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Have you ever been in a toxic relationship? Laterras R. Whitfield joins. | Hello Hubby S2, 201

After taking a year off from Hello Hubby, Jessica Reedy sits down with Laterras R. Whitfield, the show's producer, for a candid conversation of her whereabouts. You will be shocked by this conversation, yet find enlightenment on your love journey.
CONNECT WITH LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD | / laterrasrwhitfield

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  • @latashalewis873
    @latashalewis873 Жыл бұрын

    Laterras is so patient in interviews and a good listener.

  • @inetherwalker7000

    @inetherwalker7000

    Жыл бұрын

    Hey I live in Oklahoma drop his name, so I can go the other way.

  • @ladeanridley5782

    @ladeanridley5782

    Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely 💯!

  • @blacksongbird100

    @blacksongbird100

    Жыл бұрын

    Facts! I forgot it was her show! 🤣🤣

  • @thehitmaster102

    @thehitmaster102

    Жыл бұрын

    Love this testimony

  • @celestinnarose

    @celestinnarose

    Жыл бұрын

    Facts

  • @margueritepierre519
    @margueritepierre519 Жыл бұрын

    I laughed so hard at the end of the this podcast!! In all of Jessica’s humor at the end. She was so spot on. A man who wants, will pursue you.

  • @monawilliams286

    @monawilliams286

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m at that part now and I’m in stitches! 😂😂😂

  • @lovefelix1566

    @lovefelix1566

    Жыл бұрын

    I skip past other parts and have watched that several times

  • @nicolamighty4055

    @nicolamighty4055

    Жыл бұрын

    This is gold! The end of this is the best, I was in stitches.

  • @nursed.porchae990

    @nursed.porchae990

    10 ай бұрын

    Same. Like that's crazy! I hope she was joking

  • @saige80
    @saige80 Жыл бұрын

    This podcast is setting people free for real!!! I found myself in the story regarding a whole different situation; same script, different setting, and cast. Thank you Lord for your mercies!!!!

  • @tammys5417

    @tammys5417

    Жыл бұрын

    So true. Thank you for your transparency @saige80. 🙏🏽🙌🏽

  • @msprettysunshine

    @msprettysunshine

    11 ай бұрын

    Same.. I was upset for a long time .. thank you Jessica

  • @sunshinegold9093

    @sunshinegold9093

    7 ай бұрын

    Glad to hear the testimony of others who are getting saved from these pods

  • @maresagillespie9821

    @maresagillespie9821

    5 ай бұрын

    Facts

  • @lulun2936
    @lulun2936 Жыл бұрын

    The chemistry and pure joy of friendship between the two of you is contagious. Jessica, maybe you and Laterras need to rub your eyes to see what’s right in front of you. Girl, you’ve got me laughing real hard today. Thank you for doing it for us. I learned doing my divorce how dumb I was in the marriage. Joker took my Christianity for weakness. Blessings to y’all. Again, don’t sleep on each other.

  • @prettycaramel9237

    @prettycaramel9237

    Жыл бұрын

    This

  • @KeyonnaD

    @KeyonnaD

    Жыл бұрын

    I was thinking the exact same thing. Including how stupid I was in my marriage.

  • @davidsfaith3205

    @davidsfaith3205

    Жыл бұрын

    I am telling you

  • @trinimom7686

    @trinimom7686

    Жыл бұрын

    Right from the very podcast with her they have the same heart and desire for love.

  • @keahharrison4765

    @keahharrison4765

    Жыл бұрын

    I just watched another interview with them and they definitely have chemistry

  • @deg257
    @deg257 Жыл бұрын

    When you said “I don’t have to test the waters anymore.” That blessed me because I had to learn the same thing.

  • @lb1798

    @lb1798

    10 ай бұрын

    45:39 How I deal with physical fighting and other issues is going to lead to my death...gem 💎 48:11. "The REAL WHY ..so that I could grow" ❤

  • @lb1798

    @lb1798

    10 ай бұрын

    I JUST PAYED FOR AN EXPENSIVE Conference CLASS...I FELT THAT!! 52:23

  • @lb1798

    @lb1798

    10 ай бұрын

    1:33:56A face and a butt....Jessica has Lateras laughing as hard as the lady who's wig fell off

  • @dejaemerson98
    @dejaemerson98 Жыл бұрын

    I’m 24, & I just left a toxic relationship. I needed to hear this. ❤

  • @krisfrench77

    @krisfrench77

    Жыл бұрын

    Better days are coming. Be encouraged!!!!

  • @monawilliams286

    @monawilliams286

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank God you’re free!! (I was 24 when I left an abusive relationship sonI can feel this!)

  • @fruitinspector8247

    @fruitinspector8247

    Жыл бұрын

    Praise God.

  • @wendyjenkins1559

    @wendyjenkins1559

    Жыл бұрын

    @@monawilliams286 my daughter is 22 and she just came out of one couple of Months 😭 it's a journey 🤗

  • @jazzmichelle12

    @jazzmichelle12

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes we will heal 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿

  • @godsfav
    @godsfav Жыл бұрын

    Powerful testimony. Once you heal, your life will change forever.

  • @barbarafreeny4082
    @barbarafreeny4082 Жыл бұрын

    This was another amazing episode. Jessica has the incredible ability to make light of a painful moment. I love how you took responsibility for how you got yourself in this situation instead of holding someone else hostage for the pain they caused.

