♡ GIRL TALK: dating, hookups & f-boys...

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♡ I N S T A G R A M: @Lisette
♡ T I K T O K: @Luhhsetty
In this GIRL TALK, I'm discussing being back in the dating game after a 3 year relationship and giving you all advice on how to avoid red flags, manipulation, and mind games from these F boys! Thumbs up for more GIRL TALKS! 👍🏽💜
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F A Q:
Name- Lisette
Race- Black & White
Height- 5'3
Location- LA
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Not sponsored.
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-xo

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  • @SKYYLOVE
    @SKYYLOVE2 жыл бұрын

    *finally someone who understands! the streets are NOT for me. my person is gonna have to fall from the sky* 😭

  • @eunoia4069

    @eunoia4069

    2 жыл бұрын

    Period

  • @historiqueafricaine

    @historiqueafricaine

    2 жыл бұрын

    pray skyy pray God is a match-maker too and he knows people's heart. Sometimes we think we need a relationship when we are in a season where we should be focusing on healing, building healthy boundaries and growth for example. The best way to figure it out is to ask Christ through his word. So many folks are broken , deceptive or don't even know themselves,they will never be real about who they truly are so we need spiritual discernment to see beyond the appearance. There is a scripture that I find efficient to pray with when asking for revelation: Deuteronomy 29:29 "The secret things belong to the LORD our God, but the things revealed belong to us" just asking God to reveal the season you are in and while dating to reveal the intension of the person and he will speak, I personally experienced it and one of my friend too

  • @keziakandii

    @keziakandii

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same here. I can’t do it

  • @ldmwaleed3913

    @ldmwaleed3913

    2 жыл бұрын

    Omg period sis

  • @purplevelvet9577

    @purplevelvet9577

    2 жыл бұрын

    fr

  • @syd5831
    @syd58312 жыл бұрын

    “Have you ever cried over a guy that you never dated”. Girl I felt this to my soul but I’m learning how to detach myself.

  • @christinaa3026

    @christinaa3026

    2 жыл бұрын

    Have any tips?? I’ve done the same thing 😭

  • @diamond53919

    @diamond53919

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same! It's hard for me to not get attached to guys even when I don't date them. If we did anything together I tend to get attached.

  • @kiymila9111

    @kiymila9111

    Жыл бұрын

    Lol yes

  • @ebsxnysii

    @ebsxnysii

    Жыл бұрын

    yeah :(

  • @leanne3070

    @leanne3070

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m going through that right now

  • @themandinkafamily
    @themandinkafamily2 жыл бұрын

    Nothing creates an addiction like an inconsistent reward . Run fast sis!

  • @LennonTheBunny
    @LennonTheBunny2 жыл бұрын

    The trash will take itself out 💜

  • @paytonbutcher2022

    @paytonbutcher2022

    2 жыл бұрын

    PERIOD

  • @kellyyy1333

    @kellyyy1333

    2 жыл бұрын

    PERIODDDDD SIS

  • @jamaylarenea

    @jamaylarenea

    2 жыл бұрын

    AMEN🗣👏🏾

  • @twinny1993
    @twinny19932 жыл бұрын

    Great advice!! And this why you shouldn’t tell a guy “what you’re looking for” whatever you tell them they are gonna act up on it to get you close and attached to them

  • @lissetreyes5039
    @lissetreyes50392 жыл бұрын

    you cant tell a guy upfront what you are looking for, because they will give you exactly that and then later on you get to know their true colors.

  • @kiaratheexplorer4

    @kiaratheexplorer4

    5 ай бұрын

    So what do I tell them instead?

  • @jas-n-motion
    @jas-n-motion2 жыл бұрын

    This is why you shouldn't have high expectations or put your expectations or happiness on someone else. Maintain your own lifestyle, continue to travel with friends or by yourself. Keep them as an option and keep dating other people. You gotta play the game like they do.

  • @calmaschamomile1252

    @calmaschamomile1252

    Жыл бұрын

    Yesss! Dudes act and live like they are single even in a relationship. Do the same. Stop making them your entire world.

  • @dreamAngelXO
    @dreamAngelXO2 жыл бұрын

    Love ya Lisette - Dating is such a roller coaster and its even crazier during this pandemic. Red flagsssssss from our lovely host: 1. Future Faking and Empty Promises 2. Love bombing too early 3. Says he "Loves"/ wants to "marry" you 4. Luhsetty's equation: action - words = ANSWER

  • @sixteen.candles.4644

    @sixteen.candles.4644

    2 жыл бұрын

    2 and 3 got me.

