FIRST UNASSISTED STEPS! PLUS: The secret to remaining positive

Everyone asks me how I remain positive in the aftermath of amputation...here's the big secret!
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Fourteen years of pain brought me to 2018, when I made the difficult decision to become a twenty-seven-year-old elective amputee. This channel is to document my journey of amputation surgery, recovery, and reclaiming my life.

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  • @scaryplace
    @scaryplace5 жыл бұрын

    Amputee Protip#53: You're half as likely to stub a toe on the bed post in the middle of the night.

  • @nancydriessen594
    @nancydriessen5945 жыл бұрын

    The only thing I thought when I saw the title was: congrats! 🎊🎉

  • @FootlessJo

    @FootlessJo

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much, Nancy!

  • @queencupcake09
    @queencupcake095 жыл бұрын

    How are you so happy?? You are the most chipper person ever!! I am happy that you are happy!

  • @davidduffy9806
    @davidduffy98065 жыл бұрын

    Jo, you’re extraordinarily sweet, please don’t feel compelled to share you raw feelings. Please take time, time to look after yourself first, at this time you come first, second and third. Jo, take time, maybe share in a little while not but not right now when things are just so raw. Love David

  • @readjon
    @readjon5 жыл бұрын

    The best u tuber ever ! Honest and frank but you still have a sense of humour and loads more

  • @shellcshells2902
    @shellcshells29025 жыл бұрын

    Our expectations on ourselves can also be our downfall.... one day, one moment at a time. I personally think you're doing exceptionally well!

  • @FootlessJo

    @FootlessJo

    5 жыл бұрын

    Shell Cshells thank you for this beautiful comment!

  • @chargingpoint2567

    @chargingpoint2567

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@FootlessJo appreciate comment ,you are also nice girl 👼

  • @julierocco76

    @julierocco76

    5 жыл бұрын

    She's doing much better than most would. She is an inspiration to others but she also brings the depression side into this which absolutely needs to be addressed. How many people suffer in silence?

  • @shellcshells2902

    @shellcshells2902

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@julierocco76 I totally agree. I've been known to suffer in silence so glad for Jo... encouraging channel!

  • @jessXjessful
    @jessXjessful5 жыл бұрын

    It’s like one think after the other for you... Im rooting for you and praying for you all the way girl

  • @FootlessJo

    @FootlessJo

    5 жыл бұрын

    jessXjessful Awh thank you so much. I truly appreciate that!

  • @kerryirving2949
    @kerryirving29495 жыл бұрын

    WELL DONE for walking on your own jo!! 👏🏻😊

  • @ProfessorofPerseverance
    @ProfessorofPerseverance5 жыл бұрын

    AWESOME! It's OK to visit Pittyville but don't move in! Thank you for being strong and positive during challenges. Have a blessed day and looking for more great content.

  • @addicted2tone349
    @addicted2tone3495 жыл бұрын

    First thing.. CONGRATS!!!! Awesome job!!! It's normal to have anxiety after all you've been thru, don't rush things, it takes time to heal.

  • @pattyfluegel7816
    @pattyfluegel78165 жыл бұрын

    You're doing everything right!

  • @zyphod
    @zyphod5 жыл бұрын

    You are a so positive! Well done on the walking. Forget about the car bump, sh*t happens, you can't change it. Remember the healing process takes time, but each day your getting stronger mentally and physically, (you can see it in each post)!

  • @merleros4923
    @merleros49235 жыл бұрын

    So happy to see this videos, especially the first part. I'm not an ampute but I just wrote in my "journal" because I was anxious because I have a EMDR session tomorrow. The writing really helps me to reorganize the chaos of all the very "scary" things in my head. You made me tear up and smile in one video hahaha! A lot of hugs from the netherlands ❤️

  • @FootlessJo

    @FootlessJo

    5 жыл бұрын

    Merle Ros EMDR therapy is so good - but so hard and scary, at least in my experience! I’ve done it a total of five times in the course of trauma counseling and found it always really ended up helping, as frightening or nerve wracking as it was. I’m so glad you were able to journal, I hope that helped you! Best of luck with your EMDR, I’m rooting for you from Colorado! 😊🙌🏻

  • @RipleyEllen
    @RipleyEllen5 жыл бұрын

    Very happy for you Jo, glad no one was seriously hurt in the crash. It probably freaked you out a bit because you were already worried about your appointment. I'm also glad you are staying mostly positive, don't over think your progress about doing too much or too little. Much love ❤

  • @MorningDusk7734
    @MorningDusk77342 жыл бұрын

    "Footless Jo, Dread Pirate of the Blanket Sea" has a marvelous ring to it.

  • @allentroxel9719
    @allentroxel97195 жыл бұрын

    I cant imagine what you are going through. But I also have breakdowns. I have disc issues that affect my mobility. I get frustrated. And when I do I deal with it move on and listen to music. Bless you Jo. I'm glad I discovered your channel. I love your positive attitude and honesty.