  • @my5cents833
    @my5cents833 Жыл бұрын

    When stupid convinces you you're smart...🤣. Been there. Your podcast, And especially Jessica of all your guests, have been a blessing and a learning experience in my life.

  • @marilynwhite6286

    @marilynwhite6286

    Жыл бұрын

    Ikr...she said...yes, yes I am...🤣🤭😆

  • @MsShandraE
    @MsShandraE Жыл бұрын

    I was annoyed in the beginning of this story because I didn’t immediately see how it was unfolding….. I’m glad I kept listening… it’s a journey for sure. The message wedged between this, concerning Peter & Judas, absolutely beautiful! A message that prunes & shift’s perspective… a message that heals. Thank you for this Jessica! And when she started singing!! Beautiful 💜💜💜

  • @WordWoman111

    @WordWoman111

    Жыл бұрын

    Same. I almost clicked out. Thankful I kept listening.

  • @Iamlonndanicole

    @Iamlonndanicole

    Жыл бұрын

    That’s why in this day we gotta be patient…the best tasting food, simmers…..

  • @yemedemure414

    @yemedemure414

    Жыл бұрын

    I almost clicked off too. She wasn’t serious enough. I’m going to see it through 😂😂

  • @aprilshorty4094

    @aprilshorty4094

    11 ай бұрын

    ​@@IamlonndanicoleAmen 🙏

  • @nicolesmith4312
    @nicolesmith4312 Жыл бұрын

    The BANTER between you two is UNMATCHED…PERIODTT🤣! The way I laugh from the gut at stuff that’s not funny, cry from the heart of the vulnerability and the way you paint a picture with words, and how I HOLLA and have to press pause from the WISDOM!! You are built for THIS!! May God continue to bless you and your boys. (Side note, Need an episode about single black moms raising boys)

  • @ms.b7390
    @ms.b7390 Жыл бұрын

    Great to see you back and more importantly safe. I love the chemistry you two share. You come across as if you could have been siblings exchanging banter or friends for decades. A key moment that stood out was when Laterras expressed his upset with you because he sensed the guy was not the one. When we come out of those toxic relationships I swear it’s like we spot toxic people like they carry a scent of spoiled milk.

  • @Tonnie31

    @Tonnie31

    Жыл бұрын

    I would like to see him do a show with his ex wife before he meets his future wife

  • @karlindabailey9467

    @karlindabailey9467

    Жыл бұрын

    First time see you love it

  • @pamelaswain1551
    @pamelaswain1551 Жыл бұрын

    When you said stupid thinks you’re smart oh my God I can relate. I got in a relationship just like the one you speak 🗣 of I’m so glad I’m delivered and healed. Good to see you back Jessica!! 💯🌹Laterras laugh is so infectious you can’t help but laugh along with him.

  • @absolutetreasures6877
    @absolutetreasures6877 Жыл бұрын

    Lord knows I didn’t know where this was going, but I kept watching and listening and this blessed my soul because I’m a widow and I’ve been doing my best to heal the ways I used to go about a man and I’ve been by myself going on four years and sometimes I get so lonely and I know if I allow my loneliness to get the best of me, I’ll go back to old ways, but praise God for you Jessica. Thank you for sharing your story. Yes I am determined to take this lesson and past the test. Loneliness will not get the best of me and cause me to walk in a bad relationship, a relationship outside the Will of God. Thanks to you both. You have no idea what you’ve just done. Thank you 🙏🏾.

  • @matebellomakhetha2342

    @matebellomakhetha2342

    Жыл бұрын

    @absolute , I know my sister what you are going through. I'm also a widow who is so lonely and only get to be happy when I'm in church or at work. I know that God is working through me and one day I will stand up and be better than sitting here and wallowing about my situation. These conversations or podcasts lifts me up a lot.

  • @ChrisnathaTV
    @ChrisnathaTV Жыл бұрын

    Jessica, its ok to leave situations and relationships completely. You are beautiful, wise, healed... when you close the door, lock it behind you. I see your heart. Trust me, its okay to leave some people behind. I have been there but no more. You got this, and happy the podcast is back :)

  • @pamelamensah588
    @pamelamensah588 Жыл бұрын

    Jessica is like my MIRROR: we look nothing alike, but our story is very much alike. THANK YOU, God, for Jessica and Laterras being LIT in conversation to help us through our healing journey❤

  • @jackiewallace8516
    @jackiewallace8516 Жыл бұрын

    When she said at 28:50 "I need you to understand I lowered myself on purpose, I have not spread my wings in front of you, on purpose because of your insecurity, I didnt want to flex on you, because I knew...He would walk in tp rooms and start taking the moment, feeling diminished when walking into rooms for you." I could cry... so relatable. The meanness and him demeaning women to feel like a king... wow. This is my story all the way up until the violence part. It didn't get that far for me, but he had one time to get into my face and bark at me while putting his hand in my face. I knew I couldn't let it go that far, but I knew that's what was next. No matter how meek, Humble, kind, helpful I was to his life.... he was so mean and would not stop the disrespect and verbal/mental abuse despite me letting him know it was a boundary. I knew he was jealous of my light and wanted to break me and was getting frustrated that his words didn't penetrate me. I knew if I stayed, eventually he would snuff out my light physically or spiritually . I walked away in the middle of the night, packed my apartment and left before he returned. I never gave him closure.

