I have observed sexual purity yet i am still single. Observe sexual purity because you want to honor God with your body (Gen 39:9) and not because you want to get married. Joseph refused to have an affair with Potiphar's wife NOT so that God would bless him with a wife! He just did it because it was the right thing to do. Do the right thing without expecting something in return.

@WomanWithHISPlan-un4rp

3 ай бұрын

THIS!!!!!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️

@NewReborns

3 ай бұрын

Notting my head...

@afaithfulljourney

3 ай бұрын

Exactly! While I do support the point that we should not engage in sexual immorality, getting married is not reward for sexual purity. There is no secret to marriage. We are to live holy and set apart which leads to a life of purity. If that person is truly obeying and honouring God and living a holy life, having sex outside of marriage is a moot point. I get that your message may not be for everyone and I think I know what you are trying to convey; that being, if you don't engage in sexual immorality, God may bless you with marriage. But the call according Colossians 3 v 5-6 is to " Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry. Because of these, the wrath of God is coming". So sexual purity is not the secret because where does that leave those who are sexually pure and still yet unmarried? some of which are persons in their 40s and 50s? or where does it leave those who have been sexually pure for 10 plus years and have reconciled their relationship with God. Thank you for the word pastor but be careful not to ostracise certain demographies of believers.

@priscillaaaron5746

3 ай бұрын

💯💯💯

@lejournaldeva

Ай бұрын

I think this is not about YOU but about encouraging the women out there who have s*x whithout being aware of what she is saying and we are not gonna lie or pretend that have sex makes that you cant be married, or not have sex make sure that you will be married or again that abstinence is not all about GOD only ! It is a godly choice of course but also an invitation obviously here to change habits !

Thank you I agree with this video! A man who sees you as his potential wife will have no problems waiting. A man knows immediately if you are a woman that he can marry & vice versa. He doesn't' need to sleep with you to figure that out. He will want to protect your body and your future. As a man of God he cares about you, so he will save you for later or for your future spouse, if it doesn't work out. I'm 46 and my dating life is so much more active in celebacy. Getting to know men in this way, you have a clear mind and nobody is chipping away at you with every relationship. A woman with strong boundaries & standards is very attractive to a good marriage minded man. Some men are sleeping with multiple women and placing those spirits in you! Keep your body & spirit safe ❤

@Serva000

3 ай бұрын

Oh Man, I've been keeping my body and spirit safe and That's so hard. Waiting for years in the Lord, praying for a husband😢, not easy but I feel safe

@CL-do5eq

3 ай бұрын

Thank you for writing this! I needed to see this.

The lord showed me this scripture 1 Corinthians 6 vs 18-20 yesterday and today I’m hearing it here. It’s confirmation that the lord is rebuking me to change and seek sexual purity

@janekashambe2765

4 ай бұрын

If you follow the counsel of the Lord, you will prosper. May the good Lord bless you.

Its my first day of my three days fasting fighting spiritual spouse and spirit of lust in my life and 36 years single... I think this was my massage... God bless you pastor.... God answered me through you and believe i will soon get a husband in Jesus name

@lynkinyanjui5587

3 ай бұрын

You don't have to fight, you just need to give it to God. Declare the finished works of the Cross upon your life. When you sense the lust coming up, just declare by Faith "Spirit of lust, the Lord rebuke you!"... God has indeed helped you

@alicejoshua5598

3 ай бұрын

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@andrewkifee381

3 ай бұрын

​@@lynkinyanjui5587this is ridiculous. Why do we demonize something that is normal? The need for sex is God's design, not unless He made a mistake. Sometimes as Christians we complicate things with prayer

I’m 46 years old and have witnessed several women I personally know and people I listen to who have had sex before marriage and will end up marrying that man, but a Christian woman who is waiting trying to do the right thing will be single with no husband for many years. Why is that?

