Quarantine for her husband literally saved their marriage

@isaacgarcia-iw5uc

Ай бұрын

For HER husband

@mixedbaggamer

Ай бұрын

As terrible as the virus was for a handful of people it was also really good for other people

@JustaLouis

Ай бұрын

8:40

@I-like-sports

Ай бұрын

@@isaacgarcia-iw5ucand she’s his wife?

@Hivesareawsome

Ай бұрын

True

Cheating is becoming WAY too normalized. It’s insanity. I’m glad she changed though! Cudos to you 🎉

@the-GameRipper

Ай бұрын

i do believe it's "kudos"? just saying

@ChangesConstant

Ай бұрын

@@the-GameRipper🤓

@ebonaparte3853

Ай бұрын

@@the-GameRipperDoesn’t matter

@ShiNijuuAKL

Ай бұрын

I always feel weird when you guys say this like... you thought cheating as not normalized in the past? the "catholic husband has a mistress" is literally a classic. Maybe you mean that now women do it too?

@alwaysright3943

Ай бұрын

Why shouldn’t women cheat when society literally cheers them on?

She went from birth giver to mom

@Chuuyasimp49

Ай бұрын

She went from spawn point to mom

@rrrr1164

Ай бұрын

💀💀💀💀

@rrrr1164

Ай бұрын

That was wild

@not-so-obvious_autism777

Ай бұрын

@@Chuuyasimp49 _”SPAWN POINT”_ IS *_WILD_* LMAO 😭😭🖐🏽

@thomasowens4844

Ай бұрын

​@@Chuuyasimp49spawn point is actually mad

Tbh, atleast she tries to fix it unlike others

@UnfunnyMan5908

Ай бұрын

I think she did dawg

@ebonaparte3853

Ай бұрын

@@UnfunnyMan5908Did what?

@Nate2314

Ай бұрын

@@ebonaparte3853fixed kt

@Aubreys894

Ай бұрын

@@ebonaparte3853fixed and changed

@kahiruo

Ай бұрын

​@@ebonaparte3853 he saying she did fix it (the main comment said "atleast she 'tries' to fix it")

Was she horrible for thinking about starting an affair? Edit: W ending Edit2: reworte it

@dekrus

Ай бұрын

Yep, she started off as a terrible human, and ended the saga of redemption as an incredible mom and partner 😊

@Momovr36

Ай бұрын

Yes horrible 😤

@KysYujiPls

Ай бұрын

@@Momovr36 not anymore

@blue-mech1245

Ай бұрын

Amazing character development

@formalpotato5874

Ай бұрын

But the way she was able to willingly acknowledge her behavior and fix it is admirable

“Thought about having an affair” is crazy

@MadkingA

Ай бұрын

crazy is an understatement but not unexpected

@user-ic2dm8id9k

Ай бұрын

I'm glad he saw it

@insane_idiot521

28 күн бұрын

The way she just casually said it was shocking

@sleepy4evah

20 күн бұрын

@@user-ic2dm8id9k wait i didnt even think about that

@obsidianfrost9514

2 күн бұрын

It wasn't casual but it was building up to her being the pos she knew she was then.

Wait so the wife thought she was the cool, fun parent when the only time she interacted with them was when it was dinner? It's kinda confusing on how that works.. I'm glad she changed for the better though :)

@TheEvilSmiler37

Ай бұрын

Yeah atleast she realised her mistake 😊

@anivijudi

Ай бұрын

I think she thought like that before having kids and being a working adult. Like her fantasies of what life would be ten years later when she was in her early twenties or something. And then life happened and other things took priority. It sounds to me as if she was very focused on having a good work/personal life balance but then forgot to make room for the kids in her routine when she had them. These weeks of introspection made her both realise the sort of parent she was and remember the sort of parent she wanted to be. Tbh she sounds amazing, not everyone can put the work into changing their ways so much even when they see the damage their doing.

@pnkrathrt

29 күн бұрын

The mind is really good at lying to you.

@devthakur84

28 күн бұрын

The wife was still not a good person why? You ask Well she's doing all this only coz of a guilty conscience

@pnkrathrt

28 күн бұрын

@@devthakur84 I wouldn’t go that far. To be fair, no one is good if you look at it that way. We all have our motives but if the motives lead us to being better for the people we love, that’s good and should be celebrated.

