Gangster Meets A Feminine Gay Man | Dates with Straights

A straight man and a gay dude go on a date.
Frank wanted to become a gangster growing up, so picnicking with a gay man for him, is completely out of the ordinary. He shares some Spanish slang with David, and the conversation shifts when he reflects on how his dad would have reacted if he were to come out as gay in the past.
About Dates with Straights:
Two men, one gay and one straight come together for a fun and platonic date. From painting rocks to sharing heartfelt personal stories, this series shows the adorkable bond found in gay-straight friendships.
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  • @KnowTrentTimoy
    @KnowTrentTimoy28 күн бұрын

    Gangster: "A lot more guys are closeted than we know..." Great observation.

  • @daigle2007

    @daigle2007

    24 күн бұрын

    Facts

  • @tuamusicfiji

    @tuamusicfiji

    21 күн бұрын

    Hmmmm 😊😅

  • @mayena

    @mayena

    20 күн бұрын

    But in Spain many men are quite physical intimate to each other in a mainly non sexual way.

  • @TheCasualRealtor

    @TheCasualRealtor

    13 күн бұрын

    I’ve heard that.i wasn’t sure it was true.

  • @zenafaye7183

    @zenafaye7183

    5 күн бұрын

    Yes, and most of them will gravitate towards gangs and other hyper masculine circles as a smoke screen. I've seen it personally more than once.

  • @brendanawesomeness
    @brendanawesomenessАй бұрын

    I hate when people justify sh*t because it’s part of someone’s “culture.” Not letting your son hug his male friends is WILD

  • @pedromendesrbd

    @pedromendesrbd

    Ай бұрын

    my grandfather used to be like this with my cousin and his male friends... and he would come to me and confess his worries... little did he know that the gay guy was actually me hahahahaha

  • @JoMaSaOfficial

    @JoMaSaOfficial

    Ай бұрын

    @@pedromendesrbdand probably your grandfather too with all due respect specially back then.

  • @BowserStrange

    @BowserStrange

    Ай бұрын

    @@JoMaSaOfficialFetishes are hereditary. Someone was definitely an old Prairie dog.😂

  • @whoevr

    @whoevr

    Ай бұрын

    @@BowserStrangewhat does that mean 💀

  • @lfvc9682

    @lfvc9682

    Ай бұрын

    Mexican here, I think he didnt mean it like that, imo he meant that in our contry/culture its expected to be against LGBT movements bc of our history, but in the most mayority, parents are supportive of their queer children.

  • @markalexander3659
    @markalexander365929 күн бұрын

    I love how he was GENUINELY very open and accepting.

  • @CalebR-zd5ql

    @CalebR-zd5ql

    22 күн бұрын

    Does he accept drag queens?

  • @annafink2245
    @annafink2245Ай бұрын

    I love how open minded and secure Frank is.

  • @eduardochavacano

    @eduardochavacano

    Ай бұрын

    i dated dozens of that species without knowing i was on a date. Western people have a different concept of dating. Well it may be the same in my multiverse, i was just naive. But yes, those men exist. Avoid the Dutch variety at all cost.

  • @Cjvogue

    @Cjvogue

    29 күн бұрын

    @@eduardochavacanohoney nobody wants those men or you

  • @pngn2228

    @pngn2228

    28 күн бұрын

    @@eduardochavacano What did the dutch do to you man

  • @CalebR-zd5ql

    @CalebR-zd5ql

    22 күн бұрын

    You don’t know Frank. He could be close minded. Does he accept drag queens?

  • @eduardochavacano

    @eduardochavacano

    20 күн бұрын

    @@pngn2228 I'd make a video about it. Well, I did. But it was too edgy for the masses and was removed. But no, I said that with humor. I hope humor is still allowed in free spaces.

  • @Iggysluckytonite
    @IggysluckytoniteАй бұрын

    "yeah I feel like this is something u do regularly" the SHADE. Those str8 boiz b the shadiest queens sometimes.

