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Carl's new teeth, and Kyle's mullet, are beyond terrifying!

@AmyKamenick

2 ай бұрын

I kept trying to figure out what was different with Carl and that’s it. His new teeth age him - don’t like.

@HappySeaOtters-qx6gy

2 ай бұрын

His cosmetic dentist should not have a license to do that to anyone!

@Perfect10wChocolateskin

2 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂

why does lindsey think she can get with jesse like jesse hasn’t been VOCALLY team carl the whole summer

I will not be surprised if Kyle and Amanda divorce.

@darlingcrimson5813

2 ай бұрын

I personally think that they should! they are not the right fit. Amanda clearly wants a different type of man than the one she pursued, Kyle. I feel bad for Kyle. Amanda seems like a miserable women, if she is a women.

@vanessarodriguez7256

2 ай бұрын

I agree as well

@nojustkota

2 ай бұрын

I concur

@kelseywillow8110

2 ай бұрын

Yes but then again some people just have that dynamic, bickering and complaining… I wouldn’t want it. Some people would rather stay unhappy than to be lonely and start again. They invested too much time and energy to let it go and actually make changes to be happy. It doesn’t seem like a good match, they have different personalities and interests. For outsiders it’s a lot more easy to see it’s a puzzle that doesn’t seem to fit.

@Moisterthananoyster

2 ай бұрын

They thought their differences worked well together but they're both getting more and more miserable. Amanda deserves more, Kyle brings out the worst in her. And I don't blame her, Kyle is a geriatric manchild who needs to grow up. It's not cute anymore. I couldn't imagine acting like this at his big age

Kyle did not have to stay out till 4 am to bond with Carl's friends.

@NhiNguyen-oc6wm

2 ай бұрын

Kyle could also spend quality time with his wife instead of complaining about it

@abileneburics960

2 ай бұрын

Why does he need a curfew? He’s a grown man 🙄 if she doesn’t like it then say something, fix the problem or split. This whining is obnoxious.

@mariat6171

2 ай бұрын

@@abileneburics960 She says something all the time - he doesn't want to stop. Usually when people get married the partying all night ends.

@verleidelijk1

2 ай бұрын

Never marry someone then expect them to change. Recipe for disaster

@kelseywillow8110

2 ай бұрын

She’s just scared of him cheating, every time she wants him to stay home she reminds him of how she does not trust him.

They’re so incompatible! How the heck did they get married? 😅

Carl, Sobriety looks great on you. Your skin and eyes are so healthy and clear looking. I do appreciate the maturity and that you have been so open with your life, challenges and changes. You are strong. Thank you for showing an example on TV of some one who is loving themselves and doing what is right in respect of Life.

take it from one wife to another Amanda...if your significant other says they are lonely, BELIEVE THEM!! If he has the courage to say he's lonely, pick up the que...or you will be picking up the cheque alone, cause this relationship is gonna crash and burn. Just a tip.

@darlingcrimson5813

2 ай бұрын

Love it! Bang on! I am surprise she is so open about her less than nice attitude toward her husband. unless Kyle is doing horrible shit behind the scenes I just do not see the deserving of the treatment he gets from her. He is honest about his feelings while she seems to have no feelings whatsoever, other than just being miserable unless her girlfriends are around, even then she is not a happy person.

@user-wd3pg1xq2x

2 ай бұрын

Amen and I am 64 year's old

@user-wd3pg1xq2x

2 ай бұрын

Stop playing with your husband. Look out it will be a friend who takes your man. Wake up Amanda

@debbyvibbert3177

2 ай бұрын

I think she assumed by 40s his drunk frat boy days would end. After at dinner talking about Jesse flirting followed with his pushing West over cutting his face open. Enough Kyle grow up.

@laurac9857

2 ай бұрын

Yes!!

Like I said before I’m so ready for this reunion tbh I cannot wait

Carl and Kyle do not have the emotional maturity suited for adult relationships. People are going at Amanda for how she is acting, but considering they established that they wanted a family early on and Kyle is in his forties, you would think he would prioritise creating a family. He is holding Amanda back from what she wants in favour of what he wants, its so selfish.

@magzjay2458

2 ай бұрын

He is not holding her back from anything. Both are unhappy in this marriage and should move on from each other. They do not like each other and are lonely in their own home. They have different priorities and should find people that fit those priorities.

