Super helpful. I had a little breakthrough. I work from home a lot and when it's sunny and beautiful out, I think, "you should go outside." And then I think, "Well, you have to get dressed first and put on warm clothes, you should finish this work thing first, and put a load of laundry in, AND if you go out you might as well go for a walk and exercise because you need to exercise at least 30 minutes a day and you don't so..." And then I'm overwhelmed and frustrated. But my break through was that I only need to respond to going outside. Just go outside. For one second, in my pj's. That's it. And satisfaction will follow. Thanks so much for sharing!

@TheLaIvana

4 ай бұрын

Oh I love this! Thank you for sharing your little breakthrough :) I'm so glad you found it helpful! Exactly, it's in the moment responding to your external reality (sunny weather in this case). Our mind can easily talk us out of everything haha

@applejackzo

19 күн бұрын

This I can 100% relate to

Hi, fellow Scorpion! I was drawn to your video, among many others, and I'm glad I did. It just clicks me so much, and I feel like hearing from an old friend. Anyway, I'm new to HD, a sacral responding generator. Knowing that when I look back on my life, my body is already there if I like it without even realizing it. I feel zero resistance to the thing without even realizing it. I was always an "all or nothing" type and only thought it came from my astrology chart, MBTI and enneagram(funny, they all explain similar about me). But I found out I was already hearing my feeling and my feeling is either yes or no! And I also realized I become indecisive and blocked when I follow my logical reasoning telling myself the list of pros. Anyway, I'm double arise, taught to be a leader and achieve stuff. So idk how I can handle not initiating. Hope I can get help from your channel. plz keep uploading more!!XD

Something has to be very important and part of my grand plan in order for me to initiate, especially so since I have sources of debilitating pain remaining that constantly try to knock me down - and why responding while being in routine doing habits is what's most accessible to me. Once I get into stream of consciousness writing where there are no decisions to think about is when I'm in a flow state and feel most at ease, in a sense I'm responding to my just prior thoughts. My body unfortunately hasn't been so accessible for me to ground in and be in a grounded flow state - my mind being my primary coping mechanism this past decade or so while I've problem solved and healed - though I had low back surgery a week ago, an artificial disc implanted between L5-S1. And so I'm still adjusting to how my boundaries of existence and function are newly expanding; I have more procedures to try to see if I can knock out the majority of the remaining pain. It also sounds like you might be more of a sapiosexual if good conversation/banter tilts the scale for you.

This explains the response thing very clearly

@TheLaIvana

4 ай бұрын

Awesome! Glad to hear that :)

In the movie "Joe vs. the Volcano" Meg Ryan's character replies several times, "I have no response to that...." That has always stuck with me and I use it occasionally causing people to laugh. Maybe we do need to adopt it though.

@TheLaIvana

4 ай бұрын

Hahah love it! It fits perfectly :)

Very good topic reponded to many questions and makes a lot of sense about listening to my body when taking decisions. Thank you ❤

@TheLaIvana

4 ай бұрын

So glad you found it helpful, Lorela!

Your microphone technique is effective, the audio is solid, really connects us like you're here in conversation with me, thx!

Thank you so much I love how you explain it in a simple way 💚🙏

@TheLaIvana

4 ай бұрын

Thank you, Asma! So glad to hear that :)

thank you for mapping this out for us!! 🙏

@TheLaIvana

4 ай бұрын

My absolute pleasure :)

You're hypnotizing

I always felt I always had to initiate. So you mean that when you initiate, you are actually ignoring the energies in the present moment? Because I usually interpret "responding" as being passive.

@User-19273

23 күн бұрын

I used the same word "passive" when I first heard the term in HD. Now, I understand responding is to receive. And it's actually better to receive. It just comes to you when it matches your energy. There is a lot in common with LOA. In LOA, they use the word "manifestation". This "LOA manifestation" and "HD responding" are the same concept. At the end of the day, you and I initiate something to manifest your ideas and dreams, right? But in my experience, most of the time I initiated was in a situation I felt anxious about something like "I have to do this to do something" or "I have to do this because I want to be better" (fear-based). Most of my big achievements just came to me just like magic without me initiating them. No hard work, no resistance. I hope this gives you anything to think.