My girlfriend was 45 when we started dating and I was 32. Best relationship I’ve her had and probably ever will. She died of cancer six years after we were together and I’ll never stop missing her.

@SK99FUKU

16 күн бұрын

May your girlfriend's soul rest in peace, sir 🤍

@teresacoleman5349

15 күн бұрын

I’m so sorry for your loss as I’ve always felt it’s not about age. It’s about connection.

@mjg2038

14 күн бұрын

I believe you two were meant to meet and go on this journey together. Sending compassionate condolences in your loss. 🫂🕊️🕯️🙏😇🙏🕯️🕊️

@heyapplekiss

14 күн бұрын

May she rest in peace 🤎

@aw4724

12 күн бұрын

Thank you for your beautiful comment. Wow! My heart broke when I read it but so glad for your time you had with her.

Really good movie. I just don't understand why people are so obsessed with celebrities's lifes. They're just like us but famous. 🤷

@dog_lover20

17 күн бұрын

I agree with you that’s is so true!

@engraciabartolomeu344

17 күн бұрын

Yes😢

@user-ne2rw3jt8q

17 күн бұрын

So true. Well said ❤

@voice.body.wisdom

15 күн бұрын

People project their "subconscious" dreams on them. VIPs embody things which people are longing for. But as an Opera Singer I can say that most stage people have a lot of issues, all the same as we unknown people have. Being on stage mostly means that VIPs also "play" their own dreams in roles but that doesn't mean they have this in their privat life. Of course not all but most of artists have these issues. And there are even a lot of artists on this world who do a lot of amazing work but they aren't famous. Film and theatre industry is really hard and no fun if you look at the details Backstage. A lot of power abuse and so on.

@barbaraallen5290

13 күн бұрын

In these actors cases, they're brilliant at portraying movie roles that make the characters seem so very real and relatable.

Why is it so wrong in the society if the woman is much much older than her man? But it's so acceptable if the man is older than his woman even more than 20 years older

@mindfullymellow2323

16 күн бұрын

Longstanding misogynistic beliefs among many, unfortunately. And women who are younger and can still reproduce are typically considered more attractive/desirable.

@Kingdom-Builders

16 күн бұрын

2 words: double standards

@fannymalana7414

16 күн бұрын

The hypocrisy!

@camillehardy5529

16 күн бұрын

It’s weird both ways imo

@Kbinger06

15 күн бұрын

It's Never Not Wrong, if the age gap is inappropriate (but I feel we all already know that...) ...And within' legal age, the answer is it isn't only acceptable for Older guys. Older women can date and be with younger men As Well. 💁‍♀️ You can't judge who someone falls for... It's their own interest. Also, FYI, I'm not talking about casual hooking up sex. I'm speaking on genuine Realistic Relationships with the two!

That last kissing scene ,so beautiful,with the colors changing in the room ,very tender,and you’re thinking it’s over,then the end ….OMG ,loved it .

Nicholas is just a heart stealer,hes taking both boys and girls and im here for it!

@helenogbonna3361

9 күн бұрын

Loved from purple hearts

Love this movie....it reminds me of another time and place when i was that 40 year old woman seeing a 30 year old musician. We certainly did not have the love story depicted here, but it was intense and meaningful in its own way. I remember getting teased about the age difference and we'd laugh about it...at that time, though, our lives were heading in 2 different directions so we each moved on. But, i remember it with great fondness....and when people ask me if i could go back to a specific age, i always tell them it would be around 40.

@helenogbonna3361

9 күн бұрын

Their love story is wierd but the movie was decent

But Nicholas, that kiss would start a war. My oh my, you can really kiss. Our movie was a bomb, fantastic and brilliant. You are a creative genius indeed

Both of them are such beautiful people 😊😊😊i can't

In Robinne's 2017 The Idea of You book, Solène is 39 and Hayes is 20. In the film, Solène is 40 and Hayes is 24 so instead of a 19 year age gap, there's 16 years between. This film gives hope to single ladies looking for hot young smart wise men with a steady confidence!

@JamesBond-hm3bw

14 күн бұрын

If a woman is someone like Anne then it doesn’t matter her age, whether it’s 25,45 ot 55.

@Winskl9010

10 күн бұрын

4 years wasn’t enough, they could have at least made him 30. 30 is still very young, idk why Hollywood is obsessed with 20 somethings

@JamesBond-hm3bw

10 күн бұрын

@@Winskl9010 This movie is basically based on age gap. If they have some like 10 years gap then the whole movie or plot wouldn't create so much spark like this film or book.

