a rare sighting of Brett without her headphones on 🤯

@WayneWatson1

Ай бұрын

Even more beautiful

@cwardziegler5969

Ай бұрын

Yeah, kinda pretty

@HarryHafsak

Ай бұрын

@@WayneWatson1in the words of Brett cooper, go touch grass. Weirdo.

@_Blue_Waves_

Ай бұрын

@@HarryHafsak It’s just a compliment that’s true, they probably don’t even mean it in a weird way.

@Louie_Senpai057

Ай бұрын

​@@WayneWatson1totally agree

That fact that the guy is getting death threats speaks volumes on our country's moral compass

@ironeagle4274

Ай бұрын

It shows that America has rogue elements that are so intensely bitter that they would rather kill someone than listen to them. We hate each other too much. Most people aren't willing nor able to commit such deranged violence, but the few that are cause trouble for our institutions. No wonder the FBI wants to survail us to protect our country. The question is can we as citizens earn the right to privacy. The founders didn't forsee this type of issue, but they'd have ideas that would be incredibly interesting. Either way, America needs healing and not more anger. I and we all might be generally conservative but I recognize the potential for the liberals in the democratic party to make compromise.

@ECNLGK_

Ай бұрын

Death threats?? Are you serious

@LAP02

Ай бұрын

@@ECNLGK_ someone released the city he lives in on X.

@Ieatpaste23

Ай бұрын

You can't go and tell women that they're wrong.

@LAP02

Ай бұрын

@@Ieatpaste23 I'm a woman and Butker was spot on. In fact I gave up a six figure salary to raise my kids.

The main problem is that no one is acknowledging the fact that he was talking about catholic ideas at a catholic school, they are taking it completely out of context! He got a standing ovation!

@AdriannieBio

Ай бұрын

Exactly this is the part everyone is forgetting! My mother in law sent me his speech! He is a traditional catholic speaking to other traditional Catholics. As a traditional catholic woman, that is the kind of thing that builds up family and faith! The vocation of motherhood is so highly regarded in the trad cath world.

@spacelinx

Ай бұрын

I’m sure there are lots of nonCatholics out there, but are just as traditional-minded, including myself, who also agreed with what he said.

@MrSaxobeat020

Ай бұрын

The catholic school where women are graduating with degrees? The women sitting in the audience on their final college day? You as a man don't get to tell women what's best for them. Let women decide what's best for them. I don't think men would like to be told what's best for them by women.

@Viv234

Ай бұрын

@@MrSaxobeat020women are always telling men what’s best for men.

@MrSaxobeat020

Ай бұрын

@@Viv234 Name one woman throughout history of human kind who went to college graduation degree and disrespected with telling them how they should become husbands.

I agree with you and Harrison. But here's my challenge for you, Brett. A real question to see where your heart truly lies, about what you truly believe. And your answer could inspire many others. If your fiancé asked you to give up your media career once you two got married so that you could focus on being a homemaker, would you do it? Or would you consider it a disrespectful request and become angry that he had the audacity to ask such a question? If he said, "Once we're married, no more Comments Section" would you still marry him?

@newera478

11 күн бұрын

I think Brett can be a homemaker and still manage Comments Section together. Comments Section isn't a law firm or other workaholic environment that swallows your freetime.

@_my.music.videos._6310

8 күн бұрын

​@@newera478 that isn't the question. The question is would she give this up for her fiance or would she choose her career for herself?

I love how even though people tried to cancel him, Harrison Butker has only become more famous and well known.

@autisticDementia

Ай бұрын

Exactly!!! Harrison Butker is definitely not wrong and society doomed Jesus better come soon!

@jotfohm4644

Ай бұрын

Not really, never heard of who the fuck he is.

@user-vl7fm8ck2m

Ай бұрын

​@@jotfohm4644Same, but now we do so they got a point 😂

@autisticDementia

Ай бұрын

@jotfohm4644 You just proved their point 😂

@Euthanize-furrys

Ай бұрын

@@jotfohm4644he is the KC Chiefs kicker

her hair looks great here

One of my favorite sayings is, "Just because it offends you, doesn't make it any less true."

@Grynjolf

Ай бұрын

​@gregheffley-kq3bo wtf you on about?

@Tizzleee

Ай бұрын

Exactly!

@skarnak1

Ай бұрын

I don't care if something I say offends people anyway. All this PC crap is just that. Crap. No matter what you do, you're going to offend someone. So why bother to try? Life's too short. They need to actually develop thicker skin, and not get butthurt about every little comment.

@broncosfan99

Ай бұрын

Well it offended the NUNS who work and preach there so

@AS-yz2iz

Ай бұрын

​@@broncosfan99Then the nuns are wrong and don't have Catholic ideals.

My wife is most irritated by feminism because of their complete disrespect and hypocisy regarding stay home moms. They should celebrate EVERY woman's choice, not just the "approved" choices.

@Sarah_T871

Ай бұрын

That’s great, but your wife’s comment is irrelevant to the issue at hand. Not all women, especially in this setting, aspire to become homemakers. While homemaking is indeed a noble pursuit, it's crucial to acknowledge that women have diverse aspirations beyond traditional roles. A graduation ceremony celebrates academic achievements and the pursuit of personal and professional growth. By implying that a woman's fulfillment hinges solely on homemaking, it undermines the accomplishments and aspirations that women pursue through education. It's essential to uplift and empower women in all their endeavours, but we gotta recognize the richness beyond domestic roles.

@triggered577

Ай бұрын

No - we should not celebrate every woman’s choice bc everything we do is not an achievement. Not saying we should bash mothers, but “home maker” is not an accomplishment. You get pregnant, bare the child, then stay at home and raise it. Wtf does that have to do with me and the 300+ million ppl in America? What is the impact? What intelligence does this require? Why should I celebrate? Especially when you consider the fact that the overwhelming majority of people will only raise a child who grows up to be basic AT BEST. Now, if your child grows up to be the next Beyoncé, Steve Jobs, or someone who discovers a cure for cancer that can be directly attributed to the investments you made during his/her childhood, that’s a completely different story and I’d be more than happy to give you your props. But “I got busted up, birthed a child, and now I’m at home” is NOT an accomplishment, only a life choice. And it’s not our responsibility to celebrate that choice just bc it will make her feel accomplished-Tf? People really need to get tf over themselves. If you’re a good parent, let your kids celebrate you anyway.

@Sewcrates

Ай бұрын

@triggered577 lol your user name is appropriate. Nice rant

@rishika3410

Ай бұрын

@@triggered577 why so pressed. being a stay at home wife and a mother IS an achievement bcoz they are the ones raising the future generation of the country.

@ivskwy_18

Ай бұрын

having a child and raising it is a basic responsibility for both parents. doing this and simultaneously working in healthcare, law, STEM, etc is something worth celebrating because you're not only giving back to your children and family and giving them the best possible life but also creating a positive impact in your community. Nobody's denying the importance of SAHM's but to claim they do the same amount of work or achieve the same amount as a dual working parent is delusionality.

It’s not bad to want to be a homemaker and it’s not bad to want to focus on your career. As long as you’re not bashing or criticizing someone for the life they choose to live I see no problem.

@thunderbird1921

Ай бұрын

I DO have a problem though with mothers OR fathers that emphasize their career so much that they literally make NO time for their kids. There's gotta be a balance. So many families are in miserable shape because mothers and fathers won't step up and take the time to parent (and I think it's making many younger people now more hesitant to even have children, because of this bad example and perhaps from their childhood trauma of neglect).