  • @sunshineisfine2
    @sunshineisfine25 жыл бұрын

    I am glad I came upon your channel near to the time you have had your amputation. You show great character. I believe that when we go through years of chronic pain it makes us able to get through tough moments without going into a panic for the most part. I have been avoiding having an amputation for the past 4 years because I am stubborn. Now seeing how you are dealing with your own, I feel much more confident in how things can work out. Thank you. Now don't go thinking you are responsible for such a decision, it's all on me. You have given me a better perspective. 💟

  • @LeBoof
    @LeBoof5 жыл бұрын

    Keeping it real. So Refreshing.

  • @TheRoman1399
    @TheRoman13995 жыл бұрын

    Jo.....YOU ROCK!!!! Glad you and Brian are ok!! Thank you for your videos. You are a inspiration to me!!!

  • @FootlessJo

    @FootlessJo

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ndn Ed awww shucks thank you so much!!!

  • @honor2798
    @honor27985 жыл бұрын

    You did amazing, well done!!! I am so sorry you were in a car accident, I am just glad everyone was ok, thank you for also sharing that you take time to 'break down' and that its ok, you never stop surprising me, Jo! again congrats on taking your first steps

  • @FootlessJo

    @FootlessJo

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much my dear!! I really appreciate it! And gosh I'm so glad everyone was okay, too...I could have been bad, but thankfully, no one was badly hurt. Except the trunk. Lol. Thanks for your comment!!

  • @honor2798

    @honor2798

    5 жыл бұрын

    Footless Jo hehe, you are very welcome and thank you!!!

  • @julierocco76
    @julierocco765 жыл бұрын

    I have depression tendencies too. Between my physical pain, that all stems from my fused ankle (@ age 11), and my emotional pain, from the deaths of both my parents, I make reservations for "Pity party ... party of 1". We need to lick our wounds and cry. Crying is cleansing. I don't cry easily either. I am stoic and strong ... crying makes me seem vulnerable and vulnerability made me an easy target of bullying in grade school when I returned with a fused ankle. First it was crutches and then a cane. Oh yeah, all the kids wanted to be me .... NOT. The buck teeth weren't stylish enough ... I added a true "gimp" to my gate. Life is hard, kids are cruel and no one cared. So, I learned to protect myself. I'm only just now, at age 55, learning to allow people to see me cry. I prefer to do it by myself though. Try doing it in the shower. The water drowns out the sobbing and washes away the tears and snots. Be gentle with yourself. You don't have to carry the burden of pain by yourself.

  • @FootlessJo

    @FootlessJo

    5 жыл бұрын

    Julie Rocco thank you for such a beautiful and validating comment. 💜 Pitt party, party of one is definitely a go-to for me when I need to break down for a moment or two. We have a lot in common it sounds like - I don’t let others actually see me vulnerable, but after years of counseling, I’m trying to start to change that and let people in. All the best to you as you continue your journey too. 💜

  • @pedrogarcia30
    @pedrogarcia305 жыл бұрын

    I just discovered your videos. I am rooting for you!

  • @FootlessJo

    @FootlessJo

    5 жыл бұрын

    Pedro Garcia awww thank you!!

  • @YG1THEMVP
    @YG1THEMVP5 жыл бұрын

    No dislikes, first time seeing a video without dislikes. You are an amazing person very very positive thank you for your existence

  • @FootlessJo

    @FootlessJo

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yahir Romero oh gosh you are so kind, thank you for your support!

  • @YG1THEMVP

    @YG1THEMVP

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for your respond it means so much to me

  • @UsernamesForDummies

    @UsernamesForDummies

    5 жыл бұрын

    3 morons have turned up since you’ve written that comment. I suspect they’re people who have no real struggles in their lives and lack empathy.

  • @samanthawainshtein2684
    @samanthawainshtein26845 жыл бұрын

    I stumbled across your channel and immediately subscribed. I’ve been living with Chronic pain since the age of 13 (just turned 19 yesterday) and seeing you really inspires me to keep going, as well as being reassured that its okay to breakdown and not be okay mentally, but I will get there. You are extremely strong and I’m going through nowhere near as much as you, but thank you for sharing your story and I look forward to the many more videos to come-as well as your continual progress!

  • @haleywilson5761
    @haleywilson57615 жыл бұрын

    Im so jealous of your level of self awareness. You seem to be so good at realizing when something is off, then pin pointing what it is, and taking steps towards dealing with it (even if that means a breakdown). Congrats on your steps and glad that you are all okay from the accident! Also, it’s super interesting to see someone take a screwdriver to someone’s leg 😂

  • @FootlessJo

    @FootlessJo

    5 жыл бұрын

    Oh gosh Haley, what a kind comment. Thank you. I've tried to spend (a lot) of time focussing on my mental health due to years of issues, and I think some of it has payed off with being able to identify at least some level of self awareness. I'm really grateful for that. Thank you so much for your really sweet encouragement, it helps me a lot! And omgosh, right!? Every time I go in, he "amputates" my leg again haha!