  • @cieltheeditor7922

    @cieltheeditor7922

    Жыл бұрын

    Wish I knew this before my ex LOL that shit mad traumatizing😭💀💀

  • @odalis1535
    @odalis15352 жыл бұрын

    This made me emotional! A lot of great advice Lisette, thank you for being honest and for expressing that you are no longer tolerating dumb 💩! I think a lot of girls and women needed to hear what you had to say! I am in a 5 year, very committed relationship, but I appreciate and can respect all your words! I know one day you’ll find a guy who is going to treat you like you deserve! 💖

  • @karaniqueskorner
    @karaniqueskorner2 жыл бұрын

    The beginning when you said “sir I’m not getting pregnant”🥴🤣 had me liking the video with no further context lmao

  • @karaniqueskorner

    @karaniqueskorner

    2 жыл бұрын

    But I got 6 kids so don’t mind me y’all lol

  • @norapeace6526
    @norapeace65262 жыл бұрын

    Girl, future faking is a narcissistic trait. Just like love bombing is. These dudes out here sound sick as hell. I know I need to date, but I know it could be a shit show🤣🤣🤣

  • @ninadenise734
    @ninadenise7342 жыл бұрын

    Definitely needed this as a 21 year old. These men nowadays older and my age are getting ridiculous. However we r aware not all men are like that….until then I will be setting my boundaries and waiting/looking for my Russell Wilson.

  • @norapeace6526

    @norapeace6526

    2 жыл бұрын

    You go girl!! If all women did this, men would have to straighten up. But the reality is, there will always be some women that don’t have any morals or boundaries 🙄

  • @sandralouis6864

    @sandralouis6864

    2 жыл бұрын

    So true.

  • @josiemukeli3584

    @josiemukeli3584

    2 жыл бұрын

    hope you don't already have a child from/by future🤣🤣🤣

  • @tniaatingz

    @tniaatingz

    2 жыл бұрын

    Girl yes!!! Cause I needsss me a man with some ✨ substance ✨

  • @misssoleil2056

    @misssoleil2056

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@tniaatingz Yes I always say this!!! Substance over the hype all day everyday!!

  • @kaylapeel8840
    @kaylapeel88402 жыл бұрын

    I dealt with a fuck boy last year. He was playing mind games with me. Treating me like we were in a relationship, but didn’t want the title and everything that comes with a relationship. The man was 30 too🥴 He has been forever blocked💯

  • @babypinkdiva01

    @babypinkdiva01

    2 жыл бұрын

    I went through the same thing and he used me us like a freakin object…wait…He was 30 and still doing this bs?! Is there any hope for us?! Like do these guys ever grow up????? At the age of 30 they should know better! 🤦🏽‍♀️😒

  • @KayciazWorld
    @KayciazWorld2 жыл бұрын

    It's so sad and seriously unfortunate what dating has become. Idk if anyone else notices but it's literally like a war in dating. Men are against women so much that we have to protect ourselves at all cost. Most...and I mean MOST MEN are out to play a woman these days. Honestly I'd rather be happy and fulfilled alone if it means not having to run into any other jerks 💔♥️

  • @k.d.1520

    @k.d.1520

    2 жыл бұрын

    👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 sis me too

  • @xxxtentacionfanxxx1446

    @xxxtentacionfanxxx1446

    2 жыл бұрын

    It's a cruel world out here sis.

  • @historiqueafricaine

    @historiqueafricaine

    2 жыл бұрын

    the world is broken Kayciaz..if we look at the dating pool today and compare it decades ago people had more values into place (christian oriented, not addicted to porn: this one is a huge red flag too, gentleman on date and getting to know people for the purpose of getting married, emotionally mature) our generation isn't like that anymore many folks don't know how to date or ask relevant question for a healthy long-term relationship, women also don't know their self-worth and act up wild without thinking about the consequences on their reputation in the long-run (i'm a girl talking) and not too many people like to work on themselves: praying and letting the holy spirit help them with emotional trauma as well as therapist, learning communication skills, surrounding themselves with mature adult in healthy relationship hence the mediocrity of the dating pool

  • @EditsByMani

    @EditsByMani

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@historiqueafricaine I love your commentary!

  • @cieltheeditor7922

    @cieltheeditor7922

    Жыл бұрын

    Literally……it’s actually so scary and heartbreaking.

