(Full Story) Parents Canceled My Birthday Party Because Of My Spoiled Younger Brother
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Parents Canceled My Birthday Party Because Of My Spoiled Younger Brother
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"im 20 metres"
@scythlins
Ай бұрын
damn 60 ft is crazy
@SvensktTroll
Ай бұрын
@@scythlinsmore like 90+ feet.
@Astro-qc7ln
Ай бұрын
Uhm actually it's 65 feet 🤓👆
@scythlins
Ай бұрын
@@Astro-qc7ln exactly
@Harry_James_POTTAH
Ай бұрын
@@scythlinsSkibidu Toilet 🤓
OP is genuinely a real man for having that heart to heart convo with lil bro. And by the way it was described they kinda started to make a bond… ❤
@LunaP1
Ай бұрын
At least the brother is changing for the better. Can’t say the same for mom since she’s the one who wants to keep spoiling him. Dad is trying to keep things in order for once after realizing he’ll lose both his sons to this madness he and his wife created.
@AmandaKelley-tw2dp
10 күн бұрын
He’s 65ft tall
@Kendall-cr3sx
7 күн бұрын
The dad is fed, up the mom is holding on to stuff which can’t be held on, the brother is improving (which is had basted on his standards) , and the OP is helping as much as she can. Also I think therapy would be good for the family and maybe boarding school for the boy (not need as bad as the other one)
I don’t think the little brother is entirely evil, his parents spoiled him all the way into being a spoiled brat, you can see him being more nicer and having regrets. A few more years of discipline will definitely help him shape up…
@user-fs4ik9rb7l
22 күн бұрын
But he was happy whenever any misfortune happend to the Op so I think he is
@TheDropSiblings
21 күн бұрын
@@user-fs4ik9rb7l I agree with the original commentor. If you watch the entire video you will understand. As a high-functioning autistic, who, I admit, was quite spoiled (but not to this point) when I was little, I can see a few signs of overwhelming guilt and breakdowns near the end. He truly does want to change, and I can see it, but he also needs to learn his lesson, but what the dad did is just wrong. Hitting an angry dog will just make it angrier. Or make it sick. One time my own mum got into a car crash (she wasn’t injured btw), but it was directly after we had a bit of a heated fight. I blamed myself and for a few weeks I fell into a really depressed state, even going to s3lfh@rm due to my guilt. The little brother isn’t evil, he was just raised wrong.
@morning.star222
21 күн бұрын
if i was his sibling he would never see the light of day again
@TheDropSiblings
21 күн бұрын
@@morning.star222 im pretty sure if you were his parent and you did that, it would be child abuse.
@morning.star222
20 күн бұрын
@@TheDropSiblings yeah but if i was his sister
Blaming your kid for something YOU did is ironic. beating your kid won’t make him realize he’s done a bad thing. ESPECIALLY after the mom continued to favor him in secret. He was literally educated like this ever since he was born, he’s not going to realize he did something bad after getting his ah beat. He said himself he was afraid of his dad bruh. I understand kids can be difficult but using violence on a situation like this is not going to make his behavior better. It may seems obvious for us but not for him, since we weren’t educated the same way. Props to OP for being nice with him even after what happened
@Goldie789
23 күн бұрын
Exactly. It was not the child's fault. The mother is absolutely ridiculous!!
@Noobiethenoob4
11 күн бұрын
Fr and like I feel like the parents need to know how to parent like I understand we have to teach him an lesson but if you are the parents and taught him like this and made he scared to an points he hides in the closet?!
@dogago6846
Күн бұрын
The dad didint beat him to punish him but because he hit his mom
@ifeeltheSYSTEM2000
4 сағат бұрын
Im ain't Reading allat
I'm a woman on the spectrum and way the little autistic brother was spoiled makes me sick. But OP did the smart thing by telling everyone and everything about the mess.
@AFG_Stil
Ай бұрын
Why did you tell you were a Woman in the Spectrum?
@lizzy1876
29 күн бұрын
Because autism usually effects women differently? I've seen women mask their symptoms way better then men I know have autism @AFG_Stil
@drackestalentorgen166
25 күн бұрын
Same...that kid will end in jail as an adult...you cant facilitate everything for no one
@sweetbutsour-sweet28o
21 күн бұрын
This would not slide in a Haitian household
@FlyingBaco
21 күн бұрын
I’m actually acoustic aswell
I told my son the other day after he said something, “You cannot say that. You cannot be spoiled. I have invested too much care into your upbringing for you to be spoiled. You’re not spoiled.” It shut him right up and he didn’t go down that road again.