  • @PghFlip
    @PghFlip5 жыл бұрын

    Fantastic! Great to see you take your first steps so soon!

  • @KGA333
    @KGA3335 жыл бұрын

    I do the same exact thing! So glad I found you

  • @FootlessJo

    @FootlessJo

    5 жыл бұрын

    Kelly Gann Awh no way that’s awesome! It’s helpful haha! And I really appreciate your support, thank you!

  • @Rubyscoobydoo
    @Rubyscoobydoo5 жыл бұрын

    I have breakdowns all the freaking time. They’re strongly related to school (because I’m in my last year of college), and college is really hard for me. The past spring and this fall semester have been extremely brutal for me. I’ve lost a lot of inspiration in learning and in myself. I’ve become extremely emotionally fragile, depressed, and anxious. I dropped one of my majors because it caused me too much anxiety to continue with it. When I break down, I just become scared of everything. I spiral very deeply into a pit of “nothing will ever be okay or right ever again,” and it’s super hard to come out of! Luckily I live with my boyfriend who is always there for me, even though at my worst I become the most scared of disappointing him. Basically, I’m going through a lot of shit! Hahaha and I cry a lot! But the crying ends and I drink a glass of ice water, pet my cats, take a bath, cuddle with my boyfriend and watch a movie. It’s hard for me to always remember the good things I have in my life because I don’t want to allow myself to enjoy them (because I don’t feel worthy. That’s my mental mess I’m trying to sort out). Anyway!!! Long comment but Jo it’s so helpful to me to listen to you be honest about your emotions and what you’re going through. Don’t give up. 🤗

  • @deborahhartman7548
    @deborahhartman75485 жыл бұрын

    I received a orthodic to fill in where part of my foot was amputated in Sept. Walking was so much better. Hard though not to be able to wear it all the time. Thanks for your channel.

  • @luisgalicia3860
    @luisgalicia38605 жыл бұрын

    The practice of mindfulness is what has helped me the most, it feels really good and relaxing. It took me a while though making it a recurrent thing. The book "Mindfulness in plain english" is what I started with, later on I took a course in FutureLearn which gave me even more ideas on how to practice it correctly. It takes some time but it's totally worth it.

  • @FootlessJo

    @FootlessJo

    5 жыл бұрын

    Luis Galicia I’ve heard a lot about that! Thank you! I’ll definitely look into it!

  • @ringocody4669
    @ringocody46695 жыл бұрын

    When I get down, I just remind myself where I was 35 years ago, drinking, and know where I am now, and Smile, thank God for every extra day he gave me.. Hard to stay down when I think that way

  • @brandonadams132
    @brandonadams1325 жыл бұрын

    Don't know how I ended up on your channel, but I'm happy I did. I'm glad you're doing well, and will defiantly keep check on your journey. Best wishes

  • @brandonadams132

    @brandonadams132

    5 жыл бұрын

    Oh wow, definitely *** typo

  • @tanjiro7624
    @tanjiro76245 жыл бұрын

    We're not related or anything but i feel like Im so so so so proud of you. Your progress is great. 😍😍 i'm from the Philippines and just saw your vid, now I'm a new subscriber cus i wanted to see the day that you can use your prosthetic without any problem walking, and the day that you can ride a horse again etc. Just always stay positive ma'am. God bless you. 😙

  • @theamputeehunter2074
    @theamputeehunter20745 жыл бұрын

    Never been emotional except for when I had my amputation then I was emotional and got everything out and now I don't have much emotion I have emphty for people now more then I ever had

  • @at_czarli6637
    @at_czarli66375 жыл бұрын

    There is nothing better than dive into blankets and cuddle with cat ^^ And did you saw how much your channel has grown? You have an audience at least on 4 different continents now

  • @thatgaltabitha
    @thatgaltabitha5 жыл бұрын

    I sincerely appreciate how real you are on this channel. It sounds like I have pity parties similar to the way that you do. Usually I will limit them to two hours, unless it’s something that is a much bigger deal than what usually comes my way. There have definitely been times where it’s felt like a balancing act between being honest with myself about how I’m it’s normal to be feeling less than perfect and trying to be proactive and accomplish things that will make me feel better and/or more accomplished.

  • @RedBeard10118
    @RedBeard101185 жыл бұрын

    Your a strong outstanding woman, and I love your videos , I love your message!

  • @FootlessJo

    @FootlessJo

    5 жыл бұрын

    Keith Richmond Awh thank you so much!!!

  • @shellcshells2902
    @shellcshells29025 жыл бұрын

    Omgoodness! I'm so sorry about your accident!