Even if he was really a lazy man child, you have no right to cheat on him. These are grown adults why r they so out of touch and blind they see what going on in their own homes . Also, why don't adults just end something before they start something else.

@KysYujiPls

Ай бұрын

The ending ❤

@superdogsbrother

Ай бұрын

Because they aren't adults, just old children.

@AH-cw1pr

Ай бұрын

It's because some people are in a situation where it would be too inconvenient to leave because of finances or other perks they have in their relationship but they want more so they cheat. I don't condone such behavior and think it's messed up to use someone like that.

@sheillaen2

Ай бұрын

It's all so true, but I especially hate when these people say are unworthy of me i have cheat. As one user There's truely "not adult, they are old children" #superdogsbrothers. At least she woke up before it was late

@lindah3803

Ай бұрын

They get rapped in themselves. In their work,in their activities. They don't consider what all is actually happening for the outcome they see on a daily. Then they begin to ignore. Fortunately for OP,her eyes were forced to open. When she had to step in and do all the things her hubby handled. Unusual as it is,she looked at what she was doing. How much interaction she actually had with her family. She realized that she didn't even know what her daughter liked or wanted. That was the slap in the face that woke her up. She also realized that all she did was nag at her hubby. She just demanded. She didn't show him any kind of appreciation or affection. She actually got lucky. The quarantine forced her to see and do a lot. She has a ton to make up for. She also needs to look more into why she was considering cheating instead of really looking at her hubby and herself. Hubby has a lot to consider as well. Especially with finding her post. Learning how she considered him a "Man child" and her thinking about cheating. They're going to need quite a bit of couples counseling and individual counseling. They are off to a good start.

She realized that she was taking her husband and kids for granted

@wrenithilduincats

22 күн бұрын

She always thought that she would be the fun parent, and then she was the working parent that's emotionally distanced from her family. It's actually kinda sad.

@Metron455

3 күн бұрын

No idea how many of those stories are real but taking your husband for granted is present in 100% of them. I might want to do some actual research about it.

Summary Op realizes she is a bad partner and after following weeks, she gets more involved with her kids instead of herself. The husband found the post and tested to see if she was gonna do what she said After a year, they're 50/50, got couples counseling, and are emotionally involved with their kids.

@ItsValaki

Ай бұрын

they are split custody?

@ItsValaki

Ай бұрын

and broke up?

@ItsValaki

Ай бұрын

nevermind i didnt watch it all

@splattykitty7744

Ай бұрын

No- no breaking up- they are working together as a team now instead of one sided

@kristianamarie6762

Ай бұрын

@@ItsValakithey are still together

wait, if he saw the post then did he also see she wanted to cheat for a sec? thats truly heartbrbeaking 😢

@da_copreee9929

Ай бұрын

ofc he would. But then again, she proved otherwise

@nerveinz6453

27 күн бұрын

that's why he is broken and want to get to a counceling

@Unoriginal-Username69

27 күн бұрын

bro. She has spent a WHOLE YEAR redeeming herself why is everyone clinging on that one sentence where she has considered cheating, even though she HASNT

@theauditor322

27 күн бұрын

​@@Unoriginal-Username69because, and I'll quote one of the top comments, it's insane how cheating is starting to get normalized. It's like, any error, no matter how tiny it is in a relationship, can and will be an excuse for someone to cheat on their partner. That's actually scary. I'd be extremely conflicted with myself to keep dating someone that ever pondered to cheat on me.

@nerveinz6453

27 күн бұрын

@@Unoriginal-Username69 Imagine you are a son, your father nonchalantly said to you "You know son, three years ago i actually want to strangle you and your mom. Not because i'm depressed, because i'm bored." What would you feel?

Of course he doesn’t always think about YOU he’s raising your kids

@KysYujiPls

Ай бұрын

It's also he's

@real_gruntjoe5295

Ай бұрын

@@KysYujiPls yeah I know but like it’s also hers

@LazyAhhMfer

Ай бұрын

@@KysYujiPlshis*

@aaronvector4750

28 күн бұрын

Nah he always thinks about her even when he's taking care of the kids. She's too self absorbed to notice.

@gamercentral2417

25 күн бұрын

Did y’all even watch the video?

This is the dream everyone with a narcissistic partner hopes for. I'm so happy for the husband his wife turned out to be oblivious and not a narc.

