Ok, I'm a woman and I'm questioning half these women's mindsets

@melrobertson2743

3 ай бұрын

SAME !!!!

@noahgoldsmith7384

3 ай бұрын

As a guy I’m just curious on which ones you agree on because some of them made sense to me and the others were kind of weird and/ or stupid.

@henrymanley4116

3 ай бұрын

@@noahgoldsmith7384 Exactly, they just seem the most bothered by the least impactful things.

@ELmayberry

3 ай бұрын

right.. 😂😂😅

@simonwinn8757

3 ай бұрын

Most of these seem like bad boyfriend experiences. The main one I agree with is, don't get string along on a non committed relationship for months.

Women in the family is crazy. That just seems like insecurity 😬

@timisme8360

3 ай бұрын

Yeah, that's a girl that wants the whole world to revolve around her.

@rollingwithmoore

3 ай бұрын

@@timisme8360 that girl is a narcissist

@dsoul1305

3 ай бұрын

Seemed like she escape a mental facility to me.

So many of those girls are getting red flags and pet peeves confused

@DancingOnGlass89

3 ай бұрын

oh man yes yes!

@Proudtman

3 ай бұрын

Exactly 💯

@ELmayberry

3 ай бұрын

😅

@gamewiz720

Ай бұрын

69th like

Jaxon's impression at the end had me dying of laughter LOL

The problem with love bombers is they do it until they got you, then they stop and you find out they're a completely different person.

@Missmagazinebura

3 ай бұрын

Or like joe from you and ted from how I met your mother

@ELmayberry

3 ай бұрын

yes. exactly 😅

One of my biggest red flags is a girl who will actively get angry with you if you hold a door open for her. I've had that happen on a couple first dates and there's never been a second. I understand that you are strong independent woman. I love strong independent women! But let's not try to bunch common courtesy and misogyny in the same group. If she gets to the door first and holds the door for me, I will say thank you very much and trot my little a$$ thru! 😂😂😂😂

Not everyone who's insecure will treat people badly! It's not fair to lump all of us in one boat like that

@hatleyhoward7193

3 ай бұрын

We all have insecurities. I think the point here is being with someone that allows insecurities to drive behaviors; like getting jealous or becoming controlling, etc…

@Proudtman

3 ай бұрын

@@hatleyhoward7193 That's a better way of explaining that! They said it in a way that just puts insecure people down

@chelseaaatottt

3 ай бұрын

Agreed! I actually think the opposite applies for me- I think everyone is better than me, and focus all of my energy on making the people I love shine! Sounds more like what she was referring to was someone who is insecure about their relationship, not themself.

@Missmagazinebura

3 ай бұрын

If you’re Blair waldorf insecure yes run lol

@MaMastoast

3 ай бұрын

Hmm, Im not generally insecure, but when whnever something I am insecure about is brought up, I do tend react pretty badly

I really don’t think toxic femininity is talked about enough. Good for them for bringing it up.

@taratheshinyabsol768

27 күн бұрын

Yeah!

Communication really is key. If you think a specific action means something, then ask them directly if it means what you think.

Jaxon is really logical and so mature. I really appreciate his mind

Time to flip it and do men's red flags about women

@Deehydrate

3 ай бұрын

And most will be justified unlike most of these.

@HouseMDaddict

3 ай бұрын

They probably will, but they also address women and men red flags in this vid too. Like the girl talking about "cheap" guys was not even being accurate about "cheap" she was being toxic. An actual "cheap" guy would be like the reddit story where the guy tipped a waitress $100 bucks, then took his date to the car, and ran back inside to drop the tip down to $20 and threatened the waitress to sue her if she didn't change it. THAT'S "cheap" and "a-hole" behavior because he's putting on a show of great character and then behind closed doors he's shady and nasty AF.

@ultimatebishoujo29

3 ай бұрын

Yes definitely

Best video in a long time!!!! Love Jaxon and Brian’s take on these red flags. 🚩 Some of the women in those clips are GIANT red flags 🚩 themselves!!!!

9:20 Woman feels threatened by family members or as Keith said, she's experienced something with family members of an ex. The "emotional men" part is also incredibly ridiculous. Like, why shouldn't a guy be able to express himself?