@tusharkumar8750

5 күн бұрын

This movie have a condition which only applicable if you are Anne Hathaway.

@dddd-uk4vn

2 күн бұрын

sorry but a movie isnt real life LMAO younger guys just use older women for a quick pump and dump

I enjoyed this movie and i didnt mind the changes i think they ended up working for the story in a good way

@pnarkocer9651

20 күн бұрын

How is the ending in the book

@leahmuniz530

20 күн бұрын

@@pnarkocer9651 the ending in the book does not end as optimistic as the film. That was something they changed to give fans more "closure". The book ending completely wrecked me when I read it. First ill add in the book her daughter is younger. im pretty sure she's like 13 or 14 or middle school aged. In the book her daughter is obsessed with the band still and on top of that her favorite guy in the band is Hayes. This is also something the changed in the film. They made solenes daughter an older teen who has moved passed her obsession with the band. And Her favorite guy in the band wasn't Hayes in the film it was rory. similar to the movie solene doesn't really tell anyone about Hayes. Especially her daughter because like I said in the book she is obsessed and thinks she loves him. So solene struggles with telling her because she knows it'll destroy her. In the book it comes off as much more of a betrayal to izzy. So izzy doesn't handle the news of solene dating Hayes as well as she does in the film. they make it seem like she honestly doesn't care they're dating at all. she's more so upset her mom didn't tell her in the movie. But in the book she is crushed when she finds out and doesn't talk to solene for days. When she finally comes around to the thought of it she has to deal with all the stuff they show in the film once the relationship is made public. But basically in the book they break up for similar reasons in the movie but it's much more gutwrenching. One thing they didn't show in the film while her and Hayes were together was solenes constant struggle with wanting to be with Hayes because he makes her happy but knowing in the back of her head they'd never work long term because of the age gap. In the book she constantly thinks about what their future would look like with a 20 year age gap. Ex-if they ever married or wanted to have kids or when Hayes is her age she'd be 60. etc In the book Hayes is only 20 turning 21 and solene turns 41 in the book. So they shortened the age gap by 4 Year in the movie. In the book the first fight they have where she leaves doesn't play put the same way in the book. In the book Hayes friend in the band makes multiple passes at solene to get back at Hayes for sleeping with his sister. This is a huge thing in the book and tbh I don't remember if him dedicating the song to her was an act the band had did before or not. So she never gets upset with him over that. Similar to in the film she realizes how hard it's actually been on izzy and everyone else around her because of the attention the media is bringing to the situation. And izzy having to deal with all the bs at school is her driving force for ending it because like I said she's younger in the book so she still has to go all through high school and college like that. Hayes legit begs her not to end things and doesn't understand or accept why they can't make it work. When he shows up at her house after the initial break up in the book its to plead for her to change her mind. they spend one more night to together similar to what they do in the movie and he continues to beg for her to fight for their love insisting they'd make it work despite the age gap. while he's at her house his phone keeps blowing up and when she asks why he tells her he quit the band so they could be together because he looks at it like his "celebrity persona" is the root of why they won't work. She gets upset when she finds out he quit because she looks at it as him throwing away his life and everything he's worked for over something she doesn't think will work in the long run. Now in the books they exchange I love yous way before they ever break up. So when Hayes is pleading with her not to end things one final time because they love each other she ends up saying "maybe she didn't love him she loved the idea of him." They throw that line into the first break up they have when in the book it happened in their final break up and in the movie it didn't hold the same weight it did in the book AT ALL. Like that is the line in the book that completely wrecks Hayes when she ends the relationship closed the door on him. he says that he doesn't believe her and that's she's just saying it to push him away for good. But she insists and basically shuts the door on him. The very last page of the book talks about how Hayes would text text her sometimes multiple times a day to reach out and say he still loved her a missed her for months or maybe even years. But she never ever responds back because she believed this was the only way. The very last line in the book legit was like eventually one day they stopped. But long before she ever stopped loving him 😭😭😭😭💔💔💔💔 every fan of the book absolutely hated the ending because it was just so sad and they never really got any closure. The film ending kinda leaves it open for the fans to interpret it however they want. But kinda insinuates that they probably end up getting back together and making it work. So the film ending was nice because it gave book fans rhe closure we all probably wanted. But the whole 5 year thing never happens in the book. Like if I remember correctly I think Hayes does suggest them taking a break and giving izzy time to get through school and what not but like I said Im the books she's younger so it's a much longer time frame before that would ever happen Which is why solene just says it wouldn't have been realistically possible.

