Patient: Doctor I don't get it... Why am I like this? Therapist: Hmmmmm... Say, *at what age did you learn to shit in the toilet?*

@myyoutubechannel9137

3 жыл бұрын

Lol good one😆😆😆😆

@Jeff-fp8qx

3 жыл бұрын

LMFAO

@lig_ma

3 жыл бұрын

"They never taught me"

@weastley0

3 жыл бұрын

PLSNXNANZW LMAOO

@menameMid

3 жыл бұрын

thank tou stranger, i laughed. Here's my like.

A quote told to me by my college psychology teacher "Freud isn't the "Father of Psychology" because his theories were right, but instead because people studied psychology to prove him wrong."

@finalfanvii6822

Жыл бұрын

And they did because you can think for yourself just ignore others wether you agree with them or not. It just depends who you choose to believe how you perceive you’re reality.

@maiii_xo7694

Жыл бұрын

this makes a lot of sense😭

@butter_nut1817

Жыл бұрын

It was a revolutionary idea that trauma affects one's personality and mannerisms

@chancewijewardena8609

Жыл бұрын

Exactly none of his theories were falsifiable

@R41ph3a7b6

Жыл бұрын

Yeah.

Freud was just a guy that had a mommy fetish, and created a theory so he wouldn't look weird. It did make interesting story tropes

@rashonmygooch

Жыл бұрын

​@Sisaac 20 Homofobia.

@commontouch1787

10 ай бұрын

@@VaultDwellerAlexwhich one

@mehnazsreya

9 ай бұрын

@@commontouch1787 oedipus complex

@vorun7710

8 ай бұрын

Yeah of course, he is the weirdo, and that big share of porn content about "moms" is just a coincidence. It's so easy to devalue all someone else's work by labeling it a crank

@theraze8686

9 ай бұрын

@@vorun7710 doesn't prove anything. deadass everything exists on the Internet, there's porn of anthropomorphic aeroplanes why would people stop at mothers?

"Ida is rebellious to authority, has no remorse for hurting others, and enjoys breaking the law" me: "I see Antisocial Personality Disorder tendencies going on" Freud: "were you not breastfed long enough as an infant?"

@abaricocrystalkaye4493

Жыл бұрын

@CarterWills1

Жыл бұрын

Breastfeeding does increase social bonds so it technically holds up.

@josephsolomon3016

Жыл бұрын

It’s more complex than just labeling them based on certain traits/symptoms

@rahulmalik1083

Жыл бұрын

Actually , breastfeed and nursing an infant can have a huge impact on the gene expression of a human . Check out the rat baby nursing studies showing the effects of epigenetics changes in the genes of the infant mice

@mesotolioma5089

10 ай бұрын

Holy moly maccaroni, Freud said something dumb and you said something smart. That must mean you're really smart and Freud dumb 😮

Pissed my pants, became a doctor.

@sprouts

3 жыл бұрын

Hahahaha 😂

@kurhulandlovuzulu6758

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣 Hence why it's just a theory

@Phoenix_The_HeroHater

3 жыл бұрын

Coincidence?I think not!!!!!

@avroo

3 жыл бұрын

Let's goo i shit and pissed so I'm gonna be something too

@reasonrestored9116

3 жыл бұрын

Maybe not a good one?

"Genital Phase: Puberty to death" Someone make this movie please

@bhaveshtochabbra6853

3 жыл бұрын

Fund me pls.

@grizzlyowlbear3538

3 жыл бұрын

Sounds metal af

@wretchedexcess1654

3 жыл бұрын

It's already been made: www.imdb.com/title/tt0069280/?ref_=ttpl_pl_tt

@turdferguson1021

3 жыл бұрын

Your living it. We all are

@doubleaawesomeash8896

3 жыл бұрын

@@wretchedexcess1654 what in the thunderfuck did you recommend

Freud was the first to develop a comprehensive theory of development, personality, and a structural model of the psyche. He identified some patterns and correlations that are correct but the mechanisms he used to explain a causal relationship were off and actually reveal his own personality, he projected on to an unknown to fill in the blanks. He was correct in saying that eventually we would understand neurobiology and the biological basis of behavior at a level capable of better answering the questions he was creating these theories to answer. We take for granted that we are able to think in these terms today, without Freud it would be a very different world. What he was wrong about is not nearly as important as how he taught us to think about psychological development.

@sprouts

2 жыл бұрын

Very good point

@mikef55

Жыл бұрын

I think if Freud came back to witness modern psychology today, he'd be proud of how it's advanced

@prod.bylvwlee

10 ай бұрын

Perfect because i was a little confused by the video at first. Im like he wrote this verbatim?? 😂

@user-yu3wu4ym9n

9 ай бұрын

​@@mikef55More like freaked out. I doubt he'd be able to gladly accept so many changes that has happened.

@patricia071

2 ай бұрын

THIS I also think we are focusing way too much on the bad examples and not on the fact that he did explain how we are conditioned to behave goes back to how we managed to perceive the reality around us from a young age, through limited sensations at that time

Since the theory was developed in the early 1900s it can't be all perfect, but we've got to admit that bringing the concept of the unconscious, and the effect of childhood experiences on personality into the limelight was a great accomplishment at that time. I do believe that psychedelics hold a promising future by bringing out our repressed thoughts and emotions. Cheers to Freud for that.

@crayonzii

6 ай бұрын

I agree. People used to think dinosaurs looked like kangaroos based on remains, now we know a lot more about them.

@matswessling6600

6 ай бұрын

but childhood experiences has very littlre effect on personality though so...

@donkeyparadise9276

6 ай бұрын

​@@matswessling6600how is this

@SnowMexicann

5 ай бұрын

@@matswessling6600 Very little? There are very big differences in people who, say, grew up rich and spoiled whos mummy and daddy would buy them anything they wanted and never got told no and someone who grew up in poverty without a father and an abusive household. VERY big differences.

@matswessling6600

5 ай бұрын

@@SnowMexicann not really.

I often think Freud just had a lot of weird experiences as a child and developed his theories in an attempt to normalize them

@pland4419

3 жыл бұрын

Totally agree

@goblindeeznuts

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed

@primo4915

Жыл бұрын

If you read on his family, you'll see it is all fucked up. His mother was the same age as his half brother who he fantasised about becoming his father

@JacksTestimony

Жыл бұрын

You didn’t notice you went through these stages after you learned about them?

@og_isaa

Жыл бұрын

na

Anything: exists Freud: *S E X*

@danyelleorr-mcneil4711

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣 Most of his stuff I agree with, but yeah🤣

@StingnB

3 жыл бұрын

It's in line with a lot of theories that foresees unity as the deepest/highest/most important objective of life

@sigma3729

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂

@stopbeinginsecure4786

3 жыл бұрын

Legit dude. The man was obsessed with it

@Cp-71

3 жыл бұрын

@M K So you're calling me dumb? Mate, this was a joke, why are you so serious about it?

I am a parent coach and I have a master's degree in mental health. I must say, from the cases I have seen, Freud's psychosexual development theory does make a lot of sense! It might not make sense straight away, but as you dig deeper, a lot of things do hold up. I remember I met a father who's a very typical OCD sufferer, as he said and I quote - I constantly feel the need to tidy up the stuff, and I know I am good at this, but I never experienced joy when cleaning up. And I asked him something about his childhood, and he told me he had to use diapers till the age of 6. I know it's probably too vain to draw any serious conclusion, but Freud's idea that unremembered trauma can cause changes in personality development is wildly accurate.