@Cannibalizee

Ай бұрын

​@@thunderbird1921I agree with you. Every parent needs to spent quality time with their child, and to actively make sure that they don't neglect their child's needs for that quality time with them. But in today's world, it's hard for many families to live off of 1 income. I don't think it's right for the father to have to break his back working crazy hours, just so that the mother could stay at home and raise their children. Sure, the children get to spent a lot of time with their mom, but for a very hefty price. A child needs equally their mom and their dad. A father who works 50+ hours a week would inevitably deprive his child of his presence and time. It doesn't matter if you broke your back to give everything to your child, that child would remember it's parent/s absence more than anything. I think it's better to have a 2-income household, where both parents share the family's financial responsibilities. That way neither parent would have to work crazy hours and both of them could spent quality time with their child. In my opinion both parents should get enough time off work so that they both can bond with their newborn, not just the mom. The mom carried the child, she's already connected and bonded with it, in a way the father could never. The dad deserves paid time off, the length of which should be, at least close to the amount of time moms get. I see all of these rich conservatives talking about how women are meant to be stay-at-home moms, while the dad is supposed to be the sole bread maker of the family, which is all cool and dandy when you make a lot of money, but not everyone will, nor can. Ben Shapiro's wife is a freaking doctor. There's no way that that woman's career doesn't require her to work crazy hours. Brett Cooper herself has a career that pays really good. Candace Owens worked through all of her pregnancies and barely took any time off, so who are they to be pushing a lifestyle, that they themselves do not follow, on people who are not that well off. Who are they to shame other women for having careers. You absolutely do not have to choose either or, you can both have a career and raise your children properly. If the woman wants to be a stay-at-home mom, then that's great, but it shouldn't be on the expense of the wellbeing of her husband, and his time with his children. Once you both are well enough then do it, quit your job, and stay at home. And even if the husband wants that for his wife, and want to provide for her, he still shouldn't have to spread himself too thin to make that happen, because that's not a good life in the long run, for no one in the family, especially not for the children. Ben Shapiro said once that in his opinion is stupid for a father to get paid time off work when he has a newborn, and the reasons for his opinion were even more ridiculous than the statement itself.

@Crawlingdreams418

Ай бұрын

👏👏👏👏

@beophobic9653

29 күн бұрын

That is exactly what Butker was doing. He was bashing women right in front of their faces whilst they were graduating.

@my_pronoun_is_your_excellency

27 күн бұрын

@@beophobic9653 Did he say that women have no place in the office? Did he say that women shall not leave the house? He was only saying that woman being housewife is very rewarding and gratifying. So, in what way was he bashing women? You may disagree with what he believes, but that doesn't mean that he is making derogatory comment towards woman, that's just your projection of your own belief on him.

Her hair is absolutely gorgeous, I'm jealous

@mac_tire_aonair

15 күн бұрын

I'm jealous - of her husband!

@PumpkinHoard

11 күн бұрын

@@mac_tire_aonair As a bald man approaching middle age, I'm jealous of her husband and her hair lol.

@RK-eo8gl

8 сағат бұрын

​@@PumpkinHoard😂

There’s nothing wrong with women wanting to be a homemaker or a stay-at-home mom. If that’s what SHE WANTS. But placing values on people and saying that, for example, a woman wanting to be a doctor is less valuable than a woman wanting to be a mom, is where it gets close-minded and sexist. To me, that says “because you have these certain body parts, you are automatically more valued if you are this certain thing”. Getting an education, going to university, and following your wanted career path is just as valuable as becoming a mother. Women are people, and deserve the right to choose what they want to be. Mom, engineer, architect, whatever.

@mylovelyladyjaney

Ай бұрын

Anyways, in my opinion, whatever you end up doing should make you feel fulfilled. And for everybody, the way they do that varies.

@Ieatpaste23

Ай бұрын

Could be worse. You could be treated the way men are. Imagine working full time plus as an electrician, and some woman thinks you're crap because you're not a lawyer. Happens all the time.

@rayne_zanders7837

Ай бұрын

@@Ieatpaste23cry about it. Most men and women have to work. I’m working a 9-5 full time and guess what? That’s life. It’s not always fun but you gotta make the most of it and learn to toughen up.

@Ieatpaste23

Ай бұрын

@@rayne_zanders7837 Why would I cry about it? I don't care about you or your life in the slightest. Seems like you're the one crying. A guy you don't know said something to people you don't know and now your fee fees are hurt. I fail to see how what he said affects you or anyone else. You simply want to be a victim. Tough up.

@rayne_zanders7837

Ай бұрын

@@Ieatpaste23 I wouldn’t expect u to care, I was saying cry about it in regards to ur whole men have it harder narrative which isn’t even true. I went on to show u that both men and women have their struggles so comparing is just stupid, no need to get so offensive I’m sorry if that comment upset u.

She’s so beautiful 🎀💖

@quinnbalfour2139

23 күн бұрын

facts💯

The problem is that he said at graduation.And maybe it is partly true,but he shouldn’t have said it at graduation where tons of girls spend tons of money on their education.And why is this only about woman,why he didn’t say to everyone that starting a family is the most important things in our lives.Or that HIS life started when he had kids and wife.Why he specifically didn’t say to men that working everyday for them and sacrificing for them and putting them on a pedestal is a blessing.Why he speaks for women and only to them

@agallen4887

26 күн бұрын

This! I see so many comments here denying there was anything wrong with the speech. In the speech, he(a man) made an assumption of what most women want. I would not want to hear this after all the work and money put into earning a degree. It was not the right time and place. Upon first hearing this speech, my first thought was “why is he only telling the women this?” And “why is he, as a man, telling women what is most important to them?” While extreme feminism has pushed a narrative against stay at home mothers, conservatives have been pushing lately that women be homemakers. He assumed women were most excited about marriage and children. This was solely directed at the women and not the men. Why? Because men get to have careers and a family, while people like him are expecting women to give up careers for marriage and children. This pressure isn’t being placed on men. That is what irritates me(along with the trolling men in these comments). Also, the speech would have come off differently if it were a woman saying it. It’s simple really. Women don’t want men telling them what they want, or assuming they all have the same wiring/desires. Heck, many men are better with kids than many women.

@roccprofit

5 күн бұрын

Doesn't change the reality that there are million's who want it for their lives. Getting an education doesn't mean you can't have a family. Million's of families all over the planet have kid's and both parent's work. That's why day care's exist as well as babysitter's and nannies. This idea that women can't work and have a career at the same time is nonsense. Hell, I know a couple who is two women. Married and raising a family and both of them have full time jobs.... My first job was for a woman who was single handedly raiseing three children. She paid me $400 a week to raise watch her kid's. Can't is a word only used by the weak.

@lada13536

4 күн бұрын

@@roccprofit I agree.I can work and be a mom.Why men aren’t questioned to choose like fucking never.It would be easier for moms if dad also helped u know with chores etc

Shes actually so pretty 😭😭

@sugarose_army

Ай бұрын

you a stay also?

@han_qu0kka_913

Ай бұрын

@@sugarose_army yeah 😭

@stalkerwastaken

Ай бұрын

@@sugarose_army a stay?

@Auzzy8

Ай бұрын

For real

@han_qu0kka_913

Ай бұрын

@@stalkerwastaken it's like a fan name for a boy band.

I think that there isnt anything wrong with being a homemaker, and that it's a great and fulfilling role in life. I'd love to be a wife and mother and homemaker one day, God willing. But I'm also going to college to be a teacher. I want to impact young lives for the better. It's something I'm really passionate about. What if I never get married and have kids? What if it isn't in the cards for me? Would it be so wrong to feel fulfilled and whole in my career? Fulfillment comes from many places, and I think people should find fulfillment in what they are passionate about.