@pnarkocer9651

20 күн бұрын

@@leahmuniz530 thank youuuu 😘😘😘😘😘

@leahmuniz530

19 күн бұрын

@@pnarkocer9651 you're welcome! 💕

@Mahaa523

19 күн бұрын

​@@leahmuniz530 🧡

Loved the movie soo much....love them so much😢

@SamandaOrtega

20 күн бұрын

Ugh thier chemistry was insane

I am 40 and my boyfriend is 26. We met when he was 21. We have been together 5 years and he has been in my kids lives since they were little. They are 7 and 10 now 💪.

@aaronmiles2802

2 күн бұрын

As long as you’re not one of those women who complain when men do the same, more power to you

Thank you for allowing me to live vicariously through Solene, remembering a similar time in my life💞

I loved him in purple hearts movie❤

@lindasolomon1688

18 күн бұрын

I loved that movie. I think I liked this one more. I hated how everyone made her feel bad for dating a younger man, especially women. You would think they would have defended her.

@nhienbui1772

16 күн бұрын

No wonder he looks familiar!

@marionlapierre6088

14 күн бұрын

I watched thé idea of you and enjoyed it. I did not know about Nicholas Galitzine before. I found out about purple hearts after and I loved it. I think I prefer purple hearts. I don't know where I was living 2 YEARS ago for not knowing about this amazing movie. Hope we will get a sequel. Hi from France.

Forever mad this movie blew up. I can't keep gatekeeping my baby anymore😭🙏

Soooo glad they changed the ending !!!!!!❤❤❤❤ happy is so much better than sad.

@joyfulheartinchrist340

11 күн бұрын

Really!? 😯 How was it to end?

@Ani-bh3qh

8 күн бұрын

@@joyfulheartinchrist340 she lis to him at the end denies being in love with him tells him she tells him it was the idea of you. So showing they waited for each other was a game changer. Loved this movie !!!!

Ive always loved them two together . Sometimes when people break up they never talk to each other again. But with hayes and solene they just remained friends thats the best part

Such a great movie.

This movie is very special ❤

First of all I'm so in love with the movie its just to perfect i would love to watch it thousand times, it's definitely worth it tho I'm so proud of the actors also with nick

it’s wild his characterization 😭 even harry’s tattooes

@nternetrat

17 күн бұрын

omfg this is so one direction/harry god damn styles !!!

@fannymalana7414

17 күн бұрын

Not a single tattoo of Hayes similar to that of Harry.

Thanks you for your beautiful video ! Amazing movie with FANTASTIC actors ❤

I watch it repeatedly 💖👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🎼🎶✔️🥰

great job

Loved the movie and the soundtrack! ❤

Super love this movie ❤

I fell in love with a 36 yr old man when I was 59 we hung out a few times it was awesome...🤗💯

Beautiful movie love ther story line love it

I don’t need to watch it cos I literally just watched it right here! 🤣 Thaaaankkksssss 🥰

Loved the movie

i need to watch this asap

A wonderful movie ❤❤❤

Love this movie. Part 2 pls.😊

Love this movie 💜

I love this movie so much

Anne Hathaway and Nicholas seem so natural, down to earth and genuinely GOOD people. I was a professional golfer and was friends with several of the touring pros. Professional golfers are like other athletes and let's face it celebrities like movie stars. They hare just like you and me with their own hangups and issues. The only difference between them and "normal" people is that they are extremely talented and driven with one particular skill; whether it be acting, sports, theater, etc. The only difference between them and others is that they've figured out how to win, how to reach to top of their profession. If one takes a good look at OJ Simpson for example, now there was a head case, if there ever was one, who was extremely talented at football and intelligent. There are other celebrities who actually have their heads on straight. No different than everyone else in society. What I found so interesting in this movie was how vicious and cruel so many people were at one celebrity's happiness. Talk about who's screwed up. The fans had worse issues than the celebrities.

So sweet

Yes love the movie

Goodt lawd the way he puts his shirt on even!

We want The Idea Of You 2

@soundsforyou1362

17 күн бұрын

Yes we need to see what happens ❤

@esthertorres1610

14 күн бұрын

@@soundsforyou1362yes please part 2

@joyfulheartinchrist340

11 күн бұрын

Totally agree 💯

I couldn't take my eyes from hayes ngl he's so hot

@jbonegaming512

14 сағат бұрын

Fr

They changed a few things from the book mostly some good changes

Nice editing.

Amazing film amazing actors ❤❤❤❤

Nicholasssss!!!! ❤❤❤❤

Très joli film.

