We can not only put the blame on a man and say the girl is vulnerable. She is also cheating her cousin with her own will.

@hamsawasif4126

Ай бұрын

Exactly ....cheating is a choice

@usmansabir1407

Ай бұрын

No , we certainly can and should blame the woman too. You just don't want to because of your gender bias it'll be hard to swallow. Why not blame the woman in this scenario ? A grown adult with functional brain. How ? Why only one is accountable ? If the man was adult and she was minor, then you can put all blame on man because then she could be accepted as naive or vulnerable. On one hand you say she is cheating her cousin with her own will , and then you say we can only blame the man. Hmm, delusion delusion.

@duaaimran4169

Ай бұрын

I don't agree....... Larkiyaan emotional hoti hain sensitive hoti hain, itna dimagh isteemal ni karti ..... 100% kasoor us admi ka hay ..... Ajkal kay admiyon ka dimagh kharab hogaya hay chahay teenage larka ho ya shadi shuda.... Apni biwi kay sath loyal ni hotay lekin baad mai biwi pr sara blame dal detay ki mein khush ni hun

@RusticBlend

Ай бұрын

Yes you are right but here the subject is that girl and the whole issue is seen through her perspective

@afshanusman9333

Ай бұрын

Exactly.. in fact in this case the girl's qasoor is more as she is doing this to her cousin. What kind of person that makes her..

Rabia and her braveness to talk about daring topics👏🏻

@sababhatti9886

Ай бұрын

wonderful talk

@SyedabaninRizvi

Ай бұрын

Every one wants to discuss but due to some personal reasons and social circumstances we people avoid having all about discuss but rabia thanks for your discussion ❤😊

@willymontana

Ай бұрын

Go to Pakistan

extra marital affairs are increasing in our society.. i am happy that someone has taken courage to talk about this.

@KidsSuperstar-xg4zf

Ай бұрын

Acha ye ab society ko bachaegi

When I saw the title of this video, I was a little skeptical. But the way you discussed such a difficult topic so beautifully is truly appreciable. Love it!

Please you need more to talk about these topics. It's very necessary in today's busy world. Please play your part to improve the concept on these kinds of social issues.

So true, well said You suggested her to perform istikhara and tahajjud - two powerful weapons of a mumin subhanallah May Allah bless you rabia❤ ameen

I’m divorced and my ex had also cheated on me with his old friend and then left me. I was approached recently by an old class fellow who is married, I plainly told him “No”. I cannot do the same to another woman that was done to me! Period. Girls need to be strong enough to not fall for false promises. These kind of men are just interested in flings and not a real relationship. This point of man can marry up to 4 times is also misinterpreted too much in our culture. Any man who wants to remarry has to get permission from his wife, legally as well as morally. And he has to treat both wives equally in every way. How many men can do that?

@markhan839

Ай бұрын

You are 100 % right I totally agree with you but this thing is tremondously increassing in PAKISTAN and in muslim society ... k mardo ny ye ekkk rttt lgaye hui that is islam we are allowed for 4 marriages. I dont know Islam ko forgranted use kr rahy hai koi agy details nahi dekhi kuch nahi likn bss 4 shadyann krnii.

@hudabaig2504

Ай бұрын

Tu yehi log Roz e qiamat falij zafa uthae jaen ge,Jo insaaf nahi Karen ge ye inn ko koi nahi batata

@ahmedsadat1751

Ай бұрын

My cousin recently married to indian girl in abroad. He was already married to my another cousin. Now he is taking care both of them. Aur han permission bhi li thi us ne before getting married to another girl. Now they are all happily spending their lives. 🙂

@sarahsheikh9439

Ай бұрын

@@ahmedsadat1751 but what was the reason? Was he not happy with the first wife? Why isn’t she enough for him? Pata nahin kis dil se ya kis majboori se bechari ne permission de hoge!

@zaraazeem5408

Ай бұрын

Allow to Divorce & Khulaa bhi hay, phir laitay rahain Khulaas & daitay rahain divorces. 4 wives simultaneously achi aexcuse for thurki behavior. #Digusting

Destroying somebody's home and trying to make it yours 🙂

@hudabaig2504

Ай бұрын

Esa hi hai,aur herat ki baat hai,ese log behad khush rehte hain for example ap indian actresses ko dekhe almost sub second wives hain aur bari Khush bhi hain 🤗

@hummingbird9584

Ай бұрын

This reminds me of Israhell. 😂

@amnashah7375

Ай бұрын

@@hummingbird9584 yeah after commenting it I realized this too😂

@seeminahmednecklaces

Ай бұрын

@@hudabaig2504 actresses ki baat chorein wo islami moashrey nahi quraan mey her cheese tüfseel sey majood hey apni zuban ney quraan perhna zaroorI Berket key liey Quran nahi zindegi guzarney ka Asool hey muselman per furz hey ❤khush rahei

@AqeelAhmed-ef6um

Ай бұрын

zionist thing

مجھے بہت خوشی ہوئی کہ آپ جیسی چھوٹی لڑکی ایسے موضوع پر بات کر سکتی ہے اور اتنی سمجھداری سے درست راستے کی رہنمائی کر سکتی ہے .اس کا م کو جاری رکھیں .اللہ آپ کو جزائے خیر دے

Slamat rhy Abad rhy khush rhy(Allah ap ko apne aur qareeb Kare ap say razi rhy humshah)

@user-of2hs7tm7q

Ай бұрын

Aameen

THANK YOU for using your platform for these conversations.