@sprouts

8 ай бұрын

I agree. I am doing a clinical internship, and Freud's theory makes sense in a way.

@stephysun

6 ай бұрын

i don’t think so.. i can play a role sure but some people are neat and some are not. but not really linked to their childhood. if u have siblings some might turn out neat and the other might be very messy. like if u mental health as well. it’s just dependent on everhthing. i have a twin brother and one sister that is 1 year old and we grew up the same way, but we’re all so different just like every other sibling. so it’s unfair to say it’s based on that. genetics plays a huge role.

@professorpedropontes4402

6 ай бұрын

There you go, that’s exactly how this stuff works.

Watching the kids go through the latent phase almost made me cry. The whole video was like "Hans is doing fine, Ernst and Ida....are not." And then they reach the latent phase, and the video switches to "So anyway, all these kids are having a good time. Ernst and Ida are happy, they're learning, Hans is vibing through life-" and I almost cried, I felt so much relief for them. I guess I got attached.

@overtime-gp5mo

Жыл бұрын

какие мужчины девушкам нравятся волосатые или не волосатые ? девушкам нравится член ? девушкам нравится куни?от какого размера члена больно ?какой размер члена для вас большой ? какое впечатление у вас было когда впервые увидели мужской член ? какой впечатление было когда впервые увидели порно ?было ли вам больно при потери девственности?

@h0lysm0k3z

Жыл бұрын

Did you have conflict during your phallic phase

@ayyymacaroni

Жыл бұрын

@@h0lysm0k3z i need a tone indicator for this one. are you being serious or joking?

@h0lysm0k3z

Жыл бұрын

@@ayyymacaroni /j lol

@azca.

11 ай бұрын

@@ayyymacaroni Did you have conflict during your phallic phase? (not joking)

Me: “WTF I don’t desire a sexual relationship with my mother!” Freud: “Yes you do, your subconscious is just repressing that.”

@CliffCardi

3 жыл бұрын

@@okbutwhatif9905 I wouldn’t say conspiracy theory, but it’s how Freud made his psychoanalysis “foolproof”. To any detractors, Freud could just claim repression.

@elvonsarza

3 жыл бұрын

ara ara

@armyshope

3 жыл бұрын

@@okbutwhatif9905 "us Vs them" it's just another part of the big lie...

@abdallahmohamed2806

3 жыл бұрын

I'm sad I got the joke

@Tururu134

3 жыл бұрын

superego

"penis envy" this made me laugh lol, I didn't expect to see it in this video

@rickitickitavi860

3 жыл бұрын

All women...ha!

@rayzeroxx

3 жыл бұрын

@weedcat420 feminism

@omnizafkiel

3 жыл бұрын

@weedcat420 bruh i thought this was really ridiculous until i heard that part of his theory. literally almost all radical feminists are fatherless shitheads and they almost always seem to have a great inferiority complex towards men

@seldomstudios6351

3 жыл бұрын

*P E A N U S I S P O W E R*

@marcoanonymous8434

3 жыл бұрын

hence, the strapon!

Psychedelics are just an amazing discovery. It's quite fascinating how effective they are for depression and stress..saved my life.

@Heisenberg-35

6 ай бұрын

Is he on insta?

@phillipXx

6 ай бұрын

yeah mate... @ted_winston23

@ronalddavis9762

6 ай бұрын

Does Mr Winston ship?

@ruthmaryanne7514

6 ай бұрын

Psychedelics should be done when you are in a right state of mind, but many abuse it…

@tylerwilliams33

5 ай бұрын

As someone who has tried psilocybin multiple times I can confirm it has completely changed the way I deal with life. And emotion.

I see this as the first draft of psychology, based on the worldview and the conditions of his time. It's not really wrong, but it looks at things from a very specific point of view. It's like someone would study the shadow of an elephant and make theories of what an elephant is.

I feel like these theories tell us more about Freud than it does of ourselves...

@chitraUTube

3 жыл бұрын

Haha:)

@Nikelaos_Khristianos

3 жыл бұрын

That's not exactly inaccurate. 😅

@artofsavery

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah Same here..it is actually his point of view towards life his experiences.

@GMC997

3 жыл бұрын

Today many points of his psychoanalysis theory are declared as wrong. In general, his claims were "catastrophically" wrong on multiple levels.

@lucase6077

3 жыл бұрын

@@GMC997 Sources??

I feel like EVERYTHING in Freud's work is due to child trauma

@vanillacherub6847

3 жыл бұрын

Well mostly. Soecially from age 0 to 7. Where our whole subconsios is malleable and programmed

@ThatFanBoyGuy

3 жыл бұрын

That or sex

@chteretreeart

3 жыл бұрын

@@ThatFanBoyGuy or both at the same time

@yuantingkung378

3 жыл бұрын

Well in psychoanalysis, identifying the repetitive pattern of a person's behaviour is important. Why does he or she keep picking someone that don't love them, why does he or she keep feeling the sense of being abandoned, why can't he or she love someone? What's important in child is because they have a deveolping mind and a lot of complex feeling cannot be fully understand by them, or even us. So when there is a trauma happening to a child, they relied on competent adult to share their mind to figure it out for them. While most of the time those adults never came, and way too many unsolved issue just preserved to the adult life and gradually became an obvious especially when the growing people started to have their own work, lifestyle, money, sex or other things. It's not really as easy as it seems when a lot of things were due to child's trauma in Freud's work.

@lipeking4714

3 жыл бұрын

He definetly focuses too much on it, but I think a lot of our mind operates based on our childhood

The impact of developmental psychology is why Freud is so influential and popular. He may have gotten some of the specifics wrong, but you can't deny the development of our childhood plays a huge role in how how we are as adults. With a lot of meditation and therapy I was able to figure out the reason why I am gay. I lacked the emotional support I needed from my father and I was molested as a child = associating pleasure with men, and trying to fullfil the emotional void that my father left me. I also believe you can be born gay, but nurture plays a bigger role in my opinion.

Freud's ideas are discussed, but his paving the way for free thought and his contributions to science are undeniable.

My mom: thinks I’m crying because I peed my diaper and not because I’m hungry Me later in life: *beats my wife*

@magnofajo6159

3 жыл бұрын

Ahhh, a true gamer i see

@Eduardesuper

3 жыл бұрын

@@magnofajo6159 a true gamer needs no inferior object such as a wife.

@sitdowndogbreath

3 жыл бұрын

@@Eduardesuper so it's come down to this so much for the be fruitful and multiply all right that's it I'm stepping out

@magnofajo6159

3 жыл бұрын

@@sitdowndogbreath I dont get what you mean

@r1xshoaib199

3 жыл бұрын

no I think it's psychology Ryt but got gave us time to understand

I took advanced psychology in high school and I have to admit, you covered this topic better than my high school teacher did in 9 minutes...