@colombemilongui5350

5 күн бұрын

c’est quoi le nom stp

Imagine your mom married jungkook😂

@yoorawidaa1350

15 күн бұрын

Oh hell naaaah I spate my water reading this 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@soniap8263

15 күн бұрын

Dude why😂

@yourkpopgirlie

15 күн бұрын

Nope, nah, nada. I'm sorry Mom, but this is the end of our relationship. Lol No seriously if someone's mother knows that their daughter is crazy for/has a huge crush on/in love with a man, doesn't matter if he's a celeb or not, the mom should stay away.

@GizelleLockie

14 күн бұрын

I would cry😭😭😭

@aerialnight6907

13 күн бұрын

Oh nooooo❤😂my heart

Film allegro , divertente, solare , gli attori funzionano molto bene insieme , c'è feeling e non è sempre scontato avvenga , la storia apparentemente leggera ma in realtà affronta temi molto intensi, la differenza di età tra una donna più matura ed un uomo giovane che fa ancora scalpore , il piacere di una donna che anche se mamma non per questo deve essere relegata e fissa a quel ruolo ed internet che se usato male può fare danni immensi . Anche io adoro dei gruppi ma non mi interessa la loro vita privata , per me possono avere 10 mogli, 5 cani , 2 amanti...problemi loro . Il finale mi piace perche , come dice una canzone ...certi amori non finiscono , fanno solo dei giri immensi ma ritornano .

❤

❤❤

Just beautiful 😊🎥✌️I’m too old for you 👌🫶

I would be jealous of my mom😢

She was amazing, I seen most her movies, she was so sexxier, than before ❤

The movie portrayed the exact thought process that happens with this age gap. That's trully what happened. It might as well be "based on real facts"....

They look so much alike....like siblings....who else think the same

@AlexSmith-jj6rp

14 күн бұрын

nah

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ desde 🇺🇾🇺🇾 no enbromen con la edad😂😂😂

you work fast

Eu quero assistir

To be honest, I have not seen this movie yet, but I can say that after this, it is going to be my favorite movie, what do you think? ❤😊

i dunno, i loved a man 11 years different. it wasn’t enough for me, to know myself well enough and to know how hard i would end up working to stay feeling relevant, rather than honouring my journey into older age as an woman and becoming myself.. but maybe others honour different choices.. but he is a dear friend still and he has an awesome woman his own age now. a young man as mature as this hayes appears to be would be a great father i think. anyway, too complex, its hollywood..

Por dios los ojasos del pibe

Why on earth a woman cant love a younger man? Thats quite normal for a guy. Bullshit

@aaronmiles2802

2 күн бұрын

Lol, human biology and physiology. A man has no evolutionary incentive to want an older woman, nor a psychological one.

It happen age gap ❤

Donde la puedo ver 😢

@MarEdit054

18 күн бұрын

Prime video

Hayes looks like a really hot, brunette McCauley Caulkin.

ذكرتني بقصة كانيتا وضحى ❤

I think it's important to remember the fantasy aspect of this movie. You have two gorgeous and successful people that meet and fall in love. All the passion, tenderness, and heat is inspiring and addicting. If these were two ordinary people, wherein he's really 20 and she's 40the age gap would be daunting to get past. Especially since her daughter is only a few years younger. You'd start throwing around the terms like pedophile or cradrob.

I just can't believe this is Harry Styles fan faction.

@TainaPR2024

10 күн бұрын

Really?

@jacquelyndavis4437

9 күн бұрын

@LisaLisa-gv3hc that's what I heard. And so are the after movies on Netflix. It's was fan fiction.

I liked the movie but the daughter needed thicker skin...

@Belaugh

17 күн бұрын

If she had thicker skin the story would be different, now wouldn't it?

@user-rr7bo8mg9n

12 күн бұрын

No, she didn’t, lol. She literally did her best for her mom, it wasn’t her fault.

What song is this

So I read the book. It was by far better than the movie. Why did they have to make soooo much changes. The book had some cringy to it, but the movie was extra cringey. 😢

We they end game

@JamaicanRain

12 күн бұрын

It’s up in the air. In the book, no.

is this like notting hill but with age gap?

@kosarjavadian1664

17 күн бұрын

Kinda

Extremely amazing movie with sh*t ending..... Seriously tho nowadays half of the celebs marry older females. And see their age gaps. And they're all happy together with kids and all.... This movie made me cringe tbh. Especially the tweets of people. Like come on bruh you're not in the 1670s. You're in 2024 and Survived COVID and still in the middle of the war. Give us a break. Try to change the mentality.... I hate the movie but I really really Love this movie. So Adorable. So Cute..... "That Love which is one of a kind". So Beautiful ❤️

@gabriellamaurelli3194

16 күн бұрын

Perché finale di merda?lui ritorna, e ciò fa capire che se ritorna e per stare con lei serenamente....più facile di così ❤❤.....

