6616
Жыл бұрын
@@Schrodingers_Kat just a question
@lunedogg
Жыл бұрын
@@Schrodingers_Kat because what are all these movies? I can’t think of a single one with butch woman and femme man
2 gays in a straight relationship New level unlocked 🫡🤯
@21nameyuser
2 ай бұрын
brother you are so accurate haha
@djo_shorts6154
Ай бұрын
It'll soon get a unique name and added to the lgbtqanda+- community 🤡
@darkboimoise
Ай бұрын
@@djo_shorts6154 brother you are so trueeeee 😭🤌🏿
Not gonna lie, this is what we all can strive for: a healthy, understanding, and romantic relationship. And I wish them both a wonderful life together ❤😊
@steviedub9370
Жыл бұрын
There both gross , 🤮🤢 most women would never date a “Feminem” man , Most girls like tall strong alpha males this is stuff you only see on the internet , in the real world of if & when you go out you don’t see tnis stuff
@Shilobu
Жыл бұрын
No
@fernbear3950
Жыл бұрын
@@Shilobu good point, I hadn't thought of it that way before
@eeeeee8829
Жыл бұрын
@@Shilobu you truly have a way with words
@ismailmounsif1109
Жыл бұрын
@@Shilobu buckle up mate this is only the beginning of the madness the west is going to produce in the future don’t be surprised in 5 years a woman is in a relationship with her cat will also be an inspiration according to them
This is so cool! Tbh I’ve wondered why I haven’t seen this more in the world.
this is inspiring, God bless to the both of you
it’s not inherently weird, it’s just different because it isn’t something we see often. But with the laws of sexuality and gender being bent so far to the point of fluidity, it’s not shocking or surprising. And i’m a firm believer in “if you’re not harming anyone, it’s not my business” 🤷🏻♀️ Strangers who insert themselves into relationships they don’t personally agree with is hands down the weirdest thing ever to me. Not this couple. This couple just wants to exist and be together. They hurt literally no one.
@sajjjk
Жыл бұрын
So then you must agree with incestual relationships? Technically it doesn't hurt anybody using your logic. Father-daughter/son, Mother-daughter/son or siblings.
@jeremiahgray1017
Жыл бұрын
You greatly underestimate just how much of an effect we have on one another. The amount of views on this video alone is proof that we have a profound effect on one another.
@clearerthanwater
Жыл бұрын
@@sajjjk but incestuous relationships *do* hurt people...they aren't built on genuine love and affection, it's usually one family member preying on another, and it comes from an unhealthy attachment to family and is inherently problematic for that reason. a man and a woman from different backgrounds who happened to meet and fell in love hurts nobody.
@BoraBlooded
Жыл бұрын
@@sajjjk Since when is abuse not harming anyone? lol Weirdo.
@BFoxy1326
Жыл бұрын
@@sajjjk i would strongly disagree with the assessment that parent child sexual relationships hurt no one. They undoubtedly hurt the child who is not receiving the proper kind of love from their parent. That kind of a relationship will lead to a plethora of mental health concerns and emotional trauma. Two NON related consenting adults in a relationship are not hurting anyone. And i would argue that anyone they do hurt is absolutely unintentional and almost certainly a direct result of that person or persons beliefs. For example: the very religious take personal offense because they believe God abhors these relationships and in being devout, they too must abhor them and sometimes take it even a step further and consider it their responsibility to god to try and lead them down the “right path.” A father or Mother who actively chooses to have a sexual relationship with their own child 1000% knows before starting it that that they are engaging in inappropriate relationship. That parent is absolutely aware of the ramifications.
The most unique straight couple I've ever seen, wishing them a lot of happiness ❤
@i.love.kingvon
Жыл бұрын
i don't think the girl is straight, she's bi i think
@pls.8792
Жыл бұрын
Amen
@blackalwayspink
Жыл бұрын
but they’re still a het couple
@kentdrawsit3813
Жыл бұрын
@@i.love.kingvon it's a heterosexual relationship.
@raydaveed
Жыл бұрын
@@blackalwayspink No. Being in a heterosexual relationship is different from your actual sexuality. If you are bi/pan you still are, regardless.
I support this couple rather some clout chaser transitioning into something thats not.
Our veterans fought and died in war for this sh*t?