@Hllhl

23 күн бұрын

Your entire worth isn't based on getting married and having children, and you can in fact find fulfillment in many things. Not getting married and not having children doesn't rob you of any value. The overall point of that part of the speech was to not get caught up in the material world to the point where a career is more important than your loved ones. Not many careers are truthfully fulfilling, but being a teacher is just as important as being a parent. The main complaints of women in the workforce include being underappreciated, undervalued, and underpaid, and thus, unfulfilled. Whether you become a mother or a teacher you are helping to raise the future.

@rajivnailadi905

16 күн бұрын

@@Hllhl On the flip side of that, there are plenty of mothers who are unappreciated by their husbands, undervalued and spoke down to, living lives of thankless service to produce children that may never come back to the house after 18. Seen it all too many times in the traditional marriages in my extended family. Being a SAHM isn't guaranteed fulfilment just the same as with careers.

@Hllhl

16 күн бұрын

@rajivnailadi905 that's very true, but the 'fulfillment' aspect is on a very personal level. Some parents aren't meant to be parents. The whole idea behind what Butker said had everything to do with personal applicability and people glossed over smaller words of his speech that clarifies the point of choice, where he used the phrase 'one of the most important vocations', which has wrongly been interpreted as him saying 'THE most important vocation...' you see how leaving the phrase 'ONE of' off of that sentence changes the choice aspect? Most good parents feel most fulfilled by their children, and there's always exceptions in that and many other aspects of life, but those exceptions don't invalidate the parents that have found that fulfillment in their children. Being a father IS the most important thing I've ever done, and it's been far more rewarding and fulfilling than any career I've ever had. My wife doesn't stay at home, but she's pregnant now with our 2nd and has told me repeatedly she wishes she could stay home and soak up the time with our 1st born and it hurts that I can't make that happen for her because I totally get it.

I am Catholic, have 2 college degrees and decided to leave my career to raise my 2 girls. They are special needs and need a lot of my time and attention. It is so challenging but worth it. My husband was on board when I asked him if we could make it work. I went back to work after my first one and it was so hard.

@Veronicadoeseverything

Ай бұрын

I'm catholic too!

@obeydastrawberry8875

Ай бұрын

It was hard to be back to work becouse your husband was not helping you

@LAP02

Ай бұрын

I got my Masters but decided my kids were absolutely the most important job I could ever have. My biggest success in life is not in the money I made for a company that never cared for me but seeing all 3 grow up to be lawful, educated and loving Christians.

@AS-yz2iz

Ай бұрын

​@@obeydastrawberry8875How do you know he wasn't helping? Your opinions aren't valid, because they're not backed by facts.

@obeydastrawberry8875

Ай бұрын

@@AS-yz2iz cuz if he was helping it wouldn't be that hard for her

It wasn't what he said I have an issue with. It was when he said it and where. Those ladies had dedicated years, money, energy into getting an education. That's not the time to downplay their achievements or to go on a long tirade on all the benefits of motherhood. Why not use that opportunity to celebrate what the women have made possible?? College is no joke. There are women in that room that possibly would never have children no matter how hard they try. There are women who dont want children. But all of those women there chose an education and saw it through. Thats what should be celebrated.

@kmac6523

Ай бұрын

Fake news. Encourage women while they are young and capable to start families. “Academic achievements” are irrelevant and completely unrelated to occupations. When you are ashes or dust the people at your company won’t sit around remembering the good times. Your family will.

@Grynjolf

Ай бұрын

That's why it's called an MRS degree /s

@tradfluteman

Ай бұрын

Completely agree! To her credit Brett did critique that aspect in the longer video.

@rayne_zanders7837

Ай бұрын

Exactly what I was thinking. Graduation is about celebrating the hard work that goes into getting a degree, not the time to be mentioning ur own beliefs and downplaying their achievements.

@Lolee56

Ай бұрын

Yea completely agree with this comment

Brett is so pretty

I truly wish we could just be happy living our lives together without having to deal with each other’s beliefs.

@Morningstar-bc7vf

3 күн бұрын

Me too 😢

I'm definitely turning more Conservative as I age and while I didn't disagree with his main speech points, I do think it was a little pointless in timing. He was saying it to college graduates, with possibly around 50 - 100 thousand dollars in debt for a degree. If he'd said it at a high school graduate commencement, he may have saved them the debt and years of hardworking in school. Why say it when the women in the audience have already signed up for thousands of dollars in debt???

@DEMOSPUBG

Ай бұрын

nope . nuh uh, rewatch his clip, the whole one, also dont use an ai summarizer if you're one of them. He congratulated them being there at the graduation ceremony cause of their talent and sacrifices and their hard work to build career, he also said that many of them who actually do wanna be housewives, wanna be good mother, full time housemakers shouldnt be discouraged by society that they need to work and all that stuff. Wont waste my energy on you anymore, toodaloooo

I genuinely believe every woman needs to do what’s best for HER family or HERSELF if she has no family. That’s the beauty about America being able to choose what you want to do in life. Mothers should not be denied the access to hopes, dreams and accomplishments simply because other people believe that women should be homemakers. True feminism is women having the freedom to choose to do what’s best for THEM and THEIR families. Period.

@matthewdennis1739

Ай бұрын

Agreed wholeheartedly and what I have been saying for years. For the record I don't think Butker is against women having a choice, I think he feels that the messages women routinely receive in society are overwhelmingly pro-career and anti-homemaker so he wanted to give voice to a pro-homemaker message. Probably not the best time and place and probably not the best delivery but I don't think he meant it maliciously.

@rayne_zanders7837

Ай бұрын

@@matthewdennis1739I understand that ofc having a family means a lot more than a degree or career but like u said it was a silly time and place to say that. It’s a graduation, you’re meant to commend these ppl for completing their degrees which generally requires a lot of skill and hard work. It’s demeaning to women if I’m being completely honest, I’m not a crazy liberal woman but this was just odd.

@matthewdennis1739

Ай бұрын

@@rayne_zanders7837 It was definitely odd. I think he could have included a short part commending women who may choose to stay at home with their children at some point, but also speak a lot more about the accomplishment of the women and how their educational achievement will open up doors to pursue their dreams and goals, whatever path they choose to walk. I understand it's a conservative catholic college so he wanted to speak from a conservative Catholic perspective but it was still tone-deaf and inappropriate in the way he presented it.

@Ju_ne_bug

Ай бұрын

​@@matthewdennis1739 100%! I think most women are upset specifically because of the delivery - it's a college graduation. It's great that he loves his wife, but using a college graduation to promote homemaking is just weird. They got degrees, and a commencement speech is meant to celebrate that.

@AS-yz2iz

Ай бұрын

What he said was wonderful.

Hey Brett just like men, women want different things. Many women are different than you. I wouldn’t be fulfilled if I wasn’t a physician AND a mother. I have no nanny and no daycare. My husband and I share responsibility because we are a TEAM.

@happyzahn8031

Ай бұрын

Good job for finding and making a life.

@LeahBreHappy

Ай бұрын

100% agree!

@megsley

Ай бұрын

and??? she wasn't talking about you, but you had to make her video about yourself for some reason.

@Braddt888

Ай бұрын

Yeah and that’s your life and your opinion you speak as if that just cause you did it that way it means you’re right 😂 what a clown statement. She isn’t saying you HAVE to and neither was Butker but that it’s a view they have and it’s okay to live that. It’s clear his wife enjoys that life and it’s pretty obvious tons of others enjoy it too. What makes you think Harrison isn’t a team with his wife just cause he thinks it’s amazing that his wife takes care and nurtures their children and takes care of the household? That in itself is a job and women are the best with their emotions and nurturing which is why they’re best caring for kids? What’s so wrong with a man doing the work and the wife doing the caring while he cares for his wife?

