It is not men that need to be taught to cry, it is women that need to be taught to be perceptive and have compassion.

@Saint_possum

10 ай бұрын

Perfect.

@M_of_the_U

10 ай бұрын

Well said

@endofsociety

9 ай бұрын

Unfortunately in today's world, it is a sign of weakness when men show vulnerability. I had to tell a girl I've had a long history with that she needed to stand by her husband no matter what because she perceived weakness when he became stressed and vulnerable and showed a sign of weakness. I told her, be his ride or die. You'll give him strength just by comforting him and telling him you got his back. Words have power. Gives men strength.

@CoconutxKimchi

9 ай бұрын

This is true. I was dumbfounded when my friend left her man and I said “I thought you two were perfect together” and she said “Omg he was super emotional last week and idk if I can look at him the same anymore” So men really do open up but when their feelings aren’t taken seriously, that’s when they turn cold and bottle everything and it’s heartbreaking.

@Candypants217

8 ай бұрын

Agreed bro. Other men too we need to pick one another up. This sh*t ain't easy ☝️

Like he said, Unconditional love is for Women, children and dogs. We as men are treated as disposable.

@Wrathlon

10 ай бұрын

To further illustrate this, here in Australia I was a victim of domestic violence as a man and there are not hotlines, no shelters, no support and on the only line for men is actually for abusers to get help. You know what there is though? Shelters for women, children, dogs, cats, horses, mice - there is even an aquarium in my state for goldfish to make sure violent partners dont kill them. But nothing for men, we are lower than goldfish on things that matter.

@kmorais92

5 ай бұрын

@@Wrathlon I feel U man! 🫂 ... and if u were the abuser u already in jail perhaps!... Even when women abuse us verbally we have to take it, doesnt matter if it hurts, doesnt matter if we bottle up, drop by drop until it explodes ... There's nothing for men!

@davelopez1730

5 ай бұрын

Very true I have the expendables logo as my wall paper it reminds me that I'm expendable even to my family

@Soundwave299

4 ай бұрын

Sometimes being treated as disposable would be a step up.

@Later_Nerd

2 ай бұрын

​@@Soundwave299Brutal brother. Hope you're on track to right the ship. Peaks and valleys 🤙

Being an old divorced vet with TBI and PTSD, yeah this hits home. Oh, salute to my over 16 million brother and sister veterans!

@aidenpryde50

11 ай бұрын

Salute brother We see you.

@TheArmadon

11 ай бұрын

Salute brother!

@jj-nm3cd

11 ай бұрын

We out here brother!

@blackwater2010

7 ай бұрын

Got ur back brother

@zetherify

6 ай бұрын

Stay strong brother

🤟As a female, I have worked as an aviation ✈technician (male dominated industry) for 25+ years. Men want peace ☮in their home. They NEED respect💌. They NEED gratitude! They are NOT asking to cry😭 in front of you - you will lose respect for him (look it up in psychology research). MEN MAKE THE WORLD 🗺GO ROUND and we should love them for it!!!

@erinjohnson8737

5 ай бұрын

This is so true. I saw it with my dad. My first step mom never gave him respect and peace and rarely showed gratitude. I could see it slowly wear him down. His health deteriorated. At one point he was only 120 pounds when he's six feet tall because of all the stress destroying his appetite for so long. Thankfully he left her before permanent damage could happen. My current step mom is an absolute angel and I am so grateful. He is doing amazing and hope I have that kind of relationship in the future

It's not really society that teaches us to be this way, but the women in our lives that dismiss and often mock our thoughts and feelings. Only showing love and gratitude when we provide, that's the the price we have to pay, "Unconditional love is for women, children and dogs".

@davidstephens8543

3 ай бұрын

I could have written this... powerful... true.

@chrisvargo5163

3 ай бұрын

Facts

For reference I am Gen X, married for 18 years. Why we hide our emotions is actually very simple, so our wives can have peace. I will fight every fight, take all the stress and my wife will never know, so she can have peace. My wife will see me die on my white horse before she ever sees me fall.

@lightningwolf118

10 ай бұрын

But as a partnership she will happily share the burden and pain so you don't have to do it alone. You will still be her hero

@MikeysLab

10 ай бұрын

@@lightningwolf118 I have had the exact opposite experience, multiple times, show weakness or vulnerability to a partner, she no longer respects you. You can also bet she will weaponize it and use it against you forever.