  • @juniorchavesopicassodeyahu988
    @juniorchavesopicassodeyahu9882 жыл бұрын

    12:31 Lisette seems to be a mermaid itself. She is getting prettier every day. Im obssesed with her astonishing beauty. Love her makeup and nails. Hair looks on point

  • @brittanyb.5539
    @brittanyb.55392 жыл бұрын

    "THE TRASH WILL TAKE ITSELF OUT!" Almost got up and ran around my house. SO spot on. These dudes really think they the 💩 and the smell when they really just ain't 💩.

  • @paytonbutcher2022

    @paytonbutcher2022

    2 жыл бұрын

    YES GIRL

  • @UrUrbanRockstar
    @UrUrbanRockstar2 жыл бұрын

    Trust me, sis. Even in their mid 30s they are playing the same games. It's discouraging.

  • @divinetriplett2439
    @divinetriplett24392 жыл бұрын

    We NEED more girl talks. I’m learning all these things now at 22 lol

  • @florjjj7

    @florjjj7

    Жыл бұрын

    same here it’s a rough world put here

  • @Iamkhilaalise
    @Iamkhilaalise2 жыл бұрын

    This just opened my eyes 😭 just turned 20 in college and no one prepared for the kind of men I would be encountering. This felt like a big sis talk and it helped a lot!!!

  • @sharmishtaabhilash703
    @sharmishtaabhilash7032 жыл бұрын

    I just went through a break up a week back. this week was really bad and this video really comforted me. thank you lissette♥️

  • @margretmukatuka4222

    @margretmukatuka4222

    2 жыл бұрын

    ooh hope u are filling better sweetest

  • @sharmishtaabhilash703

    @sharmishtaabhilash703

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@margretmukatuka4222 I'm fine now....thanks for asking ♥️

  • @margretmukatuka4222

    @margretmukatuka4222

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@sharmishtaabhilash703 u are welcome

  • @DJay45213
    @DJay452132 жыл бұрын

    Please make a video about making friends as an adult / red flags in friendships. It’s *TOUGH* out here 🥺

  • @Ash88.

    @Ash88.

    2 жыл бұрын

    Seriously! I don’t see how people make friends as adults with actual good genuine people 🥹

  • @alexandragirouard
    @alexandragirouard2 жыл бұрын

    It’s sad that the dating life is that way nowadays ☹️ Personally, when i was dating a lot, i would set my boundaries right away and wouldn’t give more attention and wouldn’t get involved emotionally more than they do. I am a confident person so that would scare some BOYS (not men) 🙂 ps. I tried my best to write in english even thought i speak french

  • @karellezen973

    @karellezen973

    2 жыл бұрын

    Oww your English is flawless

  • @ihuomaotika2656

    @ihuomaotika2656

    2 жыл бұрын

    You did well on the English 😂

  • @cooperedith958
    @cooperedith9582 жыл бұрын

    Yup so many narcs in society these days it is something else. We gotta raise better men but until that happens stay alert people. Set boundaries and see who won't try to cross them. You'll weed out most just with that. Look for consistency empathy kindness respect. Ppl will do or say anything. Sorry you went through this Lisette but glad you actually escaped without longterm complications and learned quickly. These are the only men I've experienced and some of us are stuck dealing with their bs eternally. Stay vigilant confident and at peace ladies. If they aren't adding more than they take walk away. Honesty is key. Much ❤️. Great video Lisette.

  • @trinabrianna
    @trinabrianna2 жыл бұрын

    Girl u look absolutely beautiful❣️❤️ I love your fit & nails 💅🏾 also. I’m so sorry to hear about your breakup again & all these F Boys , boys these days are assholes. I pray u find a man who will treat and love u right xo. Save yourself for the right one love and let god do his work. Love u girl glad to see u back ! 💖💕 Please post more I love your content & I love your vibe gyaal ! 😌

  • @juniorchavesopicassodeyahu988

    @juniorchavesopicassodeyahu988

    2 жыл бұрын

    Lisette is the most beautiful thing in the world

  • @smileyash1013
    @smileyash10132 жыл бұрын

    Girlllll the f*ck boys have seriously drained my energy to the point where i feel like giving up 🙄 thank you sooo much for this video 🙏🏽

  • @EsiriE
    @EsiriE2 жыл бұрын

    An actual beauty queen 👑😍 Getting attached is probably one of the hardest things when you really like someone but one thing I’m trying to work on this year is becoming more emotionally mature because we don’t have time to be crying over guys who aren’t even ours 😩🤧