  • @FootlessJo

    @FootlessJo

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much, Shell! 💕

  • @johnfecteau2779
    @johnfecteau27795 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your videos as a diabetic I’m scared of amputation because there’s a history of it in my family you are helping me face my fears through your experiences. Thank you for being so sweet and positive

  • @FootlessJo

    @FootlessJo

    5 жыл бұрын

    john fecteau of course! Thank YOU for watching and being open about your fears and experiences. I truly appreciate that. I’m so sorry that your family struggles with a history of amputations - it’s not easy. But it is absolutely, 100% something someone can find their way through. I am, and though I hope and pray you definitely never have to face this, if you ever did have to face it, know that you would find a way to get through it and find life on the other side too. Thank you for your support!

  • @dennisdevore1648
    @dennisdevore16485 жыл бұрын

    I wanted to share with you my situation. Nov 26, I had my first surgery ever, to reattach the retina in my left eye. 21/2 weeks it came loose, so another on Dec 17(today) using a different method. My fear is becoming unfamiliar with work(getting back). The last day I worked was the day b4 thanksgiving, and the soonest I'll be back will be sometime in January. Not liking it. For you, crying by yourself is ok, kinda like havin a beer by yourself. Not as fun, but you can do it(not like crying is fun). I've said b4 you're a strong character. You can do this. Brian believes in you, I believe in you, as do all your followers. Rest up(however long it takes) and get back into the game. It's not your style to lie down in defeat. OK? Ok.

  • @FootlessJo

    @FootlessJo

    5 жыл бұрын

    Dennis DeVore thank you so much for your kind words and encouragement! You are going through quite a battle yourself! I feel like eye surgery has to be so scary...I hope you are able to take the time you need to recover as well and are able to get back to work strong when it is time! 😊

  • @McChrister
    @McChrister5 жыл бұрын

    A supportive family is very important when dealing with depression! I suffer from it and some days are brutal....Unfortunately I don’t have family support, but I do have a loving husband and 16 year old daughter. Stay strong and again you are wise beyond your years and I am a “blanket addict” as well!! Haha....😂😂Love and best wishes from Port Perry, Canada.🙏🏼❤️😊🐀🇨🇦

  • @idadho
    @idadho5 жыл бұрын

    Looking good girl. They got your torsion device to fit. Yay. I hadn't notice it before. You are not even 8 weeks and doing great. I hope they are helping you understand the difference between residual limb pain and pain because your socket is not fitting right. My wife spent 2 weeks doing very cautious walking until we discovered her pain was do to an improper fit, not muscle cramps in her residual limb. A couple adjustments to her socket and she strolled out the door like she had been walking for weeks. Amputees sure ride an emotional roller coaster but spouses also ride a roller coaster. Lately, I get choked up watching my wife walk across the kitchen to make a cup of coffee without her walker or cane. In the first 2 months, I would go through bouts of intense grief. Seeing her go from being frustrated trying to get her socket to fit to her matter of fact assessment of how many layers she needs at this time of day. She starts with 11 and adds layers up to 14 with an extra in her pocket. She wants a organizer purse back-pack so she has room for her socks. I wish you enough. www.kindspring.org/story/view.php?sid=6704

  • @crystalfresquez7769
    @crystalfresquez77695 жыл бұрын

    💕 Glad you all are ok after the car accident!💕

  • @FootlessJo

    @FootlessJo

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Crystal, me too! So good everyone was okay, it was on a highway too, so we're all super grateful!!! 💕

  • @scott9261
    @scott92615 жыл бұрын

    You’re a remarkable inspiration. ❤️

  • @craigwflys
    @craigwflys5 жыл бұрын

    Your attitude is absolutely incredible. Wow, such a positive person. Very inspiring. Being an anxious person myself I am amazed at how you got through your situation as well as you have. Best of luck in the future. It's incredible how strong a good mental attitude has when healing. I know technology has come a long way and I'm guessing it must be super expensive but a few years ago I saw a guy (on some video) with a robotic lower leg. The foot and ankle all were automatic and worked together while walking.

  • @messyjessy90210
    @messyjessy902105 жыл бұрын

    I subscribed two weeks ago and your subscription count has tripled!!!! So excited for you

  • @connieeedwards
    @connieeedwards5 жыл бұрын

    A car accident! Oh for goodness sakes! I'm so sorry. BUT--seeing you walk unassisted for the first time was wonderful! I'm glad you are seeing your surgeon and finding out what's up with your leg. Hopefully it will be nothing--and it will just take time to heal.Thank you for all that you share!