  • @seedofabraham0149

    @seedofabraham0149

    Жыл бұрын

    Yet she's physical abusive in hitting him because of her put of control anger. If a man said that you and others on this stream would be looking to cancel him. The hypocrisy within the black church is frightening.

  • @quianavarner2686

    @quianavarner2686

    Жыл бұрын

    You don't need to give him closure. Your mental health and healing is what are important. At the end of the day he was trying to break you and he didn't. You learned this lesson and are hopefully healing from it. Peace and blessings.

  • @tintina2753

    @tintina2753

    Жыл бұрын

    @@seedofabraham0149 what are you talking about? The lady went to jail for that and she even had to pay restitution to him. You might want to listen to the whole conversation again or perhaps you like most of us need to do some internal healing work to appreciate healing conversations.

  • @lisam201

    @lisam201

    Жыл бұрын

    I’ve dimmed my light to the most ungrateful nasty and disrespectful men so many times. Well this cocoon has turned into a butterfly 🦋. Never again! Now they call me selfish and that’s the only thing they ever got right 😂

  • @beneiseoleinmheart5614

    @beneiseoleinmheart5614

    3 ай бұрын

    Good fi you🎉 red 🚩 flags are your CUE to 🏃 🏃 and don't look back!! They are narcissist that feed on your "soul energy." You're right he would have drained you. Be free bi the Holy Spirit of God the Father through the blood of his precious Son, Jesus Christ. AMEN.

  • @aliseclkkc
    @aliseclkkc Жыл бұрын

    I truly ENJOYED this episode from the very beginning to end. Therapeutic! Laughter, Truth, self reflecting, shocking & ALL!❤ You definitely can tell they have a genuine friendship!Thanks for sharing your story Jessica❗There's healing in doing the work of facing those triggering, unhealthy roots with allowing God/time to heal and uproot you to a Whole person.

  • @brittanymaria3708
    @brittanymaria3708 Жыл бұрын

    This whole story reminds me so much of part of my personal story. Resilience & healing is such a beautiful thing. Congratulations on making it through Jessica.

  • @kian372
    @kian372 Жыл бұрын

    Ahhh! Jessica, your comedy is Everything, but your ministry is so much more. THANK YOU!

  • @shanid9891
    @shanid9891 Жыл бұрын

    Laterras, you are a really good friend. During this episode you mentioned that your aunt named you. I looked up the meaning of Laterras and here's some of the info I found...thought you mind find this interesting: (Methodical and efficient never afraid of hard work. Showing patience you build your career stone by stone. Climbing the echelons in a methodical and logical manner. Having no fear about responsibilities and being adapt to work in a team setting. Feeling perfectly at ease in a performance or leadership activity. Liking high quality work makes you demanding, yet you will stay fair. An outstanding collaborator who is trustworthy! Suitable occupations: administration, public service, the building, the interior decoration, the assistantship, the council, the management, the heritage, the teaching profession, agriculture, justice, politics, organizational or liability positions.) Lastly, I'm so glad Jessica found what God was trying to teach her in what she went through. ❤❤🙌🏾

  • @pjphat19
    @pjphat19 Жыл бұрын

    I cried and laughed so much during this episode. Great to see you back Jessica!!!

  • @nickyc_royster
    @nickyc_royster Жыл бұрын

    He is a narcissist! I am SO GLAD you left that relationship!!!!!! God kept you and you learned a HUGE lesson that became small to you. I am SO happy for you. 🌸 This was TRULY enlightening! Good conversation with you, two!

  • @moniquedependable3782
    @moniquedependable3782 Жыл бұрын

    Jessica as much as I have asked LaTerras about you on his podcast I’ve prayed for all of us as much. I love you to life Sis. One day we’re going to meet, I don’t need to talk to either of you when just a physical hug will do! You both hug me in each podcast. I love y’all

  • @josephtyree1865
    @josephtyree1865 Жыл бұрын

    There’s no way to watch this episode just once …so many Gems ! I got so much out of this

  • @andreawinzer7892
    @andreawinzer7892 Жыл бұрын

    Jessica, thank u so much for ur transparency. Ur ability to be so open is helping so many women and men be set free from bondage. I look forward to viewing the podcast regularly.

  • @jonathangrant9486
    @jonathangrant9486 Жыл бұрын

    The last 6 minutes of this interview is the funniest thing I've seen in a long time. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 It should win a Emmy. I've rewound it and watched it like ten times.

  • @lovingme2life
    @lovingme2life Жыл бұрын

    This was so transparent and vulnerable, much needed as it surely gave me confirmation in places I needed it💜 So happy for her healing journey.

  • @WoundstoScars
    @WoundstoScars Жыл бұрын

    So glad you are alive Jessica. Domestic abuse is the second leading cause of death for black women in America. Glad you are here and growing through the trauma

  • @JuicyJayeSlay
    @JuicyJayeSlay Жыл бұрын

    Right when the enemy was trying to convince me that he had won… I feel seen. I heard God asking me if I was ready to understand the lesson and stop being mad about it. Jessica.. thank you for your transparency and showing me that God can use alllllll of me.

