Getting Mushy in the Garden (Walk with me) | VLOG
Hey ya'll, I'm Jess from Roots & Refuge Farm
Welcome to a place that feels like home. A small farm with a big family. We hope you'll pull up a chair, grab some coffee and visit awhile.
There was a time that all I wanted in the world was a little farm where I could raise my family and grow our food. Now, that is exactly what exists outside my door. In watching it unfold, a new dream was formed in my heart - to share this beautiful life with others and teach them the lessons we've learned along the way. Welcome to our journey, friend. I am so glad you're here.
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When you mentioned that you celebrate when others have dreams fulfilled it reminded me of Romans 12:15a: “Rejoice with those who rejoice.” Have a blessed day and thank you for all you do!
I know a lot of people (including myself) who have had the sting of jealousy and the "must be nice" attitude when hearing of other peoples dreams coming true. I knew that I had experienced real growth both spiritually and mentally when that sting turned into motivation. Watching the fulfillment of your dreams fills my heart with hope!!! 💚
It made me cry when Bear said his hello to you, because my old farm dog, Pogo, who passed away many years ago and is deeply missed by me, used to say hello just that way. Oh boy, she was such a good, good girl. I gotta stop writing, because I'm totally losing it, but those solid hearts of the quiet and steady loyal friends just win us every time. Thank you, Jess--so excited for Jeremiah and you to finally get your house!
@RealBradMiller
7 ай бұрын
🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂
@petecilione4166
7 ай бұрын
I’m sorry
@galeharris6696
7 ай бұрын
@@petecilione4166 thank you. It was her time, and she had a good life, but I still miss her, and I appreciate that. Take care.
@galeharris6696
7 ай бұрын
@@RealBradMiller thank you, she was a real buddy, but it was time for her to go. I appreciate your thoughtfulness.
@valeriem3644
7 ай бұрын
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Keep the mushy strolls coming. All of us gardeners are feeling this with you. Hooray for starting your new home!
Watching the person you love the most live out their dream is even more fulfilling than achieving your own. There is something magical about witnessing someone's someday dream come to life.
I’ve commented before how much I appreciate Jess and all she puts into life but this time I was also thinking… Wow! I really love the viewers and commenters on this channel! You guys are so encouraging and loving! I do deeply appreciate Jessica AND all you amazing folks out there so full of love and light!
@dawnwilliams8766
7 ай бұрын
Ditto!❤❤❤
@chelseakayton206
7 ай бұрын
Yes💚
On the Farmers Table, would love to hear how you make sauces, dressings and seasonings mixes. ❤❤
Love Miah is getting to realize his dream of building a home. I understand the joy you get from him achieving this dream. Our husbands give so much to the family. It's truly a blessing to watch their dreams come true. My husband, the engine builder, always dreamed of having a large garage to tinker in. 5 years ago, we moved and built it. Blessing ❤
Oh sweet Jess. I’m so glad you would welcome a hug from me. Quite honestly I feel your presence in my life as a blessing from God. And you’ve spoken to my heart in such a special way. If and I hope when our paths physically cross I can not promise that the emotion of love and gratitude for you will not well up from my heart and out of my eyes. I pray one day to meet you hug you and let Gods hand handle the rest. Thank you so much for being you. God Bless you and your family. 🙏❤️
@tommielourogers4327
7 ай бұрын
Amen!!!
@suehill6194
7 ай бұрын
how beautiful✨
@JennaGoforth
6 ай бұрын
This very thing actually happened to me when I met Jess. When it was my turn in line the only thing that I could say was “can I hug you”. So many of the things she has said have just been things that I so desperately needed to hear at those certain times in my life ❤ Such a true blessing to so many kindred spirits, Jess!
I was listening to this while my 3 kids were making a ton of noise in the room and I kept thinking Jess was saying she missed “fresh linens”. I thought, wow, okay that’s kind of bougie, but whatever. Then I realized, oh it’s LEMONS! 😂
@Laughinginflowers
7 ай бұрын
Oh my! This cracked me up! I have 3 boys. I so understand 😂
@AnnMoynihan-oy1hk
7 ай бұрын
🤣😂🤣
I thoroughly enjoy casual strolls with you as you chat about various things. Cheers to the new year Jess! We appreciate you 😊
@RootsandRefugeFarm
7 ай бұрын
Sometimes I do more teaching or structured content and it does me well to just do a hang-out catch up video
@AHomesteadingHustle
7 ай бұрын
@RootsandRefugeFarm and that variety is highly appealing when i seek a channel to watch regularly. You are definitely one of my favorites! Also am loving your new channel, I'm all about good food! ❤
It's crazy to me that in his pursuit to support your dream, it has set him up to fulfill his dream! I love it!
