GIRL CHAT VAULT: How To Give Advice to Love Ones who Won’t Take It

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Real fam, do you tell your inner circle when they are doing something you don’t agree with or love them for a distance?

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  • @kirkxavier777
    @kirkxavier7773 жыл бұрын

    Great point that Jeannie made. I’ve struggled with drug use and my family pushed me to get help but I still ended up in the same positions until I decided MYSELF that I wanted a different life. Sometimes you have to fall hard in order to look at things in an objective perspective.

  • @licks3962

    @licks3962

    3 жыл бұрын

    I Pray for your recovery and just Now god loves you and every1 else who is struggling w drug abuse.you will see the light at the end of the tunel.keep trying you get there your love ones don't love you less.they Just care for you that's why they keep praying for you!!🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @chelsea5595

    @chelsea5595

    2 жыл бұрын

    That’s awesome. I have a family member dealing with addiction. I can’t just act like it’s fine, so my only options are to keep trying to get them to get help and have them get angry at me and feel like I am pushing them, or just ignore them and have them mad at me for that. Do you have an opinion on which is better?

  • @Zumzizeroo17
    @Zumzizeroo173 жыл бұрын

    I agree with Adrienne. Unless it’s a choice that I feel I need to intervene because someone’s safety is in jeopardy, I’ll let them see the decisions they are making are not good ones.

  • @longlivekingjames806
    @longlivekingjames8063 жыл бұрын

    So sad tam is leaving the show but SISTER SISTER WILL BE ON NETFLIX SEPTEMBER 1ST 😊

  • @SSBMA1994

    @SSBMA1994

    3 жыл бұрын

    I want the real to be on netflix so Ican watch full episodes

  • @indigobeauty1

    @indigobeauty1

    3 жыл бұрын

    Omg!! Im so happy!

  • @lovebuglenise904

    @lovebuglenise904

    3 жыл бұрын

    Heyyyy I didn’t know

  • @malumbesyatwinda8094

    @malumbesyatwinda8094

    3 жыл бұрын

    I’m so made at UK Netflix 😭😭😭. We won’t be getting any of the great old school shows

  • @Kimbrly_xo

    @Kimbrly_xo

    3 жыл бұрын

    Malumbe Syatwinda ikr😢

  • @mor9820
    @mor98203 жыл бұрын

    that was sooo cute when adrienne whispered and then loni told Jeannie and they were giggling

  • @itsjacquelynambeau
    @itsjacquelynambeau3 жыл бұрын

    They are all looking so good on here!

  • @richardvargus7443

    @richardvargus7443

    3 жыл бұрын

    I admire the goodyear blimp as well

  • @SoshiStars

    @SoshiStars

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah this was the season where they were styled the best

  • @kamissadiarra5074
    @kamissadiarra50743 жыл бұрын

    I'm gonna miss tamera :(

  • @hummingbird4335

    @hummingbird4335

    3 жыл бұрын

    Why is she leaving?

  • @crem2121
    @crem21213 жыл бұрын

    I live for the girl chats! So much more relaxed and they seem more relatable and it really feels like girlfriends all chatting in the room together lol

  • @veronicalopez6187
    @veronicalopez61873 жыл бұрын

    I agree with Loni ! Even if it’s going to hurt my feelings or if I’m wrong TELL ME. If you love me help me grow.

  • @mube8885

    @mube8885

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @gaila.9852
    @gaila.98523 жыл бұрын

    It feels so good to not have Instagram, Twitter, etc. KZread is all I use.

  • @MaleahsDiary

    @MaleahsDiary

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same here

  • @wonderwoman1199

    @wonderwoman1199

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yup true

  • @nyahjohnson7126

    @nyahjohnson7126

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same but I was KZread so much now that it takes up the same time as all the other applications I had.

  • @gaila.9852

    @gaila.9852

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@nyahjohnson7126 I understand what you mean.

  • @jennifercamille16
    @jennifercamille163 жыл бұрын

    Aww, loved this conversation! I'm gonna miss Tam on here SO much!

  • @thisiskayleemarie9042
    @thisiskayleemarie90423 жыл бұрын

    Can we get a video on the topic of toxic parents even when their children are adults.

  • @ColieJr
    @ColieJr3 жыл бұрын

    I found out an ex was cheating via going in the bathroom texting.

  • @angellll357
    @angellll3573 жыл бұрын

    Tamera talking about how her kids won't leave her alone when she goes to the bathroom 😂😂❤️. Ugh I'm gonna miss her sm 😣😭

  • @richardvargus7443

    @richardvargus7443

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yea like she ever spends time with her kids anyway. Those strong independent women raising weak fatherless children. Go society!