  • @damitahodges5577
    @damitahodges5577 Жыл бұрын

    Yall 2 together is always HILARIOUS 😂😂 his laugh is 😂😂😂😂😂 Jessica is a nut...who knew 😂😂😂

  • @damitahodges5577

    @damitahodges5577

    Жыл бұрын

    •yes IS HILARIOUS

  • @yesworks6993
    @yesworks6993 Жыл бұрын

    Laterras , This is my third time watching this particular podcasts. It's Jessica for me man. Jessica is that kinda of person who can bring laughter out of you reaching tears. She is my GIRL. SHE is so real, so transparent, and a powerful woman of God. I love me some Jessica. I will watch it again. It has so many lessons. LORD PLEASE HELP ME THROUGH MY PROCESS. Jamaica 67 yrs. Thank you Laterras.

  • @vs0063
    @vs0063 Жыл бұрын

    The raw emotion of what you went through, then landing safely in the arms of "wisdom," through your experience, convicted me. We don't know another's journey, yet God allows us to see the blessing at the end...of that lesson. Jessica, sis, I respect and admire your transparency. I am learning from it. While combing through my own past lessons Laterras, bro, you are like the friend, big brother that God has blessed me with already, so it's like having two of you. Your laughter, devotion and true commitment to your friends, man it's inspiring and admirable. Love you both, truly you're The Dynamic Duo! -Val

  • @samanthadixon8433
    @samanthadixon8433 Жыл бұрын

    Jessica Girllll , We’ve Missed You !! ❤️❤️

  • @trissetracellll

    @trissetracellll

    Жыл бұрын

    Real Bad lol

  • @robingraham7618
    @robingraham7618 Жыл бұрын

    Listen.... I absolutely see why you chose Jessica for Hello Hubby. She is amazing!! I laughed, cried, reflected, identified and laughed again. #Blessed

  • @kourtneycrosby9792
    @kourtneycrosby9792 Жыл бұрын

    It’s not often you have entertainment that has you laughing, then immediately crying and left with a completely changed perspective on life! This was a much needed episode, and I will have to watch it a few times to take it all in! Thank you Jessica Reedy you are a gift.

  • @KeyonnaD
    @KeyonnaD Жыл бұрын

    This episode was the first of Hello Hubby I’ve watched. But it was AMAZING. I laughed so much. I reminisced so much. I enjoyed this conversation thoroughly. The chemistry and dynamic between you two is lovely. And I’ll just leave it at we’ll see what the future holds.

  • @dorothymatthews6690
    @dorothymatthews6690 Жыл бұрын

    First time watching Hello Hubby. This was amazing! New subscriber now. Jessica has a powerful ministry that will bring healing to a lot of women and men! I can't wait to see her podcast blow-up! Jessica read these women mail! I loved this!

  • @hairbykindramichelle
    @hairbykindramichelle Жыл бұрын

    Jessica's speech for the women shooting their shot 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Hilarious 😂 🤣🤣🤣‼️

  • @ravenwhite9986
    @ravenwhite9986 Жыл бұрын

    I looove this. I’m so excited! I’m only 29, but recently I’ve been watching both the Dear future Wifey and Hello Hubby Series. They both have been such a blessing and I hope one day to share my story ❤ Jessica you’re a breath of fresh air 😂

  • @atyus09
    @atyus09 Жыл бұрын

    Yessss! Thank you for sharing your story. The same lesson will keep showing up until you learn. Instead of asking “why me God” ask “what am I suppose to learn from this?” 👏🏽

  • @tynesha3710
    @tynesha3710 Жыл бұрын

    This episode gives reference to emotional healing and spiritual maturity.

  • @stephanieobbo7945
    @stephanieobbo7945 Жыл бұрын

    Thank You Holy Spirit for bringing me here.God brought me out of toxic relationships last year and it's been so much better

  • @PinkLadyCharm
    @PinkLadyCharm Жыл бұрын

    First time seeing this and I'm in love. Thank you Jessica for you transparency, candor and laughter. My ribs hurt from laughing about as much as Latarres was. The bond of your authentic friendship and support of one another is great to see. May God keep blessing each of you along the journey.

  • @BriNashae
    @BriNashae Жыл бұрын

    First time listening to this podcast. Jessica is hilarious! I’m definitely subscribing! 😂

  • @kevinpryor3631

    @kevinpryor3631

    Жыл бұрын

    So inspiring! The teaching with the laughter is so important

  • @Sonya_I

    @Sonya_I

    Жыл бұрын

    Same here! God knew I needed this to come across my feed. I have a whole new perspective on how I see the person I was in a toxic relationship with after listening to this episode.

  • @Readjustbree
    @Readjustbree Жыл бұрын

    When Jessica talks about going to jail!! That’s how much a man can remove you from your purpose omg

  • @Anonymous-cl2es

    @Anonymous-cl2es

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes!

  • @Grateful4Lyfe1

    @Grateful4Lyfe1

    Жыл бұрын

    True

  • @cherylpgh9155
    @cherylpgh9155 Жыл бұрын

    She is so talented! I pray her a smooth path ahead. Her stories and her way of delivering them are a great lesson.

  • @cherwallace6026
    @cherwallace6026 Жыл бұрын

    No ma’am. I’m definitely not spending money on some dude I broke up with, ESPECIALLY if he was emotionally and verbally abusive. I had to learn that lesson the HARD way . This man reminds me of my ex husband. A total user. He was extremely insecure and jealous hearted. I too was mad with God, because I felt like He allowed it, but I had to realize that I chose him, and that I ignored the Big Ole Red Flags that I saw when we dated and were engaged. He was abusive for the course of our short marriage. Had I stayed with him any longer he would have killed me. I know that for sure. Thank god we both were able to walk away with our lives!!