@sprouts

3 жыл бұрын

Not sure if I should be glad or sad. 😂

@dariusurbanovic6797

3 жыл бұрын

I haven't seen you in a long time in the comments I was getting worried

@mariosnz2884

3 жыл бұрын

I think you are suscribed to the same channels I am

@MrDanamiel

3 жыл бұрын

The fact that psychology is teach during high school surprise me😂

@datscrazy4095

3 жыл бұрын

Again man, u always here

I also was someone who tough that all of Freud’s work were madness. But we need to be humble and find out by ourselves how does he develops his ideas by reading his books. Although many say that they’re boring, they are quite interesting and sometimes even fun to read, because often some concerns linked to our daily life are related (The Interpretation of Dreams is a nice book that all of that can be finded, and not very hard to read). Anyway, let’s be humble. Either being right or wrong, Freud dedicated years of observations and study to develop his conclusions, and many of them I would say that most of people who read it got it wrong.

Freud did not have normal childhood...

Sex and childhood exist. Freud: Oh, everything in the human mind is related to this!

@mercilesslymugentenshin8651

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah I'm totally lost right now 😅

@ethribin4188

3 жыл бұрын

I mean, its IS related. But not defined. Freuds theories are ultimatively only models and estimations.

@Nebulisreconx

3 жыл бұрын

@@ethribin4188 redundant explanation as all theories are by definition not facts including the theory of relativity and evolution

@arandomlanguagenerd1869

3 жыл бұрын

@@Nebulisreconx they are the closest we have to facts, scientific theories have to be proven to be accepted

@aryanovran8984

3 жыл бұрын

Ever heard of this thing called "introverted intuition"?

Jung: What if psychology is about more than.. Freud: Sex! It's all sex you charlatan!

@Nikelaos_Khristianos

3 жыл бұрын

What's sad is neither are taken particularly seriously in modern psychology.

@hunterhunter2215

3 жыл бұрын

@@Nikelaos_Khristianos jungs idea of the archetypes is not that unaccepted in modern psychoanalysis. Edit: what do you even mean by „modern psychology“?

@grbgeslnger24

3 жыл бұрын

🤣

@santiagobravo9685

3 жыл бұрын

He’s like Robert California

@Nikelaos_Khristianos

3 жыл бұрын

@@hunterhunter2215 Apologies, clarification: I mostly refer to the indignant fact that if one brings up Freudian or Jungian psycho-analysis in academia these days, you do run the risk of literally being laughed out the room, at least in a psychology lesson. (Despite the fact that psychology is just theories!) Conversely, I've personally found Jungian theory to be really quite useful in English Literature considering how much of the hero's journey envisioned by Joseph Campbell is based on Jung's heroic archetypes, especially when examining classical texts from the ancient world. Lastly, I do actually agree with your point about the archetypes, they've achieved a new sort of relevance in today's world. (Albeit, for better or worse, thanks to characters like Jordan Peterson).

Like elementary school; which are the most important school we will ever attend, because it's the foundation of all higher education. Likewise so is Freud. His psychoanalysis is the foundation upon which modern psychology is based.

At college, I've seen many students complain about Freud's theories not making any sense. But that's the whole point. He relied on his own personal experiences rather than the scientific method to develop his theories because he was a psychiatrist, not a scientist. Also, it was a completely different world back then. Female hysteria was considered to be a physical illness caused by a literal "wandering womb." When you take that into perspective, Freud's works were really revolutionary.

Bruh I never wanted to throw away my dad when I was little

@mercilesslymugentenshin8651

3 жыл бұрын

Mine was like, never there so I wonder what the means. 😅😂

@maruko8324

3 жыл бұрын

I agree but in my case I tend to rival in my crush's brother.

@drjellymonkey5230

3 жыл бұрын

Same here he did it on his own

@johnnyreb1209

3 жыл бұрын

I dont think Freud was accurately describing the human condition as much as he was trying to find and figure out his own problems. I believe he projected his own conclusions of himself onto everyone else. I dont believe women walk around with penis envy (except the feminists) any more than i believe boys want to kill their fathers and sleep with there mothers.

@adetundepowell4321

3 жыл бұрын

Lmao I never even had a dad

Therapist: “Suzy, I see you have a problem with authority..and you get into abusive relationships...were..you not potty trained well as a child?” Suzy: *starts to sob*

@ovahlord1451

3 жыл бұрын

I dont want to be angry anymore, i just want to shit in a potty

@Bififress0r

2 жыл бұрын

@@ovahlord1451 Meanwhile, Ida maintains her p€n!§ envy and still wants her own one. ¯\_( ᐛ )_/¯

@Nitekom

Жыл бұрын

How did you know I got an *_anal expulsive personality_* due to trauma?

@alphasr8965

Жыл бұрын

This theory and the examples are absolutely ridoculous.

@FckPride

Жыл бұрын

I was badly potty trained….

As someone who grew up with an abusive father and later had problem in becoming a man. I can confirm that the way you are treated as a child has a lot of effect in your adulthood. I am now 29 and have read a Freuds work and it had helped me change myself for the better, it helped me rewire my brain and impulses at early adulthood. I think Freud was a genius of his time. The man taught me that nothing in this human mind happens without a reason.

Dari teori yang dikemukakan dalam video ini, saya setuju dan berpendapat bahwa didikan atau perlakuan yang dilakukan orangtua dan keluarga serta lingkungan sekitar akan mempengaruhi kehidupan kita di saat kita beranjak dewasa. Meskipun memang tidak semua hal yang terjadi pada saat kita kecil dahulu bisa diingat, tapi pasti ada beberapa hal yang dirasa sangat dekat sehingga kental dalam ingatan. Contoh bentuk kreativitas seseorang yang sudah dewasa yang diakibatkan dari perkembangan psikoseksual di masa lalu yang saya ambil ialah seorang pedagang/pelaku usaha suatu produk (bisa dalam bentuk apa saja) yang membuat produk tersebut bersifat unisex (dapat digunakan oleh laki-laki maupun perempuan). Secara spesifik misalnya, seorang pelaku usaha tersebut membuat pakaian seperti baju/kaos, jaket, sweater, dan celana yang secara bahan, warna, dan desainnya disukai dan dapat digunakan oleh laki-laki maupun perempuan. Contoh produk lainnya yaitu seperti produk tas, sepatu, dan sandal yang bersifat unisex juga. Perkembangan psikoseksual yang berdampak besar pada terbentuknya kreatifitas yang saya ambil contohnya menurut saya ialah pada fase phallic (phallic phase), dimana dalam video juga telah dijelaskan jika seseorang yang diperlakukan baik ketika mengalami fase ini ketika dewasanya ia akan tumbuh sebagai seseorang yang dapat mengidentifikasi peran dirinya sendiri sebagai salah satu dari dua jenis kelamin yang ada dan dapat mengidentifikasi kedua jenis kelamin tersebut serta menghargai dan menghormatinya.

Plot twist: Hans, Ernst, and Ida are all in a polyamorous relationship with each other now.

@brendaluv2017

3 жыл бұрын

I think that’s a happier ending right there ☺️

@max2082

3 жыл бұрын

They could probably help each other through the pitfalls of life. Especially if they are close enough to share and discuss their feelings with each other.

@requiemforpsyche

3 жыл бұрын

Awwe :)

@EmonticonGaming

3 жыл бұрын

They're polyam and support each other through everything.

@CloutmasterPhluphyy

3 жыл бұрын

The good ending

“Genital: phase 3-6” Me who thought we were all the same down there until I was about 11:

@GTAandApplechannel

3 жыл бұрын

Me too but till 12

@dakotamabry1645

3 жыл бұрын

8

@GabrielsEpicLifeofGoals

3 жыл бұрын

I actually knew we were different down there from a very young age, but just didn't know why or truly understand until now.