@trenae77

18 күн бұрын

It’s also a reflection of how easy it is to get caught in our own world and perceptions and not realize what is happening around us. For everyone wanting to trash the wife in this; she was seeing her reality when an emergency caused her to readjust for the moment. In that time, she saw life from a different angle that let her view what she had been missing before. The same thing happened for the husband. I think that is what so many are missing when they want to put the lion’s share of blame on the wife. The husband was silently planning separation himself. Nothing said indicates that either of them went to the other with their concerns before quarantine caused an involuntary shift, but thankfully for them both they were willing to pursue the new reality presented and resolve their past errors.

Finally a story where the wife realizes that she messed up and actively wants to change for the better. Love it

@JessInTheCityy

17 күн бұрын

Kudos for her admitting it, I guess, but, it doesn't make much sense. Did she think her dinner magically cooked itself? The laundry hopped, skipped, and jumped into the washer? The dishes shimmied up to the soapy sponge on their own? Where did she think her kids were while she was watching tv? I'm glad she's making a change, but to be that completely oblivious is really crazy

@douglassommer6905

14 күн бұрын

Yes. AMEN 🙏 Sometimes you just have to look at yourself, get out of your head, and realize how reality is.

I'm relieved she realized she was the issue and decided to fix and change things before it was too late. The grass is not always greener on the other side, and cheating is definitely not the answer. Working towards bettering your circumstance is so much more satisfying.

@levy9595

27 күн бұрын

This lady was delusional and completely detached from reality. How the hell she could believe her husband was lazy and neglectful while she was amazing and contemplated an affair cause she "deserved better" is legit beyond me. He does EVERYTHING and she only sees the kids at dinner, doesn't cook, and goes out with friends both days of the weekend! Good on her for waking up and making positive changes, but how her view on her family got so warped and delusional is beyond my understanding

@Amagem81

27 күн бұрын

@@levy9595 You know what, you articulated it better than I could. She definitely had to be delusional to think the way she did. I'm glad she snapped out of it cause she was definitely on her way to some serious consequences.

@levy9595

27 күн бұрын

@Amagem81 yeah it's good for her she realized the error of her ways in time to correct it, but she needs to take a serious deep dive into why her thoughts about her husband and the effort she put into her marriage and family eroded in the first place. Based on this post, her husband seems like basically a perfect husband and father, so her twisted view of things suggests some deeply flawed issues with her entire way of thinking. She needs to address the core reasons as to why her perception got so twisted in the first place, or she runs the serious risk of falling right back into the same trap with time.

@Amagem81

27 күн бұрын

@levy9595 I can't remember if she stated whether or not she/they were getting therapy. It's definitely needed.

@Hi.b.

27 күн бұрын

@@Amagem81they got couples counselling

I had a gut feeling that the husband noticed and made up the extra work to kind of test her. I got a little giddy when it was confirmed 😂

I've seen this exact storyline play out where she goes through with the affair. This is the good timeline.

@AHHHHHHHH21

28 күн бұрын

Sadly this case is much rarer than the other one

It's good to see she finally saw the error of her ways and started to improve good for her and her family. Tho that afair thing really pissed me off I'm glad she didn't do it

@deathrail1326

29 күн бұрын

im pretty sure it pissed everyone off.

What a nice father and husband! He sounds amazing. Definitely a keeper, he sounds so sweet.

@kamenballer

28 күн бұрын

Yup! She has the perfect husband and father to their children. She will surely regret it for the rest of her life if she actually cheated on him before She finally realize that she has a Gem of a Husband.

@TheRisky9

23 күн бұрын

And she wasn't a good partner until she became one!

Marriage is work, this is awesome that you did this !

Why do when women feel that their husbands don’t deserve them they almost immediately feel like cheating is going to be the right answer? Why don’t they first think about sitting down and talking first?

@Cheddar_Cheese_gaming

Ай бұрын

I know right

@KylaAdams14

Ай бұрын

This is more of a why do PEOPLE do this. Men and women alike somehow turn to cheating when they feel their partners aren’t right for them. It’s foolishness. Just leave. No reason to step out 🤦🏽‍♀️

@dragonthewolf8106

Ай бұрын

I think people do it because they are actually hurting. They feel like they are too good for their partner because they are feeling hurt that their partner isn’t doing enough for them, even tho they themselves are likely the one not doing enough as seen in this story, and instead of talking about it and being open and vulnerable they just want to either hurt their partner or get that excitement without losing the stability and routine they already have with their partner. It’s very interesting from a psychological view on why cheating happens like that, but I’m glad she realized that she was the problem and actually worked on fixing it.