@theuns33n99

8 ай бұрын

​@@lightningwolf118incorrect, most women will see being vulnerable as a weak man. Not all, but most

@davidgang4367

Ай бұрын

“My wife will see my die on my white horse before she ever sees me fall” is very deep man god bless

@chainmailunderwear

22 күн бұрын

You said it brother

To any women that hear this song if you have a man then tell him and show him how much he means to you. Small things mean the world to us

@Dadof32023

7 ай бұрын

Before my current girlfriend... didn't remember last time I heard thank you from her.. and thay was a 7 year marriage with 2 kids....

Plumbers. Electricians. Nurses. Doctors. Carpenters. We build. We make the world comfortable for everyone else. Then disregarded

@ohdadam

3 ай бұрын

dont forget about truck drivers!

@ZeroOmega-vg8nq

3 ай бұрын

pest control techs/exterminators. yall have no idea how many clients think we are miracle workers

Literally sitting in my truck waiting to head inside while watching this. He speaks the truth.

Yes, ladies. Listen to the words. There is a lot more than just his voice and his hair. The meaning in the words is the focal point.

@mrmakhudu4829

Ай бұрын

it seems the message didn't reach their head 😔

Dax has done a Mega remix for this song. He invited other rappers, singers and even two women to sing in it. It's better than the original too. You should react to that!

@seanmonetathchi1060

10 ай бұрын

Please do the remix! It's ten minutes of musical perfection!

@timothyfields3885

5 ай бұрын

I listen to the megamix many times every single day. The 3rd verse hits the hardest for me

Awesome reaction ladies, as a man, father, husband I can say how all true men can relate to this song I've been a dax fan for a long time and he has such a wide range he's an amazing artist I would suggest to check his newest album pain paints paintings but other real popular ones by dax are dear alcohol. Dear God, book of revelations, ptsd list goes on lol but I hope you do a lot more dax!

@KathyLuluandDonna

11 ай бұрын

We'll add them to the list.

Makes me weep for my brother's out there doing the right thing.

As a trucker it hit me so hard seeing that truck set the brakes; we sacrifice being at home to make sure everything is okay at home. That being said this is how he very man feels and Dax put it into words we usually won’t say

This is the first time I've heard of Dax and listened to his music. I like his voice. The song has a Country feel to it, but I can also hear the Rap influence near the end. The lyrics are very powerful. Great reaction. Thanks for the introduction to a talented artist. Bye.

@emersonmacclure1592

11 ай бұрын

Check more of him out

The most powerful part of this song for me as a man is, they don’t know what their worth until the die, then that’s when they start crying. Then move on to a man to confide in. So so true. We as men work our asses off to not be cared about and build this life for our woman that we struggled so hard for her to just move right on over to another man. Think about that!

@user-pc5cm5ek2s

4 ай бұрын

That's the part that hurt the most,we as men are just disposable it seems😢😢😢we aren't giving no loyalty, respect or any appreciation. We work, provide& protect just to be replaced as soon as we die!😢😢😢

I had never heard of Dax or this song, but it was a great song. ✌️

@cosmicconcious

11 ай бұрын

dax is hard bro, gotta check him out

All men have the entire world on our shoulders and no woman can ever understand that nor will any woman ever have to go through even half of the struggles a man goes through. God made men to lead and women to be the helper for a reason.

Something I've gathered from watching reactions to this song is that most women are oblivious that they've never even considered the feelings of men. Watching couples react to this song is interesting, and I think really helps peoole understand each other a little better.

Love the way she said, this reminds her of her Dad....it is what men are all about

Its not just todays society. Its all of human history that men have had to fill this role.

God's eyes is a great example of his rapping

@KathyLuluandDonna

11 ай бұрын

We'll add it to the list.

If you don't cry listening to this and he is explaining exactly why guys feel this way!!!

The youngest one in the room realized what it was about, our future might not be screwed

One man once said, no one in my life has been harder on me than my wife and children. Not my dad, not my friends, not even coaches.

The only time a man receives flowers is that his grave only time and that’s when people actually miss that person

The first time I watched this video it was with a woman reviewing it of her husbands review of it with his comments, and it brought me to tears I emededaly sent it to my son with a message telling him how proud I am of him on how he takes care of his blended family with so much love and hard work he is a amazing man

book of revelations, dear god and god's eyes are my fav dax's songs

@KathyLuluandDonna

11 ай бұрын

We'll add it to the list.

Dax is awesome. Mostly a rapper indeed but I tell you this. You can understand him. His songs are deep with a deep message. Worth the trip down the rabbit hole. Start with Dear God. 🔥.