@ahmadraif9989

3 жыл бұрын

Same man

@ahmadraif9989

3 жыл бұрын

I thought we all have wee wee,😂

2:42 The fuck he discovered that at age 3-6?

@ArchonFDC

Жыл бұрын

I did lol

I prefer the "Neurosis can be treated by talking." Instead of the "This man is mad, lock him away! give him lots of sedatives and electroshock therapy. If he still acts up lobotomy." Despite the hinderance of Nazism and the hatred of the Jews at the time, I still think that his approach of "I know nothing, let's start from the beginning" to be really a mark of the time and reminds me of when surgeons started washing their hands before operating. Great video!

@sprouts

11 ай бұрын

True.Freud was ahead of his time in some ways, especially his progressive views on homosexuality.

But that's just a theory, a game theory

@simonecinquetti1091

3 жыл бұрын

A life theory! Thanks for watiching!

@Kino_Cartoon

3 жыл бұрын

@@simonecinquetti1091 a sex theory (I mean... It's Freud). Thx for watching.

@LLAWLIETkiracatcher

3 жыл бұрын

Bruhhh . From the channel game theorist

@onesabrathwaite9921

3 жыл бұрын

*inserts meme* Annnd Cut

@animeguy2194

3 жыл бұрын

Oops, wrong channel!

My wife: WHY ARE YOU SO AGGRESSIVE TOWARDS ME?!? Me: Sorry, my dad was never around

@Ricky-nn3be

3 жыл бұрын

Understandable, have a nice day 👍

@mrixzz8127

3 жыл бұрын

Daddy issues

@joshuafrank1246

3 жыл бұрын

@utf 8 are you joking

@xx_somescenecath0lic_xx888

3 жыл бұрын

utf 8 I-

@angrymanwithsillymoustasche

3 жыл бұрын

Attention ⚠️ You people call him mad and theories crazy because of moral values taught by your parents/society.

Hal yang paling mendasar adalah perilaku kita saat dewasa ialah cerminan kita dimasa kecil. Tentang apapun yang kita lakukan, kita sikapi, dan kita terapkan sedari kecil, itu akan berimpek buat kedepan. Fase yang menurut saya konkret dari kreativitas seseorang adalah fase Anal Phase, karna difase ini, kita bisa belajar hal-hal yang basic dari kebutuhan yang harus masuk dan keluar dari tubuh kita, seperti, makan, minum, buang air besar/kecil, bernapas dll.. Difase ini sudah mulai paham akan kebutuhan itu. Fase Anal Phase fase dimana kita diharuskan mengerti dan paham secara mandiri. Ketika kita beranjak dewasa, hal-hal yang mendasar tadi sangat kepakai dan sudah menjadi suatu kebiasaan, ketika kita bisa hidup mandiri dan kita tau mana yang menjadi kebutuhan untuk diri kita.

From higschool to college of learning this I only understand this concept through your video TY

I wonder if the enormous amounts of coke he snorted had anything to do with his theories😬

@cardinalityofaset4992

3 жыл бұрын

Ofc his theories are all bullshit

@zayatkinson7253

3 жыл бұрын

I doubt it...seeing by 90% of child cognitive development toys and school teachings are used today and promoted by other researchers

@monadolifesaver5613

3 жыл бұрын

My psychology class is about to go on to this shiz.

@skillertime779

3 жыл бұрын

Its the only way good ideas are created. Its a brain stumulant, so ideas are created more easily as the mind gets more clear.

@radical_rat

3 жыл бұрын

@@skillertime779 I promise you, cocaine is NOT the only possible way to have good ideas

The more I learn about freud the less i understand why he was so influencial

@galaxi6585

2 жыл бұрын

this shit right here is why people did psychology specifically to prove freud wrong

@ayyyiss5483

2 жыл бұрын

Because he made the foundation for modern psychology and a lot of his theories were right. I've never encounter an actual psychologist, not one, that disregards Freud's influence in psychology; ironically enough the ones who do that aren't psychologists at all.

@Anamika00004

2 жыл бұрын

Probably because he was one of the first? But it was an old time, he was a man with his other social privileges, so his understanding of human psychology is expected to be rigged with all these systematic bias resulting in... penis envy? (I wish he didn't have one, would have more theories proven right 😏) Even now, so many people (some psychologists included) are trying to mainstream the socio-political parameters in the discourse of mental health which is quite individualistic at this point, so.. meh 🤷🏽‍

@ayyyiss5483

2 жыл бұрын

@@Anamika00004 Penis envy is not particularly biased; it has a well-established theory that is based on development. People tend to forget that Freud was one of the first individuals that took women's issues seriously. Back then people didn't really think much about what a woman could go through because they would accredit that to the fact that they were women and that's how they were, however, Freud started using psychoanalysis on women who suffered from ptsd due to abuse and helped them to improve their lives by actually listen to what they had to say, which eventually led to the foundation of many other things that were unexplored at the time. Ironically enough, not many of his theories have been proven wrong, contrary to popular belief, but people still debate certain situations because psychology is not entirely understood yet.

@bre1988sid

2 жыл бұрын

But his findings seem to hold up till today

Thank you sprouts. It came into being that I picture your videos whilst sitting in my psychology exams

Contoh konkret yang saya ambil ada sosok Jerome Polin Sijabat (influencer berprestasi), yang berkreasi saat kecil berkeinginan keluar negeri untuk pergi ke disneyland, ia berpikir kalau hanya pergi untuk bermain pasti kan cuman sebentar, tapi kalau sambil belajar ke luar negeri pasti bisa lama katanya. Dasar dari pikiran jerome ingin ke disneyland adalah karena ia dikelilingi anak anak orang kaya sebab ia bersekolah di sekolah dasar swasta yang cukup mahal, jerome bisa sekolah disana karena mendapat beasiswa, keluarga jerome bisa dibilang bukan keluarga yang serba bercukupan, namun ia di didik orang tuanya untuk selalu mengejar apa yang ia cita-citakan dan keluarganya sebisa mungkin selalu memuji apa yang anakanya ingin lakukan dengan mensupport cita-cita anaknya itu. Dan menurut saya yang paling berpengaruh adalah anal phase dan didukung oleh latent phase karena saat anal phase peran didikan orang tua juga sangat berpengaruh terhadap kepribadian anak kedepannya entah dari pujian dan pendekatan lainnya, dan ketika latent phase superego terus berkembang sementara energi ide ditekan untuk mengembangkan keterampilan sosial, Tahap ini dimulai pada saat anak-anak masuk ke sekolah dan menjadi lebih peduli dengan hubungan teman sebaya, hobi, dan minat lainnya.

Pissed my pants, I am an Machine Learning Scientist.

@max2082

3 жыл бұрын

LMAO 🤣🤣🤣

This is why few in the 21st century take Freud's theories seriously: They are completely cracked.

@kingaragornii9940

3 жыл бұрын

Cracked, Like you apparently.

@leonardoteles9236

3 жыл бұрын

@@carsonbarnesharp If you dont think it doent apply, you are just ignorant, doesnt mean it is a recepie book bro its just a video, his theory is way more than that, also psycology helps a lot of people and there are a lot of theorys that can help you... thinking that they dont work... so what does?

@Nikelaos_Khristianos

3 жыл бұрын

@@carsonbarnesharp to be fair, they used to apply to one very specific group of society: Freud's test pool. That is to say, middle-aged, upper class Norwegian men who fancied their mothers.