@blueberrypitbull87

Ай бұрын

@@KylaAdams14 Women do it more and people like you make excuses. Men's rights matter.

@artemislove2941

Ай бұрын

you think men have different reasons for cheating what. y’all ain’t special

Good for them! It’s so nice to hear a happy story for once. I’m proud of OP for actually recognizing their harmful behavior and fixing it.

Every single time I listen to a Reddit story and it's about a relationship they always talk about the intimacy side and I get it's a big part of relationships but my guy I'm not listening to the story to hear how you get raw dawged 😭 8/10 story though extremely wholesome

@WGWP

Ай бұрын

True but they are still entertaining

@colonelsanders9180

Ай бұрын

@@WGWP maybe

@thelettera582

Ай бұрын

It is a huge deal for healthy relationships, I know it is cringy to hear but for them or for any broken marriage getting intimate again is a really big step that shows everything or most is getting better. Don't think about it as just them having sex, getting intimate is far different.

@creek9311

Ай бұрын

naaaa fr as soon as they start mentioning getting intimate shit gets so awkward for me i am here to listen about the story not you fucking each other😭

@not-so-obvious_autism777

Ай бұрын

@@thelettera582 *…My mind just opened.*

Why starting an affair and cheating is normalised ? Tolerance and patience are rare nowadays. I have never got this much of narcissistic vibes from any other wife. Expectation- she is better than her husband and deserve to cheat which is justified because of her delusional attitude. Reality- the wife is good for family life. She doesn’t even deserve a husband let alone such a wonderful man. The husband deserves better.

I’m happy she realized the error of her ways before doing something she can’t take back. I’m very happy that King gets the ending he deserves ❤

She didnt deserve him.

@shashwatsingh3230

Ай бұрын

She does now :D

@xijinping4354

Ай бұрын

@@shashwatsingh3230not yet, but she’s on the right track

@VRDejaVu

27 күн бұрын

@@shashwatsingh3230 She doesn't and never will. She failed to do the bare minimum for years. That is something that she will never be able to undo.

@zamirshair5054

27 күн бұрын

@@VRDejaVu Say that to her kids. I doubt they would agree with that, especially now.

@mgb2172

27 күн бұрын

@@zamirshair5054 yeah because children are the founts of all wisdom. Ask her husband, ffs you people on the internet acting like you know everything - he knew his worth the moment things began to get better and he is the one who decides whether or not the relationship persists, whether or not she is worth his continued support as a husband and the father of her children. If he believes she is good enough now that she's improved, then it is so. We are a bunch of outsiders looking in and your opinions, while you are allowed to have them, are not important to them and their life. Humble yourselves, my god.

The OP has finally see things in a different light and has decided to do the right thing and save her marriage and family life for the sake of her children, good to go for her.

It's so refreshing to see an emotionally absent partner realise their flaws. The ending warmed my heart. It's good to be aware of the fact that not all partners don't care at all and to know people can change

she realized her flaus and mistakes, took accountability and is trying to change, props to her for trying, most nowadays give up without trying, the quarantine was a blessing in disguise for their marrage

It is so nice to hear a story that doesn't begin with cheating and end in divorce

The husband is an amazing person for doing all that to support his family. As for her... she started off terrible, but I'm glad she realized it and changed for the better. I wish them the best

insane character development. good for her for actually changing and see her faults. since theres people who see they're at fault but instead of improving or doing something to commend for that, they would push it into others instead. W wife for the development (L for thinking about cheating tho)

This is so wholesome 😭

@ThatOneBowlOfSoup

Ай бұрын

Really isn’t a mother not paying any attention to their husband neither their kids is NOT wholesome

@Beez1621

Ай бұрын

@@ThatOneBowlOfSoupyou didn’t watch the whole thing did you

@electroshockgamer2733

Ай бұрын

​@@ThatOneBowlOfSoup You're right. It's not. But that kind of person realizing that's what they are, and working tirelessly to fix it and managing to mend their relationship is.

@user-eg4xr9mq8x

Ай бұрын

@@ThatOneBowlOfSoupdid you even finish the video? She literally realized she was a bad partner and mother and changed 😭

@pancakes8539

Ай бұрын

I guess it’s kinda wholesome, but idk how you could ever go back to someone who considered cheating on you. Thoughts of divorce on the table, sure that hurts but you can come back from that, but thoughts of betraying your partner. That says a lot about your character and I think the majority of people wouldn’t want to come back from that.