It’s not how we are raised it’s how we are treated as men from women. I was fortunate to be raised by a wonderful single mother and when she passed I knew so did the unconditional love I received.

@Go_Hogs_Go

8 ай бұрын

Im so sorry u lost ur momma... im 24 and im a 5th child. My momma is 63... and im terrified... i dont want to grow up without her... i know im supposed to be grown by now.. but im not ready... i dont want to lose her...

@M_of_the_U

8 ай бұрын

@@Go_Hogs_Go hopefully you won’t for a very long time. My mom was only 61

Dax.... Dear God, God's Eyes, depression, Dear Alcohol, Grinch, Grinch goes Viral, Joker, Why so Serious, Black and White, Searching for a Reason, Super Gremlin remix, Whoopy remix, Rap God 1 and 2 remix. To name a couple bangers and gems from Dax.... The list goes on. He is an amazing lyricist. When you listen to Dax get ready to listen and think...

there's a MEGA remix version of this song i suggest to check it out

@KathyLuluandDonna

11 ай бұрын

We'll add it to the list.

It's good to see different generations explore and react to this together, I'd recommend watching the mega mix for another reaction.

It is so refreshing to see a genuine, honest and truely amazing reaction. I am definitely a fan. I am so surprised that you have never heard a Dax song before. Dax is realist, most gifted, relatable, down to earth artist that only speaks the truth. I would love for you to react to the following Dax videos. Also please make sure that all 3 of you lovely ladies are on the reaction. As I love the multi-generational perspective. 1) Dear God 2) Dear Alcohol 3) God's Eyes 4) The Abyss Stay blessed ✌🏽

@KathyLuluandDonna

10 ай бұрын

Added to the list!

The sad reality is that a lot of men are choosing a single lonely life instead of the hurt, drama, lack of respect and peace

I can bet thta every single man who is a provider, a guardian, a parent, or a protector, has/har that 3-5min pause. That couple of minutes between work and home where we have to recollect, express/decompress, and sometimes, mask our emotions before entering family mode.

Being raised by my grandfather as my male role model, I was taught one hundred percent this way. It was how he was raised. Hold it in and provide.

I've raised my son (17) to always be kind, try to help people, be a peacemaker and be respectful. I've taught him that there is nothing wrong with the healthy expression of emotions. "Son, repressing your emotions doesn't make you tough, it just makes you emotionally repressed." It has caused some strange and funny social situations for him with girls. It's like he doesn't chase the popular girls because he's not into social hierarchy drama, but sometimes they are drawn to him because he gets along well with the guys who DO chase them. But when they can't drag him into any of their BS, they lose interest and dump him. And he just shrugs it off like he would an accidental contact in sparring. The emotional environment for men today is like a societally inflicted gas chamber that smothers potential rather than raising it as many claim. It's really sad.

Bringing back traditions❤ thank you sir! You are an empty vessel! I'm 44 and I'm finding my way back to Him . Keep it up!❤

Dax to be a man mega mix is brilliant

@KathyLuluandDonna

11 ай бұрын

We'll add it to the list.

I believe his saying they want to be men. It’s g-d plan. Absolutely beautiful

Dax writes all his songs. He's a genius. ❤❤

Thank you for the kinds words🙏🏻 good women make good men not regret one bit of it! We’re great together❤️👊🏻

@KathyLuluandDonna

11 ай бұрын

Absolutely!!

Can’t help it but I tear up every time I listen to this song

He has two other versions of this song. One with Darius Rucker and a mega mix with multiple artists. I’ve never heard a song before that was so true to how life is for most guys.

Can you check out the “To be a man Mega remix he did

Gods Eyes, and also the remix of this song that yall reacted to is beautiful.

@KathyLuluandDonna

10 ай бұрын

Added to the list!

Great reaction. Thank you. This is exactly how men feel. But we just crack on like nothings wrong until we do actually crack mentally or physically.

He writes his own music. And everything is legit on point with what's behind the scenes of what a man lives with and doesn't let be known.

Y'know whats wrong with this world. I remember the last time I got a complement from someone who wasn't my mother. it was approx 1.5 years ago. A lady in a petrol station said she liked my t-shirt with a teddy bear on it. That woman had no idea the power she held with what to her was a throwaway nice comment. She made me smile for months. When the shirt faded I bought another. You have the power to impact a mans life with a touch of kindness.