@aq1sw2qas3qd

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah. Because most cant comprehend Freud. It's not just about grasping his ideas, it's about having the wisdom to know where to apply them.

@Nikelaos_Khristianos

3 жыл бұрын

@@carsonbarnesharp I know right, 😂 truly the most representative demographic of the human race ever.

This is quite unsettlingly accurate, thank you...I think!

A person who is classified in early adulthood is in the stage of a warm, close and communicative relationship with or not involving sexual contact. If it fails in the form of intimacy then he will experience what is called isolation (feeling isolated from others, lonely, blaming himself for being different from others). Early adulthood begins at the age of 18 years until approximately 40 years of age 122 years, when the physical and psychological changes that accompany reduced reproductive abilities 5. In general, those who are classified as young adults are those aged 20-40 years. According to a developmental psychologist, young adults include a period of transition, both physical transition, intellectual transition, and social role transition. Early adulthood social development is the culmination of adult social development. Early adulthood is a time of shifting from an egocentric view to an empathetic attitude. At this time, determining the relationship plays an important role.

Freud: * mentions that people have sexual desires * Asexuals: 👀

@r_se

3 жыл бұрын

freud would tell you that your subconscious is just being repressed, most likely due to trauma

@user-rn2bj3dh6j

3 жыл бұрын

asexuals dont exist

@char5285

3 жыл бұрын

@@user-rn2bj3dh6j yeah no you’re wrong

@originalyoutubenamethatsag6321

3 жыл бұрын

they were exposed to to much interest

@hellothere-bo7bn

3 жыл бұрын

👀👀

Keep in mind this is the person who prescribed cocaine to cure cocaine addiction

@charmaine7781

3 жыл бұрын

WHO IN THEIR RIGHT MIND WOULD DO THAT?

@criminalchicken499

3 жыл бұрын

Wrong. It was prescribed to cure a morphine addiction to a close friend. At the time, cocaine was seen as a kind of cure-all. From headaches to things like indigestion and depression. It wasn't known whether or not it could cure and addiction, and so he decided to test it first on himself. He then moved on to say it was acceptable and gave it as a treatment to his friend.

@charmaine7781

3 жыл бұрын

@@criminalchicken499 oh okay then

@Blula

3 жыл бұрын

@@criminalchicken499 Honestly that doesn't make it any better...

@criminalchicken499

3 жыл бұрын

@@Blula cocaine was used by everyone back then. Literally. It was used for headaches and pains, and pretty much everything else. So was heroine and such. They didn't have a ton of medical knowledge, and due to that what they gave was ethical and morally correct. It was seen as the best possible course of action, and so action was taken. Saying it doesn't make it any better, despite that being the absolute best medical knowledge at the time is like saying prescribing antidepressants is stupid and unethical because 150 years from now we'll have something that'll solve that without side-effects. They did what they could with the knowledge they had.

Menurut teori psikoseksual yang di kemukakan oleh Freud, dalam pertumbuhan manusia, kita melewati 5 fase. Fase tersebut yaitu, Oral (umur 0-1), Anal (umur 1-3), Phallic (umur 3-6), Latency (umur 7-13) dan Genital (Puberty - sampai meninggal). Menurut Feurd, hal yang kita alami waktu kecil secara tidak disadari mempengaruhi perilaku kita dalam kehidupan sehari-hari. Bentuk kreativitas seseorang yang terbentuk dari pengalaman pribadi pada teori ini contohnya adalah kegiatan aktivis. Kegiatan ini biasanya dilakukan oleh orang-orang yang berkembang pada fase latency dengan baik. Mengapa fase latency paling berdampak pada hal ini? Karena pada fase ini superego pada manusia semakin kuat, fase dimana manusia tersebut mulai memikirkan masalah-masalah yang ada, sehingga ingin mencari keadilan demi membangun moral yang baik dalam masyarakat.

I think the latency phase needs to be broken down more cause there are many more factors in that stage that actually influence the development of the child.

“Ida, like all women, maintains penis envy throughout her whole life” I don’t know how to tell you that not all women are envious of penises, lol, this is just kinda hilarious

@DrBe-zn5fv

3 жыл бұрын

his only purpose in putting out this schlock is to hate on his own pallid kind like a good little soyboy wokey ---- check the racist 'art' work

@FMAYasha12

3 жыл бұрын

@@DrBe-zn5fv I’m sorry, but I literally didn’t understand a single word you said.

@DrBe-zn5fv

3 жыл бұрын

@@FMAYasha12 in spanish we have a word for you .. 'empanada' meaning you are so well cooked inside the pasty of your echo chamber of conditioning that you cannot see the arrow in its flight to your heart. If you attend to this youtuber's use of blatant-yet-perfectly-pc racist stereotyping u will catch my drift i assure you. But first... less 'pan' for you..

@FMAYasha12

3 жыл бұрын

@@DrBe-zn5fv I’m so sorry but everything you say only confuses me more and more, lol. If you think I agree with the video, I was literally making fun of it, but I think maybe you’re overthinking all this, lol.

@angrymanwithsillymoustasche

3 жыл бұрын

@@FMAYasha12 its fact. But as humans,as u know moral values, emotional intelligence etc, your penis envy is not shown outside but it still exist deep inside your subconscious mind.

It really rubs me the wrong way that Freud thought that "all women" are jealous of men. Don't get ahead of yourself there mate.

@Westnile8501

3 жыл бұрын

I mean well scientifically your are an underdeveloped male. JS

@emilyrencken

3 жыл бұрын

@Seth K technically it's more like you're an overdeveloped female

@noisyguest5249

3 жыл бұрын

@@emilyrencken lol

@blanketboi7423

3 жыл бұрын

Thought the same and was wondering why I had to look so long for a comment like yours ^^

@dylanc9174

3 жыл бұрын

And I'm a bit jealous of women, though it's an unfounded jealousy. Maybe just because I liked my mother more than my father. His penis envy idea is weird.

Definitely the theory I feel didn't age so well, amongst your other videos I have seen so far. Thanks for the expose on Freud's take at the time.

an interesting teaching 😍 well understood ...Thank you sooo much

Freud was one of the weirdest/wildest theories for sure lol.

@jacknap1marshall792

3 жыл бұрын

Hi do you have Facebook,,,..... Which for sure you do, 🙂,.... Can I have the link

@The4thraikage

3 жыл бұрын

@@jacknap1marshall792 simp

@floydrose3590

3 жыл бұрын

@@jacknap1marshall792 You have mommy issues

@leokm9586

3 жыл бұрын

@@jacknap1marshall792 slow down with that Id man

@synchrolord

3 жыл бұрын

@@jacknap1marshall792 I've never seen someone Simp on KZread, wow

Fun Fact: Freud also thought that the reason women wanted to marry other men was because they have a deep internal desire to sleep with their own fathers, while simultaneously hating their mothers for keeping her husband to herself. According to Freud, this leads to women marrying men similar to their fathers, to kinda get the next best thing. I would take any theories this man had with a gigantic grain of salt.

@ryderthesinful

3 жыл бұрын

Well actually, there is some evidence that supports straight women do end up picking men that reminds them or is similar to how her father was in her childhood. Not exactly because she wants to sleep with her father, per se, but likely just because it's familiar, and humans are more comfortable with familiar.