  • @wzwzwz

    @wzwzwz

    Ай бұрын

    They're the sassiest queens imho

  • @Stephanie-007

    @Stephanie-007

    24 күн бұрын

    The zestiest.

  • @kingjustinv01

    @kingjustinv01

    17 күн бұрын

    Literally lmaooo

  • @CriticalBeautySalon
    @CriticalBeautySalon24 күн бұрын

    If your face is Asian, if your last name is Spanish and if you speak English, you’re obviously Filipino. 😂

  • @yordan826

    @yordan826

    24 күн бұрын

    I attest to that I interact everyday with tons of phillipinos, I have a lot of great phillipino friends.

  • @KenoImperial

    @KenoImperial

    17 күн бұрын

    @@yordan826 correction: Filipinos*

  • @eTatsh

    @eTatsh

    2 күн бұрын

    Wait… you just described me !!! 😂😂😂

  • @Sblueboy808
    @Sblueboy808Ай бұрын

    Damn the gangster guy is fine!!

  • @elonzohendrix1766

    @elonzohendrix1766

    Ай бұрын

    He sure is 🔥😜

  • @ChristianAnderson

    @ChristianAnderson

    Ай бұрын

    Hell yeah

  • @MisterWhatWhat

    @MisterWhatWhat

    Ай бұрын

    IKR? First time on this channel and was hoping he was gay :(

  • @kennethwilliams3182

    @kennethwilliams3182

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@MisterWhatWhat on the dl

  • @toby43078

    @toby43078

    Ай бұрын

    He's a big ole gay...

  • @davidparkes3701
    @davidparkes3701Ай бұрын

    Blowing bubbles can be therapeutic

  • @justacrybaby4298

    @justacrybaby4298

    Ай бұрын

    Especially for bubbles

  • @_Just_Another_Guy

    @_Just_Another_Guy

    28 күн бұрын

    I thought the way he said it that it was a euphemism 😂

  • @user-ll7il3wx7b
    @user-ll7il3wx7bАй бұрын

    They're both pretty cool people to be friends with

  • @-------------------DD

    @-------------------DD

    Ай бұрын

    I agree. I feel that too

  • @yourcockisdirty

    @yourcockisdirty

    Ай бұрын

    not really

  • @Pinananas
    @PinananasАй бұрын

    "when's the last time you blew bubbles ?" "last week" "yeahh i feel like thats what you do regularly" miss thing already know about reading i see

  • @tropiclush89

    @tropiclush89

    Ай бұрын

    No one is shadier than a straight dude. They are hilarious.

  • @Jason-ml3vs

    @Jason-ml3vs

    20 күн бұрын

    Nobody can drag a queen like a straight boy. There’s just something that goes to the root of your soul when I cute straight guy snatched your wig, usually without even meaning to, and THAT is what makes it some devastating. Lol

  • @CuzmicTarot

    @CuzmicTarot

    13 күн бұрын

    Hellllllp 😂😂😂

  • @wqross
    @wqross23 күн бұрын

    “You already seem too far gone”. I’m not even a minute in yet. 💀

  • @notsparks
    @notsparksАй бұрын

    I like this. Finding common ground and learning about each other through uncomfortable humor

  • @MRJLS15
    @MRJLS15Ай бұрын

    I appreciate how open he is and more this was a great 😊conversation

  • @surgery-tm4ln
    @surgery-tm4lnАй бұрын

    oh lord these interviews are my kink

  • @dateswithstraights

    @dateswithstraights

    Ай бұрын

    LOOOOL brb making this my lockscreen wallpaper -D

  • @we8608

    @we8608

    24 күн бұрын

    Bwah haa hAaaa😂❤😂❤

  • @luketheduke626

    @luketheduke626

    8 күн бұрын

    It's giving every relationship I ever been in😭😭

  • @brydcsd
    @brydcsdАй бұрын

    I love their conversation. so chill and mature. Frank is like a go-to confidant, a true friend and no prejudice.