@Braddt888

Ай бұрын

And many women are different from you too. You try and make it as if no one shares this view and that they’re wrong if they don’t share yours. This is the problem with liberals you guys can’t conceive opinions that differ from you and we must accept all your opinions and we’re some sort of bigot, phobic whatever if we don’t but if we don’t accept your opinions and go by them we’re evil. You’re all clowns

First, they went after masculinity because it's the foundation of a strong, healthy society. Then they went after femininity because it's the heart and soul of a healthy society. Now they are going after children because they are the future of society.

@azaemogirl1572

Ай бұрын

Theyre going after being a sahm.

@BrandonStrugy

Ай бұрын

@azaemogirl1572 I googled "sahm". From what Google said "sahm" stands for "stay at home moms" correct?

@SwimmingGoddess

Ай бұрын

@@azaemogirl1572 No one is going after women who *want* to stay home🙄 We’re going after people who say a woman’s only purpose is to get married and raise children.

AMEN. I'm a woman with a degree and I chose to raise babies into productive citizens and make a welcoming home. Wife, mother and homemaker will always be the most fulfilling job I have ever had. All these people attacking him are actually attacking me, mothers, and all the women who made that choice or want to make that choice.

@brigidspencer5123

15 күн бұрын

You needed a degree to be an at-home mom!😂😂😂😂

this gives me hope that when i grow up there will still be people who believe in traditional relationships!!

@RaychAgent4EVa

Ай бұрын

Same here

@KN_builds

Ай бұрын

Yess!!

@Tizzleee

Ай бұрын

Amen I do!

@gunsgalore7571

Ай бұрын

There are plenty. Catholic universities are strongholds, because most of the kids going there are going there because they believe in Catholicism and want to be somewhere that upholds Catholic values.

@daisyyythefairyyy

12 күн бұрын

It's not like "traditional" relationships are going away its still the majority 💀

The problem is that he said that to women who were graduating university after years of studying and kind of undermined what those women achieved for themselves. Saying your life will never fully start until you become a mother is sexist and wrong. It was not the place to talk about this. He has the right to believe that, but people have the right to say he was wrong to choose that moment to say it. Nothing is wrong with motherhood or even choosing to be a mother over a career. Nothing is wrong with not being one either. Going to women who studied that hard only to be told your place should be in the house because he thinks women would get more fulfilled by being mothers than having careers is misogynistic. He doesn't value the work of those women and mocked them with that speech. Again, each person has the right to believe whatever they want, but there is a time to say it. Saying women should be mothers first at a graduation with future women working in Stems, IT, Biology and engineering was not the right time.

@JonJones1776

Ай бұрын

“Is sexist and wrong” cry me a river and get the f out of here with that bs 😂

@sandman9390

Ай бұрын

You are twisting his words

@Orxbane

Ай бұрын

It's always the right time to tell women to stop wasting time and do the one thing they will actually find fulfillment in.

@thealgorithmluvsu3788

27 күн бұрын

All the replies to your comment proving your point and exactly why there was outrage. Hilarious.

@ayeurieleo7650

27 күн бұрын

@@thealgorithmluvsu3788 Yep, pretty sad. It's funny how a lot of men in the comments act like they know more what's best for women than we do, like we are some kinds of toddlers. You try having a reasoning conversation and they act like you're just having a tantrum.

Just waiting for Brett to have children so she can leave KZread to finally start her life.

His delivery was awful and insulting. You want to be a homemaker? Great. But to say woman's life begins at that was insulting and demeaning of the hard work they put into their degrees. Brett, do you feel like your liife hasn't begun yet? Do you feel that your work on DailyWire has no value? That's what he was saying. Women have no value until they are at home with kids. It is also extremely privileged to say this. Most households need two incomes and many jobs dont pay enough for kids and a stay at home parent. To say that one parent at home is easy for all Americans is so out of touch

@Sarah_T871

Ай бұрын

You said it.

@AshleyNeco-pi8py

Ай бұрын

You don't have to listen to him

@sandman9390

Ай бұрын

That is not what he said...and he was not taking to you anyway😂....He was addressing a small, Conservative Catholic, Private College...He is known to be an outspoken champion of Conservative Catholic Values. He was not addressing the entire world. He was invited by the College BECAUSE he holds those views...his critics make everything about them😂

He isn’t a bigot or whatever but telling women that there life doesn’t start until they get married or they shouldn’t get jobs is a recipe for disaster I would say my mom was a great mom and wife even though she was a teacher along with my dad

@JimBarnes-me6cu

Ай бұрын

Being a teacher is just being a mom to other children other then your own

@helenn7738

Ай бұрын

@@JimBarnes-me6cu still a job that takes up most of your time everyday while having to take care of your kids. That's the point, not that she's working with other children

@moon-edits3

Ай бұрын

@@JimBarnes-me6cuyeah but he was saying that woman will feel more fulfilled if they don’t have jobs and my mom is very happy with her life

@FJB-1776

Ай бұрын

That's not what he said

@moon-edits3

Ай бұрын

@@FJB-1776 then what did he say

I appreciate the POV but Harrison wasn’t celebrating motherhood (which I agree is an important vocation to celebrate). He was telling a room full of college graduates that motherhood and wife hood was the right path and other paths were wrong. Motherhood and homemaker is a beautiful path. So are many, many others. Very clearly an inappropriate speech given the circumstances. It wasn’t a celebration of homemakers. It was a stab at women who choose a different path. Motherhood should be celebrated, but woman who go a different way shouldn’t be looked down upon. And that is what Harrison did.

@AS-yz2iz

Ай бұрын

He NEVER said other paths were wrong. Did you even listen? Sheesh.

@JonJones1776

Ай бұрын

You just made all of that up 😂

@mgia_unity1127

Ай бұрын

@@AS-yz2iz “The most diabolical lies have been told to you”. Butker very much indicated he believed homemaking was the best path for woman and other paths were lesser. You have to be able to grasp that about his speech for us to have a conversation about it. Otherwise we are not discussing the same thing.

@mowgli2071

Ай бұрын

​@@mgia_unity1127 The most diabolical lies HAVE INDEED BEEN TOLD TO EVERYONE THAT GOES THROUGH CONTEMPORARY COLLEGES. There was not one single lie that Harrison Butker told. Not one thing that was false.

@sandman9390

Ай бұрын

No....He was not saying other choices than motherhood/homemaker was wrong, he said, "but most of you"...speaking to young women @ a Conservative Catholic College, by an outspoken Conservative Catholic, that was Invited to speak BECAUSE of His Views😉

I have 5 degrees, and was a die hard - not going to stay home, manager until I had my first baby. My husband did not support me staying home, so I did daycare in order to stay home until my youngest child was in school. I then went back to school and obtained my teaching degree. (Yes, I would love to have stayed home and homeschooled, again not supported) I worked two jobs to be there for my children and I do believe that a parent (preferably mom- if she feels called to it) should be home as long as possible- and I do believe it is not and has not been prioritized in this country. Not everyone can afford to stay home, and yet want children, and unfortunately not everyone who wants children is able to have them- without help and support. I think this could have been worded differently to acknowledge that not everyone makes a million dollars a year, or is able to support the family- and if they wait until they can- even with sacrifices, will not be able to stay home. It is the most important job, and it is a lot of work. It is not given enough credit, but neither should it be said that that is the only time a woman comes alive. Everyone has different callings and should not be forced into a position they do not feel called to. I have also been there, and it sucks. The way he supports his wife- kudos! That is a true partnership.

@Sarah_T871

Ай бұрын

I love how you worded this!