@kl4314
2 ай бұрын
It's a man and woman so what's your problem now
@blackinton2526
Ай бұрын
They fought for freedom for people to do what they want? or what they did fight for?
My son is a straight feminine male. I been looking for people like him since he feels so left out. Glad I came across this
@reco1l150
Жыл бұрын
May Allah guide him the right path
@tonyperez7467
Жыл бұрын
You and your son are ruining tour own bloodline I know you don’t care But later he will suffer
@Kxgxyx
Жыл бұрын
@@reco1l150 May you leave your religion out of this. Like they're clearly aren't Muslim. Shut up, and go somewhere else with that.
@nyasha3416
Жыл бұрын
Wat???
@reco1l150
Жыл бұрын
@@Kxgxyx just chill out and be nicer. I didn't say anything bad.
I'm gushing over them, the confidence, the self love and expression, it's all so beautiful I hope they have many years ahead of themselves together ❤️ Wishing them a long happy relationship
@garybronson4525
Жыл бұрын
Self love queen slay. F trump. You do you they is not hurting others
@byunniq9060
Жыл бұрын
Yess they're so cute omgg😍
@_Romans10.9_
Жыл бұрын
Your perverted mindset is disgusting.
@arianayoung7537
Жыл бұрын
He still crossing his 🦵 😆
@lunalee5843
Жыл бұрын
Same!
This is a unique situation! I bet you both are a lot of fun. You guys are twin flames and you had a connection in a previous life regardless of gender.
I remember when I was in high school in 2013 I use to imagine this kind of relationship and to see it come to fruition has got to be the most fascinating thing to me ever in my life
I was married to a beautiful black man in the early 1970's for 36 years before he passed. We apparently went through what we did, beginning in Southern California, getting spit on even on Hollywood boulevard. Yet, these things are sooo much better now. Keep being True to you. You shall help uplift the world . ✨🌎✨💗✨🌎✨
@amirsiddiqi6542
Жыл бұрын
Can you be my Suger Moma
@theenemisisshoww9025
Жыл бұрын
Awwwww bless you queen
@chicagorainbow8935
Жыл бұрын
My Deepest Condolences!!!!
@LoveAlwaysAlwaysLove
Жыл бұрын
@@theenemisisshoww9025🙌💗🙌
@LoveAlwaysAlwaysLove
Жыл бұрын
@@chicagorainbow8935 Keep Love in the lead every moment. ✌
Far too many people deny themselves happiness because it doesn’t look like what they imagined or what people around them think it should look like. I applaud this couple for being open and following their hearts!
@jonbanks653
Жыл бұрын
You hit that nail on the head!!! More people than will admit reject or accept people because of what their friends and relatives say
@misaelgarcia6105
Жыл бұрын
😂
@johnglow7845
Жыл бұрын
Yeah the judgment is shats weird let people be happy.
@GoddessLuna23
Жыл бұрын
So many people!
@Proverbspsalms
Жыл бұрын
Yes we do - we see too many
They are so cute together! This is what true love looks like, loving and accepting your partner for exactly who they are and encouraging them to be their most authentic self. They seem like soulmates ❤
I KNEW THIS WAS A THING AND I LOVE THEM
Finding someone who accepts you for you is amazing
@karenwilson4259
Жыл бұрын
Yeah it is... John why are you gonna throw up on this...
@rosea6653
Жыл бұрын
that's what it's all about
Man I'm a straight dude but I just love you two... What a walking example of love and how it comes in many forms and fashions. ♥️♥️
@vovac8915
Жыл бұрын
This is called attention-seeking.
@Brandonisblessed
Жыл бұрын
@@vovac8915 this is called you sounding bitter because some people have found happiness
@platinumsky845
Жыл бұрын
@@vovac8915 yes, your comments are attention seeking, you're literally spamming on comments about a relationship you have nothing to do with to find validation from strangers online, you are a freaking dictionary definition of attention seeking and I'm glad you've labelled yourself properly as such.
@bK2pa
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@@Brandonisblessed it's not bitter to be disgusted by ruining natural relationships in search for something corrupt like this champ.
@platinumsky845
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@@bK2pa tell us you know nothing about relationships OR nature without saying you know nothing about relationships or nature.
You don’t look conventional. You don’t act conventional but I can relate to your relationship. You are both so cute ❤️❤️
ugh the fact that they found each other ❤