  • @isabellamomodu1812

    @isabellamomodu1812

    2 жыл бұрын

    Spot on

  • @Boss-he3rj
    @Boss-he3rj2 жыл бұрын

    Im literally living this exact experience rn, like he stopped giving me attention the moment I opened up about my feelings. Everyone is saying that he’s playing and keeping me on line but still I feel so addicted and can’t stop myself from talking to him 😩 I decided to ignore him today but couldn’t decline when he called me after a long time. I feel like a little girl and a toy. I’m losing my own respect

  • @afiyafatima9220

    @afiyafatima9220

    2 жыл бұрын

    I understand you! I’m so glad you atleast realise this. Trust me you’re not losing yourself. It is difficult. You’ve crossed the first step, you will soon throw him out pf your life too

  • @taylorm0307

    @taylorm0307

    2 жыл бұрын

    Sis block him it’ll hurt at first but give it some time and you’ll be glad you did.

  • @amandabotafogo5738

    @amandabotafogo5738

    2 жыл бұрын

    Girl I was in the same situation you were for 2 years, so listen close, If you want to have a conversation about feelings, and the guy just dont give a fuck and ignores you or act like your feelings are not that important, or acts playfull, please! Get rid of him!! I was on a Long distance situationship with a guy for over 2 YEARS, he told me everything I wanted to hear that showed that he also wanted a relationship, and when I came to see him finally, and told him my intentions of having a conversation about dating, he got distant for 3 days and just said he would not come to see me anymore! Dry like this! And I came to another country to meet him, I am in his almost same neighbourhood, and he didn't even care, he just said he doesn't want a relationship! After 2 years of saying the exact contrary to me. So please, when a guy shows you who he is, just ACCEPT THAT. If he does the silent treatment everytime you want to have a serious conversation, and when you complain about things that are bothering you, if he always tries to turn things around to make it seem like is your fault in everything, if he never accepts his mistakes... all red flags that I closed my eyes to, because I was believing in his words. So please, HE IS NOT WORTH YOUR MENTAL HEALTH! .

  • @babytash1369
    @babytash13692 жыл бұрын

    The dating world is confusing these days, the irony of it is when you do not care about about the guys that's when they chase you🤦‍♀️. Just don't invest too much in the relationships until about 6-8 months. If it's not serious by then walk away.

  • @syd5831

    @syd5831

    2 жыл бұрын

    yes omg👏👏👏

  • @ThePawsomeTatum

    @ThePawsomeTatum

    2 жыл бұрын

    These men don't value us they only care about their gain.

  • @historiqueafricaine

    @historiqueafricaine

    2 жыл бұрын

    if you actually pray before even being official and ask God for discernment and revelation about that person state of mind you will kick him to the curb real quick💯

  • @CeceME2
    @CeceME22 жыл бұрын

    GIRLLL THE WHOLE GO WITH THE FLOW THING IS SOOO TRUE😭😭 So many of them don't even know what the want 😩"If you aim at nothing, you hit nothing." It's so frustrating to hear guys say that and I almost always back off when I hear them say tha, I want someone who knows what they want with a little bit of direction. Seems like too much to ask for these days smh and I'm not even talking about having a detailed, step-by-step 2 year engagement plan but like you said, dating with intention.

  • @saraforutan
    @saraforutan2 жыл бұрын

    Even if the words match the actions it’ll all come down to consistency & effort. And if that’s not given the dude isn’t committed.

  • @norapeace6526
    @norapeace65262 жыл бұрын

    This is making me think about dating on tinder and other dating apps just for experience 😭😭😭😭… but nahhhh, because those guys usually are looking for one thing and one thing only & treat you like you’re disposable and they’re going to make me dislike guys more than I already do 😭

  • @lamiilemiya
    @lamiilemiya2 жыл бұрын

    11:09 that cut me deep because, I just got out of a friends with benefits and for some odd reason, it hurt but in hindsight this video just helped me get the me that I deserve. Thanks Lisette x.

