Check out my TED Talk titled, “An Autistic Genius Discusses How Differences Make Us Special” It's been viewed on KZread now by over 90,000 people and I hope you'll be someone who gains something incredibly valuable from it as well! kzread.info/dash/bejne/m3qntMSGqNOelNo.html

Don't forget that this world is full of genuine impostors who think they have impostor syndrome.

@jefferyford5309

6 жыл бұрын

Thanks, Jacek. Those wannabe impostors are famous for fakin' the funk wherever they go. They give us true impostors a bad name!

Paul Cooijmans has developed a view on creativity (and genius, its high end) as a synergy of intelligence, conscientiousness, and associative horizon. The last two thereof are typical of Asperger syndrome, be it not necessarily in all cases where conscientiousness is concerned. This means that the minority of persons with Asperger who in addition have high intelligence are likely to become geniuses, or at least creative.

@jefferyford5309

7 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the info. Sounds interesting and worth looking into. Much appreciated.

Golly that hit home. Imposter Syndrome. Thank you for explaining it. I have lived with this effect not ever knowing others experienced it too. I have always second guessed my Gift. Perhaps now I won’t so often. Best Regards.

@jefferyford5309

5 жыл бұрын

Best regards to you as well. Happy 2019!

I had imposter syndrome for most of my life. My father was a PhD in biochemistry and my brother is a PhD in biophysics. I don't know to this day whether I was much better in science than I imagined myself to be or whether I just didn't like it as much as I thought I should have, but I decided not to be a scientist and became a lawyer instead. I always thought that I had an above average IQ, but only slightly above average. I had the classic symptom of imposter syndrome. I always thought that if I could do something, almost any one could do it. It took me a long time to realize that was not the case. I can do things that most other people can not do. And my IQ turned out to be in the top 2 percent when I finally had the nerve to take an IQ test when I was well into my 50's (I will be 70 later this year). And I found out from other professionals who are good friends of mine, that they have imposter syndrome as well. We have all joked about it for years. One is an MD, an anesthesiologist/addictionologist, and another is a Captain for a major airline. We all have joked many times about how we got to where we are and that there had to be lots of clueless people that we duped. But obviously that was not the case. We were all far more capable than we ever thought we were. I would like to share with you a valuable lesson I learned about imposter syndrome, and have actually got my pilot friend to accept as well. When you think you are average and you are not, then you have a real tendency to think that other people can do what looks easy to you, when for them it is not easy at all. It is very easy to have expectations of other people that are not realistic. And you have to guard against thinking that these people are lazy or have some kind of moral failure. Enjoyed both your videos on the Denning Kruger effect and on Imposter syndrome.

@zeynand4039

3 жыл бұрын

Maybe a bit more anxiety. personality trait test might help you understand yourself. a bit above average iq makes people more likely to be succesful in life.

This is the first I've heard of this being a common state of mind. When you mentioned Tom Hanks it occurred to me that genuine humility is often embodied in his performance. Thanks for talking about about this.

Thank you Jeffrey! You're really empowering people :-)

@jefferyford5309

7 жыл бұрын

Thank you! I'm trying to make a difference in people's lives and help them to feel better about themselves. Too much marginalization of people with strengths and far too little acceptance of people who possess the power to change the world for the better.

I can relate. I am playing guitar for more than 30 years, yet, when people asked wether I am any good at it, I would be very moderate in my answer. Later on I wondered... If I play for 30 years ... really, I am pretty good at it. So now I am comfortable saying it, eventually.

@jefferyford5309

7 жыл бұрын

It's interesting how we are supposed to downplay our talents in much of "polite" society in order to appear humble ... as well as genuinely seeing the faults that make us less than perfect. I wonder if Mozart ever listened to a symphony of his later and thought, "I should have added this or less of that." I'm guessing he, painters, musicians and anyone who is self aware has thought/felt that way from time to time. Thanks for your response!

I am a member of the Triple Nine Society. I have graduate degrees from Johns Hopkins University (M.S. IT & Telecom Systems) and Stanford University (M.A. Political Science). I am a Program Manager, Principal at a nationally known systems engineering consulting firm. And I too suffer from impostor syndrome.