Jess! You made me cry! Making each other’s dreams come true (as well as our joint dreams) is what my husband and I love more than anything! Marriages that focus on these things not only don’t fail, but they bless everyone around them. Thank you for sharing this! You two have worked so incredibly hard and this makes me so happy and proud for you for both to get this point. You are kind and sensitive to others, but you don’t need to apologize in any way. You work hard to inspire others and for that we thank (and bless) you!!!! Can’t wait to watch the dream materialize!
@jenniferstafford1514
7 ай бұрын
I agree 100 percent!!!! I am so excited for them!!!
I'm glad your hubby dream is coming through Building ones own house is a lovely thing instead
People having the negative reactions are still going down their healing journeys. I know there is a part of me that feels sad when I see people's dreams being fulfilled when it feels like mine are getting further away from being fulfilled everyday. But I breath and lean into the pain and remind myself that I have no idea what their path looked like to get there. We all have ups and downs. Celebrate the ups, shout them out because they remind the rest of us that if we just don't quit, we will make it. ❤❤🎉🎉 I cannot wait to see your house unfold. And I know someday I will get to do the same, and I will be thankful foe the knowledge gained watching your channel. You are an amazing inspiration. Thank you for sharing ❤
Never down play your dreams coming true and your successes. You have worked incredibly hard to get where you are and you personally have blessed my life, each and every time I have watched one of your videos. You pushed me to start gardening and now I have a mini homestead on my 2 acres and you continue to push me to dream big and to stay focused on the goal. Bless you and your family ❤
I feel privileged to get to come along and see Jeremiah’s and your dreams come true. Thank you Jess and your sweet Jeremiah for sharing your journey. ❤️✝️🙏
I luv’d how Bear came in and checked where you were in the tunnel and once he knew where you were he went off again. Such a beautiful and happy boy is Bear xxx
YOU are my hero!!!❤ Thanks for dreaming BIG and sharing. Because of you guys....we are dreaming BIGGER 😇😍
This is just another example of why I have been a long time subscriber, it gave me a warm fuzzy to hear how exuberantly passionate you are about making Miah's dreams into reality. Thank you for keeping the content coming.
When the man who is our protector and provider gets the opportunity to achieve those big dreams,there's something so fulfilling about that. I understand holding that dream close for them and feeling protective over that. My husband has made all mine come true; and through it all I cheer his dreams on as if they were mine
Your building a fantastic house is showing us that if we have clean living, hard work, looking out for others and we can have the house too. Nice guys don’t finish last. Anyone who can’t see that and is jealous, is not wanting to work as hard and make the sacrifices you have made. Your rags to riches story show that the reason others can’t have is because other haven’t made your sized sacrifices, yet. It’s that simple. You take away the excuses. Hold you head high and be proud! You give us that haven’t gotten as far as you, hope. IF we are willing to give up comfort for long enough, we can be a blessing to others too.
It is my husband's dream to one day have enough wooded land to hunt. It's my dream to have a small homestead. These dreams feel very far off and nearly impossible. Thank you for sharing your dreams that are coming into reality! It is so inspiring to see dreams come true!
The view off the porch!!! 💗 It’s going to be amazing! I’m so glad you are sharing your dreams and goals, as well as all the heartache between! You encourage me to keep dreaming,even when the future is looking kinda dim! Love y’all my “KZread friends!” Keep up the good works! ❤
Jess, you be mushy all you want, girl! It's so contagious and heartwarming. 💛
I love it when you get carried away talking about Miah and the family and your dreams. Somehow, it makes me feel closer to you. It reminds me that you are just a person with a camera-same as me! It's just so encouraging to see you living the way that I want to live and thinking deeply the way that I want to think ... it just proves to me that my dream IS possible. I CAN achieve sustainable living and clean food. Thanks, Jess ❤
My gosh I’ve related to you before, but even more today. You’re my hero Jess
I learned from Becky at Acre Homestead to make my own cream of anything soup I haven’t bought a can of of cream soups in over a year.I’m Making my own broth as well. I’m slowly getting rid of anything that I can make and in return control my ingredients.