@GimbalLocksOnly

3 жыл бұрын

You dont get out much do you? Its not uncommon for women to pick partners similar to their parents or family. Just look at them. Look at people around the world. Theres a reason interracial couples are not as common as you would think. There is a reason we STILL talk about Freud today. Take your grain of salt elsewhere. There is evidence.

@zildiun2327

3 жыл бұрын

@@GimbalLocksOnly It’s not about women picking partners of the same race or with the same hair color. Freud thought they picked them based off of how similar their genitals were to that of their fathers.

@zildiun2327

3 жыл бұрын

@@GimbalLocksOnly The takeaways from this are 2 things: 1- Even if you didn’t think it was, assuming that interracial couples are not desired by women is racist. I would work on that. 2- Work on your attitude, and don’t be a jerk. Maybe you meant it as a joke, but starting off your comment with, “You don’t get out much, do you,” is an excellent way to make everyone think of you as a grade A asshole.

@ryderthesinful

3 жыл бұрын

@@zildiun2327 ...how similar their genitals are to that of their fathers? Um, pal, I don't know about your family, but most families don't just stare and catalog each others genitals for future reference... I may be wrong, but that just sounds weird. Edit: ah, I misread. I see you now said that is what FREUD thought, not you yourself. My mistake.

Man, that animation is beautiful.

I'm struggling with self-worth. As a hairdresser,,, it is hard for me to talk about my prices for my services to customers. Afraid of being rejected for high prices make my business can't go far😢

*Freud:* _"Everything is about my meat."_

@Bruhthe1st

3 жыл бұрын

Your Profile picture makes that sentence so much better

@Azubi_Meatball4349

3 жыл бұрын

lol i can relate

@ZACHANDJACKSZACHSMAFIA

2 жыл бұрын

Little buscemi? -JACK

@Bangy

2 жыл бұрын

He's Jewish

this is weird

@kinglunarchy9417

3 жыл бұрын

And not factual sooo

@Aarogance

3 жыл бұрын

@Demeter greek not really just basic biology= Eat, Sleep, Reproduce

@somerandompersonofficial

3 жыл бұрын

yeah Freud was weird

@cedricburkhart3738

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah I don't buy it.

@ultimatewarriors1291

3 жыл бұрын

True

I would like to correct one piece of information here. according to Sigmund Freud's theory, the super-ego is developed after the ego. First, there's the Id, as you said, children are driven only by the id (the principle of pleasure) then there's the part where the child starts connecting with the outside world and starts understanding the concept of individuality so they form the ego (follows the reality principle and mostly conscious yet it creates the unconscious defense mechanisms) after that the child developed a sense of self (aka ego), he/she is now exposed to morality, ideals, and develops the super-ego which is mainly in the preconscious telling us to be good. and that's how the ego starts moderating between the Id and the super-ego attempting to satisfy both while also using defense mechanisms to avoid anxiety.

I think it’s important to point out that these theories are widely discredited in modern psychology

@RB01.10

3 жыл бұрын

But what about the part about young boys and girls finding out about their anatomy differences? At what age should they be taught about that? I always thought you should only teach them if they happen to notice and ask questions?

@rob3r7jr

3 жыл бұрын

No shit Sherlock!?!

@trueamnisias

2 жыл бұрын

I think it's important to point out that these theories are one of the most influential in modern psychology - current therapies developed leading on from this (psychoanalytic psychotherapy) or in critical discourse with it (CBT). Freud published his works more than 100 years ago, when people with mental health problems ended up in asylums and psychology and psychological health was not realy a concept.

@palaremzikermes

Жыл бұрын

You are funny :)

@paromita_ghosh

Жыл бұрын

@@trueamnisias o started to believe these are these actual theories or not??

I'm no psychologist, but I think this ideas were the result of his cocaine addiction.

@afnanfazli1713

3 жыл бұрын

shows

@thegod2291

3 жыл бұрын

Lol

@wilhelmvonn9619

3 жыл бұрын

He actually recommended cocaine as an aid to clear thinking. Yeah right ...

@asturianix9820

3 жыл бұрын

@@wilhelmvonn9619 He once recommended cocaine to one patient as a way to cure his addiction to morphine. He ended being addictive to both and he said it was his fault for having a bad administration lol

@dethkon

3 жыл бұрын

@@asturianix9820 Hell yeah

All of Freud's assertions in this context are so beyond absurd it's amazing they're taken seriously at all. I feel like there's many more events or parental practices that can influence people to develop their egos over time than just the stages Freud describes. It almost has to be more nuanced than you need to be potty trained at your personal discretion in order to feel confident about yourself.

Our History of Science teacher was right. Freud has quite an attempt to relate our every behaviour to our sex drive.

So perverts had a traumatizing childhood , sad that thats most ppl on the internet :/

@soda_pressed6254

3 жыл бұрын

However, this doesn't justify their behavior. But yeah, I agree with you.

@lemao9239

3 жыл бұрын

True indeed

@DanielRTSC

3 жыл бұрын

Its more Complex than that. Its kinda true tho

@someoneunspecial1729

3 жыл бұрын

Then it creates a cycle :|

@charmaine7781

3 жыл бұрын

@@someoneunspecial1729 yes

While this theory is a pain to digest, I can agree that shaming your kid for failure (like failing to potty train) does make you more misserable.

Dalam video di atas terdapat kaitannya dengan teori yg digagas oleh freud. Freud percaya kepribadian yang berkembang melalui serangkaian tahapan masa kanak-kanak di mana mencari kesenangan-energi dari id menjadi fokus pada area sensitif seksual tertentu. Energi psikoseksual, atau libido , digambarkan sebagai kekuatan pendorong di belakang perilaku. Bentuk dari kreatifitas seseorang yang dibentuk dari pengalaman pribadi pada teori psikoseksual contohnya adalah sukarelawan, kegiatan inilah yang dibentuk pada fase latency, kegiatan menjadi sukarelawan inilah kegiatan sosial yang di dasari oleh keinginan sendiri dan manfaatnya juga banyak bagi sendiri dan orang lain. Mengapa fase latency ini sangat berdampak? Karena pada fase ini manusia menjadi lebih matang atau fase dimana manusianya sudah memikirkan masalah-masalah yang ada sehingga mencari keadilan untuk kepentingan moral di masyarakat

Life is not what happend to me. its what I choose to become~Carl jung We can't change the past. But we can choose to accept it and become stronger

Freud's nose candy sure affected him a lot.

"Penis envy" is an allegory to women envying men's strength and stamina, but even when I know this I still chuckled when hearing this lol.

@PM-yj3lc

3 жыл бұрын

You don't get it

@Mi_Fa_Volare

3 жыл бұрын

That is nothing biological though. That mindset is induced by society and is also one reason why there are sex offenders with dominance as motive. Surprisingly or kind of fitting by this video, more female sex offenders commit rape or molest with the sense of dominance as motive than men do.

@Mi_Fa_Volare

3 жыл бұрын

I cut my comment short, because KZread deleted my complete one within a second. That shows that they must be hiding something.

@TheBlissfulVoid

3 жыл бұрын

@@Mi_Fa_Volare I know what redit you would fit perfectly in! r/IknownothingbutimgonnapretendIdoanywaystomakemystupidandobviouslywrong/idioticargumentsseemvalid.