It’s so rare that people reflect on their actions and realize that they need to make a change without prompting. Very heartwarming to see someone deciding to work on their marriage instead of throw it away like many others have

This is straight up heartwarming! It sucks that she was originally thinking of cheating on her husband but I'm glad she realized her faults and worked on herself to become better.

I’m 1 minute in, and I’m aghast. How in the world did this woman think she was anything but useless? She had no job. Didn’t contribute anything to the family financially. Didn’t contribute to housekeeping or child raising. She did nothing but run around doing her own thing… and she thought her HUSBAND was useless? This is utter insanity.

@King-Of-Dragons

18 күн бұрын

She did have a job it’s clearly stated she had a job

@sourisvoleur4854

18 күн бұрын

She worked from home. She had a job.

a reddit story that actually has a happy ending impossible

That has probably been one of if not my favorite set of updates, I'm so glad her husband was quarantined and that she decided to turn their marriage around

Ok but they have such good music taste? Like mamamoo are amazing! I saw them live and i'm still mesmerised 🤩

Wow a story with a happy ending for once

The fact that u were able to reflect on everything and realize u are the problem took a lot of guts and I’m proud of u for that and actually trying to fix the situation before u made an unforgiving mistake.

Why has cheating become something so normalized? It shouldn't be the first thing you think of when unhappy in your relationship. This shit's fucking disgusting.

@EsLokina

28 күн бұрын

It hasn't. Always been openly accepted for men. Only difference is now it's openly accepted for woman to. But both genders have always done it.

@braddorcas9363

27 күн бұрын

Because sex and having numerous partners has been so normalized. So narcissists easily brush it off as nothing.

@mgb2172

27 күн бұрын

Agreed. I was cheated on before so it hits especially hard when a woman is like "uhm i think i'll cheat you're not good enough" because a lot of the time the excuse is "I was bored" like, okay?? How am I supposed to know you're bored of me and why the fuck can you even get bored of me didn't you mean it when you said you loved me???

@BlazingMoth28

25 күн бұрын

Fr if I fell out of love I'd tell them not just straight up cheat on them

@mgb2172

25 күн бұрын

@@BlazingMoth28 exactly what should be done. If you and them both want to save it, you can then try and rekindle - but at least you're being fair to them, telling them the truth, even if there's no way back. It's not fair to rip someone's heart out like that

That's such a refreshing lockdown story. I hope this family stays blessed and successful ❤

I really like the self awareness though, instead of the usually dillusional things. It’s really calming and not rage inducing like other stories.

This is such an incredible post. Self awareness, improvement and hard work. I am so proud of the OP and the effort she puts in.

I love the happy ending! There is usually just misery in reddit stories.

having an emotionally absent partner is so draining, i just got out of a relationship with a guy who i love and care about but can’t handle not being able to emotionally connect with him often and it caused a lot of problems in our relationship. we decided to take the summer off and reevaluate who we are as people and where we want to be in life and how to get there. although there is a lot of improvement that needs to be made, i want to think that we can do it.

I honestly thought she was the husband until I listened more to the story. I’m glad they worked it out. Parenting is the hardest and the main job a person has.

@Rahat-cg8rv

20 күн бұрын

So you assumed it was a man because you saw one parent was neglectful and was a terrible partner? Even though in the title it says "wife" and "mother" you still went ahead and assumed it was the husband. That's incredible

@flamered24

20 күн бұрын

@@Rahat-cg8rv it’s been my experience growing up. So I guess I have an internal bias

Bro is a good man

guys ofc cheating is wrong, but she said she is korean. And in their culture is cheating normalized a lot.. So as bad as it sounds, it’s different from our point of view.

Its so nice to hear a woman acknowledge her wrongs and hearing that she changed.

@DezGrowSpot

Күн бұрын

That's rare

@callofdutymaster2643

Күн бұрын

@@DezGrowSpotFR

why did she think she was better than him to begin with? it doesn't seem like she had any reason

@ChangesConstant

Ай бұрын

Its simply not realizing what you are doing wrong She needed a wake up call she was simply living in a world of her own not realizing what was really happening she’s not the first one that this happened to and she for sure won’t be the last At least she is part of the minority willing to try and make amends and fix the sinking boat

You’ll never get back those years of emotional detachment from your kids, I know because I was in a similar situation when I was a child as well. Good on you though, that you realized your mistakes and actually owned up to it instead of denying your own faults. Hope you’ll continue to be better as a partner and parent.

