I continue to be shocked by people who are angry at artists who are literally working and having a life outside of their work

Question, and yes, I'm an international fan asking this. Why do fans get so upset about a BL couple just being friends or one getting married to a female or has a gf, but are quick to judge someone who cheats? How is that fair? I mean, here in America that is common news and it doesnt ruin the actor or actresses career but god forbid one half of a good bl couple starts dating someone who is NOT their bl partner and you want to crucify him. IF this is true about Force giving a gf, i guarantee you the ONE person who is happiest for him is Book because he wants his friend to find happiness. I love the video you did on this, and even Joong told his class he is single, so does that mean everyone will crucify him because he isn't dating Dunk? And if they are dating and want to keep it private, are fans going to get upset over that too? Come on, yall, they're actors who are in dramas where they kiss each other and help make our days better, and they always give us a great show. They are human and do have private OFF CAMERA lives...which include family time and date nights no matter who the person is. Like others have said, NOT all bl actors are GAY or bi or even DATING their bl partner. Please respect their private lives!!!

@kittycait1485

6 ай бұрын

Some fans are just f-ing weird, that's it I think? I mean, I'm a fan and I do let myself go delulu whenever I really just need to temporarily detach from reality but never would I ever hate an actor (or idol/singer) for loving someone I didn't know or didn't expect. It's their life and I'm just thankful that they are doing their job well and can help me get thru my difficult times because they can make me laugh and help move on safely from my issues. On the other hand, there are "fans"(more like creeps, actually) whose normal state is delulu. They let themselves imagine scenarios in their head, and then somehow believe them to be reality. They will bend facts to suit their scenario and then just ignore everything else that they can't change while also insisting those are lies, it's f-ing weird. They are literally so lost in their fantasy that they cannot tell just how off they are. The concept of this isn't much different from how haters are actually. They can be kind of related too. >.

People need to grow up and live in reality. BL series are for our entertainment- these are not documentaries about real people and their lives. Stop living in a fantasy world- these talented actors have real lives and are entitled to have their personal lives remain private. BL fans who are upset or angry about Force, or anyone for that matter having a girlfriend, need to grow up ! Are you 8 yrs old ?

@debd3980

6 ай бұрын

Agreed

@asterpaez4133

6 ай бұрын

😅

I'm confused fr. Why do we care? He is a normal human and an actor. He can have friends irl and even if he has a gf I don't see a problem with it. I think as long as he act well and occasionally do fanservice, there's no need for us to know every details of their life. The force that we know is an actor, outside of that is up to him. He's free to live his life. I'm not judging fans who enjoy forcebook interactions as i like it as well, i just hope that people are aware that those are part of their friendship and a pinch of fan service.

Omg. I do wish people could learn to separate their personal life from their job. He’s an actor for goodness sake. He’s friends with Book for years. But if he’s got a girlfriend- good for him. I hope she’s lovely and they’re very happy. I can not believe people would be shocked if any of the bl actors have partners. They are humans and will date people. Acting is a job and just that. ❤

Is it anyone's business but his????

it is one thing to talk with your friends in private about theories that BL couples are really together, or have outside relationships, but social media is not private unless you take extraordinary measures. So open, public attacks over a normal human thing like a relationship, making actors feel uncomfortable or even feel incredibly violated over intrusive fan actions really isn't ok.

for me it's their right,if they have gf or bf no need for fans to say bad words or bash them bcoz as fans we hav no right to judge or bash them in the end it's their choice not ours👍real fans should be happy for them and support them💖

I really don't understand why you have to pretend to be in a relationship with your coworkers. They are actor's its acting. Yes they are very good it makes you want it to be real. But I think it must be very difficult to always be pretending and not be real.

See I had to learn the hard way , bc back then I thought everyone in the bl industry was gay. And once I found they have girlfriends I thought to my self like not everyone’s gay , they can be bisexual! bc there’s a lot of bl actors out there with kids and a wife. But and still in the bl industry but who knows.!

@nneichan9353

6 ай бұрын

I know where you are coming from. I think fan service really is confusing for many fans. One example is the very intense love/friendship of MaxTul. They had hands all over each other, openly talked about their loving relationship, the physicality of their work and non-work lives and while part of the romantic love seems very true, some is fan service. This was made very obvious when Max admitted he was dating Mook after she posted a picture of them. some fans were shocked, some devastated, some angry, some betrayed, and some (thankfully) rational.