@AV-tm5zf

Ай бұрын

We have knocked the family structure to the curb. We use to be able to afford to stay home...but feminism did a dirty turn on the world. It made men weak. And it ruined the family structure especially financially. The world is so selfish. I wish every momma could stay home and raise their children...and every father was solid and strong so families wouldn't have to struggle so much.

Unrelated: You look amazing! And you're an inspiration for women! I'm a woman from the Netherlands and we need someone like you here!

@Jojoeatrer

Ай бұрын

You guys got Eva Vlaardingerbroek

@prot07ype87

Ай бұрын

Groeten uit Rotterdam! Je moet Eva Vlaardingerbroek opzoeken.

@rox9252

Ай бұрын

@@prot07ype87 . Toch zien we haar weinig in Nederland zelf...

I don’t disagree with anything he said. It’s just that the time and place was not the best. His words seemed to kind of brush over the achievements that the women who aren’t his wife have gotten. When you finish a four year degree you want to be told you did a good job and that it will take you far, not that it still won’t be as fulfilling as having a family, even if it may be true.

@andreadimitriev5271

Ай бұрын

Well said!! I completely agree

@annaw27

Ай бұрын

yeah i wanna be told that by family not a rando with an opinion

@matthewdennis1739

Ай бұрын

Definitely a fair criticism. I feel he could have gotten the point across more delicately while also giving more credit to their achievements.

@maria-elenaodagiu7454

Ай бұрын

@@matthewdennis1739 yeah exactky

@user-vl7fm8ck2m

Ай бұрын

I mean...he got a standing ovation, so you may find it not the best time and place, but the students who were graduating (which is who the speech was targeted towards) obviously agreed with him and loved the speech.

His speech was literally appreciation and awareness but people don’t like to be called out or shown anything they don’t like for themselves so they label him rude names

@martas277

Ай бұрын

It really wasn't. I understand what he wanted to say but he went about it the very wrong way. He could've just appreciated homemakers (literal superheros) without telling women who want careers that they've been told lies. Women can want and be fulfilled by both

@matthewdennis1739

Ай бұрын

​@@martas277 women absolutely can be fulfilled by both and should be able to choose their own path. I can't say for sure since he didn't explain it well, but I think the diabolical lies he's referring to are the ideas that are put forward frequently in society that women HAVE to have a career or they are somehow lesser, or that the only way to find fulfillment is through a career.

@martas277

Ай бұрын

@@matthewdennis1739 he wasn't talking about that and you know it Matthew. Thank you for your input

@matthewdennis1739

Ай бұрын

@@martas277 I'm being genuine, I don't think I could say for sure what he meant. I do think women should be supported whichever path they choose.

@martas277

Ай бұрын

@@matthewdennis1739 thank you

I wish more women were like Brett Cooper- intelligent, high morals, articulate, feminine, and believes in family. She’s a breath of fresh air.

@giomaximo4737

25 күн бұрын

She mocked and was disgusted with a guy for the way he looked. It was Selena Gomez BF. Things like this are telling about a persons character, cause what she saw was a hideous object (from her POV), failing to see that was a human being. She's trash, portraying herself as a good person

What he said does not make him a bigot nor mysoginistic but, time and place...

Butker spoke facts about Masculinity. May God Bless him!

@commentator-tl9h

Ай бұрын

About toxic masculinity.

@Hllhl

23 күн бұрын

​@commentator-tl9h by all means, quote him. Please point out the parts where he was portraying toxic masculinity. I want direct quotes, no paraphrasing. I already know exactly what you're going to point out, and I can't wait to be right so I can prove how ignorant you are.

He was right. Family first is the best route to a good life - material pursuits are fleeting and not what matters in the long run.

@rajivnailadi905

16 күн бұрын

Why are those the only two options though? Some people like their careers (in science, medicine, tech etc.) and feel like they're making contributions to the world through those careers. Isaac Newton as a well known example didn't have a family but laid down the foundation of our civilisation through classical mechanics and calculus. That seems pretty meaningful to me. Family first isn't always the "best route to a good life" for every person. The only issue I see people having with that speech is insinuating everyone should aspire to the same traditional ideals, which totally flies in the face of the AMERICAN concept of freedom of choice.

The problem wasnt him saying the roles of wife and mother are important, it was him saying they are the ONLY roles that are important for women. And as a working wife, you must agree with that to an extent or you wouldnt work....

@martas277

Ай бұрын

THANK YOU. ppl keep trying to find excuses but he very much made it seem that our only true fulfilling purpose is to be homemakers which sounds so backwards. We can be both. We can be fulfilled by both. The thing that I don't like about women who always stand up for this bull crap and say that he didn't say anything wrong is that THEY'RE working women with children and a marriage...they just think it doesn't apply to them

@RandomName-my2uo

Ай бұрын

@@martas277 tbh if brett was an actual full time homemaker I'd have respect for her having this view, at least she'd be practising what she preached but...she always said she'd quit working when she got married and she quite clearly hasn't. She's become a complete hypocrite

@martas277

Ай бұрын

@@RandomName-my2uo EXACTLY. plus she would never actually just quit, she's very opiniated and assertive, you can clearly see she likes her work and the smile and joy on her face when she's working is evident so it's just disrespectful to turn around and be completely hypocritical and agree with him. I highly doubt she'll quit after even having children..

@westwoodlvr

Ай бұрын

@@martas277 because each of you keep putting words into his mouth. NEVER did he say that women SHOULD NOT work or have choices, he pointed that that the most important thing between your family and your career is CLEARLY your family, and there's nothing wrong with pointing out this obvious statement.

@RandomName-my2uo

Ай бұрын

@@martas277 yeah I doubt she'll quit either, she'll join the ranks of the other Conservative women youtubers who make money by telling other women not to make their own money...its just sad. Hopefully she grows up a bit and learns to either live by her values, or not preach what she doesn't believe in!

Pick ME, choose ME, love ME

@rinehart.madeit8248

Ай бұрын

your definitely still in highschool

@seganaleqa

Ай бұрын

She’s married, she’s already picked/chosen and loved. Try a better insult next time, or better yet, try opening your mind to get away from the woke brainwashing.

@HowieGordonMusic

Ай бұрын

Bruh shes engaged...

@SuperRevelations

Ай бұрын

Married now ​@@HowieGordonMusic

@luv.princess.aurora

Ай бұрын

ok hun...

Og feminism was not about making women more like men. It was about making sure women had options that weren't just housewife

@wednesday7150

23 күн бұрын

yes finally someone understood

Brett is glowing. 😭❤️

@DevelopedFetus

Ай бұрын

and you're single

@mowgli2071

Ай бұрын

@@DevelopedFetus And you're projecting.

@ccc3336

Ай бұрын

Only if you‘re into Ben Shapiro in drag😂

@camryyyn.s

Ай бұрын

Yall say this every time

We need more people with values centered on the family over everything else! Please, America!

So why didn’t you quit your job and become a homemaker after you got married? Why does every other woman have to make the sacrifice but not you?

@WilliamBruhhh

Ай бұрын

No one’s saying that. Did you even watch the speech? The point being made is that women shouldn’t feel pressured into a career and that homemaking shouldn’t be something they’re ashamed of. Ie, do whatever you want, and do what aligns with your values.

@mzarectah

Ай бұрын

@@WilliamBruhhhthey’re talking about Brett. Why didn’t she quit her job and shut down this channel as soon as she got married?

@WilliamBruhhh

Ай бұрын

@@mzarectah Becauae she doesn’t have to? Did you not see what I said? The idea is to do what you want and be proud of it. Brett doesn’t want to be a stay at home mom and that’s ok. And if she did quit to do that it would also be ok.