  • @gaila.9852

    @gaila.9852

    3 жыл бұрын

    Richard Vargus You just wrote endless bitter comments on the channel. Find something better to do.

  • @angellll357

    @angellll357

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@richardvargus7443 how would you know she barely spends time with her kids. She actually even mentions that she does spend every moment she can with them so take your hate elsewhere

  • @Justbu45

    @Justbu45

    3 жыл бұрын

    She better enjoy it. They grow up quickly.

  • @jennamartin5913
    @jennamartin59133 жыл бұрын

    I agree with Adrienne.... if I don’t actually ask, don’t give me advice. Go talk to the wall if you must talk.

  • @kokostenza4732

    @kokostenza4732

    3 жыл бұрын

    Feel the same

  • @BigSoul29

    @BigSoul29

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amen

  • @bakangmlangeni
    @bakangmlangeni3 жыл бұрын

    Jeanie looks beautiful and Tamera looks like a bridesmaid 😍

  • @ericamlca
    @ericamlca3 жыл бұрын

    Lonis Winnie the Pooh laughs are so funny 😭

  • @tamerilee
    @tamerilee3 жыл бұрын

    Obsessed with this cinnamon lewk from Jeannie!!! That lip and hair combo 🤤

  • @Whereisnicolenow
    @Whereisnicolenow3 жыл бұрын

    going to miss tamera so much 😭

  • @TheAlkebulanTrust
    @TheAlkebulanTrust3 жыл бұрын

    It's only best to give advice to loved ones when *THEY ASK YOU FOR ADVICE* think about it this way. You wouldn't take advice from someone when you never asked. Especially in the areas of dating and relationships and life in general. Especially if you think the ones giving you advice ain't doing better than you...True or correct?

  • @gabrielaferraz7401
    @gabrielaferraz74013 жыл бұрын

    I love your words Jeannie. I wish you would tell us the books you’re reading! That was so true

  • @xlilchowchowx
    @xlilchowchowx3 жыл бұрын

    lol adrienne at 8:45 YESSSS

  • @rorosung1026
    @rorosung10263 жыл бұрын

    Giving advice or solutions doesn't do much for a person until they feel like they're willing to change, and sometimes you don't have to try to fix it but just a good listener

  • @gaila.9852
    @gaila.98523 жыл бұрын

    I hated it so much when people would insist on posting photos with me that I didn’t like. If someone doesn’t like a photo, don’t post it. It’s that simple.

  • @abcdefghijimin3248
    @abcdefghijimin32483 жыл бұрын

    i agree ! i will help of course but there’s a certain point where if you’re not willing to make improvements then i’m letting you decide when you DO want to make a decision

  • @Saffire1990
    @Saffire19903 жыл бұрын

    Fast forward to Tam being absolutely snatched now. What an inspiration 👏👏👏

  • @Jazzle06
    @Jazzle062 жыл бұрын

    My grandma lives with us but during the day she goes to a senior independence center, they pick them up, do activities, help them make and take them to their doctors appointment. It’s the best thing evvvvver.

  • @ManiB_4
    @ManiB_43 жыл бұрын

    You guys are so amazing and hilarious

  • @ScatheMinx
    @ScatheMinx3 жыл бұрын

    I want to be their bestfriend :( Thank you for this. Your wisdom, humor, intelligence and confidence is empowering. I'm happy to be a subscriber. You're all beautiful and sexy as well. Stay safe.

  • @elisabetholiveira1772
    @elisabetholiveira1772 Жыл бұрын

    I love you Lonnie Love y'all looks and expressions on your face are priceless you always have me in stitches

  • @jessc99
    @jessc993 жыл бұрын

    2:53 This is life lesson!

  • @greciamedero2808
    @greciamedero28083 жыл бұрын

    Agree with Adrienne 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @kelseystramel5349
    @kelseystramel53493 жыл бұрын

    I'm actually refurnishing and painting my bathroom for this. Thats my escape room.

  • @Brooklyn_baddiex3
    @Brooklyn_baddiex33 жыл бұрын

    I just mind my business honestly

  • @kokostenza4732

    @kokostenza4732

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too

  • @rositacortez-guzman6608
    @rositacortez-guzman66083 жыл бұрын

    Omg when they made those faces 😂

  • @rosebudd7170
    @rosebudd71703 жыл бұрын

    My mother lives in adult community; community bus transport shopping, doctors apartments. Each buildings has informal dinning area, kitchen, gym, movie threater and Ballard. Form friends have the same interests; bingo, board games. Family can have small parties. Loni, smart move for your mom. They meet new people.