So your husband was basically a single parent raising them on his own while you did whatever you wanted? I'm glad you noticed you were wrong and tried to do something to change it.

HER DAUGHTER IS A MOOMOO!!!❤❤❤Stan mamamoo

What a good woman. Literally, realizing she was doing wrong before anyone told her, working to fix it without asking, suddenly developing empathy for her husband. This is what Men need Women to be. View us as humans with needs instead of a resource to exploit.

I absolutely love this story! My parents tree were amazing PARTNERS, and shared in the home and child responsibilities…it’s so nice to see this woman realizing that during the pandemic. 🥰❤️

So happy she realized her mistakes and fixed her relationship and family

She started it by stating she was completely in the wrong. Respect.

This post is so refreshing. It always feels hopeless when a person specially a parent is fixed on their toxic ways. So nice to see someone who broke out of it and became a better person.

this made me really happy. make more of these positive stories

Perfect character arc, 100% on rotten tomatoes

Its so great to hear she realised the problem and fixed it by herself. I teared up.

The millisecond you think “it’s affair time” is the same millisecond you really need to step back and take in the bigger picture. Self absorption is truly a killer of relationships. Cause you won’t acknowledge what they do when your so absorbed in it unless you watch them 24/7 and witness every deed they do, you will always undervalue what the people around you do, even then, they still say “well that’s easy” well then do it yourself?

Great redemption story

I'm really happy she was able to reflect on herself and truly work things out

At least she changed and gave this story a happy ending.

He’s the best dad ever

I'm glad she got the reality check she needed to reailize her flaws and actively chose to do better as opposed to slipping back into old habbits.

That's good! I'm so glad to hear your marriage is doing so well!! I hope it continues to grow stronger!

I'm so happy to hear things going well 😭👍

honestley, props to her for realising all this.

6:25 quick Note; OPs daughter being a fan of MAMAMOO is so real

Bro this was so emotionally beautiful, it was heart clenching ❤️ Gosh this was so wholesome and made me so happy gosh dangit

People are so fixated on affair word that they willing through everything on trash can. Yes its wrong but wheb person is tired or blind of other person efforts they do get such thoughts. I really don't know why people think life is all fairy tale. There are point in life where you want to kill you're partner while at the same time you love them unconditionally. These thoughts are not coming from concious mind but more likely a idea from sub concious mind where we pile up everything and look for any way out to satisfy ourselves.

@TheMantisLord50

28 күн бұрын

Because threatening to have an affair is a really bad thing to do? Especially when you are married? And have kids?

@stutikhanna987

28 күн бұрын

​@@TheMantisLord50 yes but thought process doesn't work like that. The things we all speak comes from concious mind while such things doesn't. I am not justifying it but yes people come with such thoughts when they're literally disconnected in relationship. Affairs is one of the most common thought process among relationship where people really believe that having a attention from another person might able to help them out without loosing anything. People do find other's attractive while they're married doesn't mean they're bad or need to jump into divorce crap. We all have a thought that what if we rob bank and get rich instantly. Should we are jail time because we think about it? Ofcourse not unless you're not actively planning on that or execute that doesn't mean anything. It's okay understand why you get this thinking and work on it. Why so much noise?

I love your videos

I can’t get over how terrible of a human being this woman was before her epiphany, and I’m so happy for the husband to finally have his wife back. I do feel bad for the kids though. To be 11 years old with a neglectful mother who suddenly wants to be involved can be very confusing. Her kids will likely always prefer their father, and ultimately he deserves that. I just wish my own mother decided to put in effort. Sadly, she stayed like this woman. She divorced my father when my sister and I were babies and stayed just as horrendous as this woman was before the pandemic while my father is like this father. Definitely all hit home. It’s probably why I’m honestly really angry with that woman for being so awful and believing herself the victim for so long.

Good on the wife for picking it up on her end instead of just quit! Way to save the family mom n dad!

