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@denise0777

Ай бұрын

I believe this message was meant for me. In my case it's a marriage situation and the pretender is my husband. I have wanted to leave for quite some time, but have nowhere to go, literally.

@lukewest6542

Ай бұрын

Why is it only for woman I really need someone to talk to

@actiontree458

Ай бұрын

@@denise0777If you have time check out 1 Peter 3:1-6 ❤🙏🔥

@esthernuqm

Ай бұрын

@@lukewest6542 pertand that ur a woman

@hhhfdfgdfgfgfg2249

Ай бұрын

In todays world people just simply choose that they are woman even if they are born male. Soo in male but i feel like im women so can i get coaching 😹😹😹

The foolish seeks how to overcome loneliness, the wise seeks how to enjoy it.....🍇🍷

@jackieVanTine_

Ай бұрын

We are never lonely with the Lord :) singleness is a GIFT you don’t realize is so precious until you’re married.

@meudeusefiel9820

Ай бұрын

Loniness is not from God

@css374

Ай бұрын

@@meudeusefiel9820 To be happy alone is to run away from the problems that stupidity creates💖

@user-mo9wz2qy5g

Ай бұрын

I have never heard this before. Excellent

@css374

Ай бұрын

@@user-mo9wz2qy5g Sometimes it's good to reflect🤝💖

don't fall in love with potential, fall in love with who they are, if they are light go for it, but if they darkness it's a RED FLAG

@jackieVanTine_

Ай бұрын

Yes! And the Word says anyone who does not love their brother is still in darkness

Obedience is better than sacrifice follow christ and him alone .

@jackieVanTine_

Ай бұрын

Amen ! He is truly the BEST treasure above a spouse, above anything!!

Only God can change a person, so pray for them and let God have His glory. Seek God for understanding, He knows my heart and my path.

@jackieVanTine_

Ай бұрын

Yes amen Louis! We strain ourselves trying to change people…. And what we need to do is simply pray God would change them!

Satan is the master manipulator. He knows our weaknesses better than we do. He knows how to put a crack in our defenses. He's also very patient and is willing to wear you down over time. Be always vigilant and stand in holy places as much as possible. Dedicate your home as your personal sanctuary from evil. Surround yourself with positive influences that share your desire to be disciples of Christ. Big hug, my extended family! ❤

@jackieVanTine_

Ай бұрын

He is patient and CONSISTENT. That’s why we need be consistent in our pursuit of God and His Word, because Satan’s lies are constantly being thrown at us. The minute we agree with the truth, the lie dies.

@StevenCrabtree-bp5ll

Ай бұрын

Yes and amen ❤️🌞❣️

I recently rededicated my life to Christ after turning my back on him for years. My current GF isn't religious and comes from a worldly family. But I've become a new creation. We've been dating for three years and hearing this message kinda sucks :/ but necessary. I've been praying for a long time now about it. Update: I told her about these things and what God expects out of me. She said she is willing to take a step of faith, and we’ve begun praying together daily. Trust in the Lord ☝🏻.

@mekhi_morris

Ай бұрын

You know what you must do brother😔

@ItsArbie

Ай бұрын

@@mekhi_morris I really don’t though. I feel like the Good Lord has been telling me to focus on him and seek him first and things will fall into place.. either she’ll grow to dislike it and leave, or vice versa. To become the Man that Christ wants me to be and not what she (or the world) wants me to be.

@blossom1290

Ай бұрын

​@@ItsArbie pray for her to charge

@CarlosC77

Ай бұрын

Trust me when I TELL you, listen to GOD man, listen to his commands, MANY are led astray and MANY are going to be in the wrong marriage that God told them NOT to be in! I literally turned my back and ran from God do not let the enemy have victory over your relationship run from her! If she doesn't put Jesus first in her life run.