OP is such a good guy for not giving up on his family. I also like how he kept trying to help his parents even though they were not receptive at all and were even ungrateful. I feel bad for everyone here, even the kid brother a little bit.
@Kendall-cr3sx
7 күн бұрын
Round of applause for the op 👏🏻 Round of applause for the little boy’s improvement which wasn’t easy 👏🏻🙌👏🏻 Hopes for dad to be better🙏 Prayers for mom to be better 🙏
Another " Do it for Dave" type family. This poor guy couldn't do anything without his rotten brother acting like he deserves everything
@harleythedawg8274
Ай бұрын
I saw that one lol
@gilbert6736
Ай бұрын
Do it for dan
@shabs4144
Ай бұрын
JuST Do It FoR DaN 🤓🤓🤓
@joshuacodes8693
Ай бұрын
Umm actually Its do it for Dan 🤓☝️
@BigBassProdz
Ай бұрын
Lmaoo “Do it for Dannnn
The best aunt ever tbh I wouldn’t help I’m to awkward
00:03 the best line I have ever heard
If you’re forced to share something then it was never yours. If you receive a birthday gift and everyone else received the same thing, it’s not a birthday gift.
Thats actually a really wholesome story. The younger brother had a big glow up and the parents realised what they had done was wrong. Most importantly, without op’s experience and discipline, the younger brother would’ve never been behaving well. I hope he will succeed in life.
@MohammedAlrawi-xv6ez
Ай бұрын
hear hear
@Genesisengelhard5951
Ай бұрын
If I'm being honest the op's mom leaving kinda stung bc I'm emotionally attached to my mom and I hate it when my brother freaks out which results in mom leaving with my brother 🥲
@gtdc4685
Ай бұрын
The Mom tried to hurt herself and the lil bro got beaten by the Dad. Yea, very wholesome indeed 👁️👄👁️
@Orange88794
Ай бұрын
@@gtdc4685 no I’m talking about the ending
@gtdc4685
Ай бұрын
@@Orange88794 Isn't that the ending
“Lil bro”😂😂
@Poo-qt3fi
17 күн бұрын
Seriously wtf is Zelda bottle
@FortniteClipper-oo3qz
16 күн бұрын
@@Poo-qt3fi exactly what is a Nintendo “three days”
I’m glad OP got out of there and that his brother is improving but those parents have problems if one’s beating herself up and the other beats thier kid
@obsidianfrost9514
Ай бұрын
The mom had a mental breakdown and from how OP described it the bro got a spanking an intense one. Not full on closed fisted beating. Little bro would of been sent to the hospital and not moving around of he was actually beat.
@pastelnut027
21 күн бұрын
@@obsidianfrost9514 Spanking your child IS beating them, especially to the level that the dad took it
@jenniferd264
20 күн бұрын
@@obsidianfrost9514oh I think daddy did beat him. Closer fisted punched and kicked and BEAT. HIM. These parents are the biggest idiots I’ve ever heard of! You don’t fix what they created by swinging the pendulum the full complete distance the opposite direction (if that made sense) they acted by extremes is what I mean. How they tried to fix him was as bad/wrong as how they effed him up! He will kill somebody one day, and my guess is his dad & mom! The Anger building in this kid is frightening. My guess is mommy will try and stop him from offing dad but won’t succeed so she’ll try and save herself by saying she’ll take the blame! Which will enrage her little angel who will off her! And it’ll be a rage murder ie; 100 wounds (stab/ pew pews, etc) I just wish OP would get as far away from them as possible for his own safety
When I went to this after-school club, then there was a kid with autism and he would be in primary two class instead he gets to play around the school every single day and one time he tried to jump on me and kiss me he’s about six and I was nine and then all the workers there quickly came to us and normally they would’ve helped me and told the boy off but since he’s autistic then they took him off me and started screaming at me. I didn’t do anything and the workers there were insane and that’s why I quit that after-school club.
@TheDropSiblings
21 күн бұрын
What-the fuck. I know a lot of autistic people, and autistic kids, and I’m autistic myself. He didn’t do that because ‘he was autistic’ he did that out of free will, and he knew what he was doing. That’s fucked up.