  • @sepumomas
    @sepumomasАй бұрын

    Love educating str8 folk about us and how much we’ve alike with the exception of our sexual preference! We’re humans too! All we want is to love and be loved 🥰

  • @bimbam9603
    @bimbam9603Ай бұрын

    They blew bubbles, I'm dying!!! 😂😂😂

  • @josesabat1710
    @josesabat1710Ай бұрын

    The straight latino is cute and has a great sense of humor ❤😀

  • @LaughOLott
    @LaughOLott20 күн бұрын

    omg the straight guy reminds me of a straight guy I fooled around with 👀👀 he's super down to earth and chill too.

  • @lavonnealexander6936

    @lavonnealexander6936

    13 күн бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @texaspineywoods3879
    @texaspineywoods387925 күн бұрын

    I like to imagine that they’ll keep in touch and have a lasting brotherly friendship.

  • @thisjustin95
    @thisjustin95Ай бұрын

    this channel is gonna be big. Truly great idea!

  • @brydcsd
    @brydcsdАй бұрын

    the fun fact on Frank: higher than the Eiffel Tower 😂😂😂

  • @blairterry2
    @blairterry2Ай бұрын

    These guys are so laid back and cool.

  • @nkt.11
    @nkt.11Ай бұрын

    quite an interesting concept here 😭😭

  • @KYLETISZAI

    @KYLETISZAI

    Ай бұрын

    It's literally a perfect concept

  • @Dre33-23

    @Dre33-23

    29 күн бұрын

    As a gay man, I agree 😭. I ain’t even gon say nun tho lmao

  • @pdxfun4888
    @pdxfun488820 күн бұрын

    What a lovely clip. Both are respectful and chill. Its really about they’re both authentic and the gangster is secure and confident in his masculinity. Only sus guys have an emotional dramatic reaction to seeing or being flirted with. This is how grown people interact. Good job

  • @LaShawnMcGeeJr
    @LaShawnMcGeeJrАй бұрын

    Why do I feel like this channel should have blown up immediately cause watching this I thought this was a million views channel. Glad I’m here at the beginning

  • @AA-rq9yz
    @AA-rq9yzАй бұрын

    This was actually more wholesome than expected (from the title) x good video ❤

  • @FrozenRemix1
    @FrozenRemix122 күн бұрын

    The straight dude is a cutie. I like his “laidback attitude”.

  • @Henradley
    @HenradleyАй бұрын

    80s and 90s Mexican dads were something else. Mine didnt let me hug or hold other boys hands. Even while crossing the street in grade school he yelled at me for holding my friend's hand.

  • @lavonnealexander6936

    @lavonnealexander6936

    13 күн бұрын

    Wtf that’s crazy

  • @mrxman581
    @mrxman581Ай бұрын

    Very cool idea. I like it. Thanks

  • @GM-qq1wi
    @GM-qq1wiАй бұрын

    This is a million dollar premise. Keep it up.

  • @mattb6704
    @mattb670428 күн бұрын

    There needs to be more of these it’s a really good concept and brings people together :-)

  • @aSjksk
    @aSjksk19 күн бұрын

    The stra8 guys effortlessly exude a cool, collected demeanor in front of the cameras. Yet, in their absence, his day would simply be ordinary.

  • @mondoleon1471
    @mondoleon1471Ай бұрын

    the straight guy is hot … i love him ..

  • @weskitten

    @weskitten

    23 күн бұрын

    Fancy a date?

  • @ItsMe-so4nd
    @ItsMe-so4ndАй бұрын

    The straight guy is cute, but why does this date seemed like it has greeen screen vibes.

  • @rica2k5

    @rica2k5

    Ай бұрын

    when they switch on the str8 dude camera pov he got a blur filter on the background

  • @troycastle5640
    @troycastle5640Ай бұрын

    He's cute tho!!!

  • @m_ksuti
    @m_ksutiАй бұрын

    Love the cute animal shots in between. Keep it up!