Oh Jess! You talking about Miah’s dreams made me tear up. Your love and care for your husband is so refreshing and sweet.
What a beautiful thing it is for all of us to get to follow along with y’all’s dreams coming true. I know watching the progress of y’all building your farm and gardens has been a treasure and inspiration for me. Thank you for always being brave enough to share it all with us. ❤️
50 years in and i believed that all my dreams are dead, but hearing of your home being build something woke in me, but i am scared to share it with my wife.
Having been in that “build a house with your own two hands” position, l am so excited for you. Twenty years ago, we in our late twenties, took on a vision and made our dream come true. Now we joke that we will die in this house as we can’t imagine not being in it. It truly becomes part of you. ❤🍀
We are all so blessed to be able to experience this whole journey with ya'll❤ this is God's hand for sure. We love ya'll so very much and look forward to it all😊🫶🏽🙏🏼💖🙌🏼Praise The Lord!
"Thank you guys for hanging out with me today.......and all the days you do!" I've been following you since you and your family live in Conway, AR. You have moved me to tears more than once; although, you're not always mushy. A lot of wonderful emotions seem to rise to the surface for me when I'm in the garden because I feel close to the Lord and close to the earth at the same time!
Seeing the love you have for Miah, your unconditional support of his dreams…it brought me to tears. You all are so amazing to one another. ❤ Sweet Bear’s hugs didn’t stop the tears from flowing either 😂
We all get mushy when you talk about your dreams. I can remember when you started to talk about the garden belt and look at it now. It is AMAZING!!
Watching you build your own dreams has given me the strength to dream bravely. Seeing yours and Jeremiah's dreams bursting into life is one of my greatest joys! Keep dreaming, building and sharing Sowards! 💗🙏💗✨❤️✨
Your home is going to be amazing! Congrats! I think Miah's channel will take you guys to a whole nother level. keep it coming
I love to see others dreams come true. It reminds me that they do come true. It gives me hope!
Oh Jess... don't downplay your joy. I love riding your pink cloud with you.
The hardest part of your new home is making it big enough to hold everyone. Then figure out what to do when the kids do move out. Such a lot of space to fill up when that happens. But then they may come back for visits. Hope your new home is as much fun to plan out and build. Love what happens to you. ❤️
Agree! I never want less for people. I tell people all the time, it’s okay to be happy for them and sad for you. Both emotions can exist together. You don’t have to let your disappointment/sadness/longing affect their joy and celebrating with them. 🥰
So happy for your visit with your daughter, especially after what the students went through. Thank you for letting us come along as you build your dream home. I did laugh at your love of lemons. My myer lemon tree gifted me with a huge perfect lemon her first year. I even showed the picture to produce manager at Fresh Market. So proud of her, I can’t cut her open! Happy New Year!🎉🎉🎉
My little scottie gives me neck hugs when I pick her up and put her head over my shoulder ❤
I would love to meet you and take a day to talk and talk. But I love being able to watch all your videos. Thank you so much for posting the lovely information you do. We did make it to 2k by the end of the year 2023! Which was amazing. We will be going live tomorrow at 6pm EST. To do our giveaway. It was a long time to get to were we are now. But you are who inspired me to start my KZread channel. So Thank you so much Jess. Till next time God Bless.
May this process of building your dream house be filled of blessings for you and your family ❤
I don't know how I missed when this video came out-i usually watch the day they go live but this literally brought tears to my eyes because I can see the excitement in your eyes and I am so incredibly happy for you. I may not have a garden nearly as big as yours but I start to feel 'mushy' in the garden ' every time I walk out there. The garden does that. She makes me so incredibly grateful for life.
I absolutely love that we can all live vicariously through y’all’s lives and watch your dreams come to fruition. What a blessed new year!