  • @Godsmylove
    @Godsmylove Жыл бұрын

    I left a toxic relationship over 10 years ago. It's so important to ask God if he wants you to even talk to people let alone have certain people in your life. It was definitely a learning journey.

  • @MondesThreads
    @MondesThreads Жыл бұрын

    I didn't know Jesicca was so funny... I know of her powerful voice but man I was laughing too hard at this. Powerful testimony and lessons in her story. Thank you

  • @deidreej
    @deidreej Жыл бұрын

    Jessica, girl…….you are a firecracker! I laughed so hard….. Glad you are okay and appreciate you being a open book! The lessons that God have us go through….. hard but for our good! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @reneanorman
    @reneanorman Жыл бұрын

    Jessica I just adore and love you!!! I was dumb too. Our story is so similar. My cousin was 8 months pregnant and her husband killed her. I knew better and still ended up in an abusive relationship. When I left I prayed, I said this lesson I don't want to repeat. Lord please show me what I need to learn so I won't repeat it. Pain to Power. I had to go through it in order to find my WHY!!! That help heal childhood truma. It help me to teach my daughter what real love is. It made me love myself and not to let anyone interrupt my peace. Hello!!! Thank you for your transparency. I love you lady!!! ❤❤❤

  • @thelowedown14

    @thelowedown14

    Жыл бұрын

    Omg reading your comment 😢❤ sending love

  • @The_ClayDayz
    @The_ClayDayz Жыл бұрын

    You're not afraid to tell what happened and be yourself. Your humor makes me laugh. The goofy parts reminds me of myself and reminds me to be authentic. Thanks for sharing.

  • @chidinmaadaeze8189
    @chidinmaadaeze8189 Жыл бұрын

    Jessica, you preached a whole word, when you said : I didn't deserve to be in jail, but i NEEDED to be there. It was NECESSARY". That's the whole Bible. Joseph didn't deserve to be a sold as a slave or in prison, but how else was he gonna meet Pharoah's butler, and become the PM, and save his brethren? Jesus didn't deserve to die. But it was necessary for our salvation. I needed this reminder, to not focus on what's unfair, but on what God is doing/saying with/through this process. My Nigerian Pastor would say, "Identify God's interest in every situation, and align yourself with it. Therein lies your peace and victory."

  • @patriciapatricia3586
    @patriciapatricia3586 Жыл бұрын

    Omg I can't believe you went through all that - and he called the police on you!!!! I'm glad you're okay and that incident opened a lot of doors for you. I'm looking forward to more of your podcast!! ❤️🤗

  • @owuorjanes5236
    @owuorjanes5236 Жыл бұрын

    THIS TESTIMONY IS SO HEALING

  • @kejuanlynette8531
    @kejuanlynette8531 Жыл бұрын

    First, praise God you're still alive. OMG 😱🙌🏽 And you kept saying "God is so good. God is so kind." I love the lessons in this ❤️🖤💜 The warning came as a trigger." Whew! It's so ironic how much I can have in common with people I've never met. Life is truly a journey. Thank you for sharing your lessons with us! I LOVVVEEE THIS LOOK! The hair, nails, outfit, jewelry everything 😍 Edit: and thank you Laterras for being her friend 👌🏽

  • @mgm2923

    @mgm2923

    Жыл бұрын

    Her testimony is a great lesson for us women; but her look is not Christian like.

  • @kejuanlynette8531

    @kejuanlynette8531

    Жыл бұрын

    @@mgm2923 @MGM The Bible says the Spirit will leads to all truth. The Holy Spirit convicts. She doesn't seem convicted by her attire. So you think she's "Christian enough" to hear God lead her through this WHOLE ordeal AND make it work out for her good and HIS glory but you don't think she's "Christian enough" to be convicted if she dresses in a way that The SAME Spirit doesn't approve of? 🤔 I'm genuinely asking

  • @mgm2923

    @mgm2923

    Жыл бұрын

    @@kejuanlynette8531 the Bible tells us to prove the spirit. Sometimes people put themselves in situations and when it causes problems they switch the situation to say that it's a lesson from God. If the spirit of God is leading us we will do things that is according to the spirit (not looking like the world) including the way we dress.

  • @kejuanlynette8531

    @kejuanlynette8531

    Жыл бұрын

    @@mgm2923 God bless you as you (I and all of us) work out our OWN salvation with fear and trembling. 🙏🏽 Have a good weekend.

  • @dpharrison7
    @dpharrison78 ай бұрын

    Her testimony is a blessing 🙌🏾 seeing God's hand upon her life Glory

  • @BlessTheLord552
    @BlessTheLord552 Жыл бұрын

    “I don’t have to go through the heat to know it’s hot in there” jesuuuuuuuuuuusssss🔥🔥🔥

  • @jessica7380
    @jessica7380 Жыл бұрын

    I love this! Jessica's testimony sort of reiterates what Kanita Rutley mentioned on Dear Future Wifey; positioning yourself to listen to those who love you, and observing the spiritual equity that our potential partner possess is so important. Looking forward to more episodes!

  • @joylynirvin8690
    @joylynirvin8690 Жыл бұрын

    God is SOOOOO GOOD! This episode has truly touched my heart! Jessica, you went through that for people like me. What a testimony! Luke 7:47

  • @delisharussell8123
    @delisharussell8123 Жыл бұрын

    I'm loving this!!! " Stupid told me i was smart and I believed him"... I'm hollering 🤣 😂. Thanks for the laughter & transparency!