  • @user-gy3mr2zv2f
    @user-gy3mr2zv2fАй бұрын

    so cute and genuine

  • @erickpty
    @erickpty28 күн бұрын

    Any straight dude who knows what he is and likes would not feel uncomfortable under this situation . Even if he won't be a part of it, he will just leave.

  • @JoMaSaOfficial
    @JoMaSaOfficialАй бұрын

    More please this is an amazing topic and a beautiful conversation 👏🏽 love the honesty

  • @BrandonCiCi
    @BrandonCiCiАй бұрын

    I like this idea for a channel. Good job 👍 it will be really good when you get the hang of it and the videos become longer. Keep it going tho and best of luck! *Subscribed* ❤

  • @johnfernandez2060
    @johnfernandez206017 күн бұрын

    Trying to explain “aguas con este guey” 😂😂 working with Mexicans is always fun they have the best gay jokes

  • @klp1009
    @klp100925 күн бұрын

    This is such a cool concept! I thoroughly enjoyed watching this video. I wish the best for both of these guys.

  • @TehxHope
    @TehxHope16 күн бұрын

    Wish these videos were longer. Interesting conversations and all the guys are so chill

  • @jeremielowe1723
    @jeremielowe172321 күн бұрын

    We want more lol ❤ these videos are everything. Went on a massive binge right now

  • @mikeortiz4142
    @mikeortiz414223 күн бұрын

    I love this whole concept! Great content!

  • @jimmyisherenow
    @jimmyisherenowАй бұрын

    So cute and I want his shirt!

  • @michaelgask
    @michaelgask27 күн бұрын

    Love these two together. Would love to go on a date with them and just chat about what we have in common and what we find that's different. Such open respect. Thanks for this video.

  • @jav9069
    @jav906929 күн бұрын

    Watch a Mexican novela from the 90s, 00s, 10s, and now 20s lots of straight men who are acting as friends are hugging!

  • @Yanneek_
    @Yanneek_Ай бұрын

    More of this!!! Top tier content!

  • @Dimi374
    @Dimi37422 күн бұрын

    Great interview!! More people like him in this world please!

  • @user-tf9fc6bo9s
    @user-tf9fc6bo9s28 күн бұрын

    Damn I just can't stop watching this video he's really respectful n understanding much love

  • @joeyq9953
    @joeyq9953Ай бұрын

    That Hispanic guy is so cute

  • @Cjvogue

    @Cjvogue

    29 күн бұрын

    He looks like the rest of the Mexican man so maybe you rite

  • @cecegiles7753

    @cecegiles7753

    29 күн бұрын

    ​@@CjvogueSome are not cute though.

  • @williankran5082

    @williankran5082

    28 күн бұрын

    @@Cjvogue To me they doesn't look like him.

  • @alleexoo

    @alleexoo

    24 күн бұрын

    @@cecegiles7753that’s your opinion but anyways

  • @BlackberryTitties
    @BlackberryTitties20 күн бұрын

    He had a great time blowing those bubbles! 🫧 Super funny!!! 😂😂

  • @christopherwinberg3058
    @christopherwinberg305825 күн бұрын

    Very good, open communication. I wish the masculine straight guy liked guys, but I’m happy he is open to gays. As a gay man who is a bottom, it’s hard to find a straight acting masculine gay man for a husband.

  • @LesVierge
    @LesVierge28 күн бұрын

    May we always love and protect these two fabulous humans! And particularly we love the cool mexican guy, cause hes not being a judgemental character. Love that! 💕

  • @TKubiak
    @TKubiakАй бұрын

    I really like the concept! You should ask someone what 'vers' is.