I'm an international fan and would like to say this to those who love to spread rumours. First of all so what if Force has a Gf, did he do something wrong to you? do you even know him personally? I'm sure you don't know him, so why are you spreading rumors? You must have a very pathetic life, you really need to shape up or ship out, better yet take a pill and dissolve. Force, here's something a friend told me (rumors about us), He knows and I know what is going on between us So F- - K everybody (we were best friends and did lots of stuff 2gether), so Force don't let anything like this bother you, your health is more important, you don't need to get sick cause of these stupid people. Live and Love your life to the fullest. Aloha from Hawaii♥🌺

I love him ❤and I’m cool with whatever he chooses ❤

What is the point of photoing actors and entertainers and then grilling them? What right do we fans have to thrust them out into the open and destroy their privacy? Let them have their own lives. It is fine being curious it is not ok to repeatedly corner them over possible relationships. Just as fans have down time, so do entertainers. It is incredibly important to their mental health not to be always on guard. Let's remember we owe them respect, let us all remember we have no right to destroy anyone's life.

agreed 👍❤

❤💯

Wake up Gays. He is an actor, acting is his profession, that means not he dedicated his life. He has a personal life. Every bl actor is not gay. So maybe he has a girlfriend. We should enjoy his acting Not concern about his personal life. Everyone has own life plz don't mixup reel life and real life. This is not fair na!!!if it is true Force have a girlfriend that's cool. Congratulations dude.

Just be careful next time coz they know what kind of industry they are in and wither they like it or not, most of the fans got delusional, honestly speaking

They don't know what fan service is, right? All BL actors are not gay. It's normal to have a girlfriend. Because they're good at acting, they look like they're real, and in the end netizens are disappointed 😂

All I can do is just laughing. They are an n actors, just see their acting/movies/music, etc. Having girlfriend (straight), boyfriend (gay), or girl n boy (bi), so what???? It's their life, not yours. Don't judge. Be a smart fans, not a stupid fans. Respect them as you respect yourself.

Can't a human have a relationship with a nother humanbeing.? Whats wrong with that?

why do they care?

You have time to explain

Pls they are human too ahh joong u make me sad..

If u call ur self his fans just stay n be happy for him if that girl is his gf in rl, but its also okay if u just left.. just do that if u can not accept ur fav actors hv a gf. Its easy isnt? Dont do bad comment or mad its not good for urself 😁❤.

It is series of bl not boy relationships. It's a job if they become a couple GREAT! if not there best of friends that can work together comfortably. Get a life people wow

why did force book still carry on like they are lovers after their series finished if they are "only friends" there is no need for that from any BL actor ... the BL industry is so fake, just look at what happened to OhmNanon as an example ...

@nayzon2162

6 ай бұрын

For your information, ForceBook never carry on like they are lovers. They have 23 years friendship and they are partners for work. They are not random strangers to work in a project and parted their way. I don't know what you are seeing to conclude this. They did offer fan services and when they did, we know it is fan services because it is how much obvious they are showing. Also, that was their job and we like to be served.

Just two things to correct. Most are not fans of ForceBook. They are just passers-by who want to gossip and get attention with this topic. And, they have 23 years friendship, not just 16. Apart from that, yes, all agree. Some people really need to learn RESPECT.

Well as they use fan service as part of the business plan for getting profits I think they should be discrete with their personal love life. For example, because of Pond and Perth indiscretions lately I don't see the pondphuwin or perthchimon ship the same way as before. I don't know if forcebook ship is going to be affected but in all the cases their managers and actors themselves should be more careful. It's business.

@debd3980

6 ай бұрын

What indiscretions? I haven't heard of any that would affect the ship with PerthChimon or PondPhuwin.

@sanrio8058

6 ай бұрын

What Pond and Perth indiscretions?

@debd3980

6 ай бұрын

@sanrio8058 that's what I want to know

daca are iubita sa nu uite sa ne cheme la nunta:))))) ca invitat vreau sa merg nu ca mireasa....imi ajunge un sot:)))) valabil pentru toti actorii din seriale.... si daca se casatoresc cu EL si nu cu O EA.... e decizia lor....eu vreau sa merg la ei la nunta:))))))

Ridiculous. And who cares btw. Live your life. And last but not the least, please don't assume anybody's sexuality. Most of them are straight or most of them are gay or bi....... nobody is in that place to judge.

Who cares