  • @MrJtappin
    @MrJtappin5 жыл бұрын

    You are a pro KZread creator showing just the best bits then. Very sad to hear about the crash, but great news on walking unaided. You will be used to it in no time. If the thing is made of silicone it will positively attract pet hair though. You may find a damp wipe best as dry wiping will create more static attracting even more hairs 😊

  • @carlpalanzi1136
    @carlpalanzi11365 жыл бұрын

    Hi it's nicole I have a hard time letting my emotions out. But I am working at letting it out. About you. working at keeping out negativity mostly from other people. Finding my happy place, be who I want to be, not letting others into that place if they are negative. I almost fell down my driveway tonite, I really hurt my self, no one wanted to hear so I just got my dinner and created my happy placel. You are doing good, I think it's taken a lot longer for you to get where you want to be. Don't stop know there are so many who care about you. Lol Nicole 🌹🙃🌸

  • @pitmasterj5387
    @pitmasterj53875 жыл бұрын

    Awesome video! I deal with stuff by cooking after getting home from the hospital and hearing my grandfather died I cooked an egg, it puts me in a better place because I’m in my element

  • @LeilaDancer
    @LeilaDancer5 жыл бұрын

    When I have had different procedures, I feel like it can be easier to have breakdowns. Stuck in the house by myself when I have no options is the worst for the mind. The meds always make me sleepy so I was never able to be productive while stuck in bed and the "cabin fever" hits you hard and you are just stuck with your own thoughts for company. On a regular day-to-day basis, I struggle when I have a day where there is something really basic that I cant do and everything that I bottled up comes to a head.

  • @julianaelsinga2
    @julianaelsinga25 жыл бұрын

    I'm like you, my pity parties are a solitary affair, usually if my pain is up. I call these days my " pain hangover" days. One of the reasons I had my amputation was because these days were becoming the norm rather than the exception. I'm Dutch, so I tend to be too stoic at times......

  • @sarahdumont32
    @sarahdumont325 жыл бұрын

    You’re such an inspiration 🥰🥰 I wish you the best on your journey!!!!

  • @FootlessJo

    @FootlessJo

    5 жыл бұрын

    joshlerasf I truly appreciate that! 🙌🏻

  • @hunterhumphreys2761
    @hunterhumphreys27615 жыл бұрын

    I recently had my hand, (or what was left of it,) amputated after a fuse malfunctioned on a firework. It's a rough journey, but it happens for a reason, so enjoy it, mess with people, start conversations, its a blessing yet at times a very painful curse. Life's a journey, enjoy the ride 😁😁😁

  • @mrsparex
    @mrsparex5 жыл бұрын

    We have times when "all is well"... we have times when we feel like "hell" It's fine to be happy and smile and it's okay to have time to cry...

  • @FootlessJo

    @FootlessJo

    5 жыл бұрын

    I like that saying a lot! "well" vs. "hell" :-) Thank you!

  • @mrsparex

    @mrsparex

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@FootlessJo Too bad "smile" and "cry" doesn't rhyme... I would've had a GOOD poem! lol

  • @mizboom
    @mizboom5 жыл бұрын

    Yay! Congrats!

  • @lyzer569
    @lyzer5695 жыл бұрын

    I think everything in our lives happens for a reason and that we learn and grow through it. Find out what the "good" things are about your accident. Maybe you had to learn to trust and rely on others or how to handle tough situations whatever it is. I always thought bad about bad things happening in my life but eventually i came to the realisation that i learned and grew through all of it. Stay positive and much love ;)

  • @ivanamerglevskakrondakova3329
    @ivanamerglevskakrondakova33295 жыл бұрын

    You are such an inspiration!

  • @Hawk1966
    @Hawk19665 жыл бұрын

    Congratulations on the first unassisted steps! I bury it. Deep, down in the dark, seriously unhealthy I know. My sisters dumped helping my mother care for my father who'd had a stroke. They offered no support or aid in any way. Lost my dad in 2001 and my health has gone to hell. A year ago I almost lost my mom (8 days on a vent in the ICU, last rites, whole deal) and now she's pretty bad off, I'm not doing great, one of my sisters passed the other who dumped my parent's care in my lap is in bad shape and doesn't offer even emotional support. But I loved my parents, they gave me life. I don't regret coming here though I do resent my sister. . . Wow, gushed, not going to delete it though.

  • @Roldy_09
    @Roldy_095 жыл бұрын

    Just subbed this is an amazing journey I can wait to watch.

  • @alyssaalvarez6193
    @alyssaalvarez61935 жыл бұрын

    I think you’re doing well and I’m excited to see how you progress. New subscriber here!! 🙌🏼

  • @FootlessJo

    @FootlessJo

    5 жыл бұрын

    Alyssa Alvarez thank you so much for your support! 🙌🏻

  • @JoseLeonVico
    @JoseLeonVico5 жыл бұрын

    I love your videos, I going through some sort of similar process, I broke my femur 6 months ago and I'll probably have another surgery in a couple of months, I do exactly the same thing when I struggle with depression and it totally works. Hope you get better and feel better soon. Cheers

  • @FootlessJo

    @FootlessJo

    5 жыл бұрын

    Jose Leon I’m so sorry for all you’re going through! Wishing you all the best. 🙏🏼

  • @jayallen7368
    @jayallen73685 жыл бұрын

    Omg this is so awesome seeing you walking without assistance. So sorry that you got hit and where in a car accident. It maybe a bone bruise that is what i did it took almost a month for it to heal and hurt like hell. Best of luck at docs and god bless. I have breakdowns a lot but i try to do projects , or working with my dog doing her training and other days i just curl up in bed and sleep.But my docs say me being a hermit is not working so i am making effort to reconnect with people. My friend Jill has invite to Christmas church which i am going to do and get out meet new people hang with old friend. Got to start getting out showing how great i look one legged.