@mzarectah

Ай бұрын

@@WilliamBruhhh how does Brett saying Butker is right and her being a career woman compute in your head? OP is right to point out the hypocrisy if they see fit. Don’t act like like what Butker said was as benign as “you can do one thing but you can do this other thing and it’s cool I guess”. He straight up said that women finding fulfilment in their careers is a “diabolical lie”. The fact that his mom is an accomplished clinical research physicist is just baffling.

@wesnorton8155

Ай бұрын

she never said that other women *HAVE* to make the sacrifice, are you sure you even watched the video?

He’s getting choked up and in tears because he loves his wife so much. Feminists hate him for it

@MrSaxobeat020

Ай бұрын

If he loves his wife so much, why the need to compare other women to his wife? Go and give that speech to your wife. I believe conservatives keep their relationship private?

@Captndavo

Ай бұрын

@@MrSaxobeat020 He didn’t compare other women to his wife… what are you talking about? Paraphrasing, but he said he hoped other women can find fulfillment and happiness by leaning into their vocation. Then he gave an example of how he could only do what he does today because his wife is able to do that.

@MrSaxobeat020

Ай бұрын

@@Captndavo Yes he did, He said while crying like a child "my wife she is housewife and a mother it's best thing ever happened to her, her life started that day" 🤡 he said that infront of women who are bloody graduating that day, trying to tell these single women how his wife is better than all of them. Ewww. Also conservatives believe in keeping their marriage private, yet he talked a lot about his marriage in front of the world. Haha

@Sarah_T871

Ай бұрын

you’re completely missing the point.

@Captndavo

Ай бұрын

@@Sarah_T871 oh, I gotta know. What do you think the point of the speech was?

I am a Christian woman in the process of getting a college degree with graduate degrees to follow. I don’t want children (which I’m struggling with, I feel immensely guilty for not wanting them even though I feel clearly called to be a teacher and share my gifts and work with kids in that way). However, this guy has a point. It’s not wrong to want to be a mother and what moms do is absolutely incredible. We should never ever be tearing down those women or their very valid decisions any more than we should tear down women who choose to work. However, some of the points he makes in this speech are very difficult to swallow in 2024, especially the point about birth control that is not scripturally backed. He's not entirely wrong, but he definitely said it at the wrong time.

@sergeemmanuelt.5398

Ай бұрын

You should feel guilty for not wanting children

@ladygrace5428

Ай бұрын

Way to kick a woman who’s down, kind soul. I expressed that I feel guilty and that I’m trying to serve the next generation how I can. I need advice, not hate. Sending love and prayers.

@SwimmingGoddess

Ай бұрын

@@sergeemmanuelt.5398 Why? She’s not a fking broodmare. If she doesn’t want kids she doesn’t need to have kids. Don’t listen to this idiot, LadyGrace.

@sergeemmanuelt.5398

Ай бұрын

@@ladygrace5428 actually I wanted to write "you should not feel guilty" and I realized that I omitted the "not" It's very embarrassing (and sad) because it's not even what I meant

@ladygrace5428

Ай бұрын

@@sergeemmanuelt.5398 Thank you for explaining, friend 💛💛

He did not say a damm thing wrong women are the force of this world

thank you brett for always spreading the truth and not being afraid of it. we’re all grateful for you and what you do. may the Lord above bless you with a happy life and kids

I disagree Brett. This guy literally said that it is invalid for women to study a career and be independent. Everyone, including your Brett, should not do anything to earn money, your "duty" is to be a housewife. Are you really in favor of those words? It's okay that there are women who maybe want to be, but many others don't. My life policy is that no one should tell others what to do or how to live their lives.

@andynowicki4532

Ай бұрын

He didn't "literally" say that, or even imply it. Watch the speech instead of CNN

@restonspolis3249

Ай бұрын

He did NOT say that! What is wrong with you?!!

@panchorr1444

Ай бұрын

@@restonspolis3249 He implicitly said it.

Woman with a long career in tech. He’s right. I am so excited to become a mom and all we are thinking about is how to enable me to step back and be home 😅 my 22 year old self would be shocked!

@Harizuri0806

Ай бұрын

It’s absolutely your right to choose that lifestyle but the society needs more encouragement for girls entering tech and climbing up the ladder in terms of power and socioeconomic status, the earth has enough stay at home mom and enough girls who can’t even go to school

@jomana1109

Ай бұрын

⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠@@Harizuri0806No. There’s absolutely no need for that whatsoever, economically or in any way, except to satisfy some progressives’ sense of social justice. You say that as if every country that espouses the western mode of living isn’t turning into a sub replacement demographic; as if women’s career is the optimal state, while it’s more than patent that ensuring women 1)have kids 2)have no high risk geriatric pregnancies (under 35) 3) aren’t single moms, is what’s important. You have also missed the Scandinavian study, that concludes women are more inclined to make career choices that have little to do with STEM than men, that women in unequal countries have better representation in STEM for lack of choice and diversity in occupation; because women’s interests align less with what’s available in a rudimentary economy. This among myriad factors.

@Mystika777

Ай бұрын

@jomana1109 Actually, YOU’RE wrong. Let the women who WANT to be mom and stay at home wives do so, and let the women who want to choose singleness do so. You have zero right or place to tell women how to live their lives.

oh my days, she's so pretty

What bothers me is that he’s making millions and his wife has the luxury of making that choice. Many of us need that dual income household to survive and not live on government assistance. 🤷🏽‍♀️

@matthewdennis1739

Ай бұрын

I'm pretty sure he wasn't saying you cant get a job if you need it to provide for your family. He never said you cant get a job, period.

@worldofheidi23

Ай бұрын

@@matthewdennis1739 I’m sure my mom who sacrificed a lot of family time to provide her family as well as other working mothers should be praised too. Why didn’t he mention that men should step up for their family? Why are women always called out? We all have opinions and we don’t have to agree.

@matthewdennis1739

Ай бұрын

@@worldofheidi23 I agree we all have opinions and its valid for us to have differing opinions. Your mother should be given credit and praise, as should all mothers who sacrifice for their families, and men need to be there for their families as well, which he actually did touch upon. As an aside, if you have multiple children and a job that doesn't particularly pay a lot, it can make more financial sense for a mother to stay home.

@Orxbane

Ай бұрын

No, you don't. Stay at home, raise and school your children and cook healthy meals, you don't need a big house, you don't need two new cars

@matthewdennis1739

Ай бұрын

@@Orxbane Not to mention how much you can save on childcare.

You are beautiful and full of confidence. Also, a strong woman. As a woman I think a woman should choose for herself. I love women that does what they want. I am a mother, business owner and wife I love my life. But it wouldn't suit everyone. BE YOU. Love to all woman and men that are themselves

Telling women they’ve been lied to is “inherently wrong.” If you want to stay home with kids fine. But don’t you *dare* tell me that my life begins as a married woman and mother. That’s pathetic🤢

@MrSaxobeat020

Ай бұрын

Absolutely right 👍🏻

@wswqq2330

Ай бұрын

You just couldnt meet a good man, all of your ex is manic because you are too!

@sandman9390

Ай бұрын

He didn't say that & he wasn't talking to you!

@SwimmingGoddess

Ай бұрын

@@sandman9390 He absolutely *did* say that and even the nuns from the college came out and said the speech was unacceptable. There’s a whole press statement from them. Maybe go back and listen to/read what was actually said.