@jefferyford5309

3 ай бұрын

I'm not surprised and congratulations on carving out such an accomplished life. Have you noticed that so many people have a false perception of even what intelligence basically entails even in our groups? I've largely stopped trying to discuss it with people. It's not even that tough of a concept but even in the TNS I've seen that argument take place far too many times and it simply bores me now. People use the same old arguments over and over again (on many issues) and believe they are having an intellectual conversation with one another without offering much (if any) of their own unique thoughts). I'm not as active nowadays in these groups simply because I'd rather follow my own path and don't require or even desire too much input or the approval of the tribe. I'd rather have peace, enjoy nature, and simply enjoy truly being me. I hope you're enjoying your journey. Be well.

@scottjackson163

3 ай бұрын

@@jefferyford5309 I thank you for taking the time to respond to me in such a nuanced way. Quite honestly, I haven’t spent much time learning what people in the various high/ultra-high IQ groups think, about anything. I’ve scanned enough TNS Facebook comments to know that many members spend an inordinate amount of time arguing about matters that are of little interest to me. I’m confident that the majority of these people are civil human beings outside of the forums, but I decline the “opportunity” to be pulled into internecine bickering about group governance. Regarding imposter syndrome, I try my my best to respect my abilities without making too much of them. I congratulate you on being an excellent ambassador for profound giftedness!

Nice work, Jeffery! I like it, especially the "fake it til you make it" part.

@jefferyford5309

7 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Brian! I think we all have had to do that many times throughout our lives. "No, I'm not lost," and keep right on driving. Eventually you'll get there! That's slightly better than using the old joke, "The bad news is we're lost - the good news is that we're making good time!"

@BRIAN-eq9op

7 жыл бұрын

You sure are pragmatic and honest, Jeff. I see the value in that statement. Eventually, I will get there, for sure. No excuses or qualifications..I am learning from you. I need to hear your video about creating a comfort space, I think you mentioned? A place to relax and think and so on.

@jefferyford5309

7 жыл бұрын

I believe that is included in my Genius & Easily Raising Your IQ video. My next one will be out by Monday or Tuesday at the latest and it's full of tips on how to live a successful life in a variety of ways. Thanks for watching my videos and providing me with valuable feedback. Your comments are much appreciated!

@joeblanco2652

5 жыл бұрын

Why? are you a fake? how about this guy fakes he is brad pitt. it's a moot point. no one can fake something until the point of a consciousness arrival.. he only said it for middle-class people to like his video. And create an Affinity with the group. for his reality to stick.......... you shouldn't like that.. just be who you want and if you resonate with that awesome.

Thank you Jeffery!

@jefferyford5309

6 жыл бұрын

You're very welcome and thank you for your feedback!

Great topic for a video! Keep up the good work.

@jefferyford5309

7 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Paul. Impostor Syndrome has interested me ever since I learned about it. All of these things help to give clarity to ones life and/or the lives of others.

@alexrusa1033

3 жыл бұрын

@@jefferyford5309 How do you know someone has impostor syndrome?

Cool video! I'm curious to hear your take on popular issues people are concerned about, as genius. It would also be cool to hear just your normal life experiences. Such as dealing with people at work, or the dating world. Anything you say would probably be of some interest to me and many other people. PEACE!

@jefferyford5309

7 жыл бұрын

Thanks Galen. My next video is on rapport skills which touch on both peoples personal and professional lives. Will also be doing more along that line coming up soon. PEACE!

Your channel is growing day y day

@jefferyford5309

7 жыл бұрын

Yes, thanks to good people like you who are watching my videos. Thank you!

If I am in 16 high IQ societies, I think I will be quite immune to the impostor syndrome. But the me right now is more worried about contracting the exact opposite of impostor syndrome.

There also geniuses without accomplishment only claiming there are brilliant.

@jefferyford5309

2 жыл бұрын

Einstein, Tesla and every other genius were once geniuses without any publicly known accomplishments. That didn't make them any less of a genius. You are not a genius because you accomplished something the world would deem as genius ... you can accomplish those things because you already are a genius.