  • @bendaberry87
    @bendaberry8710 ай бұрын

    I've listened to this episode so many times. Let go of so much anger after also realizing,"this was for me". I am so much more stronger than the me of 3 years ago. Forgot to give myself grace. I did it. I made it through. That being said. This episode is so hilarious. Makes me laugh everything. For some reason when Laterras tells Jessica, "alright Jessica be quite". And all she says is "Alright cool". I guess it reminds me of what a real friendship looks like. Easily my favorite episode.

  • @Iamkrystamarie
    @Iamkrystamarie Жыл бұрын

    😭😭😭 I removed my dv story from my KZread channel because I didn't want proof of what I allowed to happen to me infront of my baby, my son. I was so embarrassed. This person knew my son didn't have no one but me to raise him. I saw the same thing my son struggling mentally in life with out his mommy. Wondering why him and God wasn't enough. I recently learned not only my gifts belong to Jesus but so does my story. A week before I escaped that relationship she tried to drive me into a lake but we got stuck in a ditch. My son had a nightmare that this happened before it actually did. He told me I was supposed to be married to a man. A week before I escaped her she also said I was raising a Bi*** out of nowhere. This was two years ago now. I got a domestic violence advocate and created a exit plan when I escaped she was on the phone in the bathroom. My family was grabbing my last bag and she comes out and still tries to fight me infront of my family. I was by myself when all this happened too. No one was around just me and my son because me and my family had this on and off again toxic relationship plus I kept alot hidden. I was the perfect target. I stopped dating after her though. I forgave her and myself. Went on a abstinence journey. Got saved and delivered from somethings. Unfortunately I put my self right back in a toxic relationship with my family cause I didn't want to be alone. The first year after the breakup I was not saved. The energy in my home was so dark. Hypersexual music, weed smoking, lots of profanity. Then my sisters introduced me to crystals and tarot card videos on KZread. After a year of that and having a encounter with a demon. I ran straight to Christ and gave it all up. I had healed in some ways. I've been in therapy for four years. Took a dbt class etc so I learned to say no. My family tried moving in. I didn't want them to move in with me. My mom and fake cousin were sleeping in her truck. They got kicked out of her moms place due to a physical altercation. My sister has her own place but it's smaller and a one bedroom and she has three dogs. My mom, sister and cousin have all lived with me off and on since I was 18. The answer was absolutely no this time.. I let them stay a few days and my house was upside down. Watching pvalley, being rude to my son, dirty, the fake cousin is 22 with three kids under 3. Plus it was my son's first week of second grade. I needed to get my house in order. So I asked them to leave. They lost it. My cousin, mom and sister all three were outside my door calling me every name in the book. Beating at my door with a pole. I had to call the police on them. I finally got the lesson. I can NOT be in spaces I no longer belong in. I'm so proud I didn't open my door and do what they know I use to do. I got delivered from one demon and three came back. I was letting go of so much, fasting but not filling my self up with the word, worship and prayer and just quality time with Lord. I finally get it man. I tolerated this because I was desperate for family had a abandonment issues and it was familiar. The quiet time was so loud. Now I have true believers in my life a church family. Every thing is on the up and up.

  • @Sunkissjayxo
    @Sunkissjayxo Жыл бұрын

    When I tell you this whole testimony blessed my heart. It truly did. Especially when you said you God had you retaking that class over again to get the lesson really blew me away. I appreciate your transparency cause it opened my eyes

  • @blessbeloved
    @blessbeloved Жыл бұрын

    As I listened to this AMAZING podcast... I kept hearing the meme "OOOOOMYGOD!" I went through the gamut of emotions from crying laughing to fury because I'm that one who gets angrier FOR people that are taken advantage of and abused than I do when its happening to me! Thank you for your transparency and vulnerability. Sadly, your story resonates with far too many of us. I love how God loves and knows His kids. I've been in some situations, but no one has ever put their hands on me so I don't know HOW I would react and I don't wanna find out. I know my thoughts and if they were to become actions, I would probably be teaching bible class from the inside of the prison. The way you spoke life over that dude was humbling and beautiful. You and Laterras are doing great work out here in these dating streets and I appreciate you both!

  • @mianicole723
    @mianicole723 Жыл бұрын

    Very good guys!! Y’all had me in tears😂😂😂. Jessica, thanks for being so transparent and learning the lesson. This blessed me so much. I’m so proud of y’all.

  • @blacksongbird100
    @blacksongbird100 Жыл бұрын

    This sounds like my marriage and my last relationship. Thankfully, my last relationship didn't get physical but I could "see" it going there bc I loved him so much. I was kind to him but he wasn't in a place to receive it. Same thing in my marriage. I didn't get the lesson from my marriage but I got it this time. Loved hearing Jessica's testimony. And SIS, YOU ARE TOO FUNNY!!! I've been wheezing almost the whole time! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @kingdomprinciplesmarriage101
    @kingdomprinciplesmarriage101 Жыл бұрын

    Welcome back Jessica looking forward to the upcoming episodes. Continue to GLOW!!!