  • @dateswithstraights

    @dateswithstraights

    Ай бұрын

    oooo i definitely will and thank youuu! -D

  • @user-tg5vs1xz5x

    @user-tg5vs1xz5x

    Ай бұрын

    Vers is versatile.. ​@@dateswithstraights

  • @devilofgreed760
    @devilofgreed760Ай бұрын

    DAVID IS THAT YOU?! WE WERE BESTIES IN ELEMENTARY! THIS IS CRAZY😂❤

  • @Tyke3
    @Tyke325 күн бұрын

    This Is Actually Brilliant!!! I Love It💙

  • @user-de5dk7bs7x
    @user-de5dk7bs7x22 күн бұрын

    Your videos are so relaxing

  • @eduardochavacano
    @eduardochavacanoАй бұрын

    i dated dozens of straight men, not knowing it was a date. Until, some gay dude from the West, ask why the hell do you date straight guys. So I ask the guys if it was a date and they all said yes it was. They laugh and said it is okay, I'm an alien from some other continent.

  • @cecegiles7753

    @cecegiles7753

    29 күн бұрын

    Straight guys don't date gay guys.😅😊😅.

  • @shahjmir
    @shahjmirАй бұрын

    Cool video, awesome perspectives

  • @sarcocytsi25
    @sarcocytsi25Ай бұрын

    This is fucking hilarious and cute. Keep it up! Just subscribed.

  • @kevinhowe6307
    @kevinhowe630723 күн бұрын

    This is hilarious!! I love it!

  • @karl_ambagan
    @karl_ambaganАй бұрын

    Why am I dying with each episode? I’m loving it too much. Hahaha

  • @anything5247
    @anything5247Ай бұрын

    that was really funny when they blew bubbles.

  • @deolihp
    @deolihp18 күн бұрын

    David is so chill and level headed

  • @LaLimen0s
    @LaLimen0s20 күн бұрын

    "Hey watch where you aim that thing alright?" 😂😂😂

  • @michaelwilliams6740
    @michaelwilliams67402 күн бұрын

    I really like this. The straight dude seems really easy to talk to.

  • @oscarlarios5466
    @oscarlarios5466Ай бұрын

    Why is he so 😍

  • @emanuelcarvalho8510
    @emanuelcarvalho8510Ай бұрын

    the bubbles part got me hahahahaha

  • @HSfox
    @HSfoxАй бұрын

    This is so adorable 😊😊☺️

  • @rickkijohns1408
    @rickkijohns14089 күн бұрын

    Though this was an interview, I was definitely sensing some vibes between the both of them.🤩

  • @colewilliams6623
    @colewilliams662329 күн бұрын

    OK, since no one is asking, what are these chips that has the straight dude laughing so much?

  • @enriquej1593

    @enriquej1593

    26 күн бұрын

    Verga chips ==🍆 chips. Lololol.

  • @LeeMubai33

    @LeeMubai33

    25 күн бұрын

    "verga" is basically a slang term for dick 😂

  • @anenemyanemone4923

    @anenemyanemone4923

    24 күн бұрын

    They called them "vеrga chips". "Vеrga" means "diсk".

  • @colewilliams6623

    @colewilliams6623

    24 күн бұрын

    @@anenemyanemone4923 OHHHHH! LOL!

  • @deebzeal8204
    @deebzeal820429 күн бұрын

    Now I wish Imma gangsta. lol Great convo btw!

  • @jam33l97
    @jam33l9716 күн бұрын

    I really enjoyed this video

  • @deepbluehue3
    @deepbluehue318 күн бұрын

    I'm enjoying these interchanges in thoughts ... Unless a person knows someone that's not like themself in thier own ' bubble ' of acquaintences , ... this sort of ' just curious ' sharing isn't too common .

  • @user-tf9fc6bo9s
    @user-tf9fc6bo9s28 күн бұрын

    Yesssss yesssss yesssss yesssss I believe if men were more understanding and I just love the vibe he gives and much love and respect I loved this video

  • @djbusiness2010
    @djbusiness201025 күн бұрын

    This was entertaining lol I was wondering why this came on my timeline

  • @PD-wb6gx
    @PD-wb6gx20 күн бұрын

    The gangster is actually pretty cool. It seems like he has a hard exterior but he has a good heart. I wish I have non-judgmental friends like him.