@patriotsfan122480

3 ай бұрын

I mean if I had a brother or a son who was dating her, I’d tell them to run away as fast as they could too 😂

@angelapplepie

3 ай бұрын

I have an ex whose sister treated me like I was the mistress and SHE was the true girlfriend, plus he had a mother who groomed him and made him basically helpless without someone making decisions for him, so, to an extent I get it

@CheyenneEntertainmentYT

3 ай бұрын

@@angelapplepie I have to start off by saying I'm terribly sorry that happened to you. Also, with situations like that, it IS understandable you'd rather your partner had no other women in his life. Though, you never really know what goes on in another person's family until you've witnessed it yourself. Judging someone's family before you've met them is wrong. If you DO meet them and they turn out to be toxic, THEN I get it.

@angelapplepie

3 ай бұрын

@@CheyenneEntertainmentYT that I will agree with

@smithsunleashed

Ай бұрын

@@angelapplepieyeah i agree with that but i think it should have been phrased properly. Like have a toxic boy mom or mamas boy?

Gina: Are you funny? Nick: No! ...says the guy who does standup comedy 😂

@Alapaloozalover2000

3 ай бұрын

Wait, Nick does stand up comedy?!

@melanieannplans2666

3 ай бұрын

@@Alapaloozalover2000 I started following him on Instagram a couple months back and he occasionally posts clips of his work. Super funny dude! (No surprise there.)

@ELmayberry

3 ай бұрын

wait.. 😮 seriously

I've dated seemingly confident men that slowly reveal over time that theyre actually really insecure, and they started to treat me like a therapist instead of girlfriend. I've had a lot of first dates that never turn into second dates because they start oversharing and trauma dumping right off the bat. There's a big difference between finding comfort in expressing deeper emotions with a significant other, and treating your significant other like a therapist to help "heal" you. Two completely different things!

as a woman....some of these women are making me sad lol

Jaxon is mature beyond his years and he’s got a good sense of humor

I don't use social media that much. I don't want to see people bragging about how good their lives are. I only care about the news. That's why i only use KZread.

Keith sounds like he would be the biggest pain in the ass to date and be the most fun you ever had at the same time. :)

In the no titles section Chris Rock’s line from No Sex popped in my head- “If you’ve been dating a man for four months and you haven’t met any of his friends, you are not his girlfriend.”

I've been with my man for 15 years in may this year. He has social media, but the only thing he ever use it for is to post his podcast. He talks about me a lot on the podcast and he has the relationship status as in a relationship with me, but other than that he doesnt mention or post about me more than reacting to shit I post. We dont live on social media. We have a strong relationship in real life and that's all I need.

@jreyman

3 ай бұрын

Glad to hear you don't live through your social media. Unfortunately most women are absolutely addicted to it, because of the attention and validation they seek, and the social media feeds that addiction. They don't want to give it up, not even for building and maintaining a healthy relationship with their partner. Social media has actually destroyed dating and relationships, in the modern world. Same applies to dating apps.

@Charoke

3 ай бұрын

@@jreyman yeah Im actually so thankful I dont have to deal with dating today. It seems beyond awful. I do agree that social media has gone too far for many, but I also know a lot of people, women, who dont live through social media either. Mind you, we're in our 30s. The younger generations might be different.

Not posting on socials. I have to say there's a difference between keeping your relationship private and keeping it hidden.

@NoNames-vw3bq

3 ай бұрын

BIG difference for sure.

@rollingwithmoore

3 ай бұрын

Not a lot of people know that. If I’m in a relationship, I’m just going to put taken by the best girl ever And that should be enough. Also, if my girl doesn’t post me on social media, I would not care, as long as she’s faithful to me

@bxarbianaa

3 ай бұрын

Honestly, I don’t know why that matters… like I understand what you’re saying, but people shouldn’t be obligated to post you or even let social media know that you guys are dating because at the end of the day it’s between you and the person it’s not between you the person and social media

I like it when the Smosh cast stays at REACT's house for the weekend.

I've had a boyfriend lovebomb he said "i love you" one month in and then suddenly became super clingy because I don't "love" someone until i get to know them for a bit. Turned out he had no friends and was toxically trying to adopt my life and friends and i dumped him after 2.5 months. Had another dude lovebomb and be all "sweet" and stuff but then he'd constantly say to other people (my friends and mutual friends) that he's "not ready for a relationship". When i started calling him out on being an a-hole to mutual friends and gaslighting me, he'd become a raging a-hole, so I dropped him too.