@Tocamushroomslay
2 күн бұрын
@@TheDropSiblings thanks for that at least some people aren’t on his side
@TheDropSiblings
2 күн бұрын
@@Tocamushroomslay I mean, I know what it’s like to be autistic, I also knew younger autistic kids that were even worse than me (it’s harder to cover up the younger you are) and I know that NONE of them would ever do that. So obviously it’s not ok, if he used ‘im autistic’ as a cover-up, then that’s not ok either. My therapist told me saying ‘I have autism’ or ‘I have ADHD’ is not an excuse for anything. So :D
I have autism, and I'm the one getting stuff rubbed in my face. And I got a phone that I fixed myself, but he, 3 years younger, got one at 9 and a tablet at 7
@roxcyn
Ай бұрын
Oh, I see. I take surveys for companies as a side hustle and one question is what age should children have phones, and the top answers are usually 14 to 16 or 18 and older. What I'm trying to say is be grateful for what you have. I hope you can better your relationship with your parents and sibling. ❤👍🏼
@rifdcherumala3986
Ай бұрын
i still dont have a phone Im using the phone that was for me and my big brother and since hes in college im getting that phone and honestly i am very greatfull for it even though i know my family has enough money to buy me another one they wont because they say it will spoil me which i agree with
@syrusorelio2309
Ай бұрын
@user-xz9rr4fn9gsame. My patents treated all three faiths equally. We only get presents on our birthdays. When I was a kid autism wasn't really a known thing and nobody knew how to handle it so my parents did the best they could I was on adhd medication. What really helped for me was appropriately used time outs although my mom called them quiet time. I'd be taken to my room and settled on my bed with my favorite stuffed animal and blanket and left alone to calm down when I threw a temper tantrum or got overly frustrated. I was aloud to come out once I'd calmed down. This method didn't work so well on my neurotypical siblings though it was tried. They responded better from temporary loss of privilege. Usually only used for worse case situations or if wr started fighting over something instead of getting another they temporarily took it from all trying to teach us to appreciate what we have as along with how to get along and take turns. That worked so well that we asked mom for a timer. We'd voluntarily set a timer and trade off if we both wanted to play with a toy or game. As teenagers we were more willing to swap turns on a game without the need for a time because we grew to enjoying watching each other play as much as playing ourselves.
@CrazyCayson1
13 күн бұрын
@@rifdcherumala3986 ik I'm grateful just its odd that he's not
Hmmm, diagnosed with Autism and spoiled? Sounds like me (I have been diagnosed with Autism when I was 5 and moderately spoiled but I do not have a brother or sister)
"I'm 20 meters" Killed me 😭😭😭
"Whooped his ass raw" Damn
Op sounds like a good person Even after all of that ,he doesn't seem to hate his brother, that's a thing I don't think I could do if I was in his place
I laughed when the bot read 20m as "20 meters" it killed me 💀
I predict the monster those parents created will end up in prison. What horrible people.
Theres a difference between having autism and struggling, and using your disability to get whatever you want... i would NEVER act like this just because i had autism, and if i ever did my parents would scold me for it, not coddle me. while i don't like that they assumed every time i had a breakdown it was to get my own way... I'm partly glad that they did treat me harshly, because i know how to be a good person, share, and treat others with respect.
This story reminds me of my family growing up. I tried to kill my self. I’m a lot better now but I would be dead is it wasn’t for my sister. My brother just said can u try again, he started to cry after that climbing that I told him to die.
@TheDropSiblings
21 күн бұрын
Your sister, even though I know nothing about her other than that she stopped you from dying, sounds like an amazing person, and I’m glad you have someone like her. I’m glad you’re doing better, and I know that things can suck sometimes, but just remember that you’re an amazing person and there are and always will people out there that care, even if you don’t know them, there’s people who cry for those why attempt, and there’s people who feel your pain, even if I’m not one of them. As I said earlier, I’m glad you’re doing ok. I wish you and those you care for good fortune in the future. This is for you: 👑
i am glad op is 20meters😊
I feel bad for the op but his younger has improved.
Honestly I feel that its mostly the OP’s parents who will take the blame for making a spoiled brat
The OP's younger brother has finally started to improve on his behavior and hoping that their mom gets the help she needs and deserves, fingers crossed for now though.
FINALLY, someone is smart enough to tell there teacher and counselor at school. That they were being mistreated by family members in there household.
They basically ignored his mental illness. He will either end up dead or in jail as an adult.
I’m not gonna lie… corporal punishment in form of spanking really opens the eyes of a child. Whether you say it’s abuse or not, the matter of the fact is… you get hurt once because of something you’ll never do it again because pain fucking sucks
The nice kid :✨️🔥🥰😀😁 The lil autistic brother : 👺🤬💩😭👿
"Im 20 meters" Most casual jokes toast intro
I have a grandchild who is high functioning on the spectrum, and has NEVER even had a hissy-fit. It’s definitely down to your parents and their upbringing of your brother. Because of my DIL starting working with flash cards while a baby(about 1yo),at about 2yo, he could read, and is now ,at 16, a VERY confident child who has worked out how he will get into his career choice and is sticking to it. Your parents have lost SO much, giving into your brother. They could be ENJOYING him now, not fearing him.