  • @martapradoalonso3384
    @martapradoalonso33842 жыл бұрын

    I've got rejected by a person who gave me illusions and it made me be obsessed with this person so it was basically a person who gave me plenty of attention and then stopped talking to me and rejected me. so this video just made me happy and made remember that there are more people in the world because this was my "first relationship" so thanks this helped me to move one :)

  • @kelsshayla

    @kelsshayla

    2 жыл бұрын

    Literally what just happened to me 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @rosemarybiswas7708

    @rosemarybiswas7708

    2 жыл бұрын

    GIRL SAME!!! He gave me all the attention and then rejected saying "we're just friends"

  • @martapradoalonso3384

    @martapradoalonso3384

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@rosemarybiswas7708 o Damn that hurts im sorry for you I Hope you moved on :)

  • @rosemarybiswas7708

    @rosemarybiswas7708

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@martapradoalonso3384 Thank you so much. I'm healing and learning everyday ❤️

  • @martapradoalonso3384

    @martapradoalonso3384

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@rosemarybiswas7708 I know! it's hard to move on and in my case It was my first "relationship" so i'm still moving on and i'm not good at It so I Hope you are doing it better than me ( i'm only 13 btw so I really don't know a los about this stuff) Ñ

  • @MycahEquette
    @MycahEquette2 жыл бұрын

    Such a good talk! You’re beautiful and when you heal yourself and bring yourself joy and happiness, the right man will just come when you’re not looking

  • @shaepoppinkurlzdc1862
    @shaepoppinkurlzdc18622 жыл бұрын

    Yo I literally experienced every single scenario you mentioned and then some. After the last guy I’m like maybe God want me to sit this season of dating out. I can’t 😩

  • @laurenissnorin3953
    @laurenissnorin39532 жыл бұрын

    that lip combo is EVERYTHING ✨✨

  • @rachelmccallum2952
    @rachelmccallum29522 жыл бұрын

    The part about giving you false hope by talking about your future together is soooo true! I had a long term boyfriend meet my extended family and say how he was planning on us moving in together and then broke up with me a week later saying that it was planned… oh yeah and it was at my grandmas funeral smh

  • @kellyyy1333

    @kellyyy1333

    2 жыл бұрын

    OMG! 😰 I’m so sorry to hear that 🥺 Hope you’re doing okay 💖. These men ain’t sh*t 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @michelled.6001

    @michelled.6001

    2 жыл бұрын

    Damn!

  • @seriahalexus
    @seriahalexus2 жыл бұрын

    The streets are NOT calling my name 😭😭 girl this just gave me anxiety about dating lol but this is soo true thanks for putting us girlies on to game

  • @KWilliams22
    @KWilliams222 жыл бұрын

    'The trash takes itself out' this is the most genius saying ever 🤣🤣🤣 love it!!

  • @erinmctague7188
    @erinmctague71882 жыл бұрын

    I experienced this in high school around 16-17 years old. Even though I learned from it I still wish I could go back and warn younger me. But now I have someone in my life who has showed me what I deserve. I think it’s important to expose guys because women need it now more than ever.

  • @shamilahgeoffrey6070
    @shamilahgeoffrey60702 жыл бұрын

    We have our girl back period 🔥❤️

  • @potatopeach111
    @potatopeach1112 жыл бұрын

    Girl you made some POINTS. 👏🏽 and you had me cracking up 😂♥️ Your stories are so relatable. I’ve had some of these experiences and this girl chat made me feel so valid and seen. I appreciate you for sharing this. And your video editing is so good!

  • @msmiscato

    @msmiscato

    2 жыл бұрын

    Apr5.

  • @lucky3119
    @lucky31192 жыл бұрын

    I was like girlll i relate the whole talk it's like she's talking abt my experience and it's rly cool to hear other people experience that too

  • @temitayooguntala9021

    @temitayooguntala9021

    2 жыл бұрын

    Exactly I felt the same way too

  • @hotsausage8211
    @hotsausage82112 жыл бұрын

    This made me feel so comfy omg I thought I was the only person who realised this with guys n I honestly didn’t know what to do cuz I can’t talk about this to anyone since I saw it as embarrassing but now I know it’s normal and I’m so glad that my boundaries were never “weird” in the first place tysm

  • @Nathiusca01
    @Nathiusca012 жыл бұрын

    You're absolutely right, and this is a video every girl should watch, sometimes I forget about this and get hurt but it's good that someone reminds you to stay focused and alert. You gotta act like you're the prize girl because you are 💅

  • @adrianapearson4718
    @adrianapearson47182 жыл бұрын

    I resonated with everything in this video. Learned the hard way and its better to call out the red flags from the beginning and move on.