@jesusalbertogiraldomendoza9960

3 жыл бұрын

@@Mi_Fa_Volare hey, chill, the video was academic, showing freud theory from 20 century, not 2020 decade .-.

Thank you so much for the video and the freedom of using it to our advance.

Willhem Wundt the father of psychology also recived criticism.

I think that most of the comments overlooked the simplicity of the message he was trying to convey. Just because one of these things happened to you doesn't mean that you will become that way, it just increases the chances of you becoming that way, especially over time.

@lostinabookstore8039

3 жыл бұрын

My thoughts exactly!

@vinichenzo4811

3 жыл бұрын

Am i the only one who didnt think anything in this video was crazy?

@lostinabookstore8039

3 жыл бұрын

@@vinichenzo4811 YES!!! I thought the exact same thing!

@vinichenzo4811

3 жыл бұрын

@@lostinabookstore8039 i mean its about the subconcious no one is saying you literally want to fuck your mum its about how you will perceive future relationships and how you will be attracted to people similar to her

@bachvandals3259

3 жыл бұрын

@@vinichenzo4811 he is weird... But his method is... Effective to say at least... His way of dealing with problem can be sum up as: "You have a psychological problem? Let me guess, childhood sexual abuse?" It's not right all the time... But 100% work 30-40% of the time.

So your saying I'm not dumb, I just pissed my pants too early.

Wonderful presentation ❤️

Freud grew up and developed his theories in the Victorian Era, when sexuality was not discussed and much neurotic behavior came about.

This feels like a joke.

@cynthiaanderson6410

3 жыл бұрын

I kind of wish it was

@digimonalvatrax2738

3 жыл бұрын

It is

@skycrafter2042

3 жыл бұрын

@@digimonalvatrax2738 its not sadly

@xdyourmom1953

3 жыл бұрын

Take it with a grain of salt. The man was a freak

@fernandobloodborne770

3 жыл бұрын

Freud, because of the context he was his whole life, made him had an interpretation of this phases based on misogynist (penis envy). Most of what he wrote was heavily judged.

This is the best anti drug advertising I've ever come across

@adnan2643

2 жыл бұрын

🤣nice one

@TheSapphireLeo

Жыл бұрын

And/or because taught by people on such, if not also methodically and willing in full awareness?

This video has been changed but the comments are still representing the original.

Seems to me like humans want a simple model to describe a reality that surpasses our comprehension. In attempting to do this, we can end up with models that over simplify and fail to take account of the nuances of existence. Personally, I feel like any model of reality should be able to constantly shift and evolve in order to fit new situations. If a model is too rigid, either reality will be bent to fit it, and we will ignore important information, either it will break.

Dad: "Son, you are experiencing what is called Oedipus Complex, just as I predicted yesterday, understand that what you are going through is normal and that it has no effect on your mother or I, RISE ABOVE YOUR IMPULSES SON, FORGE YOUR OWN WAY." *Shakes fist triumphantly* Son: *Existential crisis*

@ronin_amv5250

3 жыл бұрын

Typical anime training arc for a child

@a_donut

3 жыл бұрын

Son: “Are you telling me to kill you, and then marry mom? That’s fucked up, dad.”

Freud's work shows how academia was back when he theorized this. This was constructed in the context of traditional christian values. This context formed the understanding what "normal" and "healthy" meant in his work. "Perversion" as a sin was undisputed, as was the female subordinate role in society and the family. As our society evolves past monolythic value systems, Freud's work loses a lot of relevance, though there was still a lot of good observations around childhood neurological development, we need to recontextualize his findings. Turns out, reality is a lot more complex than any simplified model of psychoanalysis. Would be really cool to see a similar video on some of the critiques of Freud in the future. Especially the later stages are heavily disputed.

@weltschmerzistofthaufig2440

Жыл бұрын

Wasn’t Freud an atheist, though?

@SymbioticSense

Жыл бұрын

" Turns out, reality is a lot more complex than any simplified model of psychoanalysis." This!!! Could not agree more! It seems crazy to me how eager we are to oversimplify reality in an attempt to construct an "easy" model, instead of attempting to complexify our models to fit reality!

during my latent phase i was being bullied by everyone, not having any friend, and everyone laughed on me.. my problems in my life might actually come from this period of my life..

@HaroldsLastDate

5 ай бұрын

Bullying can certainly do psychological harm. That doesn't mean that Freud explanation for how or why that happens is the correct one, or that harm can't be healed.

3:42 don’t get why the unsure about his sexuality part was necessary?

@vitin3817

3 ай бұрын

I know right, i felt unconfortable with this video

@Mateiisback

3 ай бұрын

@@vitin3817 yeah, no one should involve their personal beliefs towards others such as religion or whatever you think, especially when it’s little kids who are still devolving and can be influenced. Brings me disgust

wtf when I was lil I never fantasized about murdering my dad I always looked up to him 😂😂

@sweetcoyote917

3 жыл бұрын

Oh, so that’s just me, ok

@bribwan1bribwan135

3 жыл бұрын

I may Dislike my dad time to time. you’ll go to jail If you Murdered your dad.

@jagamin5003

3 жыл бұрын

Never murder but I can’t say I looked up to him

@Fiat_Multipla69

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah same

@rahulmalik1083

Жыл бұрын

Well i did actually , because he would beat my mom like once a week , and have frightening shouting with possibility of beating my mom , every other day . And i was always anxious of a fight breaking out between them every day , every minute .

Freud is smart in many respects. Some ideas and statements, such as the personal tyrant all men obey, are often well thought out. However, I often consider this theory from Freud to be overly simplistic. It's an idea based on how our community can effect us more so than the effects of other environmental elements or our relationship with our bodies. No proper explanation on body dismorphia. No explanation on why a child may look up to an adult of a different gender. No explanation on why people develop different love languages, which I'm just starting to understand myself. Same goes with the subject of sexuality. Why do some find larger bodies attractive while others hold an attraction to smaller bodies. Example of this is the question of why some find a big buttocks attractive, some find a small one attractive, and others hold no attraction at all. This is more important than it appears. Going by the example of a woman having penis envy, that may not be what often develops. A woman may hear the guys they are attracted to talk about attraction to the smaller, which may make her become self conscious of her weight. Likewise, comments of a larger size may have the inverse of her feeling like she's too inadequate to attract a mate. Things may especially be difficult for a woman who hears all of this, but is attracted to someone who doesn't have that attraction. Therefore, she may try to emphasize that part, which may put off the mate she's after. Going back to penis envy, this can effect guys, too. Some guys tend to avoid subjects relating to nudity simply because they feel their penis is inadequate for pleasure and procreation. The subject of body size may also play a part. A guy with a large upper body can be considered strong and reliable to the women around him, but he may have insecurities and assume he's overweight. Just the same, a man who's "lean and sculpted" may view himself as "too weak" or "scrawny" to attract a mate. This negative view a man may hold of his body can be as frustrating to his mate. Even a woman confident in her body who simply wish to have personal enjoyment may find it difficult if he feels he can't deliver. Then there's the matter of appearance outside of biology. A subject that is especially difficult to properly explain. Some may find a bare upper body to be interesting and attractive. Others may not care, but will change their mind based on attire and any use if make up. To note, I do include tan sprays as a type of make up. In each instance of poor relations with ones own body, very little of Freud's theory accounts for every problem. Some of it may be upbringing, as suggested. However some of it can also be the environment, the present social experience, and whether or not there's a healthy relationship with ones own body. That's why I say this theory if Freud is too simple.