The aunt is the real hero of the story
@devildragon7072
2 күн бұрын
Fr
As a high-functioning autistic person, this is the wrong way to handle an autistic kid when it comes to the parents. You can’t spoil them this way, as it can lead to great difficulties for them and the people around them when they grow up. You can’t excuse everything someone does just because they’re autistic, it teaches them that the behaviour is OK, which it definitely isn’t. This is mainly the parents fault, if anything.
At least they all understood that they were wrong, apologised and try to be better. I'm happy that the brother is making progress but the whole family needs some serious therapy, especially after the mom incident
20 METERS?! DAWG IS THE SIZE OF A TREE
Those parents underwent an insane redemption arc.
This is only time calling someone acoustic is acceptable
You know it's f***** up when your wife has to call you to come home from work early because she is a danger to herself
i scrolled through a week full of watch history to find this lol
Your brother is a lot better now. I do find it funny and would love to see his reaction to all of his shit getting taken away and sold.😂
Nah bro that garage sale was probably a collectors dream
Call a family meeting at your place or somewhere else to figure out how to help your family as much as possible
Anyone watch so many of these they just gradually feel less interesting?
@Sadie_theLady123
Ай бұрын
yah😢
@technicalmelora929
6 күн бұрын
I have gone through that, only thing you can do it take a break from it, trust me it helps a lot and you might find it interesting again!
Bro Defenetly plays Dragon Ball FighterZ😂
If they haven't already gotten the younger brother into therapy, they need to, he needs help with working through his issues and unlearning his spoiled and entitled behaviour. He's already showing signs of improvement by just talking to his older sibling. So therapy will help even more and he has a good chance of turning into a better person.
Dang. I never knew that there would be more updates on this story. The only part that stopped on other channels based on Reddit, was when the aunt confronted OP’s parents. That’s it. Glad everything worked out between him and his brother, and I do hope his mother gets the help she needs.
It's the parents fault from spoiling the younger brother like this if I was the mother of the birthday boy I would lecture and yell at the parents.
YOU HAD YOUR CAKE DECORATED!? IVE NEVER HAD MY NAME ON A CAKE 😂
In my family there are 3 autistic children (high functioning as well), this bratty behavior is completely the parents fault. He can be disciplined!
Even though the kid was spoiled you got to give him credit as he has developed a lot learning the mistakes he has made and how he should have properly behaved but the blame is mainly on the parents though
Bro’s brother is the exact opposite of Ron Weasley
I love how no onr supported the parents and everyone was against them W family members (except the parents but atleast their getting better)
I would have whipped out a tube of decoration frosting and wrote my name on it.
Normally I’d comment my opinion or something like that but this is just soo complex and nuanced that it baffles me and makes me think about my own upbringing having special needs and thinking if my younger brother ever felt like you do
Imagine a child needing adults to gaurd his gifts and cake from his brother yikes😬
Definitely seems like the brother is making progress in the right direction and seems to understand now the gravity of what has happened and what is to come
declining a n64 is crazy, the ammount of good games that he could play is amazing
bro i swear ive heard this EXACT story before
@JokesToast
Ай бұрын
Brother it's a reddit story what do you expect
@ifeeltheSYSTEM2000
4 сағат бұрын
@@JokesToastfr
Bro love you ❤️ Your stories are best thank you for telling us ❤
Dude i remember hearing this story up to around before the family intervention but after seeing this i went from "bro those parents are insane and so is the brother for all this stuff" to now "holy hell they're starting to go crazy and even the brother is massively changing like wtf"
Dad hit that factory reset button when he whooped his butt
When I got to the part where it said he spit on the spit on the cake I got an old spice ad
@melissalui801
Ай бұрын
Pfff-
Mario, 64 😂😂😂 I thought it was Super Nintendo 64. Never it was Super Nintendo World, No. Land😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I actually felt anger when the brother did something spoiled
I have an highly autistic diagnosed cousin and his little sister is always complaining and I told her she could come over any time she wanted bc that just how the my Uncle and his wife act around my cousin
Why the duck do they keep inviting them to the b-day parties 😂😂😂
Parents destroyed his childhood but they came to their senses atleast and were trying hard to regain the bond a kid should have with the parents which is good for the time he lost.
Its giving "DO IT FOR DAN!!!"