@corpse7333

16 күн бұрын

@@gabriellamaurelli3194 He returned not be with her. They were separated. The Love was there in some other dimension. But they couldn't be close to each other. Read the book pal.

@gabriellamaurelli3194

16 күн бұрын

@@corpse7333 non sono d'accordo

@corpse7333

16 күн бұрын

@@gabriellamaurelli3194 I'm not arguing with you. People can have different opinions ok. I've shared my opinions. You have your opinion. So just let it be....

@mysterymachine94

14 күн бұрын

Their chemistry sold the movie. Not the storyline so much.

I have a delulu life, being old, loves kpop boy groups.. I have watched this movie, and my delulu meter just go higher I’m in a big trouble

How did it end good or

@geraldinemichel5195

17 күн бұрын

I found the ending to be realistic.

Él es el mismo actor de "Corazones malheridos" de Netflix?

@maddd.27

18 күн бұрын

Sí

Is it a happy ending?

@nehaprajapati3229

18 күн бұрын

Yes, go for it

@Sophie-xs7hg

17 күн бұрын

​@@nehaprajapati3229 REALLY THEN I AM SOOO HAPPY READING THE BOOK WAS SOO HARD

@leahmuniz530

17 күн бұрын

Compared to the book yes

What's the movie tilte

@jbonegaming512

14 сағат бұрын

The Idea of You

♡♡

Pls what is the of the movie

@daniellegracemapotaavomo9730

20 күн бұрын

The idea of you

@comichope325

20 күн бұрын

Boring movie... Reas the book.. Its better... More boss bitch vibes... And the sex scenes are good in it.... In this its just boooorrrringgg

Movie name??

@jbonegaming512

14 сағат бұрын

The Idea of You

Name of the movie please ??

@MarEdit054

10 күн бұрын

The idea of you

There are a lot of kisses in this movie?

@beyzakartal6887

3 күн бұрын

Yes and more

The movie was o. k.. I don´t mind the changes from the book, especially the ending 😍😍. But the pace in the 2nd half of the movie was off. And why does it have a R-Rating ????????

@TravelwithTasha393

20 күн бұрын

It had an R rating because of the sexual content that was there.

@JasminGeigle

20 күн бұрын

@@TravelwithTasha393 That was not worth a R-Rating 😂

@pnarkocer9651

20 күн бұрын

How is ending in the book???

@KerryOdero

20 күн бұрын

@@pnarkocer9651 they don't end up together

@nursyahirahnordin7872

18 күн бұрын

ouh really?😮​@@KerryOdero

I havent seen the movie, but did they end up together?

@pegapage9603

16 күн бұрын

They end up with the possibility to be together.

🥹❤️

Tbh, i really don’t get what some movies are trying to normalize… And the scenarios are stupidly sometimes unrealistic. No mother goes to her teenage daughter crying and getting advice about her 20ish y-o boyfriend. Just look how funny the whole thing is 😹

Did they ended up together

@greenvrld7730

14 күн бұрын

In the movie yes but in the book no

They were both so hot and good to look at in the movie. It could’ve had more depth and substance, instead, it felt like a VERY light movie which is fine. It was airy and breezy 🌸 I’ve never heard of students bashing women for dating younger men. Most students find it hot that a woman would date a guy who’s 12 years younger. Nor have I heard of guys who text girls, the way that Izzy claimed Trevor texted her.

@xo_xo_9890

7 күн бұрын

Bruh. Guys send gross text messages like that every. single.day. That part wasn't actually unrealistic.

Hayes Campbell sounds like a soup.

Anne is too old for Nicholas but she's still beautiful.

@CH-zc8qx

18 күн бұрын

That's literally the plot of the movie. Anyhow, he's 29 and she's 41. A 12 year age gap wouldve meant nothing had the genders been reversed.

@LeslieRGore

18 күн бұрын

So than why is it okay when the guy is older exactly?

@RedDeadPandaGaming

18 күн бұрын

She is also the wrong gender for him too

@19Rena96

16 күн бұрын

@@LeslieRGore because both are adults..

@LeslieRGore

16 күн бұрын

@@19Rena96 they are both adults in the book and movie so this makes no sense

I love this movie