@HOLYVEXZEL

Ай бұрын

Throwing my hat in that Ive tried to follow God and gone to many churches, Looked into Islam and judaism.. And to this day I still don't know what the truth is. I had a dream about God last night, and I share just pray and try to work on yourself by -following your heart and passion -get a good stable job -finish school or college -you don't have to be nice but don't hurt anyone or yourself -communicate how you feel verbally or written as much as you can -our sins are forgiven so just pray daily and ask God to teach you the 100% truth, and until then just keep being your best you ❤❤❤

After falling back into sin because of the opposite sex, the "obedience is better than sacrifice" phrase hits different now

@jackieVanTine_

Ай бұрын

Obedience brings blessing and the favor of God, disobedience brings consequences God never wanted you to endure in the first place

The brighter the light, the darker the shadow The closer you get to God the more the demons rear their heads They use those closest to you to slam you through the heart your lover, friends, family anyone close to you with a weak mind are easy pray and used as tools to take you out mentally and emotionally That's why Christ say If anyone comes to me and does not hate his own father and mother and wife and children and brothers and sisters, yes, and even his own life, he cannot be my disciple. Whoever does not bear his own cross and come after me cannot be my disciple Turn up the lights

@kennethrobinson1672

Ай бұрын

Wow your on point ❤

@viennabella4591

Ай бұрын

True….

@jackieVanTine_

Ай бұрын

Yes because the closer you are to God, the more of His power you glean and the more of a threat you are to the enemy!

@Godsholydaughter

Ай бұрын

Your right im hindu women um praying to jesus everyday whenever i come close to jesus demon uses my relatives outsiders to show jealousy towards some people and some of my relatives feel jealousy on me i don't have anything like money fame beauty etc to jealousy of but i have real god everytime family relatives gather up everyone targets me makes me alone and show jealousy even small kida sometimes talk a word which hurts our heart like they knows me closely those kids don't even know anything about me but demon knows these negative energies control and manipulate use them to attack us emotionally and traumatize us but i won't stop praying to jesus amen❤❤❤praise the lord jesus

I was once dating a girl who I believed to be the one for me. I believed in Jesus at the time, but to be honest I think back then, I was in word only. She showed me signs that were counteracting my belief’s. So, then and there we had a talk and I felt that it was not only not going to work, but it was a sign that I needed to distance myself from people who were a detriment to my relationship with Jesus. I broke up with her and have slowly been dedicating my life to Christ more and more.

@dynasty5053

Ай бұрын

You made the right decision. It takes good self awareness to see these things.

@joshuajarod1909

Ай бұрын

I believe i'm in the very same situation.

@jackieVanTine_

Ай бұрын

You made the right decision Kami! You dodged a bullet and I am sure God will continue to honor your obedience, keep the same rhythm, listen to His voice above anyone else’s.

Some of my greatest blessings have come from unanswered prayers. I've found out the hard way that what I want is NOT necessarily what I need.

@jackieVanTine_

Ай бұрын

YES YES YES! 🙌

It’s crazy because everyone keeps forcing me to believe against my ideology to “die alone” I don’t want to die alone but I refuse to have anyone take my power in Christ away from me again. Especially in the day and age we live in with the wickedness I can’t allow that to happen. I know what I’m here for and why he saved me time and time again but I’m not getting any younger and the consequences just because more and more dire. I have seen my future I have kids and everything but even my own mother keeps saying I shouldn’t speak the way I speak by saying I can’t afford the cost. As we speak she’s going backwards in her own journey and I see why nothing resonated with my soul till I saw this. So thank you 🙏🏽 I needed this

Thank God I have been obedient I used to go to nightclubs etc but all that stuff got boring. Because I had God Guiding me out of it. I am not easily swayed or distracted I am unfazed ❤ I pray for everyone to see the truth.

@jackieVanTine_

Ай бұрын

When we fall in love with Jesus, our desires become His and we hate what He hates! Sounds like He has been working on your heart :)

I've always been someone who would fall easily inlove, no matter who it was, my love knew no bounds. I was played with a lot of times and been ignored, some even confessed their obviously quick and non deep feelings for me. I was aware of who they were, I was aware that perhaps I do not know them too well to fall in love yet I disobeyed and look where I am now. God is revealing everything to me hidden. It made me realize how valuable prioritizing God over worldly connections and attachments that weren't meant to be.

@jackieVanTine_

Ай бұрын

I was there too - definitely had to learn the hard way… many of us do when we could’ve avoided consequences of disobeying Him altogether. Many times we believe we know better than God…

It’s not easy following the path, give me strength lord Jesus Amen

" We have to stop falling in love with people's potential" 😪💨. I started smelling from the last three videos what this woman was cooking.

Jackie the Italians have a saying “Meglio solo che mal accompagnato”. In English this means “It is better to be alone than in bad company” that can be extended to unhealthy romantic relationships

@rebeccacirillo2494

Ай бұрын

D'accordo!

@jackieVanTine_

Ай бұрын

Us Colombians have the same saying :) totally agree!!!