@LeaveAhNah

2 ай бұрын

CORRECT!!! I can’t believe what these people are saying about Amanda when Kyle is clearly a child who’s not ready for children, and she 100% is.

@joannegrieco8523

2 ай бұрын

Agreed 💯

Jesse is so funny, honestly good for this man. Surviving C is nearly unheard of, ❤.

Amanda does appear like she not only doesn't love Kyle, it appears as if she can't stand him. I understand the PTSD from his past cheating but she said it's 5 times a Year he stays out late. That's not a lot. I also get that Kyle is A Lot to handle but he's been that way since day one. She knew what she was marrying. To see HIM cry that he doesn't think she even likes him was kinda shocking. To hear him say he's lonely bc she doesn't talk to him was even more shocking. I just assumed they generally had a happy charmed relationship but seeing how she talks to him I understand why he felt that way. PS Kyle seems more Connecticut than New Jersey as far as a home. He's low key bougie.

@darlingcrimson5813

2 ай бұрын

Agreed. Amanda should be careful - the way she is treating him is tantamount to emotional abuse.

@kelseywillow8110

2 ай бұрын

Once the trust is broken you can’t heal it. And now she will hold it against him forever. It’s sad to see people stuck like that. She deserves to be mad about cheating but they are spiraling because she will be too hard on him (triggered)..he will react, she will react to his reaction. It’s a cycle.

@jcyensen1236

2 ай бұрын

What is she talking about that he Is out till 5 in the morning without her. You can't be married to a man who is out every night. Before she said he works all night so what is the truth? This is clearly marriage on the rocks and I understand having to face this is hard but it has to be done. This guys doesn't want marriage. He wants his freedom.

@hellogoodbye9916

2 ай бұрын

I agree with you. However, I just have one thing with how many people now saying they have PTSD. I know you’re referring to her words in the episode and if you also agree, totally respect that! It’s just these bravo stars constantly saying ‘PTSD’ about cheating, breakups, etc. seems beyond dramatic and disrespectful to the actual disorder. Most of us have trauma of some degree but I dunno, maybe I’m getting old and tried of hearing it in every single reality show. Talk to a SA survivor or war veteran (list goes on of course) about what that diagnosis really means, just my opinion.

@veronykacruz

2 ай бұрын

Kyle's actions make Amanda be the way to believe or not, is not only going out five times a year or until 5am is everything he does and says why because he seems to love her but not as much as he Loves to party or socializing and if he wants to be like that he has the choice to do it just let her go😢 hope Amanda doesn't continue to just wait for him when he's ready it will make her more bitter, now if he does all of this for the show is different

She says she can't go to sleep without him then she says she wants a home away from him. So which is it. And I think if girl friends stay out of her relationship she'd be better off.

@user-wd3pg1xq2x

2 ай бұрын

As a 64 year old woman and know a little something about marriage I was in one long enough. And can tell Amanda I had so called girlfriends putting my husband down and me over hearing them come on to them. Including a sister, or should I say a so called sister.

No offense Carl, but Kyle is married now. He doesn't accept it yet but his priority should be his wife, not you and your friends. That's marriage. If you don't want to do that, stay single.

@dre12345

2 ай бұрын

Being married doesn't mean your friends aren't a priority, that is ridiculous

@lisawatkins8801

2 ай бұрын

@@dre12345 If your wife gets distressed because you're out until 4 am, you come home at midnight. You can still hang with friends; just be considerate of the person you've promised to spend your life with.

@kelseywillow8110

2 ай бұрын

Marriage or prison? That’s wild

@Jw10395

2 ай бұрын

He went out to celebrate his friends marriage. Get over it😂

@mariat6171

2 ай бұрын

@@Jw10395 He stayed out to 4am without Carl - with Carl's friends who he just met.

Summer House is my FAVORITE on Bravo right now 💜🌴

I had NO IDEA that guys get a FAKE jewel if they have one removed????? You learn something new everyday 😳

My mouth dropped for a minute discussing Jesse's 🌰 😂 that's gold

To be fair, if it's really just 5 times a year, thats extremely minimal. He needs to just compromise and be back by 1 - 2.

I think Amanda loves Kyle but doesn’t like him.

Kyle needs to go sober for a little while at least. He has no filter when he drinks. Amanda is fed up of seeing him partying and getting drunk and then cheating. These two should have been like Carl and Lindsey by separating before getting married. Now they are too scared to get divorced.