I have first hand experience with this because of my brother 😂😂 the same exact way
His brother was a changeling child they just don't know it.
jesus christ the amount of games he had no wonder he cried but still gotta take responsibility
My little brother always gets everything he wants, he refuses to eat anything besides McDonalds and ice cream
The aunt is a goat
What do you even say when parents like that give you gifts, thank you?
"When my aunt found out after seeing my parents forcibly my three Days out of my hands"
"I'm 20 meters" "My 3 days" "Zelda Bottle" Wtf is this text to speech dawg 😭
I am surprised that they even changed him a little bit
Honestly you never really see stories with such progressive updates it's refreshing
.....Man screw OP's brother, all that 90's gaming stuff would send me over the moon and an old working CRT TV? Man that sounds like heaven.......I miss the 90's.
0:03 “I’m 20 meter”😂
My son's autistic and i ONLY use it as an excuse when he's just not getting social cues and i know people are getting upset. But i still treat him like a "normal" kid
Update 5 was crazy
I see a vid right next to this by another KZreadr saying “my parents defended my sister after stealing from me and now they want to send me to military school” ☠️😂😂😂😂
Geez, he has like the entire game stop in his room
The birthdays are bad if you invite lil bro💀
at least the parents and brother kind of realized themselves
The parents are the adults they had to take responsibilities because if you don't teach your children how to behave and keep spoiling them treat your child unfairly then you're just a bad parent
Is no one going to talk about “20 meters.”😂 0:03
@_bad1
Ай бұрын
Whats wrong hes 20 meters
The brother sounded like cartman when he whined about not having presents at somebody else's birthday
My concern is this kid is going to unalive his parents as soon as he can! Watch for this story in the News! These parents are horrible, they went too far too fast the other direction. Did THEY get professional advice for how to stop giving the brother everything. NO! And they handled it horribly. They may just be the worst parents I’ve ever heard of on Reddit! And this mother is the worst mom in America. Little Brother beat up their Mom. She didn’t give herself black eyes. Mark my words….. little Brother is going to kill someone. And Dad? Is a Coward. OP needs to RUN and keep running till he can’t remember those people are related to him!
25:48 that pizza sound good😂😂
I’m 20 meters whoa bro chill out that’s long but no need to flex😂
As a side note, the term “high functioning” has more or less been dropped by the autistic community. It refers to how well the autistic person can hide their autism, or “mask”. They aren’t any more or less autistic than the so-called “low functioning” autistics. In the queer community, they would call it “being in the closet”. Most of the quirks we exhibit are self-soothing. Most of us have sensory problems, some senses heightened, others dulled. TV shows would talk about not being able to wear clothes of a certain fabric, or not responding well to certain sounds. But some of us have a poor proprioceptive sense, which is the usually forgotten sense to know where your body is in space. Close your eyes, and touch your finger to your nose. If that sense is dulled, you’ll often see the autistic person flapping their hands, or grinding my teeth in my case. I can’t really sense where my jaw is unless I’m really crushing my teeth together. Hand flapping is pretty easily noticeable, grinding your teeth not so much. I learned to shake hands with people, because I was told that that’s how “real men” (tm) acted. I watch people’s mouths, so nobody realizes I’m not making eye contact. I pick at my nails. The final segment of both ring fingers and both ring toes feels weird to me. Very often, I’ll hit just that bit of the one finger really hard against something. Not only does it not hurt, it mostly feels good. Being able to mask comes with some privileges, though. Because I could mask, I wasn’t diagnosed until I was 40. To be fair, back in the late 70s, when I could have used the diagnosis, they’d have called what I have Asperger’s Syndrome. Later, they merged Asperger’s in with the rest of autism, so they called us “high functioning”. The medical community really did autistic girls and women wrong, though. All of the diagnostic criteria were derived from studies of autistic boys. For a while, they thought girls literally couldn’t get autism. Later on, they figured out that when autistic boys are having meltdowns, everyone was all “Boys will be boys.” and let them continue their meltdowns. If girls even approached that level of chaos, they’d get side-eyed by every adult nearby. So girls would internalize stuff. Boys are taught that we can live in constant states of obliviousness, while girls are told to act more ladylike. Autistic girls usually tend to be hardcore readers. Usually we can’t intuit what a real person is thinking. But if you read a novel… it tells you right there on the page what the character is thinking.
“I’m 20 meters”💀💀💀☠️☠️☠️
17:44 "I was you were all dead" that's how my bro talks sometimes.
I like your aunt. She is a treasure. And ahe loves you ❤
That boy is like my grandma💀