  • @wayj2002
    @wayj20025 жыл бұрын

    Yea hang in there it gets better.... I survived a home explosion along with my daughter... Although I lost two beloved nieces I moved on the best I can. I am a rbka from this explosion and my daughter has steel rods in her leg arm and two titanium rods in her back. I had reconstructive surgery on my left ankle for which I have limited mobility but four months later I was able to go back to work part time. Its been 26 months since this happened (even tho I said 14 months ago on a different video) and I still deal with flashbacks and PTSD. But a strong family support and the will to live has kept me going since this incident. So hang in there like I said it gets better.

  • @horselovertamara2005
    @horselovertamara20055 жыл бұрын

    Hi there. I really like your videos and in this one i love what you said about how you stay positive. About watching movies to "help" you cry. My mom died 2 years ago and i have a hard time feeling emotions about it so sometimes i like to watch a sad movie to release that emotion. Its nice to hear that someone does the same thing.

  • @FootlessJo

    @FootlessJo

    5 жыл бұрын

    Tamara Chance hearing you say that makes me glad to hear I’m not alone either! 💜 I’m really sorry to hear about your mom...I can’t imagine all you must be going through. I hope you find all the good cry movies you need. 💜

  • @horselovertamara2005

    @horselovertamara2005

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@FootlessJo aww thanks for answering me. Its alwats nice to hear of someone that understands. I think are amazing for going through what you are. Yes i find all the good cry movies. Especially this time of year :)

  • @alanr4263
    @alanr42635 жыл бұрын

    Gotta keep that P.m.A Positive Mental Attitude.Your doing great!U got that P.m.A check out the bad brains.its a band

  • @joshcrowder8918
    @joshcrowder89185 жыл бұрын

    I constantly have break downs. Not like a cry, but constant anxiety. I made a choice that I would rather face anxiety and be myself. My alternative was taking medication and feeling stoned 24/7.

  • @FootlessJo

    @FootlessJo

    5 жыл бұрын

    Josh Crowder I hear that...and that takes a lot of courage my friend. Keep being you and fighting hard. 👍🏻

  • @kirkengnath5501
    @kirkengnath55014 ай бұрын

    I knew it, that is why I gave that advice for you to cuddle up snuggle with your puppies and some comfort junk food. That was one of the last persnal bad day video's you reached out for advice on. The comfort junk food was because all your physical body system's were shuting down, and you need to feed your body some of the food's it misses for it too feel better sometime's.

  • @lydiakies9053
    @lydiakies90535 жыл бұрын

    I lose it, roughly, quarterly..... I can usually feel one coming. Like, "hey, I haven't lost my shit in a while. I'm about due!" and, then, something will trigger me, like a toilet paper commercial. Sometimes, I'll do what you do and watch a movie if I need a good cry. (Les Miserables and Moana get me every time.)

  • @FootlessJo

    @FootlessJo

    5 жыл бұрын

    Oh my gosh Moana is one of my favorites! Yes. So good. I totally get what you mean about a quarterly breakdown! There are times I'll go months without one and be like, "huh....this doesn't feel right" and then all I need to see is a toliet paper commercial too lol. Made me laugh, thank you!

  • @bluedeva
    @bluedeva5 жыл бұрын

    Please don’t doubt yourself Jo! Everybody recovers at their own pace and if your body is sore and cautious, then make sure to rest and don’t push yourself if it causes pain or makes you anxious. They’re just little glitches in the road. My leg wasn’t healing right so I had to delay prosthetic appointments and due to complications we had to pause my rehab and only use my wheelchair for 6 months 😤 which was really frustrating as I just wanted to get up and go especially seeing other amputees doing so well. Cabin fever really set in 😬 Looking back now it made me appreciate my leg more. I still have rest days/ sofa duty/ no leg days if I over do it or if other health issues crop up, socket issues etc to allow my leg and body to rest or recover (Normally only couple of days a month). This is a crazy new normal to fathom but it’s yours so go at your own pace and you will get there. Just remember that even the para athletes don’t wear their prosthetic all day everyday. The extra energy amputees use to get around is almost double the amount depending on the height of amputation so if an able person was walking at a steady pace, to us it is like jogging which is pretty tiring. Plus your body is still working so hard healing and relearning how to function. As well as trying to flush all of the anaesthetic and other meds out of your system which is exhausting and completely overwhelming both mentally and physically. Plus the evil 👻 pains on top of all that 😳 You are doing brilliantly! Trust me you will get there and each day / week you will be amazed how far you’ve come. Thank you for letting us follow your new chapter 🤗sending huge hugs and positivity 🤗