I have NO IDEA how anyone could be married to Amanda. I WOULD LOSE MY MIND.

@darlingcrimson5813

2 ай бұрын

totally agree. She is a wet blanket - zero joy and a big bah hum bug!

Kyle and amanda are not working out as a married couple i mean kylle still likes to ho out and party like in his 20s and amanda still has a lot of issues with him before they got married maybe she thought of was we are married he will be a different man, it doesn't work that way and you can see the frustration and hate in this relationship theres only 2 things they can do at this point 1: suck it up and try to make a change if they really love each other or just get divorce

Communication is key i every situation and yet the staying out late situation for Amanda could of been better with adequate communication. Even in counting the PTSD of being cheated on. And if you have never been cheated on then you may not actually get it. When you pose those actions then simply touching base with your partner during a night out would definitely help. Not fix but help significantly. Small acts of kindness and consideration are key.

@Blssdbydabest

2 ай бұрын

Totally agree with you

When they were dating: Do you want to be single? When they were engaged: You won’t understand if I call off the wedding Married: We need to live separately, I want to move to the suburbs Amanda, I know you love him but stop with the threats. I’m Using Kyle’s words against him but he wants to see some Action out of her.

part of me completely understands Amanda's concerns especially due to what happened with Kyle cheating. The other part is like yall live in the city that never sleeps where the nightlife and energy are the prime reasons people dont ever wanna leave NYC. For him to get a blowout of his social energy 5 nights a year doesnt seem that bad to me. You can also join him Amanda so you know hes not doing anything and you can get him home at a time you feel suitable while yall dont have kids (please dont have kids yet)

It has been rough watching and feeling the relationship between Kyle and Amanda. I feel bad for Kyle and I feel Amanda uncaring, insensitive and boring. Does she DO anything AT ALL? She does not even SPEAK to Kyle? I think this relationship sucks. Kyle needs someone far more compatible, Amanda is NOT the right fit. Amanda is SO boring on the show and it seems that while off the show, living with Kyle, seems as though she is just as boring, does not seem to contribute to their life. probably not completely true but it seems true at this point. She seems to NOT LIKE KYLE. This is not conducive to a healthy marriage.

@laurac9857

2 ай бұрын

Yesss !! I agree. Dosent mean she is a guilty of anything bad or wrong but she clearly aren't right for eachother or in love.

At 2:40 the way Amanda is explaining Kyle going out she sounds cray cray. I get she has ptsd or whatever from it but if ur mans is only going out 5x a year? Id be ok w it lol i had a very long relationship where hed go out every weekend, all weekend and wouldnt tell me shit. Amanda realize you have a good man and give him a break every now and then

@LeaveAhNah

2 ай бұрын

We’ve already seen him go out to 4am at least five times this season, and they haven’t even gotten to the 4th of July yet. Also, when he does go out he still then continues to drink by himself after everyone goes to bed; that’s a PROBLEM

@jocelynearndt1094

2 ай бұрын

@@LeaveAhNah it's a damn summer house for a reason he works very hard during the week to be where he is also dosent mean Amanda isn't being cray cray

@LeaveAhNah

2 ай бұрын

@@jocelynearndt1094 I’m just curious when everyone’s going to realize he’s a 42 year old drug addict/alcoholic that wants to continue partying in the city instead of raising a family in the county like he discussed with his wife prior to getting married…..⏳

Wow the PTSD is so prevalent on bravo shows.. I had no idea sand, surf and a gorgeous sunny day could affect a persons mental health so negatively. 😒 there should be a coin jar for abusing psychological jargon. And the money should go to people ACTUALLY suffering with PTSD.