If you like Dax also check out, "Dear God", "Dear Alcohol", and "Depression". These songs are all songs that are super impactful and that come straight from his heart and soul

I'm a 68 year old man, not meaning I'm an expert or anything. I think he is saying this to men in general letting them know they aren't alone. I also think women intuitively understand. This song just strengthens that understanding.

Dax is a Christian rapper. This is beautiful and I follow him

1. Dax is Nigerian 2. He stayed in Canada for most part of his life 3. Dax was a basketball player and a janitor but it didn't work out so he started ral 4. Dax idolizes Eminem. 5. You need to react to dear God or dear alcohol by Dax.

Shout out to grandma! Very cool.

Dax- dear alcohol Dax- gods eyes

We are the men of this world. Not in just the USA the whole world as the comments in this song shows. And yes we are the providers and pillars of our families. It's written in history, biblical, and legends. However the part that has gotten lost is the family aspect. The simple phrase of behind every great man is his greatest treasure, his woman. That's what has gotten lost, that's what's been forgotten. The ideology of 1 for 1 is the evil that has destroyed all good thing. Stones thrown b 4 words, hurt before help. We men do not look down on our wives they are our best partner. Unfortunately that don't apply to all males. I don't know a solution to the problem as a whole but I can say their is hope. My woman played me this song. And told me she loved me in a tone I haven't heard in a very very long time. Maybe 7 or 8 years. Raised 10 kids together mine, hers, and a couple of bonus blessings. Now it's the grands as some haven't taken the best paths. Men need to look to men, for or brothers shoulders are strong enough to hold us up. We all regardless of race or nationality need to stand together to be the support for each other until we get the parallel of the family dynamic back. We can help each other with that. Broken homes bad choices drugs all the bad that has destroyed us can be repaired. Let us not forget the fact we must not forget our own mistakes or we shall not learn from them. Let us not repair or own spirit and forget that we are responsible the fallen and weak standing right next to us. Men I call to you to be the man you can be. Stop the nonsense and regain our pride, along with our humility. No ego need to look a certain way. The right women will come and we must build together as a family. As a community we are stronger. I've repeated this song now over and over. Their needs to be a part 2. And if anyone can say it, it just might be Dax. Hell never see this but maybe a few of my fellow men will, and we will think about our lives and our families lives. I dream of unity and peace for all. I'm not a religious man but am a man of hope and honor. And with both of those I hope we can unite with each other and build back our families. With the love that has been written about for centuries. I mean come on even fairy-tale stories couldn't of been written without some basis of life to go off of. Real life isn't a fairy-tale, but maybe just maybe it don't have to hurt as much as it dose. Own Our Strengths.

def should watch the remix of this song, it left a big impact on alot of artists and they responded and made a big remix to express their own views and feelings on the subject

Oh do the remix!!! That one broke me

If she saw him crying her 1 foot would be out the door. She would see him as weak not hurting. There are women out there that care also toothfairies and unicorns

women : * complains men : how can i help ? ----------------------------------- men : * complains women : fix it

Wait why is ur channel now called Kathy&lulu?

After eminem you mean lol 2pac was before eminem and drake was after eminem and Dax was after all

This is the only song that hits me the hardest normally im numb emotionally

It's women who look at you different after you show ur emotions not other men. The boys are the only ones we can confide in.

People like to say it society that teaches men that they have to be the providers. It's in society because it's in men already. It's ground into our DNA. There is nothing more satisfying than being able to provide for a family, and being loved, and appreciated for it. There has been a push to change who men are, and I don't think it's a coincidence male suicide rates correspond with that push. The traditional family unit isn't something that can be changed, or discarded without huge negative impact on society as a whole.

Great reaction ladies! Gods eyes, book of revelations, and dear alcohol are all very powerful. Well done ladies! New sub earned

@KathyLuluandDonna

10 ай бұрын

Thanks

Great kind feminine reaction to this powerful song by DAX. A great independent artist from the Uk 🇬🇧 is REN he has a very wide variety of songs stories related to his struggles with Lyme’s disease hospitalized for 10 years Songs like “Hi Ren” a tribute to mental health “Chalk Outlines” comment on too many pills 💊 “For Joe” a tribute to the passing of his childhood friend Joe “Tale of Jenny and Screech” a trilogy of stories commenting on family breakdowns. Ren is a self taught guitarist while he was in hospital also self taught on the piano. He writes all his own beats and the content speaks about society in a raw unfiltered way as he isn’t signed to a record label

@KathyLuluandDonna

10 ай бұрын

Added him to the list.