Such a wonderful topic.Proud of you bravery to talk on such a topic. Hats of to you.

So brave of you rabia to bring up such conversations! Such a beautiful message and the way you talk! 100% going to stay in my mind your sentences are so pure and insightful

People always talk about the problems of society without presenting solutions. Great Rabia. Good advice!

very much inspired to listen you. you not only guided logically but spiritually also. you didn't typically blamed the girl only but the man who involved in a forbidden way. our society needs the sensibles to speak. an evil man couldn't do such evil as the silence of sensibles.

Affairs are wrong, sinful and destructive- no excuses at all. I speak from personal experience. A “friend” went after my husband and got him. He left me and our two beautiful children totally and never looked back.

@strawberrypopsicle863

Ай бұрын

So sorry to hear this. I hope you and your family remain strong!

@gazellekhan5042

Ай бұрын

Stay strong dear .Allah will help u IA

@areesihayat448

Ай бұрын

Then you should be thankful to Allah for taking two pieces of sh*t out of your life.

@sarahqamar6377

Ай бұрын

This is wrong of him and his mum's ignorance of not teaching him

@Ali-vq1ig

Ай бұрын

Life is hard

Thank you for talking about this. And veryyy well said! Kudos

Thanks . Please speak more on these kind of topics too

So true. Good talk Rabia 100% agreed with what you have said Girls need to be more careful

thank you, did a good job explaining

Massive respect for speaking about it. Keep up the strength

Truly appreciate your wise words. It's good to see someone related to the entertainment industry giving out positive and morally correct advise. I haven't subscribed your channel but you certainly earned my like and subscription after this. Keep up the good work with these pep talks, people need to hear about this.

Glad you talked about this real issue. It is on the rise. Well done

I saw her interviews in Fchshia but she is such a wise lady, I had no idea... beautiful message

Totally agree with what you say and I'm glad you talk about it

Wow! I think that this was a very important topic to cover as it will open up a conversation that is, normally, never had. As you pointed out, many people do not have a safe place to go to and seek advice as the subject can be so taboo. This will surely help those who are going through it now, or those who are thinking about it. It might also be a moment of reflection for those unfortunate enough to have fallen for this age old tactic! Well done 👍

Rabia, your guidance to her is absolutely correct. That guy must be identified and dealt with.

You have chosen a very good topic.

Rabia I salute your braveness for speaking out on such issues and the fact that you step out of your way to help someone struggling out there! You’re such a positive and motivational soul. May Allah bless you more!❤

you spoke so well...without being judgemental

Awesome advice for young girls and boys …. Stay blessed…. You are doing a fantastic job !!!

So good to see a very spiritual side of you Rabia....and a good advice to all women.

Thank you so much for talking on this topic. This video is very useful 💯

I MUST APPRECIATE, YOU HAVE DONE GOOD JOB, RABIA JEE! WELL SPOKEN AND I REALLY LIKED IT, THIS SHOULD BE CONVERSATE ON THE DAILY BASIS THAT CAN WOMEN BE AWARE AND DEAL IT WITH CARE.

Excellent topic. Well said

Very well said, talked about the key points.

To the point. Excellent advice. Keep it up.

Very well spoken...Great advice and ideology ❤

So much right analysis i will appreciate you that you give 100% good suggestions 👍

Your words are speechless.... You have spoken my mind..❤

Great work...i would really appreciate you for this 👍... More power to you 👏

Excellent Rabia...honestly eis tarha k issues pe bat krny ki bht zaroorat hai you did a great job

I really appreciate your take on this point Rabia. You always come up with something so relatable and unique. And I think this is how we all should start talking about these things so that we can create safe spaces for the people around us to share anything and everything they want to share. This way many bad things could be avoided from happening.

@samreenkhan6203

Ай бұрын

That’s the problem I have with Pakistani dramas, especially hasrat. It’s disappointing and completely sets the wrong standards. It’s not justified in any society, let’s all have boundaries and an amount of self respect. Let’s not glamorise.

@khushboo6699

Ай бұрын

Great Rabia. This is the type of video that we need to make when you have the power to influence people. Please do remake such moral related videos and we will continue to give you unwavering support. Take care❤❤

So gooood rabia, so gooood, so much needed stuff

Much needed topic to talk about.. specially our dramas portraying single girls to run behind married men making schemes to get that man is causing so much destruction to the young minds..

@vinsin328

Ай бұрын

Because Pakistan is an Islamic country.

Appreciate your concerns about this very important matter... I appreciate a lot.. we all have to look after our families

Rabia you are absolutely right. We have left no safe space for our kids to discuss their issues. I wish parents could have hart to create a dailogue with their kids.