  • @deanie2477
    @deanie247724 күн бұрын

    This is sweet. I wish the world had more peace and love ❤

  • @Angxlitoz
    @Angxlitoz12 күн бұрын

    if only there were more men like frank :) s such a vibe & good conversation

  • @TheDemetreous
    @TheDemetreous29 күн бұрын

    The show is a good idea. On the other hand, there are millions of masculine gay men that look and act like the 'gangster.' Thus the better episode would be to see how the 'gangster' would act with a masculine gay man. Hello! Please don't perpetuate the gay stereotypes.

  • @Jonases_20
    @Jonases_20Ай бұрын

    i wish the gangster guy was my bf

  • @gracioussunchild9877

    @gracioussunchild9877

    Ай бұрын

    You're okay with a man telling you that he tells supposedly straight men to be careful with you because you might molest or rape them? Interesting.

  • @killdamfdj

    @killdamfdj

    29 күн бұрын

    law of attraction it

  • @Jonases_20

    @Jonases_20

    29 күн бұрын

    @@killdamfdj how

  • @killdamfdj

    @killdamfdj

    27 күн бұрын

    @@Jonases_20 you gotta heavily believe that whatever man you want will come to you.

  • @killdamfdj

    @killdamfdj

    27 күн бұрын

    @@Jonases_20 its happened to me too many times but i was too coward to chase after them

  • @bootdeboot2138
    @bootdeboot2138Ай бұрын

    Thank you for ushering a new era of world peace, I can’t want to see what’s next ❤😊

  • @themarquis336
    @themarquis336Ай бұрын

    He’s so fucking hot 🤤

  • @KYLETISZAI

    @KYLETISZAI

    Ай бұрын

    Stoooop😂

  • @themarquis336

    @themarquis336

    Ай бұрын

    @@GwenchanaHabibi yeah you’re right, 32yo is barely legal…

  • @ji-sunlee
    @ji-sunlee29 күн бұрын

    The feminine guy looks and reminds me of Edward Avila. Except, Edward Avila is much much much more feminine, sassy, queenly and loud lol

  • @nameisamine

    @nameisamine

    28 күн бұрын

    I think Eddie would be mad you sad he and this guy look alike 😅

  • @jesiwashere
    @jesiwashere8 күн бұрын

    The random squirrel cuts gets me everytime 😂

  • @aaronbynum8968
    @aaronbynum89684 күн бұрын

    This shit is hilarious because it’s so unserious but serious at the same time 😂

  • @MODELBODYINTL
    @MODELBODYINTL29 күн бұрын

    I like him - they’re both cool and funny

  • @androz1023
    @androz102328 күн бұрын

    "aguas con este rey"....he lost me there lol

  • @claudiahernandez3415

    @claudiahernandez3415

    26 күн бұрын

    i guess the gangster was trying to say a funny joke to the gay guy

  • @mp-iw6kx
    @mp-iw6kx25 күн бұрын

    LoL.. Great interview 👍..

  • @julzstar928
    @julzstar92829 күн бұрын

    😂 Not shocked at "i was bi at one point" but shocked at ipod resesrch. 😂

  • @Sleeplesshokage
    @SleeplesshokageАй бұрын

    Definitely stick with verga chips 😂 perfect

  • @dinh5532
    @dinh5532Ай бұрын

    I love Frank, he's so genuine!

  • @blackdahliagirl_
    @blackdahliagirl_25 күн бұрын

    Why do I want to go on a date with “Papi Cholo” 🙈 😅 🙊

  • @mymalesecret
    @mymalesecret16 күн бұрын

    “You would research it on your iPod?” 😂

  • @rampagingshark
    @rampagingsharkАй бұрын

    Omg. My hometown is West Covina and that's the nice part of this area. La puente is dangerous yo!

  • @justinanthonycooks
    @justinanthonycooksАй бұрын

    2:22 HAHAHAHAHA IM DED💀🤣

  • @Ken-bj9uy
    @Ken-bj9uyАй бұрын

    The date is a really sweet and smart.