FRIENDSHIPS, MOVING HOUSE & FEELING LIKE I DON'T FIT IN // Chatty Q&A | Lily Pebbles
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I feel like you are in your glowing era! 💖⚡️✨
@mariemerc2064
10 ай бұрын
Totally agree..😊
@hannahpryke5465
10 ай бұрын
Absolutely. Lily was always great but really fantastic currently. She seems to be really in her groove and enjoying it more x
@emi62507
10 ай бұрын
I totally agree. I’ve been subscribed since 2012 and she really is in a element now. I’ve enjoyed growing with Lily.
Thank you so much for answering the engagement ring question! It really is so beautiful and timeless. Love your content and the Q & A format is so fun!
I loved this - youve totally knocked the nail on the head with the 'just listen while you do x' kind of vids, I feel like it kind of fills the friend chat void for me! xxx
I woke up and it‘s raining - this is the perfect way to start my Sunday morning! So cozy! Thank you so much for sharing so much of your life, Lily xx
Aw I absolutely love these chatty videos with you. I've admired you as a home owner and mama. Thank you for being so kind to us and helping us when you can. With friendship, I definitely lost friends when I became a mum. They are always there when the baby is born but never afterwards. That's life, though, and you always should cherish who were there and not dwell on who wasn't.
It’s always fun “hanging out” with you in videos like this. The portion about finding influencers un-relatable, not having a niche, etc resonated. There are a lot of channels or influences I struggle to follow because it feels so far removed from my daily life. Thank you for creating such authentic, laid back, and relatable content!
I really enjoyed this video. Thanks for being so candid. It was interesting to hear about London and how the school catchments work. I think what you described about feeling like you don’t fit in is quite a common experience. At the end of the day, you are the only you there is, and that is the special gift you have to share with the world. Thank you for being you! ❤
I am 50 this year and you are the sweetest and authentic person here! And you are right! 50 is young and thriving! Lots of love x
Love this did my chores whilst listening! We look at other content creators and feel we are so far removed from their lifestyle now. It is important to have content creators like you in the space, keeping it real! X
Yes please to home renovation regrets! Loved the chatty video and the variety of subjects you cover in your videos - so relatable :)
I love these long chatty podcast style videos. That's really what I'm looking for in KZread these days, great to knit and go for a walk with you while listening.
Had it in the background while packing for holidays, but had to go back many times to pay attention to what you said, because I am interested in your opinion and how you put it out there. So thank you for sharing!
Yes to do much of this Lily. Doing whatever we want with our hair, related childhood trauma, the predictability of straightening hair (I miss that so much but I also knew it was time to stop: when you know, you know), the challenges of growing a small brand, the overwhelm of social media. Really enjoyed this video. Thank you.
Yesss for audio only! Thank you for saving my slow work afternoon 👏 loving your content Lily x
I made til the End 😂 this was great. I would absolutely love a “regret & happy with” reno vid🙌🏻 we can all learn from each other’s renovations & what works and what doesn’t. I’m in absolute love with that wall of glass that leads to your outdoor space❤ When you spoke about friendship brought a tear to my eye. It’s so sad when friendship just ends😢
Love, love this style of video! Doing my laundry and listening to this. Also my Riley (4 yo) is loving theater style music lately and it is so special to hear her singing throughout our home.
Love your content! Don’t worry if you feel like an alien in this industry you are so precious because you are yourself unapologetically, you are wonderful! I have been watching your channel since 2015, and sincerely your content is getting better and better! I love your sincerity and openness, I am also a mom of two, although slightly different from you, as they are twins (they are close in age with Rudy) and I find so much comfort and relaxation watching your videos.
Definitely interested in the renovation video 🤍
You are one of the only KZreadrs I still watch. It is so hard these days to find people online who are genuine and trustworthy. Thank you for sticking to what you believe, look forward to carrying on watching into the future!
Loved this video Lily!!! Been an avid follower for years and you are always the one person I pick from my sub box! You are always so genuine and real and that integrity is appreciated. I use to comment back in the day but seeing how many positive comments you have these days has made me want to join in again! You are in a glowing era 🤍
The curly hair question got me. It doesn’t mean you’re not authentic! Would that mean someone who uses fake tan isn’t authentic because they’re not showing their pale skin? 🤷🏻♀️ I have hair like yours, so I get it. It’s so high maintenance, but also even if it wasn’t and it was purely the fact you didn’t like it curly, that’s enough. You don’t need to give excuses for deciding to style your hair x
@emk6117
10 ай бұрын
Amen!
@maianne.4695
10 ай бұрын
yeah, im asian and i dye my hair like a light gingery brown, and i feel more like myself and authentic to that. Doesn't mean that i'm playing down my asianess, I just freaking like it and haven't been dark haired for 12 years! So sometimes people have to chill..
@tridevic
10 ай бұрын
I also get the ‘hair trauma’ thing Lily mentioned. I remember being a teenager and straightening my hair with a friend’s straightener. Someone immediately told me I looked nicer with straight hair. Not to mention people think you are more “professional” when your hair is straight. There is real privilege to it. And curly girl method is tough. Might be worth it, but not for everyone.