@sprouts

3 жыл бұрын

Hi Neko Vermillion, thank you for the insightful comment! It's so encouraging for us to see that our videos can entice educated discussion and contributions from people who know a lot about the topic :)

@laughingfurry

3 жыл бұрын

@@sprouts Often there is contradiction and miscommunication. Which is the big thing I wanted to bring up. There are often conflict due to such problems. Thankfully, I am understood.

@laughingfurry

3 жыл бұрын

@@ryand4787 I did talk about more than attraction. Such as the point of self consciousness being effected by others within the environment. Which is why I mentioned a man who's uncomfortable with his body having relationship problems. It's far more than him being attracted to someone. It's also a matter of him feeling confident in his body. Same with women. People do tend to have their personalities completely change, often to unhealthy degrees, due to the people around them belittling them for their body. The same can go with how they act, but that's a more difficult subject to discuss.

@nok460

3 жыл бұрын

Have you ever read or studied Freud ? Real question, you cannot say psycho sexual developement is a simplistic theory if you actually read Freud. Besides this theory goes beyond Freud. Theres a LOT of authors who contributed their part.

@Cupitron

3 жыл бұрын

@@nok460 Yup, actually saying Freud's theory is simplistic is not really knowing or reading his work.

The theories or no theories, I have observed and analysed and found, that our childhood and all the experiences until teenage, effect our lives, and a personality is developed and formed, but in society and careers we are bound to follow the rules, so we behave normally there, but there are certain things in our personality that need explanation, and that is directly from our lives until teenage, and for some even after that. The three, Ego, id and Super Ego are true When we observe ourselves, there's surely a conflict going on constantly in our lives, The good, the bad and the controller, there's something in us that controls us from doing wrong things, that is our Super Ego or purely Conscience. The Id is of course the crude animalistic nature in us, that doesn't think about morals, but I say morals again vary in different cultures, that can be called The Good, that gives us peace of mind, and peace in heart. Freud also says that the Super Ego is the society and the influence of our parents who teach us to do good, OK, if our parents too have some bad things and our society too has some things that may not be good, then what? So, I think the Super Ego is the Conscience.

When you had a test with this on it a day ago and it suddenly gets recommended. *Has flashbacks*

Imagine listening to this without rheadphones and your parents hear “the oral phase” “the oral phase”

Some random a**hole Me: he probably didn’t sh*t in the toilet until 7

I'm taking his work with a grain of salt. And a lot of doubts. But I'm sure some of it holds true. Regardless, as I personally have been experiencing life for my own it is possible to be in accordance with my past. I find that it is plausible to unlearn learnt behaviors, although, the stronger and the longer that behavior has been around the more of a fight it would take to suppress them. From what I've witnessed (with myself) the behaviors I have learned and obtained like depression stays on either forever or for a very long time, but it is certainly possible to suppress it and learn to work with the cards I am dealt with. Never try to SILENCE them, but do learn the right from wrong and then take yourself from there.

Freud brought so many new approaches to understand the human psyche. Early Childhood is incredible marking for the personality. Our brains aren’t fully developed when we are born and many important neural connections are formed during early childhood that significantly influences our understanding of the world. How this is exactly working is really complicated and I think Freud had a good approach. Of Course his theories are all really… sexualised. But that was the perspective he decided to look the human psyche at (+speaking about sex was really progressive for his times) I always feel Freuds theories should be taken with a pinch of salt, but all in all he was truly a genius

"Eda has made many new girlfriends" Me: is she gay?

@peepeepoopoomyguy7457

3 жыл бұрын

Yes

@HiHello-cw9vc

3 жыл бұрын

Um what do you think? It’s kinda obvious

@insectslayer1374

3 жыл бұрын

she was kinda sus

@hotdogshake4764

3 жыл бұрын

thats kinda gay ngl

@nerdkawaii2359

3 жыл бұрын

"Eda experiences penis envy. She thinks this is the key to power and domination and also *wants* one" I don't know if it means she desires a man in order to have a sensation of power, or if she wants to be a man.

"The boys conflict in this faze is a rivalry with their father" Me, who doesn't have a father: 👁_👁

@krimsonkatt

3 жыл бұрын

Are you the chosen one, conceived by mediclorians?

@BlueHat1

3 жыл бұрын

You're like that 2nd guy then

@StingnB

3 жыл бұрын

Wow you're really an exception to the most supreme theory of life smh

@notevenusingthisanymorelol

3 жыл бұрын

@@aesop1451 nah, the only older guy I've interacted with I was pretty cool with

@notevenusingthisanymorelol

3 жыл бұрын

@@BlueHat1 I wouldn't really same I'm questioning my sexuality, having an obsession with my mother, or being over competitive with other guys so eh

Is there really nothing in the latent phase that can go wrong? Seems a bit odd that in that life segment all the sudden nothing should have an impact on your life and you can only benefit no matter what you do...

4:30 Wait, Freud just says "nope, nothing wrong can happen in ages 7-13" after describing it as the most social-developing and "super-ego"tistical phase? He had no examples of how things could have gone awry in this stage, leading to different kinds of effects and lives as we see exampled in this video?

I'm gonna say what I told my Psychology teacher a few years ago: we don't have enough evidence. If more people were willing to talk honestly about this stuff, we could conclusively say whether Freud was right or wrong.

@karenkfoury7047

2 жыл бұрын

but you have to take into consideration that Freud was addicted to cocaine and that none of his theories were backed up by evidence. He was convincing his patients that they had gone through childhood trauma that they don’t remember. He’s theories are subjective and not scientific, so most probably he’s wrong.

@jojojo9240

2 жыл бұрын

That's why you ask stuff anonymously, so people will answer it honestly.

@rihamashraf167

Жыл бұрын

@@karenkfoury7047 why though?? It makes perfect sense and most gais are like this they have daddy issues, they were more enmeshed with mother and many admitted to be s3xually molested that's why a lot says that they don't only feel s3xual feelings towards men, they also feel romantic and emotional ones and that's the reason why having absent father and feeling different from other men and difficulty in developing sense of manhood, when u think about it and apply to our modern world u will see it makes perfect sense and he wasn't wrong about it. It's only people don't want to accept it and instead trying to look for biological evidence for being gai because by saying it's how they are born and they can't change or control these feelings it makes it easier to pass it to society and make it acceptable but if people start to see it as something cause by trauma then it means there is treatment and a hope for change and this what most people don't want to happen so they reject his ideas

@sssaaa4876

Жыл бұрын

@@rihamashraf167 You're wrong although we can say that the reason of having a different sexuality is not completely identified Moreover, your theory only explains gay and lesbian sexualities, but how about the other ones then? Parents pay an important role in our mental development but there's no scientific proof to your theory And even if your theory was true, you still couldn't judge these people because they cause nothing bad to society. They don't have any mental problems, that is the other reason it isn't treated. Compared to someone who went through emotional neglect as a child and faces mental issues and illnesses as an adult to face that, 'developing' (because that's not how it works) a different sexuality doesn't cause any disorders, a gay person can be still as healthy as a heterosexual one

@haritc8462

Жыл бұрын

A lot of french therapists practice Freudian based Psychoanalysis. If nothing else, the french mental health system has proven that freud's Theories are completely ineffective if not downright harmful when used to treat mental illnesses and psychological disorders.