  • @FootlessJo

    @FootlessJo

    5 жыл бұрын

    bluedeva wow I can’t tell you how helpful and amazing and needed your comment was to me! Just, truly, thank you so, so much. I’ll remember your words in upcoming weeks and months! 💜

  • @bluedeva

    @bluedeva

    5 жыл бұрын

    Anytime 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 it take huge amounts of guts to be able to share your recovery and being so honest about your feelings. Always remind yourself you’re doing brilliant and some days will be a struggle but those days will become less and less 😉🤗💝

  • @AlbertoOrduna
    @AlbertoOrduna5 жыл бұрын

    You are so inspiring

  • @rw3175
    @rw31755 жыл бұрын

    Your a very brave lady greetings from south africa

  • @Amped4Life
    @Amped4Life5 жыл бұрын

    Sea of blankets! Another thing I'm missing. And yes, yes. Ask about the leg length. You can do it! Just write down all your questions and ask them all, even if it seems stressful or anxiety inducing to ask. I always get nervous to ask questions. Make a video after your doctor appointment to update me on it!

  • @jasonviper4859
    @jasonviper48595 жыл бұрын

    Keep kicking ass!

  • @idadho
    @idadho5 жыл бұрын

    For the friends, family and others who have a direct connection to an amputee, especially during the early stages, I want to pass on something that was taught me and others near me. When a person is hurting or struggling, often we want to help but do not know how. There may be nothing we can do but follow the 3 H protocol. The 3 Hs are Hugs, Hush up, and Hang around in no particular order. Our caring presence may be all we can offer. I see this as my wife struggles. I want to help and as a man and husband, I am often driven to try to FIX something. Sometimes, even asking, Can I help? or Is there anything I can do? is too much. BUT. Hush up, Hang around, and Hugs is all I can do. With an amputee, make sure you hug does not throw them off balance. Remember the Three Hs.

  • @murdockbabcock2036
    @murdockbabcock20365 жыл бұрын

    Nice steps!

  • @dennisdevore1648
    @dennisdevore16485 жыл бұрын

    I really do understand your fear, but as I've gotten acquainted with, I gather that you don't let much hold you back or keep you down. Stop analyzing and kick fear to the curb. Know this: I love you like a sis. If need be, scream, (preferably away from the critters), take a really deep breath, and let it out slowly. Then you can get back to your routines. You'll be so much more at peace

  • @Oceansteve
    @Oceansteve5 жыл бұрын

    I think you did have the secret there.. accept that there are not always going to be positive days and to recognise when you need time and emotion to take control for a period to deal with what life has thrown at you. I consider myself a "robust and deal with all the comes" kind of a person.. but when a curve ball comes its important no matter who you you are, to make the time for yourself and the longer it takes to do this, the bigger the pause when it catches up with you. *IMHO*

  • @anitavaughn1968
    @anitavaughn19685 жыл бұрын

    You are amazing...

  • @chargingpoint2567
    @chargingpoint25675 жыл бұрын

    I think, I am your first Indian subscriber

  • @DawnKellyMedia
    @DawnKellyMedia5 жыл бұрын

    I also live in a sea of blankets! 😀

  • @FootlessJo

    @FootlessJo

    5 жыл бұрын

    Dawn Kelly is there any better way to live!? Lol

  • @ringocody4669
    @ringocody46695 жыл бұрын

    Bungy cord and duct tape,, LOL.. So great to get a daily pick "ME" up just hearing your cheery day.. it's ok to cry,, we will cry with you.. The "Footless Jo Nation" is watching

  • @FootlessJo

    @FootlessJo

    5 жыл бұрын

    What a kind comment, thank you so much :-) I truly appreciate it!!!

  • @dancingpianofairy
    @dancingpianofairy5 жыл бұрын

    I think we're about the same age (I even spent most of it around Denver, too) and I haven't been in tons of crashes. It wasn't until my mid 20's that I was in my first crash and that was in Texas. And now I've been in...3? Definitely not a lot, imo. BTW, I am interested to see how you'll drive.

  • @chargingpoint2567
    @chargingpoint25675 жыл бұрын

    Hi dear you are awesome 👸

  • @evafernandezresels3069
    @evafernandezresels30695 жыл бұрын

    hi! Congratulations on the first unassisted steps!!!!! thats great! did you get the trunk to close up? Is everyone ok? The pitty party in the sea of blankets....yeah, I do that too sometimes, I always thought its somewhat normal....maybe? Would you consider doing a live video on youtube or instagram? Like a Q&A or something like that? :-)

  • @dennisdevore1648
    @dennisdevore16485 жыл бұрын

    When it rains, it pours. Keep lookin for a break in the clouds. I give it to the Lord every day, and when my head hits the pillow, I'm out in just minutes. I refuse to carry it into the next day. I hope this helps you😊😊😊

  • @FootlessJo

    @FootlessJo

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for your kindness and continued support, Dennis!!!