@justyna5673
10 ай бұрын
I also don't get how it's "your natural hair" when you're supposed to put three different products and follow specific steps to achieve your "natural" curly hair. Your natural hair is the one when you don't do anything to it after washing. Once you apply products and stuff, it's styled, and you either style it curly or straight. So why is curly supposed to be "better" than straight?
@ritadantas
10 ай бұрын
Absolutely. I've looked at curly routines and curl styling: I could never make it happen timewise unless I woke up at 5am.
I love listening to you speak ! I miss your podcast :) just hearing you thoughts on deep or random life stuff, feeling like I’m listening to my friends voice notes !
I really enjoyed this. Loved this slower, long format and really do share your thoughts on the internet / social media nowadays which is why I find this refreshing :)
Hey Lily 🤗 loved this. Thanks for your honesty in this video. Definitely continue to be/do you, that’s why we continue to come back and watch you year on year / week on week. Defo not over shared at all 🩷 xx
Love your chatty videos about life. I'm turning 30 soon and have watched you since my early 20s. I feel like you've been the older, wiser big sister I never had irl over the years, so thank you! 😊
@Biiah94
10 ай бұрын
omg I feel the same about her!
Thank you for this lovely video 🤍 A perfect start into the day.
Made it to the end, could have listened longer though I really enjoyed it! Some great questions and really thoughtful and considered answers. Just know that there is definitely always a space for you on the Internet, your niche is that your you and we love and relate to you for that reason. There’s very few content creators that are like you now and I think the way you have your different platforms you attract the right community and we all love that 💕
Would love to see a KZread video showing your home Reno regrets! I totally think that you are always authentic. Glad you wear your hair in a way that makes you feel good. 💙
Thank you for sharing so much of yourself with us for so long. On the topic of a brand or collaboration, I’d love to see you do a homeware collaboration. Maybe a very small collection of pottery pieces?
I really love your content - it’s so authentic. I mean this in the nicest way - it’s not all polished and perfect (in terms of the topics/things you say, the production of your content is amazing) - it’s the ups and downs of real life and that’s so valuable and sadly, almost unique when a lot of people only share the perfect version of their lives.
That was deep and I loved it. You give things so much thought which I really appreciate 😘
I feel like we're just on the same page: long form content, contemplating adulthood, views on social media. I love it. I really appreciate this video!
My absolute favorite videos that you do!
Love this video and you opening up ❤❤ totally agree that your followers are a little community and we have all grown up with you, had our babies alongside you and are in a new stage in our lives xx
I would honestly just love to sit and have a cuppa tea with you and chat about everything and anything, I think you're so real, honest and relatable and I love any/all of your content so thank you xxx
So relatable 🤍 Have always had your back and always will!
Thank you for the chat and best yet, thank you for rambling…it the rambling that was most personal and me!! And by me be I meant US, the rest of us who,when speaking from the heart simply put, tend to ramble. LOL. I have been watching you and for ever. Please don’t change anything. You are so,,genuine and relatable. Best G
loved this video. appreciate your honesty and love your vibe, ethos and content.
Love your engagement ring, Lily! Me too love having a simple one, mine has just 4 prongs, so squarish look and I love it. U just do you, what you feel most best in, wear in and be in. I had quite a bit of transition of my look this year that just taught me that, you will know it and grow too unhappy even though u r trying your best to be "authentic" or fit in someplace. Just be the best how you can be and give yourself a lot of care and love. Great video! :)
Loved this! Thanks for sharing love! 💛💛
oh you are SO RIGHT about all of us craving long form slower content (well at least I do
Your hair looks great ❤
Really enjoyed this casual chat - straight or curly hair, you're most definitely authentic.
Thank you for sharing your world with us Lily, I love your content! It is so relaxing and I love seeing normal life! I am newly pregnant with my 1st and I have found your pregnancy content SO helpful and encouraging! Thank you so much for sharing life with us! Xx
Snape Maltings is definitely a must! Love it there!
I never comment but I really loved this Lily, thank you. I’m loving your vibe at the moment xx
So here for the longer, slower, calmer content!❤
What a brilliant idea - love this!! 😊
Loved this q&a, thank you for sharing❤
What a fabulous video. You are always who I head towards at an event!! So authentic x
This video was so lovely Lily 💕! I'm your age and I agreed with absolutely everything you said, even the curly hair part (as I'm naturally curly too), the 3rd baby (as I have 2 brothers and I love having 2 siblings) and the friendship. I've had a friendship break-up and it was seriously awful... it took me years to get through it without feeling any resentment and just peace instead.
This was lovely to watch, Lily, thank you!
Loved this video Lily ❤ thanks for sharing x
This kind of video is great for cooking/having lunch
Friendships is a really difficult subject for me to hear people talk about. I’m autistic and have always found it difficult to make friends and maintain friendships. I have 4 friends and don’t have that ‘one friend’ that everyone talks about. I just wanted to say this in case anyone else feels the same way ❤
@JFoitentaecinco
10 ай бұрын
I feel u. I've always had trouble making and maintaining friends. People just end up ghosting or disappearing..u're not alone.