I didnt lsiten to god and it destroyed me for years i lost my peace crying to god for years. Be careful who you give your body/ heart to.

We are READY! We can CARE LESS about a relationship. We DO NOT TALK TO ANYBODY!

I need to let go of my emotional attachment to this person whose friendship only takes me to disobedience to God's plan in my life. Thanks, Jackie, you are a true messenger of God. Praise God for His endless mercy.

Thank you, I have 2 children with a women like this. Fighting for custody...Lord give me direction

Just got the biggest red flag of my life right before this video...

@Mlobb7

Ай бұрын

Take it as a sign homie

LORD JESUS I PRAY 4UR PROTECTION AGAINST MY ENEMIES I PRAY IN D ALMIGHTY NAME OF JESJS CHRIST AMEN AMEN AMEN

@jackieVanTine_

Ай бұрын

Amen Apolina!

Right on time! Been my worst enemy lately, but trying to get back up. Had struggles with depression and old habits haunting me. Still trying to get back up and maintain my faith in Christ

Thank you Jackie. It's good to be constantly reminded of this. It helps me to stay away and stay aware of relationships that are horrible for me and who I am today. I'm still attracted to the wrong types, but it's messages like yours, prayer, and the bible that keep me on the right path and stand strong alone until God sees fit!!

@jackieVanTine_

Ай бұрын

Praise God Ruffy! Yes, the right woman is WORTH waiting for! Keep dodging those bullets and using His discernment! Charm is deceitful and beauty is vain but a woman who fears the Lord shall be praised! Thanks so much for your donation to my ministry, it is always appreciated and brought before the Lord 🙏

ty for this, I still don't know what I have to do or how to do it but recently I asked God to please make my dreams come true and when you said disobedience will cost you the purpose of your life it sounded like directly to me😢❤

@jackieVanTine_

Ай бұрын

All you need to do is seek God and seek His Kingdom FIRST, obey Him and fear Him, the rest will come :)

I love Jesus more than anything he saved me I don’t want to let him down I love him Amen

Hi Jackie?? My name is Jenny and i have been a follower of your channel for awhile now. I would like to start off by saying I just love your videos!! When I i saw the title to this one, I knew I had to watch it. It definitely spoke to me and almost bought me to tears 😢. I'm in a unequally yoked relationship with someone who is not saved or a believer and I know I can't change him. It's so hard to break that soul tie and now I understand why I keep going back when you said the Boomerang effect. I'm struggling to let him go but I know I need to make a decision 😞🥺... Thank you for your messages!!! All glory to God ❤🙌

@robj9551

Ай бұрын

Pray for the soul tie to be broken. For the past 2 years I’ve been not myself, ppl tell me I have an alter ego. Normally I’m nice then they state this other side which is very cold and mean. I would say the harshest things to ppl and find enjoyment in it. This isn’t normally me, this is things my child mother use to do. What ever evil spirit she has in her she gave to me. I prayed for the soul tie to be broken and I’m back to normal 🙂. Even when someone upsets me I just let go and not say something hurtful like I was doing the past 2 years. Hope this helps a little.

@Jaja61984

Ай бұрын

@@robj9551 Thank you brother for your testimony and words of encouragement!! 🙌.... I never thought of praying to break the soul tie. There is power in prayer 🤲❤️‍🔥💯

@user-qo1wq7vt7t

Ай бұрын

Ask God to remove him because it's not good for you or ask God to change him go on fast and you will see it will happen automatically

@jackieVanTine_

Ай бұрын

Sister, I’m sorry you’re going through that… I know how hard it can be to say goodbye when you know it’s not God’s will to stay. I can promise you it is worth obeying God and trusting Him in this area!! you definitely have to break that soul tie in prayer before the Lord and remember that the Lord will comfort you AND him through this transition - you got this !!!!

@Jaja61984

Ай бұрын

@@jackieVanTine_ Thank you Jackie!! It's not going to be easy because I love him but nothing we don't want to do is easy 😞 🥺

You have to be careful aswell because there are so called Christians out there who have been baptised and claim to be of god but by there fruits you will tell I was in a narcissistic relationship with one god showed me her true colours like Jackie said not everyone is who they claim to be it have thought me a lesson to guard my heart and set boundaries 🙏🔥

@iletaitunefois11

Ай бұрын

If you obey God and dont want to date anymore, dont wanna have sex outside mariage anymore. What will Satan do ? He will bring you a christian, a so called christian on the surface. But underneath, it is deceitful. Saying to someone " Iam christian" can be totally manipulative.