So on point in this vid!

@jefferyford5309

6 жыл бұрын

Thank you very much!

It doesn’t make sense to me the “keep moving forward” why? No one cares anyways especially if your talents don’t lie in harvesting devices or shooting rockets up to the moon we’re all gonna die and all that everything is boring. I feel like I’m missing something essential in my brain that everyone else has. I think it’s some sort of drive to do anything. Can you help me with that? No one can. I touch things and let them down one second later. It’s exhausting to be in this state, I also wasn’t really raised. Can you please help me with that? How do I raise myself at 25 when all the processes are done. All I have is biohacking but I don’t see results (fast enough). I would love some help because I try to be a good human being but no one told me things as a kid. All I have is self doubt and struggles. I can’t be in this state any longer. Please, you rarely get the chance to talk to someone with an iq over the 99. Percent thing. Please 🙏🏻 I try to do everything on my own but I’m burnt out and at my wits end. I’m thinking about killing myself on the regular (small lol)

Wait. You're saying that these individuals believe they are pretending to be better than they truly are? Using luck as an excuse? I will explore this further, thank you Jeffery, you may have just assisted me in discovering yet another one of my adults (Not being scarcastic, I am grateful).

@alexksksepko1524

5 жыл бұрын

It's funny, whenever people asked me how I figured it out or got that much of a score, I said the same things; I just got lucky, I just guessed.

What are your thoughts on albert einstein? I used to follow that kind of genius till about 22, I'm 23 but one day when I was reading about them, their quotes... I discovered new life pathways, those geniuses helped me see the reality... And since that readings suddenly I stopped following them forever. I wonder why. So Yeah I have new things to do... I WISH ONE DAY I WILL HAVE REAL FRIENDS LIKE me. But helpful

@jefferyford5309

3 жыл бұрын

Alex, sometimes I enjoy delving into various learnings and philosophies and then after I have attained what I needed ... I move on to other things. That's natural. Enjoy being a collection of all you are and embrace the journey(s) you choose for yourself. All My Best!

YES! Mr.Ford!!!

@jefferyford5309

3 жыл бұрын

YES is a powerful word that opens many doors. Thank you for empowering and brightening my day!

Mike Tyson has impostor syndrome.

This gave me anxiety not gonna lie

With much respect I think your videos would be much better if you didn't begin everyone with your credentials. It is likely more effective to start with a conclusive zinger of what you are going to show, share or explore. That enrolls people early.

How did you notice you were a genius?

@jefferyford5309

7 жыл бұрын

Strangely enough, I was ridiculed/bullied so much as a small child and teenager that when a co-worker suggested that I should have an IQ exam because he thought I had a high IQ, I thought he was making fun of me! Just like many other people with high IQs I minimized my strengths and exaggerated my shortcomings. I'll always be thankful for him because if it wasn't for his suggestion I would be living a much different, less purposeful life. People change people.

@nubianpwr

7 жыл бұрын

How similar our childhood experiences are Jeffrey. Though one wouldn't think it, as I grew up in a west side Chicago ghetto. I too was labeled "gifted" very early, but had a parent who refused to allow me to be sent to a school for the gifted. I was subsequently beaten, ridiculed etc., etc., until I became a pseudo bona fide "thug". I survived and eked out a rather comfortable living in the high-tech sector. In your words, I see a common brotherhood... peaceful

@jefferyford5309

7 жыл бұрын

I'm glad you found your way ... many of us don't and struggle all of our lives. May you continue to grow and become fully you - it's a lifetime project no matter who you are! All my best to you.

I think the word "genius" is horribly overused. To think that genius is merely a high IQ score, cheapens the word. I think you have to earn it. Not just spout intellectually sounding bull crap, but real accomplishment in whatever field. I had friends who I considered real geniuses in one field, but were tortured by the unrequited temptation to go in another direction they were not as good at. I knew a genius artist waste years of his life trying to write an epic cycle of novels, which he never finished and weren't very good anyway. Also an inspired writer who pined to be a rock star, and flopped badly. I guess we can't all be renaissance men.

The impact is far, far worse for women...