  • @maniboyd5860
    @maniboyd58602 жыл бұрын

    I absolutely LOVE this version of Lisette, so authentically you and unapologetic, you make me literally laugh out loud and smile so much. I been watching you since I was in like middle school and you had braces still 😭 my OG KZreadr fr 🤞🏼

  • @kbohnstengel
    @kbohnstengel2 жыл бұрын

    omg this was so helpful! in the same situation of entering the dating game again after 3 years and now being in college. knowing boundaries and confident w/in yourself. thank you for being so up front ab your experiences :)

  • @Jamiex112
    @Jamiex1122 жыл бұрын

    “Not a girl for the streets” LOL yesssss but also respect to the girls who are for the streets because they also bad ass 💙💙💙💙

  • @laurab5296
    @laurab52962 жыл бұрын

    Wow how do u know my life?! I’m going through the same damn thing right now so this hits home for me. Working on self confidence is so key to knowing what u want and what u don’t. Guys will really tell u anything and not care about ur feelings. It’s great advice that u are giving! Lots of love lusette!!

  • @joeeason9723
    @joeeason97232 жыл бұрын

    Hi Lisette I know it’s tough getting back out there into the dating world but don’t give up, I definitely can’t speak for all guys but there are still some of us guys that really appreciates a woman like you that is honest and up front about what she wants and her intentions, and would give you the love and respect you deserve not only through their words but most importantly through their actions

  • @babypinkdiva01

    @babypinkdiva01

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Joe…you’ve given us hope💕

  • @joeeason9723

    @joeeason9723

    2 жыл бұрын

    Your welcome

  • @dzifianuafi957
    @dzifianuafi957 Жыл бұрын

    i absolutely love all your girl talk videos. i've watched them all multiple times

  • @angelemilycornet
    @angelemilycornet2 жыл бұрын

    I missed you so much.🥰I love that we are talking about this topic.Many young girls think this culture is a game for fun.I really appreciate it❤️❤️❤️

  • @mikaylalynn7266
    @mikaylalynn72662 жыл бұрын

    Yes!! Dating has become so complicated! Men want to have their cake and eat it too! It’s insane

  • @CeceME2

    @CeceME2

    2 жыл бұрын

    it's absolutely bananas😭the struggle is so real

  • @miasimone6873
    @miasimone68732 жыл бұрын

    Love love love this!! I’m happily married, but this made me think of so many exes I wasted time with 😂 the way you delivered this was perfect 💯 Thank you for making this video for women who are unaware of these red flags! I’m so glad you know your worth and I pray you find the man that will respect and cherish you forever 🤍

  • @evelynpena8532
    @evelynpena85322 жыл бұрын

    You hit the nail on everything! Literally dropped this video during the perfect time in my life.

  • @BeccaBaddest
    @BeccaBaddest2 жыл бұрын

    Lisette, this is the video I didn’t know I needed 😂 I’ve been in the dating scene for 3 years and the men just keep getting worse lol Thank you for sharing your experience 💖 appreciate your honesty :)

  • @yaditdaza
    @yaditdaza2 жыл бұрын

    I’m so glad I watched this video, I needed to hear this. lisette your so well spoken and sending you love 💕

  • @esterguevara9765
    @esterguevara97652 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much lisette…… thanks for all the advice and because of you I am aware of red flag and I also love the “actions-words=actions” and again thank you😊

  • @amandapeters-bambic2507
    @amandapeters-bambic25072 жыл бұрын

    I love how Lisette treats the camera like her little sister/brother. Thank you so much for the advice! You will find someone that matches your needs!

  • @jaelasam
    @jaelasam2 жыл бұрын

    Dropping gems in this video. just goes to show that experience and not age is sometimes the best teacher 💞

  • @rissaaliya95
    @rissaaliya952 жыл бұрын

    You spoke so much truth here! These are all of the things I learned (the hard way) but once you learn it makes a lot easier to realize your worth.

  • @asmih8297
    @asmih82972 жыл бұрын

    I am from India I had this same kind of things happened to me .... Guys talk to me as if they love me and want me to be invested but then if they find an other girl they just dump you by saying u are getting emotionally attached and I don't want a relationship .... I was like what the fuck u could have just told me at the beginning "we could just causally hang out" instead you spoke sweet words like I wanna marry you .. you could be my perfect girlfriend I just want time to announce our relationship public why do you have to tell those things if u don't wanna be in relationship? ..... Now hearing lisette say this same thing makes me confident love u girl 😍

  • @destinysade4230
    @destinysade42302 жыл бұрын

    Girl your hair looks so beautiful, healthy, and full 💕I’ve been watching you for years. You’ve gained so much wisdom 🧠 As women it’s important that we know our worth 👑 I’ve been saying the exact same thing about attachment! I no longer get attached to people, I just experience them. We aren’t in control in this cycle. In the beginning it’s very hard due to expectations, but from experience you learn and grow.