@jackieVanTine_

Ай бұрын

100% and we shouldn’t wait on someone to come to really know Christ we wait on the Lord and if and when they are ready, then we invest in courting them.

Powerful message, Babe! So true that the Devil works on our emotions. If we are not guarded, we will be easily manipulated. Keep it up! Proud of you :)

@jackieVanTine_

Ай бұрын

Thank you baby! You are always my biggest support!!!

I was going through this , no longer will I subject myself to this, thank you God for your forgiveness

I have married a man whose actions and words never match. Who is abusive mentally, emotionally, physically and spiritually......I tried going to the church and was told I need to be more forgiving. The pastor excused his lies and said it's because of me that he lies. So I have felt so broken and confused. I know this man is not for me even though he may be covered in scripture tattoos and claims he loves Jesus but has never changed his ways. I am so foolish. I thank the Lord that He showed me what I'm dealing with. Yet now I'm so afraid. How do I do this on my own?? This man says he will never let me go. Lord I know I have to walk by faith and not by sight. But I'm so afraid of what could happen. I can't move and it will be the death of me if I stay ....Jesus I know You see all. Please show me a way out.

@genzprepper954

29 күн бұрын

I’m actually going through the same exact thing. I’ve been praying for years for God to make him leave me or let me leave. Prayed again yesterday after really talking to God and praising him for him to show me. Mmhm God showed me I didn’t know I was being emotionally abused by him he’s an atheist but I always have none it wasn’t in Gods will for me to marry him and now I’m dealing with those consequences. I’m now realizing it is okay for me to leave. He also knows I’m a Christian and “God hates divorce.” So I can’t “leave” and he bitterly I think is staying with me because he is content and is feeling all the benefits I’m done and drained and am now going through spiritual heart break physically. It feels like I’m dieting so I think it has to do with convent breaking. Just planning on making my exit strategy since he’s the breadwinner no kids and I don’t work.

Lord Jesus don't let us drift too far from from you. Keep us mindful 9f our choices and their consequences. May God's love and peace illuminate our path and His peace reign in every home. 🙏

How do I separate what I feel I know is a red flag vs God’s warning for a red flag? How do I feel it’s God’s warning and not my own? My warning ending up being wrong. Thank you, Vincent!

@viennabella4591

Ай бұрын

I agree ; I am feeling like I have a red flag person in my life… but what if it doesn’t mean cut them off completely, but have better boundaries ? What if it just means better boundaries ?

@alondra2317

Ай бұрын

Yes, I need help with this too.

Yo! You helped me so much in this message and just I just broke up with my girlfriend because of you. You are right, and I agree with you the whole time. She is not a Christian and such a red flag. But I fought for our relationship but, I'm set free now. I wanna follow the Lord and the Lord only.

@jackieVanTine_

Ай бұрын

Amen Chewy! Praise God! Don’t stay when God wants to take you another way. God will honor your obedience to trust Him in this ! Good for you 🎉

Wow, this video pops up on my suggestion vids right when I’m deceived by someone who I considered a friend even family.

Last year the one I had my heart on told me, “don’t wait on me.” Last night spoke with her mom about my situation and advised me, “she sees you as a brother-in-Christ.” This Sunday morning I’ll totally let go, I’ll give it up mentally and hold her in high regards because by Holy Spirit she’s a good teacher. 🙏🏼 Don’t need to hear it a third time, last night one hour conversation with her mom for the first time is a clear cut reply I needed from God. Have a nice day, y’all. 💔

I needed this message. I have recently been experiencing many divine interventions, I made an effort to rid myself of all ungodly things, and almost immediately; a woman I used to talk to came back being very lustful, and another woman also entered my life soon after that. Both brought me immense negative emotions, I left them alone. I did indeed experience some penalties by entertaining small conversations, but I have learned my lesson.

This word is for me, please pray for me. God bless everyone

Becareful who you trust. Trust,years to earn ,seconds to burn ...