@lovingtherightone

3 ай бұрын

Exactly..because we live in end times and the society promotes sin so people are demonized and sometimes generational curse works and it must be broken in Jesus name

@towerabanda3451

3 ай бұрын

It's one thing to get married but how many people are staying married? Divorce is so rampant and many women in marriages are forced to endure cheating spouses. It may take time for a genuine woman of God to get married because she is not permitted to marry anyone

@CL-do5eq

3 ай бұрын

This is what helps me. Number one go to God and ask God to call out every ungodly soul tie to you and your entire bloodline. You need to write down every single generational curse in your entire bloodline spirit spouses are there because unknowingly unknowingly you or your bloodline has agreed to them. It starts with the root. Also, ask God to allow you to have peace and joy in your singleness journey. Spirit spouses are more stronger when we are awake and we are sad. Plus we are sad when we’re sleeping, so if we can enjoy the journey that God has us covered because God is working on us and we turn into a positive a helps aswell. You also need to forgive you need to forgive every single person in your entire life even when you were a child, you need to forgive your ancestors for coming to agreements with different alters that you knew nothing about and you need to repent and give it to God. Next you want to make sure that you pray soul tie prayers to break and also deliverance from temptation. Prayers you can find them on KZread as this can be tiring because we haven’t been getting sleep, but just play those prayers on a daily basis, as many times, as you need to. Get some olive oil and put it on your head and underneath your navel and on your private areas and pray that God, I have a protection over your wall in that anything that is not of God shall not answer and I gotta keep you and your celibacy or absent journey until God has called you to marry. This is not a one time thing you have to actively exercise and have a routine even when you don’t interfere with your spirit spouse, they can still come back, but just like if you were to go to the gym and stay consistent you get stronger and stronger and it pushes them to exit your life permanently. You must also before going to sleep, know that you will not back down that you will forever protect your temple that God has for you that you are not alone that God is with you protecting you, that your guardian angel is protecting you say those things right before you go to sleep and make sure you are watching godly Contant before going to bed stay away from those love movies those romantic movies right now and get within your community volunteer work on passion projects you need a social life that is approved by God always go to God about every single person. I hope this helps.

@Tatianarain

3 ай бұрын

No one seems to be able to answer this question. Anyway I’d rather stay on the side of celibacy just because it favours women more than men. but it’s interesting how no one ever has a response for this question. Then again you have women that engage in premarital sex and get dumped , left as baby mama etc so it’s a 2 edged sword

@nicolejasmin

3 ай бұрын

Marriage is for Yah's purpose. You will have to seek what's your purpose in marriage and not look to others marriage. Trust me if people marry after fornicating with that person, they have opened doors to HaSatan and their marriage will not be well and pleasing to Yah! They married from the flesh and not the Spirit, there is a difference!❤

Very true ,it doesn't matter what age you're God's word has to be obeyed.❤

@NaNana-zv3hk

3 ай бұрын

Amen

@estherwambua1764

3 ай бұрын

Ameen

@jeanjanjawa64

3 ай бұрын

Amen 🙏🏾

Please pray God may lead me to my spouse. I’ve met someone and he remained respectful in this way. It’s been a year long distance.

Very true, what may work for others may not work for me. I am 44 still single waiting on God. Lord have Mercy on me.💍💍🙏🏾🙏🏾🤲🤲

@mpumintuli6960

Ай бұрын

God is faithful , keep the faith.

Its not a secret to those who are obeying the Word of Yah! For me its about, pleasing HIM and doing His will, waiting on His timing, allowing Him to prepare me to be a wife and serve while doing so! ❤

@andrewkifee381

3 ай бұрын

Be open to meeting men as well. God will not drop a man from heaven. You have to meet the man and get to know him. Too many women busy praying in their homes hoping God will deliver a man to your door step

Powerful teaching!

Thank you for such a powerful message, may God bless you🙏🙏

God bless you Pastor Massa!

Hello Pastor Sawa. I liked the second point. Thank you for delivering the message so well.

more grace my sister

What I need right now, thanks

love this !❤

God bless you woman of God

Very true my sister 🙏🏽

Premarital sex also includes masturbation, spiritual sex, watching pornography, a salacious mind, sex with animals, same sex sex, all sexual immorality.

@NaNana-zv3hk

3 ай бұрын

What do you mean spiritual sex? The person isn't agree.

@choicendoro7937

3 ай бұрын

@@NaNana-zv3hk spirit spouses

@daughtersofjesuschrist

3 ай бұрын

Having sex in a dream that’s spiritual sex,spirit spouse

Thank you so much ma for this secret.😢

Thank you ma’am ❤❤

Sexual purity brings about favor as well. Proverbs 18:22 He who finds a wife, finds a good thing, and obtains FAVOR of the Lord. The woman carries favor, not to say men don't but you can't argue with scripture.

Amen God bless you

Amen 🙏. Thank you

God bless you too

What if you were rapped??? The’re really so many circumstances. The devil know we all crave love so he uses it against us. Sometimes it has nothing to be with you.