Perfect video for a sunday afternoon when it's raining and you just made a cup of tea :)
Loved your transparency as always in this video Lily! Yes to getting out there and trying things. Every experience helps you with the next thing ♥️
Thanks so much. Loved this video!
Loved this Lily, thank you ❤
Loved this video. Thanks Lily, sending love ❤️
Loved this! Great video x
Love your style so much! ❤
Wow you’re an impressive person and mind - loved listening ❤
Oh Lily, bless you for talking about the curly hair comment. I saw someone said that or something like that on a prior video. Firstly, if you change your hair to be what they want, how is that authentic? 😂 Second, your response was so compassionate❤ You're so amazing at being diplomatic and naturally authentic in your answers. When I watch your content, it feels like catching up with an old friend. Thank you for being real with us. That's why I've been coming back for years!
Hi Lily i loved this video, slow talking content is all i want! Thank you for that! Lots of love from Germany! ❤️🥰
Loved your video Lily… iv been watching you since the beginning. You just getter better and more authentic. I would definitely purchase your mug if you started that business. Ps thank you for talking about friendships. I so related. Love your hair the way it is now. Keep doing you x
Loved this video, thank you❤
I loved your discussion, as always, on the state of the industry.
Yes please to house regret video! I think ur house is beautiful but it’s so interesting to see what people would change. People say my house is gorgeous but there’s things only I notice that bug me! ❤
Loved this.
Beautiful inside and out! So lovely and genuine 🩷
Watched you for so many years and still really enjoy your KZread. I like that I can put in a KZread and still be productive where as I can spend ages scrolling Instagram and can't do the washing up whilst doing it
Yes, I’m interested in your renovation regrets! 🤗
havent seen your videos in a while but this one popped op on my timeline and i got excited!
loved this video from start to finish
Thank you for just being you ❤😊loved this, never comment but always watch everything!
3 kids is such a different dynamic to two! I love it and I always wanted more than 2 - wasn’t as easy actually to get pregnant third time so it really gave me an insight to what some people do go through. Life is chaotic and messy but so much laughter and never a dull moment. I think you’ll know if that’s what’s right for your family ❤
Love this video, Thankyou x
Love a catch up with you ❤
Lily you need to do a ceramics homeware range
Loved this video
Great chatty video 😊
Love you black Lily for being honest ❤
I agree to your glowing era!!! I’ve been loving those check pillows on your couch. Do you have them linked anywhere?
@harrietgraham5288
10 ай бұрын
Dunelm have really similar
A reno regrets video would be great! We’re about to extend and it’d be really helpful to hear things you’d advise against.
@kathrynjoyful
10 ай бұрын
I could be wrong but I think she did one of these as a real 🤔
I absolutely loved this chatty video. I resonated with many things you mentioned. I thoroughly enjoyed it. I was definitely there from beginning to end. Love listening to your thoughts and aspirations. Super video. Please keep doing them.
Love watching your videos on a Sunday! The friendship quote you said is also in a Justin Bieber song called “Lifetime”. I had a little giggle when you said it so sincerely, as I can only imagine myself singing it with such passion whilst in the car driving to work (secret Justin Bieber fan at the age of 28 🙋🏼♀️)
I love your videos Lily, you keep it real and don't BS us. I think your subscribers will always love you because it truly feels like chatting with a friend. hope you have a great week
love the audio only format 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 amazing Lily! 💕 hope this isn’t offensive, but I love audio only for falling asleep, perfect 🙏🏼
I’m with Rich Suffolk Food Hall is great if you have kids and the restaurant and shop is really lovely! Beautiful views over the river as well
Favourite video from you in a while! The main reason I subscribed to you all those years ago is because I love the way you speak on the internet. Very real, relatable and most importantly you just have really interesting things to say. When you chat in videos like this you just sound like you, a real person. I can’t speak for everyone but I am getting a bit fatigued by endlessly being sold white t shirts for £80 or yet another camel coat or “must haves for summer capsules” whatever it might be, so videos like this really cut through all the samey noise. Keep being you Lily, that’s why we’re all here!
@missalisonlucy
10 ай бұрын
Couldn’t agree more! It’s important to ‘follow’ people that don’t make you feel crap through making you feel like you need to buy something you can’t afford and don’t need!
Love your honestly about every single aspect of you life. So refreshing ❤
Oh i loved the long video ❤
Look forward to your videos so much lately. Your videos are just so relatable and honest. I’ve found myself going back and watching past videos too and I’m thinking to myself how have I missed out on all this great content!!
Over sharers unite 😅 love your content and always have. Best videos to watch whilst doing my make up in the morning or cooking dinner. Love these 20/30 mins videos are the best type. I have straight hair but have always understood why you wouldn’t want to deal with curly hair everyday, you don’t have to explain
I m so grateful you are on you tube. You are not an alien. You are just right.
I really liked this 😊
Lily please start a new podcast series 😁🙏
Thanks for sharing Lily. Always love your content.
Too long.. no such thing.. Thank you for the honesty and sincerity. Been watching your KZread for a long time. I think your USP is being “genuine and trustworthy”.