I literally had a dream about Eve eating the apple and I was “Adam” but in the dream I said no and walked away…

@Galiaspiano

Ай бұрын

I recommend you to change your profile picture! God bless you

@randyf1059

Ай бұрын

@@Galiaspianoits literally not a problem what so ever

@jordanabila8537

Ай бұрын

⁠@@randyf1059, it’s all good

@jordanabila8537

Ай бұрын

@@GaliaspianoI like this better. Thank you

@Galiaspiano

Ай бұрын

@@randyf1059 you are what you consume, show people and how you identify yourself. If we are children of God it’s certainly better to act like it. May God bless

Dalilah was a fool, she could of had it all with Sampson yet she deceived him. If she knew better she would had a LEGACY with Sampson! A Generational LEGACY! And she destroyed it by having greed! A TRUE FOOLS DEATH! Sampson was a hero for the village he lived, people looked up to him as a protector and shield for the people. Maybe there is no place for heroes upon gods creation. That story hits close to home for me as lust used to be paramount in my mind, but I am above all emotions but ofc can still feel and very rarely be a victim to these feelings. Dalilah is my weakness, the archetype she embodies is no diff than me sleeping with succubus. Support you until its convenient, my biggest fear of ultimate deceit and betrayal is what keeps me single. As having a stronghold of a mind first before outward corruption is best, but some woman are very smart... but now I see through all lies 💪😈🔥

Needed this 😭

I feel this message is for me. Thanks sister. Lord will recompense.

@jackieVanTine_

Ай бұрын

Amen! 🙏

Exellent Word sister , facts 💯

Thank you, Jackie❣️

My sister, this one hit home 🎯⏰️🕊 Thank you🙏

What you said about the devil having ministers; that part was so powerful Jackie 💥. Especially that example about Eve. I appreciate you sharing the signs to look out for. I know just like you do what happens when we don't listen to our heavenly father. Thank you for this spiritual wake up call and your time my friend. Sending you good healing vibes ✨

@ChosensLove

Ай бұрын

you learn a very serious consequence. i learned hard way of not listen and it’s not pretty. if your gonna repent. mean it 100% and live by it and be happy with it don’t fall for world 🙏❤️ and you shall see the truth. God is first.

@GEORGIOARCADE

Ай бұрын

@@ChosensLove you're right, I appreciate your perspective on this topic. Thanks for sharing that 🙏🏽

@winmore4me

Ай бұрын

This is Great teaching. Jacky keep on listening to the Holy Spirit and warning the World

@StephaniePadilla-im7ei

Ай бұрын

What if u are married to someone and at first they where walking with the Lord but now they act off. Like a complete 180.I cannot walk out of my marriage I have no place to go and no where to turn too.

@GEORGIOARCADE

Ай бұрын

@@StephaniePadilla-im7ei Well if that person does a 180; that's where you have to let God takeover and handle the situation. Ask in the name of Jesus for the right actions and words to protect yourself and to get your partner to turn their life back over to our heavenly father. God already knows your struggles. You just gotta submit it to him and lead him lead the way. I believe if your partner isn't being the person they should be for the Lord and you; it's time to go. God can replace what you lose and help you start over. But I think this is conversation you have to have with our heavenly father asap. Hope my answer helps you. Wishing you all the best 🙏🏽✨

This story reminds me of the hundreds of women that hit on me at the night club I work at. I can't help the feeling when speaking and or flirting with them that they are possessed by an evil spirit. I can tell my heart wants to hold out for a women cut from the same cloth. I'd like a woman who loves Jesus as much as I do so that we can be together in the afterlife. Thanks for sharing Jackie! This has helped me reflect on what's important.

@earnestjones429

Ай бұрын

Amen 🙏

@newbeginnings5610

Ай бұрын

Working there is a dangerous game. Instead, pray to the Lord for His discernment for the place He wants you to be.

@jackieVanTine_

Ай бұрын

Brother I say this with so much love and no judgment! However, a woman cut from the kind of cloth you want will not consider that place to be wise for occupation, and you just may have her overlook you due to this issue. It is an issue, because you are placing yourself in a place filled with temptation and a place in which all dishonor the Lord. Please pray and reconsider continuing to work at the club. Blessings to you!!!

@newbeginnings5610

Ай бұрын

@@jackieVanTine_ Well said sister. 🤍

@YurielKonstantinovT-34

13 күн бұрын

imo I don't think you should be working there...

Thank you 🙏. Don't wait for man, wait on God. Yes

Excellent message J beautiful lesson Amen love it

WOW.!. I needed to hear this.

Thank you.

Tremendous truths spoken here...!!

Amen! God will lead us, but we have to follow!

Yes this did shine some light on my path. Good work and good message:

Thank you once again for a very timely word.

You have no idea how important this message was to me. This came at such a perfect time I was praying about this. Thank you. I hope you all have a blessed day :)

Thanks Jackie. Always learning something new.