  • @dieterf.8826
    @dieterf.88265 жыл бұрын

    Carbon fibre leg, sounds sporty. Make it red and give it a spoiler and a Ferrari-logo. A jumping horse seems to suit you. But is it a good idea to walk on a leg that is not fully healed? Oh, by the way. Are you allowed (not yet?) to drive yourself? All the best.

  • @julierocco76

    @julierocco76

    5 жыл бұрын

    Hmmm, a jumping horse. Would that be more of a "Mustang"? My favorite muscle car. Ive had two. One when I was 18 and one right before I turned 40.

  • @FootlessJo

    @FootlessJo

    5 жыл бұрын

    Dieter F. Heck yes!! It’ll be all black carbon fiber. Very bionic looking - I love the Ferrari idea!!! Haha! And good question, I don’t know....it’s okay to light-practice but they say if there is pain not to walk on it so I’ve been really limiting what I’ve been doing...or at least attempting to I guess. We’ll find out more tomorrow after my doctor apt!

  • @FootlessJo

    @FootlessJo

    5 жыл бұрын

    Dieter F. Oh, and I can drive technically, but I haven’t yet - I’m still on some meds I’m not comfortable driving on and still like someone to be with me when I’m out and about anyways so they drive me for now!

  • @charlenemitchell3203
    @charlenemitchell32035 жыл бұрын

    Doing good Have a good day

  • @originaljazzgirl
    @originaljazzgirl5 жыл бұрын

    That dang fall really screwed things up! As if you didn't have to wait long enough. I'm sending fast-healing vibes and diminishing-pain vibes your way..........

  • @kainicole797
    @kainicole7975 жыл бұрын

    How many weeks post-op was this? It seems so soon! Maybe that's just because I just found your channel a few hours ago, but...you seem to be healing fast to me! ❤

  • @davegoodridge8352
    @davegoodridge83525 жыл бұрын

    Chocolate Ice Cream helps.

  • @FootlessJo

    @FootlessJo

    5 жыл бұрын

    David Goodridge I swear it is as good as any medication 😉

  • @Grace-tx3pb
    @Grace-tx3pb5 жыл бұрын

    Check out @teamabri she is young but she also made the choice for an amputation and her mom shares things about her anxiety about her amputation and the pain she feels but she also shares about the parts she loves.

  • @FootlessJo

    @FootlessJo

    5 жыл бұрын

    Grace I absolutely will! Thank you so much for this recommendation!!!

  • @srgoldbe
    @srgoldbe5 жыл бұрын

    You’re awesome! Thank you for making videos. I am just wondering what ever happened with the length issue?

  • @FootlessJo

    @FootlessJo

    5 жыл бұрын

    srgoldbe thanks for supporting me and following along! I answered that particular question at length in my newest Q&A video but in short, it will always be a small issue. I got the leg we hoped for but it is definitely causing issues - not major ones, we’ll figure it out, but it’s a process 😉

  • @srgoldbe

    @srgoldbe

    5 жыл бұрын

    Footless Jo I saw your recent answer video where you addressed this question. Thank you for your reply! Best of luck!

  • @moistyp6078
    @moistyp60785 жыл бұрын

    You're damn amazing, much love and respect!! ;D

  • @FootlessJo

    @FootlessJo

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much!!!! Aw you're so sweet, I appreciate it!

  • @StarseedWarrior22
    @StarseedWarrior225 жыл бұрын

    Many breakdowns, spaced apart hahaha

  • @AZBADBOYz
    @AZBADBOYz5 жыл бұрын

    Just discovered your channel and want to make a better more in depth reply but I'm not too emotional from watching your journey. Needless to say, I've been through some shit much like you are going through!!! :-(

  • @FootlessJo

    @FootlessJo

    5 жыл бұрын

    AZBADBOYz I am so glad you’re here then and so grateful for your comment and being part of this journey. I’ll look forward to more of your comments or story in the future!

  • @Guru
    @Guru5 жыл бұрын

    are you going to get the robotic leg/foot that attaches to your nervous system and moves naturally? like maybe after your healed you seem like a good candidate for it.

  • @idealthinker101
    @idealthinker1012 жыл бұрын

    Nice video... 🙂 Well... (Anyone please don't take it wrong...) I don't know how, but suddenly I'm feeling breathlessness... 🤧 Feels difficult to take every single breath literally. Could anyone help or any suggestions ?

  • @taryneva5128
    @taryneva51285 жыл бұрын

    What is your pity party movie?. I am totally in need!

  • @simplybeingelle
    @simplybeingelle5 жыл бұрын

    Hope you're okay after the accident

  • @FootlessJo

    @FootlessJo

    5 жыл бұрын

    It's Simply Elle thank you SO much. Still sore but okay!