@maravilac

3 ай бұрын

glad you realized early about the type of people they were 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

@MaMastoast

3 ай бұрын

First one sounds like you were his first partner? I think its fairly normal to act like that when you havent yet learned how to navigate a relationship.

Not necessarily a red flag but definitely a turn off: Going on a rant about not liking dogs, cats, or any house pet.

@rochellealexander8271

Ай бұрын

Yup! This would be a problem for me. I have Service Animals. Sorry, not sorry.

The "men that only type in lowercase" shows that woman is talking a lot on a very specific set of apps as most apps and phones will auto capitalize words. So if a guy is typing lowercase across the board, they are actually putting effort into undoing the capitalization the device or apps are doing. Which takes extra effort. So that woman is either bullshitting or revealing the only communications she has with these men is on specific dating apps that don't do auto capitalization.

Two of my friends became girlfriend and boyfriend once, and they were both happy with each other, and we all were happy together as a group, but then she broke up with him (basically) because of how he was, even after he said he was happy to still be friends, she wouldn't even stay friends with any of us just because we were still friends with him; that to me is ridiculous because why should one friend get downgraded just cos they're friends with an ex?!

@icecreamman2687

3 ай бұрын

sometimes its hard to see someone in the same way after "feelings" happen

@henrymanley4116

3 ай бұрын

@@icecreamman2687 Fair, but she tried to get all of us to forget about him as well. The point I'm trying to make is that you can't choose other people's friends for them.

@alwandemthethwa7594

2 ай бұрын

​@@henrymanley4116yeah she was being a tad bit controlling, expecting u guys to "break up" with him aswell

The Internet gives random ppl the ability to create weird red flags 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I think allot of these tik Tok ppl need to touch grass

crying over the two of them agreeing with the girl who brought up emotions and then when she said because being emotional is a feminine trait they were both like NEVER MIND 😂

@thomaszielinski4326

3 ай бұрын

They will hate on your for showing emotions, then turn around and tell their friends you're emotionally immature because you don't. It's a no win scenario for people like that.

I love Keith. He is like a younger Chris Rock with the fashion sense of Prince and I love it.

I need Jaxon and Brian together more

@jonasBortolon

3 ай бұрын

jaxon is the hope of a generation..

Also in my experience with love bombers it's not even too much too fast because it's wonderful to feel special, it's more like once the newness wears off things get stale quick. They're not as invested, got you wondering what's going that they went from texting all day and being adorable to kind of stand offish.

5:52 Love bombing can be a sign of an abusive person

Jaxon has always been my fave since he was in kids react 🥰😂😂

The girl talking about men who don't "control" their emotions became a whole parade of red flags real quick. And you know she's just gonna excuse her own issues with some sexist double standards.

The too busy thing, you also need to know the person. I have debilitating anxiety and people who know and love me know that I want to hang out but sometimes I cannot even leave my own home and I can't tell them why.

@bryanwoods3373

3 ай бұрын

As well, they may actually be busy. If you know he's working 12-hour days, 6 days a week, settle down. And then there are the stories of women being upset their husband works all the time, but they don't make the connection that her lavish lifestyle is because he's working so much for her.

Now do the women reacting to guy's red flags

@dandles2010

3 ай бұрын

I want to see that.

@nathanwilliams9866

3 ай бұрын

Oh you know its coming.

@Lionbeard

3 ай бұрын

Yes

@corriesbooknook

3 ай бұрын

It's a commin'.

@marwayoongi1294

2 ай бұрын

They better pick some goofy and non sensical ones like the cherry picked some of these crazy TikTok ppl here 😭

Women in the family - she simply wants him all to herself. Needy. Clingy. Etc. Possessive. Obsessive. All those words.

Nick and jack as a combo is hilarious Also wouldn’t it be better if they had a sister and mom so you know they know how to treat a woman?

@rochellealexander8271

Ай бұрын

Yes! This was my thought. As a woman this makes it MUCH easier to know whether or not he is good to women.

The ex thing has 2 sides if y’all have kids together u still have to communicate for the kids sake

It's so cool that you invited Chris Rock Jr.