AMEN. I think I needed to hear this. Amen!!

Please pray for me I’ve been going through a battle just because I decided to give my life to christ Jesus it’s been really hard has been getting a lot attacked from the enemy please pray for my protection in Jesus name amen.🙏🏾 and thanks to everyone God bless

😮‍💨😮‍💨 God bless you Jackie, for real these videos are so good you always get the point across in a perfect way.❤💯

WOW WOW OH WOW YOUR VIDEO WAS OUR MESSAGE LAST SUNDAY FATHER In HEAVEN YOU ARE AWESOME THANK YOU JACKIE

This came on my feed at the right time! Praise God!

I'm in alignment with your message!

Thank you Jackie. Another powerful word. Praise Jesus!!🩵

Thank you for this word Lied Amen ✨💫🙏

Thank you for this teaching !!! So blessed !!! AMEN HALLELUJAH !!

Thank you for this message. I will be mindful of them. Amen.

You are so right angelic sister ❤❤

Wise words thank you so much sister Jackie amen God bless 🙏 have blessed Monday always support and love your messages your videos everything you do sister Jackie keep up amazing work proud of you :) 🙏

Amen, thank you Lord God.❤❤❤ And thank you miss Jackie.

I'm struggling with listening to God when I am being convicted to not eat when I shouldn't. I ask that you guys may be able to pray for me to have the self control to deny my flesh. That would be great. Thank you! :) God bless! ✝👑🙏💪❤

you really did open my eyes from my past mistakes

I'll forever ignore every single one cus I'm not getting what I am owed or what I want!

Thank you for this❤

Good video ! Thank you Jackie! Praise the Lord Jesus Christ ✝️🙌🏻✝️🙌🏻✝️

Wow, that cannot come more perfectly... Thanks a lot.

God is always my protector. Amen ❤

Great WORD!

Thank you sister coming out of the LGBT community a few months ago will you and your husband pray for me please

Right on time.

I hope your message is divine from God because it was really something that I needed to HEAR GLY

Wise words!!!

Thank you my Lord❤

I’m glad you caught that. It wasn’t necessarily an apple Jackie. Kudos to you!

I thank God for this message. Fore the words of the righteous outweigh those of the deterrent, and how we use the words is how we will be judged. When we see through the lies and deceit, that is when we are freed from the bondage of them. God has given me eyes to see and ears to hear. I thank you for this message, Jackie. May your words find many more that need to hear. Blessings for you and your family. Hope and Believe. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😊.

Thank You ! for the knowledge I received. Appreciate! GOD Bless You !!!

Great message.

spot on ! you talked to me the ennemy sent someone yes the heart is deceitfull thank you for your teaching i love Jesus i love my brothers and sisters i love you

That message was for me tonight I just know it. Gonna pray for her because I care for her.

Good to see you sis

SOOOOOO GOOD! Thank you Sis! All the best!

Amen 🙏🏽 thank you because I was struggling with my decision of leaving

Thank you God all do for me ❤😊😊❤

I feel this one was for me! Likely for others as well but I certainly feel like I’m included in this one!!! Thank you!

Thank you and Amen!

Wow such a powerful message. Thank you sister in God and thank you Jesus.

The word of God is a two edged sword. Thank you my dear sister. Glory to God

"Stop falling in love with someone's potential" I was in a 3 month toxic relationship and just got out of it recently. I knew it was wrong for me and she wasn't the one. She was not on the same path with God and my light. My gut and intuition told me strongly. She was very feminine and beautiful. She laid it on me on the first day. She said she loved me immediately, wanted to be wifey, but I felt no emotional connection from her unless we had sex. I was searching for that connection and it wasn't there throughout the day. It was strange and I felt like I was losing a piece of myself every single time we had sex and the longer I stayed in the relationship the more I felt like I was betraying myself. It's a startling difference being on semen retention vs surrendering to our sexual desires. Learned a lot from that even though I knew better from the beginning. I got horribly sick after the breakup and then got into a serious depression after. Been doing the best I can to just be grateful for what I have and my solitude. Huge life lesson.

@jackieVanTine_

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Wow praise God He got you out of that brother!! I have heard A lot of people get sick after a breakup with people, especially people involved in new age or magic… I pray the Lord keep you strong and encouraged in Him. You did the RIGHT THING don’t second guess yourself!

@SpiritualSpecialForces

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@@jackieVanTine_ took me three months to figure it out but better sooner than later I guess 😄