  • @jessicanarcisse673
    @jessicanarcisse6733 жыл бұрын

    Opposite with my husband, I give him his space in the bathroom but baby when I’m in there he wanna come in brush his teeth, talk, brush his hair, change his clothes my gosh

  • @MJ-vb7un
    @MJ-vb7un3 жыл бұрын

    Adrienne wants to come off as if she’s always minding her business but actually these girls chats have shown she’s the most judgmental and nosy. She spent this entire segment judging everything..

  • @ramonaflowers7613

    @ramonaflowers7613

    3 жыл бұрын

    I agree that A seems more nosey than a lot of the other girls but i never got the impression that she seems imposing or controlling like I used to get from Tamar

  • @MJ-vb7un

    @MJ-vb7un

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ramona Real no me too.. but whatever type of ‘girl’ she says she is.. when she talks she’s actually the opposite.

  • @BigbossBonita

    @BigbossBonita

    3 жыл бұрын

    Now that's is keeping it real.

  • @michelleblosser6701
    @michelleblosser67013 жыл бұрын

    I try to hide in the bathroom alot but yeah my kids bust in there anyway.🤣 Now i call my bathroom breaks a potty party bc both of my kids, both cats and my dog come in there so its always a party!!

  • @pal8542
    @pal85423 жыл бұрын

    Only seven hours a year? In this quarantine, I knock that off in 2 days.

  • @Shannonlynn_98
    @Shannonlynn_982 жыл бұрын

    Praying!!!! 🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️

  • @ranitagad7071
    @ranitagad7071 Жыл бұрын

    If I were ever in that situation I'd wait for them to ask me for my advice about the situation and then politely tell them to ask someone else because their situation is none of my business.

  • @bobbiholmes2274
    @bobbiholmes22742 жыл бұрын

    I won’t get involved with someone even a family member if I know they are involved with drugs. I can be invested with that. I don’t want the stress, it sounds harsh but unless you have someone in your life that’s struggling with drugs you will never know the stress of worrying about them

  • @hannahwootton6491
    @hannahwootton64913 жыл бұрын

    Unless someone has that rock bottom where they know and want and are tired of going round in circles a lot of times you can't do alot

  • @millielouise2010
    @millielouise20103 жыл бұрын

    I’m like this with my sister she always picks the wrong guys and the one she is with fires off first thing in the morning and comes home late at night I’ve tried to tell her he isnt good for her but it just causes us to argue

  • @krisstinalewis6347
    @krisstinalewis63473 жыл бұрын

    i love Adrienne lml

  • @anciboi
    @anciboi3 жыл бұрын

    I'll smooth out a forehead...lol....that took me out!!!

  • @moimeself1088
    @moimeself10883 жыл бұрын

    My family is religious. I disagree with their life choices. All of them don't speak to each other, but they speak to me, the athiest! I 😅

  • @ZuluGirlInNewYork
    @ZuluGirlInNewYork11 ай бұрын

    Adrienne is so gorgeous here❤

  • @titibams
    @titibams3 жыл бұрын

    Mum, mum, mum, ma, ma, ma.. Tamera😂😂

  • @LadiiLike5
    @LadiiLike53 жыл бұрын

    7 hours a year??!?!?!? More like 7 hours a week. Its a constant hour in the bathroom DAILY for my man lol

  • @kartert.jefferson6759
    @kartert.jefferson67593 жыл бұрын

    I’m with with Adrianne all the way.

  • @gaila.9852
    @gaila.98523 жыл бұрын

    Adrienne sounds like a shady friend sometimes. I know she’s nonconfrontational, but your job as a friend to keep it real.

  • @SSBMA1994
    @SSBMA19943 жыл бұрын

    I do it at work sometimes...🤫🤫

  • @MsAmir-xw1us
    @MsAmir-xw1us3 жыл бұрын

    9:13 i felt that

  • @faridahnakayemba1496
    @faridahnakayemba14963 жыл бұрын

    I go with Adrienne coz u give advice and still do the same things gal

  • @moadekunle2458
    @moadekunle24583 жыл бұрын

    Second comment 🤸‍♀️

  • @lisaharris1469
    @lisaharris14693 жыл бұрын

    Don't that's the best advice

  • @quailbanks4483
    @quailbanks44833 жыл бұрын

    Hilarious😂 but is this the episode today?

  • @gaila.9852

    @gaila.9852

    3 жыл бұрын

    No, this is an old video. The new season starts next month.

  • @licks3962
    @licks39623 жыл бұрын

    L.O.L i ALSO DO THAT 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂i go to the bathroom.when i want to be ALONE NO WAY I THOUGH I WAS THE ONLY 1 GREAT TO NOW I AM NOT ALONE ON THIS!!!! I was beginning to think i was Weird..