  • @MayasMission
    @MayasMission2 жыл бұрын

    Heavy on the streets are not for me 😭😭😂

  • @Jamiex112
    @Jamiex1122 жыл бұрын

    ALSO saving this video & watching it every day for the rest of my life THANK YOUUUUUU

  • @lindaw3437
    @lindaw34372 жыл бұрын

    Lisette you are my favorite KZreadr!!! You always give the best advice!!☺️

  • @2k11Emma
    @2k11Emma2 жыл бұрын

    Yes agree completely with the attention thing! 🙌🏽 you crave it and go crazy waiting for it. Empty promises is another thing that’s happened to me. Waiting around for things that don’t happen. It’s so bad that we all can relate to what you’re saying 🥺

  • @shakoorah1
    @shakoorah12 жыл бұрын

    “The actions - words = ?” This is a logical and ethical way to role 😂girl! This is why we live and we learn. Luv this ❤️🤍🥰

  • @somadebnath6016
    @somadebnath60162 жыл бұрын

    A woman with standards.... You go girl....you Queen 👑👑👑👑👑

  • @suelaerobinson4821
    @suelaerobinson48212 жыл бұрын

    girl, you are so smart!!! I just had a breakup and I can resonate with some of these things, I'm not looking to start dating now but will also have a lot more boundaries when I do. 🌸💛🌈

  • @semrankaur
    @semrankaur2 жыл бұрын

    everything you said is so on point. I feel the same rn girl. It's better to know your worth & not settle for anything less

  • @elizabethaudu2492
    @elizabethaudu24922 жыл бұрын

    It’s amusing how our journeys are so similar. Your braces videos in the past got me through my braces period, it gave me hope. Fast track to the present, we were both in 3 year relationships that ended around the same time for the same reasons. And now, we’re both having the same experiences with these new evolution of f*ck boys. I’m so thankful for you Luhhsetty💕

  • @XXX-mq8vc
    @XXX-mq8vc2 жыл бұрын

    Hey Lisette! happy to see you post! I'm not pushing you, but i would LOVE to see more routines. Like morning, afternoon, and night routines? You don't have to, but i would be happy to see some!❤

  • @macymikkelson3394
    @macymikkelson33942 жыл бұрын

    I absolutely agreed with everything you just said. Everything you said is what exactly I've been through or going through. 💜 Love your videos! 😊

  • @debrafutchkeepingitreal7173
    @debrafutchkeepingitreal71732 жыл бұрын

    Hi my granddaughter subscribe to your channel but when your video popped up on my feed I listen to it . your message was definitely meant for me in this changing world of dating. I'm 65 yrs old you were on point and gave great advice thumbs up for you👍🥰👠💄👑🙏

  • @noplacelikebri8209
    @noplacelikebri82092 жыл бұрын

    Yeeeessss to everything you said 🙌🏾 The dating game is really quite tiresome nowadays. This inspires me to talk on my next podcast about focusing on self, becoming a better person, and making sure that you make yourself happy because at the end of the day, that’s all that matters! I’ll love to see more girl talks! Thank you L, this was needed💗

  • @josephinemarch8789
    @josephinemarch87892 жыл бұрын

    My teacher told me back in the day that in life don't talk do it because talk does not bring success it keeps you back from actually getting that success 💯

  • @temi4018
    @temi40182 жыл бұрын

    Ohmygosh, I'm literally sitting here screamingggg!! So it's not just me that was confused and completely caught off guard😭😭Thank you so much for this girll x

  • @itsluxelady
    @itsluxelady2 жыл бұрын

    My life has been EXACTLY like this lately I just needed to watch this video🤍

  • @Jailbreak619
    @Jailbreak6192 жыл бұрын

    I appreciate this video so much!!! Please keep sharing whatever experience and wisdom you are comfortable with! I am also dating and I need this advice 🥰

  • @saniii5283
    @saniii52832 жыл бұрын

    you couldn’t have said it better 🥺 this video was very much needed and i most definitely needed to hear this 🥰😊😊

  • @ejemennnn
    @ejemennnn2 жыл бұрын

    It's the 30+ and the lion king for mee😂😂 oh my daysss

  • @selenamariecontreras7227
    @selenamariecontreras72272 жыл бұрын

    Lisette truly never misses, this video was much needed. 💗

  • @DangerousKaos
    @DangerousKaos2 жыл бұрын

    OMG YES AND FOR ME IT WAS LIKE CRAZY! It ended SO BAD, I was in my late 20s and I too was up front and forward and they weren’t. And yup sis same game hot and cold bs. Like wtf. It totally is true to meet actions minus words. That’s how I found my partner of 9 years (on ok Cupid) ❤️