@ruthiefrost

3 ай бұрын

Maybe invite Christ into that time to sanctify it. We can’t go back in time but Christ is more than able. God is outside of time. His righteous right arm can reach back to those terrible moments and Christ is your witness. Invite him to it. That’s it.

Sis i have never had sex all my life but recently i learnt that i am tied to a marine altar This has kept me single thus no marriage I have learnt that marine spirits could also majorly contribute to remaining single amd unmarried despite us being ripe for marriage

@nhyirahroyal3762

3 ай бұрын

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@Christ_In_Me

3 ай бұрын

@nhyirahroyal3762 which link my dear?? Can you resend it please???

@cashyrocks5706

3 ай бұрын

Listen to Kevin L A Ewing sermons and thank me later

@Priesthood275

3 ай бұрын

@@cashyrocks5706yes, thank you for telling her about Kevin. Kelvin’s messages with help and guide you sister on how to pray and break that curse. You shall overcome!

@solarlola5953

3 ай бұрын

​@@cashyrocks5706 why

God bless you 💕

Yes you are right on target

Thank you Pastor.

Please pray for healing restoration peace and communication healing within my relationship with my fiancee we struggling constant arguing

Keep it up ma'am, to the fact that, premarital sex is a popular a common practice among unbelievers, doesn't mean, it is acceptable before in his sight. Any child of God shouldn't make it a life style even though you may have once upon a time, engaged in it before. Repentance is our clarion call.

Amen, even me, i need to get marriage 💑

Very true...

Amen

Woow powerful

Amen.

Amen 🙏🙏🙏🙏

Thanks for sharing.l had similar challenge in need of life partner.38 years old.l practice abstinence but every man that start a relationship with me don't have the patience for abstinence and they always leave me.saying such thing doesn't exist anymore.we do romance but no sex.help me please.is romance also appropriate? I am running an infant ministry for God.expecting your reply.thanks

@lilian4216

3 ай бұрын

HEY dear, Romance is part of Sex or rather Fornication...which is very wide.So in your case , you are only celibating(meaning you are not doing the intercourse).

@lisablessingendowed5487

3 ай бұрын

Romance and the actual act are the same. Either ways, there's a level of sexual satisfaction that is obtained. So in my opinion, they're the same. I'd advise you to flee from any man who tells you those things don't exist anymore. The word of God does not change and the bed should not be defiled. Keep yourself, stay busy with the Master’s business and you'll soon see that there's a man out there who is willing to do the right thing. You're worth more than in patient and unfaithful men. You don't need that. Listen to the message again, your question has been answered.

@ministryofhealingfarm

3 ай бұрын

Facts.

@daughtersofjesuschrist

3 ай бұрын

I didn’t understand this before but dear, no sex, no fondling, no kissing, no touching, your bod is a temple of the Holy Spirit, be holy for God is holy. It’s hard but doable ❤

@rosettesekabanja82

3 ай бұрын

Good is is merciful dear.However romancing should be in the marriage convenant. Otherwise you might find yourself in convenants with different men.For example in kissing you exchange saliva and that's also a convenant through that contact.Romancing outside marriage is defiling yourself .God in His faithfulness and mercy can make you new.

Does it mean anyone desiring marriage and doesn't have it is doing that?

So how about us who have tried it for about seven years now but still single.....idk but i am sorry Holy Spirit i am having a hard time believing this.

@nhyirahroyal3762

3 ай бұрын

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@LightinthewordofGod

3 ай бұрын

You are not only abstaining yourself from sexual impurity for marriage rather for God. Marriage is a part of God’s blessings. Keeping your body pure should first be because of God no matter what you get or not.

@andreare.8378

3 ай бұрын

Are you abstaining for God to bless you or are you seeking his face and his desire for you..... too many times we are seek the gift and not the giver

@lisablessingendowed5487

3 ай бұрын

Check the condition of your heart. Are you genuinely serving the Lord or are you serving to be married. God is not man that he should lie. If you think it's not working, ask the Lord why? Maybe you keep comparing the now 7 years of abstinence to the time you were really in it. But if it didn't work when you were doing it, what is giving you a hard time in abstinence?

@ONLYME3020

3 ай бұрын

Please ask the Holy Spirit directly. I've come to understand that asking these questions on KZread will push other christians to gaslight you and make you think that you are not doing it the right way...my 2 cents

Amen God🙏🏽❤️💯🕊️🕊️🕊️🩸🔥🔥🔥🔥

Amen