That's so exciting! I pray Lord that everything goes smoothly and doors are open where they should be. That there is safety on the building sight and peace in the process. Thank you Lord for blessing this family that blessed so many with their words and actions. Amen
Have you any idea how huge a feel-good factor your videos impart for us all? You are amazing Jess and we love you. Thank you for sharing your life and dreams with us :)
My husband and I's "one day" is finally coming true, and what you said really hit home. There are so many things I don't say or don't share because I feel like I can't. Thank you for the encouragement to share as our dreams are coming true. I'm so excited for you all and all that is happening ❤ Our Great Dane will lean on us too, or sit in our laps to show his love. It's hilarious!
I can't wait to see Miahs dream come to fruition! You 2 absolutely deserve everything ❤️. Some people don't understand this insight into your life is a privilege, you don't owe us anything. I appreciate the knowledge and wisdom you have shared thus far. I say it shows their character flaws to complain or criticize, not yours!
Jess !! Two years ago we watched your journey of moving and buying land and this summer we bought 40 acres of raw land! Now we get to watch you build a farm house and I’m SOOOO excited to be inspired by what you decide to do with it since in 5 years we want to break ground on our new house!
I am so excited to see the dream of this house and shop come to fruition! I know it will be amazing for how much thought and care Jeramiah puts into his projects and how he loves those extra touches that really elevate things. It is so special that this is the first dream you shared and it is coming true for you, and we get to see it in progress. Love a mushy walk and talking thru the life your living!
When you mentioned the sun room, I immediately thought, "Oh, she'll have that full of plants." .... And then you said you would probably start seeds there! 😅 I absolutely love it! And we'll continue to rejoice with you as we look for the fulfillment of our own dreams, with hopeful hearts. ❤️❤️
You’re one of my favorite people Jess, you are so down to earth and I like that about you. Bless🙏
Love hearing how excited you are for Jeremiah to live out his dream! Can’t wait to see the house ❤
😊 as somebody says, “ don’t let nobody dull yo shine”
I hang out for every VLOG and I am blessed all the days I do, You are a blessing to me. You calm me, inspire me and I love that your dreams are being fulfilled. Keep dreaming and building the life that is inspired by the love that you have for Jesus and your beautiful family.
That smile thinking about your kitchen! So cute! I’m so excited for all these blessings for your family & to be able to watch all this growth from the last property.
You and Miah have worked your tails off to fulfill your dreams. Nothing has been handed to you on a silver platter. I love seeing your dreams come true and get so much joy watching your progress. Sending love from Washington state.
Oh the kitchen, be still my heart … I feel your anticipation and excitement ❤
Jess, your heart is so pure and you have worked SO HARD to manifest your dreams that it would take a pretty ugly soul to resent your accomplishments. You've come a long way from having your chicken coop repossessed and the hens put out onto the driveway. I can't wait to see what Miah builds out there, hoping it is everything you both want Never doubt one thing: You deserve it. Miah deserves it. Your children deserve it. You have it because you earned it. Nobody has the right to rain on your parade. People who can't see that need to examine their souls and work on themselves. I'm really hoping that Hope drops a calf one day soon. Maybe Miah can get her in the stanchion so you can give her a feel?
Jess & Miah - thank you for picking up the camera those years ago. Because we can relate, we can see your evolution, and be along side you as your dreams come true. Watching you gives me so much hope I could cry. Hope that maybe, my dreams will come true as well. ❤
So excited for you guys !!!
So happy for you. I started following you 5+ years ago because you were close to me. I’m in NE Oklahoma. I fell in love with you and your sweet family. Watching you and Miah develop your property in Arkansas and here. You inspire and share your journey with giggles and joy, heartache and health issues. Your journey is a blessing to me. Happy house building in 2024.
I am so happy that your dream is coming true for your house. You deserve it. Thank you for sharing your life with us.
I can’t wait to see Miah’s dream come true. He is such a good man. ❤ I am so blessed to have my own Miah. I wish every woman could be so lucky.
My heart is just bursting with happiness for you and Miah, for all your dreams that have come true already and all the dreams that are yet to come true! So excited for Miah to see his dream fulfilled, I'm sure the house is going to be amazing because he doesn't do things any other way! And omg Bear, what a sweetie... I honestly just love "visiting" with you every day, learning with you, and of course drinking good coffee 🥰 Keep the mushy coming, we're all right there with you!
I watch you more frequently than I probably should. Some days I've binge watch your videos over and over again just to ignite that excitement that faith that hopefulness for the future that you've inspire in so many and I can't tell you how many times when you close your videos. I say we bless you until next time right along with you and I get the chills and a deep sense of belonging and you renew my faith every single time I listen to your video. I bless you until next time!