New scriber here and nice to see you with mom. Yes there is more dax. Two songs called Dear God and Life by Dax

@KathyLuluandDonna

9 ай бұрын

Thanks for subbing.

He wears his hair like a crown, cause that man is a king💪💪💪

"You feel the things that you provide is only why she stays" Hard to admit, but so true.

definitely recommended the mega remix of to be a man if you liked this the remix adds a whole new depth

So I've been meaning to do this for a while. This is my verse to dax song what it's like to be a man so here it is. I hope you enjoy Dax hook I can't hide myself I don't expect you to understand I just hope I can explain What it's like to be a man It's a lonely road And they don't care 'bout what you know It's not 'bout how you feel But what you provide inside that home My verse As a single full time father of 3 / 2 boys and a girl one autistic one with adhd/ Taking care of everything on my own trying to build a dream/ No one to to turn to when we face all of life's adversities / There's no movement for men were told to just keep moving/ Theirs no outlet from the pain no way to sooth it/ We just have to bottle the feeling and live an illusion/ We have to be our own savior somehow having to find a way to just do it / Our only value is how much we can provide / Having to stay strong to the world while at night we cry threw our eyes/ Knowing no one would care even if they saw threw us acting as If everything's alright / And if he says he's alright just know it's a lie / Cuz men know deep inside no one cares if we confide / About how we feel until we feel dead inside/ It's the unspoken truth that simple goes undressed / It's the cold hard truth we simply don't confess / I know this verse won't change a thing I just had to get it off of my chest/ Dax hook I can't hide myself I don't expect you to understand I just hope I can explain What it's like to be a man It's a lonely road And they don't care 'bout what you know It's not 'bout how you feel But what you provide inside that home

You should see Eternity. Dax's messages and lyrics are amazing.

I love dax, all those songs are great. He's my favorite, also please do a reaction to Ren - Hi Ren.

Great job on the video but my only complaint is that your audio is very low and hard to hear at times. Keep up the good work!

Blue collar working men have it the toughest. That's why he showed mostly those men. See, the men who live on top of the world dont face most of the garbage the average man has to go through. Those wealthy lazy for the most part men have plenty of options when it comes to women and life in general. This song is dedicated to all men but mainly the ones who are working class and dont have many options.

i liked it too..awsome

One of my favorite pride songs is “fly away” another catchy song with good meaning

Catch the rain And there's a mega mix that he redid for this song

Very very solid song and classic

Dax came out with another hit song called a real man

Dax is a spiritual rapper

Don't got a song suggestion at mind rn but can ya raise the audio for when you guys are talking

@KathyLuluandDonna

11 ай бұрын

We did fix our audio so it will be better in the future.

Dear alcohol is amazing. similar lyrical depths and similar unique sound

Oh lord Drake took over the raps scene after 2pac.😂😂

@KathyLuluandDonna

11 ай бұрын

That's what Wikipedia said...

Y’all definitely gotta check out the remix! If y’all think this is deep mannnnn just you wait!

@KathyLuluandDonna

11 ай бұрын

We'll add it to the list.

It reminds her of her Papa... Look at her mothers reaction at this time. Not her face... Her Hand

I’m dying of a cancer that surrounds me. It’s called Woke. My diagnosis is terminal

I love this song; listen to the other versions, too. The Mega-Mix is outstanding, but my favorite version is Dax with Darius Rucker.

The chorus is Darius Rucker

Dax god's eyes is awesome and the mega remix is even better

Dear alcohol is another good song It came out before this one That’s the song that caught everyone off guard because it was the first country song he did💯

Mum and dad will probably come back Dad gifts and then ask them for more information 😮if they don't have been able do they just send

He's Nigerian too in case you don't know

Society isn't teaching us shit. We have been doing this since time in memoriam. We do this to protect ya'll from the truth of our lives so you can care for our children. You are meant to be selfish and survive for the sake of our offspring while we are meant to keep the worlds viciousness away from you.

There’s a remix of this song it’s really good

Yes men need to be taught it’s okay by their mothers and sisters because it’s normally women who say men shouldn’t cry. Change starts at home

Any women that watch this video should really be taken back by the fact that when men watch this video the men are about to cry. Women really don’t understand what men go through at all, and seem to be fairly oblivious to Dax’s message here, about how men only seemed to be loved based on their ability to provide. Many women divorce their husband after he looses his job, another sign that women marry for money, not love and that the men don’t get the love they expected from their wife.

I expect every woman that hears this song will not understand the message in the song itself. Women wont understand what men go thru even when we tell them point blank.