I actually dated a guy who would cheat on me, tell me about it declaring how sorry he was & begged me not to leave him. This went on for a long while; before I finally wised up & dumped his ass.

@stischer47

2 ай бұрын

So he told you he cheated and you continued to date him. As the saying goes, "Once burned, shame on you. Twice burned, shame on me. 3X...I'm crazy."

@amethystb12345

2 ай бұрын

@@stischer47 true but there is a trend with guys I date; they all have a talent for making me feel like they are the best I will ever get so I just better put up with whatever trash they dump on me.

I really hope that @REACT does the reverse of this video. Mostly, I’m interested in seeing what other guys’ red flags might be. Because, my wife and I were flabbergasted by some of the women’s red flags.

Dating an insecure person can be tiresome, they need validation all the time, and any little thing sets them off to question themselves

@gamerbear84

Ай бұрын

And THAT would be fair reason to be concerned over it affecting the relationship, but that ain't what she said.

Jaxon is my favorite by a mile

Even the social media thing I keep my social life and private life completely separate

I know my husband has his mom and sisters (his dad passed about 6 years before we met) and I'm not mad that he talks to and wants to see them. I may not want to all the time but I understand how important they are to him

WTF... posting in the social media is now is a must.. I agree with Jaxon.. what if the significant partner is not on social media.. as long as your significant partner feels you be loved personally..

OMG... Most ALL of these Red Flags are so ridiculous. They just made the women look shallow and insecure. I thought the guys, for the most part, gave great answers.

Because there cannot possibly be any legitimate reason to be in contact with an ex (for example, if you had kids together and share custody) >_>

Mine is when he has a toxic family member and constantly defends them when they hurt you or your family

Once again I agree with Jaxon

@ctakitimu

3 ай бұрын

Except for his 'The Office' comments! Ooooh, I just got it now. They're meaning the American knock off version. Yeah I agree with Jaxon

You can be insecure and not try to dim anyone's light. I'm insecure because I was bullied growing up. All it means is I need a little extra reassurance that all is well and you're into me more than average people. I will adore who I adore and build them up.

4:08 if you've "been with him for 8 months and met his parents" and aren't dating him then you're being played

Bro, if I get a guy who cries... shii guess we need tissues for two and double the cuddles cause I am a sympathy crier

Hear me out, find the tiktokers who made those, bring them in to react to this video. 😂

@rollingwithmoore

3 ай бұрын

Why? They wouldn’t find anything wrong with it

@jg8263

3 ай бұрын

@rollingwithmoore see them get offended by the reactors reactions!

@rollingwithmoore

3 ай бұрын

@@jg8263 exactly. they will play victim

I loved Nick's reaction about it 🤣 Because, yes, you can be a person showing love with details... But flowers, chocolates, and stuff, doesn't make it all... Hearing, caring and being present is what matters... I believe 🤷🏽‍♂5:36

On the Women In The Family subject: If that woman despise any woman in a family so much….Why Is She Still Here?🤷‍♂️

I was waiting to see the reactions on guys being short 😢

"Getting angry is a feminine trait" What's wrong with men having feminine traits?

@henrymanley4116

2 ай бұрын

Well it's not even a feminine trait, it's a human trait.

@alexkaen1701

2 ай бұрын

@@henrymanley4116 Not the point. It's the shaming that's the issue, putting someone down because they're showing the wrong genders' traits

@henrymanley4116

2 ай бұрын

@@alexkaen1701 Exactly, the shaming is the issue but emotions aren't certain gender traits, they both smile, laugh, cry, get mad, etc.

Angry Jaxon is best Jaxon. This had sooo much angry Jaxon. It was great.

Jaxon has really grown on me after all these years 😂

Imagine being so addicted to attention seeking on social media that you believe it's the status quo

Some of these women’s red flags have me laughing on the floor yelling “You’ll never get a man!” Because I’m over dramatic💅🏾

Y'all are killing me talking about " what if we have a kid together ", obviously if y'all share a child(ren) communication needs to happen unless you're a deadbeat 🤦🏾‍♀️🤣. Obviously they're referring to if y'all just texting each other just for the hell of it or talking to them & hiding it.

If any woman complains about me working too much, I don't need her in my life anyway. Enough said.