@sandman9390

Ай бұрын

@@SwimmingGoddess I Did... I listened to the whole thing, more than once & also read the Nuns comments. You are interpreting his words & their words in light of your own biases & inserting, if not twisting words. Please don't be naive and expect leftist media to be honest in their reporting😂 I am NOT a Conservative Catholic, but the people who invited him were, BECAUSE he is an outspoken Conservative Catholic & this is not the 1st time Harrison has been attacked for his comments on traditional, Conservative values. People that are full of SELF are triggered & do not see the bigger picture...or take things in context. He was NOT talking to YOU😉👍

Oh my God... a sensible woman....how refreshing.....thank you for reassuring me to you are still out there among us... again thank you..❤

Easy for Harrison Butker’s wife to stay home. He makes over 4 million dollars a year. The average married couple doesn’t have that luxury.

Who is Harrison Butker???

@IAgree56

Ай бұрын

Kicker for the Kansas City Chiefs

@doodlebug547

Ай бұрын

Give it a Goog

Uh, not every mother makes sacrifices for her family. Some mothers are complete pos.

@diane2413

18 күн бұрын

Yeah. Trust me I know. I had one of those mothers. But many do and there is nothing wrong appreciating a woman who does make sacrifices for her family and is proud of being a mother just because others do not go down that path

What he said isn’t mysogonistic but it was very tone deaf and inappropriate for that audience. The women he was addressing spent a lot of years becoming professional caretakers and on a day they were supposed to be celebrated on that accomplishment, he took it as a chance to tell his stance. It was arrogant and narcissistic

@andynowicki4532

Ай бұрын

They gave him a standing ovation. If he was being "tone deaf," that wouldn't have happened

@sandman9390

Ай бұрын

So, you judge the entire world based on your own point of view🙄...and then you call others Narcissistic. Did you listen to his entire speech? Do you realize that a Conservative Catholic Private College invited a NFL Player, who is well known for his outspoken Conservative values. They chose him because they knew what he might say!...and by the sound of the applause & the standing ovation he received, it seems that his words were appreciated by the audience that he addressed🤷🏻‍♂️

@skimt7818

Ай бұрын

He was talking to a catholic school of largely traditional people. He knew his audience. You don't seem to know neither that audience, or this one on KZread. Meaning, your words here come across as tone deaf and inappropriate. Food for thought...

@megsley

Ай бұрын

IT WAS A CATHOLIC SCHOOL.

@intellextualweq3830

Ай бұрын

@@skimt7818 He is wrong. He’s taking bits and pieces of the Bible and mixing it with his political views presenting it as what God intended. I’m surprised Christians aren’t upset with that. Literally the Book of 1 Corinthians puts his narrative to shame. Read it, if you haven’t. Plus, the nuns who invited him put out a statement saying how offensive he was to their plight and giving their lives to God. If this your political view by all means we can respect that but don’t bring God into this because the Bible says otherwise.

The issue is not what he said. The issue is WHEN he said it. I wouldn't want to be congratulated on my work/ academics on Mother's Day. And I wouldn't want the focus of my hard earned college graduation to be motherhood. Women are many things. Mother is one of them. However, it's NOT okay to imply that THAT is the ONE true aspiration to be excited for ESPECIALLY on the day when her academic excellence is being celebrated. Get the point, Brett.

The NFL has no problem having 10 kids by 10 baby mamas, but heaven forbid you marry the woman you have kids with

I'm sorry but yes he was wrong. I'm not a feminist but he sounded like a politician from the handmaids tale. It was not the the time or the place. I'm both excited for my career as a medical social worker and to have future little ones with my first and only boyfriend soon to be husband. I like Brett but this is just cringe. More power to women who want to be home makers but women who want fulfilling careers (in which a lot you help tons of people) being told that we were told lies is kinda gross. Again, not a feminist but he really needed to not say that.

@andynowicki4532

Ай бұрын

You are a feminist; you protest too much

@angelicaharrison1014

Ай бұрын

^if you have to say not feminist, you’re probably a feminist lol anyone who actually knows the history of feminism would agree that it’s evil & we HAVE been told lies.

@AS-yz2iz

Ай бұрын

No, don't fool yourself. You're a feminist, if these are your views. You seem to believe Ethan a degree is wasted if a woman chooses to be a mother and homemaker. I reckon you could do more good in the world by devoting yourself wholeheartedly to your (future) husband and children. We're in the situation we're in now, because women stopped doing that. And bringing up the Handmaids Tale is just ridiculous. He obviously loves and cherishes his wife, which no husband in that story ever did.

@Sarah_T871

Ай бұрын

I couldn’t agree more.

@AS-yz2iz

Ай бұрын

You are a feminist. Don't fool yourself.

Commencement speeches: Butker vs Biden Another Super Bowl for Butker!

Bro the way she talks with such an educated manner is such a turn on 😭

He’s was not wrong the diabolical lies told to women about children being a burden and end to our careers is crazy. I believed all the lies for so long and cared so much about being this strong independent women that I lost sight of things that matter. I’m so grateful I found Jesus and an amazing husband. My degree is a piece of paper in the closet, starting my family is the most beautiful gift in the world.

@RyuKyu.77

Ай бұрын

Number one. Having a fulfilling career like being a doctor, teacher, lawyer and all is also fulfilling and YOU DO need a degree to be one of those occupation, tell me what's wrong with a woman wanting to be doctor instead of pumping out babies? Who cares

@samharryful

Ай бұрын

Good for you, but what you find fulfilling may not be for the rest of millions of women in the world. Every person is different and wants different things. I wouldn't say lies, just freedom to choose.

@AS-yz2iz

Ай бұрын

​@@samharryfulHe didn't say everyone has to choose motherhood and marriage. He said most would. That's a fact.

@arizalba7021

Ай бұрын

Never said having a college degree is wrong, just that for me my degree in comparison to my family is just a piece of paper in the closet. I don’t discredit women with career nor their hard work neither did he in his speech. Just that having a family and raising children should have never been taught to us as a bad thing or burden. We get taught men are bad and down with patriarchy, that sex is good but babies are bad so just kill them if you don’t want the consequences of your actions. We get told work your ass off in your career and everything will be worth it, but it’s not for everyone. Society looks down on women that chose to be SAHMs or have a family over a career, but we ignore that part because it’s not very feminist right. The amount of women in their late 30s and 40s questioning their life choices and regrets is seen constantly on social media. I have amazing women in my life with degrees doctors, teachers, nurses, cops, and more that all say they love what I do but what makes it worth it are their family. I know that there may be some women okay with never being married or having children and that’s okay too, but that’s a minority in comparison.

@Orxbane

Ай бұрын

@@RyuKyu.77 Most careers aren't fulfilling, so stop with that dumb argument, especially for women.

Before anyone says anything... they should watch the entire speech. He is spot on.

If a woman wants to work, that’s her choice and her right. Women fought for the right to work throughout history, and it is a hard-won victory. The fact that women can go to college and enter the workforce should be celebrated. They should not be told, at their graduation ceremony no less, that their education should just immediately be discarded for a life of motherhood. If they want that life, that’s fine! But telling a class of hardworking students that their place is as a mother and nowhere else is not okay. We should all be fighting for a world where everyone is accepted and treated respectfully and fairly, and not judged by their religion, career (or lack thereof), or any other aspect of their lives.

I'm a 32-year old project director for an architectural firm with international clients and i desperately want to stay home with my 9-month old daughter.

... What he said didn't really offend me, but the way he said it irritated me. It was like reverse psychology 😅I like children and I want to be a mother one day, but these types of speeches make me feel like all my hard work was useless and meaningless. I really enjoy studying and working in my field, so when someone tells me I shouldn't work, it makes me want to work harder. His message is correct but his approach should be different if he wants people to listen to him.