  • @jesscarmona1453
    @jesscarmona1453 Жыл бұрын

    3 months after the episode dropped & im wrecked by the whole thing. Not only does it hit because my name is also Jessica but so much of what you said was like I was reliving it myself ♥️

  • @Missbusybee2010
    @Missbusybee2010 Жыл бұрын

    Jessica is just a sweet person, so sad someone mistreated her like that!! Onward and forward girl ☺️😉

  • @loveone4life361
    @loveone4life361 Жыл бұрын

    I love you Sis. I am a man. went through a toxic marriage in the Lord. But it was no longer centered in Christ. But I am paying for my growth. going through God's University. Tuition was costly. But I have finally learned I cant help my ex wife. Now I am almost through with probation. and moved on with my life. And learned. I don't need to argue nor defend myself when I know I'm Christs. Thank you Sis for your ministry. Also you being willing to share your journey of Faith, healing and growth with the world. As you wait for the man that will take care of your beautiful garden. Love you Sis!

  • @empressofspiritualmysterie8923
    @empressofspiritualmysterie8923 Жыл бұрын

    This really spoke to my spirit I went thru the same exact thing with my ex fiance and in grateful that I still have my mind, my sense of humor and personality. God used him to prepare me for my true husband and I'm grateful for it all.

  • @americanlivinginjamaica181
    @americanlivinginjamaica181 Жыл бұрын

    I am so glad Laterras didn’t give up on talking to you, Jessica. You truly needed a human being to show you compassion and kindness in those moments. God has been the Complete Protector. ❤

  • @deejames7031
    @deejames7031 Жыл бұрын

    I thank you both for such an awesome conversation with and about God!! Welcome back sis, you were definitely missed!🙏🏾♥️🫶🏾👏🏾💯✌🏾

  • @chenesewhite7266
    @chenesewhite7266 Жыл бұрын

    This entire episode was entertaining, healing, and educational.

  • @chewznbooz
    @chewznbooz Жыл бұрын

    Great episode, I am learning a lot from both the dear future wifey podcast and the Hello Hubby Podcast. This episode is going to be on repeat because there are so many nuggets in this podcast that I have to make sure I don't miss any of them! I'm presently on my healing journey and so your podcast are assisting me as I heal! Thank you! Subscribed!😊

  • @lb1798

    @lb1798

    10 ай бұрын

    I wasn't raised in the church,I can't sing,but Jessica's experience resonates so deeply with me.

  • @Jacko2009100
    @Jacko2009100 Жыл бұрын

    She's Gifted in so many ways,continue to count your blessing my sister.

  • @chaquilaray3632
    @chaquilaray3632 Жыл бұрын

    Soooo happy you back Jessica! This was a great return back episode...I just love your humor! Thankful to God for you BOTH...yall are changing lives with these podcasts..thanks a million! 💕

  • @lexysada6437
    @lexysada6437 Жыл бұрын

    My God - it wasn’t until getting most of the way through this episode that I realized God just had me walk through a process as well to get me a lesson that I refused to get - even to the point that I could have been stuck with a narcissist. The part where you mentioned paying that man - but looking back on the fact that even he was a part of your process now has me looking at my situation slightly different and now, I see no reason to be angry with that man. He was a part of my process. Glory to God for sparing your life and I thank you Jessica for sharing your story.

  • @annettecriswell6669
    @annettecriswell6669 Жыл бұрын

    This episode is so funny and real. Thank you two for being real. Even though I went through some mild abuse in my marriage, Jessica openness is helping me heal some past hurt.

  • @kingdomkrafted6200
    @kingdomkrafted6200 Жыл бұрын

    Maaannee Listen... I just told some people to point out my flaws/holes so I could plug them up... like you, I know SOMETHING gone jump out thats lying dormant somewhere... you said something that TRIGGERED MEEEE MY GOD!!! I had forgotten about it.. but it was in my last relationship... You go through SO MUCH in life that you Forget sometimes until something happens.. I thank GOD for awareness.. You said Laterras had cameras EVERYWHERE.. and started pointing AND counting them out...Picture me rolling on the floor holding my stomach laughing...then ALL OF A SUDDEN in the same breath I just sit up and ZONE OUT...WHEN I TELL YOU MY ENTIRE SOUL SHIFTED... YOU SAY WHAT👀👀👀??? I was like what just happened?? I LEGIT had a panic attack.. As I tried to unpack what I was going through on the inside... it HIT ME... I had forgotten ALLL ABOUT that man I was with had CAMERAS with AUDIO.....ALL OVER our house.. I had tracking on my phone... And would track my movement and conversations even with the kids (his AND mine)... I found myself whispering inside the house..even HIS kids would whisper talking to me... I forgot ALL ABOUT THAT!!! How??...IDK....it JUST NOW hit me that its a part of why I stay in this hiding mode.. I dont like to be seen... I stopped doing KZread when he called and SNAPPED on me about my last video in March 2022.. and not because he snapped but because it made me uneasy... like dude why do you CARE what I'm doing WE NOT TOGETHER and let you tell it its been since 2019... WHY ARE YOU STILL WATCHING MEEE????!!! I used to check my new place for devices and my car, our daughter's hair bows and bags when she'd come back from spending time with him. l haven't done it in a while so I kind of forgot... 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ its amazing how a few words will trigger a dormant emotional and physical response..That's the reason WE gotta have GRACE for each other.. cause I PROMISE YOU... I had no idea I would respond like I did... I LEGIT couldn't breathe😮🙀🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @robingraham7618
    @robingraham7618 Жыл бұрын

    Hmmm, when they say things that are meant to be hurtful, but doesn't hurt anymore = healed. Wondered why I would laugh and just shake my head. Makes sense now. Thank you for the validation.