@3M0FR34K

3 ай бұрын

I cant complain abt that I work 6 days a week and so does my man but we've made it work for 2 years lmao

Some of these red flags doesn't even make sence to me 😭😭

I'm starting to like Nick more. He's such a natural funny guy without even trying. :) And that last scene of Jaxon, so funny! 😂 Nice episode!

@nathanwilliams9866

3 ай бұрын

Honestly, I didn't like him at first, but he has grown on me.

I think some (not all, but some) of these red flags are completely valid. With that said, most of the examples these women are presenting are coming across as rather petty 😩

“Dr.Joesph if you're nasty”😂😂😂 Brian be taking me out

I have a Facebook and in a happy long term relationship with children and we do not post on social media.. honestly for me it seems strange to post every thing you experience or your kid does for validation. I take photos and videos of my kids everyday basically but I send them to my main friends or family..

@kristenlogan2594

3 ай бұрын

Thank you! I specifically don't really post anything with my son in it so as not to have his pic circulate on the internet.

@aep7113

3 ай бұрын

@@kristenlogan2594 exactly! With all this technology it is scary and it may seem “overprotective” but 🤷🏻‍♀️ can’t hurt them to not post

I don't agree with the money one... Mine and my husbands first date was split and every date after we alternated paying. If we just drove around I'd pay my share of gas. It's not the 20s anymore ladies we work too. Men used to pay because it was socially unacceptable for a lady to make her own wage.

@cocalita03

3 ай бұрын

How about, that works for you. Not every woman feels that way. We all have our thing. Your thing is 50/50 dating, and not everyone's is.

@ImogenShade

3 ай бұрын

@kittykayla1234 Ignore the troll, their just jealous that you found a man because you didn’t start off the relationship using him for free meals & drinks!

@brilyman

3 ай бұрын

@@cocalita03 LMAO say youre a gold digger without saying youre a gold digger

@cocalita03

3 ай бұрын

​@@brilyman are you 12? Please learn what words mean before you type.

@henrymanley4116

2 ай бұрын

I like that, and I couldn't agree more, it makes more sense just to split it cos that shows that things are equal.

Most of these red flags don’t make any sense, like what’s wrong with loving Wolf Of Wall Street or having a name that starts with a J?

@alwandemthethwa7594

2 ай бұрын

I think those r just throwaway thoughts that those girls thought were valid red flags for a second, without actually thinking them thru

@smithsunleashed

Ай бұрын

I think these are phrased wrong. You can love the movie and call it a good movie, but idolizing leos character is way outrageous

Yo, the dude with the red hat has a lot of hot takes. Like, he'd be the type of person my friend would date and then ask if her if he can come on girls nights and the rest of us are trying to figure out how to tell her no without offending the both of them

masculinity and feminity are both sexuality. Modern Feminism and Misogyny are both ideologies that prech for superiority not equality. Gender has nothing to do with character.

I have never related more to anyone than Jaxon this entire video.

@beweirdtshirt

12 күн бұрын

Jaxon is SO heated in this and I love it!

6:50 Anyone who talks like that is projecting. "So you think you're better?!" Most sane people don't care to compare. It's clearly someone who tries to be better than others that feels that they're failing to do so

@Jalbesbe

15 күн бұрын

Should have made all of your comments into a single comment mate.

1:38 if a man already has a child(ren) then he must be in contact with his children and their mothers...

@polidon1577

2 ай бұрын

Nope, those women want the guy to be a deadbeat father whose only contact with his ex and children is child support and alimony

I love Jackson's reaction

Wouldn't a lot of these red flags be resolved if there was communication first about said "red flags"????

@m0t0b33

3 ай бұрын

I know, right? Like the "fun" comment? The chick freaked out about the guy she was dating calling her fun, AFTER her male friend told her it mean something bad. But, what if the bf meant she was fun to hang with, and the man friend had another perception of the connotation of the word?

To me "fun" gives "I would hook up with you, but don't see you as long term relationship material". Obviously read the room about it.

Anyone who, unprompted, decides to tell you about how much they hate drama.

@mandlerparr1

3 ай бұрын

anyone who calls on Jesus right before they tell their side of the story.