Lovely convo!!! I always admire you, but this time you nailed it! You're such a beautiful soul. Loads and loads of duas for you! ❤❤❤ Keep me in your duas, please. ❤

Very well said and good suggestions

Very true... Well done very brave to discuss this topic

U r gem of a lady.....wisely said .....very well said....I'm short of words to appreciate ur thoughts

As working woman I also observed such things in offices .thank you for vouce and discussed about the topic very good❤

Good message!

I am just surprised and happy at the same time that someone is talking so positive with a great intellect in today’s time❤ keep up d

You perfectly explained i totally agree with every word you spoke ❤❤❤

Brilliant topic !

Such a interesting topic to talk about, we all need awareness and specifically in a name of love the judgment of right and wrong.

There are a thousand likes on your video! It couldnt have been boring my dear! You are a wise young lady and contributing greatly for young minds to get impressed! Keep them coming… the boring videos! 🙂

Lovely very lovely way u spoke🎉❤

Omg beautiful topic Rabia sis such an eye 👁️ opener for us all nd our young generation..im going to share this on my social media ❤

Such an amazing topic brought by you, this is getting so common in our culture, earlier it was part of western culture only.. I hope girls get some sanity and careful in this regard, if he can cheat his wife, he can cheat you as well, always remember that.. Amazing response Rabia :)

You explained very well Appreciate 👏👏

God bless you that you tells us as a teacher truth thing you will receive reward from the God as well as in the world. Sumah amen from usa.

This channel is a Pk gem

Excellent Rabia you explain very well no body talk on these topics. you done 👍

This is exactly what I would tell to my friend and also I would practice the same thing!!! It’s amazing how you emphasized the importance of tahajjud,istikhara and dua 😘❤️❤️…you delivered the message very pleasantly

Very well said Rabia.

MashaALLAH bohat hi important topic ko highlight kia hai ap ne.This I'd really inspirering ke media se related person itni religious baat itne acchy aur asaan tareqe se Kare Well done.

Brother in law and sister in law relationship is the most ridiculous relationship in the universe seriously 😮😮

Hats off to Rabia, keep going strong IA, great topic,it was courageous of u to bring up this topic 👍

Well narrated hats off

God just bless you... I really appreciate you for this and really needed topic to talk about this. JazakaAllah

Good Conversation !

Well said Rabia app nay boohat achi baatian ki ❤May Allah protect everyone Aameen

it was a very difficult and bold topic but you have discussed it in a very beautiful way and every word was very true highly appreciated and duas to you for good suggestions

Good job dear Rabia ,good reply ,very true !! I am impressed 👍

Very hood topic and a must talk about one indeed. 👍. It is very common and a disgusting one. Allot of brothers in law do this. But a girl should know how to keep strong boundaries . Never give a soft or a lenient response. Always involve your elders and be vocal about your situation with confidence and learn to stand up for yourself. Don't let the excuses /consequences make you weak . Always and always stand up for yourself and guard your self respect. Don't settle on the crumbs of offers that a married man gives you just to use you like a tissue. God bless all the daughters and sisters inshallah. ameen

Thanks Rabia for this video

Very well thoughts, you elaborate your thoughts wisely which I really appreciate. You seem to be a confident well composed person which girls need to follow to get guidance. Really appreciated 👍

Always watch your interviews with stars.. this video is something new and the respect I had for you has doubled.. bless you❤

Much needed topic… an eye aopener

Very well said👍

Amazing .. u explained it so beautifully and positively such a difficult topic

Important topic..well done Rabia..Respect..

Very important topic.. you are very inspiring

Great Rabia❤❤❤ Plz keep it up discuss more topic's like this.

Great job Rabia

I love it Rabia. So well explained. Gave so much food for thought. I have a daughter. I am scared of this world, but like you said, prayer and ALLAhs help can save us, and our children. The only solution left in the world rightnow,.

Well said Rabia but the truth is evil 😈 is too much in our life and he attacked people but good people keep away from these things

Well done Rabia. You touched a very pertinent point in the lives of today's women, especially working women. And you gave the best guidance - Dua, Tahajjud and ISTIKHARA. Doing Istikhara whenever we are at the crossroads of our lives, solves numerous issues in the BEST WAY

Very nice topic you choose ❤❤

Amazing, you are 👍 It's important to discuss these topics to raise awareness especially for those who doesnt have any other source. Moreover, there's a great audience following you, you never know how much people are benefiting from these videos(especially for those who don't have anyone for the guidance). It could encourage them to reflect on their actions and what needs to be considered👍👍

The problem is, most women have made second marriage a "sin" in the society .. why "leave his wife", he can marry both.

Great topic rabia❤

Same name Rabia🤭 I really like u…. U hv chosen a great topic n we must talk about these social topics… this is our society’s need

Please make more videos on social topics You are very clear in your thinking and you are very helpful!!!!!!!

@iamrabiamughni

Ай бұрын

Thank you, I will try.

@ayshagondalvlogs6606

5 күн бұрын

​@iamrabiamughni u said also make a topic about affair with married women as well

Brave.you have a vast vision in your thoughts and towards life. Keep it up with you making efforts to show the different aspects of life.❤

Very sensible and good for everyone ❤.

Very well said...

What a topic 👏🏻