@RootsandRefugeFarm
7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing this with me. I bless YOU! And thank you for blessing me!
This is so exciting to be a part of your dreams come true! Thanks for sharing with us! Have fun with all your kids home & loving life. My blessings to all 🤗💕🇨🇦
You deserve every good thing that can come your way. Congratulations.
I love you getting mushy in the garden! What an exciting thing! It’s so heart warming to watch your spouse’s dream come to fruition ❤️
I'm smiling. I can't help it,seeing your journey really makes me smile ☺️ 😊 ❤❤
my heart is singing with joy for your dreams to come true
God Bless you Jess. My heart is filled with happiness for you all. Dreams, hard work and prayer pays in abundance.
I am so happy for you two! Especially for Miah getting to build his dream house!! So very cool!!
Don't make me cry Jess, looking forward to Miah's dream come true, and please do share all with us, never enough ❤
Your joy is infectious- thank you!
Listening you talk about the ground plans of your home has me so excited, I just can't stand it. Lol! I'm so thrilled for you. I'm excited to watch it unfold.
You and Jeremiah need like a hallmark movie true story made about yalls early days of your relationship and finding eachother ❤😊 it would probably be a very good movie
🥰 Dandelions are a symbol of strength, determination, and the ability to overcome adversity. They are also a sign of soil in need of calcium and are a great source of vitamin C. Eat the weeds and carry on!
It blesses me to know that you have another dream coming true 🎉. I had one thing that happened for us this winter, I needed a pantry and we finally got to go shopping for one. Only to find that there's nothing worth spending SO much money on (in a box store) and still not meeting our needs . So we talked about making one from scratch. And I am so proud of my husband to not only MAKE a pantry, it really matches the whole kitchen cabinets. 🎉 I've waited for the pantry for over 5 years. And I am so happy!
I am so stinkin excited for you guys!!! I just know it’s gonna be awesome! Praise God! 🙌🏼
Keep following your dreams and keep sharing! We are all behind you and lifting you up. You are loved. ❤
Many of us are a bit jealous of your abundant life.But then we look at your soul and know this is a blessing from God to whom you trust. May you both have a smooth project building this dream house. It will be filled with so much love, it will glow from within. I am truely happy for you.
Exciting!! Happy for you!
So happy for you guys!
I’ve always been happy for others when things are going well in their lives, regardless of my own circumstances. I never understood why others boopoo you when you are enjoying a success and happiness. To me, that’s plain selfishness. I experienced it when I bought my first house many years ago. 😔 It brings me joy to watch and hear the joy overflowing from your heart, Jess, as you share your successes and impending dreams coming to fruition. God bless 🙂❤
Beautiful just beautiful!
So happy for you and your dreams coming true. You should never have to hide good things - dreams don’t just come true without a lot of hard work and sacrifice. The joy you bring to so many is such a blessing! I pray that you continue to be abundantly blessed, too!
I’m so excited for you guys!!
I noticed you have 614 thousand subscribers now. I've been watching for quiet a few years now. I remember when you got 100 thousand subscribers & you were so excited...Look at how you have prospered!!! I will continue watching because I love your content on both your u tube blogs!!! I Bless the Sowards. ❤❤
I LOVE IT that your dream of the house is going to come true soon!!! Love your channel and watching the dreams come true over the years!
Enjoyed the video 😊
It is so amazing that you protect those around you to that degree. It's his dream. It reminds me of an article I once read. I don't know who wrote it but it was called "Marriage isn't for me." I'm sure it was on a website or in a magazine somewhere and it showed a newlywed couple in a picture but was written from the groom's perspective. It was a form of clickbait. LOL The story was magnificently written and the whole premise was that he realized that his job was to make this marriage for her. Equally as vital, his new Bride must make the marriage about him. When you look at any relationship that you have not being "for you," it simply thrives. That story shaped my heart that day. It has been the way I've tried to think about everyone I interact with. On any level. You and Jeremiah have that.
I love seeing people's dreams come true. It's encouraging to me. I have crazy dreams too, so I like seeing it happen for others.
I am so absolutely happy for you both. Another dream come true.
❤…so EXCITING 😊
I'm so excited for THE HOUSE!!!! 🎉