@Blssdbydabest

2 ай бұрын

You hit the nail on the head. I think Kyle and Amanda should really be going to therapy separately to figure out what their deep rooted issues. They both need to stop relaying on their non-married friends to act as their therapist. Since Amanda decided to stay with Kyle (and marry this man child), she needs to focus on forgiving him and figure what she needs from him to be okay when he does go out. Kyle needs to tell Amanda exactly what he needs so he doesn’t feel lonely and why he clearly doesn’t want children right now. They should be using marriage counseling to help them figure out how to talk to each other, how to communicate in a way the other will understand and also how to compromise. What we’re seeing are symptoms of something much deeper that has existed long before they got married. They both need to talk nicer to one another because they can say some pretty cruel things to each other. I don’t think they should continue to work together. That might help Amanda. Maybe separation of their home & work-life would help. That might also help Kyle from feeling like he has to escape/like he has some freedom. I think Kyle should agree to contact Amanda at least once during evenings he decides to stay out late. I really do think Amanda should take Kyle’s feelings into consideration far more than what she has (at least from what we see when they film). She should learn to appreciate that he’s capable and willing to be vulnerable. They should work on a concrete timeline when they’re going to move to the suburbs. They should also be mindful how much they share with their friends in the house and not blindside each other in public/group settings with all the truth-bombshell. Just my thoughts because, like everyone else in the comments, the whining is just toooo much!!

Kyle you seem like a great guy! Handsome, funny, open, entertaining, hardworking, ambitious, considerate and empathetic. Obvious no one is perfect... just a few opinions from someone who does not know you and never will. If you Love Amanda, work it out with a middle person. If Amanda could learn to communicate her feelings and thought in a self responsible way I think you two could make it a success. Comprising the right things is the key. Never lose your own self. Thank you for entertaining me all these years! all the best!

Is anyone else wondering where Gabby had been?

Paige and Ciara share a brain. IMO

She definitely knew what she was getting into with Kyle early seasons! She practically begged him to be with her and now that he’s with her, she doesn’t want him to be like that come on girl you knew what it was when you signed up! That’s why you don’t get with someone thinking I can change them. He kept it 100.

After seeing this after show?? Im happy to hear that Kyle realizes that Amanda REALLY JUST DOESN'T like him. He needs to go ahead and.. END IT. OTHERWISE HE IS GOING TO BE USELESS FOR THE WOMAN HE is meant to be with!! DO NOT HAVE BABIES. DO NOT DRAG A POOR KID IN. CUZ.. SHE'S the type to talk in front of the kid!! 😩

The amount of people wishing divorce on a couple is gross. These people love each other, they made a vow. We should wish the best for marriage and accept we don’t see everything & it’s okay that couples fight sometimes.

They gonna be filing for divorce. Glad Carl &Lindsey broke up Kyle should've been groomsman not flower boy.

Carl should get more respect and patience since he’s making big changes and his sobriety should be priority number one. He’s doing amazing and the non alcoholic drinks could be a great way to inspire others. I feel like there’s purpose in it and I used to think him working for loverboy didn’t make sense. I had my criticism because I thought it was toxic for him but now I can see the bigger picture and see the new vision. It was good to take a step back and think about where to go.

Thank god for guys and Ciara and Page’s confessionals 😂😂. Miss me with Amanda, Lindsey and Gabby’s. Zero light fun

Kyle goes out 5 times a year and stays out late? Amanda there are 365 days a year haha is that really a lot to you?

Kyle and Amanda are not compatible. That doesnt lessen as time goes it gets worse.

Perfect example of a frat boy who won’t accept he isn’t in college anymore. Your married. Amanda should start going out until 5. See how buddy feels then

That fact Carl laughs at this. So not hubby material

kyle is frustrating for sure but at the same time he's always been a social butterfly expecting someone to change their personality is difficult and I can kind of see where he's saying he feels lonely because if he was to stay home she's an early bird stay in bed type(no shame w/ this) but they knew both their personalities b4 hand they need to just find a middle ground of letting him b social w/o a curfew but also being homebodies together here and there. I also know her insecurities about him being out till 4 is cause of his past cheating but like u chose to forgive him and marry him u have to at some point let go of the past start fresh and give each other the benefit of the doubt or end it if you feel like that's not something u can accept

They need therapy bad y'all. Please go to therapy and work on these issues. Like they aren't that bad either. Y'all can make it through.

Amanda and Kyle tries to make this relationship work and it just doesn't. They want different things. Kyle wants to be a in a stable relationship before having kids, but Amanda is ready to settle down and have kids now. Kyle wants to live in the city and Amanda doesn't. They will divorce within two years or stay together and resent each other until there is no love left between them.

Amanda and Kyle seem to be on two completely different pages.

Kyle has a binge drinking problem IMO! I believe Amanda was sold a bill of goods by him ,a bunch of promises and he's been gaslighting her,her friends and the audience!!! Then he dogs her out to everyone and spreads lies about her. I think she should divorce him because he's not living up to his promises and she wants children and she can do better. Kyle shouldn't be married as long as he's behaving this way and has no plans to change. Perhaps a 1 year ultimatum on him and then just divorce him IMO

What's up with Lindsey in all these videos? She seems so intoxicated!!