  • @norapeace6526
    @norapeace65262 жыл бұрын

    I’ve been saying this forever, but if every woman had morals and values and respect for themselves, men would have to straighten up. But because they don’t, men just go to the next one who doesn’t have values and morals. So even if a few girls are very strict with their boundaries, it doesn’t matter because he will find someone who isn’t. That’s why dating sucks….but I’m going to stay firm on my values and I know I will end up with a great guy

  • @miquelyne

    @miquelyne

    2 жыл бұрын

    well said ! you deserve the princess treatment sis !

  • @dumbgirl8

    @dumbgirl8

    2 жыл бұрын

    FACTS

  • @InshasChoice

    @InshasChoice

    2 жыл бұрын

    💯 unfortunately women have this "i can fix it" mindset when they see a red flag... I've been there, not only is it draining, you're the one that ends up hurt 😔

  • @navehhall73

    @navehhall73

    2 жыл бұрын

    This!!!! ☝️👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 💯💯💯

  • @norapeace6526

    @norapeace6526

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@InshasChoice so true… I had a guy stop talking to me Bc he didn’t like that I brought up God when he thought God made things worse for him… & even though I really cared for him, he did me a big favor by walking away… I am a strong believer in Christ and I couldn’t date someone who wasn’t. But love/like will make u do some crazy things

  • @kandacepereira795
    @kandacepereira7952 жыл бұрын

    You got this gurl yes emotionally mentally and also like your life goals you know lile spend energy on that... this is amazing advice I need to follow this

  • @itumelengprincess2031
    @itumelengprincess20312 жыл бұрын

    Sis be spitting Factsssssss!! Literally gave me chills!! Thanks Lisette!

  • @SVL86
    @SVL862 жыл бұрын

    Despite being a 28 year old virgin lol, I still found this video quite helpful 💙 .

  • @karridia

    @karridia

    2 жыл бұрын

    nothing wrong with that, goodluck bestie

  • @InshasChoice

    @InshasChoice

    2 жыл бұрын

    You go lady 👏👏 saving yourself/not giving yourself away, is the best form of self love

  • @SVL86

    @SVL86

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@InshasChoice Aw thank you ☺️ that's so kind xc

  • @SVL86

    @SVL86

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@karridia Thank you, what a sweet thing to say 💙 xx

  • @Sky-ip6mh

    @Sky-ip6mh

    2 жыл бұрын

    Proud of you

  • @alonsoparedes1712
    @alonsoparedes17122 жыл бұрын

    PERIODT GURL!!!!!! this is so accurate!!! this video is on the top of my power moto vids

  • @rachanayem8646
    @rachanayem86462 жыл бұрын

    A lot that you mentioned is very relatable from what I experience in my past toxic relationship. After leaving the relationship has lead me to investing in myself and self love

  • @jenniferm392
    @jenniferm3922 жыл бұрын

    thank you lisette i really needed this ❤️ you give the best advice!! 🥰

  • @yvetteisthefuture
    @yvetteisthefuture2 жыл бұрын

    Girl you better preach!! Honestly no one talks about these things so genuinely and I appreciate this video so much!!!!

  • @Acheampomaa100
    @Acheampomaa1002 жыл бұрын

    Wow the amount of good info in this video is just awesome. Thank you for sharing.

  • @champagnemarcell459
    @champagnemarcell4592 жыл бұрын

    Lisette I looove this video i've been following you since day 1. This video is so accurate on so many different levels this was a reminder for me to keep doing what im doing. Please do more girl talk videos we love them. Love you girl❤

  • @rosemata7127
    @rosemata71272 жыл бұрын

    yes girl! look at you with a clear mindset loved this video and your energy

  • @RobynAshford24
    @RobynAshford242 жыл бұрын

    such a needed talk omg 🧘🏾‍♀️💜.

  • @sunflowerlela4424
    @sunflowerlela44242 жыл бұрын

    Hey girly! I missed you! Thanks for the video girl! My girl is BOOKED AND BUSY!!! Period!! 🥳

  • @mayac.p.546
    @mayac.p.5462 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for this video! I am going through the same situation and u summarized my thoughts and the things I needed to hear. I really needed this video. Youre glowing queeeen.

  • @sherry8442
    @sherry84422 жыл бұрын

    PLEASE..! More GIRL TALK and advice..😩 I love your videos, you’re so clam..❤️

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