@sandman9390

Ай бұрын

He didn't tell YOU..🙄...He didn't tell them they SHOULDN'T either...He was extolling the virtues of that "vocation"

@Orxbane

Ай бұрын

Because it was useless and meaningless, but go on being an inadequate man

my late aunt who was by definition a "trad wife" and one that raised 5 kids (and grandchildren) alongside her husband of 50+ years while working at as nurse for over 40 years would disagree with everything this clown is saying. More importantly in no way ever did my uncle ever discrouge my aunt form ever being employed. BTW I'm pretty sure Lauren Southern would have someting different to say after coming to reality that the trad life doesn't work.

@matthewdennis1739

Ай бұрын

He never said that you can't get a job, he said that isn't the most important thing in life.

@tradfluteman

Ай бұрын

I agree with everything you said but this is Brett Cooper, what is the connection to Southern?

@JonJones1776

Ай бұрын

No one gives af about your life story.

@Orxbane

Ай бұрын

Lauren Southern was never a tradwife.

Where are all the women like Brett, please stand up!!!

@Juli6SS

Ай бұрын

Women like Brett love to preach things they don't follow themselves. She's focusing solely on her career. She's not married, doesn't have kids, and isn't a homemaker. I guess Brett's life hasn't started yet.

If he’s not wrong then what are you doing here? Quit your job.

Yup Ben Shapiro in his feminine state talking with slightly lower pitch feminine voice.

I Stand With Harrison Butker ❤❤💛💛

It's not EVERY mother, just the good ones. Babies born drug addicted don't have good mothers. No amount of want-to makes it fact. It takes dedication and self-sacrefice.

Girl you’re soo pretty

He was condescending in his speech that‘s the problem.

Because of the cost of living, it is inherently difficult to have mom be a full time stay at home mom. I am all for stay at home moms.

My wife wanted to be a homemaker and rise our boy. I’m so proud of her for doing what I ask her to do. ❤❤

I didnt hear a word she said unfortunately and had to rewatch this. Just a stunning beauty.

@user-um4ir6gy6i

Ай бұрын

Simp

A college degree, a career, and no children makes you “confident” in what Harrison said about homemaking and motherhood being the most fulfilling role for women? That’s an interesting take.

@JerrellConner

Ай бұрын

Rrrright!?!

@JerrellConner

Ай бұрын

Rrrright!?!

@JerrellConner

Ай бұрын

Rrrright!?!

No matter what direction you go in there should always be a choice. I do not condemn those who encourage others to follow the choice they wish. But I do condemn those who imply that those choices should be removed. I believe that is where that man got himself into hot water.

I would have given her 3 kids by now. she 's so perfect and you know she's a great mom .

Yes 🙌 Also, I’d just like to say I love the channel 😎 Hust found u a couple days ago and I’ve been binging the vids lol

I agree with almost everything he said except the part where women were told a “diabolical lie”

@tradfluteman

Ай бұрын

I also disagreed with his reference to sin month, i.e. pride month. I don't think Brett actually watched more than this one clip.

@azaemogirl1572

Ай бұрын

Ye i dont get ppl that say women were told a lie. No one said it was gonna be easy and everyone perfectly knew that with studies come costs and you will prob not immediately get a job. Working can be just as fulfilling as being a parent bcs not everyone wants to deal with kids.

@angelicaharrison1014

Ай бұрын

Have you actually read about the full history of feminism?

@tradfluteman

Ай бұрын

@@angelicaharrison1014 I wouldn't say the "full history", but recently I looked into the early history of suffrage, and how women and men were persuaded to have women become a part of politics. It's very interesting, less monolithic than either side portrays it, even before WWI.

@Orxbane

Ай бұрын

It is a diabolical lie. There is no fulfillment to wasting your life in a pointless 'career' and then realizing at 35 with only 'tism eggs left you want to be a mom.

Behind every useless athlete is a mom who actually does something of value for a living like saving kids from cancer.

Well said Brett. I have been a homemaker since I got married 15 years ago and a SAHM for nearly 13 years. It is the life I love and the life I know God intended me to lead.

PREACH! ❤

Once biden is out of office I’m hoping inflation can go down far enough that I can also be a homemaker.. all I want is to raise my children and take care of my household. My husband has a good career. That five years ago we would’ve been able to buy a house with. I’m hoping that can still be a reality.

@azaemogirl1572

Ай бұрын

Trump aint gonna make inflation dissapear and even if he was so much better the biden the economy is more then the usa alone, other countrys influence the economy as well.

Until he dumps her once the kids are grown for a younger woman, leaving her with nothing.

Also, his wife HAD to make those sacrifices and was forced to just be a homemaker bc he was off living his dreams. How much time did he spend with his kids in between games, practice, media appearances, etc. why is fatherhood never held to the same standard as motherhood? he could’ve had an equal part in raising his kids and being with his family but he selfishly chose his own dreams and career. But that’s ok? he chose his career over being a more present father and husband. Why is that not an issue?

@Orxbane

Ай бұрын

Yeah, I'm sure those 10sh weekends a year that he travels to away games really kills the time he gets to spend with his kids. I'd wager he has way more freetime with his kids than the average working dad, let alone someone that made his income in a corporate career.

The thing is, there is a time and place, that was NOT the time nor the place

@robsutton3092

Ай бұрын

That’s why he said it. He admitted that stating uncomfortable truths or beliefs is a duty of the church and parishioners. There is never an appropriate time to say politically incorrect things. Jesus, by the way, is the poster-boy for being politically incorrect. Got himself crucified. Literally!

@megsley

Ай бұрын

HE WAS SPEAKING AT A CATHOLIC COLLEGE AND THE ENTIRE AUDIENCE, INCLUDING THE FEMALE GRADS, STOOD UP AND CHEERED HIM JFC YALL DON'T READ UP ON ANYTHING BEFORE YOU OPEN YOUR MOUTH.

@robsutton3092

Ай бұрын

@@megsley Good points. While it is true he was speaking to a Catholic audience, it was a particularly traditional Catholic audience, as he drew a distinction between elements in today’s Catholic Church that desire pleasing our secular leftist culture versus those in the Catholic Church who truly follow Christ. Anyway, as you pointed out, what he said was not shocking in this setting. Furthermore, it would have been a normal, uncontroversial message in our society-at-large not that many years ago. Do we need homemakers? Of course we do, and that should be a respected role in our society.

I love how you address this topic with such honesty.

My friend’s Mother passed away a couple weeks ago. She was a widow herself. All her children and some of her grandchildren were with her in her final days and hours. All of them are great people. Do you think any corporation will send anyone when one of these boss babes is in their final hours to hold their hand and tell them how much the company will miss her?

As a well achieved woman, I love masculinity…… As do the women around me❤

Wow! Whoppi actually defended him 😯

The majority of the world agrees that it's a beautiful thing for there to be harmony between women and men. Also celebrating the creation of life and taking care of the people you love most.

I think he said a lot of good things in that speech, and that particular section of his speech was not inherently misogynistic, but if you read between the lines you can see what the intent was. I agree that it is totally fine to want to be a homemaker, but the way he worded it made it sound very much like he was shaming women who didn’t want to.

as a mom the speech was great and he’s right and it’s not like he said all you women are worthless anywhere except for the home 🙄

People are angry that a man, whose mother is an actual physicist, took the celebration of women’s hard work, hopes and dreams & destroyed it. His tone was angry. And nobody at that commencement cares about him or his wife, they are irrelevant. Put all that energy in an Op Ed, Mr. Butker. I can’t believe the women didn’t exit stage right. College educated women actually sat there while their accomplishments were collectively sh*t on by a football player. Think about that…a literal football player who kicks balls for a living.

@Ieatpaste23

Ай бұрын

Funny, no one here cares about you either.