  • @princizzraven2000
    @princizzraven2000 Жыл бұрын

    Lesson noted Jessica, thanks for teaching lol. I thoroughly enjoyed class and the laughs were contagious. So glad you can move past that and talk about it now.

  • @KP_FruitsoftheSpirit
    @KP_FruitsoftheSpirit Жыл бұрын

    OMG!!❣️ This was a Powerful Message. I see the Purpose in both platforms. My prayer was God. Please!! Send God ordained Stewardships in my Life. Those who operating in their gifts. That's utilizing, managing all resources provided for your Glory . And I do see those resources in the form of (lessons, testimonies and healing) It's a Blessing in a Lesson. Trust the Process.( I Got it Lord) Thank you for Jessica. Welcome back. You was Missed.🙏🏼❤️ I am so PROUD of you. It's such a blessing and honor to have you both in my life. 🤗🙏🏼❤️🙌🏼

  • @michellemccall365
    @michellemccall365 Жыл бұрын

    This has been helpful. Even getting out of that situation is difficult. When God pulls you out the enemy always keeps trying. I’m so grateful to God for saving my life and pulling me out of that toxic situation.

  • @krystleiam
    @krystleiam Жыл бұрын

    Warning always comes before destruction! Whew 🙌🏾

  • @sapharah7758
    @sapharah7758 Жыл бұрын

    Just got out of a toxic relationship that was very similar to yours Jessica. Except I was in mine for 11 years to my high school sweetheart. Your story is so powerful and has helped me on my current healing journey. Praise God you are still alive. Definitely bookmarking this one and subscribing to the podcast. Thank you!

  • @cemplygloria6261
    @cemplygloria6261 Жыл бұрын

    If the mystery man don't get help for that level of anger he posses he will end up in jail too. But what the devil meant for evil GOD has turned it for your good. I love you Jessica Reedy!

  • @ericarooksdaughtry7332
    @ericarooksdaughtry7332 Жыл бұрын

    She sounds like the person friend to have, that shoulder to lean on and make you laugh until you pee on yourself when your feeling down🤣 I love it❤

  • @InTheRecoveryRoom
    @InTheRecoveryRoom Жыл бұрын

    Low self esteem can disguise itself so MANY WAYS .. when we are conditioned to be ABUSED.. it has a sound - that RESONATES… I’m excited for myself and the host and audience - who is willing to GROW and learn SELF-LOVE and LIVE IN IT… without superficial camouflages .. I looove this podcast and. It’s AUTHENTICITY

  • @FromEricaWithLove
    @FromEricaWithLove Жыл бұрын

    I have no words. If I could say it all in one…Beautiful ❤

  • @angelitamoore722
    @angelitamoore722 Жыл бұрын

    Jessica I just love your personality. Miss your show

  • @dianecarter4599
    @dianecarter4599 Жыл бұрын

    I did not get this until I was much older in life. As hard as it was I’m so grateful that you learned as a young woman and you are open enough to share with others ❤ Thank you😊

  • @nicolelee4837
    @nicolelee4837 Жыл бұрын

    OMGoodness JESSICA I LOVE YOU!!! I’m ROTFL @ WORK😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣😂🤣😂🤣I too LOVE how your humor helps ALL OF US to grow and heal thru shared/similar experiences!!!! I reached out to one of your season 1 guest on a “genuine get to know basis” and only by the grace of God AND other episodes of Hello Hubby and Dear Future Wifey did I avoid a true pitfall….. LOVE THAT YOU’RE BACK 🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🥳🥳🥳🥳

  • @tifwit1
    @tifwit1 Жыл бұрын

    Loved this episode , thank you for being transparent, and for making me cry laughing when you were cracking jokes on Latterras!

  • @tynesha3710
    @tynesha3710 Жыл бұрын

    I am in awe of your transparency!!! You continue to tell your testimony and glorify God through every struggle and imperfection. You truly embody the scripture that God's glory is made perfect in our weakness. So many of us are trying to work out similar issues and need healing from our past wounds. Thank you, Jessica.... #Freedom

  • @patsmith3782

    @patsmith3782

    Жыл бұрын

    I want to thank you for this message. I am in a toxic marriage, but in the process of getting out. This message was my aha moment. I got the lesson. May God continue to bless you both, and may you continue to do God's work.

  • @coffeebrown7099
    @coffeebrown7099 Жыл бұрын

    Jessica Reedy! You're a Gift from God, Thank you for your transparency. Your warm spirit, and soft spoken words of wisdom has truly open my eyes. May God continue to Bless you Angel.

  • @timberlywilliams9519
    @timberlywilliams9519 Жыл бұрын

    Sis thank you for sharing and taking the class again, you passed. I remember telling an ex “you are trying to break me or something” and recognizing my way of escape. I thank God for you. Walk tall Sis

  • @Loveconsciously
    @Loveconsciously Жыл бұрын

    Awesome testimony. Jessica, I know exactly what you are talking about when you got choked out. I had reached the point when all the fluid left my body. I know that feeling when the body surrenders. This used to be me too. So happy you overcame. Thank you for sharing . Once we are healed we are tested and each test you learn more and learn faster. I’m subscribed.

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