I kind of have to talk to my ex...we have kids together

I would really like to see them do this with the girls reacting to guys red flags

10:27 jaxon's reaction just hilariously changed 😂😂

Nick reminds me of Alex Karev from greys anatomy. And I love it. 😂

I asked my husband out, we've been together 15 years.

I love when spicy angry Jaxon makes appearances lol

I don’t share my personal information on social media. Anyone that needs to know I’ve told

she explained lovebombing wrong i'm frustrated

@digthewarmth

Ай бұрын

She did. He's not going to leave you when he finds a flaw, he's trying to keep you at all costs, trying to hook you early and make you feel like there will be nowhere to go when his "love" stops.

@strangervideos1256

22 күн бұрын

@@digthewarmth I mean there are different type of love bombers, the type that bomb you with love and wont leave you even if you have many flaws, will literally do anything for you, and the type that leave you almost right away, bomb you with love and a few weeks, ghost you or leave you

I have the opposite experience with insecure people. They overestimate and overvalue you rather than try to diminish you. I've actually never in person encountered a person who is insecure and try to drag me down, ever.

@NoNames-vw3bq

3 ай бұрын

I think they missed the narcissistic factor paired with insecurity. People can be insecure but not narcissistic. Narcissists will definitely try to drag you down & make you feel insecure.

Talking to your EX is a red flag....how do you plan your kids lives if you and your EX do not talk?

@arianewinter4266

Ай бұрын

They are Not thinking of people WHO have Kids right there . . .

@rochellealexander8271

Ай бұрын

This was my thought. And I have an ex who is a very good friend. Every man I have been with has no problems with he and I being friends and most times will connect with him just to ask if I did (insert whatever dumb thing I did here) while with him. He is also able to fully explain how my brain works to them so they understand I think with my head and not my heart. And he has gained more male friends that way. LOL

This was an awesome video! And yeah, it pointed out some red flags that I didn't even know existed. Namely the girl that had a problem with women in his family!

Jaxon's so based nowadays and I'm for it

Women who had a long term ex. In my specific case. I dated 3 women in a row who had a similar story, an ex of over 5 years at the least (9, 6, and 6 in that order) where they were essentially cohabitating and infidelity broke them up. They ALWAYS had issues and a lot of it has to do with constantly talking to or reminiscing about their ex, like those lingering feelings they could never let go off. Essentially using you to get over their ex, but ultimately failing because they won't work on themselves outside of using a guy.

These girls' red flags are always strangely specific. Red Flags, to me, would be looking out for a guy who tries to speak for you and say you don't mean something when you do. Watch out for guys who want quid pro quo in the relationship. Like they notice you are struggling a little financially, so you couldn't say restock your coffee because that's not a necessary expense. They offer to bring you a jar if you are willing to xyz. Like you aren't asking... they offer and then say they needed something in return. Obviously, look out for a guy or girl who is always lying.

Jackson gives me Ben Boykewich (The secret life of the American teenager) vibes 😂. But definitely not season 1 Ben. The later weird Ben 😂

@nickpassion123

3 ай бұрын

kinda, but I still like Jaxon

That whole asking to be a girlfriend thing confuses me. I thought it would be a natural progression. Unless you ask to be serious when you're not, which is probably the same thing.

@dsoul1305

3 ай бұрын

If you naturally at some point start to call the other bf or gf and the other agrees, ok, but if it doesn't happen, when you would consider the other "yours'' and you both in a exclusive relation and why to expect the other to know and agree with your thoughts? Many people start to date "to see what happens" and doesn't drop other situationships forever. If you don't set a line where the dating becomes some type of relation, you better be sure that the other have this "natural progression" in mind and willing to go exclusive "in the next few (some time frame)".

10:21 are you nuts! Men are allowed to show emotions! They are human! I all for men showing emotions!

@khanyi8512

3 ай бұрын

Regulating emotions and showing emotions are 2 different things tho.

@Liz_Lizille

3 ай бұрын

@@khanyi8512 then explain it to me.

@iamgholden

23 күн бұрын

​@Liz_Lizille Regulating emotions is controlling impulses and not letting them get the best of you, like for example, not punching someone in the face because you're angry at them. Emotions are real and valid but shouldn't be the only thing that decides what you do

Great minds think alike bro…me and Jaxon was on the same page with the “fun” one😭