  • @xxgizelrixx5480
    @xxgizelrixx54802 жыл бұрын

    loni be blowing me sometimes she can be such a hypocrite cuz she be the first one tryna get the tea n be nosy but as soon as the girls do it she gets all defensive n secretive like girl if u going do that then don’t be asking them personal questions either

  • @bantandiaye5020
    @bantandiaye50203 жыл бұрын

    I like dhis girle

  • @kd-xp6eg
    @kd-xp6eg3 жыл бұрын

    Adrienne baby uon gotta speak on everything

  • @amandaandersen7870
    @amandaandersen78702 жыл бұрын

    I do way more then my husband. Spend time in the my bathroom.

  • @gaila.9852
    @gaila.98523 жыл бұрын

    I can’t believe Jeannie had never heard of diastasis recti.

  • @setarehmotazedi2804
    @setarehmotazedi28043 жыл бұрын

    I think Jeannie and Adrienne were talking about tamar... :0

  • @jazziesworld103

    @jazziesworld103

    2 жыл бұрын

    They haven’t hung up with her in years

  • @Mike-ri3ub
    @Mike-ri3ub3 жыл бұрын

    @ 11:10 she asked Tamera, not the audience

  • @natalieraeann
    @natalieraeann2 жыл бұрын

    Only 7 hours??????

  • @heroncabo3756
    @heroncabo37563 жыл бұрын

    Good 😷🙏🙏🕊️🙏 abençoado por Deus 🙏🕊️🙏 e paz amor saúde amar o próximo ok 🇺🇸 respeito educação e beruti...Deus abençoe todos com muito amor...ok

  • @ariahblack6043
    @ariahblack60433 жыл бұрын

    First comment!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! First view

  • @amandaandersen7870
    @amandaandersen78702 жыл бұрын

    But he got his man cave.

  • @BigSoul29
    @BigSoul293 жыл бұрын

    How about don't ? Don't give advice unless someone asks unless their life or the life of someone else is at risk. Other people's lives are nor our buisness. Less judgement more listening please.

  • @CocoAde
    @CocoAde3 жыл бұрын

    Loni and James aren't together anymore? Sorry if I'm late I can't keep up with all the relationships lol

  • @j.graham8201

    @j.graham8201

    3 жыл бұрын

    This is an old girl chat, don't worry

  • @CocoAde

    @CocoAde

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@j.graham8201 phew

  • @doneecemcneil7826
    @doneecemcneil7826 Жыл бұрын

    Gm edagdwg Miss. A . is soooooo extra out of love I would tell you not to make you feel bad because I really care some people do it because they enjoy hurting your feelings sad not a friend pay attention Linda j peace

  • @Thewifelife40
    @Thewifelife402 жыл бұрын

    Men have man caves so they go there..the bathroom is the hiding place for men with no man cave..my husband doesn't hide but I do. I escape my responsibilities by hiding in the bathroom.

  • @Victoria-gv3qh
    @Victoria-gv3qh3 жыл бұрын

    Loni is the shadiest person smh. I don't know how they can handle her

  • @laragirly3522

    @laragirly3522

    3 жыл бұрын

    Wtf?? Shes not shady. There All friends. U just don't like her. Loni is very good for this show. Stop hating. Tf?!

  • @Victoria-gv3qh

    @Victoria-gv3qh

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@laragirly3522 she is a frenemy. always making fun of the others, rolling her eyes, attitude, she has negative vibes allll the time period.

  • @laragirly3522

    @laragirly3522

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Victoria-gv3qh No tf she doesn't. She's good friends with All of them. She's not a frenemy. Loni is a great co host along with those women. U are taking it so wrong. Shes good friends with All the co host. Ur looking too deep into it honey. Its really not like that. No she Doesn't has negative vibes all the time, thats just how u take it but she doesn't. Bye hunny.

  • @Victoria-gv3qh

    @Victoria-gv3qh

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@laragirly3522 you have your opinion, i have mine. Every episode I've seen she's making fun of one of the girls or being a HATER for no reason or giving attitude or rolling her eyes if other people's opinions are different than hers - especially to Tamera. It gets OLD real fast.

  • @55556666ish
    @55556666ish3 жыл бұрын

    Just a guess but mutual friend... Malika Haqq?

  • @gaila.9852

    @gaila.9852

    3 жыл бұрын

    What makes you think they were talking about her?

  • @55556666ish

    @55556666ish

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@gaila.9852 she is a socialite and may be concerned with her image, they are also both friends with her

  • @gaila.9852

    @gaila.9852

    3 жыл бұрын

    poodle fan Gotcha!

  • @MsMak03

    @MsMak03

    3 жыл бұрын

    You were right sis, she said it was her in another episode

  • @jeromebaxter2987
    @jeromebaxter2987 Жыл бұрын

    8:36

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