2:18 "that rock looks cool" my mind: France

Women introspecting seems to be quite an interesting and satysfying concept, and I hope to see more fiction writers give it a go

I love how you actually knew how you were struggling and successfully fixed it. Most people would be narcissistic and walk away, but at least you did the right thing.

daughter has amazing taste in kpop groups ❤

W mom at the end w husband at the beginning and end

Yep, Quarantine did the exact opposite to me and my ex, and she continued to treat me more and more like a child (While I was doing most of the cooking and cleaning, and paying all the bills) After 4 years of explaining I needed help around the house and to not talk so negatively about me to her friends, I finally ended it. It makes me sad but I know I could not have waited another 4 years before she caught on (If she ever did).

I applaud her capacity for self reflection life shows all of us things but few of us recognize it

This story genuinely makes me so giddy, I love it. 10/10

She didn't mention until almost the end that he works as a researcher, meaning he makes most of the money. She could have cheated on him, gotten full custody of the kids, and alimony and child support. And everyone would be telling her how stunning and brave she was right until her ex-husband eats a 9mm, which would prove he was always mentally unsound.

Hmm, this woman behaved in much the same way as most men usually behave in marriage.

@isaacorozco6898

Ай бұрын

Statistically proven that women cheat more get fked

@josephclark6768

Ай бұрын

That’s a very generalized statement, have you considered not being a sexist asshole?

@zacharysawcyn3066

Ай бұрын

"Most” men 🤡

@ryuk6517

Ай бұрын

@@zacharysawcyn3066you’re right, almost all men do it

@bakedandbeaded

Ай бұрын

@@ryuk6517 You’ve met all 4 billion of them? Such generalized statements is so fucking stupid, congratulations.

I feel this. My dad acts a lot like the mum in this video (before the realisation), and my elder brothers who grew up with stricter treatment sometimes don’t even leave the room in order to avoid him. I’ve spent more time with him so i get his stance a bit, but i also see everything my mum goes through and how much stress she has to deal with from him.

I'm glad she improved her behavior and way of thinking. Mistakes don't make the person, how you handle them does.

Bro is the goat

She doesn't deserve him.

@KysYujiPls

Ай бұрын

Does! Now they love each other very much and the kids too stay mad

@kronik9317

Ай бұрын

@@KysYujiPlsno she doesn’t. if it took him getting covid and her having to be an actual parent to realise all this, then she doesn’t deserve him. what would’ve happened if he never got covid?

Im happy she was able to step back and take accountability for her lack of putting in an effort. I feel sooo many people struggle with taking accountability and its such a necessary step in personal growth. Im happy she didnt just talk the talk, i hope she keeps it up! Communication is such an important thing, in every aspect of life. I wish them nothing but happiness :)

Its great that she didnt broke her family and tried to improve herself and see her mistakes

My husband and I, depressed and desperately in love, decided after the big tension of moving in, that thanking each other for every mutual task was far better for each other and just made everything easier to do. It's so, so easy to thank your partner for making food, doing the dishes, mowing the lawn, etc. As long as you notice.

I was frankly disgusted when you said you thought of starting an affair. as another commenter said, cheating is waaay to normalized. why the fuck did you even think about trying to break his heart and very possibly scar him instead of talking to him or just breaking up? this is under the situation he wasn't doing anything, keep in mind, which is not what happened. I am glad you stopped doing this stuff, but I also don't like how your main concern in the video was him divorcing you, not you being a terrible wife.

@da_copreee9929

Ай бұрын

I dont think that was the main concern. It was the shock she felt at quarantine that proved how much of a good father her husband is, and overall a better parent. But through actual communication and mutual respect, they built a stronger marriage

The way this happened warmed my heart

Always good to see someone realize that their actions have consequences before they ruin someone else’s life

She doesn’t realize just how loyal most men are

So we're just gonna ignore that she was planning on having an affair? Like wow 😂 he definitely deserves better

@nikig2891

Ай бұрын

She didn’t though.

@Arricov

Ай бұрын

​@nikig2891 so? Still doesn't make it better. She still thought about it

@l0rdapophis

Ай бұрын

@@nikig2891 yeah something tells me that if we reversed the genders here it wouldn't matter if he did or didn't. He'd be "disgusting" right?

@KysYujiPls

Ай бұрын

@@Arricovshe didn't tho and they love each other now so u can't do anything

@ChangesConstant

Ай бұрын

@@Arricovit’s definitely a topic to converse about as a family But it is not an unforgivable offense merely thinking about something doesn’t make you a horrible person She turned her life around and fixed her problems