Kyle and Amanda are too different from each other to make it long term.

So I have this jacket that belonged to my dead 400 pound grandpa. It will look so cute!!

Kyle and Amanda are sadly not in the same page…..divorce is next

WOMEN NEED'S GIRL TIME, ONCE A MONTH. AND MEN NEED'S GUY TIME WITH HIS BOY'S, ONCE A MONTH! AMANDA, KYLE IS TELLING YOU HOW HE FEEL'S! MAKE HIM GO TOO THERAPY, BEFORE Y'ALL END UP DIVORCE🤦🏾‍♀️

@darlingcrimson5813

2 ай бұрын

Kyle does not need to go to therapy, she does. She is the one who has no ability to communicate, let alone dive deep and get things fixed. She seems impotent and like she has no life and want no life other than moving and having kids. I would hate to be married to her! She seems only content with making Kyle NOT BE KYLE. that is all I see her doing. To me, that is abuse. Leave Kyle if you do not like the man you chose.

@tavaresleora4286

2 ай бұрын

I THINK KYLE AND AMANDA WOULD BENEFIT FROM MARRIAGE THERAPY🧐

Amanda HAS to heal her PTSD from the cheating. IF not the marriage will be the drain, for both people.

So funny this is about Gabby, but the comments are about everyone else. I don’t know why she’s on the show. I find her boring and arrogant. Maybe she’s just insecure. I don’t relate to her character at all.

Amanda is beyond boring, she appears to be extremely lazy and the least bit interested in Kyle; she would be better suited with Paige, another vapid individual.

@KillerKatsFromOutterSpace

2 ай бұрын

They seriously need a strong dose of reality and for how much time they spend looking mirror’s you’d think they’d spend some of that time reflecting

Its a fun show.. only get rid of Danielle

I wish these guys would be more careful about using the phrase "I have PTSD from..." PTSD is a serious medical condition that can be debilitating for many and "having PTSD" shouldn't be casually used to convey you have bad memories or experiences around something. Not the same thing.

Kyle is an extrovert and Amanda's an introvert. Those basic personality traits can't change too much. So they either break up or find some middle ground. Amanda needs to let Kyle go out sometimes because that's what he needs. He probably has a high need for freedom and variety on the Myers Briggs scale. Kyle needs to consider the move to a more family-oriented part of New York that Amanda agreed to, to meet her needs and to show progress towards a potential family. They can be themselves more easily if they aren't so reliant on one another for everything. I think working together has pushed together, to the point of grating, two personalities who regularly need some "me" time and some specific, separate environments at times, in order to work as a relationship.

She is Hella controlling, and using ptsd as an exscuse for her controlling ways

Carl is meat riding Kyle so hard it’s embarrassing

Kyle is being sooooooo selfish & flat out mean to Amanda.

@darlingcrimson5813

2 ай бұрын

I think the opposite is true. funny how people see things so differently!

@EProductions1000

2 ай бұрын

Amanda is just a bore. She's obviously not the woman Kyle is looking for when it comes to being social or out-going.

Thats nice and all that Kyle showed up for his boy & met all his friends & they loved him but he is a married man & in my opinion your wife comes first! Your wife is the one there at the end of the night not the guys you just met. Kyle is a bit immature & I feel for Amanda. He says & does dumb shit. He chose to get married so he needs to grow up a bit.

staying out late 4-5 times a year isn’t bad like… she’s sounding abusive/controlling

@LeaveAhNah

2 ай бұрын

What do you think the real number is considering we’ve already seen him reach that quota?

@ThemboCinema

2 ай бұрын

she’s the one that brought up the number not him tho so she’s being so weird

@ThemboCinema

2 ай бұрын

I’d say doing the once or twice a month still isn’t awful?? Like he’s not dead. they don’t have kids

@LeaveAhNah

2 ай бұрын

@@ThemboCinema he laid out that BS number. he’s also 42 and like you heard here, can’t go out and come home at a reasonable hour. He’s an alcoholic and it’s problem.

@ThemboCinema

2 ай бұрын

@@LeaveAhNah reasonable hour is subjective……. like did a guy with a mullet hurt you too? seems so personal

Carl fine AF gotdamn